hopelesscapricorn
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Why is this Libra being cold/distant?
It's the typical Libra honeymoon phase. They jumped in and it's not as exciting as it initially was.
3-4 month mark is usually when it happens. The chances of him dropping off the map/ending things could be likely, so brace yourself for that.
This is pretty much textbook immature Libra dude who jumped in too fast. They jump back out just as fast and leave you wondering what went wrong, which is nothing. They're just morons in these situations.
3-4 month mark is usually when it happens. The chances of him dropping off the map/ending things could be likely, so brace yourself for that.
This is pretty much textbook immature Libra dude who jumped in too fast. They jump back out just as fast and leave you wondering what went wrong, which is nothing. They're just morons in these situations.
"He doesn't ask questions to further get to know me, he doesn't ask me how my day went, he rarely compliments me. He's just....emotionally distant. But when we're in each other's presence he's the complete opposite."
I don't understand this. Aren't you in each other's company in the car when he is not talking to you?
The problem is you've turned into his mother.
I don't understand this. Aren't you in each other's company in the car when he is not talking to you?
The problem is you've turned into his mother.
Posted by 2MoonPosted by Timonlolol!!! lol Timon 😛
I don't think he likes you that much sorry. Libras are affectionate to the ones they care about.
Maybe he just needs a ride? 😱
This is what I was thinking too...
The relationship might feel like forced by the friend that paired them together... 😒
annnnnnd
He seems very cold almost like dead inside..
Maybe shy and reserved.
or maybe like you said it... He just don't like her...
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The friend paired us together because he expressed to her that he was interested in me and didn't know how to go about approaching me because I was so cold and stand-offish. It isn't forced by any means. He's literally just hot and cold and I don't know how to deal with the cold side of him. To speak on the ride, I offered to take him because his job is in the same direction as mine. He never asked me to transport him because he's too prideful and I'm helping him out temporarily until he gets his own vehicle.
Posted by jeaneI was speaking to us being in each other's presence on the weekends when I spend time with him at home.
"He doesn't ask questions to further get to know me, he doesn't ask me how my day went, he rarely compliments me. He's just....emotionally distant. But when we're in each other's presence he's the complete opposite."
I don't understand this. Aren't you in each other's company in the car when he is not talking to you?
The problem is you've turned into his mother.
You should also fall back especially on the ride situation. It’s putting a damper on the romantic part if your mommying him. But if you’re personality is to support and he doesn’t respond well to that then maybe you’re not a good match.
Some people like to be very independent from their partners like almost have separate lives and others want it to be as integrated as possible.
A sign like a Pisces would appreciate the ride very much ... as a Libra he might need to do his own thing to feel happy go lucky.
Let me know what you think...
Some people like to be very independent from their partners like almost have separate lives and others want it to be as integrated as possible.
A sign like a Pisces would appreciate the ride very much ... as a Libra he might need to do his own thing to feel happy go lucky.
Let me know what you think...
To me to only be with someone 4 months and to see that person everyday twice a day is a bit overwhelming... very overwhelming.
Also essay texts are hard to maintain ... that’s an unrealistic expectation.
Posted by hopelesscapricorn
He wasn't employed when I met him but now that he is
Perhaps his job is the reason why he doesn't have the time to text you essays anymore.
I'm kind of similar, in that I will text a lot initially and then kind of simmer down once the relationship feels more solidified. I prefer in-person interactions.
What does the rest of his chart look like?
Posted by FleshpotPosted by hopelesscapricorn
He wasn't employed when I met him but now that he is
Perhaps his job is the reason why he doesn't have the time to text you essays anymore.
I'm kind of similar, in that I will text a lot initially and then kind of simmer down once the relationship feels more solidified. I prefer in-person interactions.
What does the rest of his chart look like?
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That makes sense. And usually I prefer in-person as well. I guess my expectations are maybe too high and I'm panicking because I don't want to repeat past situations where they stayed at the "friends with benefits" stage. He has expressed to me in the beginning that he wants to take me on dates and now that he has a job again, he can finally do that. I just panic when there's no official title and we're still in this getting to know each other phase but the flame seems to already be burning out. So I'm afraid that he's gonna lose interest or will find it in someone else.
As far as the rest of his chart is concerned, his moon is in aries, mercury in virgo. venus in leo and mars in libra. ascendent is libra as well. He's pretty damn Libran lmao! Jupiter in virgo and saturn in aquarius
Posted by stillstillwaterU make a great point! He has expressed that he's very independent and hates to ask for things, or depend on others for things. I just offered him rides temporarily until he gets his first paycheck. didn't want him wasting money on ubers when he barely had any. but perhaps I am mothering him by doing that. I do have that mothering/nurturing/supportive personality though. I'm just gonna have to talk it out with him and ask him what his ideal partner is because if it is someone who's independent, then I will have to understand that. It will be hard to adjust because my ideal relationship is one where two people are relating and holding each other up.
You should also fall back especially on the ride situation. It’s putting a damper on the romantic part if your mommying him. But if you’re personality is to support and he doesn’t respond well to that then maybe you’re not a good match.
Some people like to be very independent from their partners like almost have separate lives and others want it to be as integrated as possible.
A sign like a Pisces would appreciate the ride very much ... as a Libra he might need to do his own thing to feel happy go lucky.
Let me know what you think...
RUN! Best advice i ever got about a libra.... If he's wishy washy fuck him. Do not wait.
Posted by jeaneHe's only in her presence when she's playing chauffeur. I make convo with my uber driver, doesn't mean I see them as a soulmate.
"He doesn't ask questions to further get to know me, he doesn't ask me how my day went, he rarely compliments me. He's just....emotionally distant. But when we're in each other's presence he's the complete opposite."
I don't understand this. Aren't you in each other's company in the car when he is not talking to you?
The problem is you've turned into his mother.
Op if I'm you I'm bringing up relationship terms. You've been dating for 4 months, time to move things forward or break it off completely.
Posted by hopelesscapricornYeah but most men don’t want to think they got to where they are because of a woman; they want to think they did it by themselves.Posted by stillstillwaterU make a great point! He has expressed that he's very independent and hates to ask for things, or depend on others for things. I just offered him rides temporarily until he gets his first paycheck. didn't want him wasting money on ubers when he barely had any. but perhaps I am mothering him by doing that. I do have that mothering/nurturing/supportive personality though. I'm just gonna have to talk it out with him and ask him what his ideal partner is because if it is someone who's independent, then I will have to understand that. It will be hard to adjust because my ideal relationship is one where two people are relating and holding each other up.
You should also fall back especially on the ride situation. It’s putting a damper on the romantic part if your mommying him. But if you’re personality is to support and he doesn’t respond well to that then maybe you’re not a good match.
Some people like to be very independent from their partners like almost have separate lives and others want it to be as integrated as possible.
A sign like a Pisces would appreciate the ride very much ... as a Libra he might need to do his own thing to feel happy go lucky.
Let me know what you think...click to expand
Libra and Cap don't mix. End of.
Posted by jeaneYeah. This is a man thing. It's not a Libra thing. Become any man's support system and this will happen. Every. Time.
"He doesn't ask questions to further get to know me, he doesn't ask me how my day went, he rarely compliments me. He's just....emotionally distant. But when we're in each other's presence he's the complete opposite."
I don't understand this. Aren't you in each other's company in the car when he is not talking to you?
The problem is you've turned into his mother.
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