@Accountz
9 Years500+ Posts
Sex
Depends if I liked it or not
I didn't hear from my Virgo husband for a week. I was fine. I thought I had my 1st one night stand and wrote romantically about it in my journal. I felt so fortunate to have touched his body.
If I liked it and no call, I'd be fucked off mad lol
Scorp never contacts me after.
At first time I was seething mad!
Later in rs not too long ago btw he told me that our intensity takes his energy level to the 0.
He needs time to process what ta heck had happened. Lol
Sort of depends...but I don't necessarily like getting attached too quickly, sex can be just sex for me.
Relieved
Lol
I'm a weirdo and don't even do oral until I've had sex with you. I don't know why. I let guys do that to me though if I don't want to have sex yet. When they say "I just want to go down on you" I say ok and let them 🙂 Who am I to say no! They are so nice about it! 😛
😆 lol
If you had sex or oral sex with someone how would you feel if you didn't hear from them the next day?
What if they person is feeling the same way and wants you to reach out? Lol.
click to expand
lol I guess I thought someone would say that. I doubt it
If you had sex or oral sex with someone how would you feel if you didn't hear from them the next day?
What if they person is feeling the same way and wants you to reach out? Lol.
click to expand
Then, he needs to put on his big girl panties to hide his vageeen.
Can't stand pussy MF. I'll make ya cry.
Depends on my initial intentions. But I generally don't have casual sex because of the aftermath lol
I'd feel so used!
That's a sexy attitude.
If you had sex or oral sex with someone how would you feel if you didn't hear from them the next day?
What if they person is feeling the same way and wants you to reach out? Lol.
lol I guess I thought someone would say that. I doubt it
maybe he or she doubts it 2? LOL, double fucking standards wahahah
click to expand
Lmao
I would feel like he thinks im not good. Damn. My pride will be so hurt. But thats just me and I pay high importance to sexual satisfaction.
What if there was no doubt in your mind that you rocked his ass...
...remember, this just "the next day."
If I liked it and no call, I'd be fucked off mad lol
What if there was no doubt in your mind that you rocked their ass...
...remember, this just "the next day."
Depends on my initial intentions. But I generally don't have casual sex because of the aftermath lol
I guess you read "casual sex" into the OP's question. I can see how. But, what of you were dating this person and it's your first time screwin'?
Remember, this just "the next day."
I would feel like he thinks im not good. Damn. My pride will be so hurt. But thats just me and I pay high importance to sexual satisfaction.
What if there was no doubt in your mind that you rocked his ass...
...remember, this just "the next day."
Yeah. I think I will still assume I didnt do well. Until he gets back to me. I’m just so done having my own assumptions I need the validation straight from the horse’s mouth. Sex is tricky coz while I might think I rocked his ass, he might not feel the same way coz his love-making style is different or he’s expecting a different love-maing style . I wouldnt know if he wont get in touch after. Btw, doesnt mean i will ditch the guy. Some people just become busy after. But I will feel deep down that maybe i didnt do enough.
click to expand
I never doubted myself that way so, I'm trying to understand.
I believe in my anatomical make up. I always wrap everything nicely: time, foreplay, psych, etc. Things I automatically calculate to 1) be turned on and 2) make sure they're turned on...3), 4), etc. It's a automatic lightning speed, subconscious calc.
I would feel like he thinks im not good. Damn. My pride will be so hurt. But thats just me and I pay high importance to sexual satisfaction.
What if there was no doubt in your mind that you rocked his ass...
...remember, this just "the next day."
Yeah. I think I will still assume I didnt do well. Until he gets back to me. I’m just so done having my own assumptions I need the validation straight from the horse’s mouth. Sex is tricky coz while I might think I rocked his ass, he might not feel the same way coz his love-making style is different or he’s expecting a different love-maing style . I wouldnt know if he wont get in touch after. Btw, doesnt mean i will ditch the guy. Some people just become busy after. But I will feel deep down that maybe i didnt do enough.
I never doubted myself that way so, I'm trying to understand.
I believe in my anatomical make up. I always wrap everything nicely: time, foreplay, psych, etc. Things I automatically calculate to 1) be turned on and 2) make sure they're turned on...3), 4), etc. It's a automatic lightning speed, subconscious calc.
Interesting! I do the same. Some did say I am very good at it because I really let myself go when im doing it and i think if you personally enjoy it, you really do well in it. One thing I did find though, is the first time you do it with someone is always the worst one and it needs to be followed by another one to make sure of the sexual compatibility. I always feel that its awkward the first time and the second time is more like u have an idea about each other’s needs in the process. Do you ever feel awkward the first time around?
click to expand
See now that's a problem... gotta work on your first time game. It doesn't have to be the way you describe. That cake ain't baked yet. Might have to prolong more.
I would feel like he thinks im not good. Damn. My pride will be so hurt. But thats just me and I pay high importance to sexual satisfaction.
What if there was no doubt in your mind that you rocked his ass...
...remember, this just "the next day."
Yeah. I think I will still assume I didnt do well. Until he gets back to me. I’m just so done having my own assumptions I need the validation straight from the horse’s mouth. Sex is tricky coz while I might think I rocked his ass, he might not feel the same way coz his love-making style is different or he’s expecting a different love-maing style . I wouldnt know if he wont get in touch after. Btw, doesnt mean i will ditch the guy. Some people just become busy after. But I will feel deep down that maybe i didnt do enough.
I never doubted myself that way so, I'm trying to understand.
I believe in my anatomical make up. I always wrap everything nicely: time, foreplay, psych, etc. Things I automatically calculate to 1) be turned on and 2) make sure they're turned on...3), 4), etc. It's a automatic lightning speed, subconscious calc.
Interesting! I do the same. Some did say I am very good at it because I really let myself go when im doing it and i think if you personally enjoy it, you really do well in it. One thing I did find though, is the first time you do it with someone is always the worst one and it needs to be followed by another one to make sure of the sexual compatibility. I always feel that its awkward the first time and the second time is more like u have an idea about each other’s needs in the process. Do you ever feel awkward the first time around?
See now that's a problem... gotta work on your first time game. It doesn't have to be the way you describe. That cake ain't baked yet. Might have to prolong more.
Hahaha! Yeah. I’m submissive the first time, until i find out that I can be the dominant one. Most guys I dated ended up being the submissive ones except my current one. I tried to be dominant with him but pluto in him is so strong i cant fight it. Hes the boss of me!
click to expand
Hey, you be whatever works Gemini. I'm Gemini Moon, Mars, and Saturn in the 5th.
sad
Why?
This just "the next day."
usually indicates ons
click to expand
If and whenever you are single...
...I suggest you only fuck your fantasy of fantasies. If you don't have one, get ta work creating one and analyze the illusion of becoming what that fantasy is attracted to. Have atleast three.
If you need the ever popular (and stupid) "emotional connection," emotionally connect with the fantasy.
That way you'll be glad that you, at least, touched his body.
Document, observe, and absorb, every detail of the experience so that it lives on faheva...thus giving it some permanence.
The universe will take note for developing your encounter with "the one."
I would feel like he thinks im not good. Damn. My pride will be so hurt. But thats just me and I pay high importance to sexual satisfaction.
What if there was no doubt in your mind that you rocked his ass...
...remember, this just "the next day."
Yeah. I think I will still assume I didnt do well. Until he gets back to me. I’m just so done having my own assumptions I need the validation straight from the horse’s mouth. Sex is tricky coz while I might think I rocked his ass, he might not feel the same way coz his love-making style is different or he’s expecting a different love-maing style . I wouldnt know if he wont get in touch after. Btw, doesnt mean i will ditch the guy. Some people just become busy after. But I will feel deep down that maybe i didnt do enough.
I never doubted myself that way so, I'm trying to understand.
I believe in my anatomical make up. I always wrap everything nicely: time, foreplay, psych, etc. Things I automatically calculate to 1) be turned on and 2) make sure they're turned on...3), 4), etc. It's a automatic lightning speed, subconscious calc.
Interesting! I do the same. Some did say I am very good at it because I really let myself go when im doing it and i think if you personally enjoy it, you really do well in it. One thing I did find though, is the first time you do it with someone is always the worst one and it needs to be followed by another one to make sure of the sexual compatibility. I always feel that its awkward the first time and the second time is more like u have an idea about each other’s needs in the process. Do you ever feel awkward the first time around?
See now that's a problem... gotta work on your first time game. It doesn't have to be the way you describe. That cake ain't baked yet. Might have to prolong more.
Hahaha! Yeah. I’m submissive the first time, until i find out that I can be the dominant one. Most guys I dated ended up being the submissive ones except my current one. I tried to be dominant with him but pluto in him is so strong i cant fight it. Hes the boss of me!
Hey, you be whatever works Gemini. I'm Gemini Moon, Mars, and Saturn in the 5th.
The flexibility in bed is true isnt it? And I agree about being whatever works. My main goal is for both of us to be pleased and contented. My current partner and I have a really strong drive and fortunately we both found our style with each other. Its amazing! And he’s an aqua 😂 oh he has gemini moon like you!
click to expand
Yep, Imma shape shifter in the bedroom. You'd be surprise what different men need. Sweet precious beast of souls. I could eat them alive. The darlins.
Virgo is like a surgeon in bed.
I would feel like he thinks im not good. Damn. My pride will be so hurt. But thats just me and I pay high importance to sexual satisfaction.
What if there was no doubt in your mind that you rocked his ass...
...remember, this just "the next day."
Yeah. I think I will still assume I didnt do well. Until he gets back to me. I’m just so done having my own assumptions I need the validation straight from the horse’s mouth. Sex is tricky coz while I might think I rocked his ass, he might not feel the same way coz his love-making style is different or he’s expecting a different love-maing style . I wouldnt know if he wont get in touch after. Btw, doesnt mean i will ditch the guy. Some people just become busy after. But I will feel deep down that maybe i didnt do enough.
I never doubted myself that way so, I'm trying to understand.
I believe in my anatomical make up. I always wrap everything nicely: time, foreplay, psych, etc. Things I automatically calculate to 1) be turned on and 2) make sure they're turned on...3), 4), etc. It's a automatic lightning speed, subconscious calc.
Interesting! I do the same. Some did say I am very good at it because I really let myself go when im doing it and i think if you personally enjoy it, you really do well in it. One thing I did find though, is the first time you do it with someone is always the worst one and it needs to be followed by another one to make sure of the sexual compatibility. I always feel that its awkward the first time and the second time is more like u have an idea about each other’s needs in the process. Do you ever feel awkward the first time around?
See now that's a problem... gotta work on your first time game. It doesn't have to be the way you describe. That cake ain't baked yet. Might have to prolong more.
Hahaha! Yeah. I’m submissive the first time, until i find out that I can be the dominant one. Most guys I dated ended up being the submissive ones except my current one. I tried to be dominant with him but pluto in him is so strong i cant fight it. Hes the boss of me!
Hey, you be whatever works Gemini. I'm Gemini Moon, Mars, and Saturn in the 5th.
The flexibility in bed is true isnt it? And I agree about being whatever works. My main goal is for both of us to be pleased and contented. My current partner and I have a really strong drive and fortunately we both found our style with each other. Its amazing! And he’s an aqua 😂 oh he has gemini moon like you!
Yep, Imma shape shifter in the bedroom. You'd be surprise what different men need. Sweet precious beast of souls. I could eat them alive. The darlins.
Virgo is like a surgeon in bed.
Shape shifter! RAWR! Ha! I need to be as confident as you are in bed. I do enjoy it and so far m, no bad reviews but theres always room for improvement. I read the Art of Seduction and I relate more to the Siren but at the same time I am afraid of what it might bring me which is why i have the tendency to turn my switch on and off. I havent fully embraced my sexuality and my own potential 100% and still got reservations. Ive never done it with a Virgo but one of the best ones I had was with a Cap 😂 probably earth signs do well in bed haha
click to expand
Yes, the Siren and the Coquette are dangerous. I know because i'm a coquette but, a siren when I sing on stage. I'm an accidental siren when I sing. I'm air dominant and music and singing make me feel. I've had some close calls and exited stage left quietly.
Yes, indeed. Smart young lady.
Virgo sex is medical how he makes me release... it's so medicinal and automatic, it makes me angry how my body responds without me.
I would feel like he thinks im not good. Damn. My pride will be so hurt. But thats just me and I pay high importance to sexual satisfaction.
What if there was no doubt in your mind that you rocked his ass...
...remember, this just "the next day."
Yeah. I think I will still assume I didnt do well. Until he gets back to me. I’m just so done having my own assumptions I need the validation straight from the horse’s mouth. Sex is tricky coz while I might think I rocked his ass, he might not feel the same way coz his love-making style is different or he’s expecting a different love-maing style . I wouldnt know if he wont get in touch after. Btw, doesnt mean i will ditch the guy. Some people just become busy after. But I will feel deep down that maybe i didnt do enough.
I never doubted myself that way so, I'm trying to understand.
I believe in my anatomical make up. I always wrap everything nicely: time, foreplay, psych, etc. Things I automatically calculate to 1) be turned on and 2) make sure they're turned on...3), 4), etc. It's a automatic lightning speed, subconscious calc.
Interesting! I do the same. Some did say I am very good at it because I really let myself go when im doing it and i think if you personally enjoy it, you really do well in it. One thing I did find though, is the first time you do it with someone is always the worst one and it needs to be followed by another one to make sure of the sexual compatibility. I always feel that its awkward the first time and the second time is more like u have an idea about each other’s needs in the process. Do you ever feel awkward the first time around?
See now that's a problem... gotta work on your first time game. It doesn't have to be the way you describe. That cake ain't baked yet. Might have to prolong more.
Hahaha! Yeah. I’m submissive the first time, until i find out that I can be the dominant one. Most guys I dated ended up being the submissive ones except my current one. I tried to be dominant with him but pluto in him is so strong i cant fight it. Hes the boss of me!
Hey, you be whatever works Gemini. I'm Gemini Moon, Mars, and Saturn in the 5th.
The flexibility in bed is true isnt it? And I agree about being whatever works. My main goal is for both of us to be pleased and contented. My current partner and I have a really strong drive and fortunately we both found our style with each other. Its amazing! And he’s an aqua 😂 oh he has gemini moon like you!
Yep, Imma shape shifter in the bedroom. You'd be surprise what different men need. Sweet precious beast of souls. I could eat them alive. The darlins.
Virgo is like a surgeon in bed.
Shape shifter! RAWR! Ha! I need to be as confident as you are in bed. I do enjoy it and so far m, no bad reviews but theres always room for improvement. I read the Art of Seduction and I relate more to the Siren but at the same time I am afraid of what it might bring me which is why i have the tendency to turn my switch on and off. I havent fully embraced my sexuality and my own potential 100% and still got reservations. Ive never done it with a Virgo but one of the best ones I had was with a Cap 😂 probably earth signs do well in bed haha
Yes, the Siren and the Coquette are dangerous. I know because i'm a coquette but, a siren when I sing on stage. I'm an accidental siren when I sing. I'm air dominant and music and singing make me feel. I've had some close calls and exited stage left quietly.
Yes, indeed. Smart young lady.
Virgo sex is medical how he makes me release... it's so medicinal and automatic, it makes me angry how my body responds without me.
Awwwww. Do you tend to keep the sexual charm on all the time or do you turn it on and off sometimes? Didnt realize virgo sex is tantric! I think of all the ones I have been with, my current one is the best one because we have such a connection... like its our language without the words 😍
click to expand
No, I don't know how to turn it off. I"m Venus dominate with Venus in the 1st house. Cupid is a perverse lil bastard with me sometimes. But, what's wonderful is my husband knows and will tease me and taunt me about people attracted to me. Sometimes all day long... repetitively. When I say perverse, this includes family, women, co-workers, strangers...
Virgo sex... not tantric. Highly technically skilled. Cold scaples.
If you had sex or oral sex with someone how would you feel if you didn't hear from them the next day?
I prefer not to hear from him the next day 😂
You should never give oral sex to stranger ew
Hmm If i really like him, I would like to hear from him.
I love hearing from my crush...
Silence makes me insecure,makes me act out.
Makes me feel like the connection is all in my head
sad
Why?
This just "the next day."
usually indicates ons
If and whenever you are single...
...I suggest you only fuck your fantasy of fantasies. If you don't have one, get ta work creating one and analyze the illusion of becoming what that fantasy is attracted to. Have atleast three.
If you need the ever popular (and stupid) "emotional connection," emotionally connect with the fantasy.
That way you'll be glad that you, at least, touched his body.
Document, observe, and absorb, every detail of the experience so that it lives on faheva...thus giving it some permanence.
The universe will take note for developing your encounter with "the one."
I've already had 3 ons, I'm good and honestly they're not for everyone so I'd refrain from advising people to have them if they can't emotionally handle that
click to expand
My comment is not directed towards ons. It is directed towards less regrets with sex.
If you had sex or oral sex with someone how would you feel if you didn't hear from them the next day?
I prefer not to hear from him the next day 😂
click to expand
Lmao y?
If you had sex or oral sex with someone how would you feel if you didn't hear from them the next day?
I prefer not to hear from him the next day 😂
Lmao y?
click to expand
Lol let me clarify..
we can text to make sure whomever got back home safe but I like to nap after sex then eat and relax. I don't want a full blown convo if you just left my place the night before.. maybe after a few hours or 6 lol
Is that werid?
But If we did some freaky ish then I like to talk about it and reminisce a day or two later..
Did this help you understand your situation?
dxpnet has hosted real conversations like this since 2000. If you value independent communities, you can support the site below.
Every contribution helps keep dxpnet independent and ad-light.
Join the Conversation. Explore Yourself. Connect with Others.
Discover insights, swap stories, and find people. dxpnet is where experiences turn into understanding.
Create Your Free Account →
If you had sex or oral sex with someone how would you feel if you didn't hear from them the next day?