Akward date timing

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continued... Working on Valentine's like a cliché Cappy. Though I have lunch time available. We agreed to coffee not something big. I feel like coffee for Valentine's Day doesn't do it justice and I don't want to hype this thing up with too many expectations if the date happens on Valentine's because honestly, just three days ago I realized Valentine's was even happening. We only have talked online for like about a week, but haven't exchanged numbers or anything. Agreement to meet was made yesterday. So probably I should have been a little more aggressive even though she made first contact. In the perfect world my life would be where I want it and I would have asked her out specifically for Valentine's Day, but that is not the case. Because it is not I asked for a safe get to know you thing rather than something extravagant and romantic. Hopefully she responds tonight and doesn't find someone else for tomorrow and I miss my chance. I will say she has challenged me to kick myself in the but and be more assertive and business like in my everyday dealings, like I used to be in the past. If nothing happens its not the end of the world, but it would be nice to connect with someone who seems to have a lot going for herself.
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It would make her so happy to have a valentine day date!
idk too much pressure imo plus not every woman likes vday
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Nah I’ve gone on a second casual date for vday once. It was a nice time. It didn’t feel pressured. It’s just nice to not be alone on this day. Make it light and fun. Could be something to remember forever.
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It would make her so happy to have a valentine day date!
idk too much pressure imo plus not every woman likes vday
Nah I’ve gone on a second casual date for vday once. It was a nice time. It didn’t feel pressured. It’s just nice to not be alone on this day. Make it light and fun. Could be something to remember forever.
I don't like vday, and would hate to go on a date during it
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Communication is key. He can ask her and give her the option.
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Posted by ufo
Posted by pinkbird03
Posted by ufo
Posted by pinkbird03
It would make her so happy to have a valentine day date!
idk too much pressure imo plus not every woman likes vday
Nah I’ve gone on a second casual date for vday once. It was a nice time. It didn’t feel pressured. It’s just nice to not be alone on this day. Make it light and fun. Could be something to remember forever.
I don't like vday, and would hate to go on a date during it
Communication is key. He can ask her and give her the option.
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I gave her the option earlier today.
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Posted by ufo
Posted by pinkbird03
It would make her so happy to have a valentine day date!
idk too much pressure imo plus not every woman likes vday
Nah I’ve gone on a second casual date for vday once. It was a nice time. It didn’t feel pressured. It’s just nice to not be alone on this day. Make it light and fun. Could be something to remember forever.
I don't like vday, and would hate to go on a date during it
Communication is key. He can ask her and give her the option.
I gave her the option earlier today.
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What she say
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Posted by ufo
Posted by pinkbird03
Posted by ufo
Posted by pinkbird03
It would make her so happy to have a valentine day date!
idk too much pressure imo plus not every woman likes vday
Nah I’ve gone on a second casual date for vday once. It was a nice time. It didn’t feel pressured. It’s just nice to not be alone on this day. Make it light and fun. Could be something to remember forever.
I don't like vday, and would hate to go on a date during it
Communication is key. He can ask her and give her the option.
I gave her the option earlier today.

What she say

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We communicate via online and she hasn't responded yet. My guess is Mardi Gras has her attention. Also she's Catholic.

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Posted by frostey91
Posted by pinkbird03
Posted by frostey91
Posted by pinkbird03
Posted by ufo
Posted by pinkbird03
Posted by ufo
Posted by pinkbird03
It would make her so happy to have a valentine day date!
idk too much pressure imo plus not every woman likes vday
Nah I’ve gone on a second casual date for vday once. It was a nice time. It didn’t feel pressured. It’s just nice to not be alone on this day. Make it light and fun. Could be something to remember forever.
I don't like vday, and would hate to go on a date during it
Communication is key. He can ask her and give her the option.
I gave her the option earlier today.

What she say


We communicate via online and she hasn't responded yet. My guess is Mardi Gras has her attention. Also she's Catholic.

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Oh. She can’t eat meat tomorrow then.
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Posted by ufo
Posted by pinkbird03
Posted by ufo
Posted by pinkbird03
It would make her so happy to have a valentine day date!
idk too much pressure imo plus not every woman likes vday
Nah I’ve gone on a second casual date for vday once. It was a nice time. It didn’t feel pressured. It’s just nice to not be alone on this day. Make it light and fun. Could be something to remember forever.
I don't like vday, and would hate to go on a date during it
Communication is key. He can ask her and give her the option.
I gave her the option earlier today.

What she say


We communicate via online and she hasn't responded yet. My guess is Mardi Gras has her attention. Also she's Catholic.



Oh. She can’t eat meat tomorrow then.

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Ideally then casual date tomorrow and big one later.
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Posted by ufo
Posted by pinkbird03
Posted by ufo
Posted by pinkbird03
It would make her so happy to have a valentine day date!
idk too much pressure imo plus not every woman likes vday
Nah I’ve gone on a second casual date for vday once. It was a nice time. It didn’t feel pressured. It’s just nice to not be alone on this day. Make it light and fun. Could be something to remember forever.
I don't like vday, and would hate to go on a date during it
Communication is key. He can ask her and give her the option.
I gave her the option earlier today.

What she say


We communicate via online and she hasn't responded yet. My guess is Mardi Gras has her attention. Also she's Catholic.



Oh. She can’t eat meat tomorrow then.



Ideally then casual date tomorrow and big one later.

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You got this. No help needed from any of us. 🙂