Why would a libra man ghost đŹď¸?
Why would a libra man ghost đŹď¸?
Coward
Posted by Gobbie
In my experience, Libras are among the worst for ghosting, regardless of the context of the relationship.
#flakycity
Youâre back⌠thought you ghosted us!!!
The libra man I talk to didnât ghost me , maybe theyâre going through some psychological issues and libras isolate themselves when stuffs like that happen
Lack of interest.
Posted by sweetheartsPosted by Gobbie
In my experience, Libras are among the worst for ghosting, regardless of the context of the relationship.
#flakycity
Youâre back⌠thought you ghosted us!!!click to expand
He is still mixing up wrong drugs.
You would think at his age he would master it.
But nooooo. Probably same with sex. đ¤đđ
Posted by MyStarsShine
Coward
You really believing it?
If you do - do you have an âsafe exit strategyâ for people who fall out of being in this relationship?
I had never experienced âan exitâ but Iâve seen people who had tied being decent and honest trying to stand up for their RIGHTS NOT TO LOVE! Oooooh they had been destroyed!
Because our culture is feeling sorry for those who had been left vs those who wants OUT!
Doesnât matter why.
People fall out of love! This is when they are proclaimed âterrorists ofâ whatever it is they are doing. They are like Freedom Fighters! LET ME BE! MY LIFE MATTERS! LOVING YOU IS NOT POSSIBILITY ANYMORE!!!
No fucking shit! They get drugging trough the dirt!
Please tell me why I am wrong.
Any example ofâŚpeaceful departure allowed IF one is still âlovingâ (mostly selfish pos) the other?
Posted by MyStarsShine
Coward
So women who ghost an abusive relationship are cowards or is your idea of a man ghosting predisposed to the idea that they have no reason to? Because I factually know youâd not say the same if this was about a woman ghosting. đ
What Iâve learned in my 20s is mostly everyone ghosts lol. Iâve grown a thick skin to being ghosted. Itâs often not the ghosted personâs fault. I canât speak on why a person would ghost without context.
i'm pro-ghosting.
people should leave instead of using someone and making them miserable.
people should leave instead of using someone and making them miserable.
Posted by MyStarsShine
Coward
Yep Iâll admit that, I donât like confrontation if I can avoid it. If I ghost someone it is because we arenât in a relationship so I donât really owe you any explanation. Iâve just walked away.
Posted by black773Posted by MyStarsShine
Coward
So women who ghost an abusive relationship are cowards or is your idea of a man ghosting predisposed to the idea that they have no reason to? Because I factually know youâd not say the same if this was about a woman ghosting. đclick to expand
Whatâs gender got to do with it? Iâve called out several women who ghosted .... theyâre all cowardly
Posted by sweetheartsPosted by MyStarsShine
Coward
Yep Iâll admit that, I donât like confrontation if I can avoid it. If I ghost someone it is because we arenât in a relationship so I donât really owe you any explanation. Iâve just walked away.click to expand
I donât see it that way
We are all human beings with feelings and just being honest with someone isnât much to ask ... itâs a matter of respect to me.
Posted by MyStarsShinePosted by sweetheartsPosted by MyStarsShine
Coward
Yep Iâll admit that, I donât like confrontation if I can avoid it. If I ghost someone it is because we arenât in a relationship so I donât really owe you any explanation. Iâve just walked away.
I donât see it that way
We are all human beings with feelings and just being honest with someone isnât much to ask ... itâs a matter of respect to me.click to expand
What excuse would you rather hear?? Because at the end of the day, youâll just be given an excuse why they donât feel it. Chances are youâll never know the real reason.
Posted by sweetheartsPosted by MyStarsShinePosted by sweetheartsPosted by MyStarsShine
Coward
Yep Iâll admit that, I donât like confrontation if I can avoid it. If I ghost someone it is because we arenât in a relationship so I donât really owe you any explanation. Iâve just walked away.
I donât see it that way
We are all human beings with feelings and just being honest with someone isnât much to ask ... itâs a matter of respect to me.
What excuse would you rather hear??click to expand
The truth is preferable to me than just leaving someone hanging
Posted by MyStarsShinePosted by black773Posted by MyStarsShine
Coward
So women who ghost an abusive relationship are cowards or is your idea of a man ghosting predisposed to the idea that they have no reason to? Because I factually know youâd not say the same if this was about a woman ghosting. đ
Whatâs gender got to do with it? Iâve called out several women who ghosted .... theyâre all cowardlyclick to expand
Of course you avoided the question posed. Bye starshine.
Posted by MyStarsShinePosted by sweetheartsPosted by MyStarsShinePosted by sweetheartsPosted by MyStarsShine
Coward
Yep Iâll admit that, I donât like confrontation if I can avoid it. If I ghost someone it is because we arenât in a relationship so I donât really owe you any explanation. Iâve just walked away.
I donât see it that way
We are all human beings with feelings and just being honest with someone isnât much to ask ... itâs a matter of respect to me.
What excuse would you rather hear??
The truth is preferable to me than just leaving someone hangingclick to expand
People say they want the truth but can they really handle the truth. What if youâre not pretty enough or skinny enough or youâre boring to that person, do you really want to hear that? What does that do to someoneâs self esteem and is it really necessary to potentially hurt someone more than just walking away?
Itâs similar to wanting and expecting closure when youâve been in a relationship with someone. What is closure to one May not suit the other. The other might be constantly saying⌠why? And the why generally is, why donât you want me?
Posted by sweetheartsPosted by MyStarsShinePosted by sweetheartsPosted by MyStarsShinePosted by sweetheartsPosted by MyStarsShine
Coward
Yep Iâll admit that, I donât like confrontation if I can avoid it. If I ghost someone it is because we arenât in a relationship so I donât really owe you any explanation. Iâve just walked away.
I donât see it that way
We are all human beings with feelings and just being honest with someone isnât much to ask ... itâs a matter of respect to me.
What excuse would you rather hear??
The truth is preferable to me than just leaving someone hanging
People say they want the truth but can they really handle the truth. What if youâre not pretty enough or skinny enough or youâre boring to that person, do you really want to hear that? What does that do to someoneâs self esteem and is it really necessary to potentially hurt someone more than just walking away?
Itâs similar to wanting and expecting closure when youâve been in a relationship with someone. What is closure to one May not suit the other. The other might be constantly saying⌠why? And the why generally is, why donât you want me?click to expand
If it was me and the other person had the decency to say âthis isnât working for meâ Iâd much rather that than them flake on me which Iâd be more pissed off tbh. I just find the ghosting thing really weak ...
But thatâs just me đ
Yeah but that might not be the truth, the truth that you want to hear May be, your too fat or too ugly or too boring, the truth could be you donât thrill them in bed or they just donât see a future with you or theyâve seen someone else that they want to pursue.
The simpler truth always makes someone question why? Maybe I can change, maybe if i was this or that or did these things they would see me differently.
Your truth that you say you want to hear = excuse
The âreal truthâ = hurt
The simpler truth always makes someone question why? Maybe I can change, maybe if i was this or that or did these things they would see me differently.
Your truth that you say you want to hear = excuse
The âreal truthâ = hurt
Posted by sweethearts
Yeah but that might not be the truth, the truth that you want to hear May be, your too fat or too ugly or too boring, the truth could be you donât thrill them in bed or they just donât see a future with you or theyâve seen someone else that they want to pursue.
The simpler truth always makes someone question why? Maybe I can change, maybe if i was this or that or did these things they would see me differently.
Your truth that you say you want to hear = excuse
The âreal truthâ = hurt
You donât have to get into the bitter details. If someone has given you their time and youâre not feeling it, then you owe it to them as basic human courtesy to say âIâm not feeling this anymore.â Not a lot of people beg to hear explicit details. Even when they do, you can say,
âI rather not go into it.â Itâs not that hard for diplomatic Libras.
Any person who wants to justify ghosting does so because they are guilty of standard Libra behaviour: coming on strong/moving fast,
making your love interest feel like youâre way more into them than you really due to your rose colored vision. When reality strikes and you feel buyerâs remorse, you want to reel back and avoid the backlash that you rightfully deserve for misleading someone into believing that youâre more into them than you are. This is why saying âthis isnât workingâ doesnât work for Libras. They look silly saying that given how strongly they come on. This is standard Libra behaviour. Never met a Libra man or woman who didnât behave this way.
Posted by aquarius09Posted by sweethearts
Yeah but that might not be the truth, the truth that you want to hear May be, your too fat or too ugly or too boring, the truth could be you donât thrill them in bed or they just donât see a future with you or theyâve seen someone else that they want to pursue.
The simpler truth always makes someone question why? Maybe I can change, maybe if i was this or that or did these things they would see me differently.
Your truth that you say you want to hear = excuse
The âreal truthâ = hurt
You donât have to get into the bitter details. If someone has given you their time and youâre not feeling it, then you owe it to them as basic human courtesy to say âIâm not feeling this anymore.â Not a lot of people beg to hear explicit details. Even when they do, you can say,
âI rather not go into it.â Itâs not that hard for diplomatic Libras.
Any person who wants to justify ghosting does so because they are guilty of standard Libra behaviour: coming on strong/moving fast,
making your love interest feel like youâre way more into them than you really due to your rose colored vision. When reality strikes and you feel buyerâs remorse, you want to reel back and avoid the backlash that you rightfully deserve for misleading someone into believing that youâre more into them than you are. This is why saying âthis isnât workingâ doesnât work for Libras. They look silly saying that given how strongly they come on. This is standard Libra behaviour. Never met a Libra man or woman who didnât behave this way.click to expand
Well I would say why does anyone owe you anything? That might be your perception but it doesnât make it so and you canât force anyone to live by your standards.
Sounds like youâve been butt hurt by a Libra and you still need to get over it!
Posted by sweetheartsPosted by aquarius09Posted by sweethearts
Yeah but that might not be the truth, the truth that you want to hear May be, your too fat or too ugly or too boring, the truth could be you donât thrill them in bed or they just donât see a future with you or theyâve seen someone else that they want to pursue.
The simpler truth always makes someone question why? Maybe I can change, maybe if i was this or that or did these things they would see me differently.
Your truth that you say you want to hear = excuse
The âreal truthâ = hurt
You donât have to get into the bitter details. If someone has given you their time and youâre not feeling it, then you owe it to them as basic human courtesy to say âIâm not feeling this anymore.â Not a lot of people beg to hear explicit details. Even when they do, you can say,
âI rather not go into it.â Itâs not that hard for diplomatic Libras.
Any person who wants to justify ghosting does so because they are guilty of standard Libra behaviour: coming on strong/moving fast,
making your love interest feel like youâre way more into them than you really due to your rose colored vision. When reality strikes and you feel buyerâs remorse, you want to reel back and avoid the backlash that you rightfully deserve for misleading someone into believing that youâre more into them than you are. This is why saying âthis isnât workingâ doesnât work for Libras. They look silly saying that given how strongly they come on. This is standard Libra behaviour. Never met a Libra man or woman who didnât behave this way.
Well I would say why does anyone owe you anything? That might be your perception but it doesnât make it so and you canât force anyone to live by your standards.
Sounds like youâve been butt hurt by a Libra and you still need to get over it!click to expand
Sounds like youâve been butthurt by my bitter truth about who you are and you being guilty of what your sign represents. I have Libra family, friends and acquaintance to know this usual behaviour. I donât need to date a Libra to know this. Your attitude @ not owing someone basic courtesy speaks volumes about you.
Just depends. Mighta caught feelings somewhere. Ive done that in a dating stage. I just kinda drift off.
Might be stressing me. But I usually try and communicate this. If nothing is changing and its just a dating phase..I just deliberately distance myself.
I could be stressed out. Then I just shut down from everyone for a while until I can center myself.
Whatever it is, its probably something that impacted us pretty profoundly. Not deeply but powerful enough to shift our focus. Tbh it could be anything with a Libra because we are air. We go one way for a while then something can completely grasp our focus.
Might be stressing me. But I usually try and communicate this. If nothing is changing and its just a dating phase..I just deliberately distance myself.
I could be stressed out. Then I just shut down from everyone for a while until I can center myself.
Whatever it is, its probably something that impacted us pretty profoundly. Not deeply but powerful enough to shift our focus. Tbh it could be anything with a Libra because we are air. We go one way for a while then something can completely grasp our focus.
Posted by aquarius09Posted by sweetheartsPosted by aquarius09Posted by sweethearts
Yeah but that might not be the truth, the truth that you want to hear May be, your too fat or too ugly or too boring, the truth could be you donât thrill them in bed or they just donât see a future with you or theyâve seen someone else that they want to pursue.
The simpler truth always makes someone question why? Maybe I can change, maybe if i was this or that or did these things they would see me differently.
Your truth that you say you want to hear = excuse
The âreal truthâ = hurt
You donât have to get into the bitter details. If someone has given you their time and youâre not feeling it, then you owe it to them as basic human courtesy to say âIâm not feeling this anymore.â Not a lot of people beg to hear explicit details. Even when they do, you can say,
âI rather not go into it.â Itâs not that hard for diplomatic Libras.
Any person who wants to justify ghosting does so because they are guilty of standard Libra behaviour: coming on strong/moving fast,
making your love interest feel like youâre way more into them than you really due to your rose colored vision. When reality strikes and you feel buyerâs remorse, you want to reel back and avoid the backlash that you rightfully deserve for misleading someone into believing that youâre more into them than you are. This is why saying âthis isnât workingâ doesnât work for Libras. They look silly saying that given how strongly they come on. This is standard Libra behaviour. Never met a Libra man or woman who didnât behave this way.
Well I would say why does anyone owe you anything? That might be your perception but it doesnât make it so and you canât force anyone to live by your standards.
Sounds like youâve been butt hurt by a Libra and you still need to get over it!
Sounds like youâve been butthurt by my bitter truth about who you are and you being guilty of what your sign represents. I have Libra family, friends and acquaintance to know this usual behaviour. I donât need to date a Libra to know this. Your attitude @ not owing someone basic courtesy speaks volumes about you.click to expand
Not butt hurt at all, just not living up to anyone elseâs standards because they âthinkâ they have the right to tell others how to live and that everyone âowesâ them.
Youâre in for a rude awakening!
I can imagine if someone dared to impose their standards on you.
Only your Libra man can answer this question assuming that you were the one ghosted. Were you guys in a relationship or just casually dated?
As a Libra, I did this to men who I found shady or who just screamed red flag for me.
I ghosted a Scorpio who I talked to for a few weeks and went out a lunch date once. He was the one who ghosted first then came back after a month with an excuse like he lost his wallet and had a death in his family. He asked me to message him anytime but I was just polite and went on with my life. I'm not a toy he would leave around and come back to when he's in the mood.
I also ghosted an Aquarius who was a former boss who I talked to for a couple of months. He kept insisting on us going on a "gym date" that's coincidentally a 5-minute walk to his condo which is up north - I live down south. I repeatedly told him I would be more comfortable meeting halfway and do something like coffee or brunch but he wanted things his way. Welp, not worthy of my time or attention.
It's different for Libras especially the men vs the women. You also have to look at the circumstances.
As a Libra, I did this to men who I found shady or who just screamed red flag for me.
I ghosted a Scorpio who I talked to for a few weeks and went out a lunch date once. He was the one who ghosted first then came back after a month with an excuse like he lost his wallet and had a death in his family. He asked me to message him anytime but I was just polite and went on with my life. I'm not a toy he would leave around and come back to when he's in the mood.
I also ghosted an Aquarius who was a former boss who I talked to for a couple of months. He kept insisting on us going on a "gym date" that's coincidentally a 5-minute walk to his condo which is up north - I live down south. I repeatedly told him I would be more comfortable meeting halfway and do something like coffee or brunch but he wanted things his way. Welp, not worthy of my time or attention.
It's different for Libras especially the men vs the women. You also have to look at the circumstances.
Posted by Mutya
Only your Libra man can answer this question assuming that you were the one ghosted. Were you guys in a relationship or just casually dated?
As a Libra, I did this to men who I found shady or who just screamed red flag for me.
I ghosted a Scorpio who I talked to for a few weeks and went out a lunch date once. He was the one who ghosted first then came back after a month with an excuse like he lost his wallet and had a death in his family. He asked me to message him anytime but I was just polite and went on with my life. I'm not a toy he would leave around and come back to when he's in the mood.
I also ghosted an Aquarius who was a former boss who I talked to for a couple of months. He kept insisting on us going on a "gym date" that's coincidentally a 5-minute walk to his condo which is up north - I live down south. I repeatedly told him I would be more comfortable meeting halfway and do something like coffee or brunch but he wanted things his way. Welp, not worthy of my time or attention.
It's different for Libras especially the men vs the women. You also have to look at the circumstances.
Wow. Thatâs super lame. Or just a string of bad luck. Who loses their wallet and then has a death in the family. Lol. Iâm sorry, it just doesnât sound legit.
Posted by borednbeautifulPosted by Mutya
Only your Libra man can answer this question assuming that you were the one ghosted. Were you guys in a relationship or just casually dated?
As a Libra, I did this to men who I found shady or who just screamed red flag for me.
I ghosted a Scorpio who I talked to for a few weeks and went out a lunch date once. He was the one who ghosted first then came back after a month with an excuse like he lost his wallet and had a death in his family. He asked me to message him anytime but I was just polite and went on with my life. I'm not a toy he would leave around and come back to when he's in the mood.
I also ghosted an Aquarius who was a former boss who I talked to for a couple of months. He kept insisting on us going on a "gym date" that's coincidentally a 5-minute walk to his condo which is up north - I live down south. I repeatedly told him I would be more comfortable meeting halfway and do something like coffee or brunch but he wanted things his way. Welp, not worthy of my time or attention.
It's different for Libras especially the men vs the women. You also have to look at the circumstances.
Wow. Thatâs super lame. Or just a string of bad luck. Who loses their wallet and then has a death in the family. Lol. Iâm sorry, it just doesnât sound legit.click to expand
I was polite and said my condolences, told him I hope things work out for him but my female intuition screamed bullshit. If he was telling the truth then too bad, it's just not meant to be. This is how I approach dating. No control, no expectations but I set boundaries. You should've seen his explanation. It was 3 fucking walls of texts. I just lol'd.
Posted by MutyaPosted by borednbeautifulPosted by Mutya
Only your Libra man can answer this question assuming that you were the one ghosted. Were you guys in a relationship or just casually dated?
As a Libra, I did this to men who I found shady or who just screamed red flag for me.
I ghosted a Scorpio who I talked to for a few weeks and went out a lunch date once. He was the one who ghosted first then came back after a month with an excuse like he lost his wallet and had a death in his family. He asked me to message him anytime but I was just polite and went on with my life. I'm not a toy he would leave around and come back to when he's in the mood.
I also ghosted an Aquarius who was a former boss who I talked to for a couple of months. He kept insisting on us going on a "gym date" that's coincidentally a 5-minute walk to his condo which is up north - I live down south. I repeatedly told him I would be more comfortable meeting halfway and do something like coffee or brunch but he wanted things his way. Welp, not worthy of my time or attention.
It's different for Libras especially the men vs the women. You also have to look at the circumstances.
Wow. Thatâs super lame. Or just a string of bad luck. Who loses their wallet and then has a death in the family. Lol. Iâm sorry, it just doesnât sound legit.
I was polite and said my condolences, told him I hope things work out for him but my female intuition screamed bullshit. If he was telling the truth then too bad, it's just not meant to be. This is how I approach dating. No control, no expectations but I set boundaries. You should've seen his explanation. It was 3 fucking walls of texts. I just lol'd.click to expand
Girl, thatâs the best. When they come back (after they did you wrong) and write 3 walls of texts and you just laugh and write something short back.
That puts their ego in check real quick! đ
But I like your approach. I think I need to lower my expectations. What are the chances I will meet a well-traveled, well-read, hot and single and kind guy. Probably I have a bigger chance of dying in airplane crash than meeting Mr.Right at this point.
Well its....cuz you cant handle the truth literally it's like murdering a woman in a way, how would you feel knowing someone you were interested in lives like trash and theres just trash everywhere and clothes lol sorry I'm a man not a maid honey. Nobody wants to constantly clean up after someone and women tend to get suckered into this role by men...mostly leo boys lol.
Posted by sweetheartsPosted by aquarius09Posted by sweetheartsPosted by aquarius09Posted by sweethearts
Yeah but that might not be the truth, the truth that you want to hear May be, your too fat or too ugly or too boring, the truth could be you donât thrill them in bed or they just donât see a future with you or theyâve seen someone else that they want to pursue.
The simpler truth always makes someone question why? Maybe I can change, maybe if i was this or that or did these things they would see me differently.
Your truth that you say you want to hear = excuse
The âreal truthâ = hurt
You donât have to get into the bitter details. If someone has given you their time and youâre not feeling it, then you owe it to them as basic human courtesy to say âIâm not feeling this anymore.â Not a lot of people beg to hear explicit details. Even when they do, you can say,
âI rather not go into it.â Itâs not that hard for diplomatic Libras.
Any person who wants to justify ghosting does so because they are guilty of standard Libra behaviour: coming on strong/moving fast,
making your love interest feel like youâre way more into them than you really due to your rose colored vision. When reality strikes and you feel buyerâs remorse, you want to reel back and avoid the backlash that you rightfully deserve for misleading someone into believing that youâre more into them than you are. This is why saying âthis isnât workingâ doesnât work for Libras. They look silly saying that given how strongly they come on. This is standard Libra behaviour. Never met a Libra man or woman who didnât behave this way.
Well I would say why does anyone owe you anything? That might be your perception but it doesnât make it so and you canât force anyone to live by your standards.
Sounds like youâve been butt hurt by a Libra and you still need to get over it!
Sounds like youâve been butthurt by my bitter truth about who you are and you being guilty of what your sign represents. I have Libra family, friends and acquaintance to know this usual behaviour. I donât need to date a Libra to know this. Your attitude @ not owing someone basic courtesy speaks volumes about you.
Not butt hurt at all, just not living up to anyone elseâs standards because they âthinkâ they have the right to tell others how to live and that everyone âowesâ them.
Youâre in for a rude awakening!
I can imagine if someone dared to impose their standards on you.click to expand
Itâs not âmy or anyone elseâs standards.â Thatâs what you donât seem to comprehend and your lack of manners have no bearing on me, lest I dare impose âmy standardsâ on you. Iâm talking about a universal expectation of manners, which will be found in every culture or social milieu. Youâre just trying to justify shit behaviour as âthese are YOUR standards.â
Anyways, I donât argue with defenders of poor behaviour. I just wish their behaviour on them because nothing teaches them faster than getting their own medicine. May you get ghosted after youâve been led on for months since nobody owes you manners or anything for that matter đđĽ
Posted by aquarius09Posted by sweetheartsPosted by aquarius09Posted by sweetheartsPosted by aquarius09Posted by sweethearts
Yeah but that might not be the truth, the truth that you want to hear May be, your too fat or too ugly or too boring, the truth could be you donât thrill them in bed or they just donât see a future with you or theyâve seen someone else that they want to pursue.
The simpler truth always makes someone question why? Maybe I can change, maybe if i was this or that or did these things they would see me differently.
Your truth that you say you want to hear = excuse
The âreal truthâ = hurt
You donât have to get into the bitter details. If someone has given you their time and youâre not feeling it, then you owe it to them as basic human courtesy to say âIâm not feeling this anymore.â Not a lot of people beg to hear explicit details. Even when they do, you can say,
âI rather not go into it.â Itâs not that hard for diplomatic Libras.
Any person who wants to justify ghosting does so because they are guilty of standard Libra behaviour: coming on strong/moving fast,
making your love interest feel like youâre way more into them than you really due to your rose colored vision. When reality strikes and you feel buyerâs remorse, you want to reel back and avoid the backlash that you rightfully deserve for misleading someone into believing that youâre more into them than you are. This is why saying âthis isnât workingâ doesnât work for Libras. They look silly saying that given how strongly they come on. This is standard Libra behaviour. Never met a Libra man or woman who didnât behave this way.
Well I would say why does anyone owe you anything? That might be your perception but it doesnât make it so and you canât force anyone to live by your standards.
Sounds like youâve been butt hurt by a Libra and you still need to get over it!
Sounds like youâve been butthurt by my bitter truth about who you are and you being guilty of what your sign represents. I have Libra family, friends and acquaintance to know this usual behaviour. I donât need to date a Libra to know this. Your attitude @ not owing someone basic courtesy speaks volumes about you.
Not butt hurt at all, just not living up to anyone elseâs standards because they âthinkâ they have the right to tell others how to live and that everyone âowesâ them.
Youâre in for a rude awakening!
I can imagine if someone dared to impose their standards on you.
Itâs not âmy or anyone elseâs standards.â Thatâs what you donât seem to comprehend and your lack of manners have no bearing on me, lest I dare impose âmy standardsâ on you. Iâm talking about a universal expectation of manners, which will be found in every culture or social milieu. Youâre just trying to justify shit behaviour as âthese are YOUR standards.â
Anyways, I donât argue with defenders of poor behaviour. I just wish their behaviour on them because nothing teaches them faster than getting their own medicine. May you get ghosted after youâve been led on for months since nobody owes you manners or anything for that matter đđĽclick to expand
All I read here is your bitterness, honey get over it, live life. Until you learn to ease up youâll always bring this content upon yourself.
Ghosting is shitty behaviour and every option is better than that. It messes with one's head.
Posted by sweetheartsPosted by aquarius09Posted by sweetheartsPosted by aquarius09Posted by sweetheartsPosted by aquarius09Posted by sweethearts
Yeah but that might not be the truth, the truth that you want to hear May be, your too fat or too ugly or too boring, the truth could be you donât thrill them in bed or they just donât see a future with you or theyâve seen someone else that they want to pursue.
The simpler truth always makes someone question why? Maybe I can change, maybe if i was this or that or did these things they would see me differently.
Your truth that you say you want to hear = excuse
The âreal truthâ = hurt
You donât have to get into the bitter details. If someone has given you their time and youâre not feeling it, then you owe it to them as basic human courtesy to say âIâm not feeling this anymore.â Not a lot of people beg to hear explicit details. Even when they do, you can say,
âI rather not go into it.â Itâs not that hard for diplomatic Libras.
Any person who wants to justify ghosting does so because they are guilty of standard Libra behaviour: coming on strong/moving fast,
making your love interest feel like youâre way more into them than you really due to your rose colored vision. When reality strikes and you feel buyerâs remorse, you want to reel back and avoid the backlash that you rightfully deserve for misleading someone into believing that youâre more into them than you are. This is why saying âthis isnât workingâ doesnât work for Libras. They look silly saying that given how strongly they come on. This is standard Libra behaviour. Never met a Libra man or woman who didnât behave this way.
Well I would say why does anyone owe you anything? That might be your perception but it doesnât make it so and you canât force anyone to live by your standards.
Sounds like youâve been butt hurt by a Libra and you still need to get over it!
Sounds like youâve been butthurt by my bitter truth about who you are and you being guilty of what your sign represents. I have Libra family, friends and acquaintance to know this usual behaviour. I donât need to date a Libra to know this. Your attitude @ not owing someone basic courtesy speaks volumes about you.
Not butt hurt at all, just not living up to anyone elseâs standards because they âthinkâ they have the right to tell others how to live and that everyone âowesâ them.
Youâre in for a rude awakening!
I can imagine if someone dared to impose their standards on you.
Itâs not âmy or anyone elseâs standards.â Thatâs what you donât seem to comprehend and your lack of manners have no bearing on me, lest I dare impose âmy standardsâ on you. Iâm talking about a universal expectation of manners, which will be found in every culture or social milieu. Youâre just trying to justify shit behaviour as âthese are YOUR standards.â
Anyways, I donât argue with defenders of poor behaviour. I just wish their behaviour on them because nothing teaches them faster than getting their own medicine. May you get ghosted after youâve been led on for months since nobody owes you manners or anything for that matter đđĽ
All I read here is your bitterness, honey get over it, live life. Until you learn to ease up youâll always bring this content upon yourself.click to expand
Bitterness? đ¤So this is how delusional folks avoid rectifying their personality flaws. Got it!
@possiblyavirgo
Libra people can find it dificult to confront or be assertive so the ghosting thing makes sense. They can also be indecisive and sometimes sit on the fence
They like equilibrium and harmony and arenât the bravest of signs...so i guess at times they take the easiest option ?
Libra people can find it dificult to confront or be assertive so the ghosting thing makes sense. They can also be indecisive and sometimes sit on the fence
They like equilibrium and harmony and arenât the bravest of signs...so i guess at times they take the easiest option ?
Posted by aquarius09Posted by sweethearts
Yeah but that might not be the truth, the truth that you want to hear May be, your too fat or too ugly or too boring, the truth could be you donât thrill them in bed or they just donât see a future with you or theyâve seen someone else that they want to pursue.
The simpler truth always makes someone question why? Maybe I can change, maybe if i was this or that or did these things they would see me differently.
Your truth that you say you want to hear = excuse
The âreal truthâ = hurt
You donât have to get into the bitter details. If someone has given you their time and youâre not feeling it, then you owe it to them as basic human courtesy to say âIâm not feeling this anymore.â Not a lot of people beg to hear explicit details. Even when they do, you can say,
âI rather not go into it.â Itâs not that hard for diplomatic Libras.
Any person who wants to justify ghosting does so because they are guilty of standard Libra behaviour: coming on strong/moving fast,
making your love interest feel like youâre way more into them than you really due to your rose colored vision. When reality strikes and you feel buyerâs remorse, you want to reel back and avoid the backlash that you rightfully deserve for misleading someone into believing that youâre more into them than you are. This is why saying âthis isnât workingâ doesnât work for Libras. They look silly saying that given how strongly they come on. This is standard Libra behaviour. Never met a Libra man or woman who didnât behave this way.click to expand
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@possiblyavirgo
Libra people can find it dificult to confront or be assertive so the ghosting thing makes sense. They can also be indecisive and sometimes sit on the fence
Itâs unfortunately not just about avoiding confrontation. Itâs that the confrontation or the backlash is rightfully deserved, and they just donât want to get cussed off for leading someone on or doing them dirty. It would mean they arenât âas good as they wanted to appear.â For example, a Libra male friend of mine was cheating on his gf because he didnât know how to âbreak up with her.â He didnât want to âhurt her feelingsâ but if that was really his concern (being good and not hurt someoneâs feelings) then he wouldnât be cheating on her either. When his gf found out on her own and wanted to confront him, my friend hid like a coward and ghosted her. LOL. To this day, this woman never got to confront him about it. This is the kind of lousy nonsense they pull. I find this behaviour so repulsive and self-centred.
Posted by DonnaLibraPosted by aquarius09Posted by sweethearts
Yeah but that might not be the truth, the truth that you want to hear May be, your too fat or too ugly or too boring, the truth could be you donât thrill them in bed or they just donât see a future with you or theyâve seen someone else that they want to pursue.
The simpler truth always makes someone question why? Maybe I can change, maybe if i was this or that or did these things they would see me differently.
Your truth that you say you want to hear = excuse
The âreal truthâ = hurt
You donât have to get into the bitter details. If someone has given you their time and youâre not feeling it, then you owe it to them as basic human courtesy to say âIâm not feeling this anymore.â Not a lot of people beg to hear explicit details. Even when they do, you can say,
âI rather not go into it.â Itâs not that hard for diplomatic Libras.
Any person who wants to justify ghosting does so because they are guilty of standard Libra behaviour: coming on strong/moving fast,
making your love interest feel like youâre way more into them than you really due to your rose colored vision. When reality strikes and you feel buyerâs remorse, you want to reel back and avoid the backlash that you rightfully deserve for misleading someone into believing that youâre more into them than you are. This is why saying âthis isnât workingâ doesnât work for Libras. They look silly saying that given how strongly they come on. This is standard Libra behaviour. Never met a Libra man or woman who didnât behave this way.
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I already read the comment. At least you can own it because only then can you change it.
Posted by DonnaLibraPosted by aquarius09Posted by sweethearts
Yeah but that might not be the truth, the truth that you want to hear May be, your too fat or too ugly or too boring, the truth could be you donât thrill them in bed or they just donât see a future with you or theyâve seen someone else that they want to pursue.
The simpler truth always makes someone question why? Maybe I can change, maybe if i was this or that or did these things they would see me differently.
Your truth that you say you want to hear = excuse
The âreal truthâ = hurt
You donât have to get into the bitter details. If someone has given you their time and youâre not feeling it, then you owe it to them as basic human courtesy to say âIâm not feeling this anymore.â Not a lot of people beg to hear explicit details. Even when they do, you can say,
âI rather not go into it.â Itâs not that hard for diplomatic Libras.
Any person who wants to justify ghosting does so because they are guilty of standard Libra behaviour: coming on strong/moving fast,
making your love interest feel like youâre way more into them than you really due to your rose colored vision. When reality strikes and you feel buyerâs remorse, you want to reel back and avoid the backlash that you rightfully deserve for misleading someone into believing that youâre more into them than you are. This is why saying âthis isnât workingâ doesnât work for Libras. They look silly saying that given how strongly they come on. This is standard Libra behaviour. Never met a Libra man or woman who didnât behave this way.
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I love how honest you always are about yourself Donna, its very rare and refreshing â¤ď¸
Libras ghost as much as they are ghosted.
If you were ghosted it's on you. đ
If you were ghosted it's on you. đ
Posted by sweetheartsPosted by aquarius09Posted by sweetheartsPosted by aquarius09Posted by sweethearts
Yeah but that might not be the truth, the truth that you want to hear May be, your too fat or too ugly or too boring, the truth could be you donât thrill them in bed or they just donât see a future with you or theyâve seen someone else that they want to pursue.
The simpler truth always makes someone question why? Maybe I can change, maybe if i was this or that or did these things they would see me differently.
Your truth that you say you want to hear = excuse
The âreal truthâ = hurt
You donât have to get into the bitter details. If someone has given you their time and youâre not feeling it, then you owe it to them as basic human courtesy to say âIâm not feeling this anymore.â Not a lot of people beg to hear explicit details. Even when they do, you can say,
âI rather not go into it.â Itâs not that hard for diplomatic Libras.
Any person who wants to justify ghosting does so because they are guilty of standard Libra behaviour: coming on strong/moving fast,
making your love interest feel like youâre way more into them than you really due to your rose colored vision. When reality strikes and you feel buyerâs remorse, you want to reel back and avoid the backlash that you rightfully deserve for misleading someone into believing that youâre more into them than you are. This is why saying âthis isnât workingâ doesnât work for Libras. They look silly saying that given how strongly they come on. This is standard Libra behaviour. Never met a Libra man or woman who didnât behave this way.
Well I would say why does anyone owe you anything? That might be your perception but it doesnât make it so and you canât force anyone to live by your standards.
Sounds like youâve been butt hurt by a Libra and you still need to get over it!
Sounds like youâve been butthurt by my bitter truth about who you are and you being guilty of what your sign represents. I have Libra family, friends and acquaintance to know this usual behaviour. I donât need to date a Libra to know this. Your attitude @ not owing someone basic courtesy speaks volumes about you.
Not butt hurt at all, just not living up to anyone elseâs standards because they âthinkâ they have the right to tell others how to live and that everyone âowesâ them.
Youâre in for a rude awakening!
I can imagine if someone dared to impose their standards on you.click to expand
I think millenials have higher expectations when expecting closure. Having a phone that connects you 24/7 a day creates greater needs to connect. When the communication is dropped for lack of interest/connection, they want a reason. It also is about their ego and the narcissistic nature of wanting to know what they donât have compared to others. Itâs all self serving.
Just like the ghoster is self serving their needs to not waste their time or avoiding red flags.
Beautiful people, just wanted to update you, since it seems like right after posting I ghosted DXP and yall as well đ¤Ł
This libra contacted me a month ago, to apologize for disappearing on me for a few months. Turns out he fell for me, he knew we can't be together so he distanced himself.
Why he wrote me back is beyond me, we're trying the "friends" thing now, but basically all he does is speak about girls/women he is interested in and that's it. I guess it's interesting to get an answer about why he did ghost me in the first place.
This libra contacted me a month ago, to apologize for disappearing on me for a few months. Turns out he fell for me, he knew we can't be together so he distanced himself.
Why he wrote me back is beyond me, we're trying the "friends" thing now, but basically all he does is speak about girls/women he is interested in and that's it. I guess it's interesting to get an answer about why he did ghost me in the first place.
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