Do you remember all your sexual encounters?

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MasonWells
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My virgirlfriend says she does.

She claims to have had sex more than 7 times a day for months on end and also claims to remember every single experience. Not the time, not the dates, but the experience.

No, I don't mean every partner. I mean every partner and also every time she had sex with them.



I- on the other hand- only can specifically remember... maybe 30 specific sexual experiences, in detail. Only ones that were specifically interesting because something unique occurred. Maybe as many as 40 if I thought hard, but I highly doubt it, and it would take more mental energy to test than I'm willing to invest. To me, it's like remembering every time I've sneezed. She says that it's different because it's with someone else.

So tell me dxpneters: do you remember every time you had sex? or nah?

Also, am I a dick for thinking she's full of shit for both of these claims (frequency of sex and also ability to remember it all)? or nah?



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MasonWells
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Posted by CruellaWhite
Posted by rockyroadicecream
She's full of shit.
She could have a really good memory.
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She could and I'm willing to give the benefit of a doubt. That's why I asked if I'm a dick for not taking her word at it.

It's just... that seems to reach levels of near-perfect memory. Photographic memory.



And photographic memory is a myth.


That aside- she does have an extraordinary memory.
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Posted by boringpyezece
Posted by CruellaWhite
Posted by rockyroadicecream
She's full of shit.
She could have a really good memory.
She could and I'm willing to give the benefit of a doubt. That's why I asked if I'm a dick for not taking her word at it.

It's just... that seems to reach levels of near-perfect memory. Photographic memory.



And photographic memory is a myth.


That aside- she does have an extraordinary memory.
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Such a pyezece ๐Ÿ˜›

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Posted by boringpyezece
Posted by CruellaWhite
Posted by rockyroadicecream
She's full of shit.
She could have a really good memory.
She could and I'm willing to give the benefit of a doubt. That's why I asked if I'm a dick for not taking her word at it.

It's just... that seems to reach levels of near-perfect memory. Photographic memory.



And photographic memory is a myth.


That aside- she does have an extraordinary memory.
Such a pyezece ๐Ÿ˜›

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I am boring and typical

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But why did you highlight that phrase?
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Posted by boringpyezece
Posted by RumiL
Posted by boringpyezece
Posted by CruellaWhite
Posted by rockyroadicecream
She's full of shit.
She could have a really good memory.
She could and I'm willing to give the benefit of a doubt. That's why I asked if I'm a dick for not taking her word at it.

It's just... that seems to reach levels of near-perfect memory. Photographic memory.



And photographic memory is a myth.


That aside- she does have an extraordinary memory.
Such a pyezece ๐Ÿ˜›
I am boring and typical

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But why did you highlight that phrase?
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umm.. I have same problem(boring) so ...no comments ๐Ÿ˜›

Having an endless supply of benefit of doubts is a Piscean trait!
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Posted by CruellaWhite
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She has nothing else to think of.
Apparently she has quite a lot to think of!
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The irony...lmao!

I have a Virgo friend that talks sex 24/7, I get bored with the topic but she's most sexual with her Pisces friend. I just zone out of the conversation and let them have their moment. The things they talk about, Virgirls= low key freaks.
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Posted by boringpyezece
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I do without putting effort; not because I care or want to, I just happen to recall.

Convos, specific words, details of places as well, everything is at my disposal if needed.

I love it.
You remember every time? And you've had sex more than... (generating random number) 100 times?
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It doesn't matter the number, I'd say an average amount for a guy of my age.

It has more to do with remembering things in general. No matter what I do, read, hear or listen, memories just stick and become part of who I am.

It happens in here too since I joined. I care about a few of you but I do recall what other people say too.

A restless mind has its advantages sometimes: memories just pop up automatically when they're pertaining to the topic at issue.

I wouldn't say she's necessarily obsessed with sex.

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What about the other part that has gone unaddressed? Sex at least 7 times a day for months on end?

That means whoever she was sleeping with during that time had a micropenis, right? I mean in order for her to be able to physically handle it? Plus, I mean... this means multiple people, right fellas? How many guys can even cum that much?


Personally I'd be dry-orgasming day one and it would continue that way until i had a break which means that if I were doing it that many times continuously over days, weeks, months? I would not be able to keep it up (2x entendre intended) and then my dick would fall off, I think, from that much constant pressure (x3 entendre intended).

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It wouldn't have to be photographic.

It is possible.

However, no I cannot.
I believe, unless you've suffered from a trauma, about 90% of memories are hard-wired and storaged in our brain.

Now the question would be: do most people have full access or their database or not? How frequently the attain it and how much effort it requires to obtain the data they need.
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It wouldn't have to be photographic.

It is possible.

However, no I cannot.
I believe, unless you've suffered from a trauma, about 90% of memories are hard-wired and storaged in our brain.

Now the question would be: do most people have full access or their database or not? How frequently the attain it and how much effort it requires to obtain the data they need.
There's three different overlapping schools on the issue of memory recall, from what I've read. Some memories can be mistaken for dreams, dreams can be mistaken for hallucinations, and so on.

Have you read Moonwalking with Einstein?
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It's in my bookshelf, although I haven't yet found the time to read it.

Is it worth it?
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For me the real question is why you are questioning what she shared with you so much? Obviously if i shared these types of details with someone it was from a level of trust.. cause this is some pretty personal stuff IMO...just my 2 cents. I'd be hurt/upset that my shit is being put out here like this. Maybe this isn't all that personal, but i think it is. *shrug*

As for the recalling and the # of times.

Photographic memory does exists, just because you or others don't recall greater levels of details, does not mean it isn't real. I have a people look at me crazy when i can be talking and the details i can recall, down to what i was wearing from something 10 years ago blows their minds. Some people have that ability. Not sure if that would be photographic memory or what it is.

As for the # or times- I have done it that many times with my crabbie.. and yes we fucked each other raw.. sometimes the chemistry is that off the charts that you want to just keep going and going and going. He was not a micropenis.. he was huge. so i am loling at you dude.
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Posted by Palerio
Posted by tiziani
It wouldn't have to be photographic.

It is possible.

However, no I cannot.
I believe, unless you've suffered from a trauma, about 90% of memories are hard-wired and storaged in our brain.

Now the question would be: do most people have full access or their database or not? How frequently the attain it and how much effort it requires to obtain the data they need.
There's three different overlapping schools on the issue of memory recall, from what I've read. Some memories can be mistaken for dreams, dreams can be mistaken for hallucinations, and so on.

Have you read Moonwalking with Einstein?
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Very interesting.

I noticed myself a correlation between those things, never really wondered why.

For instance my level of recall has improved drastically since becoming a more "skilled" dreamer; basically I'm more in control of the setting and dynamics within the dream in itself.

I seldom confuse images anymore and I feel like my overall memory capacity has been expanding since then.

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What about the other part that has gone unaddressed? Sex at least 7 times a day for months on end?

That means whoever she was sleeping with during that time had a micropenis, right? I mean in order for her to be able to physically handle it? Plus, I mean... this means multiple people, right fellas? How many guys can even cum that much?


Personally I'd be dry-orgasming day one and it would continue that way until i had a break which means that if I were doing it that many times continuously over days, weeks, months? I would not be able to keep it up (2x entendre intended) and then my dick would fall off, I think, from that much constant pressure (x3 entendre intended).
Man. Maybe i've been dry for too long and the hard drinking days of my youth has taken a toll on my memory. but the only time time i remember when gone on an all-day-sex bender, by the 4th or 5th round, my genitals just started to feel raw and swollen. To do that day after day... well, i cant imagine.
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That is the exact same experience and perspective I've got.
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Posted by Palerio
Posted by tiziani
Posted by Palerio
Posted by tiziani
It wouldn't have to be photographic.

It is possible.

However, no I cannot.
I believe, unless you've suffered from a trauma, about 90% of memories are hard-wired and storaged in our brain.

Now the question would be: do most people have full access or their database or not? How frequently the attain it and how much effort it requires to obtain the data they need.
There's three different overlapping schools on the issue of memory recall, from what I've read. Some memories can be mistaken for dreams, dreams can be mistaken for hallucinations, and so on.

Have you read Moonwalking with Einstein?
Very interesting.

I noticed myself a correlation between those things, never really wondered why.

For instance my level of recall has improved drastically since becoming a more "skilled" dreamer; basically I'm more in control of the setting and dynamics within the dream in itself.

I seldom confuse images anymore and I feel like my overall memory capacity has been expanding since then.

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Over all memory...isn't everything we think about as humans in compartments sort of? That's why a person can choose to suppress whatever unpleasant memory.
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Posted by boringpyezece
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Posted by rockyroadicecream
She's full of shit.
She could have a really good memory.
She could and I'm willing to give the benefit of a doubt. That's why I asked if I'm a dick for not taking her word at it.

It's just... that seems to reach levels of near-perfect memory. Photographic memory.



And photographic memory is a myth.


That aside- she does have an extraordinary memory.
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I've got a photographic memory as well but I don't remember every SINGLE encounter to THE detail. The especially memorable ones, sure. But when you're having sex 7 times a day, you do not remember them ALL, sorry. Been there, and I remember that day in particular being quite the binge, but I couldn't tell you what specifically happened in each session.

If she remembers, cool. It's just a bit strange since there are so many emotions going on and shit gets blurry in all the passion. I find it hard to believe she remembers THAT much detail, tbh. Remembering many, sure. But every single one to the tee? Nah. I think she's being a slight braggart, tbh.
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Posted by tiziani
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Posted by tiziani
It wouldn't have to be photographic.

It is possible.

However, no I cannot.
I believe, unless you've suffered from a trauma, about 90% of memories are hard-wired and storaged in our brain.

Now the question would be: do most people have full access or their database or not? How frequently the attain it and how much effort it requires to obtain the data they need.
There's three different overlapping schools on the issue of memory recall, from what I've read. Some memories can be mistaken for dreams, dreams can be mistaken for hallucinations, and so on.

Have you read Moonwalking with Einstein?
Very interesting.

I noticed myself a correlation between those things, never really wondered why.

For instance my level of recall has improved drastically since becoming a more "skilled" dreamer; basically I'm more in control of the setting and dynamics within the dream in itself.

I seldom confuse images anymore and I feel like my overall memory capacity has been expanding since then.
Over all memory...isn't everything we think about as humans in compartments sort of? That's why a person can choose to suppress whatever unpleasant memory.
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I just meant I can store more data since being able to clearly discern images, it's like using an intermental floss that helps you remove the obscurity surrounding certain memories without necessarily suppressing them.

Once you remove the unpleasant feeling attached to them, you can, without the constant need of compartmentalize them, connect the dots as to create a full circle.

It's easier then to recall.
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And in regard to 7 times a day, every day, for months?

Bs. I've got a high sex drive and I don't think I could do 7 a day, every day. 3-4 maybe, but 7 is overkill.

Again, I think she's just being a braggart and exaggerating. You see it here all the time- some silly bitches think they're some speshul snowflake because they can talk about having sex like it's THE adult thing to do. Not that there's anything wrong with it per se, but you can tell in the way they're talking about it that it's only being shared because it makes them feel speshul snowflake status that a guy stuck his penis in her.

Basically, it's a very high school mentality.
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Posted by boringpyezece
So tell me dxpneters: do you remember every time you had sex? or nah?

Also, am I a dick for thinking she's full of shit for both of these claims (frequency of sex and also ability to remember it all)? or nah?


"Remembering" suggest living in the past. I don't. If you're currently dating someone I dont even see the point of remembering every sexual experience with them. Aren't you too busy having sex in the present moment to be daydreaming about the past?

Are you a d*ck for not believing her claims? Naw. Last time I checked there weren't any rules that said we need to believe everything someone says to be considered a friend.
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So tell me dxpneters: do you remember every time you had sex? or nah?

Also, am I a dick for thinking she's full of shit for both of these claims (frequency of sex and also ability to remember it all)? or nah?


"Remembering" suggest living in the past. I don't. If you're currently dating someone I dont even see the point of remembering every sexual experience with them. Aren't you too busy having sex in the present moment to be daydreaming about the past?

Are you a d*ck for not believing her claims? Naw. Last time I checked there weren't any rules that said we need to believe everything someone says to be considered a friend.
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Tbh, I think this is complaint #2430020801391430 issued from a water sign about Virgos.

Emotionally, I can remember everything because it's easy to draw that memory.

It happens almost subconsciously and it catches me unaware - the diversity of scenes I can play up in my mind like a movie.

Unless it's mundane details that for some reason didn't struck a chord with me.

Basically it's either I have an excellent memory or I don't remember a thing.

Easiness in pulling that memory down to details when it comes to sex is tied for me in the number of partners more than the number of times.
So if your girl has had a large number of partners, I would tend to agree with Fisk's remark about hooker/not-a-hooker-though.

Chastity belts are fashionable again, I hear.
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Tbh, I think this is complaint #2430020801391430 issued from a water sign about Virgos.

Emotionally, I can remember everything because it's easy to draw that memory.

It happens almost subconsciously and it catches me unaware - the diversity of scenes I can play up in my mind like a movie.

Unless it's mundane details that for some reason didn't struck a chord with me.

Basically it's either I have an excellent memory or I don't remember a thing.

Easiness in pulling that memory down to details when it comes to sex is tied for me in the number of partners more than the number of times.
So if your girl has had a large number of partners, I would tend to agree with Fisk's remark about hooker/not-a-hooker-though.

Chastity belts are fashionable again, I hear.
I don't understand. You're saying if it's emotional sex you remember every detail otherwise you don't?


"Easiness in pulling that memory down to details when it comes to sex is tied for me in the number of partners more than the number of times. So if your girl has had a large number of partners, I would tend to agree with Fisk's remark about hooker/not-a-hooker-though."

That's actually a great point. Thanks Damnata and Frisky. I WILL go ask hookers if they remember all their sexual experiences, because they have had more partners than any of us. I can't wait to find out what they have to say....

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