Haruuka
@Haruuka
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Do we attract what we want, or what we need ?
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I always atrack what I want. Different people at different times depending on what I want to or I am interested at that moment.
Maybe what you want and what you think you want is different and it gets mixed?
Maybe what you want and what you think you want is different and it gets mixed?
Posted by pisceswoman123
I always atrack what I want. Different people at different times depending on what I want to or I am interested at that moment.
Maybe what you want and what you think you want is different and it gets mixed?
So there is no something like pattern in your lover or friends?
Something always in common, you know? Something weird that no one will even think about (like first child thing lol)
I know what I want, and what I need
But I attract that weird type who will ask me to marry them when I don’t even know them. (Happened to me about 4 times... and I know it’s not normal at all)
But the lovers always the first child and always talk care of the whole family (damaged relationship with the father)
One of them was extremely abused by his father, I tried to save him but I failed:/
Lol, it seems like i never attract anyone I want or need.
Posted by HaruukaPosted by pisceswoman123
I always atrack what I want. Different people at different times depending on what I want to or I am interested at that moment.
Maybe what you want and what you think you want is different and it gets mixed?
So there is no something like pattern in your lover or friends?
Something always in common, you know? Something weird that no one will even think about (like first child thing lol)
I know what I want, and what I need
But I attract that weird type who will ask me to marry them when I don’t even know them. (Happened to me about 4 times... and I know it’s not normal at all)
But the lovers always the first child and always talk care of the whole family (damaged relationship with the father)
One of them was extremely abused by his father, I tried to save him but I failed:/click to expand
No really a patern like you are saying.
The only patern will be good looking popular guys that all girls like and want and for some reason they fall in love with me and they think I am the one.
Lol, it sounds very pretentious, but that is my only patern.
Posted by Cyrano_de_Bergerac
We attract what we believe we'll attract.
I think you have a good point there
I attract the broken 🤷
I don't particularly want it but I guess they need it...not sure what I do for them to be quite honest because really I'm probably just as broken as they are...
Friends wise...it just depends. My circle is very small and seems to get smaller by the moment...pretty soon it will be just me 😂
I don't particularly want it but I guess they need it...not sure what I do for them to be quite honest because really I'm probably just as broken as they are...
Friends wise...it just depends. My circle is very small and seems to get smaller by the moment...pretty soon it will be just me 😂
I seem to invariably attract very emotionally healthy, self-sufficient, and active people.
Either that, or as I suspect, I don't manage to get to know anyone well enough.
Either that, or as I suspect, I don't manage to get to know anyone well enough.
Posted by NemDeux
your vibe attracts your tribe.
but how can my vibe attract "first child" lol?
my curiosity will kill me one day like she did with the cat
Posted by Jade_Alexander
I have attracted such drastically different men.
Typically they’re either too clingy or emotionally distant.
My husband was very attached and vocal and completely invested
The man before him was distant, superficial about our relationship but still managed to be attached to me, just didn’t express it...
do you know in why do you attract these kinds?
Posted by earlorg16
Lol, it seems like i never attract anyone I want or need.
yeah I'm kinda like this 😢
Posted by Cyrano_de_Bergerac
We attract what we believe we'll attract.
so I believe that I attract these kinds even tho I never think about it?
Posted by Cyrano_de_Bergerac
We attract what we believe we'll attract.
so I believe that I attract these kinds even tho I never think about it?
Posted by LostinmyMind11
I attract the broken 🤷
I don't particularly want it but I guess they need it...not sure what I do for them to be quite honest because really I'm probably just as broken as they are...
Friends wise...it just depends. My circle is very small and seems to get smaller by the moment...pretty soon it will be just me 😂
who...they need you, so deep
I think first child need number 9 child huh?lol
Posted by GemCurio
Like begets like...
If you didn't like it, you wouldn't find yourself around it. Period...
People do not want to accept that, but that doesn't make it less true...
We do not wear clothing we don't like, we don't eat food we don't like, we don't buy things we don't enjoy, and we surround ourselves with people, places, and things that represent ourselves...
Give credit to where credit is due... The mirror...
What if we are with them because they are the only option?
BECAUSE they are human not food
Posted by RooSagicorn
I used to attract those similar to parents.. but these days it seems like I attract people to teach me lessons of what I don’t need 😂😂. Maybe until you learn what you do need? And can actually attract it.
actually I don't know what I need
Posted by dadjokes
I seem to invariably attract very emotionally healthy, self-sufficient, and active people.
Either that, or as I suspect, I don't manage to get to know anyone well enough.
that's actually great!
Posted by Ellygant
Historically, I attracted what my mother always described growing up as broken birds. People who were wounded. In similar ways to me. Or similar enough I could empathize.
Then I went through a time in my life where I craved stability for stabilty’s sake. Attracted that in friends and lovers. It was more about me wanting stability than it was about me being there for them though.
Then went the opposite. Wanted chaos cause I chose to leave stability and didn’t think I deserved it. Attracted chaotic friends and lovers.
Last couple years I realized shit was off. Dig deep asking myself why I wanted what I did and what was really good for my soul. It required letting go of a lot of safety, a lot of comfortable habits and a helluva lot of dreams I thought I always wanted.
Lately I’ve been attracting the dopest folk. New friends. Old friends who have changed in the same ways I have. New job. New type of romance. Life doesn’t look like what I expected a year or two ago. It’s better than I imagined. So to me, external circumstances are merely a reflection of a person’s internal reality.
I love that, I really need to do this, like I'm really tired of being with people who does not understand me
Posted by Black-MambaPosted by NemDeux
your vibe attracts your tribe.
My vibe must be wackclick to expand
i read something scary it was like"every thing that happened to you is something you actually asked for it" in past life or something
Posted by RooSagicornPosted by HaruukaPosted by RooSagicorn
I used to attract those similar to parents.. but these days it seems like I attract people to teach me lessons of what I don’t need 😂😂. Maybe until you learn what you do need? And can actually attract it.
actually I don't know what I need
It’s a process of learning what you need. I learn the hard way so ive had plenty of lessons 😉click to expand
when I think about it deep down I wanna be alone because I hate men that I attracted .. like I really don't know what to do to stop attract men who only want me because my pretty face
even tho all men are shallow and stuff lol
but yeah thank you I will try it
Posted by Impulsv
I attract cold men
Cap in moon
I’m attracted to but then it cuts me both ways because I don’t have my emotional needs met yet for the life of me I’m attracted to them.
If there is room full of men
I’ll like the serious brooding watchful guy in the corner
The one that even looks angry lol
men like your ex leo?
maybe it's more like your type is angry men lol
I love the sweet kind. but attract the jealous /insecure type
Posted by GemCurioPosted by HaruukaPosted by GemCurio
Like begets like...
If you didn't like it, you wouldn't find yourself around it. Period...
People do not want to accept that, but that doesn't make it less true...
We do not wear clothing we don't like, we don't eat food we don't like, we don't buy things we don't enjoy, and we surround ourselves with people, places, and things that represent ourselves...
Give credit to where credit is due... The mirror...
What if we are with them because they are the only option?
BECAUSE they are human not food
To say they are ONLY OPTION is to DENY PERSONAL CHOICE. Everything outside of immediate family IS personal choice whether a person accepts it or not. You can always choose other people or at least not that person. So.....click to expand
I asked you what IF ?
Posted by Black-MambaPosted by HaruukaPosted by Black-MambaPosted by NemDeux
your vibe attracts your tribe.
My vibe must be wack
i read something scary it was like"every thing that happened to you is something you actually asked for it" in past life or something
I Dont believe that
I know exactly why I'm the way i amclick to expand
If you believe in astrology.. then you maybe don’t know that past life is just part of it, it’s like crazy game
Tell me why!?
Posted by Haruuka
@pisceswoman123
Why do you hide your comments😢
There. I have unhide them now.
I just remembered a funny patern. My longest relationships are with left handed men 😄
Posted by HaruukaPosted by LostinmyMind11
I attract the broken 🤷
I don't particularly want it but I guess they need it...not sure what I do for them to be quite honest because really I'm probably just as broken as they are...
Friends wise...it just depends. My circle is very small and seems to get smaller by the moment...pretty soon it will be just me 😂
who...they need you, so deep
I think first child need number 9 child huh?lol
click to expand
I'm gonna be 100% honest here....I have no idea what you are saying lol
Posted by LostinmyMind11Posted by HaruukaPosted by LostinmyMind11
I attract the broken 🤷
I don't particularly want it but I guess they need it...not sure what I do for them to be quite honest because really I'm probably just as broken as they are...
Friends wise...it just depends. My circle is very small and seems to get smaller by the moment...pretty soon it will be just me 😂
who...they need you, so deep
I think first child need number 9 child huh?lol
I'm gonna be 100% honest here....I have no idea what you are saying lolclick to expand
I know lol sorry tho
Posted by HaruukaPosted by LostinmyMind11Posted by HaruukaPosted by LostinmyMind11
I attract the broken 🤷
I don't particularly want it but I guess they need it...not sure what I do for them to be quite honest because really I'm probably just as broken as they are...
Friends wise...it just depends. My circle is very small and seems to get smaller by the moment...pretty soon it will be just me 😂
who...they need you, so deep
I think first child need number 9 child huh?lol
I'm gonna be 100% honest here....I have no idea what you are saying lol
I know lol sorry thoclick to expand
No worries 🤗
Posted by GemCurioPosted by HaruukaPosted by GemCurioPosted by HaruukaPosted by GemCurio
Like begets like...
If you didn't like it, you wouldn't find yourself around it. Period...
People do not want to accept that, but that doesn't make it less true...
We do not wear clothing we don't like, we don't eat food we don't like, we don't buy things we don't enjoy, and we surround ourselves with people, places, and things that represent ourselves...
Give credit to where credit is due... The mirror...
What if we are with them because they are the only option?
BECAUSE they are human not food
To say they are ONLY OPTION is to DENY PERSONAL CHOICE. Everything outside of immediate family IS personal choice whether a person accepts it or not. You can always choose other people or at least not that person. So.....
I asked you what IF ?
IF is fine with me. The underlying truth is as long as you're alive "ONLY OPTION" is an impossibility. Because simply "Not That Person" is another choice.There's no shame in running away from crazy friends, useless family, or poisonous associates. The smart people run away from them all the time... For better or worse. If whomever is a cesspool of misery sucking the life out of you leave, and never look back. Just take a suitcase and figure it out. You're not the first person to do it on earth and you won't be the last. No situation is new. There are simply those who utilize their will to act on the situation or not. Choices....click to expand
To be honest... my family is very crazy. But I love them, Jupiter in 4th house shyt.
I can’t run away from them, it will completely destroy them.
But I run all the time from crazy people
My problem is that people around me does not understand me, when I ask for “me time” they keep coming till I just talk ... maybe I need more bounders idk.
I know they do this because they love me, but I feel like I’m gonna lose my mind.
If I hide for fking day they will go crazy looking for me 😢
I hide one day from my ex crazy gemini, then He hacked my phone
Why people around me act like this? I really need to know
Posted by pisceswoman123Posted by Haruuka
@pisceswoman123
Why do you hide your comments😢
There. I have unhide them now.
I just remembered a funny patern. My longest relationships are with left handed men 😄click to expand
See? I told you, there is always weird pattern 🤣😅
And thank you for unhide them ❤️
Posted by pisceswoman123Posted by HaruukaPosted by pisceswoman123
I always atrack what I want. Different people at different times depending on what I want to or I am interested at that moment.
Maybe what you want and what you think you want is different and it gets mixed?
So there is no something like pattern in your lover or friends?
Something always in common, you know? Something weird that no one will even think about (like first child thing lol)
I know what I want, and what I need
But I attract that weird type who will ask me to marry them when I don’t even know them. (Happened to me about 4 times... and I know it’s not normal at all)
But the lovers always the first child and always talk care of the whole family (damaged relationship with the father)
One of them was extremely abused by his father, I tried to save him but I failed:/
No really a patern like you are saying.
The only patern will be good looking popular guys that all girls like and want and for some reason they fall in love with me and they think I am the one.
Lol, it sounds very pretentious, but that is my only patern.click to expand
I’m sure that you have powerful soul to attract this kind.
Maybe because you don’t chase them like other girl, they just know that you’re not like everybody else
Posted by Lala1393Posted by HaruukaPosted by Lala1393
I don't know
The ice cream type 😂
With a BIG cone 😏click to expand
Hahaha scorpio thing 😂🤚🏻
Posted by Lala1393Posted by HaruukaPosted by Lala1393Posted by HaruukaPosted by Lala1393
I don't know
The ice cream type 😂
With a BIG cone 😏
Hahaha scorpio thing 😂🤚🏻
The more 🍦cream🍦 the better 😏click to expand
I perfer coffee over almost everything even sex
Posted by Lala1393Posted by HaruukaPosted by Lala1393Posted by HaruukaPosted by Lala1393Posted by HaruukaPosted by Lala1393
I don't know
The ice cream type 😂
With a BIG cone 😏
Hahaha scorpio thing 😂🤚🏻
The more 🍦cream🍦 the better 😏
I perfer coffee over almost everything even sex
Sex without cream ??
😱😱😱click to expand
Lol what does that mean?
Posted by HaruukaPosted by Black-MambaPosted by NemDeux
your vibe attracts your tribe.
My vibe must be wack
i read something scary it was like"every thing that happened to you is something you actually asked for it" in past life or somethingclick to expand
I don't think that's true. I didn't want some of the things that have happened in my lifetime to happen.
I do think similar to what others have said, we attract what we put out into the universe. If you feel you don't deserve things or people then you will attract those that will abuse or mistreat you or even subconsciously seek those types out. Self
Fulfilling mindset so to speak- so you reinforce those negative thought patterns.
Once you find your inner self and see you do deserve the best, so will others.
Posted by GemCurioPosted by HaruukaPosted by GemCurioPosted by HaruukaPosted by GemCurioPosted by HaruukaPosted by GemCurio
Like begets like...
If you didn't like it, you wouldn't find yourself around it. Period...
People do not want to accept that, but that doesn't make it less true...
We do not wear clothing we don't like, we don't eat food we don't like, we don't buy things we don't enjoy, and we surround ourselves with people, places, and things that represent ourselves...
Give credit to where credit is due... The mirror...
What if we are with them because they are the only option?
BECAUSE they are human not food
To say they are ONLY OPTION is to DENY PERSONAL CHOICE. Everything outside of immediate family IS personal choice whether a person accepts it or not. You can always choose other people or at least not that person. So.....
I asked you what IF ?
IF is fine with me. The underlying truth is as long as you're alive "ONLY OPTION" is an impossibility. Because simply "Not That Person" is another choice.There's no shame in running away from crazy friends, useless family, or poisonous associates. The smart people run away from them all the time... For better or worse. If whomever is a cesspool of misery sucking the life out of you leave, and never look back. Just take a suitcase and figure it out. You're not the first person to do it on earth and you won't be the last. No situation is new. There are simply those who utilize their will to act on the situation or not. Choices....
To be honest... my family is very crazy. But I love them, Jupiter in 4th house shyt.
I can’t run away from them, it will completely destroy them.
But I run all the time from crazy people
My problem is that people around me does not understand me, when I ask for “me time” they keep coming till I just talk ... maybe I need more bounders idk.
I know they do this because they love me, but I feel like I’m gonna lose my mind.
If I hide for fking day they will go crazy looking for me 😢
I hide one day from my ex crazy gemini, then He hacked my phone
Why people around me act like this? I really need to know
Believe me, I have lived a life for a long time where family, friends, and women were just burdens. You can love all of those people, but sometimes you just have to love them from afar. There are people who will live their entire lives existing on your shoulders and suppress you mentally, emotionally, and physically. It lasts as long as you say. Would you like to know how quickly your whole life can change. Save a little money, change your phone number, and buy a bus ticket. You can even have a job waiting for you to start work at the destination city you decide to go to if you're really organized. Some people desire so much to get away from the life they're living they leave with simply a suitcase. Anyone who has ever done it knows the moment you change the town or city you live in to a new one, is the moment your whole life changes. You can be free to be whomever you want. By just leaving you are giving yourself the opportunity to freely define who you are by yourself...
Everyone behaves that way because you've allowed it to occur for so long, everyone is comfortable with it except you... If you're in a hyena pit and the hyenas bite you consistently and nothing has ever happened, why would they stop?? Your life has to be about you to the point where you have balance and peace at a minimum.click to expand
The escape is always in the back of my mind.
I just need time (I have money).
Just thinking about it make me feel happy 😃 :/
I’m afraid that I will miss my family, the only thing that I can’t live without .
Your words are very helpful , I needed it, I really thank you.
Posted by Lala1393Posted by HaruukaPosted by Lala1393Posted by HaruukaPosted by Lala1393Posted by HaruukaPosted by Lala1393Posted by HaruukaPosted by Lala1393
I don't know
The ice cream type 😂
With a BIG cone 😏
Hahaha scorpio thing 😂🤚🏻
The more 🍦cream🍦 the better 😏
I perfer coffee over almost everything even sex
Sex without cream ??
😱😱😱
Lol what does that mean?
Oh you innocent soul 😇😇👼🏻👼🏻
Nevermind.
🤗click to expand
😭💔
Posted by GemCurio
And I didn't have a chance to say it yet. The people in the world will see a beating living heart and do anything possible to suppress it, and use it until that heart dies from lack of consideration. Truly I believe you to be a kindred spirit , so I will tell you straight up. Fight.. Fight for your heartbeat. Fight for your breath. Fight for your very life because that is exactly what is on the line whether you believe it or not. You are fighting for who you truly are, and if the whole world can find a use for you, though not fully appreciating it, whoever you are is worth saving. So be the heroin in your own story, and save yourself. For every ending is simply the beginning of something new... 🙂
I like this, thank you my kindred spirit ❤️
it can go with the idea that u attract signs that complete grand aspects in ur chart. like i always attract a libra or aries placement. and u could say that i need detached and assertive influence in my life for balance
Posted by Jade_AlexanderPosted by HaruukaPosted by Jade_Alexander
I have attracted such drastically different men.
Typically they’re either too clingy or emotionally distant.
My husband was very attached and vocal and completely invested
The man before him was distant, superficial about our relationship but still managed to be attached to me, just didn’t express it...
do you know in why do you attract these kinds?
I think I flip flop between wanting to feeling total wanted and needed in a relationship to wanting more space.
I want to feel secure with my relationship, so I go for someone who is super needy. That smothers me so I go for someone whose more distant (which excites me)...
click to expand
Yeah, I got what you’re saying
It’s in our genes, we fall for people who need us.
I feel like I’m the opposite of you, cuz I love men who need me, cuz then I will be curious about their past then I will find them very interesting 😅💔
Posted by besarlalluvia
it can go with the idea that u attract signs that complete grand aspects in ur chart. like i always attract a libra or aries placement. and u could say that i need detached and assertive influence in my life for balance
What is your sign!?
I don’t know what kind I attract , Alot of sag and gemini I guess
Posted by HaruukaPosted by besarlalluvia
it can go with the idea that u attract signs that complete grand aspects in ur chart. like i always attract a libra or aries placement. and u could say that i need detached and assertive influence in my life for balance
What is your sign!?
I don’t know what kind I attract , Alot of sag and gemini I guessclick to expand
oh i’m pisces. which is why i say this, cos i barely attract water signs. but i have cancer rising/cap venus
Posted by besarlalluviaPosted by HaruukaPosted by besarlalluvia
it can go with the idea that u attract signs that complete grand aspects in ur chart. like i always attract a libra or aries placement. and u could say that i need detached and assertive influence in my life for balance
What is your sign!?
I don’t know what kind I attract , Alot of sag and gemini I guess
oh i’m pisces. which is why i say this, cos i barely attract water signs. but i have cancer rising/cap venusclick to expand
I always thought that you’re scorpio 😱😅 sorry my bad
What you attract?
And who it’s feel when you have your rising opposite your venus? 🙅🏻♀️
Posted by HippeeGemPosted by Haruuka
When I look back, I feel like I always attract smilier type of people.
My friends and the lovers too.
They’re always the clingy type/the jealous, too protective, very very needy.
And the same goes for men, they are the same type as my friends, plus they are (always) :
-the first kid in the family
-have a serious daddy issues (to the point I start to think that all men have daddy issues (sorry tho)
So I was wondering what this is about?
What the universe try to tell me 🤝
Do we attract what we want, or we attract what we are?
Or what we need?
*
And tell me what kind of friends do you attract/what kind of lovers too.
I wish I knew. I attract all types. I have independent strong friends, clingy ones, jealous ones, had them all really. And it’s been the mostly the same with relationships.
I attract possessive people. Usually. Well, I don’t know. I’ve only been in 3 serious relationships and 2 out of 3 were like that. If I count everyone I was with for 2 months, 6 months, one week, etc, it’s all kinds.
I don’t know why anymore. I’m getting confused. I feel like I know what I want now and that makes it even harder to find. It feels like a vicious cycle.
click to expand
Maybe because you have a very strong vibe, like you know what you want and need, and all these type feel safe around you.
You know? Like you protect them very well.
My gemini friend is like you, she attract everyone, she is so strong in her way.
Posted by SpaceBird
what you need and what needs you.
I always attract people who needs me
But never the people I need
im fine with whatever i attract ;p
Posted by HaruukaPosted by dadjokes
I seem to invariably attract very emotionally healthy, self-sufficient, and active people.
Either that, or as I suspect, I don't manage to get to know anyone well enough.
that's actually great!
click to expand
Haha it keeps things nice and stable, which I like, but tbh it makes me feel self-conscious because I feel like deep down, I'm probably the crazy one in comparison to them. 😛
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And the same goes for men, they are the same type as my friends, plus they are (always) :
-the first kid in the family
-have a serious daddy issues (to the point I start to think that all men have daddy issues (sorry tho)
So I was wondering what this is about?
What the universe try to tell me 🤝
Do we attract what we want, or we attract what we are?
Or what we need?
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And tell me what kind of friends do you attract/what kind of lovers too.