Fuckery

Posted by AntiSocial
How can you get dumped by a Pisces girl without cheating or doing any irresponsible ish...

any advice would be appreciated..

Posted by Ang3l3y3s
So...I met a Taurus man (26) on POF (dating site) and, we hit, it off, and exchanged facebooks. His profiles, on both facebook, and POF, explained, that he is seeking someone, to marry. I noticed, at first, that he was in and out, of a relationship, with another woman, and, so, i started to feel, like a rebound. Anyways, first, he began flirting, with me- I'm a Pisces woman- and telling me, that he wanted me, all, to himself; I explained, that I was very much interested, in him, but, that I have been through a lot of rough relationships, and, every one of those relationships, progressed too quickly. I told him, that I wanted to date, and get to know, a few different people. He seemed less, than thrilled, but, he said, "okay". I also explained, how my son, has been through a lot, because, he's been in and out, of foster care, for the last 3 years, and, i didn't want him, meeting any man, that i dated, any time, soon, because, I didn't want to hurt, or confuse him. Taurus man, said, that he understood. After a while, of talking, I finally let myself become attached, because, he kept elaborating, on the fact, that he only talked, to me, and that he was focused, on me, alone. I cut off all other prospects, for him, and focused on only him, only for him, to ignore me, telling me, that he would call me, back, and never getting back, to me...then, he blocked me. Another month, later, I messaged him, from another profile, of mine, asking him, to unblock me, and add me, back. He did, after telling me, that his best friend overdosed, on heroin, and passed away. I asked him why, he blocked me, and he said, that he fooled around with his ex, and that he was conflicted, and needed, some time, but, that he was finally through, with her. After talking again, for another 2 weeks, he told, me, that he felt, like he was falling, for me. I was elated, and told him, that I felt, the same. He finally made plans, to come see, me (we live 2 hours, apart) and I joked, about moving him, in, for good. He finally showed, up, and the connection was even deeper, than I'd ever imagined...i found, my soul-mate. And, I've never felt something, so intense. I could have sworn, that he felt, it, too! Anyways, he decided to move, in with me, that day. We sat, on the couch, and i leaned, into him, and he stroked my hands, and caressed me; we were watching a movie, but, we were so blissed-out, that we put eachother, to sleep, with our vibes. It was phenomenal! We woke, up, i made him, his favorite meal, which, he loved, and, then, we went, for a quick walk. Later, that night, we made love, and nothing, will ever compare. We made love, 4 times, and, I've never felt, so desired. We spent every moment, of every day, together, for an entire month, and a half. I was paying, for everything, but, i didn't mind, and, he was actively looking, for work. Dcf was trying to break us, up, by telling me, that he wasnt allowed around my son, and my housing situation, wasnt stable (I was in the process, of being evicted, and he knew, this, ahead of time) and he told me, that he was fully committed, to staying, and fighting the bullsh*t, with me. My son, was with his father, and dcf, wasnt planning on returning him, to me, regardless, of of he stayed, or went. Despite my warnings, about my son's emotional state, Taurus man, still wanted to meet, him. He said, that he would pretend, that we were just friends, while he, was over. He was great, with him. It actually made me, tear, up.

Taurus man, was also trying, to quit smoking, and told me, that if he had some weights, it would help, him, so i spent $ 60 on some weights, for him. He told me, that he loved me, way, before that, though, so, i couldnt imagine, that he was using, me...he talked about marrying, me, and having children, 2 years, later...etc..and we spent each day, in a haze of sensuality and romance. It wasn't always perfect; he withdrew, a lot, and sometimes, would even blatantly ignore, me. But, when he came, back, to me, all of my questions, felt, like they had been answered, and I had, no more doubts. I did have the tendency, to be a little demanding, due, to my reactive attachmemt, disorder; at times, I would beg him, to hold me, more, because, he wasn't real touchy-feely, after a bit, and I sometimes overreact, to rejection (he also liked to tease, me, and then withhold sex, occasionally) but, the passion, was never lost, upon our love making. He got super involved, with my circle of friends (even threw one of my girlfriends, a birthday party, with me) and he completely deactivated his Facebook, while we were, together. Eventually, he got homesick, and missed hours little brothers, and mom. So, I contacted his mom, and asked her, how much money, was needed, to get him, home, for a bit. She said, that she wasn't sure, and that she would talk, to him, and let, me know. Long story, short, he reassured me, that he was definitely planning to return, because he knows, that I have a pretty big fear of abandonment. The day, before he left, he wanted to make love, one last time, but, that night, he got super distant. I was upset, vecause, it was our last night, together, and he wouldnt touch, me, and, so, I did my passive-agressive, "push your buttons, to get your attention" routine, until he ignored me, all together. The morning of his departure, was no different, other than the fact, that he actually held, me...I could feel his detachment, even still, and I cried. Then, when I pulled away, he started poking, me, and trying to get close, to me, like I had been doing, previously. I ignored all contact, until he stood up, to leave, and asked me, if I would give, him, a hug. I did, and he also kissed me, 8 different times, and said, that he would miss, me, and that he would call, me. I made him pinky swear, that he would return, and he was super compassionate, and he vowed, to come, back. Well, he never called, me. I called, his mom, and she handed him, the phone. He said, that he had been waiting, for my call, and was wondering, what I was up, to, but, he had told, me, that he would call, ME. Finally, I'd noticed, that I had been completely blocked, on facebook, and he changed his location, and relationship status, back to his hometown, and "single". I called him, crying, and he reassured me, as well, as his mother, did, that he planned to return. After that, he communicated, with me, less, and less, until, he finally told me, that he loved me, and that he wasnt coming, back, right, now, but, that he wanted to date, long distance, until we got our sh*t, together. Then his mom blocked me, and, then, he started blatantly ignoring, me. Occaisonally, he would reply to a message, saying that he loved me, but that his mom was crazy, and wouldnt let

Him date/go anywhere, with anyone, and it's confusing, as hell. He said, that our relationship had to stay, on the down low, so that his mom didn't know...he commented on one other girl's photo, telling her, that she's pretty, but, nothing more suslicious, and all he does, is post pics, of him, with his little brothers. Occaisonally, he posts pictures of himself, shirtless, and lifting the weights, that i bought him, which pisses me, off. And, he also took a lot more money, than was actually needed, for a one way trip, to his hometown, which makes me question, how long, he's actually known, that he wasnt coming, home...as wel, as he took my expensive headphones, and my high end hiking backpack, and had me buy him, a few other things, etc.. I dont think, that he's seeing anyone, else. I even left him, alone, and stopped all contact, for an entire week, and, today, I've been blocked, on my second messenger profile, but, he still allows for me, to view his facebook profile, for some reason; he only blocked me, from messaging, him, nothing, else...I want him, back, like I have never wanted anything or anyone.

Posted by goat
While its not a far stretch to say cancer and capricorn energy can be on the negative side, you never hear about libras.

Libra's are/ can be bigots! Just low key.

I've always had this on the back of my mind over the years but since trumps election I can confidently say libras are racists if that aspect of them were nurtured by society or someone.

This goes for the other cardinals too. If nurtured they can be either or... But coming fresh out the box(their mothers wombs) these 3 signs are predisposed to be discriminatory by nature.

Discrimination is their religion.

Posted by Iceprincess921
Hi Scorpios

I want to ask you what are some ways to keep a Scorpio man intrigued. I have a Scorpio friend that started persuing me. I wasn't interested at first, but now I am. I know Scorpios like mystery but what exactly does that mean?

Right now I'm trying not to be too available for him. Will this work? I don't want to be predictable so he'll miss me and wonder about me. But when I talk to him, I act sweet to leave him wanting more. hahaha. 🙂 But I want to ask in what other ways can I keep him interested and curious about me?

By the way, I'm trying to be myself but it's a fact that guys value girls who don't give themselves easily.

Also, do Scorpios prefer if the girl shows some interest or you prefer a girl that is not that impressed by you and you have to work for her attention?

Thanks in advance! 🙂

Posted by london_libra
Met this Taurus 8 months ago. Caught feelings pretty much instantly but was new to the city so didn't want jump into anything. We danced around each other for a long time, a LOT of mutual flirting was going on. I knew he was briefly dating someone back in February but he never told me about it, never brought it up, was always cagey about the topic.

Over the last couple of months we started to get a lot closer, everyone has been asking us (separately) if we're dating and saying it's only a matter of time before we get together. He's stayed over at mine a few times (platonically, separate beds) and he asked me to go on a trip with him, just the two of us.

We did, to a very romantic location by the coast, staying in a forest cabin. The whole trip was like a honeymoon; double dates with his friends, forest walks, watching sunsets on the beach, sharing a bed (there was only one bed in the cabin and it was cold so we both slept in it). He never tried anything on or made a move but he spooned me in bed, wrapped his arms around me, kissed me on the cheek each night before bed, put his arm around me when we walked down the street together. The whole thing was extremely romantic, but he never crossed a line. Never kissed me or anything, the closest we got was me feeling his boner on my leg in the bed, haha.

On the last morning of our trip I asked him why he's been so down lately and he said "I've recently had my heartbroken. I was seeing someone, she moved away but I was still hoping for us to make it work but I found out last week she has someone new."

I knew NONE of this before we went on our trip. I didn't know his fling in February was remotely serious, or that he was hanging on for someone, or that it was still going on. He claims that we are really close friends but didn't tell me anything about this.

After we returned, I asked him if I could contribute any money to the trip as he had paid for everything (and it wasn't cheap). He said no, it was his pleasure to take me away but "I'm sorry if I gave the impression this was meant to be a romantic getaway". I was pretty blindsided. I've never been so deeply romanced by someone who didn't actually want to romance me. He said he "felt attracted to me in a lot of ways but not in others so we wouldn't work romantically" also gave me the old bullshit line of "you could do better than me".

Obviously, I'm gutted. I feel like he spent 3 days making me fall deeply in love with him only so he could have the pleasure of rejecting me at the end of it. I wonder if he did this on purpose to punish a woman after his recent heartbreak? To get an ego-boost/validation?

I'm so hurt. I think of him as a really good friend but a) he didn't tell me about his relationship and b) manipulated my obvious feelings for him. He claims he had no idea that I had feelings for him but there's no way that's not true. I never said anything but it's written all over my face, I'm not that subtle, lol.

I have told him I need some time away from him to figure out how I feel. Should I encourage him to go after this girl he loved, even though she says she's moved on? Should I wait for his heartbreak to subside and try again? Should I move the fuck on and never speak to him again?

Posted by Scorpio123
OP, firstly you need to block the trolls. That way they won't get in the way of you getting decent advice.

Secondly, I think jeane means well and made a good point. Hi jeane!

Thirdly, I would give that guy distance, when you're hung up on someone and a new love interest comes on, it's a very confusing feeling, and bulls are so so slow. Chances are this thing with that other girl won't work out, but you don't want to be friend zoned while he figures that out, right? So distant yourself, make him think he's the one missing out and effing up by losing a great opportunity with someone HE CAN HAVE NOW.

Posted by The_Ands
Lol is this a group stir

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Posted by Maidemarilyn
hahahahaha

I thought leo moons were bad

But u guys are bishes.

hahahaha

Whats your Sun, moon and Rising?

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Posted by confusedaries7513
I have known this guy for about a month or two now through mutual friends. I send him a picture of a girl ( we tend to do that) and he goes "is that you?" I'm like no.. Why? Then he said that she is like my "alter-ego" and i look like her in every picture. Later on he asks me for this girl's twitter account.

For the fun of it we tend to dm these girls we find hot on instagram/ twitter but neither of them ever reply... Obviously cause neither me or him really post pictures of ourselves on social media.

I'm not getting my hopes up in any way. But the thought of this situtation sometimes keeps me up at night when i like to overthink. Because i can't make sense out of it.

If he liked me he would have asked me out right? And that means he is not attracted to me?

He has mentioned to me before that he might have led a girl on into believeing that he actually liked her and ended up breaking her heart which just really turned me off. And i cant help but wonder if this is what taurus guys do?

Posted by Xclipsiko
we are long distance and he barely talks to me once we go back to our respective homes. the thing is: in person, it's like we know we should get married right then and there. i just got out of a very deep relationship with a cancer, so my patience has already been put through the ringer when it comes to communication. so i'm not throwing fits and cursing him out because of this. not yet at least lol. i'm now reading about how non-communicative taurus men can be and i throw my hands up lol. i could easily marry this guy, he is worth the wait and understanding. that saying: "when you know, you know" is SO true with him. he knows that i love him deeply, but long distance has him so hesitant. should i just wait this out for him to also *know* i am someone that special to him, or move on. i'm focused on closing the distance gap between us and i'm really not trying to mess this up with him...but he gives me little to no line of communication on the phone. it's like he's ghosted me, but obviously he comes back around eventually like he didn't cmpletely ignore my last message to him. he is extremely busy and stressed for trying to find a job...pressure is on for the both of us. am i just a more enjoyable, beloved hookup for him or is this normal mode for getting serious with a taurus? i don't have much experience with men, but in his defense, he says if I lived close to him he'd "bother me all the time" obviously I think he's worth it, but I just want to know if this is normal unevolved taurus male fuckery?

Posted by TheTinMan


Nikki and busy eyes are the same?

damn I can't keep up with you guys anymore.

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Posted by Nevermore

Posted by Maidemarilyn
hahahahaha

I thought leo moons were bad

But u guys are bishes.

hahahaha

Whats your Sun, moon and Rising?

She's that fuck face busy eyes...

Nikki and busy eyes are the same?

damn I can't keep up with you guys anymore.

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Posted by CancerOnTheCusp
The first part of this thread reads like the "Cancer man left me" thread.

Posted by WarAngel1
Should I get popcorn ir beer ready?

Posted by GetMisted
This thread is a disappointment.

Posted by DonJohn
drug addicts are selfish people in the first place. so it makes even less sense that they would quit cus you said so.

Posted by DonJohn
I stopped smoking. Stopped drugs. aside from occasional red wine, i stopped drinking too. Stopped promiscuity. My credit is good now. My criminal history stay in the past. I walk away from arguments now. imagine that.

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Posted by OHNOXoxo
HELP! I'm falling in love with a Virgo man who is already in a committed longterm relationship with an Aquarius woman. We met through our work. I'm confused as to whether he really likes me or just being nice to me. We work together but mine is more work from home kind of job so we chat about work related queries mostly. Because I'm directly linked to him through work we have to talk every now and then! He comes across as very gentle kind intelligent that's why I'm drawn to him. He comes across as a person who knows what he's doing in life and that's very attractive to me. Btw I'm a Taurus women. I'm divorced. Been two year's. And haven't been in any relationship after it. So I'm naturally drawn to him because of his sweetness. By sweetness I mean, he sends me a good morning message,some times when he calls he drifts of from work queries and asks me about how's my day how am I doing if everythings fine! Sometimes he compliments me and it feels genuine. Like good job, you are smart, you are very kind and it's a shame my ex left me. He plan's to take me out for coffee but he's so busy most of the time that the plan's gets cancelled. We went out once and we talked a lot. He talked a lot! I was mostly just replying to his questions. I feel I'm crushing over him too much though I don't let it show. But do Virgo men compliments a lot?? I previously read they nitpick but thus man only tells me how wonderful of a person I'm. I'm confused. I want to know how do Virgo men show interest or how to know if he likes you a little bit more than just being nice. He's nice to most of the people I have seen. Always joking making everyone laugh. He comes across as a very lively man. Please help.

Posted by RioAbajo
Was dating a Virgo very seriously last year. Then he dumped me bc things were moving too fast. We were long distance then. I understood and took my time away from him. I moved a lot closer to him (from 8 hours to 8 minutes) and we linked back up. Everything was great he treated me like a queen but a few months ago he started giving me some problems... Like going MIA for long periods of time. Anyways he slept with someone else and got an std. Then clearly... I got it... Since we weren't official I sort of forgave it. And we moved forward but with more expectations and boundaries.

But the truth is Im not really happy being the "committed uncommitted". Mind you its been almost 2 years that we've been reacquainted. (we knew each other as kids) So, we're pretty tight. We made great friends and lovers.

But I told him I wasn't happy with him lately and Im not sure how to fix it. He felt like he could stand me up most of the time then buy me things to make up for it... He treated me great most of the time and I adored him. We had so much fun together. I always keep him upbeat and productive.

Anyway, he said he wants to have that spark and he doesn't feel that with me. But he doesnt want me to leave being in his life... Its been 2 weeks and we text daily but after a few back and forth he is MIA again. Thats not friend like to me. He clearly wants my attention but... Idk. Why be so half ass about it?

Im confused hurt and tired. (I know I must sound pretty pathetic, but I honestly believe we were heading somewhere. I just accepted him and was patient with him.)

I cant help but feel rejected and embarrassed. I want him to just disappear out of my life and I'd like to just forgive myself for allowing so much chaos in my life.

Tell me the truth Virgos... Am I wasting my time? Feels like it...I would honestly wait if I felt there was a future.

Thanks

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Posted by Ram416
I just had explosive diarrhoea - can that count as fuckery too?

I ate a lot of bar food last weekend, and my GI tract is still recovering .

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Posted by tcta
@nikkistar you are just itchy horny for your vaca layca and it's fueling yer jets

Posted by tiziani
The Committed Uncommitted sound like a philosophy book I'd read.

Posted by tcta

Posted by tiziani
The Committed Uncommitted sound like a philosophy book I'd read.

written by one of the more indecisive Libras lol

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Posted by Ixion
Getting through the past few pages made me feel like Bernie Mac in Head of State

Posted by nikkistar

Posted by DonJohn
drug addicts are selfish people in the first place. so it makes even less sense that they would quit cus you said so.

Posted by DonJohn
I stopped smoking. Stopped drugs. aside from occasional red wine, i stopped drinking too. Stopped promiscuity. My credit is good now. My criminal history stay in the past. I walk away from arguments now. imagine that.

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Posted by tiziani

Posted by tcta

Posted by tiziani
The Committed Uncommitted sound like a philosophy book I'd read.

written by one of the more indecisive Libras lol

The Committed Uncommitted: Freedom From Bold Assertion In 28 Days

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Posted by tiziani
The Committed Uncommitted sound like a philosophy book I'd read.

written by one of the more indecisive Libras lol

You know, a lot of the quotes are from Libra chicks. LMAO

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Posted by OHNOXoxo
HELP! I'm falling in love with a Virgo man who is already in a committed longterm relationship with an Aquarius woman. We met through our work. I'm confused as to whether he really likes me or just being nice to me. We work together but mine is more work from home kind of job so we chat about work related queries mostly. Because I'm directly linked to him through work we have to talk every now and then! He comes across as very gentle kind intelligent that's why I'm drawn to him. He comes across as a person who knows what he's doing in life and that's very attractive to me. Btw I'm a Taurus women. I'm divorced. Been two year's. And haven't been in any relationship after it. So I'm naturally drawn to him because of his sweetness. By sweetness I mean, he sends me a good morning message,some times when he calls he drifts of from work queries and asks me about how's my day how am I doing if everythings fine! Sometimes he compliments me and it feels genuine. Like good job, you are smart, you are very kind and it's a shame my ex left me. He plan's to take me out for coffee but he's so busy most of the time that the plan's gets cancelled. We went out once and we talked a lot. He talked a lot! I was mostly just replying to his questions. I feel I'm crushing over him too much though I don't let it show. But do Virgo men compliments a lot?? I previously read they nitpick but thus man only tells me how wonderful of a person I'm. I'm confused. I want to know how do Virgo men show interest or how to know if he likes you a little bit more than just being nice. He's nice to most of the people I have seen. Always joking making everyone laugh. He comes across as a very lively man. Please help.

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Posted by tiziani
The Committed Uncommitted sound like a philosophy book I'd read.