DeeLovesRed
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Posted by DeeLovesRed
I’ve been taking this guy more serious lately. I’ve known him for more than 7 years, however we’ve recently announced to one another the attraction and feelings we have for eachother.
There’s some serious intense sexual energy between us and yesterday we finally decided to GET INTIMATE. He decided from the beginning to keep the lights off & was hung up on orally pleasing me. However, when I asked him to take his boxers off, I was SUPER DISAPPOINTED‼️‼️‼️‼️
His manly parts was the smallest I’ve ever seen in my life (Not That I’m Particularly A Size Queen).. but it literally resembles a Sharpie Permanent Marker (No girth or length)... Is this because he’s a Chunky/Chubby guy? Now what do I do? Because I have intense feelings for him but I know he’s unable to please me with his “man part”.. 😩😩😭😭😭😭...
First red flag is when he immediately goes to oral for the first time lol.
Did you actually fuck? How do you know he doesn't know how to use it? Looks can be deceiving...maybe? 😬
😬
so sorry
Murphy’s law
😢 that’s rough. Did you have sex?
Posted by LostinmyMind11Posted by DeeLovesRed
I’ve been taking this guy more serious lately. I’ve known him for more than 7 years, however we’ve recently announced to one another the attraction and feelings we have for eachother.
There’s some serious intense sexual energy between us and yesterday we finally decided to GET INTIMATE. He decided from the beginning to keep the lights off & was hung up on orally pleasing me. However, when I asked him to take his boxers off, I was SUPER DISAPPOINTED‼️‼️‼️‼️
His manly parts was the smallest I’ve ever seen in my life (Not That I’m Particularly A Size Queen).. but it literally resembles a Sharpie Permanent Marker (No girth or length)... Is this because he’s a Chunky/Chubby guy? Now what do I do? Because I have intense feelings for him but I know he’s unable to please me with his “man part”.. 😩😩😭😭😭😭...
First red flag is when he immediately goes to oral for the first time lol.
Did you actually fuck? How do you know he doesn't know how to use it? Looks can be deceiving...maybe? 😬click to expand
We did. I've had guys with parts that ppl would consider under average size, but at least they had girth. He doesn't have either or. Literally!!
I feel for you. This has happened to me twice. I call them thumb dicks. The first time I almost laughed and then the 2nd time I thought I was being punked.
It has nothing to do with his weight. He just has a micro dick. He could lose all the weight in the world and his dick will still be small.
The sad part about it is that you have feelings for him and you didnt find this info out for like 7 yrs. Does it change the way you feel about him? If not then you can try to make things work but if he cant satisfy you then it's never going to work.
It has nothing to do with his weight. He just has a micro dick. He could lose all the weight in the world and his dick will still be small.
The sad part about it is that you have feelings for him and you didnt find this info out for like 7 yrs. Does it change the way you feel about him? If not then you can try to make things work but if he cant satisfy you then it's never going to work.
Posted by DeeLovesRedPosted by LostinmyMind11Posted by DeeLovesRed
I’ve been taking this guy more serious lately. I’ve known him for more than 7 years, however we’ve recently announced to one another the attraction and feelings we have for eachother.
There’s some serious intense sexual energy between us and yesterday we finally decided to GET INTIMATE. He decided from the beginning to keep the lights off & was hung up on orally pleasing me. However, when I asked him to take his boxers off, I was SUPER DISAPPOINTED‼️‼️‼️‼️
His manly parts was the smallest I’ve ever seen in my life (Not That I’m Particularly A Size Queen).. but it literally resembles a Sharpie Permanent Marker (No girth or length)... Is this because he’s a Chunky/Chubby guy? Now what do I do? Because I have intense feelings for him but I know he’s unable to please me with his “man part”.. 😩😩😭😭😭😭...
First red flag is when he immediately goes to oral for the first time lol.
Did you actually fuck? How do you know he doesn't know how to use it? Looks can be deceiving...maybe? 😬
We did. I've had guys with parts that ppl would consider under average size, but at least they had girth. He doesn't have either or. Literally!!click to expand
Poor guy. Well.. I guess it boils down to what you find more important and if you can be satisfied with his short comings.
Posted by MaddestofHatters
Just keep putting condoms on him. Like layering coats in the winter. You can get away with just saying you're OCD about STDs.
OCD about STDs would be a great christian rock band name. Btw.
😂😂😂😂😂💀
May I suggest you invest in one of these if you decide to deal with it ....
I give it 5 💦💦💦💦💦
😂🤪
I give it 5 💦💦💦💦💦
😂🤪
Posted by Vicktoria
What the f happened after he took his boxers off and you saw his pencil dick?
How did you play it off?
The suspense is killing me.
I just ignored it, b/c he took them off.. Then, he went back to oral. But.. inside my head I was like "wtf is that.. (-_-)"
Posted by SeaLion
I feel for you. This has happened to me twice. I call them thumb dicks. The first time I almost laughed and then the 2nd time I thought I was being punked.
It has nothing to do with his weight. He just has a micro dick. He could lose all the weight in the world and his dick will still be small.
The sad part about it is that you have feelings for him and you didnt find this info out for like 7 yrs. Does it change the way you feel about him? If not then you can try to make things work but if he cant satisfy you then it's never going to work.
Exactly, and he's such a decent looking guy. He has his head on his shoulders too.... But, it sorta does change the way I feel about & towards him. I tried to think about "How can I be in a relationship with someone who doesn't sexually satisfy me? Would I cheat?!!" etc etc.... So, I don't know what to do
Just tell him to take some dick enhancement pills if you really care about him that much. Maybe in like 6 months or so it'll grow.
I mean come on it's 2020 this isn't the first tiny male penis discovery in the world. His problem can be fixed.
I mean come on it's 2020 this isn't the first tiny male penis discovery in the world. His problem can be fixed.
Now on to an unfixable problem. How do you get a big penis inside of a tiny vagina 🤔
Posted by ItsSupes2
This reminds me......
Someone needs to make a saggy tiddies or stretch marks post
At least you can do tricks with saggy titties....throw them over your shoulder...tie them in a knot or bow. 🤷🏼♀️😂
Posted by ItsSupes2
This reminds me......
Someone needs to make a saggy tiddies or stretch marks post
Men have saggy titties and definitely stretch marks.
My hubby has stretch marks on his biceps and his ass since 21. The biceps stretch marks are so deep that when I met him, I asked what happened (naive) and he told me a knife fight, lol.
penetration is often the least intimate part of a sexual experience.
If your "stuck" on that it's not just him.
If your "stuck" on that it's not just him.
Posted by DeeLovesRed
I’ve been taking this guy more serious lately. I’ve known him for more than 7 years, however we’ve recently announced to one another the attraction and feelings we have for eachother.
There’s some serious intense sexual energy between us and yesterday we finally decided to GET INTIMATE. He decided from the beginning to keep the lights off & was hung up on orally pleasing me. However, when I asked him to take his boxers off, I was SUPER DISAPPOINTED‼️‼️‼️‼️
His manly parts was the smallest I’ve ever seen in my life (Not That I’m Particularly A Size Queen).. but it literally resembles a Sharpie Permanent Marker (No girth or length)... Is this because he’s a Chunky/Chubby guy? Now what do I do? Because I have intense feelings for him but I know he’s unable to please me with his “man part”.. 😩😩😭😭😭😭...
Dee, I've dated and almost married an impotent man... so, apparently penetration is not that important to me. I will say that he was very sexual and I enjoyed alot of kink, food, jewelry, flowers, vacation. He would bring me expensive flowers and thoughtful lunches . He was generally very hedonistic and with a hedonistic energy and aura that always stimulating. I say this to say, he had sex and love always in the air til I always felt satisfied.
He’s probably used to this issue. Get dildos of the proper size that you want/need and let him get off first and then use the dildos on you after.
Maybe his smaller size would fit better in another place and would be more comfortable for you 🍑😇
Maybe his smaller size would fit better in another place and would be more comfortable for you 🍑😇
Is he atleast curved?
I don't think you should give up on him. Ask him for his opinion on how you two should proceed in this area. Listen to what he says when he opens up. He knows he has this issue and he knows rejection from it. Because of your history of 7 years just hear him out.
Posted by DeeLovesRedPosted by SeaLion
I feel for you. This has happened to me twice. I call them thumb dicks. The first time I almost laughed and then the 2nd time I thought I was being punked.
It has nothing to do with his weight. He just has a micro dick. He could lose all the weight in the world and his dick will still be small.
The sad part about it is that you have feelings for him and you didnt find this info out for like 7 yrs. Does it change the way you feel about him? If not then you can try to make things work but if he cant satisfy you then it's never going to work.
Exactly, and he's such a decent looking guy. He has his head on his shoulders too.... But, it sorta does change the way I feel about & towards him. I tried to think about "How can I be in a relationship with someone who doesn't sexually satisfy me? Would I cheat?!!" etc etc.... So, I don't know what to doclick to expand
I feel you. I'm spoiled now, and actually have the opposite problem...he is to big....and it hurts usually.....but I wouldnt trade it for a smaller one 😬
I people should do what's right for them... "everybody ain't able."
I would not make plan with him. He would have to be naturally inclined with a desire, knowledge, and know-how, on various ways on how to get-off and creating stimulating intimacy in order for me to feel that he can sustain a satisfying sex life.
Exploring whether he has this capacity and natural desire will take time and it may also take time for you to decide whether these alternatves, should he present them, are satisfying to you.
The natural desire part is important as it is instrumental in you feeling desired. Lack does not necessarily create want.
In my past situation with the impotent guy, I'm a bit perverse in that I thought it awfully special that I could go the rest of my life without penetration and the usual guys hitting on me. They'd be pissed if they knew I don't get dicked down and was still saying, "no thanks." LOL
I would not make plan with him. He would have to be naturally inclined with a desire, knowledge, and know-how, on various ways on how to get-off and creating stimulating intimacy in order for me to feel that he can sustain a satisfying sex life.
Exploring whether he has this capacity and natural desire will take time and it may also take time for you to decide whether these alternatves, should he present them, are satisfying to you.
The natural desire part is important as it is instrumental in you feeling desired. Lack does not necessarily create want.
In my past situation with the impotent guy, I'm a bit perverse in that I thought it awfully special that I could go the rest of my life without penetration and the usual guys hitting on me. They'd be pissed if they knew I don't get dicked down and was still saying, "no thanks." LOL
Posted by VicktoriaPosted by DeeLovesRedPosted by PuzzlePieces
😢 that’s rough. Did you have sex?
Yes, we did.
How was it?click to expand
👎🏾👎🏾... literally it’s like a finger
Posted by VenusAquariusPosted by DeeLovesRed
I’ve been taking this guy more serious lately. I’ve known him for more than 7 years, however we’ve recently announced to one another the attraction and feelings we have for eachother.
There’s some serious intense sexual energy between us and yesterday we finally decided to GET INTIMATE. He decided from the beginning to keep the lights off & was hung up on orally pleasing me. However, when I asked him to take his boxers off, I was SUPER DISAPPOINTED‼️‼️‼️‼️
His manly parts was the smallest I’ve ever seen in my life (Not That I’m Particularly A Size Queen).. but it literally resembles a Sharpie Permanent Marker (No girth or length)... Is this because he’s a Chunky/Chubby guy? Now what do I do? Because I have intense feelings for him but I know he’s unable to please me with his “man part”.. 😩😩😭😭😭😭...
Dee, I've dated and almost married an impotent man... so, apparently penetration is not that important to me. I will say that he was very sexual and I enjoyed alot of kink, food, jewelry, flowers, vacation. He would bring me expensive flowers and thoughtful lunches . He was generally very hedonistic and with a hedonistic energy and aura that always stimulating. I say this to say, he had sex and love always in the air til I always felt satisfied.click to expand
Yea, it isn’t the most important... But it’s pretty high on my important chart. I’m that individual that look forward to a good session after a long day. I like to send my babe pics and sexy stuff during the day.. I like to make sex fun & weird.
I just don’t think I can let a guy use his man parts in me just so he could satisfy himself... 👎🏾👎🏾 & Then I have to either get oral or masturbate after sex with him.. 😩😩👎🏾👎🏾...
Too Much 😔😔
Posted by sweetpea2977
Is he atleast curved?
No, it’s literally like a Sharpie permanent marker.
It’s super skinny & no length
Posted by sweetpea2977
I don't think you should give up on him. Ask him for his opinion on how you two should proceed in this area. Listen to what he says when he opens up. He knows he has this issue and he knows rejection from it. Because of your history of 7 years just hear him out.
I can only try having one talk with him... because this is a bit disappointing..
Posted by NemDeux
this is not going to work long term.
all virtues aside, but sexual compatability is quite important.
& I know it isn’t... even though I’m willing to talk to him about the issue..😔
Posted by AnotherTaurusGuyReturns
I feel sorry for the dude. Stay strong brother ✌️
Look for a chick with a smaller vagina.
Excellent.
OP.
Forget the talk if you have a size preference.
I feel bad for both of you. He deserves a girl that can except him as he is.
Forget the talk if you have a size preference.
I feel bad for both of you. He deserves a girl that can except him as he is.
Posted by Shy_Taurus
OP.
Forget the talk if you have a size preference.
I feel bad for both of you. He deserves a girl that can except him as he is.
He definitely does because obviously this is a dealbreaker for me.
Posted by DeeLovesRedPosted by sweetpea2977
Is he atleast curved?
No, it’s literally like a Sharpie permanent marker.
It’s super skinny & no lengthclick to expand
For reference purposes....which sharpie?
lmaooo
Posted by idontlikeyou
Sounds kinda shallow
Literally...
Posted by AnotherTaurusGuyReturnsPosted by SeaLionPosted by DeeLovesRedPosted by sweetpea2977
Is he atleast curved?
No, it’s literally like a Sharpie permanent marker.
It’s super skinny & no length
For reference purposes....which sharpie?
Please measure the girth of both too 😁click to expand
Posted by SeaLionPosted by DeeLovesRedPosted by sweetpea2977
Is he atleast curved?
No, it’s literally like a Sharpie permanent marker.
It’s super skinny & no length
For reference purposes....which sharpie?
https://i.imgur.com/xuuZoIC.jpg
The smaller one with the exact width and length... literally
Posted by SeaLionPosted by AnotherTaurusGuyReturnsPosted by SeaLionPosted by DeeLovesRedPosted by sweetpea2977
Is he atleast curved?
No, it’s literally like a Sharpie permanent marker.
It’s super skinny & no length
For reference purposes....which sharpie?
Please measure the girth of both too 😁
https://i.imgur.com/Uv2ww6B.jpg
No don’t turn it side ways... As it standing upright measure its width.... approximately how many cm?
Posted by Phangus
Poor dude. He needs someone who isn’t gonna go on an astrology site and compare him to a writing instrument.
What else should I compare him to? Any suggestions....
Posted by DeeLovesRedPosted by SeaLionPosted by AnotherTaurusGuyReturnsPosted by SeaLionPosted by DeeLovesRedPosted by sweetpea2977
Is he atleast curved?
No, it’s literally like a Sharpie permanent marker.
It’s super skinny & no length
For reference purposes....which sharpie?
Please measure the girth of both too 😁
No don’t turn it side ways... As it standing upright measure its width.... approximately how many cm?click to expand
Let me see if I have any measuring tape for that. But for now that's the best I can do
Posted by GODZPosted by DeeLovesRedPosted by Phangus
Poor dude. He needs someone who isn’t gonna go on an astrology site and compare him to a writing instrument.
What else should I compare him to? Any suggestions....
A humanclick to expand
I don’t know any other human with the same sized man part as him..🤷🏽♀️🤷🏽♀️🤷🏽♀️
Sharpie it is ‼️‼️
Posted by DeeLovesRedPosted by SeaLionPosted by DeeLovesRedPosted by sweetpea2977
Is he atleast curved?
No, it’s literally like a Sharpie permanent marker.
It’s super skinny & no length
For reference purposes....which sharpie?
The smaller one with the exact width and length... literallyclick to expand
(Sigh) that is what I was afraid of..... we are dealing with a micro peen. I'm so sorry.
Posted by PhangusPosted by DeeLovesRedPosted by Phangus
Poor dude. He needs someone who isn’t gonna go on an astrology site and compare him to a writing instrument.
What else should I compare him to? Any suggestions....
My point is it’s an issue for you and you decided to make fun of him to strangers. You clearly don’t care about him so move on .click to expand
When did I mention I was “making fun” of this guy? I don’t think I wrote an “lol or lmao”.... And I already said that it’s a dealbreaker for me, but I’m still willing to talk to him....
So, 🤔🤔🤔...
Reading is Fundamental‼️‼️
Posted by SeaLionPosted by DeeLovesRedPosted by SeaLionPosted by DeeLovesRedPosted by sweetpea2977
Is he atleast curved?
No, it’s literally like a Sharpie permanent marker.
It’s super skinny & no length
For reference purposes....which sharpie?
The smaller one with the exact width and length... literally
(Sigh) that is what I was afraid of..... we are dealing with a micro peen. I'm so sorry.click to expand
😩😩 Literally, but damn he’s a good looking guy. Like how??
Did you get off from the oral?
Posted by PhangusPosted by DeeLovesRedPosted by PhangusPosted by DeeLovesRedPosted by Phangus
Poor dude. He needs someone who isn’t gonna go on an astrology site and compare him to a writing instrument.
What else should I compare him to? Any suggestions....
My point is it’s an issue for you and you decided to make fun of him to strangers. You clearly don’t care about him so move on .
When did I mention I was “making fun” of this guy? I don’t think I wrote an “lol or lmao”.... And I already said that it’s a dealbreaker for me, but I’m still willing to talk to him....
So, 🤔🤔🤔...
Reading is Fundamental‼️‼️
I don’t mean to his face. You’re doing it here behind his back when you already knew it was a dealbreaker and there was no need.
My advice is cut it off and keep this embarrassing information to yourself.click to expand
Why keep it to myself? The point of a forum is to share information with hopes that others could or can relate to you. Luckily I have individuals on here who have been in a similar situation as this and they’ve given me some great advice.
So, again... why—? 🤔🤔🤔
Posted by LadyNeptune
Did you get off from the oral?
Yes, I did. I don’t have any complaints for the oral. Just the “manly part”....
Posted by LostinmyMind11Posted by DeeLovesRedPosted by LostinmyMind11Posted by DeeLovesRed
I’ve been taking this guy more serious lately. I’ve known him for more than 7 years, however we’ve recently announced to one another the attraction and feelings we have for eachother.
There’s some serious intense sexual energy between us and yesterday we finally decided to GET INTIMATE. He decided from the beginning to keep the lights off & was hung up on orally pleasing me. However, when I asked him to take his boxers off, I was SUPER DISAPPOINTED‼️‼️‼️‼️
His manly parts was the smallest I’ve ever seen in my life (Not That I’m Particularly A Size Queen).. but it literally resembles a Sharpie Permanent Marker (No girth or length)... Is this because he’s a Chunky/Chubby guy? Now what do I do? Because I have intense feelings for him but I know he’s unable to please me with his “man part”.. 😩😩😭😭😭😭...
First red flag is when he immediately goes to oral for the first time lol.
Did you actually fuck? How do you know he doesn't know how to use it? Looks can be deceiving...maybe? 😬
We did. I've had guys with parts that ppl would consider under average size, but at least they had girth. He doesn't have either or. Literally!!
Poor guy. Well.. I guess it boils down to what you find more important and if you can be satisfied with his short comings.click to expand
you meant to say short cummings right?
Posted by PhangusPosted by DeeLovesRedPosted by PhangusPosted by DeeLovesRedPosted by PhangusPosted by DeeLovesRedPosted by Phangus
Poor dude. He needs someone who isn’t gonna go on an astrology site and compare him to a writing instrument.
What else should I compare him to? Any suggestions....
My point is it’s an issue for you and you decided to make fun of him to strangers. You clearly don’t care about him so move on .
When did I mention I was “making fun” of this guy? I don’t think I wrote an “lol or lmao”.... And I already said that it’s a dealbreaker for me, but I’m still willing to talk to him....
So, 🤔🤔🤔...
Reading is Fundamental‼️‼️
I don’t mean to his face. You’re doing it here behind his back when you already knew it was a dealbreaker and there was no need.
My advice is cut it off and keep this embarrassing information to yourself.
Why keep it to myself? The point of a forum is to share information with hopes that others could or can relate to you. Luckily I have individuals on here who have been in a similar situation as this and they’ve given me some great advice.
So, again... why—? 🤔🤔🤔
I mean in real life, keep it to yourself and don’t tell your friends.
You already posted it so it’s too late for you to not make a post making fun of men’s dick sizes.click to expand
Again, I know this guy for more than 7 years.. We have some of the same friends. I would embarrass MYSELF as well as HIM if I discuss it with our friends.... Hence the reason I took this issue to DXP‼️‼️
And when did I ever mention that I was going to tell my friends? I don’t recall me posting anything like that, so how did you assume that??! 🤔🤔
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There’s some serious intense sexual energy between us and yesterday we finally decided to GET INTIMATE. He decided from the beginning to keep the lights off & was hung up on orally pleasing me. However, when I asked him to take his boxers off, I was SUPER DISAPPOINTED‼️‼️‼️‼️
His manly parts was the smallest I’ve ever seen in my life (Not That I’m Particularly A Size Queen).. but it literally resembles a Sharpie Permanent Marker (No girth or length)... Is this because he’s a Chunky/Chubby guy? Now what do I do? Because I have intense feelings for him but I know he’s unable to please me with his “man part”.. 😩😩😭😭😭😭...