Libra unecessary lies, and manipulation

We broke up weeks ago and as much as I want to talk to him I cannot. I loss control when he initiated a breakup between us and I left. It was my final straw with him considering everything that I had been through with him and his freaking nerve. I cannot stand a high mighty holier than thou person who does blatant foul shiet and then try to make you feel ashamed for not sitting back taking disrespect.

Has anyone ever dealt with a Libra that literally fooled you and everyone around you for years? I mean like really able to pretend they mean so much well when really are only lining things up to fit their selfish needs? To save face... They will do, "the least they can do," no matter how big it may seem on the outside looking in it is literally the least they can do and never nothing more but they will want you to do the best you can do for them.

Sorry for generalizing that because it's not all Libra's I love Libra's and I won't let him make me think all Libra's move like this but hear me out.

My ex, is a paralyzed Libra man. I honestly thought he was extremely independent for someone who is paralyzed but he actually is needy. When I say needy I don't mean this to offend anyone that is paralyzed. He can do a lot but he will ask you to do everything even things he can do on his own. He don't care about how tired you are, what you are in the middle of doing or what the obstacle is to get it done if he wants you to do it he will demand it w/o any hesitation. Grab, this grab that do this do that and because he knows you are doing it because you care about him he will take advantage and then start getting mean. Once you say something he get's mad at himself for needing you, not for being mean but for needing you, then treats you like shiet and like he never needed you for nothing. Then he will go buy me something expensive, or pay off something. Take me out, or just do something he knows I like nothing major just something enough to give the impression that he actually gives a shiet. It's sad because I really fell for that weak shiet for years smh but I am glad I pulled myself a way and can see clear now. It hurt bad tho...

Like seriously paralyzed?? And he dumped you—?

Yea I know ALOT of male Libras like this can't say females tho they come across as very nice but then again don't know any. But I did know a few Libra guys so shady I barley could stomach them. My ex friends guy omg he used to lie and manipulate her, was abusive ABOUT EVERYTHING. Always tryed to use their son together to control her, and the fact she has no real family and she had nothing against her. Because she was broke and struggling when they met he used his things to rule over her his house, his car, his blah blah blah.he would shower her with nice things to make up for the abuse. She would always run to me but this caused a lot of friction between me and him. Because I was not fooled by his lies or corny charm and honestly saw him just for who he was. A loser with a smile and a lie, he lied so much it was scary. Knew a couple others same deal my ex boyfriends best friend was a Libra liar, but charming he even got my ex's baby mother pregnant behind his back. It crushed my ex ! Had another friend of his Libra try and steal me from him....smh I guess thats just what they do idk but I agree with you 500% about the things you've experienced cause I've experience them to with this sign....they can manipulate and lie

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Yea I know ALOT of male Libras like this can't say females tho they come across as very nice but then again don't know any. But I did know a few Libra guys so shady I barley could stomach them. My ex friends guy omg he used to lie and manipulate her, was abusive ABOUT EVERYTHING. Always tryed to use their son together to control her, and the fact she has no real family and she had nothing against her. Because she was broke and struggling when they met he used his things to rule over her his house, his car, his blah blah blah.he would shower her with nice things to make up for the abuse. She would always run to me but this caused a lot of friction between me and him. Because I was not fooled by his lies or corny charm and honestly saw him just for who he was. A loser with a smile and a lie, he lied so much it was scary. Knew a couple others same deal my ex boyfriends best friend was a Libra liar, but charming he even got my ex's baby mother pregnant behind his back. It crushed my ex ! Had another friend of his Libra try and steal me from him....smh I guess thats just what they do idk but I agree with you 500% about the things you've experienced cause I've experience them to with this sign....they can manipulate and lie

This dude deliberately did things to get a reaction from me so that he could use my reaction as an ultimatum. After years of being together that was the weak ars way he bailed out right before mothers day. Now he is trying to text and call but the hurt I felt for weeks of him ignoring me I had to heel from and I did. So at this point I will not re-open that wound because it hurt way to bad. Don't want to see him or talk to him.