
GemiMay
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Posted by Undine
The love one feels is always unconditional, unless it's not love. Love doesn't depend on your "conditions". If it did, any of us would be able to chose exactly who to love or not to love, when to love, and for how long. We may claim that certain conditions allowed love to happen. Yet another time, with a different person, similar conditions are met, yet no love is felt whatsoever, even if we would "love" to. People don't really know what makes them fall in, or out of, love.
What is highly conditional for many, is when they choose to show love.
One is a feeling. The other one, a transaction.

Posted by Saturn_Returns
It only exists between offspring and their parents. But, like everything in life, nothing's guaranteed.
Anyone who says otherwise needs to stop watching those stupid Hallmark movies and seek out a therapist.

Posted by Saturn_ReturnsPosted by GemiMayPosted by Saturn_Returns
It only exists between offspring and their parents. But, like everything in life, nothing's guaranteed.
Anyone who says otherwise needs to stop watching those stupid Hallmark movies and seek out a therapist.
If you found out your offspring raped someone - admitted it so no doubts in their guilt - I say it’s dishonored. Can’t live THAT even if I gave birth to it.
Please read properly and stop cherry-picking the contents of my post.
As I said before: "But, like everything in life, nothing's guaranteed."click to expand



Posted by GemiMay
Loving unconditionally isn’t even true for children. If child is a molester or a piece of shit - I am sorry. Got to draw a line somewhere…

Posted by Saturn_ReturnsPosted by GemiMayPosted by Saturn_Returns
It only exists between offspring and their parents. But, like everything in life, nothing's guaranteed.
Anyone who says otherwise needs to stop watching those stupid Hallmark movies and seek out a therapist.
If you found out your offspring raped someone - admitted it so no doubts in their guilt - I say it’s dishonored. Can’t live THAT even if I gave birth to it.
Please read properly and stop cherry-picking the contents of my post.
As I said before: "But, like everything in life, nothing's guaranteed."click to expand



Posted by GemiMay
People throwing this term around like something real and I say - imagine love without conditions. Isn’t it saddest shit ever?
Nothing is done to person who love is supposed to make love go away.
Be an asshole - still loved— No fucking way!
Loving unconditionally isn’t even true for children. If child is a molester or a piece of shit - I am sorry. Got to draw a line somewhere…
So what is your opinion on this myth?

Posted by Enfant-Terrible-IIPosted by GemiMay
People throwing this term around like something real and I say - imagine love without conditions. Isn’t it saddest shit ever?
Nothing is done to person who love is supposed to make love go away.
Be an asshole - still loved— No fucking way!
Loving unconditionally isn’t even true for children. If child is a molester or a piece of shit - I am sorry. Got to draw a line somewhere…
So what is your opinion on this myth?
I think it's more about the person you CAN unconditionally love, and not the concept itself.
I definitely have a person I love unconditionally flaws and all, but that's because I know she cannot hurt me no matter what cuz I get her and know where she's coming from. Only way I wouldn't love her unconditionally is if she literally became a completely different person with different personality,character,history, all things that made her her. But science fiction is not what we discussing here..
I dunno, either you've known it or you haven't...click to expand

Posted by GemiMayPosted by Enfant-Terrible-IIPosted by GemiMay
People throwing this term around like something real and I say - imagine love without conditions. Isn’t it saddest shit ever?
Nothing is done to person who love is supposed to make love go away.
Be an asshole - still loved— No fucking way!
Loving unconditionally isn’t even true for children. If child is a molester or a piece of shit - I am sorry. Got to draw a line somewhere…
So what is your opinion on this myth?
I think it's more about the person you CAN unconditionally love, and not the concept itself.
I definitely have a person I love unconditionally flaws and all, but that's because I know she cannot hurt me no matter what cuz I get her and know where she's coming from. Only way I wouldn't love her unconditionally is if she literally became a completely different person with different personality,character,history, all things that made her her. But science fiction is not what we discussing here..
I dunno, either you've known it or you haven't...
How odd is this;
I definitely have a person I love unconditionallyclick to expand

Posted by Enfant-Terrible-IIPosted by GemiMayPosted by Enfant-Terrible-IIPosted by GemiMay
People throwing this term around like something real and I say - imagine love without conditions. Isn’t it saddest shit ever?
Nothing is done to person who love is supposed to make love go away.
Be an asshole - still loved— No fucking way!
Loving unconditionally isn’t even true for children. If child is a molester or a piece of shit - I am sorry. Got to draw a line somewhere…
So what is your opinion on this myth?
I think it's more about the person you CAN unconditionally love, and not the concept itself.
I definitely have a person I love unconditionally flaws and all, but that's because I know she cannot hurt me no matter what cuz I get her and know where she's coming from. Only way I wouldn't love her unconditionally is if she literally became a completely different person with different personality,character,history, all things that made her her. But science fiction is not what we discussing here..
I dunno, either you've known it or you haven't...
How odd is this;
I definitely have a person I love unconditionally
You don't?click to expand

Posted by FindingbalancePosted by KachiPosted by FindingbalancePosted by Kachi
Life itself is conditional, so anything under that umbrella is bound to follow the same pattern.
I think this belief has religious origins which is manipulative at its core. It's the same as the teachings r/t forgiveness, regardless of the wrongdoing made to you.
I doubt it's religious. I myself am spiritual but absolutely not religious. I have no problem with supporting others religious beliefs as long as they do no harm, but you're not gonna find me in church.
Religious influence in society, regardless if you're religious or not.
We're also inclined to seek pleasure rather than pain ie staying in an unhealthy romantic relationship. I guess it's better to live in blissful daydreams rather than face the facts of reality. It's either we run or be on guard against pain.
A better question is, who do you love unconditionally?
Society didn't influence this for me. On the contrary, it caused me to question it very much.
Perhaps. But several people here are speaking of it in regards to exs. Whom they themselves left. Which implies that while they loved, they also enforced boundaries.
Several people. Relatives, others. Working on applying it to myself 100% of the time. That's difficult, but that's something for me to work on regarding why. Ironically I believe that's the one person everyone SHOULD have it for. Not always easy. But worthy things usually aren't.click to expand

Posted by KachiPosted by Enfant-Terrible-IIPosted by GemiMay
People throwing this term around like something real and I say - imagine love without conditions. Isn’t it saddest shit ever?
Nothing is done to person who love is supposed to make love go away.
Be an asshole - still loved— No fucking way!
Loving unconditionally isn’t even true for children. If child is a molester or a piece of shit - I am sorry. Got to draw a line somewhere…
So what is your opinion on this myth?
I think it's more about the person you CAN unconditionally love, and not the concept itself.
I definitely have a person I love unconditionally flaws and all, but that's because I know she cannot hurt me no matter what cuz I get her and know where she's coming from. Only way I wouldn't love her unconditionally is if she literally became a completely different person with different personality,character,history, all things that made her her. But science fiction is not what we discussing here..
I dunno, either you've known it or you haven't...
That is conditional.
"but that's because I know she cannot hurt me no matter what cuz I get her and know where she's coming from."
We all have that soft spot for someone. It doesn't mean it's unconditional.click to expand

Posted by ImperfectStormPosted by KachiPosted by ImperfectStormPosted by KachiPosted by ImperfectStormPosted by KachiPosted by ImperfectStormPosted by Kachi
Life itself is conditional, so anything under that umbrella is bound to follow the same pattern.
I think this belief has religious origins which is manipulative at its core. It's the same as the teachings r/t forgiveness, regardless of the wrongdoing made to you.
True, life is conditional but you can continue to love someone even after death (if they’ve passed away) love is not confined by the same conditions as life is. I have not seen my mom since she passed away in 2009 but I don’t love her any less than I did back then. So no, love is not limited by the same conditions as life.
Was she a good mom?
Yea she was.. she was a fierce, protective mama bear. She was also an alcoholic and pill addict. Again, multi-faceted like the rest of us.
But she was still a good mom to you. She was a good parent despite her own struggles and even more commendable that she was capable to protect her child.
Other people don't have that. They could be abused or neglected by their own parent in that same circumstances.
There has to be at least one good thing that outweighs everything and that one thing can be a current, most need by the receiver.
There aren't any exceptions where one can love unconditionally while another is incapable of it. It's all based on circumstances.
There was a time when I was a kid that she passed out with a lit cigarette in her hand with spaghetti noodles boiling on the stove, or the time in my 20s when I got home from work and found her passed out in the bathtub and by the time I got to her, the bath water was cold and her teeth were chattering because she had been passed out so long. It was traumatic for me because she could have drowned. Then the time she stole the Vicodin out of my purse that were ordered for me after I had my wisdom teeth pulled.
There were definitely traumatizing moments when people would say that she failed as a mother. But she lost her own mom when she was only 17 so I’ve learned to look at both the bad and the good and love her as a whole person that was doing the best she could. After the bathtub incident I had to put her out (she was staying with me at the time because she was basically homeless). So again, unconditional love doesn’t mean that you have to be anyones doormat. It just means you don’t stop loving that person based on their behavior or performance.
I didn't imply you were a doormat.
Where did I say that? I pointed out that there has to be at least one good thing that outweighs everything.
Your mom was protective of you, despite her own struggles.
Oh no, I wasn’t saying that you said I was a doormat.. but that seems to be the original point of this thread, that to love unconditionally implies self sacrificial doormat type of people. I definitely wasn’t saying that pointedly toward you, I was just summarizing my point so I apologize if it came across that way.click to expand

Posted by FindingbalancePosted by GemiMayPosted by FindingbalancePosted by KachiPosted by FindingbalancePosted by Kachi
Life itself is conditional, so anything under that umbrella is bound to follow the same pattern.
I think this belief has religious origins which is manipulative at its core. It's the same as the teachings r/t forgiveness, regardless of the wrongdoing made to you.
I doubt it's religious. I myself am spiritual but absolutely not religious. I have no problem with supporting others religious beliefs as long as they do no harm, but you're not gonna find me in church.
Religious influence in society, regardless if you're religious or not.
We're also inclined to seek pleasure rather than pain ie staying in an unhealthy romantic relationship. I guess it's better to live in blissful daydreams rather than face the facts of reality. It's either we run or be on guard against pain.
A better question is, who do you love unconditionally?
Society didn't influence this for me. On the contrary, it caused me to question it very much.
Perhaps. But several people here are speaking of it in regards to exs. Whom they themselves left. Which implies that while they loved, they also enforced boundaries.
Several people. Relatives, others. Working on applying it to myself 100% of the time. That's difficult, but that's something for me to work on regarding why. Ironically I believe that's the one person everyone SHOULD have it for. Not always easy. But worthy things usually aren't.
Are you a dreamer? Your post contains a lot of water and not too many cold facts. It seems you are far from being realistic.
I can be. But I'm quite a realist. I'm more air than water in my chart I believe. My only water is Scorpio. I've got all three air signs in my chart though.
I'm just not bitter. Maybe that makes me a dreamer?click to expand

Posted by FindingbalancePosted by GemiMayPosted by FindingbalancePosted by KachiPosted by FindingbalancePosted by Kachi
Life itself is conditional, so anything under that umbrella is bound to follow the same pattern.
I think this belief has religious origins which is manipulative at its core. It's the same as the teachings r/t forgiveness, regardless of the wrongdoing made to you.
I doubt it's religious. I myself am spiritual but absolutely not religious. I have no problem with supporting others religious beliefs as long as they do no harm, but you're not gonna find me in church.
Religious influence in society, regardless if you're religious or not.
We're also inclined to seek pleasure rather than pain ie staying in an unhealthy romantic relationship. I guess it's better to live in blissful daydreams rather than face the facts of reality. It's either we run or be on guard against pain.
A better question is, who do you love unconditionally?
Society didn't influence this for me. On the contrary, it caused me to question it very much.
Perhaps. But several people here are speaking of it in regards to exs. Whom they themselves left. Which implies that while they loved, they also enforced boundaries.
Several people. Relatives, others. Working on applying it to myself 100% of the time. That's difficult, but that's something for me to work on regarding why. Ironically I believe that's the one person everyone SHOULD have it for. Not always easy. But worthy things usually aren't.
Are you a dreamer? Your post contains a lot of water and not too many cold facts. It seems you are far from being realistic.
I can be. But I'm quite a realist. I'm more air than water in my chart I believe. My only water is Scorpio. I've got all three air signs in my chart though.
I'm just not bitter. Maybe that makes me a dreamer?click to expand

Posted by FindingbalancePosted by GemiMayPosted by FindingbalancePosted by GemiMayPosted by FindingbalancePosted by KachiPosted by FindingbalancePosted by Kachi
Life itself is conditional, so anything under that umbrella is bound to follow the same pattern.
I think this belief has religious origins which is manipulative at its core. It's the same as the teachings r/t forgiveness, regardless of the wrongdoing made to you.
I doubt it's religious. I myself am spiritual but absolutely not religious. I have no problem with supporting others religious beliefs as long as they do no harm, but you're not gonna find me in church.
Religious influence in society, regardless if you're religious or not.
We're also inclined to seek pleasure rather than pain ie staying in an unhealthy romantic relationship. I guess it's better to live in blissful daydreams rather than face the facts of reality. It's either we run or be on guard against pain.
A better question is, who do you love unconditionally?
Society didn't influence this for me. On the contrary, it caused me to question it very much.
Perhaps. But several people here are speaking of it in regards to exs. Whom they themselves left. Which implies that while they loved, they also enforced boundaries.
Several people. Relatives, others. Working on applying it to myself 100% of the time. That's difficult, but that's something for me to work on regarding why. Ironically I believe that's the one person everyone SHOULD have it for. Not always easy. But worthy things usually aren't.
Are you a dreamer? Your post contains a lot of water and not too many cold facts. It seems you are far from being realistic.
I can be. But I'm quite a realist. I'm more air than water in my chart I believe. My only water is Scorpio. I've got all three air signs in my chart though.
I'm just not bitter. Maybe that makes me a dreamer?
If you consider people who are down to Earth realistic as bitter - I have to say - you need some rethinking to do or you might grow up being dilusional
Reality is a matter of perspective. Yours is different than mine. I refuse to allow life to imbitter me to the point of believing in a reality where love cannot be unconditional. I'm quite happy on my path. It has given me peace I would have never have known without it.click to expand

Posted by Jumpin_JupiterPosted by FindingbalancePosted by GemiMayPosted by FindingbalancePosted by KachiPosted by FindingbalancePosted by Kachi
Life itself is conditional, so anything under that umbrella is bound to follow the same pattern.
I think this belief has religious origins which is manipulative at its core. It's the same as the teachings r/t forgiveness, regardless of the wrongdoing made to you.
I doubt it's religious. I myself am spiritual but absolutely not religious. I have no problem with supporting others religious beliefs as long as they do no harm, but you're not gonna find me in church.
Religious influence in society, regardless if you're religious or not.
We're also inclined to seek pleasure rather than pain ie staying in an unhealthy romantic relationship. I guess it's better to live in blissful daydreams rather than face the facts of reality. It's either we run or be on guard against pain.
A better question is, who do you love unconditionally?
Society didn't influence this for me. On the contrary, it caused me to question it very much.
Perhaps. But several people here are speaking of it in regards to exs. Whom they themselves left. Which implies that while they loved, they also enforced boundaries.
Several people. Relatives, others. Working on applying it to myself 100% of the time. That's difficult, but that's something for me to work on regarding why. Ironically I believe that's the one person everyone SHOULD have it for. Not always easy. But worthy things usually aren't.
Are you a dreamer? Your post contains a lot of water and not too many cold facts. It seems you are far from being realistic.
I can be. But I'm quite a realist. I'm more air than water in my chart I believe. My only water is Scorpio. I've got all three air signs in my chart though.
I'm just not bitter. Maybe that makes me a dreamer?
Air dominants are far from being bitter. And we sure as hell are realists. As real as we can be. But the op don't know that cus her being fire dominant she tries and pick the bitter aspects but unfortunately can't find one.
Look aye. Which air sign dominates you?click to expand


Posted by GemiMayPosted by Jumpin_JupiterPosted by FindingbalancePosted by GemiMayPosted by FindingbalancePosted by KachiPosted by FindingbalancePosted by Kachi
Life itself is conditional, so anything under that umbrella is bound to follow the same pattern.
I think this belief has religious origins which is manipulative at its core. It's the same as the teachings r/t forgiveness, regardless of the wrongdoing made to you.
I doubt it's religious. I myself am spiritual but absolutely not religious. I have no problem with supporting others religious beliefs as long as they do no harm, but you're not gonna find me in church.
Religious influence in society, regardless if you're religious or not.
We're also inclined to seek pleasure rather than pain ie staying in an unhealthy romantic relationship. I guess it's better to live in blissful daydreams rather than face the facts of reality. It's either we run or be on guard against pain.
A better question is, who do you love unconditionally?
Society didn't influence this for me. On the contrary, it caused me to question it very much.
Perhaps. But several people here are speaking of it in regards to exs. Whom they themselves left. Which implies that while they loved, they also enforced boundaries.
Several people. Relatives, others. Working on applying it to myself 100% of the time. That's difficult, but that's something for me to work on regarding why. Ironically I believe that's the one person everyone SHOULD have it for. Not always easy. But worthy things usually aren't.
Are you a dreamer? Your post contains a lot of water and not too many cold facts. It seems you are far from being realistic.
I can be. But I'm quite a realist. I'm more air than water in my chart I believe. My only water is Scorpio. I've got all three air signs in my chart though.
I'm just not bitter. Maybe that makes me a dreamer?
Air dominants are far from being bitter. And we sure as hell are realists. As real as we can be. But the op don't know that cus her being fire dominant she tries and pick the bitter aspects but unfortunately can't find one.
Look aye. Which air sign dominates you?
Why are you posting shit that is not true?
How am I fire dominant having Leo and Aries and that’s it? Are you seriously in need of attention so you read people charts and study them?..WRONGLY—click to expand


Posted by Jumpin_JupiterPosted by GemiMayPosted by Jumpin_JupiterPosted by FindingbalancePosted by GemiMayPosted by FindingbalancePosted by KachiPosted by FindingbalancePosted by Kachi
Life itself is conditional, so anything under that umbrella is bound to follow the same pattern.
I think this belief has religious origins which is manipulative at its core. It's the same as the teachings r/t forgiveness, regardless of the wrongdoing made to you.
I doubt it's religious. I myself am spiritual but absolutely not religious. I have no problem with supporting others religious beliefs as long as they do no harm, but you're not gonna find me in church.
Religious influence in society, regardless if you're religious or not.
We're also inclined to seek pleasure rather than pain ie staying in an unhealthy romantic relationship. I guess it's better to live in blissful daydreams rather than face the facts of reality. It's either we run or be on guard against pain.
A better question is, who do you love unconditionally?
Society didn't influence this for me. On the contrary, it caused me to question it very much.
Perhaps. But several people here are speaking of it in regards to exs. Whom they themselves left. Which implies that while they loved, they also enforced boundaries.
Several people. Relatives, others. Working on applying it to myself 100% of the time. That's difficult, but that's something for me to work on regarding why. Ironically I believe that's the one person everyone SHOULD have it for. Not always easy. But worthy things usually aren't.
Are you a dreamer? Your post contains a lot of water and not too many cold facts. It seems you are far from being realistic.
I can be. But I'm quite a realist. I'm more air than water in my chart I believe. My only water is Scorpio. I've got all three air signs in my chart though.
I'm just not bitter. Maybe that makes me a dreamer?
Air dominants are far from being bitter. And we sure as hell are realists. As real as we can be. But the op don't know that cus her being fire dominant she tries and pick the bitter aspects but unfortunately can't find one.
Look aye. Which air sign dominates you?
Why are you posting shit that is not true?
How am I fire dominant having Leo and Aries and that’s it? Are you seriously in need of attention so you read people charts and study them?..WRONGLY—
My astrology days are behind me now. I been stop reading charts. I'm far more interesting in something else. Everybody's secret is safe with me posting their charts on the boards cus I'm no longer interesting in reading it unless I'm tagged to read it.click to expand


Posted by GemiMay
My phone hanged. What I meant is you said
I definitely have a person I love unconditionally…
And you follow by:
Only way I wouldn't love her unconditionally is if she literally became a completely different person…
I could that odd. So what is it?

Posted by KachiPosted by Enfant-Terrible-IIPosted by GemiMay
People throwing this term around like something real and I say - imagine love without conditions. Isn’t it saddest shit ever?
Nothing is done to person who love is supposed to make love go away.
Be an asshole - still loved— No fucking way!
Loving unconditionally isn’t even true for children. If child is a molester or a piece of shit - I am sorry. Got to draw a line somewhere…
So what is your opinion on this myth?
I think it's more about the person you CAN unconditionally love, and not the concept itself.
I definitely have a person I love unconditionally flaws and all, but that's because I know she cannot hurt me no matter what cuz I get her and know where she's coming from. Only way I wouldn't love her unconditionally is if she literally became a completely different person with different personality,character,history, all things that made her her. But science fiction is not what we discussing here..
I dunno, either you've known it or you haven't...
That is conditional.
"but that's because I know she cannot hurt me no matter what cuz I get her and know where she's coming from."
We all have that soft spot for someone. It doesn't mean it's unconditional.click to expand

Posted by Enfant-Terrible-IIPosted by GemiMay
My phone hanged. What I meant is you said
I definitely have a person I love unconditionally…
And you follow by:
Only way I wouldn't love her unconditionally is if she literally became a completely different person…
I could that odd. So what is it?
No, you took that too figurably, the part about the person turning into someone else. I meant it literally and was only intended to illustrate my point.. because a person cannot become a completely different person literally. So unless that happened the love is unconditional regardless of what they go through in life I will always be by their side.click to expand

Posted by GemiMayPosted by Jumpin_JupiterPosted by GemiMayPosted by Jumpin_JupiterPosted by FindingbalancePosted by GemiMayPosted by FindingbalancePosted by KachiPosted by FindingbalancePosted by Kachi
Life itself is conditional, so anything under that umbrella is bound to follow the same pattern.
I think this belief has religious origins which is manipulative at its core. It's the same as the teachings r/t forgiveness, regardless of the wrongdoing made to you.
I doubt it's religious. I myself am spiritual but absolutely not religious. I have no problem with supporting others religious beliefs as long as they do no harm, but you're not gonna find me in church.
Religious influence in society, regardless if you're religious or not.
We're also inclined to seek pleasure rather than pain ie staying in an unhealthy romantic relationship. I guess it's better to live in blissful daydreams rather than face the facts of reality. It's either we run or be on guard against pain.
A better question is, who do you love unconditionally?
Society didn't influence this for me. On the contrary, it caused me to question it very much.
Perhaps. But several people here are speaking of it in regards to exs. Whom they themselves left. Which implies that while they loved, they also enforced boundaries.
Several people. Relatives, others. Working on applying it to myself 100% of the time. That's difficult, but that's something for me to work on regarding why. Ironically I believe that's the one person everyone SHOULD have it for. Not always easy. But worthy things usually aren't.
Are you a dreamer? Your post contains a lot of water and not too many cold facts. It seems you are far from being realistic.
I can be. But I'm quite a realist. I'm more air than water in my chart I believe. My only water is Scorpio. I've got all three air signs in my chart though.
I'm just not bitter. Maybe that makes me a dreamer?
Air dominants are far from being bitter. And we sure as hell are realists. As real as we can be. But the op don't know that cus her being fire dominant she tries and pick the bitter aspects but unfortunately can't find one.
Look aye. Which air sign dominates you?
Why are you posting shit that is not true?
How am I fire dominant having Leo and Aries and that’s it? Are you seriously in need of attention so you read people charts and study them?..WRONGLY—
My astrology days are behind me now. I been stop reading charts. I'm far more interesting in something else. Everybody's secret is safe with me posting their charts on the boards cus I'm no longer interesting in reading it unless I'm tagged to read it.
So why did you say I am fire dominant? Because you just…you?click to expand

Posted by GemiMayPosted by Enfant-Terrible-IIPosted by GemiMay
My phone hanged. What I meant is you said
I definitely have a person I love unconditionally…
And you follow by:
Only way I wouldn't love her unconditionally is if she literally became a completely different person…
I could that odd. So what is it?
No, you took that too figurably, the part about the person turning into someone else. I meant it literally and was only intended to illustrate my point.. because a person cannot become a completely different person literally. So unless that happened the love is unconditional regardless of what they go through in life I will always be by their side.
Your post was a mess and this reply even bigger mess.
You messed up. Just shut up and it’ll be forgotten soon.click to expand

Posted by Enfant-Terrible-IIPosted by GemiMayPosted by Enfant-Terrible-IIPosted by GemiMay
My phone hanged. What I meant is you said
I definitely have a person I love unconditionally…
And you follow by:
Only way I wouldn't love her unconditionally is if she literally became a completely different person…
I could that odd. So what is it?
No, you took that too figurably, the part about the person turning into someone else. I meant it literally and was only intended to illustrate my point.. because a person cannot become a completely different person literally. So unless that happened the love is unconditional regardless of what they go through in life I will always be by their side.
Your post was a mess and this reply even bigger mess.
You messed up. Just shut up and it’ll be forgotten soon.
Plz go back and read your own text and try make sense of that first....
"I could that odd. So what is it?"
The only ppl who fuck up typing like that are those with sausage fingers. How fat are you anyway?click to expand

Posted by GemiMay
People throwing this term around like something real and I say - imagine love without conditions. Isn’t it saddest shit ever?
Nothing is done to person who love is supposed to make love go away.
Be an asshole - still loved— No fucking way!
Loving unconditionally isn’t even true for children. If child is a molester or a piece of shit - I am sorry. Got to draw a line somewhere…
So what is your opinion on this myth?

Posted by GemiMayPosted by Enfant-Terrible-IIPosted by GemiMayPosted by Enfant-Terrible-IIPosted by GemiMay
My phone hanged. What I meant is you said
I definitely have a person I love unconditionally…
And you follow by:
Only way I wouldn't love her unconditionally is if she literally became a completely different person…
I could that odd. So what is it?
No, you took that too figurably, the part about the person turning into someone else. I meant it literally and was only intended to illustrate my point.. because a person cannot become a completely different person literally. So unless that happened the love is unconditional regardless of what they go through in life I will always be by their side.
Your post was a mess and this reply even bigger mess.
You messed up. Just shut up and it’ll be forgotten soon.
Plz go back and read your own text and try make sense of that first....
"I could that odd. So what is it?"
The only ppl who fuck up typing like that are those with sausage fingers. How fat are you anyway?
You are pitiful creature!
You REPLIED to my post and when I grabbed your tail - you shit on my post in defense?
What kind of man are you? Definitely not the one you trying to pretend to be.click to expand

Posted by Enfant-Terrible-IIPosted by GemiMay
People throwing this term around like something real and I say - imagine love without conditions. Isn’t it saddest shit ever?
Nothing is done to person who love is supposed to make love go away.
Be an asshole - still loved— No fucking way!
Loving unconditionally isn’t even true for children. If child is a molester or a piece of shit - I am sorry. Got to draw a line somewhere…
So what is your opinion on this myth?
1. "Be an asshole- still loved" Yes, if the right conditions are aligned for you with that particular person. No person is exclusively an asshole . Now if this is about you & your loverboy come out with the actual issue at hand instead of beating around the bush,.. like, asshole how? That's a very broad definition
2. There are tons of ppl who've murdered and done all kinds of shit sitting on death row or behind bars for life, who have people (family,friends) that love them and visit them. You can condemn a person's actions without condemning the whole person bc no one act - or even a series of bad choices - can solely define a person.
That's not to say there aren't people who are not loved by anyone bc they have no redeeming qualities.click to expand

Posted by GemiMayPosted by Enfant-Terrible-IIPosted by GemiMay
People throwing this term around like something real and I say - imagine love without conditions. Isn’t it saddest shit ever?
Nothing is done to person who love is supposed to make love go away.
Be an asshole - still loved— No fucking way!
Loving unconditionally isn’t even true for children. If child is a molester or a piece of shit - I am sorry. Got to draw a line somewhere…
So what is your opinion on this myth?
1. "Be an asshole- still loved" Yes, if the right conditions are aligned for you with that particular person. No person is exclusively an asshole . Now if this is about you & your loverboy come out with the actual issue at hand instead of beating around the bush,.. like, asshole how? That's a very broad definition
2. There are tons of ppl who've murdered and done all kinds of shit sitting on death row or behind bars for life, who have people (family,friends) that love them and visit them. You can condemn a person's actions without condemning the whole person bc no one act - or even a series of bad choices - can solely define a person.
That's not to say there aren't people who are not loved by anyone bc they have no redeeming qualities.
I thought you a few somewhat smart. Until these inane posts you keep on making and it doesnt show brain cells presence.
I said more than once - I do NOT date assholes so the answer is - to me once is an asshole - unconditional love morphing into very conditional love where being an asshole means termination of love. Understood?
And if many people who raped and murdered people are loved unconditionally by their family still - I am very sorry that people are this stupid. Yes…SERIOUS of bad choices define person as stupid and if those are crimes - fuck that ‘person’.
Got to go.click to expand

Posted by Enfant-Terrible-IIPosted by GemiMayPosted by Enfant-Terrible-IIPosted by GemiMay
People throwing this term around like something real and I say - imagine love without conditions. Isn’t it saddest shit ever?
Nothing is done to person who love is supposed to make love go away.
Be an asshole - still loved— No fucking way!
Loving unconditionally isn’t even true for children. If child is a molester or a piece of shit - I am sorry. Got to draw a line somewhere…
So what is your opinion on this myth?
1. "Be an asshole- still loved" Yes, if the right conditions are aligned for you with that particular person. No person is exclusively an asshole . Now if this is about you & your loverboy come out with the actual issue at hand instead of beating around the bush,.. like, asshole how? That's a very broad definition
2. There are tons of ppl who've murdered and done all kinds of shit sitting on death row or behind bars for life, who have people (family,friends) that love them and visit them. You can condemn a person's actions without condemning the whole person bc no one act - or even a series of bad choices - can solely define a person.
That's not to say there aren't people who are not loved by anyone bc they have no redeeming qualities.
I thought you a few somewhat smart. Until these inane posts you keep on making and it doesnt show brain cells presence.
I said more than once - I do NOT date assholes so the answer is - to me once is an asshole - unconditional love morphing into very conditional love where being an asshole means termination of love. Understood?
And if many people who raped and murdered people are loved unconditionally by their family still - I am very sorry that people are this stupid. Yes…SERIOUS of bad choices define person as stupid and if those are crimes - fuck that ‘person’.
Got to go.
I'm not trying to convince you to do anything, are you mental? You asked, I shared my perspective. Have some fucking wine and chill the fuck outclick to expand

Posted by GemiMayPosted by Enfant-Terrible-IIPosted by GemiMayPosted by Enfant-Terrible-IIPosted by GemiMay
People throwing this term around like something real and I say - imagine love without conditions. Isn’t it saddest shit ever?
Nothing is done to person who love is supposed to make love go away.
Be an asshole - still loved— No fucking way!
Loving unconditionally isn’t even true for children. If child is a molester or a piece of shit - I am sorry. Got to draw a line somewhere…
So what is your opinion on this myth?
1. "Be an asshole- still loved" Yes, if the right conditions are aligned for you with that particular person. No person is exclusively an asshole . Now if this is about you & your loverboy come out with the actual issue at hand instead of beating around the bush,.. like, asshole how? That's a very broad definition
2. There are tons of ppl who've murdered and done all kinds of shit sitting on death row or behind bars for life, who have people (family,friends) that love them and visit them. You can condemn a person's actions without condemning the whole person bc no one act - or even a series of bad choices - can solely define a person.
That's not to say there aren't people who are not loved by anyone bc they have no redeeming qualities.
I thought you a few somewhat smart. Until these inane posts you keep on making and it doesnt show brain cells presence.
I said more than once - I do NOT date assholes so the answer is - to me once is an asshole - unconditional love morphing into very conditional love where being an asshole means termination of love. Understood?
And if many people who raped and murdered people are loved unconditionally by their family still - I am very sorry that people are this stupid. Yes…SERIOUS of bad choices define person as stupid and if those are crimes - fuck that ‘person’.
Got to go.
I'm not trying to convince you to do anything, are you mental? You asked, I shared my perspective. Have some fucking wine and chill the fuck out
You COULD technically just stop replying but you decided to win the 🏆in whatever it is…and you telling ME to fuck out? Why don’t you man up and stop throwing tantrum like a middle age hysterical woman? Try. You might pass for a man.click to expand

Posted by Enfant-Terrible-IIPosted by GemiMayPosted by Enfant-Terrible-IIPosted by GemiMayPosted by Enfant-Terrible-IIPosted by GemiMay
People throwing this term around like something real and I say - imagine love without conditions. Isn’t it saddest shit ever?
Nothing is done to person who love is supposed to make love go away.
Be an asshole - still loved— No fucking way!
Loving unconditionally isn’t even true for children. If child is a molester or a piece of shit - I am sorry. Got to draw a line somewhere…
So what is your opinion on this myth?
1. "Be an asshole- still loved" Yes, if the right conditions are aligned for you with that particular person. No person is exclusively an asshole . Now if this is about you & your loverboy come out with the actual issue at hand instead of beating around the bush,.. like, asshole how? That's a very broad definition
2. There are tons of ppl who've murdered and done all kinds of shit sitting on death row or behind bars for life, who have people (family,friends) that love them and visit them. You can condemn a person's actions without condemning the whole person bc no one act - or even a series of bad choices - can solely define a person.
That's not to say there aren't people who are not loved by anyone bc they have no redeeming qualities.
I thought you a few somewhat smart. Until these inane posts you keep on making and it doesnt show brain cells presence.
I said more than once - I do NOT date assholes so the answer is - to me once is an asshole - unconditional love morphing into very conditional love where being an asshole means termination of love. Understood?
And if many people who raped and murdered people are loved unconditionally by their family still - I am very sorry that people are this stupid. Yes…SERIOUS of bad choices define person as stupid and if those are crimes - fuck that ‘person’.
Got to go.
I'm not trying to convince you to do anything, are you mental? You asked, I shared my perspective. Have some fucking wine and chill the fuck out
You COULD technically just stop replying but you decided to win the 🏆in whatever it is…and you telling ME to fuck out? Why don’t you man up and stop throwing tantrum like a middle age hysterical woman? Try. You might pass for a man.
You also could just stop replying.. or attacking ppl for not giving you the replies you expected to hear. Here let me hold your handclick to expand

Posted by GemiMayPosted by Enfant-Terrible-IIPosted by GemiMay
My phone hanged. What I meant is you said
I definitely have a person I love unconditionally…
And you follow by:
Only way I wouldn't love her unconditionally is if she literally became a completely different person…
I could that odd. So what is it?
No, you took that too figurably, the part about the person turning into someone else. I meant it literally and was only intended to illustrate my point.. because a person cannot become a completely different person literally. So unless that happened the love is unconditional regardless of what they go through in life I will always be by their side.
Your post was a mess and this reply even bigger mess.
You messed up. Just shut up and it’ll be forgotten soon.click to expand

Posted by GemiMay
I am not telling anyone to fuck out. Am I?
You do. It means you are upset. So you need to stop and fuck out.
I am going to stop as soon as my bf will pick me up from work…in few minutes. So far I am available to see how you are acting like a woman…it’s always fun. 😀


Posted by Enfant-Terrible-IIPosted by GemiMay
I am not telling anyone to fuck out. Am I?
You do. It means you are upset. So you need to stop and fuck out.
I am going to stop as soon as my bf will pick me up from work…in few minutes. So far I am available to see how you are acting like a woman…it’s always fun. 😀
What boyfriend? We all know you don't love him unconditionally and that he's an "asshole" lol. Pour yourself another glass of wineclick to expand


Posted by virgoOPPP
one time, i came home pretty late and dinner was ready. clothes perfectly folded 😍😍
even better than my folding 😭😭

Posted by FindingbalancePosted by Jumpin_Jupiter
It's hard for someone like me to even utter the words "I love you" to anyone let alone "I love you unconditionally". I do love my kids and all but is it necessary for me to actually say it? I can love by showing it rather than saying it.
I'm just saying plus I'm trying to get on track with the thread's subject.
Guess that depends on the other person. Some people absolutely do need to hear it, others are perfectly fine with it being unsaid but shown. As long as the receiver knows and feels loved, then it's probably just fine showing vs saying.click to expand

Posted by FindingbalancePosted by LaLueur
Applause.The beast trolled you again 🥲
Meh, in order to get trolled you have to get annoyed imo. And no one here even remotely annoyed me. I gave opinions, bantered for the sake of my own amusement and ceased when I got bored. I kind of like gemitati, she truly believes herself when she talks and some of the misunderstanding is simple language barrier I think (not this time but sometimes). Some others, eh, pedantic bores.click to expand

Posted by LaLueur
Applause.The beast trolled you again 🥲

Posted by GemiMayPosted by LaLueur
Applause.The beast trolled you again 🥲
And @Findingbalance
I wasnt sure that LaLuer was addressing me but I am not really (honestly) understanding WHY my sudden wish speaking of BS if unconditional love spiked someone’s troll alarm…I guess that is why some sees me as troll or whatever - and it is not language barrier because I am back to corporate (even government) job so…
I might be speaking better when I actually CARE what people think of me and they PAYING me well for it…
The mixed bunch on here who spewing hate and all they can is to shit over my language skills - whatever! I get paid more than you do with your super skills…as if.
It’s too bad that you do not speak the truth. Your lives are…spectacles.
I do believe that Entertainment Show at our good times emailing each other told me that people hate me because at MY age I have more going on than they do and I wasn’t sure but now I see…he was right.
BTW a lot of you are hated by those who kissing your asses and you have NO idea according to your posts! Did you know?
And for Carlos - I do not undertand how can YOU say ANYTHING unless you are a narcissist and then I understand. I do not consider you as a real man - you are the only one who is my punching bag on purpose. But level of your intelligence - I am not even satisfied by trolling you because it’s like dealing with child or mentally ill so whatever, TinMan. Don’t get wet…click to expand

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Nothing is done to person who love is supposed to make love go away.
Be an asshole - still loved— No fucking way!
Loving unconditionally isn’t even true for children. If child is a molester or a piece of shit - I am sorry. Got to draw a line somewhere…
So what is your opinion on this myth?