@LibrasRule36!
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Worst Date Ever...
What Makes a Date Truly Worst
The worst dates often involve disrespect, unpredictability, or dangerous behavior. Examples include ignoring boundaries, such as eating from your plate, or dangerous encounters like being chased by an angry individual. Recognizing signs of disrespect or risky situations can help you avoid harmful experiences and prioritize your safety and comfort on dates.
*****1- I went out on a dinner date with this guy one time. When the server took our orders - I placed my order and my date declined stating THAT HE WASN'T HUNGRY! (I was a little put off at having to technically eat alone) When my food arrives I proceed to eat and have conversation with him in between bites. When the waiter stops by to see if I needed anything, my date asks for utensils. The utensils arrive and he proceeds to eat from my plate! I shoved the plate to his chest, tell him to eat it all, and look at him in amazement as he scarfs down every morsel while asking me if I want some. Unreal! He was a Sagittarius, this Guy. He reminded me of my ex - Can't give you anything without it being something in it for him.
2- The second worse date went perfectly until we were parked in his driveway saying good night. Out of nowhere a chic jumps on the hood of his car. He throws the car in reverse and drives onto the street and around the block - the girl never let go and was cursing him out the whole time. This was the first time I was scared of any woman (besides my Mom)-any chic whose objective is to curse a man out instead of save her life is of another breed - I like being alive. Thank God she was too fixated on him to pay me any attention. The next day he called to check on me and I told him whatever he did to her (sexually)- I didn't want any! LOL! This guy was a Taurus.******
LOL WHERE DID YOU FIND THESE GUYS, PRISON? I cant say ive ever been on a date that bad, or heard of a date that bad! 🙂
Angel, LOL, funny you would say that b/c the Taurus guy did a short term for conspiracy to sell dope (I found out later).
The Sagi was on the up-and-up.
More importantly, I left them right where I found them 🙂
How's Nico?
LOL. Nico is doing amazing, aside from the fact hes at work right about now ;P I actually get some computer time when hes workin. hehe. How did you think he was doing?... hes with me, an amazing LIBRA woman. 🙂
LOL, look at you.
"LOL, look at you."
lol, must have been the amazing sex we had last night, Im feeling extra confident today 😉
lol at your dating stories Librasrule. The car thing would have freaked me out.
I have to think about this. I really haven't had that many "bad" dates.
Angel ... good sex is great for the soul. Glad you had a good night. 🙂
Girls have a soul? Awwww shit I have been doing this all wrong. 😛
Posted by nicodemus
Girls have a soul? Awwww shit I have been doing this all wrong. 😛
WELCOME TO THE SOUL TRAIN BABY! Hop on Ill give you the ride of your life ;P
How much?
Five dolla make you holla! but lets get off libras thread. Ill meet you in the alley.
This feels like a set up. That ass is worth at least $ 7.50.
Posted by LibrasRule36!
What's the worst date that you've ever been on?1- I went out on a dinner date with this guy one time. When the server took our orders - I placed my order and my date declined stating THAT HE WASN'T HUNGRY! (I was a little put off at having to technically eat alone) When my food arrives I proceed to eat and have conversation with him in between bites. When the waiter stops by to see if I needed anything, my date asks for utensils. The utensils arrive and he proceeds to eat from my plate! I shoved the plate to his chest, tell him to eat it all, and look at him in amazement as he scarfs down every morsel while asking me if I want some. Unreal! He was a Sagittarius, this Guy. He reminded me of my ex - Can't give you anything without it being something in it for him.
2- The second worse date went perfectly until we were parked in his driveway saying good night. Out of nowhere a chic jumps on the hood of his car. He throws the car in reverse and drives onto the street and around the block - the girl never let go and was cursing him out the whole time. This was the first time I was scared of any woman (besides my Mom)-any chic whose objective is to curse a man out instead of save her life is of another breed - I like being alive. Thank God she was too fixated on him to pay me any attention. The next day he called to check on me and I told him whatever he did to her (sexually)- I didn't want any! LOL! This guy was a Taurus.
Haha the sag guy is funny as hell, i mean that is the definition of a cheapskate !
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Precisely 🙂
@ Angel and Nico - you guys are hilarious. Nice to see such sexy, playful banter between a couple. Cute pic, Nico.
@ LittleSparrow - Glad to know that you escaped having to endure a bad date. That girl totally freaked me out - I can't understand being that angry that I would jump on the hood of a car. Crazy.
Hey this thread rocks but not many visit us Beautiful Libras IKDY.... jealousy maybe...lol
re-post on the relationships site to get more feedback🙂
I havent been on many dates and so there isn't a story to tell but would love to hear more 🙂
LOL, thanks Sweets.
Posted by LibrasRule36!
@ Angel and Nico - you guys are hilarious. Nice to see such sexy, playful banter between a couple. Cute pic, Nico.
Thank you for the compliment. I was actually uploading a pic to use as may avatar and Angel was like oh use that one that I already had in my profile. So of course I had to.
It is nice having a partner that can joke like that with me. When you lay into one another with jokes and the each person has the attitude of "damn you got me, good one" instead of "that was mean your an asshole" things are a lot more fun. I actually have a really perverted, twisted sense of humor and she likes perverted and twisted. It is really nice not having to bite my tongue or worry somethings going to come out that is gonna get taken to personally or seriously.
Oh you guys make me sick....where do I get one of those— 😛
um, i've only been on one date with someone who wasn't already my boyfriend. it was actually very nice. oh wait! i think i went on another date with this guy i've been seeing but we had already established a FWB relationship. oh nevermind. the only reason he paid is because i left my wallet at his house and he didn't wanna go back. oops!
Posted by ninjamu
um, i've only been on one date with someone who wasn't already my boyfriend. it was actually very nice. oh wait! i think i went on another date with this guy i've been seeing but we had already established a FWB relationship. oh nevermind. the only reason he paid is because i left my wallet at his house and he didn't wanna go back. oops!
I am sure you left it at his house on accident 😛 or was it intentionally so you had a reason to go back?
I am in the same boat. I really don't remember being on an actual date. If I liked the girl I spent time with her weather either of us stopped at the others house to see each other or similar "just hanging out" kind of thing. The idea of the common "date" doesn't really appeal to me.
Angel has dated people like that but seems to enjoy the "hanging out" version more too.
I went out for a coffee with guy once and I shouldn't have because I had the start of tonsilitis...but he persisted so i gave in thinking it'll be an hour in a warm cafe. He seemed nice at first but I remember thinking does this guy ever shut up!!! He talked and talked and talked, first hour was ok but damn he could talk...mostly about himself. Anyway the end of the date after 2 hours and a walk down by the beach I dropped him off home and he said he'd call and see how I am the next day becasue I told him I'd be quite sick as I shouldn't have gone out in the wind. Very next morning bright and early as I lay regretting I went out he calls...6 times that day texting and calling which I didnt reply to because I was ill. Last phone call, message left...
I've called several times and it's obvious you dont want to talk to me....
I ended up texting and saying I've been sick all day and only got myself off to the docs for pills and back & NO I dont feel like talking, so when I feel better in the morning, I will give him a call. And the next day I called and told him I didnt want to go out with him again...
Then the stalking started!!!!!! And it turns out the dude had a gf who was away for the week!!! Geez no wonder he was in such a rush to hook up!
Yeah we get bored easily!!! 😛
I'm gonna throw in my stories even though I'm not a Libra 😛
One guy asked me out and I really didn't like him much but I'd recently become single so I thought it would be a good way to help move on. WRONG!! We ended up going to a movie that was 2 hours long and he tried to grope me the whole time. I kept getting up to go to the "bathroom" or get a "snack". I told him to stop twice and he still was rubbing my leg and trying to put his arm around me to go in for my boobs. Ugh! Then on the way home he turned the radio on some sappy ass love music which he attempted very badly to sing to me. He was making these goofy serious faces at me singing and gesturing with the music to me. I was trying so hard not to laugh. He was being so serious.
The second one was a Gem who was a bouncer at a bar. He asked me to meet him at his work and we'd have a drink or two after he got off. I showed up and waited at the bar for his shift to end and the female bartender GRILLS me about what I'm like, who I am. I'm not sure if he put her up to it but I felt like I was getting innterogated. Then another bouncer he works with comes up and introduces himself to me and comments on how I was Gem's "girlfriend" WHAT?! This was our first date and suddenly I'm a girlfriend? Oh hell no!! It just felt very weird to me that he was having all his coworkers try to "get to know me" already and 20 questioning me. He turned out to be a stalker too. I couldn't shake him for a month after that.
Haha at the groper Ging! If I dont like someone much then I'll remember this and definitely not go on a date with them!!! Yeah I hate it when someone sings and they really are tone deaf...kinda of a turnoff
Ginger
Wow those are both pretty bad. Stories like yours make me embarrassed for the male species.
LOL
You live and learn (and sometimes get gropped) 😛
No worries. I know there are some seriously demented women out there too. I've heard horror stories from my male buddies. THOSE are BAD.
Posted by sweethearts
I went out for a coffee with guy once and I shouldn't have because I had the start of tonsilitis...but he persisted so i gave in thinking it'll be an hour in a warm cafe. He seemed nice at first but I remember thinking does this guy ever shut up!!! He talked and talked and talked, first hour was ok but damn he could talk...mostly about himself. Anyway the end of the date after 2 hours and a walk down by the beach I dropped him off home and he said he'd call and see how I am the next day becasue I told him I'd be quite sick as I shouldn't have gone out in the wind. Very next morning bright and early as I lay regretting I went out he calls...6 times that day texting and calling which I didnt reply to because I was ill. Last phone call, message left...I've called several times and it's obvious you dont want to talk to me....
I ended up texting and saying I've been sick all day and only got myself off to the docs for pills and back & NO I dont feel like talking, so when I feel better in the morning, I will give him a call. And the next day I called and told him I didnt want to go out with him again...
Then the stalking started!!!!!! And it turns out the dude had a gf who was away for the week!!! Geez no wonder he was in such a rush to hook up!
Oh my, what a nutter.
LOL!! Yeah, those are some bad dates! Cant say Ive ever had any quite that bad either.
As for the Taurus guy..... he probably drove that biotch crazy! Trust me, Im completely sane (well sorta.... at least my shrink says so) and when I was married to my Bull.... it was enough to drive a girl nuts... hence the therapy bill questioning my sanity!!! Although, I never jumped on the hood of a car... he wasnt worth risking my life over!
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What's the worst date that you've ever been on?
1- I went out on a dinner date with this guy one time. When the server took our orders - I placed my order and my date declined stating THAT HE WASN'T HUNGRY! (I was a little put off at having to technically eat alone) When my food arrives I proceed to eat and have conversation with him in between bites. When the waiter stops by to see if I needed anything, my date asks for utensils. The utensils arrive and he proceeds to eat from my plate! I shoved the plate to his chest, tell him to eat it all, and look at him in amazement as he scarfs down every morsel while asking me if I want some. Unreal! He was a Sagittarius, this Guy. He reminded me of my ex - Can't give you anything without it being something in it for him.
2- The second worse date went perfectly until we were parked in his driveway saying good night. Out of nowhere a chic jumps on the hood of his car. He throws the car in reverse and drives onto the street and around the block - the girl never let go and was cursing him out the whole time. This was the first time I was scared of any woman (besides my Mom)-any chic whose objective is to curse a man out instead of save her life is of another breed - I like being alive. Thank God she was too fixated on him to pay me any attention. The next day he called to check on me and I told him whatever he did to her (sexually)- I didn't want any! LOL! This guy was a Taurus.