MzDiana
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Libra and Disappearing Acts
I never experienced libras disappearing. Far too social for that. As long as there are strong water/earth placements anyway. 2 libras I know "seem" to disappear but it's just that they are such social butterflies they're non-stop on the go. You can see them lots if you're down to paint the town. I can invite myself anywhere with them, the more the merrier, as long as it's not a date.
I have experienced the Libra disappearing act, and I have done it myself. When a Libra is truly done, s/he's done. As I've said before, I will only return for selfish reasons, almost all motivated out of ego. I've only just a realized this pattern, and I'm not proud of it.
Libra/Scorpio Sun
Taurus Moon (thought it was Scorpio -- oops)
Venus in Virgo
Sag Ascending
Libra/Scorpio Sun
Taurus Moon (thought it was Scorpio -- oops)
Venus in Virgo
Sag Ascending
I have heavy experience with Libras and they do that because they get bored easily but can't tell the person in question that they are boring them to tears so they just don't answer the phone in order to avoid a conflict. THEY HATE DRAMA IF IT MAKE NO SENSE TO THEM. If ur not a social person to begin with just give them space to be social and let someone piss them off or offend them and they always come running back needing YOU to make them feel good again. They take people for granted big-time unintentionally and aren't always there for friends sometime even though those people are usually there for the when they need cheering up. They are hypocrites to an extent but understand they are social creatures and that's what they thrive on.
I am a Cancer so I understand their flighty nature but they usually are good,real people at heart. They just aren't good at sitting back and realizing that they offend people sometimes, they at least come back and apologize unlike Virgos who are much colder creatures.
I am a Cancer so I understand their flighty nature but they usually are good,real people at heart. They just aren't good at sitting back and realizing that they offend people sometimes, they at least come back and apologize unlike Virgos who are much colder creatures.
Libras disappear because they have a right to.
Air evaporates, fire ravages, water drowns, earth blocks.
To complain about libra disappearing is like complaining how speaking to Scorpio has your lungs totally sponged with liquid and also complaining how Leo dominates by unscrupulous means or Aries stabs you verbally as instinct. Tbh I wish people disappeared at a touch of a button. That's why I like ze internetz.
Air evaporates, fire ravages, water drowns, earth blocks.
To complain about libra disappearing is like complaining how speaking to Scorpio has your lungs totally sponged with liquid and also complaining how Leo dominates by unscrupulous means or Aries stabs you verbally as instinct. Tbh I wish people disappeared at a touch of a button. That's why I like ze internetz.
You know, if someone is going to just disappear on me without a word of explanation, he isn't worth my time. I know it hurts to have something end that way, but take it as a favor. It takes zero character and a heart ice to just cut someone out -- it's cowardly and just plain mean.
Love, LS67
Love, LS67
If I had a dollar for how many times people complain about this with us, I'd be Rich! Lol
I've disappeared, dated a libra and we disappeared on each other on and off, it didn't bother me because we never promised each other anything, so when he got ghost I just followed suit and did the same. One day out the blue, I'd write on his fb wall, or like one of his pics and he'd do the same. One day we'd text for hours, then I may not hear from him for a couple months, and I was cool with it, because I was doing my own thing and never took anything we had dead serious.
The reason you women AND men are falling in love so hard with a Libra is because you are falling for that irresistible charm, they have an excellent profound, almost unique way with words. The Libra men can make a bum on the street feel like she has potential to have any man she wants, the Libra women can make a man feel like he's smoked the world's biggest blunt and is high off her beauty, warm words, and "seemingly" sincere affection. They make your world feel like its always sunny, and everything is just calm. But if you don't get ACTION from these people, or hear the words IM YOUR MAN, OR IM YOUR GIRL, WE ARE COMMITTED, then don't get too happy, That's them leaving the door cracked juuust in case you start trippin
I've disappeared, dated a libra and we disappeared on each other on and off, it didn't bother me because we never promised each other anything, so when he got ghost I just followed suit and did the same. One day out the blue, I'd write on his fb wall, or like one of his pics and he'd do the same. One day we'd text for hours, then I may not hear from him for a couple months, and I was cool with it, because I was doing my own thing and never took anything we had dead serious.
The reason you women AND men are falling in love so hard with a Libra is because you are falling for that irresistible charm, they have an excellent profound, almost unique way with words. The Libra men can make a bum on the street feel like she has potential to have any man she wants, the Libra women can make a man feel like he's smoked the world's biggest blunt and is high off her beauty, warm words, and "seemingly" sincere affection. They make your world feel like its always sunny, and everything is just calm. But if you don't get ACTION from these people, or hear the words IM YOUR MAN, OR IM YOUR GIRL, WE ARE COMMITTED, then don't get too happy, That's them leaving the door cracked juuust in case you start trippin
Also I wanted to mention that the number ONE reason a Libra will disappear is if they are unsure or undecided on the person or situation. They take their sweet time making a complete decision about a person and take even longer before making that person their man or woman. They don't like to think they made the wrong decision because they didn't ponder it long enough or weigh every angle of the situation.
If you rush them, you're only going to make it worse, so you might as well back off. If they say they need space, take it for face value because if you get a Libra to actually say it, its because you've left them no choice, and you refuse to get the hint. If they say they need space, and you push and push and beg and plead on why, they will think you are weak. That's mean but it is what it is. If they say they need space, and you back off COMPLETELY, they will come back good as new. Well this is how I work anyway. My friends say I come off more like a male sometimes with the way I think and handle these type of things, it may be my leo venus, I have 2 placements in sagg, and I also have Aries in Mars, so anything pushy or bossy, or something that makes me feel stuck without me verbally agreeing to it, makes me want to run. Don't assume im with you if I don't tell you I am. You'll be sorry.
If you rush them, you're only going to make it worse, so you might as well back off. If they say they need space, take it for face value because if you get a Libra to actually say it, its because you've left them no choice, and you refuse to get the hint. If they say they need space, and you push and push and beg and plead on why, they will think you are weak. That's mean but it is what it is. If they say they need space, and you back off COMPLETELY, they will come back good as new. Well this is how I work anyway. My friends say I come off more like a male sometimes with the way I think and handle these type of things, it may be my leo venus, I have 2 placements in sagg, and I also have Aries in Mars, so anything pushy or bossy, or something that makes me feel stuck without me verbally agreeing to it, makes me want to run. Don't assume im with you if I don't tell you I am. You'll be sorry.
ALibra -- too right -- I often feel like "the guy" in the relationship. I think it's because Air Signs, especially Librans, can be very cerebral and seemingly unemotional.
Love, LS67
Love, LS67
It only seems as though we are self-centered and inconsiderate if you expect more than we agreed to giving you. In our mind thats not our fault, it's yours. Now if you voice your opinion to us that we made you feel that way, if we like you or care even an ounce for you we may listen. Heck we may just listen so we don't make someone else feel that way. Libra HATES to feel like the bad guy. But we will only feel that way, if we genuinely feel we did something wrong.
For example, I've had guys say that I used them. NOT. They expected more out of me than I ever said I would do. Again, their fault. Not mine. Like this guy I got to school with, on the first day of class he noticed I didn't have my book, I couldn't afford it at the time. So he offered me his number, and said we could share his book, and if I need any assignments or anything than to call him. So I only used his number for school purposes. One day after studying we went for drinks, but I told him I was involved and very in love with the person even though me and the person were not official. I had no interest in the guy. There was no hug, no kiss or anything. Now he's always making comments like "You only call me when you need something for school." Then he be flirting and what not, and im like first off "EWW" I never TOLD him I'd call him for anything other than school. So if he expected it, then that's his personal problem not mines.
See what I mean?? Don't expect something from a Libra or ANYONE for that matter if they never told you they'd give it to you or meet you half way on it. If you do expect it, and it's important to you, than you need to voice that with the person and see if they are willing to do it, THEN you can write a post complaining or whatever. Don't assume a person is just going to do what you want. We're not puppets.
For example, I've had guys say that I used them. NOT. They expected more out of me than I ever said I would do. Again, their fault. Not mine. Like this guy I got to school with, on the first day of class he noticed I didn't have my book, I couldn't afford it at the time. So he offered me his number, and said we could share his book, and if I need any assignments or anything than to call him. So I only used his number for school purposes. One day after studying we went for drinks, but I told him I was involved and very in love with the person even though me and the person were not official. I had no interest in the guy. There was no hug, no kiss or anything. Now he's always making comments like "You only call me when you need something for school." Then he be flirting and what not, and im like first off "EWW" I never TOLD him I'd call him for anything other than school. So if he expected it, then that's his personal problem not mines.
See what I mean?? Don't expect something from a Libra or ANYONE for that matter if they never told you they'd give it to you or meet you half way on it. If you do expect it, and it's important to you, than you need to voice that with the person and see if they are willing to do it, THEN you can write a post complaining or whatever. Don't assume a person is just going to do what you want. We're not puppets.
Posted by ALibra
It only seems as though we are self-centered and inconsiderate if you expect more than we agreed to giving you. In our mind thats not our fault, it's yours. Now if you voice your opinion to us that we made you feel that way, if we like you or care even an ounce for you we may listen. Heck we may just listen so we don't make someone else feel that way. Libra HATES to feel like the bad guy. But we will only feel that way, if we genuinely feel we did something wrong.
For example, I've had guys say that I used them. NOT. They expected more out of me than I ever said I would do. Again, their fault. Not mine. Like this guy I got to school with, on the first day of class he noticed I didn't have my book, I couldn't afford it at the time. So he offered me his number, and said we could share his book, and if I need any assignments or anything than to call him. So I only used his number for school purposes. One day after studying we went for drinks, but I told him I was involved and very in love with the person even though me and the person were not official. I had no interest in the guy. There was no hug, no kiss or anything. Now he's always making comments like "You only call me when you need something for school." Then he be flirting and what not, and im like first off "EWW" I never TOLD him I'd call him for anything other than school. So if he expected it, then that's his personal problem not mines.
See what I mean?? Don't expect something from a Libra or ANYONE for that matter if they never told you they'd give it to you or meet you half way on it. If you do expect it, and it's important to you, than you need to voice that with the person and see if they are willing to do it, THEN you can write a post complaining or whatever. Don't assume a person is just going to do what you want. We're not puppets.
But what do you do about a libra giving mixed signals?
We both call each other all day every day ... and he says "i'm the only person he talks to on the phone for this long"
but then he goes all cold on me for a week
This disappearing without notice act is so hurtful and it's agonizing torture.
I've been with my Libra man 3 years. I am a virgo.
We feel in love the very first day we met. We've been together ever since...we both pride ourselves on the blessing that we have in having the capability to talk through any problem we face together. When one of us is weak the other is strong. We have troubles just as everyone but we are completely committed to US.
It's been over 3 weeks now that I've seen or heard from him. I was actually going to file a missing persons report cuz I was so worried. His sister called me and explained that he's dealing with A personal problem and needs to focus on himself.
Wow...I can't begin to explain how lost confused and stunned I am. Without any notice.. No argument... No explanation.. Just gone... He can call his sister but can't call me to even let me know he's ok...he's just walked away like nothing.. No respect at all to my feelings. I would have more respect at this point if he even picked up the phone and simply just said "Get Fucked" and hung up.
I'm fighting with how to handle this. I don't want to end the relationship... His sister even tells me that he fully intends to call me and isn't ending the relationship and to be patient...
But REALLY? Idk if I can put my pride aside and just let it go that he's fully insulted me hurt me to the core & caused so much pain if this is what a Libra does I don't think that if I forgave him and continued the relationship when he comes back to just have it a constant worry in the back of my head living every day wondering when he will leave me like this again—
When the going gets tough... You don't run and hide!!!!
I've been with my Libra man 3 years. I am a virgo.
We feel in love the very first day we met. We've been together ever since...we both pride ourselves on the blessing that we have in having the capability to talk through any problem we face together. When one of us is weak the other is strong. We have troubles just as everyone but we are completely committed to US.
It's been over 3 weeks now that I've seen or heard from him. I was actually going to file a missing persons report cuz I was so worried. His sister called me and explained that he's dealing with A personal problem and needs to focus on himself.
Wow...I can't begin to explain how lost confused and stunned I am. Without any notice.. No argument... No explanation.. Just gone... He can call his sister but can't call me to even let me know he's ok...he's just walked away like nothing.. No respect at all to my feelings. I would have more respect at this point if he even picked up the phone and simply just said "Get Fucked" and hung up.
I'm fighting with how to handle this. I don't want to end the relationship... His sister even tells me that he fully intends to call me and isn't ending the relationship and to be patient...
But REALLY? Idk if I can put my pride aside and just let it go that he's fully insulted me hurt me to the core & caused so much pain if this is what a Libra does I don't think that if I forgave him and continued the relationship when he comes back to just have it a constant worry in the back of my head living every day wondering when he will leave me like this again—
When the going gets tough... You don't run and hide!!!!
Stupid spell check
Treetrunked—?
Was supposed to say
Get fucked
Treetrunked—?
Was supposed to say
Get fucked
Posted by kimberllyanne
This disappearing without notice act is so hurtful and it's agonizing torture.
I've been with my Libra man 3 years. I am a virgo.
We feel in love the very first day we met. We've been together ever since...we both pride ourselves on the blessing that we have in having the capability to talk through any problem we face together. When one of us is weak the other is strong. We have troubles just as everyone but we are completely committed to US.
It's been over 3 weeks now that I've seen or heard from him. I was actually going to file a missing persons report cuz I was so worried. His sister called me and explained that he's dealing with A personal problem and needs to focus on himself.
Wow...I can't begin to explain how lost confused and stunned I am. Without any notice.. No argument... No explanation.. Just gone... He can call his sister but can't call me to even let me know he's ok...he's just walked away like nothing.. No respect at all to my feelings. I would have more respect at this point if he even picked up the phone and simply just said "Get Fucked" and hung up.
I'm fighting with how to handle this. I don't want to end the relationship... His sister even tells me that he fully intends to call me and isn't ending the relationship and to be patient...
But REALLY? Idk if I can put my pride aside and just let it go that he's fully insulted me hurt me to the core & caused so much pain if this is what a Libra does I don't think that if I forgave him and continued the relationship when he comes back to just have it a constant worry in the back of my head living every day wondering when he will leave me like this again—
When the going gets tough... You don't run and hide!!!!
Posted by kimberllyanneIt's not just Libras who do the disappearing acts.
This disappearing without notice act is so hurtful and it's agonizing torture.
I've been with my Libra man 3 years. I am a virgo.
We feel in love the very first day we met. We've been together ever since...we both pride ourselves on the blessing that we have in having the capability to talk through any problem we face together. When one of us is weak the other is strong. We have troubles just as everyone but we are completely committed to US.
It's been over 3 weeks now that I've seen or heard from him. I was actually going to file a missing persons report cuz I was so worried. His sister called me and explained that he's dealing with A personal problem and needs to focus on himself.
Wow...I can't begin to explain how lost confused and stunned I am. Without any notice.. No argument... No explanation.. Just gone... He can call his sister but can't call me to even let me know he's ok...he's just walked away like nothing.. No respect at all to my feelings. I would have more respect at this point if he even picked up the phone and simply just said "Get Fucked" and hung up.
I'm fighting with how to handle this. I don't want to end the relationship... His sister even tells me that he fully intends to call me and isn't ending the relationship and to be patient...
But REALLY? Idk if I can put my pride aside and just let it go that he's fully insulted me hurt me to the core & caused so much pain if this is what a Libra does I don't think that if I forgave him and continued the relationship when he comes back to just have it a constant worry in the back of my head living every day wondering when he will leave me like this again—
When the going gets tough... You don't run and hide!!!!
But yes I've done that before during the initial stages of courtship or dating when a guy gives me douchebag signals but NOT when in a relationship. A decent human being will break up with you properly regardless of their sign.
Your Libra just doesn't have balls.
I had the situation with "disappearing" act from Virgo guy. Once he start considering someone else to be with, he would just stop answering to anything. He was doing it with all chicks he's been with.
His venus is in libra though.
Guys disappear when they take a woman for granted and put themselves first - to try their luck semewhere else "on the market".
His venus is in libra though.
Guys disappear when they take a woman for granted and put themselves first - to try their luck semewhere else "on the market".
I disappear if I don’t care about you anymore. It’s easier to just go away then confront why I don’t care anymore. I’ll respond if you’ll contact me but I won’t initiate anything.
Yes we will disappear but mostly due to sheer boredom. We can't handle boredom or your drama too long before we start searching for the nearest exit. I'd rather be alone than bored with someone. Another reason we disappear is if we see that your feelings do not match ours. We will distance ourselves to prevent heart ache. We are smart that way.
Never
Posted by merakiPosted by BiboroonYou sound like an awful friend. lol
I disappear if I don’t care about you anymore. It’s easier to just go away then confront why I don’t care anymore. I’ll respond if you’ll contact me but I won’t initiate anything.
You're probably not as bad you described but still,click to expand
I am flaky af
Posted by kimberllyanneI swear as a Libra if a man did this to me there would be nothing for him to come back to. I'd be gone.
This disappearing without notice act is so hurtful and it's agonizing torture.
I've been with my Libra man 3 years. I am a virgo.
We feel in love the very first day we met. We've been together ever since...we both pride ourselves on the blessing that we have in having the capability to talk through any problem we face together. When one of us is weak the other is strong. We have troubles just as everyone but we are completely committed to US.
It's been over 3 weeks now that I've seen or heard from him. I was actually going to file a missing persons report cuz I was so worried. His sister called me and explained that he's dealing with A personal problem and needs to focus on himself.
Wow...I can't begin to explain how lost confused and stunned I am. Without any notice.. No argument... No explanation.. Just gone... He can call his sister but can't call me to even let me know he's ok...he's just walked away like nothing.. No respect at all to my feelings. I would have more respect at this point if he even picked up the phone and simply just said "Get treetrunked" and hung up.
I'm fighting with how to handle this. I don't want to end the relationship... His sister even tells me that he fully intends to call me and isn't ending the relationship and to be patient...
But REALLY? Idk if I can put my pride aside and just let it go that he's fully insulted me hurt me to the core & caused so much pain if this is what a Libra does I don't think that if I forgave him and continued the relationship when he comes back to just have it a constant worry in the back of my head living every day wondering when he will leave me like this again—
When the going gets tough... You don't run and hide!!!!
I'm a sag girl and i've been friends with my libra best friend for 2 years. Our friendship was long distance because i moved around a lot and so did he. We would talk about anything together from ex's to sexx and other things, i felt so comfortable with him. He went m.i.a for 2 months and i didn't have a problem with it because life keeps us busy. Recently he confessed his feelings for me (which I already knew but didn't wanna ruin our friendship) I told him i wasn't ready for anything serious and he understood. I moved to the city and he goes to a university there and he begged me to come see him, we cuddled that night (NO SEX) till the next night which was AMAZING! After that we talked for a week and he tells me how beautiful I am and how much he loves me..then all of sudden this past weekend he went GHOST. He blocked me from his phone and i called him from another cell, he told me to leave him alone please. Me being a hot head I told him i can't be friends after what he did and then he replied saying "yea ok..I understand it's cool" I WAS SO HURT!! I called him back and then he said I don't wanna talk and hangs up again! Why did he say all those things and leave..I was his best friend..or maybe not..
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