Home wreckers exposed (Page 2)

Posted by Montgomery

Posted by ScorpioFish

Dickbreath's abilities and interests in life should have landed him a job beating, harassing and shooting civilians in North Korea for acting and speaking against assholes like him. Unfortunately, he missed his calling and we are stuck with his asshole behavior here.

As for me, I don't commit acts of vandalism toward cheaters and relationship wreckers. I do find it funny and amusing to see people get their just desserts, however. And last time I checked, it's not illegal to laugh at someone who gets what's coming to them.

This, from Chief Slap a Ho.

Dumping a full glass of beer or wine on a whore's head also works.

Whatever shames them is a decent solution.

lol

You've got an eleven page thread that says otherwise.

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Posted by xcupcake
SF

"Adultery
Korea is one of the few countries on earth that has adultery laws on the books that are enforced. I have only known of foreign men to be prosecuted for this, not women. If you are caught sleeping with someone's wife, you may have to pay the outraged husband thousands of dollars to prevent him from taking you to court. If he does choose to prosecute, article 241 of Korean law states you can face a jail term of up to two years.

Under Korean law, adultery is a serious criminal act and carries a serious consequences. If one spouse is caught having an adulterous affair with let's say an unmarried 25-year, single person, the other spouse can press a criminal charge against the adulterous spouse and put the spouse in jail, in addition to seeking civil damages. In addition, the spouse can press criminal charge against the person who knowingly had an affair with the adulterous spouse. (Therefore, if you are a single, you should avoid sexual relations with a married person at all costs.) A majority of Korean women favor keeping this law on adultery precisely because they perceive that this law could be used as a weapon against their husbands in divorce proceedings."

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Posted by xcupcake
SF

"Adultery
Korea is one of the few countries on earth that has adultery laws on the books that are enforced. I have only known of foreign men to be prosecuted for this, not women. If you are caught sleeping with someone's wife, you may have to pay the outraged husband thousands of dollars to prevent him from taking you to court. If he does choose to prosecute, article 241 of Korean law states you can face a jail term of up to two years.

Under Korean law, adultery is a serious criminal act and carries a serious consequences. If one spouse is caught having an adulterous affair with let's say an unmarried 25-year, single person, the other spouse can press a criminal charge against the adulterous spouse and put the spouse in jail, in addition to seeking civil damages. In addition, the spouse can press criminal charge against the person who knowingly had an affair with the adulterous spouse. (Therefore, if you are a single, you should avoid sexual relations with a married person at all costs.) A majority of Korean women favor keeping this law on adultery precisely because they perceive that this law could be used as a weapon against their husbands in divorce proceedings."

Thanks for that, interesting!

Trivia: Frank Sinatra spent time in prison for messing around with another man's wife.

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Posted by DAMEN VI
here's a video of a saudi man totally humiliating some asian guy for flirting with his wife

Posted by feby16aqua

Posted by aquapiscescusp
Ladies would you post this info about the woman who was the mistress?

I would not. There are always repercussions for every action.

When my ex had an affair I actually called the woman. She was definitely surprised to hear from me. Not to mention she had nothing to say and denied it all. When I asked her "did you know that I was pregnant with his child when you were fucking him?" She hung up the phone.
She's a mother herself and married.

I thought about sending a letter to her husband and all of that. I thought about driving to where she lives (in another state) and going bezerk on her ass...but thinking about feeling responsible for breaking up a marriage and potentially affecting the life of their children just wouldn't let me pull the trigger, even though she was a wreckless whore.

Not that it matters much, but she's a cancer. I could tell when I read their love letters to each other, now thinking back she sounded obsessed. I'm not into that kind of fluffernutter bullshit up the ass "let God shine his light on our love as we prance off into the sunset catching butterflies and intertwining our devotion in blah blah"

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Posted by Nemesis
"Human rights campaigners are outraged at a video that has surfaced from Saudi Arabia of an Asian man being severely beaten by a Saudi man, allegedly for looking at his wife. The footage shows the Asian worker, wearing an orange overall, sitting opposite the Saudi man dressed in white robes. The Asian man has a swollen eye"

a servant/slave being beaten up - how funny. let's all laugh and slap our knees!

Posted by GetMisted

Posted by tiziani
I think it's largely between the two people. I've never approached a married woman and I don't make it a habit to approach unavailable women in general. But I do have a track record of getting involved with women who don't cleanly break it off with their boyfriends and this only emerges after the fact.

Even when I've had outside parties come between me and mine in one relationship, it was too easy to blame the third party rather than really address the pre existing cracks in the relationship we'd been avoiding. No person can come between two unless they want it to be that way.

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Posted by Montgomery

Posted by piscesmoon2

Posted by Montgomery

Posted by piscesmoon2
So seraph you better go tell them they will get sued at all the sites that have a data bank of men not to date... it could be a million dollar case... we have someone that is so worried about others he must state legal suing causes are around...

PM

Wasn't that in reference to the "physical confrontation"?


I'm starting to believe this Merc retrograde, or whatever.

Wow, disregard my post-- I misread yours.

Further, idk wtf you're on about-- it doesn't seem to have a thing to do with the topic.

But from what little I can decipher, you don't want people to know that defamation laws still apply on those websites-- so you're flooding the thread.


Why is that?

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Posted by Montgomery

Posted by piscesmoon2

Posted by Montgomery

Posted by piscesmoon2

Wow, disregard my post-- I misread yours.

Further, idk wtf you're on about-- it doesn't seem to have a thing to do with the topic.

But from what little I can decipher, you don't want people to know that defamation laws still apply on those websites-- so you're flooding the thread.


Why is that?

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I would like to add I have never hit a woman or child either... and believe violence solves nothing... again I have only every hit a man after he hit me... not going to lie got my ass kicked once byt 6 guys being mugged... the 2 other times they wish they never touched me...

PM

Posted by seraph

Posted by piscesmoon2

Posted by seraph
PM,

You have some personal things to work through, then work through them. The point is to get over things and move on, not carry bitterness.

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What personal things do I have to work though? This was 7 years ago... I have gotten over this... it makes for an interesting story though... that was on topic and thought I would share...

if you notices that is what the thread is about cheaters...

this is yet another example of your sticking your spin on something that you know nothing about...

It was in my chart... as it was needed for me to develop farther in my life... I no longer believe that things happen for no reason... or so on... in fact I believe that my karma from maybe another life or something may have caused this... does not mean it was right what they did... but I needed this lesson although it was hard... I have learned from it and have moved on...

Please quite trying to come up with a reason to down me... as I have not insulted you other then saying why don't you quite giving legal advice...

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Posted by seraph
Lousy idea.

"Homewrecker" is subjective, and it's a completely emotional term. It's a completely private matter. Additionally, there's also the possibility of legal consequences, e.g., defamation (which brings into play statements of verifiable fact as a requirement, etc.)

Same goes for "exposing" and airing out personal laundry on Facebook. Tasteless.

Posted by Nemesis

Posted by lisabethur8

Posted by Nemesis
"Human rights campaigners are outraged at a video that has surfaced from Saudi Arabia of an Asian man being severely beaten by a Saudi man, allegedly for looking at his wife. The footage shows the Asian worker, wearing an orange overall, sitting opposite the Saudi man dressed in white robes. The Asian man has a swollen eye"

a servant/slave being beaten up - how funny. let's all laugh and slap our knees!

I saw that vid and got horrified. maybe i'm too much of a "Human rights activist" myself but that's terrible what that man did.

That flirtatious man shouldn't have approached his wife, unless it's about business or they are just friends. there's a fine line. But to go overboard and do that to that man, it's not as if the man actually bedded the wife did he? I'm too sensitive.

This is why some countries can't be in the EU. You have to have a certain amount of 1) income 2) democracy 3) make sure you're a "good" standing country. But i'm sure even with that superficially, deep down, when you look through the forest for the trees, there's alot going on there too.

now i am no expert on saudi arabia - they??re women are veiled and do not encourage flirtations, they look to the ground when a man passes, they do not leave the house without the company of a male relative/husband. so i wonder how he could have flirted with a wive....and secondly you can see in the video that this beaten guy is way under the arab in hierarchy. he is a servant. they are treated like dogs so to speak. if he had defended himself, he probably would have been killed.
hard to watch that.

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Posted by enfant_terrible

Posted by GetMisted

Posted by tiziani
I think it's largely between the two people. I've never approached a married woman and I don't make it a habit to approach unavailable women in general. But I do have a track record of getting involved with women who don't cleanly break it off with their boyfriends and this only emerges after the fact.

Even when I've had outside parties come between me and mine in one relationship, it was too easy to blame the third party rather than really address the pre existing cracks in the relationship we'd been avoiding. No person can come between two unless they want it to be that way.

+1

Exactly, which is why cheating in itself is not an "act" as much as an unfortunate consequence of something else. I just love how some people totally ignore the human factor and think there are guarantees in life, even regarding themselves... I especially love those peeps who think they are incapable of cheating, that they are simply "not that type", and then one day reality check! Hm, whaddya know, I'm not better than the rest of humanity!

It's like they say, it's usually those who don't believe they can be led on the path of taking another person's life that you should watch out for, because they don't have a realistic image of themselves (that's right, another metaphor lol). When the human factor is concerned, all bets are off.

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Posted by Nemesis

Posted by lisabethur8

Posted by Nemesis
"Human rights campaigners are outraged at a video that has surfaced from Saudi Arabia of an Asian man being severely beaten by a Saudi man, allegedly for looking at his wife. The footage shows the Asian worker, wearing an orange overall, sitting opposite the Saudi man dressed in white robes. The Asian man has a swollen eye"

a servant/slave being beaten up - how funny. let's all laugh and slap our knees!

I saw that vid and got horrified. maybe i'm too much of a "Human rights activist" myself but that's terrible what that man did.

That flirtatious man shouldn't have approached his wife, unless it's about business or they are just friends. there's a fine line. But to go overboard and do that to that man, it's not as if the man actually bedded the wife did he? I'm too sensitive.

This is why some countries can't be in the EU. You have to have a certain amount of 1) income 2) democracy 3) make sure you're a "good" standing country. But i'm sure even with that superficially, deep down, when you look through the forest for the trees, there's alot going on there too.

now i am no expert on saudi arabia - they??re women are veiled and do not encourage flirtations, they look to the ground when a man passes, they do not leave the house without the company of a male relative/husband. so i wonder how he could have flirted with a wive....and secondly you can see in the video that this beaten guy is way under the arab in hierarchy. he is a servant. they are treated like dogs so to speak. if he had defended himself, he probably would have been killed.
hard to watch that.

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Posted by seraph

Posted by piscesmoon2

Posted by seraph
Lousy idea.

"Homewrecker" is subjective, and it's a completely emotional term. It's a completely private matter. Additionally, there's also the possibility of legal consequences, e.g., defamation (which brings into play statements of verifiable fact as a requirement, etc.)

Same goes for "exposing" and airing out personal laundry on Facebook. Tasteless.

This is tasteless... legal advise where it was not asked for...

PM

It's just common sense, which sometimes gets a little obscured among all the high emotion.

You don't have to ask for it.

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Posted by seraph

Posted by piscesmoon2

Posted by seraph

Posted by piscesmoon2

Posted by seraph
Lousy idea.

This isn't about "showing emotions." You're taking all of this very personally.

You need to understand that in life, shit happens. Once a relationship is over because you were rejected/cheated on/disappointed, nothing really matters beyond how you handle yourself, in that you don't do anything stupid.

The onus is on you to get over it, learn from it, and move on. You won't always get redress, and it's certainty not automatically owed to you.

If someone points out some potential illegality in choosing an unwise course of action, it's incidental to the issue, and not an encouragement to "sue" anyone. It's neither tasteless nor tasteful, but merely a statement of fact.

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I am actually not take it personal at all... what do I care what you think...

I am over it... I was sharing a story in a thread that it was subject to... as well as said that it seemed like you talked or wrote... like a lawyer... but what is right and wrong technically... seeming like you are waiting for anyone to say something or post a picture of an x...

I commented on the fact that we are on a forum not in a court room and I don't think anyone is going to sue another person from dxp... even more so from what country...

You can have your view points and I can have mine... I am good with that...

I have no hard feelings at you... other then I don't agree with you on this point... I am sorry... can you deal with that...

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Posted by PotHeadVirgo24
I'd fuck a married woman. It's not my fault she wanted this dick. Instead of checking me, he need to be checking his so called bitch. If anything I saved the husband from wasting his time. While you're out buying her expensive clothes and jewellery and taking her out on romantic escapades talking bout how many kids yall gone have and growing old together, I'm knocking that thing off on the daily without buying her or promising her shit. All she had to do was say no and we wouldn't of laid in your bed together, but noooooo. She gave it up like I had a gun to her head threatening her to bend over or else.

So fuck that, if anything you should dap me up for exposing this fraud for who she really is, not avoiding the fact that in order for us to had even have had sexual contact, she would have had to voluntarily pull her panties down (or allow me to) and put my sanity into her insanity. Whether I knew she had a husband or not is besides the point because "SHE" was gone fuck me either way. Which is a low blow to what you thought you had, so If you gone kill somebody, kill her. I'm just hermes in this whole ordeal.

Now lets go get some drinks and smoke some mother earth, I'm buying.

Posted by xcupcake
This thread needs Jesus.

Posted by VenusAquarius
I'd be very careful.

"Home wreckers" get killed.

People rarely give a fuck about the circumstances or your logic. They love their spouse. They don't know you, don't care and don't give a fuck about what you are going through. They will want to kill you.

You probably won't get much of a chance to explain your philosophy on cheating either.

Posted by VenusAquarius
I'd be very careful.

"Home wreckers" get killed.

People rarely give a fuck about the circumstances or your logic. They love their spouse. They don't know you, don't care and don't give a fuck about what you are going through. They will want to kill you.

You probably won't get much of a chance to explain your philosophy on cheating either.

Posted by aquapiscescusp

Posted by feby16aqua

Posted by aquapiscescusp
Ladies would you post this info about the woman who was the mistress?

I would not. There are always repercussions for every action.

When my ex had an affair I actually called the woman. She was definitely surprised to hear from me. Not to mention she had nothing to say and denied it all. When I asked her "did you know that I was pregnant with his child when you were fucking him?" She hung up the phone.
She's a mother herself and married.

I thought about sending a letter to her husband and all of that. I thought about driving to where she lives (in another state) and going bezerk on her ass...but thinking about feeling responsible for breaking up a marriage and potentially affecting the life of their children just wouldn't let me pull the trigger, even though she was a wreckless whore.

Not that it matters much, but she's a cancer. I could tell when I read their love letters to each other, now thinking back she sounded obsessed. I'm not into that kind of fluffernutter bullshit up the ass "let God shine his light on our love as we prance off into the sunset catching butterflies and intertwining our devotion in blah blah"

I came back to this because I found it disturbing on many levels. What a difficult time this must have been for you. Were you pregnant when you found out? Hugs.

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Posted by CluelessCancer

Posted by feby16aqua
And I absolutely believe in karma. I've seen it even come knocking at my own door.

+100000

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Posted by ScorpioFish

Posted by aquapiscescusp

Posted by feby16aqua

Posted by aquapiscescusp
Ladies would you post this info about the woman who was the mistress?

I would not. There are always repercussions for every action.

When my ex had an affair I actually called the woman. She was definitely surprised to hear from me. Not to mention she had nothing to say and denied it all. When I asked her "did you know that I was pregnant with his child when you were fucking him?" She hung up the phone.
She's a mother herself and married.

I thought about sending a letter to her husband and all of that. I thought about driving to where she lives (in another state) and going bezerk on her ass...but thinking about feeling responsible for breaking up a marriage and potentially affecting the life of their children just wouldn't let me pull the trigger, even though she was a wreckless whore.

Not that it matters much, but she's a cancer. I could tell when I read their love letters to each other, now thinking back she sounded obsessed. I'm not into that kind of fluffernutter bullshit up the ass "let God shine his light on our love as we prance off into the sunset catching butterflies and intertwining our devotion in blah blah"

I came back to this because I found it disturbing on many levels. What a difficult time this must have been for you. Were you pregnant when you found out? Hugs.

@ Feby, I would have sided with you if you decided to take matters into your own hands.

Many juries do not throw the book at people who commit "crimes of passion."

They usually get light sentences or probation, depending on the severity of the response to the cheating. This, of course, is totally understandable.

To all the people who say they would mess with married people, just remember that you are probably taking your life into your own hands. Good luck with that.

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Posted by CluelessCancer

Posted by feby16aqua
And I absolutely believe in karma. I've seen it even come knocking at my own door.

+100000

I believe it is a curse one puts on one's self. I believe that often when people are complaining about their love life and how sad or lonely they are, they have not revealed cheating is in their past and definitely have an obstinate attitude about their past wrongs; therefore, the curse continues.

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Posted by xcupcake
Yeah I agree with Twizzler. Karma takes different shape, form and you never know how it will hit you. You can past it on to your child.

Posted by lisabethur8

Posted by VenusAquarius

Posted by CluelessCancer

Posted by feby16aqua
And I absolutely believe in karma. I've seen it even come knocking at my own door.

+100000

I believe it is a curse one puts on one's self. I believe that often when people are complaining about their love life and how sad or lonely they are, they have not revealed cheating is in their past and definitely have an obstinate attitude about their past wrongs; therefore, the curse continues.

karma seems to go much much deeper than that though. In Asian studies (since asia is known to be the oldest /constantinople /turkey/ect) many people are born into the world innocent and pure, but they go through a series of tragedy and pain, and one wonders if something (reincarnation) had something to do with it. In ancient studies, it is karmic retribution which ancestors place on a person, and the karma is continued on with the next generation and individuals born into that family. It's very very tragic. And this is the ancient curse.

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Posted by xcupcake
Be good, do good and speak with kindness. No matter who you face.

Posted by ScorpioFish

Posted by xcupcake
Be good, do good and speak with kindness. No matter who you face.

Eh...

Just desserts, like cupcakes, need to be served from time to time.

🙂

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Posted by seraph

Posted by ScorpioFish

Posted by VenusAquarius
I'd be very careful.

"Home wreckers" get killed.

People rarely give a fuck about the circumstances or your logic. They love their spouse. They don't know you, don't care and don't give a fuck about what you are going through. They will want to kill you.

You probably won't get much of a chance to explain your philosophy on cheating either.

I don't blame people for taking matters into their own hands regarding a cheating spouse.

Is it legal to blast someone with a weapon or destroy their car over it? No.

Is it understandable? Yes.

Dumbest thing you can possibly do. A lot of natural impulses are "understandable" because they're natural impulses. But that doesn't mean it's ok to engage in a galactic loss of self-control. The challenge is for you to be a better person *despite* your disappointment in someone, not give in to being stupid.

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Posted by feby16aqua
And I absolutely believe in karma. I've seen it even come knocking at my own door.

+100000

I believe it is a curse one puts on one's self. I believe that often when people are complaining about their love life and how sad or lonely they are, they have not revealed cheating is in their past and definitely have an obstinate attitude about their past wrongs; therefore, the curse continues.

karma seems to go much much deeper than that though. In Asian studies (since asia is known to be the oldest /constantinople /turkey/ect) many people are born into the world innocent and pure, but they go through a series of tragedy and pain, and one wonders if something (reincarnation) had something to do with it. In ancient studies, it is karmic retribution which ancestors place on a person, and the karma is continued on with the next generation and individuals born into that family. It's very very tragic. And this is the ancient curse.

Yes indeed, I didn't want to get that deep. And that's the true meaning of karma. "The sins of the father falls on his family." Someone get's it started.

The definition is changing based on laymen's use.

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Posted by PotHeadVirgo24

Posted by VenusAquarius
Girls want to call each other, argue, share stories maybes... often become friends. I guess this is the experience that PHV wants... LOL. "Girl, let's just go get some drinks..."

LOLOLOL. I know that won't happen in real life. And if he ever desides to wanna come looking for me he putting his own life in danger cause I'm emptying the whole clip. You may be upset, but that shit didn't make you bulletproof.

I'm like look we can be civil about this and think logically, or we can allow a woman to get us both killed. I'm not in to taking lives over and unfaithful partner. You basically destroyed your life over a cheater. That's stupid. My emotions wouldn't even run that deep once I've found out she was unloyal. But that's just me.

So yeah, lets go get some drinks.

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Posted by VenusAquarius

Posted by PotHeadVirgo24

Posted by VenusAquarius
Girls want to call each other, argue, share stories maybes... often become friends. I guess this is the experience that PHV wants... LOL. "Girl, let's just go get some drinks..."

LOLOLOL. I know that won't happen in real life. And if he ever desides to wanna come looking for me he putting his own life in danger cause I'm emptying the whole clip. You may be upset, but that shit didn't make you bulletproof.

I'm like look we can be civil about this and think logically, or we can allow a woman to get us both killed. I'm not in to taking lives over and unfaithful partner. You basically destroyed your life over a cheater. That's stupid. My emotions wouldn't even run that deep once I've found out she was unloyal. But that's just me.

So yeah, lets go get some drinks.

People careful. Some of us are deep. Go to the bar, get drunk, wake up dead...news reports and accident of some sort.

—I thoroughly disapprove of duels. If a man should challenge me, I would take him kindly and forgivingly by the hand and lead him to a quiet place and kill him.?? Mark Twain

Ahahah! That's true, but I'm not that stupid. I'm going to no quiet place with this guy nor are we gone be friends after he finds out. Like come on I just fucked your wife. You expect me to let my guard down after we go to the bar? Fuck that. My hand will be on my strap at all times. Jump stupid if he wanna...

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Posted by krysrenee7
If homewrecking were an actual criminal office, I'd be all for it. I don't believe in protecting scumbags all to spare their "feelings."

But unfortunately, home-wrecking is not a crime as it shouldn't be b/c the term absolutely means different things to different people & would have to have an enormous burden of proof before it's even safe to publicly label someone in that way

I agree that the term "home-wrecker" is purely emotional. It's natural for the human mind to want to bring punishment or shame to anyone who has came into your home & caused it to come crashing down. BUT the reality that most don't want to acknowledge is that a person can't wreck a home that they were never allowed access to

So in that case, if anybody deserves the shaming, it ought to be the person who opened that door...the husband...the boyfriend...etc. Homewreckers have no power to bring harm unless 1 of the people in the relationship gave her that power. But we live in a world where women would much rather focus all of their anger on the other women as opposed to the man who cheated & even provided a situation that would make the homewrecker relevant.

Being mad at the homewrecker is like accusing a gun, instead of a person for murder. The gun by itself is not dangerous, nor does it kill people on its own. Someone has to activate the gun & pull the trigger. Perhaps that's why people get locked up, not the gun lol The homewrecker is the gun who has no power unless/until someone comes along & provides her with the trigger. The person who provides her with the trigger is the real culprit. So if there were ever a law that allowed public shaming for cheaters, the focus should be on the cheating partner 1st

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Posted by xcupcake

Posted by PotHeadVirgo24

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Posted by PotHeadVirgo24
Whats your take cupcake?

My take on this thread?

No your take on tomorrow's thread. Yes this thread.

I don't think it's right to ruin someone else's life. Especially the third party, when it is the partner who inflicted the pain on you. I can understand the instant reaction from the person who got cheated on though, but to go in great lengths to ruin someone else's life is wrong. It could have been anyone, but the point is the person will cheat one person or the other. LOL. I do think that people should try a pair of different shoes everyday, just to get an understanding, a perspective on someone else's life. It wouldn't hurt so much then.

Exfuckingxactly! If it wasn't me, it would be somebody else.

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Posted by krysrenee7
If homewrecking were an actual criminal office, I'd be all for it. I don't believe in protecting scumbags all to spare their "feelings."

But unfortunately, home-wrecking is not a crime as it shouldn't be b/c the term absolutely means different things to different people & would have to have an enormous burden of proof before it's even safe to publicly label someone in that way

In some states, Virginia, it is a civil offense to which you can sue the homewrecker. R&B singer Fantasia experienced it and tried to commit suicide when he lover's wife sued her.

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Posted by feby16aqua

Posted by aquapiscescusp

Posted by feby16aqua

Posted by aquapiscescusp
Ladies would you post this info about the woman who was the mistress?

I would not. There are always repercussions for every action.

When my ex had an affair I actually called the woman. She was definitely surprised to hear from me. Not to mention she had nothing to say and denied it all. When I asked her "did you know that I was pregnant with his child when you were fucking him?" She hung up the phone.
She's a mother herself and married.

I thought about sending a letter to her husband and all of that. I thought about driving to where she lives (in another state) and going bezerk on her ass...but thinking about feeling responsible for breaking up a marriage and potentially affecting the life of their children just wouldn't let me pull the trigger, even though she was a wreckless whore.

Not that it matters much, but she's a cancer. I could tell when I read their love letters to each other, now thinking back she sounded obsessed. I'm not into that kind of fluffernutter bullshit up the ass "let God shine his light on our love as we prance off into the sunset catching butterflies and intertwining our devotion in blah blah"

I came back to this because I found it disturbing on many levels. What a difficult time this must have been for you. Were you pregnant when you found out? Hugs.

a little less than 5 years ago. A few days before my birthday he told me. I "tricked" him into telling me...we were having a huge birthday party "for me" I guess. I just sat there like a zombie and watched him go off into the corner and flirt with another woman...a different one. Even my friends who had no idea what was going on were like "wtf!!!". Sitting there wounded and bleeding and still taking stabs.

APC I took it VERY hard. I see myself before it all happened and I feel like now I'm just a shadow of the bubbly happy-go-lucky person I was before it all happened. I probably should have seen a counselor, but instead i kept it all inside and punished myself for it. 😢

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Posted by seraph
Suing a "homewrecker" for emotional distress? Lol. Ridiculous. The peaks and valleys of personal relationships have nothing to do with legality, and everything to do with values. It isn't anyone's business to legislate personal values, unless they have to do with liberties, human rights, and equal and unfettered access to their material and social fruits. Besides, it's retarded to legislate and interfere in private, subjective matters, and NOT legislate against things like, say, Hate Speech. Priorities?

If someone wants to give in to a "homewrecker", the onus is on the individual giving in to the homewrecker's advances, no matter how disgusting the homewrecker might be. No one can be "stolen." Homes can't be "wrecked" unless one of the parties to the home actually wants it that way. In which case the wrong party is being sued. Lol

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Posted by xcupcake
I think it's part of healing.

I wonder what colour humor is.

Black?

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