You ever feel you attract this type—
People that "need" you
Posted by Rosaknowsya??Posted by Rosaknowsya
Im no Libra sun, just a Libra mooner.
And yes. Often. And I help until it becomes toxic and I take stage left. Sayonara!
The thing about life I learned thus far is, if you can help someone, anyone, do it.
Even if you will dissapear, makes zero difference..but always help. Build them up and set boundaries and warm them of your escape beforehand.
They came to you for a reason no? You could be that one human that changes them for life.click to expand
I do feel I attract this type, in both romantic relationships and friendship. Now that I think about it, my relationships with women who felt needy ended on positive notes; cordial, civil, mutual, and still friends with to this day. The relationships with those who were more independent ended not so well.
lol you're on an emotional roller coaster. You're obsessing too much. ive been there, done that. Wasted a few years of my life. Feel ive changed a lot, some good and some bad. Regret it very much. Hate seeing others in that same boat.
Posted by pinkbird03Too much reflection not enough fucking...i need the balance
lol you're on an emotional roller coaster. You're obsessing too much. ive been there, done that. Wasted a few years of my life. Feel ive changed a lot, some good and some bad. Regret it very much. Hate seeing others in that same boat.
Posted by UrsaMediocreI LOVE pisces tbh, moon actually not sure how this comes in.
I do feel I attract this type, in both romantic relationships and friendship. Now that I think about it, my relationships with women who felt needy ended on positive notes; cordial, civil, mutual, and still friends with to this day. The relationships with those who were more independent ended not so well.
Posted by pinkbird03Girl if you are with a Cap you should be out there gettin that good luvvin...
lol you're on an emotional roller coaster. You're obsessing too much. ive been there, done that. Wasted a few years of my life. Feel ive changed a lot, some good and some bad. Regret it very much. Hate seeing others in that same boat.
Posted by LibraLovesHimFind a new guy to have sex with. It's pretty easy.Posted by pinkbird03Too much reflection not enough fucking...i need the balance
lol you're on an emotional roller coaster. You're obsessing too much. ive been there, done that. Wasted a few years of my life. Feel ive changed a lot, some good and some bad. Regret it very much. Hate seeing others in that same boat.click to expand
Posted by pinkbird03I cant just fuck a treePosted by LibraLovesHimFind a new guy to have sex with. It's pretty easy.Posted by pinkbird03Too much reflection not enough fucking...i need the balance
lol you're on an emotional roller coaster. You're obsessing too much. ive been there, done that. Wasted a few years of my life. Feel ive changed a lot, some good and some bad. Regret it very much. Hate seeing others in that same boat.click to expand
Posted by LibraLovesHimI'm not talking about him. Talking about an old ex. Talk about life lessonsPosted by pinkbird03Girl if you are with a Cap you should be out there gettin that good luvvin...
lol you're on an emotional roller coaster. You're obsessing too much. ive been there, done that. Wasted a few years of my life. Feel ive changed a lot, some good and some bad. Regret it very much. Hate seeing others in that same boat.click to expand
Posted by pinkbird03Confused....whats your recommendation? I mean there are plenty lined up but as I said....I cant just fuck a tree...Posted by LibraLovesHimI'm not talking about him. Talking about an old ex. Talk about life lessonsPosted by pinkbird03Girl if you are with a Cap you should be out there gettin that good luvvin...
lol you're on an emotional roller coaster. You're obsessing too much. ive been there, done that. Wasted a few years of my life. Feel ive changed a lot, some good and some bad. Regret it very much. Hate seeing others in that same boat.click to expand
Posted by LibraLovesHimYou can't fuck your ex who has a new gf eitherPosted by pinkbird03I cant just fuck a treePosted by LibraLovesHimFind a new guy to have sex with. It's pretty easy.Posted by pinkbird03Too much reflection not enough fucking...i need the balance
lol you're on an emotional roller coaster. You're obsessing too much. ive been there, done that. Wasted a few years of my life. Feel ive changed a lot, some good and some bad. Regret it very much. Hate seeing others in that same boat.click to expand
BTW******* This post is more about emotion that sex. Is ACTUALLY ABOUT EMOTION NOT SEX!!! PS!!!!
Posted by pinkbird03Post is NOT about sex...Posted by LibraLovesHimYou can't fuck your ex who has a new gf eitherPosted by pinkbird03I cant just fuck a treePosted by LibraLovesHimFind a new guy to have sex with. It's pretty easy.Posted by pinkbird03Too much reflection not enough fucking...i need the balance
lol you're on an emotional roller coaster. You're obsessing too much. ive been there, done that. Wasted a few years of my life. Feel ive changed a lot, some good and some bad. Regret it very much. Hate seeing others in that same boat.click to expand
Are you shitting me? This is Libra's life blood. That frail insecurity needs to feel needed or they shrivel up and die. At least they think they will. It mostly puts them in the shit situations many land themselves in.
Posted by LibraLovesHimPosted by pinkbird03Confused....whats your recommendation? I mean there are plenty lined up but as I said....I cant just fuck a tree...Posted by LibraLovesHimI'm not talking about him. Talking about an old ex. Talk about life lessonsPosted by pinkbird03Girl if you are with a Cap you should be out there gettin that good luvvin...
lol you're on an emotional roller coaster. You're obsessing too much. ive been there, done that. Wasted a few years of my life. Feel ive changed a lot, some good and some bad. Regret it very much. Hate seeing others in that same boat.click to expand
Get to know the new guys. Go on dates. Forget the old guy. Fall in love with someone better. There's always a hotter, more mature, more romantic, more weathly, more perfect guy out there. Never settle until your he's the right guy. But dating around is the only way to find him! Until then just use your hand! Lol don't give me an excuse to why you can't do that. Try it girl! Just try it!
Posted by pinkbird03Posted by LibraLovesHimPosted by pinkbird03Confused....whats your recommendation? I mean there are plenty lined up but as I said....I cant just fuck a tree...Posted by LibraLovesHimI'm not talking about him. Talking about an old ex. Talk about life lessonsPosted by pinkbird03Girl if you are with a Cap you should be out there gettin that good luvvin...
lol you're on an emotional roller coaster. You're obsessing too much. ive been there, done that. Wasted a few years of my life. Feel ive changed a lot, some good and some bad. Regret it very much. Hate seeing others in that same boat.
Get to know the new guys. Go on dates. Forget the old guy. Fall in love with someone better. There's always a hotter, more mature, more romantic, more weathly, more perfect guy out there. Never settle until your he's the right guy. But dating around is the only way to find him! Until then just use your hand! Lol don't give me an excuse to why you can't do that. Try it girl! Just try it!
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Posted by pinkbird03Post has lost focus...pls see original Q...Posted by LibraLovesHimPosted by pinkbird03Confused....whats your recommendation? I mean there are plenty lined up but as I said....I cant just fuck a tree...Posted by LibraLovesHimI'm not talking about him. Talking about an old ex. Talk about life lessonsPosted by pinkbird03Girl if you are with a Cap you should be out there gettin that good luvvin...
lol you're on an emotional roller coaster. You're obsessing too much. ive been there, done that. Wasted a few years of my life. Feel ive changed a lot, some good and some bad. Regret it very much. Hate seeing others in that same boat.
Get to know the new guys. Go on dates. Forget the old guy. Fall in love with someone better. There's always a hotter, more mature, more romantic, more weathly, more perfect guy out there. Never settle until your he's the right guy. But dating around is the only way to find him! Until then just use your hand! Lol don't give me an excuse to why you can't do that. Try it girl! Just try it!
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Posted by pinkbird03Is this all about her and "her man" who had her as the "other woman?" I wouldn't consider that a real "ex" if that's the case. :/Posted by LibraLovesHimYou can't fuck your ex who has a new gf eitherPosted by pinkbird03I cant just fuck a treePosted by LibraLovesHimFind a new guy to have sex with. It's pretty easy.Posted by pinkbird03Too much reflection not enough fucking...i need the balance
lol you're on an emotional roller coaster. You're obsessing too much. ive been there, done that. Wasted a few years of my life. Feel ive changed a lot, some good and some bad. Regret it very much. Hate seeing others in that same boat.click to expand
Posted by rockyroadicecreamI wonder if it's a need of mine that I attract many who do need me emotionally, or if it's because I'm a strong person. Many have told me how strong I am IRL...often that is how they describe me..(not stubborn strong in that I can fight with anyone who comes in my way lol, more like resilient strong, I can overcome many obstacles in my life) Including many who have worked with me, my family members (my Cancer dad said you are the only one out of my children I don't have to worry about-siblings are Aquarius, Aries, and Gemini), and my ex husband and current boyfriend. My ex actually hated that I didn't need him. I honestly felt as though if I needed him more, HE would have been more secure (he's a Taurus) he even told me how much he hated that I didn't "need" him. But I also didn't feel like he needed me emotionally either.. Maybe he did and that was my fault for not recognizing that. I asked my current guy how he felt about that.. Because he's so independent, which is something I love about him. He said he thinks I love having someone who is just as independent as I am, but that in friendships, many do rely on me.. Including family members. So I don't know what the real reason is why I attract so many who need me..I don't ever feel like I'm being there because I have this wanting to feel needed. I feel as though my friends are my family and if they need me, I will be there. That goes for anyone who I love or care about. It's just not right to not be there.
Are you shitting me? This is Libra's life blood. That frail insecurity needs to feel needed or they shrivel up and die. At least they think they will. It mostly puts them in the shit situations many land themselves in.
But I'm choosing to do it, so I don't feel taken advantage of. In fact I never have..my ex always asked me why I do so much for others who don't always do for me? I said the same thing. First of all, I hardly ask anyone to be there for me. Second, because if I actually let you into my life (which is rare) and I care about you, I will be there. No matter what. End of story. And if you don't need me, great, but if you do, call me I don't give a shit what time it is. I will be there. But does that mean, I NEED to feel needed??
That's a different way of looking at it I guess? I would have never explained it that way.
@rocky sorry for the LONNNNGGGG comment..
You just got me thinking... You know my libra moon kicked in and it wanted to talkkkk lol
You just got me thinking... You know my libra moon kicked in and it wanted to talkkkk lol
Not talking relationship/sexual attraction wise. GRRRRR....
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