Libra man switch up (Page 2)

Posted by mysteriousTaurus
Lol I'm tired of people arguing on here it's so annoying and pointless. We don't know each other in person we don't have a right to speak to each other all rude. People come here support, answers and insight. Not to have more drama in their lives

Posted by rockyroadicecream
You're clearly misunderstanding.

The fact he's keeping in touch is a good thing and promising, but combined with his lack of attempt to see her, it counters it a bit so it makes it not so promising, in a sense. I understand her confusion.

She does need to speak up and clear the air instead of asking us what she should do. The main issue here seems to be communication, or lack thereof.

HOWEVER, the whole point is that if this continues like it does, like we've seen SO many times before from women getting screwed around on, then yeah she should cut ties before she gets sucked into that infamous Libra dude cycle that can be impossible to get out of.

In case you didn't realize, I was addressing another user's comment in regard for women here having too much "patience." The thing with all the chicks that come here is that they are not being "patient," they're being desperate. They're hanging around, wringing their wrists over some stupid fuck behavior when they should be taking action and doing something about it.

As per usual with the coddling Libra crowd, we get another "OMG HE'S CHANGING ON ME AND BEING WEIRD. WTF MATE" and the usual response is "oh just wait around/enable crappy behavior in some way, shape, or form." Why? Because that's what YOU guys would want people to do for YOU when you're going through your flaky fuck bullshit toward other people. "Oh just wait around while we decide what we feel like doing with you!"

Something the fucknuts on this website seem to fail to understand is when I give the advice I give, it's telling women not to tolerate bullshit and being treated like they are, which is crappy. That doesn't mean drop things at the first sign of trouble. Of course they need to find out wtf is going on. They need to communicate, which many DON'T do here. They come running to the interwebs as if it's a magic crystal ball that will tell them what's really happening, which, might I add, at that point, the garbage they're whining about has been going on for quite some time with very little change. The reality is that they should be addressing these issues with the dude. If his reaction is as full of shit as his behavior, then absolutely, drop the dude. "Why?" Why NOT? Why should someone stay with someone else who treats them with little respect and makes them mis

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Posted by Lovehim15
Yea I guess it's even harder because we are still a new relationship.. And for a new relationship were still getting to know each other.. Haven't seen him in 2 weeks just feel like he should miss me by now!

It would have been helpful to know that from the beginning :/ How often were you guys seeing each other in the 1st 6 weeks? Is there a reason you haven't seen him in 2 weeks?

Bottom line is this:

You need to back it up and realize that you do not know this dude. 2 months is not a lot of time, especially if you're not spending a great amount of time in each others presence. I went back and read over the OP. This guy is vacillating over whether or not he wants to be in a relationship and now he's fading away. He senses a loss of his freedom. This is exactly what I'd do if I were you: give him his freedom back.

I'd just be like, "I've noticed that things between us aren't the same. You've said that sometimes you don't want to be in a relationship. I don't want you to feel that you're obligated to be with me. I love hanging out with you and I think we have an awesome connection. It's cool with me if we just go back to getting to know each other like in the beginning without the pressure. I'd like to slow things down a bit. Do you think we jumped into this too fast?" Guage his response, but keep in mind how YOU want to be treated and what's fair to YOU.

It may be for the best if you back out of the commitment in an honest and direct way. Not the way he's doing it.

Then you're free to do whatever you want and he's free to figure out what the hell he wants without dangling you on a string.

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Posted by busyeyes88

Posted by Lovehim15
Yea I guess it's even harder because we are still a new relationship.. And for a new relationship were still getting to know each other.. Haven't seen him in 2 weeks just feel like he should miss me by now!

It's it just me, but how do you women put up with this kind of behaviour. It's kinda of crap!! Disappearing for two weeks?! Push and pull?

Jeez is it me or are my leo placements out of control?! Surely that's pretty selfish of the libra person. So the rest of us have to put up with this kind of behaviour?! Where does the patience come from? For a new relationship and trying to get to.know the person that is disgusting behaviour! Is that kind of behaviour necessary?

I just delete!!!!

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