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Emotional connections
Cool 🙂
Posted by spica
Do Libras like to maintain emotional connections?
Personally, I think they're a bother and a burden, almost like an obligation. I have way too much air!
But I know who I like/ am compatible with and that's enough. My emotional connections are saved for my SO and parents, that's it. I don't need a constant reassurance that I'm still friends with someone (by constant contact/ speaking) believe it or not.
Needless to say, I don't need most people as friends - they have too many issues/insecurities I feel they're not aware enough that they fling on me/ use as a vehicle. I'm not interested to partake in them.
My Libra sister is pretty similar to this. Shes more cool and collected than my Pisces sister. I guess thats why I get along better with my Libra sister than my Pisces sister. lol
Another interesting thing about Libras are how they argue the facts. They offer an interesting perspective in those terms.
I have connections but they're not emotional ones if that makes sense? I can cut anyone off or walk away from them without any emotional hurt or upset. Not sure if this is a gift or a curse. Many call me cold but ohwell 🙂
i like emotional connections, but i feel like most people can't handle my emotional side. inside, i'm like a tornado with lightning shooting out. and if i share how i'm feeling, people will misjudge me. it's just easier to keep things on the surface.
like when the pisces broke my heart, people accused me of being insecure and stuff. just because i felt unwanted and unattractive didn't mean i thought i was. feelings and facts aren't necessarily the same, and my self esteem isn't tied to my looks or desireability anyways, so shut up. if that makes sense.
i like short, impromptu emotional bonding with strangers. you know how sometimes you can just be in line next to someone or something like that, and you say something to each other, and you just feel so close for that moment. that's fun. or strinking up a convo at a coffeeshop with a stranger, talking for hours, knowing it's just for right now, that if you try to stay in touch and recapture it, it just won't be as good.
i guess i have a problem with sustained emotional connections, but brief ones are awesome.
like when the pisces broke my heart, people accused me of being insecure and stuff. just because i felt unwanted and unattractive didn't mean i thought i was. feelings and facts aren't necessarily the same, and my self esteem isn't tied to my looks or desireability anyways, so shut up. if that makes sense.
i like short, impromptu emotional bonding with strangers. you know how sometimes you can just be in line next to someone or something like that, and you say something to each other, and you just feel so close for that moment. that's fun. or strinking up a convo at a coffeeshop with a stranger, talking for hours, knowing it's just for right now, that if you try to stay in touch and recapture it, it just won't be as good.
i guess i have a problem with sustained emotional connections, but brief ones are awesome.
Posted by curious visitor
i like emotional connections, but i feel like most people can't handle my emotional side. inside, i'm like a tornado with lightning shooting out. and if i share how i'm feeling, people will misjudge me. it's just easier to keep things on the surface.
like when the pisces broke my heart, people accused me of being insecure and stuff. just because i felt unwanted and unattractive didn't mean i thought i was. feelings and facts aren't necessarily the same, and my self esteem isn't tied to my looks or desireability anyways, so shut up. if that makes sense.
i like short, impromptu emotional bonding with strangers. you know how sometimes you can just be in line next to someone or something like that, and you say something to each other, and you just feel so close for that moment. that's fun. or strinking up a convo at a coffeeshop with a stranger, talking for hours, knowing it's just for right now, that if you try to stay in touch and recapture it, it just won't be as good.
i guess i have a problem with sustained emotional connections, but brief ones are awesome.
Oh exactly, I hate things to be forced. Ditto to most.
Posted by size zero superheroPosted by spica
Do Libras like to maintain emotional connections?
I apologize, but I don't understand exactly what you're describing--example?click to expand
Constant contact/ speaking
Posted by QLIbraMale
I just go with the flow even if the air isn't plesant lol 😛
LOL 🙂
Posted by bluemoon9043834
Spica!! C'mere. 🙂
https://www.dxpnet.com/opinion/aries/aries-woman-libra-woman-compatibility-2704627/>https://www.dxpnet.com/opinion/aries/aries-woman-libra-woman-compatibility-2704627/</a>
I'm afraid to click that link again, Bluemoon. 😛
(lmao_
Posted by Aries_d00dPosted by spica
Do Libras like to maintain emotional connections?
Personally, I think they're a bother and a burden, almost like an obligation. I have way too much air!
But I know who I like/ am compatible with and that's enough. My emotional connections are saved for my SO and parents, that's it. I don't need a constant reassurance that I'm still friends with someone (by constant contact/ speaking) believe it or not.
Needless to say, I don't need most people as friends - they have too many issues/insecurities I feel they're not aware enough that they fling on me/ use as a vehicle. I'm not interested to partake in them.
My Libra sister is pretty similar to this. Shes more cool and collected than my Pisces sister. I guess thats why I get along better with my Libra sister than my Pisces sister. lol
Another interesting thing about Libras are how they argue the facts. They offer an interesting perspective in those terms.click to expand
Haha, yeah. (Trying to imagine an Aries as my brother.. *subsitute father into brother* hahahah)
Aries guys are alright. They do their own thing and help whenever they can.
Fucking shit! so its actually my Libra rising that is responsible for this!! 😛 😛
Posted by Pecheresse
yeah, you're screwed just like the rest of us!
Libra rising has helped me with the birds quite a bit though 😉
Posted by everevolvingepithet
Okidoke I'll go first.
Aries Moon :
Pros
Potty/unrestricted mouth + the remarkable knack of getting away with most of it
People think you're dumb but that's not quite the case
Great with domesticated animals, kids and old people
Doesn't take things to heart
Likes head massages
err that's about it
Cons
Errrrr, not quite sure what this means ?
Cons: ME ME ME ME ME ME
And I hate kris
Not with Libra birds though, they flock to me like flies to shit..but I dont want them!
Posted by everevolvingepithet
Everyone hates Kris lol
"Cons: ME ME ME ME ME ME"
So you have a Leo moon ?
🙂
Ur-anus it is
bling, wheres your cancerian chick and army of westies you were promising?
My ass couldnt cope with the claws!
I know what you mean bling, behind every great Leo... theres a big pile of shit!
Pecheresse, you seem like a product of the art academy
Posted by PecheressePosted by BoomShakalakaBoom
Pecheresse, you seem like a product of the art academy
Yeah.. i dont know if you're ironic, but when it's not the same for all libras, my ex libra had moon in Gemclick to expand
What sign is he now?
Posted by PecheressePosted by BoomShakalakaBoomPosted by PecheressePosted by BoomShakalakaBoom
Pecheresse, you seem like a product of the art academy
Yeah.. i dont know if you're ironic, but when it's not the same for all libras, my ex libra had moon in Gem
What sign is he now?
He's dead to the world, sir.click to expand
Sorry for your loss 😢
I still dont quite get it Pecheresse, are you an European living in the U.S.? or American living in Europe? or? :S
Or a French living in France, which would be quite catastrophic 😛
OMG you wont believe me but when I saw your pic and your style , I immediately sensed you had Belgian influences!!! Whenever you get to walk through downtown Antwerp you'll know what I mean.
Alright, so you've got a few redeeeming qualities, respect!
I wasnt really serious when I implied you "lied" about that, I just wanted to get back at you 😛 for your smartarse comment, thats all
Belgian people are quality! seriously, I love them..well technically my gf is Belgian lol, she was born in Leuven.
Or shall I say Louvain? lol
You mean LUIK? 😛 Its like an hour and half driving from Leuven
Yeah she speaks French, German, Letzeburgesch (she grew up in Luxembourg), Spanish, English and Dutch, and quite some Portuguese.
Posted by PecheressePosted by BoomShakalakaBoom
Yeah she speaks French, German, Letzeburgesch (she grew up in Luxembourg), Spanish, English and Dutch, and quite some Portuguese.
Excellent.... but damn Luxembourg is such an ugly country no offense =/click to expand
LOL you've got to be kidding me, its the richest country in the world (as far as GDP rate per capita concerns) and unlike this country, they've got mountains! lol Im curious what you find so ugly about it.
Posted by spicaPosted by Aries_d00dPosted by spica
Do Libras like to maintain emotional connections?
Personally, I think they're a bother and a burden, almost like an obligation. I have way too much air!
But I know who I like/ am compatible with and that's enough. My emotional connections are saved for my SO and parents, that's it. I don't need a constant reassurance that I'm still friends with someone (by constant contact/ speaking) believe it or not.
Needless to say, I don't need most people as friends - they have too many issues/insecurities I feel they're not aware enough that they fling on me/ use as a vehicle. I'm not interested to partake in them.
My Libra sister is pretty similar to this. Shes more cool and collected than my Pisces sister. I guess thats why I get along better with my Libra sister than my Pisces sister. lol
Another interesting thing about Libras are how they argue the facts. They offer an interesting perspective in those terms.
Haha, yeah. (Trying to imagine an Aries as my brother.. *subsitute father into brother* hahahah)
Aries guys are alright. They do their own thing and help whenever they can.click to expand
Yes we do ahaha, and since I'm the youngest in my family she is like the one person I can talk too an stuff. Plus when she asks me a favor I generally don't say no since she also tells me when I'm being rude. lol
pecheresse... i'm rather moved by art too. so yes, i'd blame it on the moon in gemini your ex has. my mom's moon is in gemini, and i can't relate to her at all sometimes. she's such a nice person, a typical leo in a lot of ways, but her emotions just seem so stunted.
on topic... sometimes i really wish i had close friends to share important things with, or to bond with when i'm sad or whatever. then i realize that it would involve nurturing those friendships, spending time together a lot, talking a lot. i like my space. it's a trade off. i mean, i'll be there for someone if they're going through a rough time, especially if they don't really have anyone else who'll really care and have their best interests at heart. i can give someone a ride to the airport at 6 in the morning (i'm probably still up anyways. lol). but the in between stuff, the tedious conversations about nothing, it's just so ick.
i feel like this is a modern phenomenon. now, we make friends by similar interests and stuff, while maybe it used to be based more on whoever happened to live on your block. you just became friends, went bowling together once a week, said hi as you walked past one another, but no major bonding shit.
on topic... sometimes i really wish i had close friends to share important things with, or to bond with when i'm sad or whatever. then i realize that it would involve nurturing those friendships, spending time together a lot, talking a lot. i like my space. it's a trade off. i mean, i'll be there for someone if they're going through a rough time, especially if they don't really have anyone else who'll really care and have their best interests at heart. i can give someone a ride to the airport at 6 in the morning (i'm probably still up anyways. lol). but the in between stuff, the tedious conversations about nothing, it's just so ick.
i feel like this is a modern phenomenon. now, we make friends by similar interests and stuff, while maybe it used to be based more on whoever happened to live on your block. you just became friends, went bowling together once a week, said hi as you walked past one another, but no major bonding shit.
Posted by libra sun
I have connections but they're not emotional ones if that makes sense? I can cut anyone off or walk away from them without any emotional hurt or upset. Not sure if this is a gift or a curse. Many call me cold but ohwell 🙂
I agree with this 🙂
I can cut people off and just walk away and forget about them completely.
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Personally, I think they're a bother and a burden, almost like an obligation. I have way too much air!
But I know who I like/ am compatible with and that's enough. My emotional connections are saved for my SO and parents, that's it. I don't need a constant reassurance that I'm still friends with someone (by constant contact/ speaking) believe it or not.
Needless to say, I don't need most people as friends - they have too many issues/insecurities I feel they're not aware enough that they fling on me/ use as a vehicle. I'm not interested to partake in them.