
aquapiscescusp
@aquapiscescusp
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Posted by feby16aquaPosted by aquapiscescuspPosted by feby16aquaPosted by aquapiscescusp
Ladies would you post this info about the woman who was the mistress?
I would not. There are always repercussions for every action.
When my ex had an affair I actually called the woman. She was definitely surprised to hear from me. Not to mention she had nothing to say and denied it all. When I asked her "did you know that I was pregnant with his child when you were fucking him?" She hung up the phone.
She's a mother herself and married.
I thought about sending a letter to her husband and all of that. I thought about driving to where she lives (in another state) and going bezerk on her ass...but thinking about feeling responsible for breaking up a marriage and potentially affecting the life of their children just wouldn't let me pull the trigger, even though she was a wreckless whore.
Not that it matters much, but she's a cancer. I could tell when I read their love letters to each other, now thinking back she sounded obsessed. I'm not into that kind of fluffernutter bullshit up the ass "let God shine his light on our love as we prance off into the sunset catching butterflies and intertwining our devotion in blah blah"
I came back to this because I found it disturbing on many levels. What a difficult time this must have been for you. Were you pregnant when you found out? Hugs.
a little less than 5 years ago. A few days before my birthday he told me. I "tricked" him into telling me...we were having a huge birthday party "for me" I guess. I just sat there like a zombie and watched him go off into the corner and flirt with another woman...a different one. Even my friends who had no idea what was going on were like "wtf!!!". Sitting there wounded and bleeding and still taking stabs.
APC I took it VERY hard. I see myself before it all happened and I feel like now I'm just a shadow of the bubbly happy-go-lucky person I was before it all happened. I probably should have seen a counselor, but instead i kept it all inside and punished myself for it. 😢
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Posted by piscesmoon2
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Sounds about right like mine... it is more about the other person being selfish and not wanting to give you a choice... They want everything their way... and I do think people can be stupid enough to think it is a great thing to sleep with married girls... or guys... but again this is my personal perspective...
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