Update (Page 5)

k.. my libra called today had a good convo.. he shared some very personal things about himself with me (I actually spent most of the afternoon crying bc of what he told me), then he gives me all the reasons he can not have a long distance relationship.. huh? he kept doing that the whole convo. saying things that contradicted what he said earlier in the convo. We talked for 4 hours, then he said he would call back. I did not expect him to as we had already spoken for about 6 hours today, but he called back on his way to work and said he just went to eat with one of his female friends... I am lost and confused..

The last post was our second time talking.. today, he called about 12:30pm and said "when did you get up after our late night/early morning talk", I said "about 7:30AM" he said, "oh and I thought I was giving you time to sleep in that is why I called so late", so I know he woke up thinking about me..

Just wanted to clarify the timing issue...

That's the wishy washy way Bratsy!!! Just breathe and forget worrying...you will see him soon 🙂 🙂

Well I haven't heard from my darling LIbran since last Friday (9 long days ago) apart from a couple of texts but they were hardly what I'd call loving. He has been online but still no chatting with me....Im assuming he blocks me on msn (can't 100% say for sure but 99.9% think so LOL). I hate that so much...I have not been able to speak/chat/etc with him for 9 days - I have just had a week of holidays and he not once asked how it was going but thanked me in a text saying "thanks for not bragging about your holidays this week"...wow!!! (he did when he had 2 weeks off - grrrrr lol). I dunno but Im losing faith really quickly now....being a Sunday night here now and he knows im online and won't even say a quick hello or wish me all the best going back to work nor ask what I did or how my holiday was kinda hurts big time.....Im starting to think 'PLAYER' big time and of course since I mentioned I was getting somewhat attached and wanted to see him more he has been even more aloof and elusive than ever before....oh apart from spending the night a few days after I told him that...but again, 9 days have passed and he only texts back after I text him (pretty much within minutes which to me doesnt make sense - don't reply if you're not interested).

Im glad Im going back to work - at least I can focus on that rather than on him....who knows if he'll pull me back in - I honestly hope so but why— why would I wish that upon myself— hmmm actually I know he will but again, why would I want him to? what is wrong with me—

Grrrrrrrrrrr@men who "aren't ready to be in a relationship at the moment" but do all those wonderful relationship things.....grrrrrrrrrr@them. Why date me in the first place, why ask me all about me and tell me all about him— grrrrrrrrrr again LOL

I believe I ticked off Mr. Libra. He was going full force Wednesday, Thursday, and Friday with text messages, but when he asked me what I was doing last night and I told him I was going out with Jeremy, his messages got snippier. Sorry for the run-on sentence. He went from flirtatious to "So I guess Jeremy must really want you" and "I thought you weren't attracted to him" messages. I didn't know how to reply so I stopped replying.

Yeah, girls...it's time to let this Libra fly onto the next unassuming girl...I need a break from dating.

HP74.. I am learning so much from you.. the reversal of their words thing worked for me last night.. I thought about you when I did it and it felt good.. anyway..see I told you libra's will get mad if they think they have competition. It keeps their interest on you.. if you have no prospects, then they keep moving but when you do, all of the sudden they have so much attention and time. Not sure what that is, but of course they all will say they are not jealous, just don't want anyone else in on their territory. (Chatz.. take note girl!)

Anyway.. so it seems you are over your libra HP74, in a big way.. the charm is not working at all these days huh? You go girl!

You go girl, Brat! I bought some charm repellant last week and it really seems to be working. 😛 I'm still sad I did what I did, but it was truly for the best. But yes, they DO get jealous but they WILL NEVER admit it.

"Im assuming he blocks me on msn (can't 100% say for sure but 99.9% think so LOL). I hate that so much..."

Mr. Libra did this for a while with me, except on Yahoo. Yahoo has a "stealth" mode which makes it appear the person really isn't on and you can choose who you want to be online to and which to appear invisible. He claimed he was invisible to everyone, but remember my little stint with the ficticious other name? He was online to her, so yeah, he showed the LIAR and PLAYER cards very well. Check Mate!

"(pretty much within minutes which to me doesnt make sense - don't reply if you're not interested)."

No, they'll still reply if they're not interested because they more so hate the fact of someone hating them or getting mad at them. Remember, they're emotionally detached...them replying to a text message is no big deal to them when it could throw up all sorts of questions into our heads.

I need to find a Virgo or Capricorn boy.

Now I'm just rambling.....but it's true.

the jealous thing brats?? uh huh....kinda played on that one just ever so slightly and said that I'd been going out and having fun which is true but I was a good girl 😛....oh and of course stayed a little difficult to catch - I gathered I'd play at his own game and as a result, he's back in my life again after no communication for the last week and a half, and Im happy knowing the weekend will be full of talking and laffing, etc but know it'll be up and down for a long time to come yet so bear with me all 🙂 Oh and you'd be proud as he wanted to catch up tonight also but I told him I had other plans - boy did he try to delve into that but again, playing at his own game....it seems to work - I don't like it but it works...hehehehe

*keeps on learning* thanks to all

don't play the game too long...it could backfire. If you're going to play it, play it for a while, then back off and watch how he acts. But keep him on his toes and don't make yourself 100% available.

Chatz.. Yeah!!!! See you are starting to listen. Very good! I am so proud of you. I agree with HP.. Play, then back off and let him think about it, then play the innocent roll, like "oh but I am soo into you", then hit him with "but I went out with a co-worker", then back off again, seem nonchalant about the whole thing.. it will drive him mad!