Dating women made me understand men

I do feel for guys on this

Posted by nanorobot

I didn't watch the video, but I have given this a lot of thought and personally I think I would find it incredibly frustrating.

i have not been able to get a date with a woman. it really has been hard.

Whats so funny i have been chatting with some women on tinder but they turn out to be looking for a unicorn for them and their husbands. dont get me wrong i would love to try a threesome but i so dont want to get into it with married people. i dont need that drama.

Posted by WitchmitchAries

Whats so funny i have been chatting with some women on tinder but they turn out to be looking for a unicorn for them and their husbands. dont get me wrong i would love to try a threesome but i so dont want to get into it with married people. i dont need that drama.

What drama if they are LOOKING for it?

I bet you wouldn’t be the first. Try and tell. 🤝

Posted by WitchmitchAries

Whats so funny i have been chatting with some women on tinder but they turn out to be looking for a unicorn for them and their husbands. dont get me wrong i would love to try a threesome but i so dont want to get into it with married people. i dont need that drama.

Tinder isn't the right place to look for other women. Its for straight people and heteroflexible people.

Why would you want to date a woman anyway?

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Posted by WitchmitchAries

Whats so funny i have been chatting with some women on tinder but they turn out to be looking for a unicorn for them and their husbands. dont get me wrong i would love to try a threesome but i so dont want to get into it with married people. i dont need that drama.

What drama if they are LOOKING for it?

I bet you wouldn’t be the first. Try and tell. 🤝

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😆 married people always have shit going on. plus they want it on their own time. i will stick with single people.

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Posted by WitchmitchAries

Whats so funny i have been chatting with some women on tinder but they turn out to be looking for a unicorn for them and their husbands. dont get me wrong i would love to try a threesome but i so dont want to get into it with married people. i dont need that drama.

Tinder isn't the right place to look for other women. Its for straight people and heteroflexible people.

Why would you want to date a woman anyway?

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i have been attracted to women too. i even offer a threesome for my ex many times. at first he would be yes then he no and try to put it on with a 'i would not do that to you' bull. he was not good at listening to me. i am learning that it is not good for me. there is one woman i have been chatting with but she lives way to far.

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Posted by WitchmitchAries

Whats so funny i have been chatting with some women on tinder but they turn out to be looking for a unicorn for them and their husbands. dont get me wrong i would love to try a threesome but i so dont want to get into it with married people. i dont need that drama.

Tinder isn't the right place to look for other women. Its for straight people and heteroflexible people.

Why would you want to date a woman anyway?

i have been attracted to women too. i even offer a threesome for my ex many times. at first he would be yes then he no and try to put it on with a 'i would not do that to you' bull. he was not good at listening to me. i am learning that it is not good for me. there is one woman i have been chatting with but she lives way to far.

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it is weird i get more excited with women but seem to be draw to men. i find women more of a turn on. but i have never got the chance to have that kind of relationship with a woman. i thought now that my ex was out of the picture i could find a woman and see where it leads too.

Have you ever had sex with a woman before?

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Have you ever had sex with a woman before?

no met my ex and got married way to young.

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Posted by Anomalous

Have you ever had sex with a woman before?

no met my ex and got married way to young.

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Ahh I see. Do you think it's only a sexual attraction?

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Whats so funny i have been chatting with some women on tinder but they turn out to be looking for a unicorn for them and their husbands. dont get me wrong i would love to try a threesome but i so dont want to get into it with married people. i dont need that drama.

What drama if they are LOOKING for it?

I bet you wouldn’t be the first. Try and tell. 🤝

😆 married people always have shit going on. plus they want it on their own time. i will stick with single people.

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Are they looking for...unemployed? Lmao

Cool video! She is adorable!

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Posted by WitchmitchAries

Whats so funny i have been chatting with some women on tinder but they turn out to be looking for a unicorn for them and their husbands. dont get me wrong i would love to try a threesome but i so dont want to get into it with married people. i dont need that drama.

Tinder isn't the right place to look for other women. Its for straight people and heteroflexible people.

Why would you want to date a woman anyway?

i have been attracted to women too. i even offer a threesome for my ex many times. at first he would be yes then he no and try to put it on with a 'i would not do that to you' bull. he was not good at listening to me. i am learning that it is not good for me.there is one woman i have been chatting with but she lives way to far.

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Keep your options open.

However, I'm still not sure if this is because you want the experience or you are looking for something serious?This is relevant because most queer women aren't very tolerant of women who are looking for a first time experience.

Also, be careful of catfishes.

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Whats so funny i have been chatting with some women on tinder but they turn out to be looking for a unicorn for them and their husbands. dont get me wrong i would love to try a threesome but i so dont want to get into it with married people. i dont need that drama.

Tinder isn't the right place to look for other women. Its for straight people and heteroflexible people.

Why would you want to date a woman anyway?

i have been attracted to women too. i even offer a threesome for my ex many times. at first he would be yes then he no and try to put it on with a 'i would not do that to you' bull. he was not good at listening to me. i am learning that it is not good for me.there is one woman i have been chatting with but she lives way to far.

Keep your options open.

However, I'm still not sure if this is because you want the experience or you are looking for something serious?This is relevant because most queer women aren't very tolerant of women who are looking for a first time experience.

Also, be careful of catfishes.

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i have to much trust issues for something serious. there was this friend of mine. I met her through the chambers when i had my game shop. She was a scorp. it was great i thought i would have a real best friend thingy but over time i found myself getting really really excited when we hugged. i didnt hit on her or anything i was still married at the time. I would never say anything to her. then one day she said she couldnt hang out with me anymore. I dont know if had a feeling or what. she gave me the reason that she had to much going and she need to take care of herself kinda stuff. we were friend for two years. i felt heart ache from that. and after my ex and the aries guy. i now have issues with comment relationship stuff. this other aries guy said i was broken this week. he wanted me to move in with him and all i could think about was being trapped. i know it all sounds crazy.

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Posted by Anomalous

Have you ever had sex with a woman before?

no met my ex and got married way to young.

Ahh I see. Do you think it's only a sexual attraction?

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sexual attraction with my ex or women?

Posted by Gemitati

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Posted by WitchmitchAries

Whats so funny i have been chatting with some women on tinder but they turn out to be looking for a unicorn for them and their husbands. dont get me wrong i would love to try a threesome but i so dont want to get into it with married people. i dont need that drama.

What drama if they are LOOKING for it?

I bet you wouldn’t be the first. Try and tell. 🤝

😆 married people always have shit going on. plus they want it on their own time. i will stick with single people.

Are they looking for...unemployed? Lmao

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what the freak does that mean? lol

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I always wonder where people find those women. Granted, my experience with women is limited but I've never really encountered this kind of behaviour.

I'm gonna go out on a limb and say Tinder. I never acted like that on a date but my dates came about organically with people I already knew and (mostly) respected.

Okay, but even then one would have to allow them to pull that kind of stuff.

What do you mean?

A lot of what is described are things you can prevent or just refuse to accept. It can be established before the date that you are not going to pay for it. When just keeps talking you can communicate your displeasure about it and then just leave if she refuses to comply. The cat and marriage comment is something I would just take as a joke but nothing more.

See, most people would have trouble with those kinds of awkward conversations.

Well, you can always flip the tables for fun.

You're a never-ending font of table flipping.

"We men of cold politeness

Shall never melt into that kindness of yours

No matter how we try"

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dont matter they are men or women.

Posted by WitchmitchAries

I do feel for guys on this

I find fake YouTubers extremely annoying (cringe like) - and she's in top of the list in this regard. Most of her content - is clearly MADE UP! 🙄 She's one of those YouTubers - who makes YouTube videos by the book (How to make money on YouTube). As in:

- all her videos are couple of minutes long (based on the statics - short videos are more clickable and it's also more likely for most of the audience - to actually check that content from begging to end / which is important for YouTube's algorithms - if you're to make money from YouTube content)

- again, as mentioned above - most of her YouTube content is made up (she invents shit that sounds interesting - stuff she rarely or never experienced in real life) - and also edited by professionals to look good.

For this reason "it lacks substance (that's how you can tell it's fake - that it's not based on her actual experience)". Trying to look cool for the camera is one thing - and being fake is another (YouTubers like Anna Akana - are the perfect example). By comparison - here's what real looks like...



(even from the way she talks - you can tell that she's not just acting and saying shit for the camera - that her answers are based on her actual experience)

Video is so shallow ....

Here's what she was annoyed at:

1) paying for a date when she's was the one asked out

2) promised make out session did not happen

3) corny jokes about getting married



So these 3 things helped you appreciate men's role in dating? Really how insightful 🙄

Posted by WitchmitchAries

Whats so funny i have been chatting with some women on tinder but they turn out to be looking for a unicorn for them and their husbands. dont get me wrong i would love to try a threesome but i so dont want to get into it with married people. i dont need that drama.

Same!

It’s becoming the norm I’m looking too and every other profile is a couple

Posted by neves

Posted by WitchmitchAries

I do feel for guys on this

I find fake YouTubers extremely annoying (cringe like) - and she's in top of the list in this regard. Most of her content - is clearly MADE UP! 🙄 She's one of those YouTubers - who makes YouTube videos by the book (How to make money on YouTube). As in:

- all her videos are couple of minutes long (based on the statics - short videos are more clickable and it's also more likely for most of the audience - to actually check that content from begging to end / which is important for YouTube's algorithms - if you're to make money from YouTube content)

- again, as mentioned above - most of her YouTube content is made up (she invents shit that sounds interesting - stuff she rarely or never experienced in real life) - and also edited by professionals to look good.

For this reason "it lacks substance (that's how you can tell it's fake - that it's not based on her actual experience)". Trying to look cool for the camera is one thing - and being fake is another (YouTubers like Anna Akana - are the perfect example). By comparison - here's what real looks like...

(even from the way she talks - you can tell that she's not just acting and saying shit for the camera - that her answers are based on her actual experience)

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Posted by MareInfame

I’ve gone out with some of my Lesbo friends to parties and clubs and I would get hit on by a lot of their friends... so, I don’t think getting a date would be an issue.

The issue I would have is how sappy and emotionally heavy it all gets... ITS SO BORING. Too much estrogen is nauseating to me.

But, if I were into girls, I don’t think I’d have issue getting a date... they act like men, do anything to please me & court me. I don’t see a difference here.

Something I find interesting is how my perspective would change about going Dutch. The commentator was hoping the girl would pay for her because she asked her out. Under those same circumstances I would have assumed to go Dutch!!! I never would have expected her to pay (maybe because I’m not into women? ). Not sure why my brain went there, but it was interesting because when males ask me out, it is a given in my head that they will pay. But, most of them make a lot of money... so they have no issue either.

When commentator said she’d get pissed of promised making out but getting a convo till 3am: I didn’t really see her point 🤷🏻‍♀️. Seems like the energy just wasn’t there, IMO if you are just going to sit there and wait for your make out session (passive) then you can’t complain, because you didn’t really do anything about it.

If she made efforts to change energy in room, she would have gotten her make out session!🙄🙄🙄

Anyway... this was interesting, thanks for sharing.

it is when you live in a small town far away from everything.

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Posted by WitchmitchAries

Whats so funny i have been chatting with some women on tinder but they turn out to be looking for a unicorn for them and their husbands. dont get me wrong i would love to try a threesome but i so dont want to get into it with married people. i dont need that drama.

Same!

It’s becoming the norm I’m looking too and every other profile is a couple

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it is i dont mind maybe trying it out. i just want my first with a woman and all i am is a toy for her hubby. just saying

Posted by Redbull

Seems pretty concern-trolly how concerned she is about men in her experiences dating women. Dudes can actually hold their own. I never been in any of these situations or heard any dude I associate with complaining about any of that. Gotta be sufficiently "player" about the situation or learn to be. Dont see how any of this has anything to do with men. Seems to be making "issues" and thats cool but her business.

oh i forgot male pride. i have a lot of guys friends who have opened up to me about women. they sure hell will not tell their guy friends about there women problems. just say.

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Seems pretty concern-trolly how concerned she is about men in her experiences dating women. Dudes can actually hold their own. I never been in any of these situations or heard any dude I associate with complaining about any of that. Gotta be sufficiently "player" about the situation or learn to be. Dont see how any of this has anything to do with men. Seems to be making "issues" and thats cool but her business.

oh i forgot male pride. i have a lot of guys friends who have opened up to me about women. they sure hell will not tell their guy friends about there women problems. just say.

Haha...ok ok I think Im pickin up on some of what your puttin down, ok. Yeah I wont say I have no "problems" but not overwhelmed by problems or anything. As far as "women problems" have none Im single. Been around for a while and you just learn things. Or at least "should" or at least thats my perspective. So its kind of like she would need to learn? But I do know enough to stay out of anything that she is describing here as a man Its her business hence the injecting men in it? Thats where the concern troll becomes apparent.

True, Im not speaking for every man just myself and those I know. The people involved could be cool or whatever but Im leaving all that alone hence thats their business and theirs alone type of thing. But hey it was interesting enough to watch and even comment on so theres that. I think men are pretty understanding about this type of thing but its also not our concern so dont worry about us if you dont have to if this is your thing at least thats just me.

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lol the woman was just sharing and being understand is all. she then told it in a funny way. if i recall i am older then you. so i am sure i know a shit load. so could teach you a thing or two. just saying

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Seems pretty concern-trolly how concerned she is about men in her experiences dating women. Dudes can actually hold their own. I never been in any of these situations or heard any dude I associate with complaining about any of that. Gotta be sufficiently "player" about the situation or learn to be. Dont see how any of this has anything to do with men. Seems to be making "issues" and thats cool but her business.

oh i forgot male pride. i have a lot of guys friends who have opened up to me about women. they sure hell will not tell their guy friends about there women problems. just say.

Haha...ok ok I think Im pickin up on some of what your puttin down, ok. Yeah I wont say I have no "problems" but not overwhelmed by problems or anything. As far as "women problems" have none Im single. Been around for a while and you just learn things. Or at least "should" or at least thats my perspective. So its kind of like she would need to learn? But I do know enough to stay out of anything that she is describing here as a man Its her business hence the injecting men in it? Thats where the concern troll becomes apparent.

True, Im not speaking for every man just myself and those I know. The people involved could be cool or whatever but Im leaving all that alone hence thats their business and theirs alone type of thing. But hey it was interesting enough to watch and even comment on so theres that. I think men are pretty understanding about this type of thing but its also not our concern so dont worry about us if you dont have to if this is your thing at least thats just me.

lol the woman was just sharing and being understand is all. she then told it in a funny way. if i recall i am older then you. so i am sure i know a shit load. so could teach you a thing or two. just saying

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not putting anything down just putting things straight

Posted by GODZ

women are low ass goof

men fart to much

Posted by Sailor_Mars

my boo is still aimed at men.

does that bother you?

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my boo is still aimed at men.

does that bother you?

Oddly enough, not the least. 🤔🌈

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i think that is a good thing. i think it says you got trust and strong connection.

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my boo is still aimed at men.

does that bother you?

Oddly enough, not the least. 🤔🌈

i think that is a good thing. i think it says you got trust and strong connection.

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maybe it is an aries thing. i am so not the jelly type. i only get sad when i am not get attention when i want it 😆

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Seems pretty concern-trolly how concerned she is about men in her experiences dating women. Dudes can actually hold their own. I never been in any of these situations or heard any dude I associate with complaining about any of that. Gotta be sufficiently "player" about the situation or learn to be. Dont see how any of this has anything to do with men. Seems to be making "issues" and thats cool but her business.

oh i forgot male pride. i have a lot of guys friends who have opened up to me about women. they sure hell will not tell their guy friends about there women problems. just say.

Haha...ok ok I think Im pickin up on some of what your puttin down, ok. Yeah I wont say I have no "problems" but not overwhelmed by problems or anything. As far as "women problems" have none Im single. Been around for a while and you just learn things. Or at least "should" or at least thats my perspective. So its kind of like she would need to learn? But I do know enough to stay out of anything that she is describing here as a man Its her business hence the injecting men in it? Thats where the concern troll becomes apparent.

True, Im not speaking for every man just myself and those I know. The people involved could be cool or whatever but Im leaving all that alone hence thats their business and theirs alone type of thing. But hey it was interesting enough to watch and even comment on so theres that. I think men are pretty understanding about this type of thing but its also not our concern so dont worry about us if you dont have to if this is your thing at least thats just me.

lol the woman was just sharing and being understand is all. she then told it in a funny way. if i recall i am older then you. so i am sure i know a shit load. so could teach you a thing or two. just saying

Haha alright alright. Im...I think your doing a good job here how youre doing your thing threadwise. No problems it just seems kind of weird her focus and attention. But hey if your trying to do all that no judging forget the dudes if thats not your thing and go about your business. We...as far as Im concerned none of the rest of this is even a concern. Anyway *breaking news* a Sag dude I know just called me his car broke down and he's near where my part time job is so I told him I'd help take him to car parts store so Im leaving a little early for work today. You know the Sags with the spontaneous developments

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😆 ok

Posted by Notmyrealname

I don’t think I’ve met any of these stereoypes, but it would definitely be a nightmare dating a woman tbf lol, I feel like there are so many advantages to men not really understanding anything

yeah men just give it up so easy.

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Have you ever had sex with a woman before?

no met my ex and got married way to young.

Ahh I see. Do you think it's only a sexual attraction?

sexual attraction with my ex or women?

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With women?

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Posted by Anomalous

Have you ever had sex with a woman before?

no met my ex and got married way to young.

Ahh I see. Do you think it's only a sexual attraction?

sexual attraction with my ex or women?

With women?

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yes women

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Posted by Anomalous

Have you ever had sex with a woman before?

no met my ex and got married way to young.

Ahh I see. Do you think it's only a sexual attraction?

sexual attraction with my ex or women?

With women?

yes women

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Oh so you're not looking for a relationship, you just wanna tongue slide?

Posted by WitchmitchAries

I do feel for guys on this

What a load of bullshit. I rather hear this from a butch, not some femme bitch that dated a couple girls and ain't even really gay.

She obviously just experimented.. Now she the thinks she understands men, as if she was the masculine one in these relationships. She's just a dumb femme that think she's making a real point.

I've dated women all my life and I don't feel this way 100% and I'm sure men don't really either. This is just typical annoying shit you gotta deal with.. Not the key knowledge a man's brain in dating.

Please don't listen to this mutt Heffa

Bitch talking about "Exhibit A".. "she didn't even try to pay for the meal".

PSHHH.. Bitch, please.

Posted by Redbull

Seems pretty concern-trolly how concerned she is about men in her experiences dating women. Dudes can actually hold their own. I never been in any of these situations or heard any dude I associate with complaining about any of that. Gotta be sufficiently "player" about the situation or learn to be. Dont see how any of this has anything to do with men. Seems to be making "issues" and thats cool but her business.

I have actually had guy friends make similar complaints to me. Just because you haven't experienced it doesn't mean it doesn't happen.

Funnily enough they won't talk to each other about it but will readily confide with the girls in our group (there are only 3 girls in our group of 8).

Posted by MareInfame

I’ve gone out with some of my Lesbo friends to parties and clubs and I would get hit on by a lot of their friends... so, I don’t think getting a date would be an issue.

The issue I would have is how sappy and emotionally heavy it all gets... ITS SO BORING. Too much estrogen is nauseating to me.

But, if I were into girls, I don’t think I’d have issue getting a date... they act like men, do anything to please me & court me. I don’t see a difference here.

Something I find interesting is how my perspective would change about going Dutch. The commentator was hoping the girl would pay for her because she asked her out. Under those same circumstances I would have assumed to go Dutch!!! I never would have expected her to pay (maybe because I’m not into women? ). Not sure why my brain went there, but it was interesting because when males ask me out, it is a given in my head that they will pay. But, most of them make a lot of money... so they have no issue either.

When commentator said she’d get pissed of promised making out but getting a convo till 3am: I didn’t really see her point 🤷🏻‍♀️. Seems like the energy just wasn’t there, IMO if you are just going to sit there and wait for your make out session (passive) then you can’t complain, because you didn’t really do anything about it.

If she made efforts to change energy in room, she would have gotten her make out session!🙄🙄🙄

Anyway... this was interesting, thanks for sharing.

So much generalizing in the bolded texts, I don't know where to start.

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Posted by WitchmitchAries

I do feel for guys on this

I find fake YouTubers extremely annoying (cringe like) - and she's in top of the list in this regard. Most of her content - is clearly MADE UP! 🙄 She's one of those YouTubers - who makes YouTube videos by the book (How to make money on YouTube). As in:

- all her videos are couple of minutes long (based on the statics - short videos are more clickable and it's also more likely for most of the audience - to actually check that content from begging to end / which is important for YouTube's algorithms - if you're to make money from YouTube content)

- again, as mentioned above - most of her YouTube content is made up (she invents shit that sounds interesting - stuff she rarely or never experienced in real life) - and also edited by professionals to look good.

For this reason "it lacks substance (that's how you can tell it's fake - that it's not based on her actual experience)". Trying to look cool for the camera is one thing - and being fake is another (YouTubers like Anna Akana - are the perfect example). By comparison - here's what real looks like...

(even from the way she talks - you can tell that she's not just acting and saying shit for the camera - that her answers are based on her actual experience)

DISAGREE

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THIS GIF

LMAO

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I’ve gone out with some of my Lesbo friends to parties and clubs and I would get hit on by a lot of their friends... so, I don’t think getting a date would be an issue.The issue I would have is how sappy and emotionally heavy it all gets... ITS SO BORING. Too much estrogen is nauseating to me.

But, if I were into girls, I don’t think I’d have issue getting a date... they act like men, do anything to please me & court me. I don’t see a difference here.

Something I find interesting is how my perspective would change about going Dutch. The commentator was hoping the girl would pay for her because she asked her out. Under those same circumstances I would have assumed to go Dutch!!! I never would have expected her to pay (maybe because I’m not into women? ). Not sure why my brain went there, but it was interesting because when males ask me out, it is a given in my head that they will pay. But, most of them make a lot of money... so they have no issue either.

When commentator said she’d get pissed of promised making out but getting a convo till 3am: I didn’t really see her point 🤷🏻‍♀️. Seems like the energy just wasn’t there, IMO if you are just going to sit there and wait for your make out session (passive) then you can’t complain, because you didn’t really do anything about it.

If she made efforts to change energy in room, she would have gotten her make out session!🙄🙄🙄

Anyway... this was interesting, thanks for sharing.

So much generalizing in the bolded texts, I don't know where to start.

Good point👍🏼👍🏼

I should have clarified... they are women in within the groups I hang out with. I have a huge groups of lesbo friends and there’s always a lot of silly drama. I also feel they get really sappy around me. 🤷🏻‍♀️

I’m just voicing out MY EXPERIENCE. 👍🏼👍🏼

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Your experience has been acknowledged lol

Mine was/is the opposite.

Most of the men I dated probably had higher estrogen levels than me (only one exception, the Virgo ex) - very emotional and draining.

The women were the opposite (though it's to be noted that some of them repressed their emotions).

i have thought about it too, and i think i'd have an easier time tbh