Is this normal? (Page 5)

Actually queenscorp I don't think your comprehending my posts because if you were you would understand that I have moved on and do not think of libra guy as anything but an aquaintance. Yes the chain of events happend so sudden because I moved on. Yes he does call me 10 times a day and maybe it is to shag but it aint happenin so whatever his reasons are doesn't really matter to me. His contract was cancelled the day he wanted me to call his girl and let her know that there was nothing going on between us. Just yesterday, first thing in the morning, he called me all huffy and puffy asking me to "straighten things out" by calling her and ofcourse i said very calmly "sorry I can't do that" He hung up as though he was never going to talk to me again (as if I care). He called me later that night and I didn't answer. Then this morning he leaves me a text saying "sorry about yesterday, I'm just going through alot right now" and I didn't respond AGAIN.

"The libra men I know do not do that at all. They don't cut ties ever! They may get mad and go do their things for a while but they want to be friends friends friends and then they behave like lovers. They are always kind and generous, but of course not during their occasional blowups. Lira men I know can have short tempers."

SO TRUE!!

There skitso there way too emotional and they have no controll over there emotions. So opposite of us cancers. Looking for something more in between maybe a taurus. Anyone else have any suggestions?

Wow, interesting.

Wow interesting to "Nic"

***Actually queenscorp I don't think your comprehending my posts because if you were you would understand that I have moved on and do not think of libra guy as anything but an aquaintance. Yes the chain of events happend so sudden because I moved on.***

Happycrab, I comprehended it perfectly as everyone else who has similar responses as I. You might want to reread your posts yourself. Contridicting.

Clearly you are thinking of him still and haven't moved on. You are still entertaining the drama as we all have been saying. Not just me so are we all not comprehending your posts— What cha think—

Anyway deal with it or leave it alone.

HCrab, I'm Taurus and most of us are pretty straight forward (no sugar coating), so if you can handle that, then try a Bull...of course I'm female and have a Libra boyfriend and we're not really a match made in heaven according to most, so go figure. Oh heck, go try a Taurus...we're comical. So while we're being stubborn at least you'll get a good laugh!

I have to agree with QS that you haven't shown signs of moving on (at least not in terms of how much you list on DXP). If your "contract" is terminated, then let it be. Tell him you don't want to have anything to do with him or his drama and go beef hunting.

***There skitso there way too emotional and they have no controll over there emotions. So opposite of us cancers.***

Wow, are you sure you aren't talking about yourself rather than a Libra? This description matches your personality perfectly. Just my opinion.

ahhh, scary QS. We posted similar comments less than 1 minute from each other! eeek eeek eeek

HCrab, out of curiosity, what's your age and this Libra in question?

HP, that is just it, she doesn't want to terminate the contract, he does, but feels bad. She wants to continue to play games and let him treat her as he has been, so let her have that. If that is what she likes. Who are we to beg someone to think higher of themselves to occupy their time with someone who adores them and not take them for granted.

Oh wait, we have great libras in our lives, yeah, that must be it. We just want everyone's experience with a Libra to be as wonderful as ours... Hmmm....

You mean bull hunting HP. lol

straight forward yet Comical THATS PERFECT!! My best friend is a taurus and we always joke and say that if either of us was a male we would have married each other. lol.

As for libra guy, The reason why I dont just come out and tell him to go away is because I don't feel like getting into another dramatic session with this guy. I don't want to hear his excuses and have him tell me that I am showing no sympathy to what hes going through. Another part of me wants to drag him through the mud just for trying to play me for a fool.

I have not been taking his calls or responding to his texts in the past couple days and I'm curiouse to see how far he's going to take this. Hopefully he just gets the hint and goes away.

"Thanks, though I read it after I typed it and I felt like I was missing something.....probably just my lack of sleep. Meh."

You were missing something...


Me. 😉

I'm 27 he's 31. I have no interest in persuing a relationship further with this person. I just don't like to be played for a fool. I'm done with him and his games. I feel like he has to realize that he effed with the wrong girl this time and yes I do admit I am playing games with him but thats what he gets!! He can have a taste of his own medicine and maybe he'll realize that what he did was wrong.

***You were missing something...


Me. ***


A perfect scorp comment.

Look, here's how I see it. This guy magnitizes drama. He works up the drama and he is going ot milk it for anyone he reels in. If you don't want another dramatic session and dont'w ant to hear his excuses, then tell him. I guarantee you, based on how you describe him, if you tell him you've had it with him and you are cutting ties, he won't think twice about it. In fact, just as easily as he found you to pull into his drama, he WILL find someone else to take your place.

I know that might sound harsh, but that's what I read when I hear your side of the story.

Now...go be a cowgirl and ride that Bull!

***The reason why I dont just come out and tell him to go away ***

Is because you don't want to. Simple.

Taurus men are wonderful and dependable.

What if I just stop taking his calls? Would that be the same or do I have to actually let him know. Would a text be ok because I really really don't want to hear his mouth.

Happycrab, if you sincerely want to end this (which I doubt) call him and tell him, add that you would appreciate it if he didn't call you, since you don't want to hear his mouth/voice.

However you decide to end it with him (if you are being truthful to yourself) is up to you. But when you do it, do it and don't look back.

Yes they are. I just met one as a matter of fact last weekend when I was in california so we'll see how that goes. Wish he was a bit taller but oh well you can't have everything I guess. Crazy thing is that he has an Identical twin brother so you can imagine my confusion. Twin brother is taller but not by much. I clicked better with

"and go beef hunting."

Oh, that is classic, HP! You have to be the coolest Taurus that I know!!! Hahahahahahaha! That made my day... 🙂

Why thank ya, alcheme!

happycrab the best method is silence...ignore ignore ignore

he's not worth a goodbye and from your post he definitely isn't important enough to deserve one....if you tell him to bugger off, you jus made him more important than he really is....dump it and keep moving...simple as that.

She is a projectionist. Everything bad she had to say about Libra dude is how she comes across in her posts...just as Houston stated.

Dude probably wants you to move on too, but Libras are nice and they like things to end nicely so he is positioning in vain to try and get this to end on good terms but with cancers that is nigh impossible.

"you were missing something..............ME"

I agree...we need to remedy this ASAP.

As you can see happycrab it ain't just me. You are definitely a projectionist.

"As you can see happycrab it ain't just me. You are definitely a projectionist."

Yeah, I gotta agree on this one.

Actually guys your all wrong. I quit answering his calls. He's givin up (I hope) and stopped calling. I didn't even take scorpqueen's advice to tell him to go away. Instead I did things my way and I just ignore him all together. He is smart and intelligent enough to get the hint. I was actually the one that was feeling bad for him. I have a libra moon so I think I may be guilty of prolonging relationships because I feel bad to end it. Everytime he called I would answer because I thought it would be mean not to pick up. Well not anymore. It's over.

Happycrab, if telling yourself that makes you feel better than fine. Good for you. We shouldn't hear anything else about him it you are truly done with him.

you guys are really weird. I tell you all that he's gone and I'm done with him and I haven't been taking his calls and that I've met people since and you respond with you keep telling yourslef that your over him. It's like you are trying to make me out to be some obsessed psycho. I'm sorry if my posts bother you but the only reason why its still going on is because we try to learn from our mistakes and I like to get feed back as to why this happend so that it doesn't happnen again in the future. I'm sorry I thought thats what these message boards are all about. Also, its still going because you guys have been making these false assumptions that I try to clarify.

Happycrab, think about what you are saying. If we ALL are saying the same thing, look in the mirror. A reality check is an order. You are obssessed with him... You said it we didn't.

However, you are a cancer and cancers sometime refuse to see what they know is right in front of them. So it is all up to you. You ask for advice then do the opposite. However, it is up to you to do what you think is best. Good luck.

*rolls eyes*

I ve to agree with QueenS here . You re not crazy , HappyCrab but in truth , you havent let him go yet . When you still talked about "give him a taste of his own medicine " , you re still hurt , maybe you dont love him anymore but you still want to keep him somehow , this is when you will suffer more .Just forgive and forget . Look deep into your soul and listen to the voice inside you , you dont have to admit , to fight , just feel these powerful emotion ( I m sure it s easy for a Water sign) and let it heal you , true transformation 🙂 Also I m certain the board is always welcome you to share all your thoughts , it s just that usually , you can heal yourself better and faster in solitude then venting things . Just my view 🙂

HPC said:you guys are really weird. I tell you all that he's gone and I'm done with him and I haven't been taking his calls and that I've met people since and you respond with you keep telling yourslef that your over him. It's like you are trying to make me out to be some obsessed psycho. I'm sorry if my posts bother you but the only reason why its still going on is because we try to learn from our mistakes and I like to get feed back as to why this happend so that it doesn't happnen again in the future. I'm sorry I thought thats what these message boards are all about. Also, its still going because you guys have been making these false assumptions that I try to clarify.

guys happycrab SAID she isn't accepting his calls and she's decided to ignore him so I'm not sure why everyone is projecting something else onto it, maybe I'm missing something but she said she's done...again maybe I don't see clearly here

tiki33, she has said that before, but yet she entertains the drama. Read a little further. It isn't just one, but everyone can't be crazy on here... She just needs to be honest with herself. Why are we still hearing about him and sequences of events if she was done with it and it wasn't her problem several posts ago. Also, she admitted they guy was running from her and something to the affect that she was a clingy cancer. So there you go. Read a couple of her posts. If we don't hear anything maybe she took that reality check to heart.

On June 22nd, she asked the forum if she should stop taking his calls and then on June 23rd she said she decided she didn't want to take his calls. She mentioned once that she met a Taurus last weekend, but other than that, it's been a merry go round of information surrounding the Libra and what she should do.

One day in my opinion does not constitute someone moving on.

Maybe we're weird, HCrab, but we are only calling it as we see it. Hopefully since the 23rd you haven't taken any calls from him, made any calls to him, replied to text messages, sent text messages, etc or you are back to ride the merry go round again.

Thanx tiki. You are seeing were i'm coming from. And no theres nothing else to the story. Still no communication of any form since then. No I'm not obsessed with him. The post is about him. If I had something else to say it would not be on this message board it would be on another.

EXAM: Love him? I just met him a couple months ago. Sorry no love over here. He just tried getting me all wrapped up in his drama and I didn't allow it to happen.

Sorry to dissapoint you guys but I don't even think about the guy. I have too much going on for myself to be sweatin 1 guy.

***EXAM: Love him? I just met him a couple months ago. Sorry no love over here. He just tried getting me all wrapped up in his drama and I didn't allow it to happen. ***

Oh really? So what was this post about?

HappyCrab 6/14/2007 3:21:46 PM | ip: xxx.xxx.xxx.10

We were not just sex buddies. When your in a relationship with someone there is also a friendship involved. I used the term friendsd because thats all we were in the beginning. Then things evolved into a relationship with expectaions and commitment. I know it's not my fault and I know I did nothing wrong. He should not have tried to act like mister innocent "all I do is work and go to my boys house". I would have not thought of it if he told me from the beginning his situation and whats going on. I did have bad feelings when he always tried to keep everything hush hush and when his phone rang hed tense up and turn it away before he looked at it. Yes I was in the cross fire. Maybe he did truly care for me but I think he should not have lied. I gave him a ton of space to work things out before he insisted that we make more of this relationship.

Tikki33 this is why we say what we do. Happycrab continously contridicts herself. I wouldn't be surprised if this whole story was untrue.

Happycrab tell your fairy tales elsewhere, only factual events here.

OMG already 😛

QueenScorp why don't you let me decide what my definition of love is. Seems like your disappointed that Ive let go. Sorry but im done with the guy. Accept the fact and get over it.

First of all, Crab --it's you that has appeared disappointed that you can't break through to this guy. He invited you into his horrid, drama-filled life. You being a Cancer, fell right into it and may have embellished the truth to make this story more interesting to you as well as any of us reading your rantings.

Secondly, you DO contradict yourself. The beginning of this blog was surrounded by you trying to figure out why he pulled a disappearing act on you - the man you said talked about you two being exclusive. It was only after a few of us told you that he's not as into you as you'd hoped.

Thirdly, If you had truly let go when you said you did, you would not have felt compelled to give us updates of the drama shit this guy is throwing around.

Lastly, I'm done with this thread. 240+ replies on this shit is worthless. When you find another Libra, Virgo, Taurus, or whatever next week, start a new thread.

well libras can be confusing LMAO!! She's allowed that...thats my thoughts

Oh so now your accusing me of making things up. HA! At first I was confused as to what was going on and was looking for answers. But as soon as I figured out what the truth was I pulled back. I thought we were exclusive and I was wrong. And thats when my stories may have come across as contradictory. The updates of the drama butter you guys were getting was because you kept calling me crazy and I was just defending myself with actual facts.

Am I not allowed to change my mind after realizing the truth??

And houstonp74 thats the 10th post that you left saying your done with this post. Who is the one thats being contradictory now?

again from my experience libra's (immature ones) can be very confusing or lead the other person to be emotionally confused in some way...I'm not saying all of them but the ones I have encountered gave me a run for my money and then I ran for my life..LOL!! J/K! But I had to emotionally distance myself because I couldn't get with the libra program, I think it was Little Sparrow that shed some light recently so its not much confusion now but I can understand how someone can walk away bewildered at libra ways...some libra men are very charming and pleasing to the eye, easy going, did I mention charming, I know gay libra's that can pull a man quicker than getting a drink of water, they have this magnetic charm that draw people in, I myself had to move emotionally distance myself from a libra male and he was gay lol! Can we say brat and spoiled...I jus had enough of his BS.

Overall I like libra's but I wouldn't do relationship with one unless he tells me up front that he's all about me and even then I wouldn't tell him the same or return the sentiment LOL!! I would keep it to myself and keep him on his toes.

to me HP jus seemed confused and bewildered, her emotions got crossed, I guess I can relate b/c I have been in her shoes.

***QueenScorp why don't you let me decide what my definition of love is. Seems like your disappointed that Ive let go. Sorry but im done with the guy. Accept the fact and get over it.***

Love? I thought there was none. So there is a definition now? Enough now... As I have my perfect Libra I could care less what you do. Not a real concern, just stop with the BS, you are taking up a lot of space on this post that can be used for valuable information. You might want to do exaclty that. Accept the fact he is over you and YOU need to get over it.

Never assume someone wants to be exclusive if they don't tell you. Simple.

***Overall I like libra's but I wouldn't do relationship with one unless he tells me up front that he's all about me and even then I wouldn't tell him the same or return the sentiment LOL!! I would keep it to myself and keep him on his toes.***

Tikki33 - That's simply it, if they don't tell you they are all about you don't assume. You are right, the charm and their good hearts, concerns and tender ways can lead you to think they are when they aren't because, most people are not so kind, and concerned unless there is interest on an intimate leve. Libras love people in general.


***to me HP jus seemed confused and bewildered, her emotions got crossed, I guess I can relate b/c I have been in her shoes.***

Tikki33 - I disagree, she has no reason to be emotional she HAS a Libra who wants her... She is just being factual as the rest of us are. Happycrab, is/was confused not the rest of us. Hopefully she is truly over it, because honestly we are tired of hearing about it. She should continue her stories on the Virgo board, or whatever who new guy is for the time being.

Queenscorp Whatever floats your boat I guess!

Tiki: Wanna know how I can spot a Libra? They approach you and try to sell you in the same manor that a door to door vacuum sales man does. They go on and on about how they're not trying to bug and they want nothing from you but to hear them out and give them a chance and then they tell you how there not trying to talk your ear of. But you are talking my ear off I think to my self. Boom at that moment I get a huge LIBRA alarm in my head that usually means ruuuuuuuuunnnnn for you life.

***Queenscorp Whatever floats your boat I guess✨**


Oh my boat is floating very smoothly. Hopefully you will find someone to rock yours at some point.