how do you know if a libra man IS interested

I am a libra female and I work with a libra male. We flirt and every once in a while message back and forth. What are some signs to look for so i know if i should continue my flirting. Is it worth it? I like this playful guy. Fun to be around and you can tell he has a real caring side. Offers his jacket when its cold or if he's wearing a jacket he'll put his arms around you to keep you warm. things like that.

he likes u. that playful side is to hide his feelings. and probably he wont open his mouth unless u begin to give him some signals.

Take it easy. Librans are very considerate of others naturally. Not saying he isn't interested but you might want to wait for more serious signs.

((a man who requires signals from a woman is a kitty))

Doesn't that mean women will always have to be at the mercy of men? Its time society learn to overcome male superiority. Whats wrong in a female proposing to a male or asking him out? Will it clash with ur orthodox ideas of male supremacy?

(I think you will find women appreciate this))

of course they do. for centuries they have been treated that way. There is no biological barrier. there are psychological ones. All these lousy presets of society have been practiced and developed by our ignorant ancestors. you can join them or begin to think on ur own.

If you ever learn to think like a libra, you might understand. You say you appreciate a feminine female. Cant it be the case only for a few zodiac signs? Few others prefer a masculine female? isn't it possible that way? Do you really think nature made men from all 12 zodiacs to be dominating in nature? or is it possible that the entire structure is well balanced?

I get so tired of people relying on the zodiac or blaming the zodiac for their shortcomings....gets so old.

I get so tired of people relying on the zodiac or blaming the zodiac for their shortcomings....gets so old.

((I get so tired of people relying on the zodiac or blaming the zodiac for their shortcomings....gets so old.))

WTF are u doing on an astrology forum then?


((If its true Libra Men are generally passive in nature, prefer the woman to take the lead then so be it. But is this a 'thelibran" trait or all libras? I dont know which I why I ask.))

Again you must try to understand how a libra thinks. We dont behave the same towards all 12 zodiacs like rest of the group do. With those feminine female type zodiacs, we take charge. But not while we handle a libra girl or an Aries girl. As you can see from the OP, this was all about a libra girl with libra man scenario. If you never understood that from the beginning, I am truly sorry.

With an Aries girl they always takes charge. With a libra girl there is so much of confusion on who is suppose to be take initiative and how far we can move keeping the door's open. Every single thing depends on every other thing which happens.

Astrology is entertaining but it is very sad that people like you rely on it so much that you are willing to have arguments with others all over the world because of your narrowminded assumptionso. You drain the fun out of this forum so much so that people either ignore your posts or argue with you people it is obvious that is what you crave. Get a girlfriend or laid already!

He can't get laid HP......he turns people (men and women) in general OFF regardless of their astrological sign. But I do have to agree T.A.C. ******I think you will be disappointed in life as the smarter the female ( who you are bound to be intrigued by) the more the need for a real man in a very traditional sense. She cant explain it and either will you make sense of it to her.****

It's a dilemma for sure for TheLibran. And even though that comment probably bruises him he'll deny it and "attempt" to uselessly explain it away with insults and more antagonistic remarks because this is how he manipulates his entertainment when he can't get laid. LMAO

((Astrology is entertaining but it is very sad that people like you rely on it so much that you are willing to have arguments with others all over the world because of your narrowminded assumptionso.))

is that why u r here? for some entertainment? what does that make u? u want to know more about your libra but u dont want to hear astrology. if you dont know what really it is, may be you should stay away from dxp. esp from me. may be its your medication.

Look, I reference my boyfriend as my boyfriend, I can count on my hand the very few times I've referenced him as a Libra. Yes, his astrological sign is Libra, but I don't base my life around his sign...that's ignorant.

Yes, I'm here for entertainment; I've said that several times.

You're on my ignore list "thelibran"...you are too narrowminded and ignorant and not worth my energy. ta-ta

then why do u care to read my posts and reply to them? are u not familiar with sensible ways of staying away from narrow minded people?

((Yes, his astrological sign is Libra, but I don't base my life around his sign...that's ignorant.))

you came here for advice on libra men. doesn't that make u ignorant as per ur own definition of ignorance?

"but I don't base my life around his sign...that's ignorant."
"you came here for advice on libra men. doesn't that make u ignorant as per ur own definition of ignorance?"
basing ones life on a subject, and asking for advice are two completely different deals; distinguish it.

2libras: It's obvious he likes you or he wouldn't offer considerations such as giving you his jacket when you're cold etc.

You'll know if he has a stronger interest then being casually nice to you if you flirt with him a little more and see if he asks you out. THEN you'll know he has more of a "romantic" interest in you. Otherwise, he's probably just flirting and is genuinely nice to begin with. Don't read more into it then that unless he says so verbally. Enjoy the attention. It's ALWAYS nice!!!

((basing ones life on a subject, and asking for advice are two completely different deals; distinguish it.))

I go to a church for a mass, participate in the mass for a while and all of a sudden i start yelling "jesus is a sucker, god dont exist, you guys are all crazy praying to this invisible man, being religious is like drug addiction- you cant escape from it"... and more blah blah.... then priests and others ask me back " if u have these ideas, why did u come to a mass and attend it son?" Then I say "bcoz my daughter is sick and I wanted to see if this can help cure her disease"...

how do u think I will look like? Now thats exactly how HP looks like.

She always had the choice to stay away from this board. But she keep opening dxpnet and disturbing many people with her senseless but wisely sugarcoated replies. I may never understand why few people take it for granted that if you happen to spend some time with libra makes you think like a libra.

Its comparatively easy to understand other zodiacs nature bcoz they dont change like libra does. We change our outer character to meet the other persons behavior. So most times what others see is a projection out of our core nature. But some dumb people are silly enough to believe its what a libra always behaves like. Only non libra member who comes with some valuable advise is QS, though mostly it reflects only the emotional side of libra nature. There are others who spend time learning. But few others have no interest in learning any further and enjoy providing misleading information. I know you all dont care if some strangers relationship works or not. May be your life is way miserable so you wish to see everyone else in the same situation. Try to understand a bit and avoid future troubles.

"We change our outer character to meet the other persons behavior."
that is human nature my friend, not the stars. we are all misunderstood, not just the population born under libra.

((that is human nature my friend, not the stars. we are all misunderstood, not just the population born under libra.))

with a difference that we don't fake it or make it up.

ok so i should sit back and see what happens?

((ok so i should sit back and see what happens?))

He might be seeing it in similar angle. Make some moves. Don't tell him anything but show him you care. See how intense it gets. And deduct his thoughts from his actions.

"with a difference that we don't fake it or make it up."
So that's you personally out of...what.. millions? hah, okay.

((So that's you personally out of...what.. millions? hah, okay.))

We have a capability to find the good sides of every scumbag we come across. And even take some effort to talk to them and genuinely like them for their good sides. Around 1/12th of world population is libra. Its like half a billion.

THELIBRAN: In a constant contradiction of your posts you claim ***with a difference that we don't fake it or make it up*** Then you post ******We change our outer character to meet the other persons behavior. So most times what others see is a projection out of our core nature. But some dumb people are silly enough to believe its what a libra always behaves like.

You ARE faking it and making it up in order to "fit in" as you stated in another post.

By your own statement you'd have us now believing You're changing your outer in order hide the inner when the truth or the true nature of who you are is never revealed. Do you even read what you write? Unless of course you intend to project the real YOU as being :

Cynical, spiteful, hateful, condescending, falsely misleading, arrogant, antagonistic, and nasty, to others in your posts and claim it is a fair representation of being a Libra. Your views are "interesting" and "entertaining" but they do not (contrary to your firm belief) a fair representation of Libras. Not even 1/12 of 1/12 of a half a billion.

Very few people and particularly Libras reflect your constant disdain for others. You must be very lonely. It shows. But when you're not busy trying to fill the world with hate.........you do occasionally bring up some valid observations and insightful and valuable distinctions.

*smiles then snickers*

Libra men just want you to kiss every inch of their ass, and I think most are used to that treatment...

I think thats why my libra really doesn't know what to do with me becuz he knows that I'm not having it...

((You ARE faking it and making it up in order to "fit in" as you stated in another post. ))

Thats our nature. Thats how we are 24x7 from the time we are born. We change all the time. Most people fake a character for reaching certain goals. you can strip them off. Libra cannot be stripped off his character bcoz thats our natural outlook at that point of time. u cannot record it and keep thinking thats our nature. it would have changed a few times before you had finished recording and you may have never noticed.

((Cynical, spiteful, hateful, condescending, falsely misleading, arrogant, antagonistic, and nasty, to others in your posts and claim it is a fair representation of being a Libra.))
Do you know any better ways of telling truth no one wants to hear— What i type in here are words. It has so much of many things in it but its a composition of words. When you read it using your brain, with all those prejudices and bs attached to it, you simply cannot see what is meant to be seen. You can keep blaming me and avoid thinking. thats easier.

I would be glad if you idiots can stop wondering about my personal life in every other thread. I have enough reasons to remain as what I am. Its easier to think deeper when you are alone. May be you should try that and see if your brain starts working. If its about sex, I would rather shag some hookers than ending up with some girl who have their brains fckd up like yours or HP. Seriously.

Rest assured, nobody cares for you, just the convictions presented in text before them.

****You can keep blaming me and avoid thinking. thats easier. **** Are you implying someone else is writing your posts and you are NOT to blame for what you write?? It's MUCH easier to read what you want to say with out having to filter out all the name calling,and the bs you feel it necessary to enrich your posts with. You take away from the value of anything good you might have had to say because of the smokescreen of distractions you put up in all your defensiveness and hostility to try to get your point across.

who start all these name calling and whatever in this thread? me or you and HP?

Every time i reply to someone who post a query in libra board, i can see you both posting misdirections in a very diplomatic way and confusing the OP. Most times giving them more reasons to go away from their libra. And every time some non compatible sign want to know ways to chase down a libra, and i dont support it, you both will butt in again and start criticizing my replies. Why is that so? You have a right to your opinion but you cannot expect me to change my opinion about a situation. Here we usually explain things from various pov's and discuss matters. We dont attack someone. I have never attacked someone unless they become a pain in my a $ $ .

I dont particularly enjoy when a non libra gives senseless advise to posters in a libra board and confuse them. But say you cant help it. Its fine. I will have my opinions too. Then dont start attacking me bcoz of my opinion does not support yours. Next time try not to get into the libra board and stay inside pisces. Or atleast try not to reply to my posts.

lol...

I admit, I do at times (wink*)

(Wanting to hear what I only like)

Not anymore....

Since you are the always available libra, I want to ask you this question:

How are you when you are in love?

Maybe I can get some basics from out of it (smile)...

Intended to address to "thelibran"

Since you are the always available libra, I want to ask you this question:

How are you when you are in love?

Maybe I can get some basics from out of it (smile)...

jingjay, surely you aren't asking how these men are in love regarding the man you refer to in another thread? surely this man is not in love with you.

* I think you will be disappointed in life as the smarter the female ( who you are bound to be intrigued by) the more the need for a real man in a very traditional sense. She cant explain it and either will you make sense of it to her.

BWAHHHH!

I guess I am an idiot.

BWAHHHH!!!

Only, this is the EXACT reason I don't like Earth men as partners. They want to dominate their partner which cripples a Libra female on the inside.

I don't get why people who aren't into astrology post on an astrology board. If they didn't believe in it on some level, they wouldn't have been attracted to this site to begin with. I totally made the similar association with Christians thelibran. I am a very open non-Christian but I don't hang out on Christian forumns looking for entertainment. To me astrology isn't a form of entertainment. If you look at these themes over a long period of times ... patterns actually start to emerge that are very interesting and make sense.

* Oh and I don't always see eye to eye with Thelibran but hey that is cool 2!!!

agreed KennyG! And I totally respect his right to say what he believes here.

Dear HP, in your case, when will you tell if a man is truly in love with you?
If you are in my shoes, when can you only believe you are being loved?

I am with a British BF, also a cancer, never once he told me he wanted to be with me forever. Never once he initiated making love whenever we are together. He never bothered asking me how are my kids. You cannot flirt with him when he is watching his fave sport.
We've seen each other 3 times a year abroad. We only email each other almost everyday (not exactly every day) we chat around twice or thrice per week.

I look at it as " he is not in love with me". Love has to be heard and feel.
I always wonder what is on his mind. I always try to guess what will be next.
I have set my mind that this man is not in love with me as much as I love him.
But I took it slow. I let it be. I did not rush him in. And we just celebrated our 1 year without any argument at any height. Maybe because I am not pushy? Or maybe because I just let him do his way, gave him his space because he also got a life. When he had a chance to escape from his obligations, it is always me he thought of going.

There is not much color, and my friends told me he is not in love with me because he does not even care where I exactly live. But even then, we are still ongoing.Up to this present time.

I am committed. Being swoon by a libra does not mean I will fall in love with him in an instant. The feeling of being swoon, courted and showered with care and concern is very much feminine. Very universal. They are additional colors to the traditional ones you are accustomed to. It is not the actual person you are getting amazed with, sometimes it's just the feeling. Getting in love with love is basic.

Sometimes getting involved, even getting married is just a chapter in people's lives. It does not stop there. Let's face it, it happens in real life. Falling as many times as you can no longer remember, in pursuit of your own happiness.

And...sometimes...even though the man does not love you for real, you enjoy being cared anyway...yes sometimes we do even if it's too obvious he is not in love with you...because the feeling is irresistible.

Wether a man is in love or not in love with me as long as he is the one exerting effort and I am happy in my own corner here, I will just enjoy playing with life. Live simply.
If you did not invite love to your life and it keeps coming in...let it be.

Good luckwith this all. Sounds like your heart is well into this.....

Thank you sister, well I of course consider your advise(especially you) you seem tough girl. Just that...I think I might try enjoying the chance?

Dont wander off, want to keep in touch with you.

By the way, I am a mother to 3 kids and I am 39 years old by June.
(Husband gone to my bridesmaid's arms - about 14 years separated)

Norway man and British man know all these.

I am no more tough than you although some on here would call me a bitch. I have seen and read so many stories about how men and women hurt each other that the best advice I tell women is to be cautious and not fall for words. Actions are louder than words.

I have been with a man born under libra for 16 months, despite a few people on here telling me it would workbecause I'm an earth sign (taurus). Truth be told, he is the best relatiOnship I've ever had.

Good luck you, but I still ask that you be cautious with this guy.

*would not work

Above and beyond my dear HP, it is how we felt when we are in that particular situation. Let's leave it to life because it's part of it.

Sometimes we argue, sometimes we agree with each other but we actually have common denominator. That is just wanting to find happiness.

You see, I know you better...I feel I've been your friend eventho' we do not know each other. Because you care. You just have to admit that sometimes you tell things that could hurt other people. It could be your way, not theirs, you can just be frank. it is sometimes misunderstood. No offense meant deary, words are powerful. It can make or break us. But then, on many cases, you have your point stressed out and you are right.

Let us give each other our opinions base on what we believe. I commend you for that.

Only - sometimes people took it blankly or spiteful. Dont get mad, study your side and learn to think and ask why. We need friends, it is more peaceful than having rivals.

Peace to you - pray you would be happy as I am (not all the time though)

Your friend from now on - jinggay

I mean I know you better now - look at your last post.
I feel care, you are a good person. You do care. Thank you so much.

Thanks you. I am very happy. Peace to you and best of luck

You are very much welcome...stay happy dear!

((To me astrology isn't a form of entertainment. If you look at these themes over a long period of times ... patterns actually start to emerge that are very interesting and make sense.))

To me it began as a stupid system which makes no sense at all and as and when i learned further and further into it, it ended up the mother of all sciences. I had to learn it to understand the depth of it. So i guess i know where HP stands. But its annoying when some people pop in btween and talk some rubbish.

I agree with you the earth's idea of women/partner. In fact they have this stupid nature to make everyone else think that their perspectives and methods are the best for the society and slowly they end up changing rest of the zodiacs to follow their social outlook. They insult and mock at the ones who question earth logic about their social outlook and end up messing up the society. Bcoz they are truly incapable of understanding any better than what they know, there is no way we can prove to them that there are better ways to live.