In LDR with Libra

I am in a LDR with a libra for 4yrs now.Being a taurean I take things slow, so have declined his marriage proposal twice in first 2yrs of LDR.But still he is in love with me and cant break-up.Now I too am in love with him and talking about marriage.But he neither wants to talk about marriage(as he is hurt of certain things in life last yr), nor wants to leave me.Should I wait for him to be positive for marriage or he is stalling me as he can't let me go?

Posted by B_D
I am in a LDR with a libra for 4yrs now.Being a taurean I take things slow, so have declined his marriage proposal twice in first 2yrs of LDR.But still he is in love with me and cant break-up.Now I too am in love with him and talking about marriage.But he neither wants to talk about marriage(as he is hurt of certain things in life last yr), nor wants to leave me.Should I wait for him to be positive for marriage or he is stalling me as he can't let me go?

forget about it and don't talk about it if he's not in the mode - wait until he brings it up again and it's his idea and then go with it

What are your ages?

Cardinal and Fixed Sign Dance

He may make the effort again. He is in love with you, despite rejection.

I would do as another suggested and wait for him to bring it up and then go with it.

Kudos to him on becoming the man you want to marry.

Posted by jeane
What are your ages?

We both are 27yrs old now..he is my friend since we were 18.

Posted by B_D
But he neither wants to talk about marriage(as he is hurt of certain things in life last yr), nor wants to leave me.

What things??

Posted by jeane
What are your ages?

I bet 15 and 17!

Posted by 2Moon

Posted by B_D
I am in a LDR with a libra for 4yrs now.Being a taurean I take things slow, so have declined his marriage proposal twice in first 2yrs of LDR.But still he is in love with me and cant break-up.Now I too am in love with him and talking about marriage.But he neither wants to talk about marriage(as he is hurt of certain things in life last yr), nor wants to leave me.Should I wait for him to be positive for marriage or he is stalling me as he can't let me go?

(Marriage and long distance relationship is a terrible idea....

You should live together for a certain period of time to know if marriage is something that you guys can handle or not...)

Now...



You rejected / refused his offer... Twice?

..and now you want to marry him?

...

Damnn... I would feel super bad.

and probably never ask you again.

...maybe you should ask him now.........

your turn.

lol

EDIT:

I just realised that I took this the wrong way... Oops! lol

you could wait...

or



you could push him gently to propose again.

by leaving some subtle hints. Breadcrumbs...



😉

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Well I did like your comments... as he too is asking me to wait and also wants to be in live-in relationship before we TALK about getting hitched now.I just wish he is not stalling me coz he can't stop loving me...

Posted by Gemitati

Posted by jeane
What are your ages?

I bet 15 and 17!

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[LOL]

Posted by hollyhock
You guys need to live together before deciding if you should get engaged. I bet once you live together you will be able to decide.

But I am not sure of living together...Coz I dnt know if he genuinely wants time to get over issues between us or he doesn't wants to commit but can't let me go...

Posted by LadyNeptune

Posted by B_D
But he neither wants to talk about marriage(as he is hurt of certain things in life last yr), nor wants to leave me.

What things??

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Things like I rejected his proposals twice.