MyStarsShine
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My Libra Man was Dealing with 3 other women
Posted by Phantom_Dangus
"Mind yall we are not in a committed relationship."
You had expectations of a boyfriend but didn't secure an actual boyfriend. That never works out.
LMFAO.....She actually thought she could lock down a Libra. Good luck with that. There are some days we won't omelette and other days we want scrambled eggs. Were master class charmers.
Posted by Phantom_DangusPosted by LibraSupremePosted by Phantom_Dangus
"Mind yall we are not in a committed relationship."
You had expectations of a boyfriend but didn't secure an actual boyfriend. That never works out.
LMFAO.....She actually thought she could lock down a Libra. Good luck with that. There are some days we won't omelette and other days we want scrambled eggs. Were master class charmers.
You are TOO much. But anyway, yeah, you have to at least say what your expectations are if you're expecting exclusivity. I'm sure he knew she expected it, but felt fine doing what he wanted because he didn't promise.click to expand
.......while she minded his kids
What a prize prat🤔
Count your blessings.
Posted by Black-MambaPosted by MyStarsShine
"Things got a little serious he moved his kids in with me. I had a great bond with his girls. Mind yall we are not in a committed relationship"
He and his daughters lived with you but you weren't in a committed relationship? 🤔
Is he for real and are you kidding? 😕
This is America, Black American to be exact. I bet you both are black on this thread.click to expand
Wow, what a shitty way to live 🤔😐
Posted by but_didyoudie
very cap in deed.... isn't that a thing with Capricorns.... they just wan to make it work even thought is like not working?
As a venus cappy, yes. Duty over love.
Posted by Black-MambaPosted by MyStarsShinePosted by Black-MambaPosted by MyStarsShine
"Things got a little serious he moved his kids in with me. I had a great bond with his girls. Mind yall we are not in a committed relationship"
He and his daughters lived with you but you weren't in a committed relationship? 🤔
Is he for real and are you kidding? 😕
This is America, Black American to be exact. I bet you both are black on this thread.
Wow, what a shitty way to live 🤔😐
I'm stereotyping, but I want to bet she's dealing with a black man...
I'll bet 10 $click to expand
Why do you think they are like that....upbringing?
Why in the world would you allow a 33 year old man move him and his kids in to your home without any demands from him?
You didn't uphold any boundaries, you nutured and gave and was loving towards a man who I'm sorry to say, took advantage because frankly, you told him that was ok.
Now after cheating on you, lying to you, disrespecting you, all while taking up room in your bed and using you as a babysitter, all you want an apology?
What the actual fuck?
Are you determined to be a doormat? Stop being a sap and start requiring more for yourself.
You didn't uphold any boundaries, you nutured and gave and was loving towards a man who I'm sorry to say, took advantage because frankly, you told him that was ok.
Now after cheating on you, lying to you, disrespecting you, all while taking up room in your bed and using you as a babysitter, all you want an apology?
What the actual fuck?
Are you determined to be a doormat? Stop being a sap and start requiring more for yourself.
Posted by emeraldgem
An apology is meaningless. Dude is a liar and a cheater. And he's gonna tell you WHY and he's sorry?? Nothing that comes out of his mouth at this point is valid. So sorry......
Right?!?! "All I want is an apology." Yikes! Girl, are you SURE your STANDARDS are high? I'm side-eyeing your ass right now 😒
Posted by jeane
Why in the world would you allow a 33 year old man move him and his kids in to your home without any demands from him?
You didn't uphold any boundaries, you nutured and gave and was loving towards a man who I'm sorry to say, took advantage because frankly, you told him that was ok.
Now after cheating on you, lying to you, disrespecting you, all while taking up room in your bed and using you as a babysitter, all you want an apology?
What the actual fuck?
Are you determined to be a doormat? Stop being a sap and start requiring more for yourself.
👏👏👏👏👏🤦🤦🤦🤦🤦
This shit is crazy.
I don't see any advantages for either party.
He's got to move out with his kids. I mean like what responsible parent would provide such an unstable situation?
Meanwhile, the OP's hedging her bets on the fact that he would have to move out with his kids... so, he has to act right - wrong.
He's hedging his bets on the fact that she let him move in with his kids and no commitment as having his cake... or, she must be soft in the head - wrong.
Both usury and trap-setting individuals in this.
The Libra is MOST wrong cause he is 33 and a father.
This 25 y.o. Cap just has a lesson learned.
Get them people out your house and cut the bullshit.
Geeez, talk about scheming on each other.... goodness.
I don't see any advantages for either party.
He's got to move out with his kids. I mean like what responsible parent would provide such an unstable situation?
Meanwhile, the OP's hedging her bets on the fact that he would have to move out with his kids... so, he has to act right - wrong.
He's hedging his bets on the fact that she let him move in with his kids and no commitment as having his cake... or, she must be soft in the head - wrong.
Both usury and trap-setting individuals in this.
The Libra is MOST wrong cause he is 33 and a father.
This 25 y.o. Cap just has a lesson learned.
Get them people out your house and cut the bullshit.
Geeez, talk about scheming on each other.... goodness.
Posted by LibraSupremePosted by Phantom_Dangus
"Mind yall we are not in a committed relationship."
You had expectations of a boyfriend but didn't secure an actual boyfriend. That never works out.
LMFAO.....She actually thought she could lock down a Libra. Good luck with that. There are some days we won't omelette and other days we want scrambled eggs. Were master class charmers.click to expand
lol did you OD on cough medicine?
Its always the insecure guys who view commitment as "lock down".
But i hate reading Cap/Libra relationships issues... they're always so cringe... dont know why.
OP - why would you let someone move into your home without commitment?
If you did it just to be a good person, then why did you expect commitment from him without any conversation? You cant blame him if you've never had that conversation and these expectations were just in your head.
SO did he LIE ot you or were you just living a "happy family" fantasy in your head?
Anyways, i'm curious why he didn't move into his own place if you're both well off? If anything your story is interesting.
OP - why would you let someone move into your home without commitment?
If you did it just to be a good person, then why did you expect commitment from him without any conversation? You cant blame him if you've never had that conversation and these expectations were just in your head.
SO did he LIE ot you or were you just living a "happy family" fantasy in your head?
Anyways, i'm curious why he didn't move into his own place if you're both well off? If anything your story is interesting.
Posted by VenusAquarius
This shit is crazy.
I don't see any advantages for either party.
He's got to move out with his kids. I mean like what responsible parent would provide such an unstable situation?
Meanwhile, the OP's hedging her bets on the fact that he would have to move out with his kids... so, he has to act right - wrong.
He's hedging his bets on the fact that she let him move in with his kids and no commitment as having his cake... or, she must be soft in the head - wrong.
Both usury and trap-setting individuals in this.
The Libra is MOST wrong cause he is 33 and a father.
This 25 y.o. Cap just has a lesson learned.
Get them people out your house and cut the bullshit.
Geeez, talk about scheming on each other.... goodness.
Wow for real! Sometimes we cannot understand our own hidden manipulations... but normally ugly breeds ugly situations. I can say this for anyone including myself. It's the examining part that is hard...
Posted by Black-MambaPosted by stillstillwater
But i hate reading Cap/Libra relationships issues... they're always so cringe... dont know why.
OP - why would you let someone move into your home without commitment?
If you did it just to be a good person, then why did you expect commitment from him without any conversation? You cant blame him if you've never had that conversation and these expectations were just in your head.
SO did he LIE ot you or were you just living a "happy family" fantasy in your head?
Anyways, i'm curious why he didn't move into his own place if you're both well off? If anything your story is interesting.
How can one be happy at 25 years old helping raise 2 children not their own.
this sounds like a nightmare on elm streetclick to expand
lol well remember caps are born old so we welcome responsibility like it's cocaine... something else we love but of course never as much.
Even when I was young I thought i'd like the idea of insta-family but after dating 2 guys with kids it's not all that great.
Posted by greylaternPosted by stillstillwaterPosted by Black-MambaPosted by stillstillwater
But i hate reading Cap/Libra relationships issues... they're always so cringe... dont know why.
OP - why would you let someone move into your home without commitment?
If you did it just to be a good person, then why did you expect commitment from him without any conversation? You cant blame him if you've never had that conversation and these expectations were just in your head.
SO did he LIE ot you or were you just living a "happy family" fantasy in your head?
Anyways, i'm curious why he didn't move into his own place if you're both well off? If anything your story is interesting.
How can one be happy at 25 years old helping raise 2 children not their own.
this sounds like a nightmare on elm street
lol well remember caps are born old so we welcome responsibility like it's cocaine... something else we love but of course never as much.
Even when I was young I thought i'd like the idea of insta-family but after dating 2 guys with kids it's not all that great.
When I was younger I never understood why you take things slow and observe relationship mile stones. I thought it was purely social constructs and stupid/limiting. I do understand why now because I learned the hard way myself from situations like this.
Dating a parent is nothing like dating someone single. Totally different ball game. A lot less flexibility and priorities are different for starters.click to expand
Interesting.... why did you think they were just social constructs?
Yes, also you end up creating a bond with this lil human that is purely based on your relationship with the big human. So that separation is also painful because you do become in a weird way another parent. And the bond is not enough to hold on it's own (of course depends on years together and age groups etc).
The only upside to dating a parent, *HOPEFULLY*, is that they're a more mature and responsible person than the non-parent singles out there.
Posted by but_didyoudie
very cap in deed.... isn't that a thing with Capricorns.... they just wan to make it work even thought is like not working?
It's a Cardinal thing
Babe he was using you from the start.
You let him move into your home and bring his kids without being in a committed relationship. He used you for a roof over his head and free child care. All while having the freedom to fuck others...and you allowed it. What did you think he was doing when he disappeared for days on end?
No sense in demanding an apology. He didn’t break any promises because he didn’t MAKE any promises to you. Forgive yourself for naively thinking being non demanding was gonna buy his loyalty.
Next time demand what you want. Be crystal clear. And only give your heart and keys to a man who steps up and delivers.
You let him move into your home and bring his kids without being in a committed relationship. He used you for a roof over his head and free child care. All while having the freedom to fuck others...and you allowed it. What did you think he was doing when he disappeared for days on end?
No sense in demanding an apology. He didn’t break any promises because he didn’t MAKE any promises to you. Forgive yourself for naively thinking being non demanding was gonna buy his loyalty.
Next time demand what you want. Be crystal clear. And only give your heart and keys to a man who steps up and delivers.
Posted by stillstillwaterPosted by LibraSupremePosted by Phantom_Dangus
"Mind yall we are not in a committed relationship."
You had expectations of a boyfriend but didn't secure an actual boyfriend. That never works out.
LMFAO.....She actually thought she could lock down a Libra. Good luck with that. There are some days we won't omelette and other days we want scrambled eggs. Were master class charmers.
lol did you OD on cough medicine?
Its always the insecure guys who view commitment as "lock down".click to expand
Well I'm super insecure for the next 8 months.
Posted by LadyNeptune
Babe he was using you from the start.
You let him move into your home and bring his kids without being in a committed relationship. He used you for a roof over his head and free child care. All while having the freedom to fuck others...and you allowed it. What did you think he was doing when he disappeared for days on end?
No sense in demanding an apology. He didn’t break any promises because he didn’t MAKE any promises to you. Forgive yourself for naively thinking being non demanding was gonna buy his loyalty.
Next time demand what you want. Be crystal clear. And only give your heart and keys to a man who steps up and delivers.
Agree..... but most women don't think like you LADYNEPTUNE.
Posted by MyStarsShinePosted by Black-MambaPosted by MyStarsShinePosted by Black-MambaPosted by MyStarsShine
"Things got a little serious he moved his kids in with me. I had a great bond with his girls. Mind yall we are not in a committed relationship"
He and his daughters lived with you but you weren't in a committed relationship? 🤔
Is he for real and are you kidding? 😕
This is America, Black American to be exact. I bet you both are black on this thread.
Wow, what a shitty way to live 🤔😐
I'm stereotyping, but I want to bet she's dealing with a black man...
I'll bet 10 $
Why do you think they are like that....upbringing?click to expand
We can't blame it all on their upbringing.....a lot of it has to do with weak women who let them get away with whatever they want just to have them. Women taking on the responsibilities of a wife before becoming one and bringing children into such a union that offers no security or stability. I'm tired of people always blaming the men as if women don't have a grain of brain in their heads.
Posted by DonnaLibraPosted by MyStarsShinePosted by Black-MambaPosted by MyStarsShinePosted by Black-MambaPosted by MyStarsShine
"Things got a little serious he moved his kids in with me. I had a great bond with his girls. Mind yall we are not in a committed relationship"
He and his daughters lived with you but you weren't in a committed relationship? 🤔
Is he for real and are you kidding? 😕
This is America, Black American to be exact. I bet you both are black on this thread.
Wow, what a shitty way to live 🤔😐
I'm stereotyping, but I want to bet she's dealing with a black man...
I'll bet 10 $
Why do you think they are like that....upbringing?
We can't blame it all on their upbringing.....a lot of it has to do with weak women who let them get away with whatever they want just to have them. Women taking on the responsibilities of a wife before becoming one and bringing children into such a union that offers no security or stability. I'm tired of people always blaming the men as if women don't have a grain of brain in their heads.click to expand
True 👍
Posted by Black-Mamba
Black women need to start dating outside their race, always stuck with players, and weirdos
Leave the Daryl’s alone and get them a Dan 😩😅
Yall are evil lmao. But everything you all are saying is right.
Posted by Black-MambaPosted by MyStarsShinePosted by Black-MambaPosted by MyStarsShine
"Things got a little serious he moved his kids in with me. I had a great bond with his girls. Mind yall we are not in a committed relationship"
He and his daughters lived with you but you weren't in a committed relationship? 🤔
Is he for real and are you kidding? 😕
This is America, Black American to be exact. I bet you both are black on this thread.
Wow, what a shitty way to live 🤔😐
I'm stereotyping, but I want to bet she's dealing with a black man...
I'll bet 10 $click to expand
I WAS LOL. I love the black man & I am human.
Thank You all for comments and yea I fucked up. And I will learn from this. And u all are completely right. I'm definitely going to take your advice.
Posted by LibraSupremePosted by LadyNeptune
Babe he was using you from the start.
You let him move into your home and bring his kids without being in a committed relationship. He used you for a roof over his head and free child care. All while having the freedom to fuck others...and you allowed it. What did you think he was doing when he disappeared for days on end?
No sense in demanding an apology. He didn’t break any promises because he didn’t MAKE any promises to you. Forgive yourself for naively thinking being non demanding was gonna buy his loyalty.
Next time demand what you want. Be crystal clear. And only give your heart and keys to a man who steps up and delivers.
Agree..... but most women don't think like you LADYNEPTUNE.click to expand
I feel like most do. Except the ones who come here with these stories. Hopefully this is a wake up call for her.
Posted by LibraSupremePosted by stillstillwaterPosted by LibraSupremePosted by Phantom_Dangus
"Mind yall we are not in a committed relationship."
You had expectations of a boyfriend but didn't secure an actual boyfriend. That never works out.
LMFAO.....She actually thought she could lock down a Libra. Good luck with that. There are some days we won't omelette and other days we want scrambled eggs. Were master class charmers.
lol did you OD on cough medicine?
Its always the insecure guys who view commitment as "lock down".
Well I'm super insecure for the next 8 months.click to expand
I wasn't bashing people who are non-committal but just curious why do you view commitment as "lock down" since that term has a negative connotation?
Posted by Champane24
Thank You all for comments and yea I fucked up. And I will learn from this. And u all are completely right. I'm definitely going to take your advice.
so what was the reason for moving his kids in if you both are well off? Just curious.
Posted by stillstillwaterPosted by LibraSupremePosted by stillstillwaterPosted by LibraSupremePosted by Phantom_Dangus
"Mind yall we are not in a committed relationship."
You had expectations of a boyfriend but didn't secure an actual boyfriend. That never works out.
LMFAO.....She actually thought she could lock down a Libra. Good luck with that. There are some days we won't omelette and other days we want scrambled eggs. Were master class charmers.
lol did you OD on cough medicine?
Its always the insecure guys who view commitment as "lock down".
Well I'm super insecure for the next 8 months.
I wasn't bashing people who are non-committal but just curious why do you view commitment as "lock down" since that term has a negative connotation?click to expand
No "lock down" was not intended to be used as a negative connotation. Just meant Libs love the honeymoon phase to last and if fades start the clock. Relationships are a learning experience is what I tell all my exes. To me marriage would have to be for life but that's for later on.
Posted by LibraSupremePosted by stillstillwaterPosted by LibraSupremePosted by stillstillwaterPosted by LibraSupremePosted by Phantom_Dangus
"Mind yall we are not in a committed relationship."
You had expectations of a boyfriend but didn't secure an actual boyfriend. That never works out.
LMFAO.....She actually thought she could lock down a Libra. Good luck with that. There are some days we won't omelette and other days we want scrambled eggs. Were master class charmers.
lol did you OD on cough medicine?
Its always the insecure guys who view commitment as "lock down".
Well I'm super insecure for the next 8 months.
I wasn't bashing people who are non-committal but just curious why do you view commitment as "lock down" since that term has a negative connotation?
No "lock down" was not intended to be used as a negative connotation. Just meant Libs love the honeymoon phase to last and if fades start the clock. Relationships are a learning experience is what I tell all my exes. To me marriage would have to be for life but that's for later on.click to expand
That's an interesting, fluid and flexible way to think of relationships. Do you think that even for marriage the honey moon phase is going to last? I mean every marriage potential relationship will move out of the honeymoon phase and that's when real love has to kick in to keep it going.
Posted by stillstillwaterPosted by LibraSupremePosted by stillstillwaterPosted by LibraSupremePosted by stillstillwaterPosted by LibraSupremePosted by Phantom_Dangus
"Mind yall we are not in a committed relationship."
You had expectations of a boyfriend but didn't secure an actual boyfriend. That never works out.
LMFAO.....She actually thought she could lock down a Libra. Good luck with that. There are some days we won't omelette and other days we want scrambled eggs. Were master class charmers.
lol did you OD on cough medicine?
Its always the insecure guys who view commitment as "lock down".
Well I'm super insecure for the next 8 months.
I wasn't bashing people who are non-committal but just curious why do you view commitment as "lock down" since that term has a negative connotation?
No "lock down" was not intended to be used as a negative connotation. Just meant Libs love the honeymoon phase to last and if fades start the clock. Relationships are a learning experience is what I tell all my exes. To me marriage would have to be for life but that's for later on.
That's an interesting, fluid and flexible way to think of relationships. Do you think that even for marriage the honey moon phase is going to last? I mean every marriage potential relationship will move out of the honeymoon phase and that's when real love has to kick in to keep it going.click to expand
Yes marriage should grow stronger as a union if you meet one of the few soulmates you have in life. Yes the honeymoon phase can last throughout time with hard times sprinkled in. I'm not against unions, just from my POV just because your dating doesn't equal marriage. When I'm married I'm committed but relationships. "it's take a number and I'll be with you when your qualities are needed". It does well for me.
Posted by LibraSupremePosted by stillstillwaterPosted by LibraSupremePosted by stillstillwaterPosted by LibraSupremePosted by stillstillwaterPosted by LibraSupremePosted by Phantom_Dangus
"Mind yall we are not in a committed relationship."
You had expectations of a boyfriend but didn't secure an actual boyfriend. That never works out.
LMFAO.....She actually thought she could lock down a Libra. Good luck with that. There are some days we won't omelette and other days we want scrambled eggs. Were master class charmers.
lol did you OD on cough medicine?
Its always the insecure guys who view commitment as "lock down".
Well I'm super insecure for the next 8 months.
I wasn't bashing people who are non-committal but just curious why do you view commitment as "lock down" since that term has a negative connotation?
No "lock down" was not intended to be used as a negative connotation. Just meant Libs love the honeymoon phase to last and if fades start the clock. Relationships are a learning experience is what I tell all my exes. To me marriage would have to be for life but that's for later on.
That's an interesting, fluid and flexible way to think of relationships. Do you think that even for marriage the honey moon phase is going to last? I mean every marriage potential relationship will move out of the honeymoon phase and that's when real love has to kick in to keep it going.
Yes marriage should grow stronger as a union if you meet one of the few soulmates you have in life. Yes the honeymoon phase can last throughout time with hard times sprinkled in. I'm not against unions, just from my POV just because your dating doesn't equal marriage. When I'm married I'm committed but relationships. "it's take a number and I'll be with you when your qualities are needed". It does well for me.click to expand
What does this part mean?How is it practiced IRL? - "it's take a number and I'll be with you when your qualities are needed"
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Is he for real and are you kidding? 😕