E. M. Henderson
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Posted by EmhendoPosted by enfant_terriblePosted by Emhendo
If any chicks wishes to be official with me, THAT'S what she's going to have to do.
So does any chick wish to be official with you?
Look at you... Trynna be nosey and hoping I say some sorry ass shit like "Nooo but I wishhhhh"
I've had many offers, just went to the movies last month and got ice and sprite thrown on my lap because I wasn't ready for commitment.
In this case, I didn't bother to tell her she has to do X, Y and Z for me to commit... I'm simply not ready for commitment.click to expand
At the end of the day though, even if a chick pursues you and makes you her whole world and agrees to all your conditions.. that can all change in an instant if her needs change. Do you intend to chain her to your bed post if that happens or what's in the Emhendo emergancy manual?
Theres gotta be at least one loyal hoe in the world.
Posted by EmhendoPosted by MoonbutterPosted by Emhendo
Just a thread I will leave here, full of photos, links, and videos for anybody that needs to be reminded not to trust these bitches.
We are living in the age of secrecy, technology, and communication without being face-to-face.
We jump into relationships too easily these days and I believe a woman has to take very drastic but necessary steps before a man should commit to her.
I won't commit to a woman unless she does the following to have my ironclad, definite trust:
*Deactivates all social media accounts and apps
*Puts a keylogger on her phone
*Has no password for her phone/I have the password
*Never at nightclubs, never out late
*No male friends
Remember, you don't have to trust a woman to love a woman.
If she wants REALLY wants commitment and she REALLY wants to be with you and you're the only man for her, she WILL do the following to have you in her life as her man.
If she doesn't agree and has a problem with that, she simply does not want you that bad.. And by all means, keep on pimping her and nothing more. No titles, just fun..
I've seen it done, I've had it done. It's possible for a woman to agree to these measures. I don't want to argue about it.
This makes you comfortable in your relationship and keeps you from subsiding to weak ass behaviors the average person will subside to; like blowing up her phone, questioning her, being up her ass..
With these measures in place, why would you give a shit when she knows you can catch her slipping at any moment?
Trust is inevitable and it is not unconditional. It has to be tended to like a little plant.
So checking on your girl's fedility and faithfulness every now and then does not make you insecure. It makes you know your bitch is properly in-line and you can continue to trust her.
If you can't trust her, why be with her?
First off, none of this ridiculous, controlling list ensures someone won’t cheat. In fact, they may cheat just to piss you off and see if they can get away with it while obeying your commandments 😆
If whoever I'm dating is 100% happy, respects me, aroused by me..
Everything you saying don't even make sense. That WOULD NOT HAPPEN..
I've seen it done, I've had it done, I'm not the only one out here taking extra measures with millennial girls.click to expand
It’s all well and good to have standards and boundaries. But has this actually worked for you?
And for how long...?
What’s the longest relationship you’ve had? And how did it end.
Posted by LadyNeptunePosted by EmhendoPosted by MoonbutterPosted by Emhendo
Just a thread I will leave here, full of photos, links, and videos for anybody that needs to be reminded not to trust these bitches.
We are living in the age of secrecy, technology, and communication without being face-to-face.
We jump into relationships too easily these days and I believe a woman has to take very drastic but necessary steps before a man should commit to her.
I won't commit to a woman unless she does the following to have my ironclad, definite trust:
*Deactivates all social media accounts and apps
*Puts a keylogger on her phone
*Has no password for her phone/I have the password
*Never at nightclubs, never out late
*No male friends
Remember, you don't have to trust a woman to love a woman.
If she wants REALLY wants commitment and she REALLY wants to be with you and you're the only man for her, she WILL do the following to have you in her life as her man.
If she doesn't agree and has a problem with that, she simply does not want you that bad.. And by all means, keep on pimping her and nothing more. No titles, just fun..
I've seen it done, I've had it done. It's possible for a woman to agree to these measures. I don't want to argue about it.
This makes you comfortable in your relationship and keeps you from subsiding to weak ass behaviors the average person will subside to; like blowing up her phone, questioning her, being up her ass..
With these measures in place, why would you give a shit when she knows you can catch her slipping at any moment?
Trust is inevitable and it is not unconditional. It has to be tended to like a little plant.
So checking on your girl's fedility and faithfulness every now and then does not make you insecure. It makes you know your bitch is properly in-line and you can continue to trust her.
If you can't trust her, why be with her?
First off, none of this ridiculous, controlling list ensures someone won’t cheat. In fact, they may cheat just to piss you off and see if they can get away with it while obeying your commandments 😆
If whoever I'm dating is 100% happy, respects me, aroused by me..
Everything you saying don't even make sense. That WOULD NOT HAPPEN..
I've seen it done, I've had it done, I'm not the only one out here taking extra measures with millennial girls.
It’s all well and good to have standards and boundaries. But has this actually worked for you?
And for how long...?
What’s the longest relationship you’ve had? And how did it end.
click to expand
It has worked, she was simply just a woman willing to do anything to grant my trust for a long term relationship..
What had happened is that I went back to Chicago, because my dreams come first. I used to live in Cincinnati and Indianapolis.
Other than that, the downfall is nobody's business.
Posted by EmhendoPosted by LadyNeptunePosted by EmhendoPosted by MoonbutterPosted by Emhendo
Just a thread I will leave here, full of photos, links, and videos for anybody that needs to be reminded not to trust these bitches.
We are living in the age of secrecy, technology, and communication without being face-to-face.
We jump into relationships too easily these days and I believe a woman has to take very drastic but necessary steps before a man should commit to her.
I won't commit to a woman unless she does the following to have my ironclad, definite trust:
*Deactivates all social media accounts and apps
*Puts a keylogger on her phone
*Has no password for her phone/I have the password
*Never at nightclubs, never out late
*No male friends
Remember, you don't have to trust a woman to love a woman.
If she wants REALLY wants commitment and she REALLY wants to be with you and you're the only man for her, she WILL do the following to have you in her life as her man.
If she doesn't agree and has a problem with that, she simply does not want you that bad.. And by all means, keep on pimping her and nothing more. No titles, just fun..
I've seen it done, I've had it done. It's possible for a woman to agree to these measures. I don't want to argue about it.
This makes you comfortable in your relationship and keeps you from subsiding to weak ass behaviors the average person will subside to; like blowing up her phone, questioning her, being up her ass..
With these measures in place, why would you give a shit when she knows you can catch her slipping at any moment?
Trust is inevitable and it is not unconditional. It has to be tended to like a little plant.
So checking on your girl's fedility and faithfulness every now and then does not make you insecure. It makes you know your bitch is properly in-line and you can continue to trust her.
If you can't trust her, why be with her?
First off, none of this ridiculous, controlling list ensures someone won’t cheat. In fact, they may cheat just to piss you off and see if they can get away with it while obeying your commandments 😆
If whoever I'm dating is 100% happy, respects me, aroused by me..
Everything you saying don't even make sense. That WOULD NOT HAPPEN..
I've seen it done, I've had it done, I'm not the only one out here taking extra measures with millennial girls.
It’s all well and good to have standards and boundaries. But has this actually worked for you?
And for how long...?
What’s the longest relationship you’ve had? And how did it end.
It has worked, she was simply just a woman willing to do anything to grant my trust for a long term relationship..
What had happened is that I went back to Chicago, because my dreams come first. I used to live in Cincinnati and Indianapolis.
Other than that, the downfall is nobody's business.click to expand
How long was the relationship?
Posted by LadyNeptunePosted by EmhendoPosted by LadyNeptunePosted by EmhendoPosted by MoonbutterPosted by Emhendo
Just a thread I will leave here, full of photos, links, and videos for anybody that needs to be reminded not to trust these bitches.
We are living in the age of secrecy, technology, and communication without being face-to-face.
We jump into relationships too easily these days and I believe a woman has to take very drastic but necessary steps before a man should commit to her.
I won't commit to a woman unless she does the following to have my ironclad, definite trust:
*Deactivates all social media accounts and apps
*Puts a keylogger on her phone
*Has no password for her phone/I have the password
*Never at nightclubs, never out late
*No male friends
Remember, you don't have to trust a woman to love a woman.
If she wants REALLY wants commitment and she REALLY wants to be with you and you're the only man for her, she WILL do the following to have you in her life as her man.
If she doesn't agree and has a problem with that, she simply does not want you that bad.. And by all means, keep on pimping her and nothing more. No titles, just fun..
I've seen it done, I've had it done. It's possible for a woman to agree to these measures. I don't want to argue about it.
This makes you comfortable in your relationship and keeps you from subsiding to weak ass behaviors the average person will subside to; like blowing up her phone, questioning her, being up her ass..
With these measures in place, why would you give a shit when she knows you can catch her slipping at any moment?
Trust is inevitable and it is not unconditional. It has to be tended to like a little plant.
So checking on your girl's fedility and faithfulness every now and then does not make you insecure. It makes you know your bitch is properly in-line and you can continue to trust her.
If you can't trust her, why be with her?
First off, none of this ridiculous, controlling list ensures someone won’t cheat. In fact, they may cheat just to piss you off and see if they can get away with it while obeying your commandments 😆
If whoever I'm dating is 100% happy, respects me, aroused by me..
Everything you saying don't even make sense. That WOULD NOT HAPPEN..
I've seen it done, I've had it done, I'm not the only one out here taking extra measures with millennial girls.
It’s all well and good to have standards and boundaries. But has this actually worked for you?
And for how long...?
What’s the longest relationship you’ve had? And how did it end.
It has worked, she was simply just a woman willing to do anything to grant my trust for a long term relationship..
What had happened is that I went back to Chicago, because my dreams come first. I used to live in Cincinnati and Indianapolis.
Other than that, the downfall is nobody's business.
How long was the relationship?click to expand
Does it really matter?
Almost 2 years.....
Posted by EmhendoPosted by LadyNeptunePosted by EmhendoPosted by LadyNeptunePosted by EmhendoPosted by MoonbutterPosted by Emhendo
Just a thread I will leave here, full of photos, links, and videos for anybody that needs to be reminded not to trust these bitches.
We are living in the age of secrecy, technology, and communication without being face-to-face.
We jump into relationships too easily these days and I believe a woman has to take very drastic but necessary steps before a man should commit to her.
I won't commit to a woman unless she does the following to have my ironclad, definite trust:
*Deactivates all social media accounts and apps
*Puts a keylogger on her phone
*Has no password for her phone/I have the password
*Never at nightclubs, never out late
*No male friends
Remember, you don't have to trust a woman to love a woman.
If she wants REALLY wants commitment and she REALLY wants to be with you and you're the only man for her, she WILL do the following to have you in her life as her man.
If she doesn't agree and has a problem with that, she simply does not want you that bad.. And by all means, keep on pimping her and nothing more. No titles, just fun..
I've seen it done, I've had it done. It's possible for a woman to agree to these measures. I don't want to argue about it.
This makes you comfortable in your relationship and keeps you from subsiding to weak ass behaviors the average person will subside to; like blowing up her phone, questioning her, being up her ass..
With these measures in place, why would you give a shit when she knows you can catch her slipping at any moment?
Trust is inevitable and it is not unconditional. It has to be tended to like a little plant.
So checking on your girl's fedility and faithfulness every now and then does not make you insecure. It makes you know your bitch is properly in-line and you can continue to trust her.
If you can't trust her, why be with her?
First off, none of this ridiculous, controlling list ensures someone won’t cheat. In fact, they may cheat just to piss you off and see if they can get away with it while obeying your commandments 😆
If whoever I'm dating is 100% happy, respects me, aroused by me..
Everything you saying don't even make sense. That WOULD NOT HAPPEN..
I've seen it done, I've had it done, I'm not the only one out here taking extra measures with millennial girls.
It’s all well and good to have standards and boundaries. But has this actually worked for you?
And for how long...?
What’s the longest relationship you’ve had? And how did it end.
It has worked, she was simply just a woman willing to do anything to grant my trust for a long term relationship..
What had happened is that I went back to Chicago, because my dreams come first. I used to live in Cincinnati and Indianapolis.
Other than that, the downfall is nobody's business.
How long was the relationship?
Does it really matter?
Almost 2 years.....click to expand
Yeah it does. If your gonna preach you need to back it up with valid examples.
Anyways it seems like from were i sit that you just need to be with someone who wants you more than you want them. Good luck. Let’s us know how it pans out.
Posted by enfant_terriblePosted by EmhendoPosted by enfant_terriblePosted by Emhendo
If any chicks wishes to be official with me, THAT'S what she's going to have to do.
So does any chick wish to be official with you?
Look at you... Trynna be nosey and hoping I say some sorry ass shit like "Nooo but I wishhhhh"
I've had many offers, just went to the movies last month and got ice and sprite thrown on my lap because I wasn't ready for commitment.
In this case, I didn't bother to tell her she has to do X, Y and Z for me to commit... I'm simply not ready for commitment.
At the end of the day though, even if a chick pursues you and makes you her whole world and agrees to all your conditions.. that can all change in an instant if her needs change. Do you intend to chain her to your bed post if that happens or what's in the Emhendo emergancy manual?click to expand
Y'all trynna make this a needy/clingy thing because that's how Y'ALL think and Y'ALL approach relationships.
NOT ME.
So if I sense "her needs are changing", why continue the relationship any further?
"Are you gonna chain her to your best post" durhurhurhur.. That dorky ass question.
I have been practicing a non-attached attitude for the past year. I don't get attached anymore, I just admire these girls a lot and enjoy them. You should try it.
Posted by Squishy_Marshmallows
The truth is men love hoes.
This is kind of hard to explain, considering women get cheated on and the girl be a hoe..
But are these men COMMITTING to these hoes?
If they are, they're suckers.. Or he playing her too.
Posted by Squishy_MarshmallowsPosted by EmhendoPosted by Squishy_Marshmallows
The truth is men love hoes.
This is kind of hard to explain, considering women get cheated on and the girl be a hoe..
But are these men COMMITTING to these hoes?
If they are, they're suckers.. Or he playing her too.
I feel most men don't want a decent woman. Maybe they aren't ready to commit or they want what's readily available. It isn't even about playing. I cannot explain it... But seeing it everywhere. They would rather stay away than get to know you. The best thing as a woman to do is not to fall for their games and walk away.click to expand
When I say "hoes".. I'm just using slang.
I'm really referring to all women...
You have "simps" (which I'm going to make a thread about)
That will do anything for a woman's approval. Even if it means financially supporting her, always being at her becking call, and so on..
Simply just because she's a woman that's readily available and is giving him a bit of attention.. She's probably not even fucking him.
As a beautiful woman, I KNOW you have encountered simps that was ready to do give you the world, marry you and all this shit.. And you barely was giving him the time of day.
The woman either accepts his advancements or continues to string him along, they do either one - but they do it without any real love and devotion for him.
Then you got these players out here, that know how WOMEN aka "HOES" (as I was calling them) really are.. And they play games, they don't want to commit, they are about themselves and so on..
These chicks will move fuckin mountains for that guy..
And in a sense, men kind of are the same way with women.. Women that are too available, too ready and shit..
But I think women cheat more than men. We just don't hear about it.
I think women are more hot and beautiful today than they've ever been in history .. Adding the fact that they have dick and dates at their finger tips with these phones and apps..
So I'm simply just looking out for guys that have a hot girl in their life, and they don't want to commit because the of risk.. Or they don't know how to keep her remotely interested in them..
And I'm looking out for these women that can't get their man to commit. I simply just think he either not ready for commitment, not that into her, or just can't trust her..
Posted by Squishy_MarshmallowsPosted by EmhendoPosted by Squishy_MarshmallowsPosted by EmhendoPosted by Squishy_Marshmallows
The truth is men love hoes.
This is kind of hard to explain, considering women get cheated on and the girl be a hoe..
But are these men COMMITTING to these hoes?
If they are, they're suckers.. Or he playing her too.
I feel most men don't want a decent woman. Maybe they aren't ready to commit or they want what's readily available. It isn't even about playing. I cannot explain it... But seeing it everywhere. They would rather stay away than get to know you. The best thing as a woman to do is not to fall for their games and walk away.
When I say "hoes".. I'm just using slang.
I'm really referring to all women...
You have "simps" (which I'm going to make a thread about)
That will do anything for a woman's approval. Even if it means financially supporting her, always being at her becking call, and so on..
Simply just because she's a woman that's readily available and is giving him a bit of attention.. She's probably not even fucking him.
As a beautiful woman, I KNOW you have encountered simps that was ready to do give you the world, marry you and all this shit.. And you barely was giving him the time of day.
The woman either accepts his advancements or continues to string him along, they do either one - but they do it without any real love and devotion for him.
Then you got these players out here, that know how WOMEN aka "HOES" (as I was calling them) really are.. And they play games, they don't want to commit, they are about themselves and so on..
These chicks will move fuckin mountains for that guy..
And in a sense, men kind of are the same way with women.. Women that are too available, too ready and shit..
But I think women cheat more than men. We just don't hear about it.
I think women are more hot and beautiful today than they've ever been in history .. Adding the fact that they have dick and dates at their finger tips with these phones and apps..
So I'm simply just looking out for guys that have a hot girl in their life, and they don't want to commit because the of risk.. Or they don't know how to keep her remotely interested in them..
And I'm looking out for these women that can't get their man to commit. I simply just think he either not ready for commitment, not that into her, or just can't trust her..
Thank you and I do have to agree with what you have written here.
Dating is so difficult nowadays. I'm not gonna do it, too many players and people too eager to play with others feelings and i can't do this number game.
I'm going for an arranged marriage.
click to expand
Can you explain an arranged marriage?
Posted by Squishy_MarshmallowsPosted by EmhendoPosted by Squishy_MarshmallowsPosted by EmhendoPosted by Squishy_MarshmallowsPosted by EmhendoPosted by Squishy_Marshmallows
The truth is men love hoes.
This is kind of hard to explain, considering women get cheated on and the girl be a hoe..
But are these men COMMITTING to these hoes?
If they are, they're suckers.. Or he playing her too.
I feel most men don't want a decent woman. Maybe they aren't ready to commit or they want what's readily available. It isn't even about playing. I cannot explain it... But seeing it everywhere. They would rather stay away than get to know you. The best thing as a woman to do is not to fall for their games and walk away.
When I say "hoes".. I'm just using slang.
I'm really referring to all women...
You have "simps" (which I'm going to make a thread about)
That will do anything for a woman's approval. Even if it means financially supporting her, always being at her becking call, and so on..
Simply just because she's a woman that's readily available and is giving him a bit of attention.. She's probably not even fucking him.
As a beautiful woman, I KNOW you have encountered simps that was ready to do give you the world, marry you and all this shit.. And you barely was giving him the time of day.
The woman either accepts his advancements or continues to string him along, they do either one - but they do it without any real love and devotion for him.
Then you got these players out here, that know how WOMEN aka "HOES" (as I was calling them) really are.. And they play games, they don't want to commit, they are about themselves and so on..
These chicks will move fuckin mountains for that guy..
And in a sense, men kind of are the same way with women.. Women that are too available, too ready and shit..
But I think women cheat more than men. We just don't hear about it.
I think women are more hot and beautiful today than they've ever been in history .. Adding the fact that they have dick and dates at their finger tips with these phones and apps..
So I'm simply just looking out for guys that have a hot girl in their life, and they don't want to commit because the of risk.. Or they don't know how to keep her remotely interested in them..
And I'm looking out for these women that can't get their man to commit. I simply just think he either not ready for commitment, not that into her, or just can't trust her..
Thank you and I do have to agree with what you have written here.
Dating is so difficult nowadays. I'm not gonna do it, too many players and people too eager to play with others feelings and i can't do this number game.
I'm going for an arranged marriage.
Can you explain an arranged marriage?
Sure! I'm a Sri Lankan. In my culture it is very acceptable for marriages to be arranged by elders.
It works like this
Boy meets girl-- boy chases the girl-- girl says no-- boy meets the girl's parents-- parents speak with the girl-- if she likes the guy-- they get married-- make babies and live happily ever after. Lol
It's really nty complicated. We get to talk to each other and get to meet, go out. Just that it isn't a numbers game nor do I have to put out and to me that's the best part. You don't have to be good to every guy. Girl gets to choose from the guys who propose her.
My grandparents had a love marriage tho.
They fell in love at first sight. Never spoke a word to each other. My grandma was a beautiful lady... but poor and an orphan. My grandpa was from the richest family in the city and he was tall, dark and handsome.
He wrote to her once, she felt he was beyond her means. So she refused him. Then he wrote to her and said he will come with a registrar(for a civil marriage) inorder to marry her.
She told everyone she's gonna get married and waited. He didn't turn up.
Everyone made fun of her. But she was adamant and said he will come fo her and refused to get up from where she sat. Entire town laughed at her.
And he did turn up and marry her after many hours, his car had broken down 😂😂😂
Very good marriage.
In my family people dony believe in divorces, we marry for life and we put family first.
click to expand
I am only tolerable to other cultures idea of marriage.
In America, you are wasting your time. Marriage is going out of style , there is no culture in it.. There never was.
Especially when us millennials get older, I believe marriage rates will be almost nonexistent.
So I'm not big on marriage, but I have faith in people over seas in those foreign places.. Because the women aren't westernized, or brainwashed by feminism and liberty.
American men are starting to go overseas for wives.. They won't even bother to bring the wife back to America in expectations she will become westernized and be like the rest of these women..
This might be another idea for a thread...
I almost like to think that women really don't know what they want, and I'm not saying that to be arrogant or ignorant towards women..
I GENUINELY think that's just in their nature.. That women just have an idea of what they want, but that's about it. They really don't know.
So what I'm saying, I think they can't completely make their own decisions on a man by themselves.. And you wanting an arranged marriage, which is a decision you made on your own, but still at the decision of others - is why I say that ..
I got nothing against what you wanna do.. I think it's a good idea and I hope you really like the guy.
Posted by EmhendoPosted by Squishy_MarshmallowsPosted by EmhendoPosted by Squishy_MarshmallowsPosted by EmhendoPosted by Squishy_MarshmallowsPosted by EmhendoPosted by Squishy_Marshmallows
The truth is men love hoes.
This is kind of hard to explain, considering women get cheated on and the girl be a hoe..
But are these men COMMITTING to these hoes?
If they are, they're suckers.. Or he playing her too.
I feel most men don't want a decent woman. Maybe they aren't ready to commit or they want what's readily available. It isn't even about playing. I cannot explain it... But seeing it everywhere. They would rather stay away than get to know you. The best thing as a woman to do is not to fall for their games and walk away.
When I say "hoes".. I'm just using slang.
I'm really referring to all women...
You have "simps" (which I'm going to make a thread about)
That will do anything for a woman's approval. Even if it means financially supporting her, always being at her becking call, and so on..
Simply just because she's a woman that's readily available and is giving him a bit of attention.. She's probably not even fucking him.
As a beautiful woman, I KNOW you have encountered simps that was ready to do give you the world, marry you and all this shit.. And you barely was giving him the time of day.
The woman either accepts his advancements or continues to string him along, they do either one - but they do it without any real love and devotion for him.
Then you got these players out here, that know how WOMEN aka "HOES" (as I was calling them) really are.. And they play games, they don't want to commit, they are about themselves and so on..
These chicks will move fuckin mountains for that guy..
And in a sense, men kind of are the same way with women.. Women that are too available, too ready and shit..
But I think women cheat more than men. We just don't hear about it.
I think women are more hot and beautiful today than they've ever been in history .. Adding the fact that they have dick and dates at their finger tips with these phones and apps..
So I'm simply just looking out for guys that have a hot girl in their life, and they don't want to commit because the of risk.. Or they don't know how to keep her remotely interested in them..
And I'm looking out for these women that can't get their man to commit. I simply just think he either not ready for commitment, not that into her, or just can't trust her..
Thank you and I do have to agree with what you have written here.
Dating is so difficult nowadays. I'm not gonna do it, too many players and people too eager to play with others feelings and i can't do this number game.
I'm going for an arranged marriage.
Can you explain an arranged marriage?
Sure! I'm a Sri Lankan. In my culture it is very acceptable for marriages to be arranged by elders.
It works like this
Boy meets girl-- boy chases the girl-- girl says no-- boy meets the girl's parents-- parents speak with the girl-- if she likes the guy-- they get married-- make babies and live happily ever after. Lol
It's really nty complicated. We get to talk to each other and get to meet, go out. Just that it isn't a numbers game nor do I have to put out and to me that's the best part. You don't have to be good to every guy. Girl gets to choose from the guys who propose her.
My grandparents had a love marriage tho.
They fell in love at first sight. Never spoke a word to each other. My grandma was a beautiful lady... but poor and an orphan. My grandpa was from the richest family in the city and he was tall, dark and handsome.
He wrote to her once, she felt he was beyond her means. So she refused him. Then he wrote to her and said he will come with a registrar(for a civil marriage) inorder to marry her.
She told everyone she's gonna get married and waited. He didn't turn up.
Everyone made fun of her. But she was adamant and said he will come fo her and refused to get up from where she sat. Entire town laughed at her.
And he did turn up and marry her after many hours, his car had broken down 😂😂😂
Very good marriage.
In my family people dony believe in divorces, we marry for life and we put family first.
I am only tolerable to other cultures idea of marriage.
In America, you are wasting your time. Marriage is going out of style , there is no culture in it.. There never was.
Especially when us millennials get older, I believe marriage rates will be almost nonexistent.
So I'm not big on marriage, but I have faith in people over seas in those foreign places.. Because the women aren't westernized, or brainwashed by feminism and liberty.
American men are starting to go overseas for wives.. They won't even bother to bring the wife back to America in expectations she will become westernized and be like the rest of these women..
This might be another idea for a thread...
I almost like to think that women really don't know what they want, and I'm not saying that to be arrogant or ignorant towards women..
I GENUINELY think that's just in their nature.. That women just have an idea of what they want, but that's about it. They really don't know.
So what I'm saying, I think they can't completely make their own decisions on a man by themselves.. And you wanting an arranged marriage, which is a decision you made on your own, but still at the decision of others - is why I say that ..
I got nothing against what you wanna do.. I think it's a good idea and I hope you really like the guy.click to expand
Either way, that's a beautiful story about your grandparents.. I saw it when I read it.
I'm just talking shit.. Referring to women saying the "I want a nice guy, that does this, do that, buys me flowers, opens my door, gives me his coat, puts me on a pedestal" ..But be out here fucking the total opposite of a man and don't care too much for that guy they described.. Doesn't sound too decisive to me.
I honestly think of we had arranged marriage in America, plenty of men and women would be trying it..
But we just have dating apps, which is the closest to that.. You get matched up with people, but if you don't look a certain way - your character and profile does not matter.. And if guys aren't in the 1% of men over 6'1 in height, makes $ 100,000 a year, and white.. Women aren't swiping for them to meet.
I'm serious. The guys that have the most easiest time white men over 6'1 10/10 and make a lot of money.. Even Asian women don't want to be with their own men.
That is a fact.
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all I get from these threads is how fragile emhendo's little heart is.
she's playing tough but everytime it gets broken into a million little pieces
ayy lmao
she's playing tough but everytime it gets broken into a million little pieces
ayy lmao
Posted by Superman77Posted by EmhendoPosted by enfant_terriblePosted by EmhendoPosted by enfant_terriblePosted by Emhendo
If any chicks wishes to be official with me, THAT'S what she's going to have to do.
So does any chick wish to be official with you?
Look at you... Trynna be nosey and hoping I say some sorry ass shit like "Nooo but I wishhhhh"
I've had many offers, just went to the movies last month and got ice and sprite thrown on my lap because I wasn't ready for commitment.
In this case, I didn't bother to tell her she has to do X, Y and Z for me to commit... I'm simply not ready for commitment.
At the end of the day though, even if a chick pursues you and makes you her whole world and agrees to all your conditions.. that can all change in an instant if her needs change. Do you intend to chain her to your bed post if that happens or what's in the Emhendo emergancy manual?
Y'all trynna make this a needy/clingy thing because that's how Y'ALL think and Y'ALL approach relationships.
NOT ME.
So if I sense "her needs are changing", why continue the relationship any further?
"Are you gonna chain her to your best post" durhurhurhur.. That dorky ass question.
I have been practicing a non-attached attitude for the past year. I don't get attached anymore, I just admire these girls a lot and enjoy them. You should try it.
It’s 100% a needy/clingy thing.
You’re contradicting yourself in a few places. For instance, how are her needs gonna change when you’re literally cutting her off from the outside world?click to expand
It's NOT a NEEDY/CLINGY THING... Y'all just WISH it was so y'all can make me look bad.
If she's no where near the title of my girlfriend, I'm not ever asking her to be, and I don't give a shit if she ever will be...
HOW IS THAT NEEDY?
Now, if SHE is ready "I want this exclusive, how can I make you commit, what can I do for trust - I want this".
HOW is me telling her to do something she is WILLING to do CLINGY??
SHE WANTS TO BE "CUT OFF FROM THE OUTSIDE WORLD"..
And what's fucked up is.. AIN'T NOBODY CUTTING HER OFF FROM THE WORLD.
She STILL has a PHONE, STILL has friends, STILL has family, still has a LIFE.
So what the fuck are you talking about??
Needy/clingy MY ASS because if the bitch ain't down with that to be exclusive, you think I'ma BEG her? FORCE her? Or GIVE A SHIT ABOUT HER?
Y'all WISH it was like that. Sorry asses.
Posted by hydorah
all I get from these threads is how fragile emhendo's little heart is.
she's playing tough but everytime it gets broken into a million little pieces
ayy lmao
You got a little heart, because I see through your attitude..
You are a hater.
And you most likely out the game and ain't seen a booty hole in YEARS.
Posted by EmhendoPosted by AfternoonDelights22
Or don't date hoes seems simpler
So you have these magic abilities to tell a faithful woman when you see one??
Can I bring you out with me and let you use your faithful woman radar?click to expand
I have this. If you wire me money I will provide services.
Posted by Superman77Posted by EmhendoPosted by Superman77Posted by EmhendoPosted by enfant_terriblePosted by EmhendoPosted by enfant_terriblePosted by Emhendo
If any chicks wishes to be official with me, THAT'S what she's going to have to do.
So does any chick wish to be official with you?
Look at you... Trynna be nosey and hoping I say some sorry ass shit like "Nooo but I wishhhhh"
I've had many offers, just went to the movies last month and got ice and sprite thrown on my lap because I wasn't ready for commitment.
In this case, I didn't bother to tell her she has to do X, Y and Z for me to commit... I'm simply not ready for commitment.
At the end of the day though, even if a chick pursues you and makes you her whole world and agrees to all your conditions.. that can all change in an instant if her needs change. Do you intend to chain her to your bed post if that happens or what's in the Emhendo emergancy manual?
Y'all trynna make this a needy/clingy thing because that's how Y'ALL think and Y'ALL approach relationships.
NOT ME.
So if I sense "her needs are changing", why continue the relationship any further?
"Are you gonna chain her to your best post" durhurhurhur.. That dorky ass question.
I have been practicing a non-attached attitude for the past year. I don't get attached anymore, I just admire these girls a lot and enjoy them. You should try it.
It’s 100% a needy/clingy thing.
You’re contradicting yourself in a few places. For instance, how are her needs gonna change when you’re literally cutting her off from the outside world?
It's NOT a NEEDY/CLINGY THING... Y'all just WISH it was so y'all can make me look bad.
If she's no where near the title of my girlfriend, I'm not ever asking her to be, and I don't give a shit if she ever will be...
HOW IS THAT NEEDY?
Now, if SHE is ready "I want this exclusive, how can I make you commit, what can I do for trust - I want this".
HOW is me telling her to do something she is WILLING to do CLINGY??
SHE WANTS TO BE "CUT OFF FROM THE OUTSIDE WORLD"..
And what's fucked up is.. AIN'T NOBODY CUTTING HER OFF FROM THE WORLD.
She STILL has a PHONE, STILL has friends, STILL has family, still has a LIFE.
So what the fuck are you talking about??
Needy/clingy MY ASS because if the bitch ain't down with that to be exclusive, you think I'ma BEG her? FORCE her? Or GIVE A SHIT ABOUT HER?
Y'all WISH it was like that. Sorry asses.
Yes, she has those things.
Can she use them at her free will? Nope
Know what that’s called? OPPRESSIONclick to expand
Who the fuck said she can't use her phone, see her friends, or have a life?
YOU said that, NOT ME.. And I bet you can't quote me.
"Oppression"... Man, get the fuck out my FACE.
Posted by Superman77Posted by EmhendoPosted by Superman77Posted by EmhendoPosted by Superman77Posted by EmhendoPosted by enfant_terriblePosted by EmhendoPosted by enfant_terriblePosted by Emhendo
If any chicks wishes to be official with me, THAT'S what she's going to have to do.
So does any chick wish to be official with you?
Look at you... Trynna be nosey and hoping I say some sorry ass shit like "Nooo but I wishhhhh"
I've had many offers, just went to the movies last month and got ice and sprite thrown on my lap because I wasn't ready for commitment.
In this case, I didn't bother to tell her she has to do X, Y and Z for me to commit... I'm simply not ready for commitment.
At the end of the day though, even if a chick pursues you and makes you her whole world and agrees to all your conditions.. that can all change in an instant if her needs change. Do you intend to chain her to your bed post if that happens or what's in the Emhendo emergancy manual?
Y'all trynna make this a needy/clingy thing because that's how Y'ALL think and Y'ALL approach relationships.
NOT ME.
So if I sense "her needs are changing", why continue the relationship any further?
"Are you gonna chain her to your best post" durhurhurhur.. That dorky ass question.
I have been practicing a non-attached attitude for the past year. I don't get attached anymore, I just admire these girls a lot and enjoy them. You should try it.
It’s 100% a needy/clingy thing.
You’re contradicting yourself in a few places. For instance, how are her needs gonna change when you’re literally cutting her off from the outside world?
It's NOT a NEEDY/CLINGY THING... Y'all just WISH it was so y'all can make me look bad.
If she's no where near the title of my girlfriend, I'm not ever asking her to be, and I don't give a shit if she ever will be...
HOW IS THAT NEEDY?
Now, if SHE is ready "I want this exclusive, how can I make you commit, what can I do for trust - I want this".
HOW is me telling her to do something she is WILLING to do CLINGY??
SHE WANTS TO BE "CUT OFF FROM THE OUTSIDE WORLD"..
And what's fucked up is.. AIN'T NOBODY CUTTING HER OFF FROM THE WORLD.
She STILL has a PHONE, STILL has friends, STILL has family, still has a LIFE.
So what the fuck are you talking about??
Needy/clingy MY ASS because if the bitch ain't down with that to be exclusive, you think I'ma BEG her? FORCE her? Or GIVE A SHIT ABOUT HER?
Y'all WISH it was like that. Sorry asses.
Yes, she has those things.
Can she use them at her free will? Nope
Know what that’s called? OPPRESSION
Who the fuck said she can't use her phone, see her friends, or have a life?
YOU said that, NOT ME.. And I bet you can't quote me.
"Oppression"... Man, get the fuck out my FACE.
Having to live on someone else’s terms is oppression
You said this in your op
I won't commit to a woman unless she does the following to have my ironclad, definite trust:
*Deactivates all social media accounts and apps
*Puts a keylogger on her phone
*Has no password for her phone/I have the password
*Never at nightclubs, never out late
*No male friendsclick to expand
So explain to me the ABUSE, FORCE, ILL-TREATMENT.
This isn't OPPRESSION, OLD MAN.
This is something she WANTS to do.. How can I make that any clearer?
You just mad because I'm on some other shit, and your wife leave you at home while she out somewhere at the club - or got hella male friends and you ain't even on their fucking level... NEWS FLASH, them dudes is your replacement, when she gets tired of your male feminism.
Posted by Superman77Posted by EmhendoPosted by Superman77Posted by EmhendoPosted by Superman77Posted by EmhendoPosted by Superman77Posted by EmhendoPosted by enfant_terriblePosted by EmhendoPosted by enfant_terriblePosted by Emhendo
If any chicks wishes to be official with me, THAT'S what she's going to have to do.
So does any chick wish to be official with you?
Look at you... Trynna be nosey and hoping I say some sorry ass shit like "Nooo but I wishhhhh"
I've had many offers, just went to the movies last month and got ice and sprite thrown on my lap because I wasn't ready for commitment.
In this case, I didn't bother to tell her she has to do X, Y and Z for me to commit... I'm simply not ready for commitment.
At the end of the day though, even if a chick pursues you and makes you her whole world and agrees to all your conditions.. that can all change in an instant if her needs change. Do you intend to chain her to your bed post if that happens or what's in the Emhendo emergancy manual?
Y'all trynna make this a needy/clingy thing because that's how Y'ALL think and Y'ALL approach relationships.
NOT ME.
So if I sense "her needs are changing", why continue the relationship any further?
"Are you gonna chain her to your best post" durhurhurhur.. That dorky ass question.
I have been practicing a non-attached attitude for the past year. I don't get attached anymore, I just admire these girls a lot and enjoy them. You should try it.
It’s 100% a needy/clingy thing.
You’re contradicting yourself in a few places. For instance, how are her needs gonna change when you’re literally cutting her off from the outside world?
It's NOT a NEEDY/CLINGY THING... Y'all just WISH it was so y'all can make me look bad.
If she's no where near the title of my girlfriend, I'm not ever asking her to be, and I don't give a shit if she ever will be...
HOW IS THAT NEEDY?
Now, if SHE is ready "I want this exclusive, how can I make you commit, what can I do for trust - I want this".
HOW is me telling her to do something she is WILLING to do CLINGY??
SHE WANTS TO BE "CUT OFF FROM THE OUTSIDE WORLD"..
And what's fucked up is.. AIN'T NOBODY CUTTING HER OFF FROM THE WORLD.
She STILL has a PHONE, STILL has friends, STILL has family, still has a LIFE.
So what the fuck are you talking about??
Needy/clingy MY ASS because if the bitch ain't down with that to be exclusive, you think I'ma BEG her? FORCE her? Or GIVE A SHIT ABOUT HER?
Y'all WISH it was like that. Sorry asses.
Yes, she has those things.
Can she use them at her free will? Nope
Know what that’s called? OPPRESSION
Who the fuck said she can't use her phone, see her friends, or have a life?
YOU said that, NOT ME.. And I bet you can't quote me.
"Oppression"... Man, get the fuck out my FACE.
Having to live on someone else’s terms is oppression
You said this in your op
I won't commit to a woman unless she does the following to have my ironclad, definite trust:
*Deactivates all social media accounts and apps
*Puts a keylogger on her phone
*Has no password for her phone/I have the password
*Never at nightclubs, never out late
*No male friends
So explain to me the ABUSE, FORCE, ILL-TREATMENT.
This isn't OPPRESSION, OLD MAN.
This is something she WANTS to do.. How can I make that any clearer?
You just mad because I'm on some other shit, and your wife leave you at home while she out somewhere at the club - or got hella male friends and you ain't even on their fucking level... NEWS FLASH, them dudes is your replacement, when she gets tired of your male feminism.
BAHAHAHAHA
Suppression is oppression.
Don’t have to be violent
Anywhoo........hope you find that weak female you’re looking for, tyrantclick to expand
Oh NOW it's funny!!
Oppression, suppression..
How about SUBMISSION? Orrrrr..
KISS MY ASSESION
Posted by Superman77Posted by EmhendoPosted by Superman77Posted by EmhendoPosted by Superman77Posted by EmhendoPosted by Superman77Posted by EmhendoPosted by Superman77Posted by EmhendoPosted by enfant_terriblePosted by EmhendoPosted by enfant_terriblePosted by Emhendo
If any chicks wishes to be official with me, THAT'S what she's going to have to do.
So does any chick wish to be official with you?
Look at you... Trynna be nosey and hoping I say some sorry ass shit like "Nooo but I wishhhhh"
I've had many offers, just went to the movies last month and got ice and sprite thrown on my lap because I wasn't ready for commitment.
In this case, I didn't bother to tell her she has to do X, Y and Z for me to commit... I'm simply not ready for commitment.
At the end of the day though, even if a chick pursues you and makes you her whole world and agrees to all your conditions.. that can all change in an instant if her needs change. Do you intend to chain her to your bed post if that happens or what's in the Emhendo emergancy manual?
Y'all trynna make this a needy/clingy thing because that's how Y'ALL think and Y'ALL approach relationships.
NOT ME.
So if I sense "her needs are changing", why continue the relationship any further?
"Are you gonna chain her to your best post" durhurhurhur.. That dorky ass question.
I have been practicing a non-attached attitude for the past year. I don't get attached anymore, I just admire these girls a lot and enjoy them. You should try it.
It’s 100% a needy/clingy thing.
You’re contradicting yourself in a few places. For instance, how are her needs gonna change when you’re literally cutting her off from the outside world?
It's NOT a NEEDY/CLINGY THING... Y'all just WISH it was so y'all can make me look bad.
If she's no where near the title of my girlfriend, I'm not ever asking her to be, and I don't give a shit if she ever will be...
HOW IS THAT NEEDY?
Now, if SHE is ready "I want this exclusive, how can I make you commit, what can I do for trust - I want this".
HOW is me telling her to do something she is WILLING to do CLINGY??
SHE WANTS TO BE "CUT OFF FROM THE OUTSIDE WORLD"..
And what's fucked up is.. AIN'T NOBODY CUTTING HER OFF FROM THE WORLD.
She STILL has a PHONE, STILL has friends, STILL has family, still has a LIFE.
So what the fuck are you talking about??
Needy/clingy MY ASS because if the bitch ain't down with that to be exclusive, you think I'ma BEG her? FORCE her? Or GIVE A SHIT ABOUT HER?
Y'all WISH it was like that. Sorry asses.
Yes, she has those things.
Can she use them at her free will? Nope
Know what that’s called? OPPRESSION
Who the fuck said she can't use her phone, see her friends, or have a life?
YOU said that, NOT ME.. And I bet you can't quote me.
"Oppression"... Man, get the fuck out my FACE.
Having to live on someone else’s terms is oppression
You said this in your op
I won't commit to a woman unless she does the following to have my ironclad, definite trust:
*Deactivates all social media accounts and apps
*Puts a keylogger on her phone
*Has no password for her phone/I have the password
*Never at nightclubs, never out late
*No male friends
So explain to me the ABUSE, FORCE, ILL-TREATMENT.
This isn't OPPRESSION, OLD MAN.
This is something she WANTS to do.. How can I make that any clearer?
You just mad because I'm on some other shit, and your wife leave you at home while she out somewhere at the club - or got hella male friends and you ain't even on their fucking level... NEWS FLASH, them dudes is your replacement, when she gets tired of your male feminism.
BAHAHAHAHA
Suppression is oppression.
Don’t have to be violent
Anywhoo........hope you find that weak female you’re looking for, tyrant
Oh NOW it's funny!!
Oppression, suppression..
How about SUBMISSION? Orrrrr..
KISS MY ASSESION
Would you submit to those terms yourself?
No more FB, Insta, Snapchat or DXP?
No more cellphone? No more outside friends?click to expand
I don't have to answer to you..
What do YOU think?? I'm already halfway there, just got to get the fuck off this FUCKASS website.
Posted by Ariqua
I like you Ehm...you tell all the trade secrets of cancers that most wouldn’t typically admit to.
I’ve dated several cancer suns and cancer moons. They need to know you won’t embarrass them in front of other people.
I don't think ANYBODY would want to be embarrassed..
I don't think ANYBODY would want to be claim someone that's making them look like a fool behind their back..
I think ANYBODY would want to know who they are dealing with, and be CAUTIOUS before any commitments.
An I don't see nothing wrong with that..
@Ixion is it something wrong with that?
Posted by AriquaPosted by EmhendoPosted by Ariqua
I like you Ehm...you tell all the trade secrets of cancers that most wouldn’t typically admit to.
I’ve dated several cancer suns and cancer moons. They need to know you won’t embarrass them in front of other people.
I don't think ANYBODY would want to be embarrassed..
I don't think ANYBODY would be wanting to claim someone that's making them look like a fool behind their back..
I think ANYBODY would want to know who they are dealing witu, and be CAUTIOUS before any commitments.
An I don't see nothing wrong with that..
@Ixion is it something wrong with that?
Of course no one wants to be embarrassed but only cancers go to these lengths of prevention and having people jump through hoops to ensure it doesn’t happen.
Most people hope it doesn’t happen and deal with it accordingly if it does.click to expand
I'm not going to any lengths if I'm not even committed to anybody in the first place.
I'm enjoying a polygamist/single life.
You don't think somebody taught me this??
A man 40 years-old, woke me up and gave me the game. He just turned 40 last year.
He's not a Cancer.. This is not exactly a Cancer thing, but I get what you saying..
It's a loyalty thing because she's being loyal to a lot of things other than just me.. She's has to PROVE her loyalty and her trustworthiness if she plans to be exclusive for long term...
And that's even if it want a longterm relationship.. Right now, I DON'T.
Posted by Superman77Posted by EmhendoPosted by Superman77Posted by EmhendoPosted by Superman77Posted by EmhendoPosted by Superman77Posted by EmhendoPosted by Superman77Posted by EmhendoPosted by Superman77Posted by EmhendoPosted by enfant_terriblePosted by EmhendoPosted by enfant_terriblePosted by Emhendo
If any chicks wishes to be official with me, THAT'S what she's going to have to do.
So does any chick wish to be official with you?
Look at you... Trynna be nosey and hoping I say some sorry ass shit like "Nooo but I wishhhhh"
I've had many offers, just went to the movies last month and got ice and sprite thrown on my lap because I wasn't ready for commitment.
In this case, I didn't bother to tell her she has to do X, Y and Z for me to commit... I'm simply not ready for commitment.
At the end of the day though, even if a chick pursues you and makes you her whole world and agrees to all your conditions.. that can all change in an instant if her needs change. Do you intend to chain her to your bed post if that happens or what's in the Emhendo emergancy manual?
Y'all trynna make this a needy/clingy thing because that's how Y'ALL think and Y'ALL approach relationships.
NOT ME.
So if I sense "her needs are changing", why continue the relationship any further?
"Are you gonna chain her to your best post" durhurhurhur.. That dorky ass question.
I have been practicing a non-attached attitude for the past year. I don't get attached anymore, I just admire these girls a lot and enjoy them. You should try it.
It’s 100% a needy/clingy thing.
You’re contradicting yourself in a few places. For instance, how are her needs gonna change when you’re literally cutting her off from the outside world?
It's NOT a NEEDY/CLINGY THING... Y'all just WISH it was so y'all can make me look bad.
If she's no where near the title of my girlfriend, I'm not ever asking her to be, and I don't give a shit if she ever will be...
HOW IS THAT NEEDY?
Now, if SHE is ready "I want this exclusive, how can I make you commit, what can I do for trust - I want this".
HOW is me telling her to do something she is WILLING to do CLINGY??
SHE WANTS TO BE "CUT OFF FROM THE OUTSIDE WORLD"..
And what's fucked up is.. AIN'T NOBODY CUTTING HER OFF FROM THE WORLD.
She STILL has a PHONE, STILL has friends, STILL has family, still has a LIFE.
So what the fuck are you talking about??
Needy/clingy MY ASS because if the bitch ain't down with that to be exclusive, you think I'ma BEG her? FORCE her? Or GIVE A SHIT ABOUT HER?
Y'all WISH it was like that. Sorry asses.
Yes, she has those things.
Can she use them at her free will? Nope
Know what that’s called? OPPRESSION
Who the fuck said she can't use her phone, see her friends, or have a life?
YOU said that, NOT ME.. And I bet you can't quote me.
"Oppression"... Man, get the fuck out my FACE.
Having to live on someone else’s terms is oppression
You said this in your op
I won't commit to a woman unless she does the following to have my ironclad, definite trust:
*Deactivates all social media accounts and apps
*Puts a keylogger on her phone
*Has no password for her phone/I have the password
*Never at nightclubs, never out late
*No male friends
So explain to me the ABUSE, FORCE, ILL-TREATMENT.
This isn't OPPRESSION, OLD MAN.
This is something she WANTS to do.. How can I make that any clearer?
You just mad because I'm on some other shit, and your wife leave you at home while she out somewhere at the club - or got hella male friends and you ain't even on their fucking level... NEWS FLASH, them dudes is your replacement, when she gets tired of your male feminism.
BAHAHAHAHA
Suppression is oppression.
Don’t have to be violent
Anywhoo........hope you find that weak female you’re looking for, tyrant
Oh NOW it's funny!!
Oppression, suppression..
How about SUBMISSION? Orrrrr..
KISS MY ASSESION
Would you submit to those terms yourself?
No more FB, Insta, Snapchat or DXP?
No more cellphone? No more outside friends?
I don't have to answer to you..
What do YOU think?? I'm already halfway there, just got to get the fuck off this FUCKASS website.
Cool storyclick to expand
Yeah, now it's just "cool story" when you could have shut the fuck up talking to me an hour ago.
Posted by Emhendo
he's has to PROVE her loyalty and her trustworthiness if she plans to be exclusive for long term...
Yes, but are you willing to do the same that you require for her as well? How do you prove loyalty as well?
Just picking your brain on this.
Posted by nikkistarPosted by Emhendo
She has to PROVE her loyalty and her trustworthiness if she plans to be exclusive for long term...
Yes, but are you willing to do the same that you require for her as well? How do you prove loyalty as well?
Just picking your brain on this.click to expand
Yes.
That would be me being in a relationship.. Something I eventually decided that I want and that she's been asking for.
I'm already halfway there anyway.. What I just told Superman77.. All I have to do is get off DXP and I'm a only in the real world, baby.
But let's say if I didn't, so the fuck what... I don't have to be fucking fair.
Bitch, you either want me enough to do what I asked OR NOT.
I don't have to live up to anything other than myself. If it's unfair, there's the fucking door.. And I BET SHE WON'T LEAVE.
But I'm "fair"..
Posted by EmhendoPosted by nikkistarPosted by Emhendo
She has to PROVE her loyalty and her trustworthiness if she plans to be exclusive for long term...
Yes, but are you willing to do the same that you require for her as well? How do you prove loyalty as well?
Just picking your brain on this.
Yes.
That would be me being in a relationship.. Something I eventually decided that I want and that she's been asking for.
I'm already halfway there anyway.. What I just told Superman77.. All I have to do is get off DXP and I'm a only in the real world, baby.
But let's say if I didn't, so the fuck what... I don't have to be fucking fair.
Bitch, you either want me enough to do what I asked OR NOT.
I don't have to live up to anything other than myself. If it's unfair, there's the fucking door.. And I BET SHE WON'T LEAVE.
But I'm "fair"..click to expand
There isn't a right or wrong answer to my question. It's more or less, trying to figure out if she made demands on you, that weren't necessarily the same as you indicate, would you do it as well. If those are the things she requires to be exclusive, and to be happy. Would you make the choice or not to do so.
Posted by nikkistarPosted by EmhendoPosted by nikkistarPosted by Emhendo
She has to PROVE her loyalty and her trustworthiness if she plans to be exclusive for long term...
Yes, but are you willing to do the same that you require for her as well? How do you prove loyalty as well?
Just picking your brain on this.
Yes.
That would be me being in a relationship.. Something I eventually decided that I want and that she's been asking for.
I'm already halfway there anyway.. What I just told Superman77.. All I have to do is get off DXP and I'm a only in the real world, baby.
But let's say if I didn't, so the fuck what... I don't have to be fucking fair.
Bitch, you either want me enough to do what I asked OR NOT.
I don't have to live up to anything other than myself. If it's unfair, there's the fucking door.. And I BET SHE WON'T LEAVE.
But I'm "fair"..
There isn't a right or wrong answer to my question. It's more or less, trying to figure out if she made demands on you, that weren't necessarily the same as you indicate, would you do it as well. If those are the things she requires to be exclusive, and to be happy. Would you make the choice or not to do so.click to expand
I think I answered your question.. I would just be repeating myself at this point.
Posted by EmhendoPosted by nikkistarPosted by EmhendoPosted by nikkistarPosted by Emhendo
She has to PROVE her loyalty and her trustworthiness if she plans to be exclusive for long term...
Yes, but are you willing to do the same that you require for her as well? How do you prove loyalty as well?
Just picking your brain on this.
Yes.
That would be me being in a relationship.. Something I eventually decided that I want and that she's been asking for.
I'm already halfway there anyway.. What I just told Superman77.. All I have to do is get off DXP and I'm a only in the real world, baby.
But let's say if I didn't, so the fuck what... I don't have to be fucking fair.
Bitch, you either want me enough to do what I asked OR NOT.
I don't have to live up to anything other than myself. If it's unfair, there's the fucking door.. And I BET SHE WON'T LEAVE.
But I'm "fair"..
There isn't a right or wrong answer to my question. It's more or less, trying to figure out if she made demands on you, that weren't necessarily the same as you indicate, would you do it as well. If those are the things she requires to be exclusive, and to be happy. Would you make the choice or not to do so.
I think I answered your question.. I would just be repeating myself at this point.click to expand
No you did, I was just explaining why I asked the initial question. You would make the choice to do so. Not because you were forced either.
Posted by nikkistarPosted by EmhendoPosted by nikkistarPosted by EmhendoPosted by nikkistarPosted by Emhendo
She has to PROVE her loyalty and her trustworthiness if she plans to be exclusive for long term...
Yes, but are you willing to do the same that you require for her as well? How do you prove loyalty as well?
Just picking your brain on this.
Yes.
That would be me being in a relationship.. Something I eventually decided that I want and that she's been asking for.
I'm already halfway there anyway.. What I just told Superman77.. All I have to do is get off DXP and I'm a only in the real world, baby.
But let's say if I didn't, so the fuck what... I don't have to be fucking fair.
Bitch, you either want me enough to do what I asked OR NOT.
I don't have to live up to anything other than myself. If it's unfair, there's the fucking door.. And I BET SHE WON'T LEAVE.
But I'm "fair"..
There isn't a right or wrong answer to my question. It's more or less, trying to figure out if she made demands on you, that weren't necessarily the same as you indicate, would you do it as well. If those are the things she requires to be exclusive, and to be happy. Would you make the choice or not to do so.
I think I answered your question.. I would just be repeating myself at this point.
No you did, I was just explaining why I asked the initial question. You would make the choice to do so. Not because you were forced either.click to expand
Exactly.. No forcing going on.
Everybody making me out to be oppressive, abusiveeee.. And all this crazy shit.
But they just suckers.
Posted by EmhendoPosted by nikkistarPosted by EmhendoPosted by nikkistarPosted by EmhendoPosted by nikkistarPosted by Emhendo
She has to PROVE her loyalty and her trustworthiness if she plans to be exclusive for long term...
Yes, but are you willing to do the same that you require for her as well? How do you prove loyalty as well?
Just picking your brain on this.
Yes.
That would be me being in a relationship.. Something I eventually decided that I want and that she's been asking for.
I'm already halfway there anyway.. What I just told Superman77.. All I have to do is get off DXP and I'm a only in the real world, baby.
But let's say if I didn't, so the fuck what... I don't have to be fucking fair.
Bitch, you either want me enough to do what I asked OR NOT.
I don't have to live up to anything other than myself. If it's unfair, there's the fucking door.. And I BET SHE WON'T LEAVE.
But I'm "fair"..
There isn't a right or wrong answer to my question. It's more or less, trying to figure out if she made demands on you, that weren't necessarily the same as you indicate, would you do it as well. If those are the things she requires to be exclusive, and to be happy. Would you make the choice or not to do so.
I think I answered your question.. I would just be repeating myself at this point.
No you did, I was just explaining why I asked the initial question. You would make the choice to do so. Not because you were forced either.
Exactly.. No forcing going on.
Everybody making me out to be oppressive, abusiveeee.. And all this crazy shit.
But they just suckers.click to expand
That is why I phrased the question the way I did. So that people could pay attention to your answer, that it is a choice, not force.
I may not agree with some of the statements you have made, because we differ on those. But I get the context of what you are saying, and understand it a little more.
Posted by nikkistarPosted by EmhendoPosted by nikkistarPosted by EmhendoPosted by nikkistarPosted by EmhendoPosted by nikkistarPosted by Emhendo
She has to PROVE her loyalty and her trustworthiness if she plans to be exclusive for long term...
Yes, but are you willing to do the same that you require for her as well? How do you prove loyalty as well?
Just picking your brain on this.
Yes.
That would be me being in a relationship.. Something I eventually decided that I want and that she's been asking for.
I'm already halfway there anyway.. What I just told Superman77.. All I have to do is get off DXP and I'm a only in the real world, baby.
But let's say if I didn't, so the fuck what... I don't have to be fucking fair.
Bitch, you either want me enough to do what I asked OR NOT.
I don't have to live up to anything other than myself. If it's unfair, there's the fucking door.. And I BET SHE WON'T LEAVE.
But I'm "fair"..
There isn't a right or wrong answer to my question. It's more or less, trying to figure out if she made demands on you, that weren't necessarily the same as you indicate, would you do it as well. If those are the things she requires to be exclusive, and to be happy. Would you make the choice or not to do so.
I think I answered your question.. I would just be repeating myself at this point.
No you did, I was just explaining why I asked the initial question. You would make the choice to do so. Not because you were forced either.
Exactly.. No forcing going on.
Everybody making me out to be oppressive, abusiveeee.. And all this crazy shit.
But they just suckers.
That is why I phrased the question the way I did. So that people could pay attention to your answer, that it is a choice, not force.
I may not agree with some of the statements you have made, because we differ on those. But I get the context of what you are saying, and understand it a little more.click to expand
Thank you.
Posted by Koni
I really hope we get to the bottom of this one day
.
There is nothing to get to the bottom of.
This is MY thread full of reminders not to trust a woman and commit to a woman until she proves that she can be trusted.
I'm not a "trust her until she proves she is untrustworthy" person, and there is nothing wrong with that.
I've been arguing with simps, beta males, and feminist.
Everybody else has either agreed with me or understood me.
You people are not real
Posted by Ariqua
I like you Ehm...you tell all the trade secrets of cancers that most wouldn’t typically admit to.
I’ve dated several cancer suns and cancer moons. They need to know you won’t embarrass them in front of other people.
I always thought that was my leo sun 🤔
Posted by EmhendoPosted by Ariqua
I like you Ehm...you tell all the trade secrets of cancers that most wouldn’t typically admit to.
I’ve dated several cancer suns and cancer moons. They need to know you won’t embarrass them in front of other people.
I don't think ANYBODY would want to be embarrassed..
I don't think ANYBODY would want to be claim someone that's making them look like a fool behind their back..
I think ANYBODY would want to know who they are dealing with, and be CAUTIOUS before any commitments.click to expand
I don't think EVERYBODY cares what others think behind their backs
Posted by enfant_terriblePosted by EmhendoPosted by Ariqua
I like you Ehm...you tell all the trade secrets of cancers that most wouldn’t typically admit to.
I’ve dated several cancer suns and cancer moons. They need to know you won’t embarrass them in front of other people.
I don't think ANYBODY would want to be embarrassed..
I don't think ANYBODY would want to be claim someone that's making them look like a fool behind their back..
I think ANYBODY would want to know who they are dealing with, and be CAUTIOUS before any commitments.
I don't think EVERYBODY cares what others think behind their backsclick to expand
You think you such a fucking smart ass, but I'm talking about in a relationship, DUMMY.
I don't give a fuck how people feel about me, as you can see.. But I'm saying most people wouldn't want their partner to make them look like a fool.
Posted by EmhendoPosted by enfant_terriblePosted by EmhendoPosted by Ariqua
I like you Ehm...you tell all the trade secrets of cancers that most wouldn’t typically admit to.
I’ve dated several cancer suns and cancer moons. They need to know you won’t embarrass them in front of other people.
I don't think ANYBODY would want to be embarrassed..
I don't think ANYBODY would want to be claim someone that's making them look like a fool behind their back..
I think ANYBODY would want to know who they are dealing with, and be CAUTIOUS before any commitments.
I don't think EVERYBODY cares what others think behind their backs
You think you such a fucking smart ass, but I'm talking about in a relationship, DUMMY.
I don't give a fuck how people feel about me, as you can see.. But I'm saying most people wouldn't want their partner to make them look like a fool.click to expand
I was talking about in a relationship too. My real friends would have my best interest in mind either way, as for what everyone else thinks.. waste of energy. You can't control what other ppl think, you can only control if you're gonna let it affect you
Posted by enfant_terriblePosted by EmhendoPosted by enfant_terriblePosted by EmhendoPosted by Ariqua
I like you Ehm...you tell all the trade secrets of cancers that most wouldn’t typically admit to.
I’ve dated several cancer suns and cancer moons. They need to know you won’t embarrass them in front of other people.
I don't think ANYBODY would want to be embarrassed..
I don't think ANYBODY would want to be claim someone that's making them look like a fool behind their back..
I think ANYBODY would want to know who they are dealing with, and be CAUTIOUS before any commitments.
I don't think EVERYBODY cares what others think behind their backs
You think you such a fucking smart ass, but I'm talking about in a relationship, DUMMY.
I don't give a fuck how people feel about me, as you can see.. But I'm saying most people wouldn't want their partner to make them look like a fool.
I was talking about in a relationship too. My real friends would have my best interest in mind either way, as for what everyone else thinks.. waste of energy. You can't control what other ppl think, you can only control if you're gonna let it affect youclick to expand
..................
You not very smart, I see.
I know I can't control what other people think of me, MICKEY MOUSE.
I'm talking about your partner making you look like a fool, by out here having a side piece and doing shit they shouldn't behind your back.
Posted by EmhendoPosted by enfant_terriblePosted by EmhendoPosted by enfant_terriblePosted by EmhendoPosted by Ariqua
I like you Ehm...you tell all the trade secrets of cancers that most wouldn’t typically admit to.
I’ve dated several cancer suns and cancer moons. They need to know you won’t embarrass them in front of other people.
I don't think ANYBODY would want to be embarrassed..
I don't think ANYBODY would want to be claim someone that's making them look like a fool behind their back..
I think ANYBODY would want to know who they are dealing with, and be CAUTIOUS before any commitments.
I don't think EVERYBODY cares what others think behind their backs
You think you such a fucking smart ass, but I'm talking about in a relationship, DUMMY.
I don't give a fuck how people feel about me, as you can see.. But I'm saying most people wouldn't want their partner to make them look like a fool.
I was talking about in a relationship too. My real friends would have my best interest in mind either way, as for what everyone else thinks.. waste of energy. You can't control what other ppl think, you can only control if you're gonna let it affect you
..................
You not very smart, I see.
I know I can't control what other people think of me, MICKEY MOUSE.
I'm talking about your partner making you look like a fool, by out here having a side piece and doing shit they shouldn't behind your back.click to expand
No you're not following me Alejandro..
Whose judgement/opinions am i supposed to be afraid of? Cuz if it's my friends she's not making a fool out of me she's making a fool out of herself. You're concerned about the word on the street it seems, what a bunch of strangers think?
Posted by enfant_terriblePosted by EmhendoPosted by enfant_terriblePosted by EmhendoPosted by enfant_terriblePosted by EmhendoPosted by Ariqua
I like you Ehm...you tell all the trade secrets of cancers that most wouldn’t typically admit to.
I’ve dated several cancer suns and cancer moons. They need to know you won’t embarrass them in front of other people.
I don't think ANYBODY would want to be embarrassed..
I don't think ANYBODY would want to be claim someone that's making them look like a fool behind their back..
I think ANYBODY would want to know who they are dealing with, and be CAUTIOUS before any commitments.
I don't think EVERYBODY cares what others think behind their backs
You think you such a fucking smart ass, but I'm talking about in a relationship, DUMMY.
I don't give a fuck how people feel about me, as you can see.. But I'm saying most people wouldn't want their partner to make them look like a fool.
I was talking about in a relationship too. My real friends would have my best interest in mind either way, as for what everyone else thinks.. waste of energy. You can't control what other ppl think, you can only control if you're gonna let it affect you
..................
You not very smart, I see.
I know I can't control what other people think of me, MICKEY MOUSE.
I'm talking about your partner making you look like a fool, by out here having a side piece and doing shit they shouldn't behind your back.
No you're not following me Alejandro..
Whose judgement/opinions am i supposed to be afraid of? Cuz if it's my friends she's not making a fool out of me she's making a fool out of herself. You're concerned about the word on the street it seems, what a bunch of strangers think?click to expand
No. YOU aren't following me.
I don't have to subscribe to the thoughts of others for myself to look like a fool..
I can feel like a fool all by myself.
"MAKE ME FEEL SOMETHING"
Alexa, play - Get Mad, Johnny.
Foul bitch talks about cheating on her many different boyfriends and how it saved her life or someshit, while making repeated points that she was under the influence of alcohol and was already losing feelings for her boyfriends.
You can read this bullshit here:
https://www.elitedaily.com/dating/cheating-on-boyfriend-smartest-thing/1844252
You can read this bullshit here:
https://www.elitedaily.com/dating/cheating-on-boyfriend-smartest-thing/1844252
Posted by IxionPosted by EmhendoPosted by Ariqua
I like you Ehm...you tell all the trade secrets of cancers that most wouldn’t typically admit to.
I’ve dated several cancer suns and cancer moons. They need to know you won’t embarrass them in front of other people.
I don't think ANYBODY would want to be embarrassed..
I don't think ANYBODY would want to be claim someone that's making them look like a fool behind their back..
I think ANYBODY would want to know who they are dealing with, and be CAUTIOUS before any commitments.
An I don't see nothing wrong with that..
@Ixion is it something wrong with that?
I just saw this...
I wouldn't say the initial thought behind it is wrong.
No one signs up to be hurt just because they agreed to be in a committed relationship with someone else.
The above doesn't excuse all actions that someone takes to seek security for themselves, however.
Any action that prevents the growth of a partner is harmful and will lead to a toxic relationship that will hurt at least one person in the relationship but likely will hurt both.
The goal for any partner that is serious about loving and caring for their S/O will focus their relationship on growth. The growth focused partner therefore doesn't commit to keeping the relationship afloat at the expense of the other person. For them positive growth for all involved is the point of the relationship, it comes first and needs to come last and all of the decisions made are towards that goal, full stop.
I hope that makes sense.
click to expand
Simply not wanting your woman on social media, putting a keylogger on her phone, and all the other things I mentioned - virtually does not hinder the growth of that woman.
Let's keep it real anyway..
Women enjoy toxic relationships.. That's why some guys get dumped because their girlfriend wanted to be with her cheating ex-boyfriend.
Women crave an emotional rollercoaster, and they seek someone that won't easily validate them.
But anyways, I don't see nothing toxic about a woman willing to be accustomed to this type of relationship. It's just submission.
Nothing is toxic about a woman wanting to submit, in order to gain the trust of the man she desires the most.
I'm simply just telling these chicks, that maybe the man they love won't commit to their ass because he doesn't trust her.
If she wants his trust, those are just a few things that she can do to get that definite trust.
Posted by IxionPosted by EmhendoPosted by IxionPosted by EmhendoPosted by Ariqua
I like you Ehm...you tell all the trade secrets of cancers that most wouldn’t typically admit to.
I’ve dated several cancer suns and cancer moons. They need to know you won’t embarrass them in front of other people.
I don't think ANYBODY would want to be embarrassed..
I don't think ANYBODY would want to be claim someone that's making them look like a fool behind their back..
I think ANYBODY would want to know who they are dealing with, and be CAUTIOUS before any commitments.
An I don't see nothing wrong with that..
@Ixion is it something wrong with that?
I just saw this...
I wouldn't say the initial thought behind it is wrong.
No one signs up to be hurt just because they agreed to be in a committed relationship with someone else.
The above doesn't excuse all actions that someone takes to seek security for themselves, however.
Any action that prevents the growth of a partner is harmful and will lead to a toxic relationship that will hurt at least one person in the relationship but likely will hurt both.
The goal for any partner that is serious about loving and caring for their S/O will focus their relationship on growth. The growth focused partner therefore doesn't commit to keeping the relationship afloat at the expense of the other person. For them positive growth for all involved is the point of the relationship, it comes first and needs to come last and all of the decisions made are towards that goal, full stop.
I hope that makes sense.
Simply not wanting your woman on social media, putting a keylogger on her phone, and all the other things I mentioned - virtually does not hinder the growth of that woman.
Let's keep it real anyway..
Women enjoy toxic relationships.. That's why some guys get dumped because their girlfriend wanted to be with her cheating ex-boyfriend.
Women crave an emotional rollercoaster, and they seek someone that won't easily validate them.
But anyways, I don't see nothing toxic about a woman willing to be accustomed to this type of relationship. It's just submission.
Nothing is toxic about a woman wanting to submit, in order to gain the trust of the man she desires the most.
I'm simply just telling these chicks, that maybe the man they love won't commit to their ass because he doesn't trust her.
If she wants his trust, those are just a few things that she can do to get that definite trust.
My family is anomaly in that there are a lot of long-term committed relationships even among the younger folks. Typically the men are the dominant yes but honor, dignity and respect are given to their partners as part of the family culture.
Regardless of age they get their submission not by imposing rules and attempting to make the relationship all about themselves and their needs but through being honorable and respecting the individuality ot the women involved. Some of them have cheated, the vast majority do not. What keeps them together is mutual sense of purpose and growth in that direction.
They pledge themselves to mutual support, coercion isn't necessary to ensure loyalty because they know to control the other they would have to short themselves of a partner that is capable of holding them up when the other is weak.
My own parents are a good example of it...my dad never has had to require submission from my mother she has always voluntarily given it in testament to his ability to love, care and provide. He has always supported her in her endeavors and leaves her to conduct her friendships in a manner that she sees fit, she does the same. Because they respect their differences they work out in the long term. Rinse and repeat several more times and you get the idea of how relationships work in my family.
The few relationships that have broken down did so because one partner or the other tried to serve just their comfort make the relationship all about their comfort and their fears. It never ends well and always operates dysfunctionally and that is putting it lightly.click to expand
I'm just going to say everything you told me about the men in your family, and their values and principles, is merely just an illusion..
What's *really* going on between these couples in your family behind closed doors, especially among the younger couples?
You don't know. I don't know.
We are talking about millennial women anyway. Not married and paired couples beyond our years.
"they know to control the other they would have to short themselves of a partner that is capable of holding them up when the other is weak."
That's what I'm saying, I have a different view of life than you or them.
I don't believe a partner could hold me up when I'm weak.. I also believe that men literally don't need women unless it is to procreate and superficial courtesy - like cooking, cleaning, laundry..
But any able-bodied adult should know how to do those things.
So that only l leaves one job for a woman.. Procreation.
I would literally have to be weak and dying for my partner to hold me up.. Other than that, I don't need to get held down.
I learned that you don't have to commit to a woman for her to hold you down. Hell nawl, you don't have to be her man for her to be there for you. Trust me.
I'm just saying anybody that dates women of this day and age, needs to let go on old-time principles and moralistic behavior.
Let's be done with that shit...
A relationship I'm running wouldn't be ran on "comfort and fears"..
It's running on "you know what, I don't need male friends and social media.."
Because women don't use social media and male friends the same way men do.
Women use social media for validation, attention and monkey-branching.
They use male friends for validation, attention and monkey-branching.
It's not a necessity to women, it's an accessory. They WILL give those things up someday anyway, whether for a man or for herself.
I'm trying to tell you guys.. Don't be sticking up for that shit and these women. Keep it real.
If she's willing to put those things aside because she is happy with me and wants to have my full commitment, then that is between me and my woman and nobody is hindering her growth. She is still her own woman.
Posted by IxionPosted by EmhendoPosted by IxionPosted by EmhendoPosted by IxionPosted by EmhendoPosted by Ariqua
I like you Ehm...you tell all the trade secrets of cancers that most wouldn’t typically admit to.
I’ve dated several cancer suns and cancer moons. They need to know you won’t embarrass them in front of other people.
I don't think ANYBODY would want to be embarrassed..
I don't think ANYBODY would want to be claim someone that's making them look like a fool behind their back..
I think ANYBODY would want to know who they are dealing with, and be CAUTIOUS before any commitments.
An I don't see nothing wrong with that..
@Ixion is it something wrong with that?
I just saw this...
I wouldn't say the initial thought behind it is wrong.
No one signs up to be hurt just because they agreed to be in a committed relationship with someone else.
The above doesn't excuse all actions that someone takes to seek security for themselves, however.
Any action that prevents the growth of a partner is harmful and will lead to a toxic relationship that will hurt at least one person in the relationship but likely will hurt both.
The goal for any partner that is serious about loving and caring for their S/O will focus their relationship on growth. The growth focused partner therefore doesn't commit to keeping the relationship afloat at the expense of the other person. For them positive growth for all involved is the point of the relationship, it comes first and needs to come last and all of the decisions made are towards that goal, full stop.
I hope that makes sense.
Simply not wanting your woman on social media, putting a keylogger on her phone, and all the other things I mentioned - virtually does not hinder the growth of that woman.
Let's keep it real anyway..
Women enjoy toxic relationships.. That's why some guys get dumped because their girlfriend wanted to be with her cheating ex-boyfriend.
Women crave an emotional rollercoaster, and they seek someone that won't easily validate them.
But anyways, I don't see nothing toxic about a woman willing to be accustomed to this type of relationship. It's just submission.
Nothing is toxic about a woman wanting to submit, in order to gain the trust of the man she desires the most.
I'm simply just telling these chicks, that maybe the man they love won't commit to their ass because he doesn't trust her.
If she wants his trust, those are just a few things that she can do to get that definite trust.
My family is anomaly in that there are a lot of long-term committed relationships even among the younger folks. Typically the men are the dominant yes but honor, dignity and respect are given to their partners as part of the family culture.
Regardless of age they get their submission not by imposing rules and attempting to make the relationship all about themselves and their needs but through being honorable and respecting the individuality ot the women involved. Some of them have cheated, the vast majority do not. What keeps them together is mutual sense of purpose and growth in that direction.
They pledge themselves to mutual support, coercion isn't necessary to ensure loyalty because they know to control the other they would have to short themselves of a partner that is capable of holding them up when the other is weak.
My own parents are a good example of it...my dad never has had to require submission from my mother she has always voluntarily given it in testament to his ability to love, care and provide. He has always supported her in her endeavors and leaves her to conduct her friendships in a manner that she sees fit, she does the same. Because they respect their differences they work out in the long term. Rinse and repeat several more times and you get the idea of how relationships work in my family.
The few relationships that have broken down did so because one partner or the other tried to serve just their comfort make the relationship all about their comfort and their fears. It never ends well and always operates dysfunctionally and that is putting it lightly.
I'm just going to say everything you told me about the men in your family, and their values and principles, is merely just an illusion..
What's *really* going on between these couples in your family behind closed doors, especially among the younger couples?
You don't know. I don't know.
We are talking about millennial women anyway. Not married and paired couples beyond our years.
"they know to control the other they would have to short themselves of a partner that is capable of holding them up when the other is weak."
That's what I'm saying, I have a different view of life than you or them.
I don't believe a partner could hold me up when I'm weak.. I also believe that men literally don't need women unless it is to procreate and superficial courtesy - like cooking, cleaning, laundry..
But any able-bodied adult should know how to do those things.
So that only l leaves one job for a woman.. Procreation.
I would literally have to be weak and dying for my partner to hold me up.. Other than that, I don't need to get held down.
I learned that you don't have to commit to a woman for her to hold you down. Hell nawl, you don't have to be her man for her to be there for you. Trust me.
I'm just saying anybody that dates women of this day and age, needs to let go on old-time principles and moralistic behavior.
Let's be done with that shit...
A relationship I'm running wouldn't be ran on "comfort and fears"..
It's running on "you know what, I don't need male friends and social media.."
Because women don't use social media and male friends the same way men do.
Women use social media for validation, attention and monkey-branching.
They use male friends for validation, attention and monkey-branching.
It's not necessity to women, it's an accessory. They WILL give those things up someday anyway, whether for a man or for herself.
I'm trying to tell you guys.. Don't be sticking up for that shit and these women. Keep it real.
If she's willing to put those things aside because she is happy with me and wants to have my full commitment, then that is between me and my woman and nobody is hindering her growth. She is still her own woman.
Hey you asked first. We can agree to disagree.click to expand
Just wanted to see where yo mind at with all of this.
Posted by SoulPosted by Emhendo
Just a thread I will leave here, full of photos, links, and videos for anybody that needs to be reminded not to trust these bitches.
We are living in the age of secrecy, technology, and communication without being face-to-face.
We jump into relationships too easily these days and I believe a woman has to take very drastic but necessary steps before a man should commit to her.
I won't commit to a woman unless she does the following to have my ironclad, definite trust:
*Deactivates all social media accounts and apps
*Puts a keylogger on her phone
*Has no password for her phone/I have the password
*Never at nightclubs, never out late
*No male friends
Remember, you don't have to trust a woman to love a woman.
If she wants REALLY wants commitment and she REALLY wants to be with you and you're the only man for her, she WILL do the following to have you in her life as her man.
If she doesn't agree and has a problem with that, she simply does not want you that bad.. And by all means, keep on pimping her and nothing more. No titles, just fun..
I've seen it done, I've had it done. It's possible for a woman to agree to these measures. I don't want to argue about it.
This makes you comfortable in your relationship and keeps you from subsiding to weak ass behaviors the average person will subside to; like blowing up her phone, questioning her, being up her ass..
With these measures in place, why would you give a shit when she knows you can catch her slipping at any moment?
Trust is inevitable and it is not unconditional. It has to be tended to like a little plant.
So checking on your girl's fedility and faithfulness every now and then does not make you insecure. It makes you know your bitch is properly in-line and you can continue to trust her.
If you can't trust her, why be with her?
I agree 100% .
If a woman is secretive, thats a perfect reflection of her personality. Deceiving.
She will say "Its my privacy, I don't want people in my business."
Which translates to "I'm disloyal and conniving, and don't want to be outed."
I've only experienced women like this. Which made me the type of man who has to be up her ass 24/7. Because deep down I know I can't trust her. I know she is up to no good, because her secrecy told me so. I really hope I meet an open woman who doesn't hide shit. It sucks being alone, but majority of women I've encountered cant be trusted. I know there has to be millions out there with nothing to hide, I just haven't found her yet.click to expand
You're not committing any crime by taking a shit, but you still close the washroom door, don't you?
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