It’s Not The Right Size... (Page 2)

Posted by AnotherTaurusGuyReturns

Do I need to hold a sharpie in my dick pics for comparison now as well as a Red Bull can?

Coke can is better

Posted by DeeLovesRed

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Did you get off from the oral?

Yes, I did. I don’t have any complaints for the oral. Just the “manly part”....

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I feel you. The length is less a deal breaker than the width for me.

This is a tricky one since you've known him for so many years, its gonna be harder to fade to black.

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Poor dude. He needs someone who isn’t gonna go on an astrology site and compare him to a writing instrument.

What else should I compare him to? Any suggestions....

My point is it’s an issue for you and you decided to make fun of him to strangers. You clearly don’t care about him so move on .

When did I mention I was “making fun” of this guy? I don’t think I wrote an “lol or lmao”.... And I already said that it’s a dealbreaker for me, but I’m still willing to talk to him....

So, 🤔🤔🤔...

Reading is Fundamental‼️‼️

I don’t mean to his face. You’re doing it here behind his back when you already knew it was a dealbreaker and there was no need.

My advice is cut it off and keep this embarrassing information to yourself.

Why keep it to myself? The point of a forum is to share information with hopes that others could or can relate to you. Luckily I have individuals on here who have been in a similar situation as this and they’ve given me some great advice.

So, again... why—? 🤔🤔🤔

I mean in real life, keep it to yourself and don’t tell your friends.

You already posted it so it’s too late for you to not make a post making fun of men’s dick sizes.

Again, I know this guy for more than 7 years.. We have some of the same friends. I would embarrass MYSELF as well as HIM if I discuss it with our friends.... Hence the reason I took this issue to DXP‼️‼️

And when did I ever mention that I was going to tell my friends? I don’t recall me posting anything like that, so how did you assume that??! 🤔🤔

What did you want from this thread? Clearly you didn’t want to hear that you’re being shallow. Too bad, because you are.

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🙄🤦🏾‍♀️ I guess

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Posted by AnotherTaurusGuyReturns

Do I need to hold a sharpie in my dick pics for comparison now as well as a Red Bull can?

On DXP?

A tube of tooth paste seems to be the way to go.

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And not this tube.

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Poor dude. He needs someone who isn’t gonna go on an astrology site and compare him to a writing instrument.

What else should I compare him to? Any suggestions....

My point is it’s an issue for you and you decided to make fun of him to strangers. You clearly don’t care about him so move on .

When did I mention I was “making fun” of this guy? I don’t think I wrote an “lol or lmao”.... And I already said that it’s a dealbreaker for me, but I’m still willing to talk to him....

So, 🤔🤔🤔...

Reading is Fundamental‼️‼️

I don’t mean to his face. You’re doing it here behind his back when you already knew it was a dealbreaker and there was no need.

My advice is cut it off and keep this embarrassing information to yourself.

Why keep it to myself? The point of a forum is to share information with hopes that others could or can relate to you. Luckily I have individuals on here who have been in a similar situation as this and they’ve given me some great advice.

So, again... why—? 🤔🤔🤔

I mean in real life, keep it to yourself and don’t tell your friends.

You already posted it so it’s too late for you to not make a post making fun of men’s dick sizes.

Again, I know this guy for more than 7 years.. We have some of the same friends. I would embarrass MYSELF as well as HIM if I discuss it with our friends.... Hence the reason I took this issue to DXP‼️‼️

And when did I ever mention that I was going to tell my friends? I don’t recall me posting anything like that, so how did you assume that??! 🤔🤔

What did you want from this thread? Clearly you didn’t want to hear that you’re being shallow. Too bad, because you are.

Is it shallow because she is not into pencil dicks or making a thread about it?

Both

Aha.

If she was looking for the type of advice that a couple people gave, of how to work with it and enjoy sex anyway, then it wouldn't be, but she said herself it's a dealbreaker for her. So, this thread was for people to tell her it's not shallow. Well, it is. A woman can have an orgasm without a big dick, so this is a matter of preference, and she chooses to throw out the whole man.

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I mean technically I can’t just throw him away... we have the same friends... So, we’re in the same circle...

& again I mentioned I had guys with small

Packages, but at least they had girth... He does have neither girth or length... 🤷🏽‍♀️🤷🏽‍♀️

This is why most of the women on here are single or jump from relationship to relationship. There has always got to be one issue or another. Maybe it’s your kitty that’s got a rabbit burrow! Discard this 7 year brewing romance for the next man. You will not always have youth so make sure you drug him to sleep and check his pants early in the friendship/relationship before taking things to the bedroom again.

I kid. Maybe.

But really tho baby sharpie’d penis men deserve love too. What if the next guy’s adequately bigger but a douche. Just remember you can’t have it all.

LOL @ all the micro peens defending toothpaste dicks.

Posted by GODZ

I'm always lazy as shit to develop my opinion but I decided to change it in 2020.

Sex is not about dick size idk, there is plenty of questions who Were asked about how was it or how was the oral and shit.

You didn't answers and tbh Idgaf because I don't want others information about it. But the point is there is a game of sexual tension, of kiss, hugs, stare, was is slow ? Fast ?

And there is you. "My dude has a tiny zick, pls send me dxp like it will make it bigger"

It's like during the intercourse you had with your dood you were only thinking about his dick instead of enjoying it. How cringe is that.

The whole dude is born with that and you ask for empathy that's the mainly thing who disgust me, it's him who should ask for it. Not you.

I answered that we had sex.. I also mentioned that I did not have any complaints about oral (Go through the thread)... and the foreplay was good...

It’s just once I asked him to take his boxers off, he did & he didn’t want to have sex with the lights on...

And it was as if he was hiding his package because we didn’t do missionary or any position where I can see his penis. Doggy style was the position we were in majority of the session...

Like others mentioned to talk to him about my concern. Although this is a dealbreaker, I’m willing to talk to him because I do have feelings for him plus look how long I’ve known him‼️🤦🏾‍♀️

Posted by SassyKiwi

This is why most of the women on here are single or jump from relationship to relationship. There has always got to be one issue or another. Maybe it’s your kitty that’s got a rabbit burrow! Discard this 7 year brewing romance for the next man. You will not always have youth so make sure you drug him to sleep and check his pants early in the friendship/relationship before taking things to the bedroom again.

I kid. Maybe.

But really tho baby sharpie’d penis men deserve love too. What if the next guy’s adequately bigger but a douche. Just remember you can’t have it all.

Hahahahaha 🤣🤣🤣... No drugging

I honestly just wished he had some girth at least...

if he did, then his man part wouldn’t bother me... Plus he has a high sex drive (as do I) but now it’s like you have this drive, but damn the penis just doesn’t match 😩😩😩

Posted by SassyKiwi

This is why most of the women on here are single or jump from relationship to relationship. There has always got to be one issue or another. Maybe it’s your kitty that’s got a rabbit burrow! Discard this 7 year brewing romance for the next man. You will not always have youth so make sure you drug him to sleep and check his pants early in the friendship/relationship before taking things to the bedroom again.

I kid. Maybe.

But really tho baby sharpie’d penis men deserve love too. What if the next guy’s adequately bigger but a douche. Just remember you can’t have it all.

Hahahahaha 🤣🤣🤣... No drugging

I honestly just wished he had some girth at least...

if he did, then his man part wouldn’t bother me... Plus he has a high sex drive (as do I) but now it’s like you have this drive, but damn the penis just doesn’t match 😩😩😩

Posted by Generous_Libra

I'd be disappointed too if a man I'm with had a small d, but this got me thinking actually, why do we focus on the d size when 80% of women don't even orgasm when having penetrative sex, is this how we r supposed to measure manhood?

This girl right here is apart of the 20% .... 🤷🏽‍♀️🤷🏽‍♀️🤷🏽‍♀️ I prefer vaginal or anal penetration than oral and that’s just my preference; but I mean I’m open to talking something out with him

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Posted by GODZ

I'm always lazy as shit to develop my opinion but I decided to change it in 2020.

Sex is not about dick size idk, there is plenty of questions who Were asked about how was it or how was the oral and shit.

You didn't answers and tbh Idgaf because I don't want others information about it. But the point is there is a game of sexual tension, of kiss, hugs, stare, was is slow ? Fast ?

And there is you. "My dude has a tiny zick, pls send me dxp like it will make it bigger"

It's like during the intercourse you had with your dood you were only thinking about his dick instead of enjoying it. How cringe is that.

The whole dude is born with that and you ask for empathy that's the mainly thing who disgust me, it's him who should ask for it. Not you.

I answered that we had sex.. I also mentioned that I did not have any complaints about oral (Go through the thread)... and the foreplay was good...

It’s just once I asked him to take his boxers off, he did & he didn’t want to have sex with the lights on...

And it was as if he was hiding his package because we didn’t do missionary or any position where I can see his penis. Doggy style was the position we were in majority of the session...

Like others mentioned to talk to him about my concern. Although this is a dealbreaker, I’m willing to talk to him because I do have feelings for him plus look how long I’ve known him‼️🤦🏾‍♀️

Doggy style for the first Time? Y'all Americans are weird

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But it’s like the best position for those with small packages.

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I'd be disappointed too if a man I'm with had a small d, but this got me thinking actually, why do we focus on the d size when 80% of women don't even orgasm when having penetrative sex, is this how we r supposed to measure manhood?

This girl right here is apart of the 20% .... 🤷🏽‍♀️🤷🏽‍♀️🤷🏽‍♀️ I prefer vaginal or anal penetration than oral and that’s just my preference; but I mean I’m open to talking something out with him

I say yes talk to him, do your best to figure sth out, cause you've been together for 7 years without having sex, that's a " huge " thing to throw away. Pun intended.

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Haven’t been with him for 7 years... been friends for more than 7 years, we recently announced our feelings for another..

Literally last week we got intimate for the first time and this happened 😩😩😩

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Posted by GODZ

I'm always lazy as shit to develop my opinion but I decided to change it in 2020.

Sex is not about dick size idk, there is plenty of questions who Were asked about how was it or how was the oral and shit.

You didn't answers and tbh Idgaf because I don't want others information about it. But the point is there is a game of sexual tension, of kiss, hugs, stare, was is slow ? Fast ?

And there is you. "My dude has a tiny zick, pls send me dxp like it will make it bigger"

It's like during the intercourse you had with your dood you were only thinking about his dick instead of enjoying it. How cringe is that.

The whole dude is born with that and you ask for empathy that's the mainly thing who disgust me, it's him who should ask for it. Not you.

I answered that we had sex.. I also mentioned that I did not have any complaints about oral (Go through the thread)... and the foreplay was good...

It’s just once I asked him to take his boxers off, he did & he didn’t want to have sex with the lights on...

And it was as if he was hiding his package because we didn’t do missionary or any position where I can see his penis. Doggy style was the position we were in majority of the session...

Like others mentioned to talk to him about my concern. Although this is a dealbreaker, I’m willing to talk to him because I do have feelings for him plus look how long I’ve known him‼️🤦🏾‍♀️

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Well I don’t know it’s tough. How old is he? Doggy style seems to be position of choice with older guys cuz I think it’s easier when things get touchy.. and well if they are kinda adventurous with sex and can please you in all kinds of ways other than traditional sex maybe it’s alright.... I have been with a couple of little boys and they did make up for it in other ways. I wouldn’t say dealbreaker actually. But more concerning is him hiding it.

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Posted by GODZ

I'm always lazy as shit to develop my opinion but I decided to change it in 2020.

Sex is not about dick size idk, there is plenty of questions who Were asked about how was it or how was the oral and shit.

You didn't answers and tbh Idgaf because I don't want others information about it. But the point is there is a game of sexual tension, of kiss, hugs, stare, was is slow ? Fast ?

And there is you. "My dude has a tiny zick, pls send me dxp like it will make it bigger"

It's like during the intercourse you had with your dood you were only thinking about his dick instead of enjoying it. How cringe is that.

The whole dude is born with that and you ask for empathy that's the mainly thing who disgust me, it's him who should ask for it. Not you.

I answered that we had sex.. I also mentioned that I did not have any complaints about oral (Go through the thread)... and the foreplay was good...

It’s just once I asked him to take his boxers off, he did & he didn’t want to have sex with the lights on...

And it was as if he was hiding his package because we didn’t do missionary or any position where I can see his penis. Doggy style was the position we were in majority of the session...

Like others mentioned to talk to him about my concern. Although this is a dealbreaker, I’m willing to talk to him because I do have feelings for him plus look how long I’ve known him‼️🤦🏾‍♀️

Well I don’t know it’s tough. How old is he? Doggy style seems to be position of choice with older guys cuz I think it’s easier when things get touchy.. and well if they are kinda adventurous with sex and can please you in all kinds of ways other than traditional sex maybe it’s alright.... I have been with a couple of little boys and they did make up for it in other ways. I wouldn’t say dealbreaker actually. But more concerning is him hiding it.

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He’s young, 30. And I did mention earlier that he is a chunky/chubby guy. This is the first time I’m experiencing this, so it’s a quite difficult.

Oooooouch. I can relate.... I reeeeeally wanted it to work with this one guy who had been eyeing me for a couple of years at work. We finally started talking and def about not rushing it but gave in anyways... and yeah, disappointment. Not only were we not comfortable with each other yet, but it wasn’t at all what I expected or was usually attracted to. It didn’t last long. We both felt something was off. Just not the right match. Boooooo bc he had ass for dayyyyysssss.... like I still think about that ass lol.

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Posted by GODZ

I'm always lazy as shit to develop my opinion but I decided to change it in 2020.

Sex is not about dick size idk, there is plenty of questions who Were asked about how was it or how was the oral and shit.

You didn't answers and tbh Idgaf because I don't want others information about it. But the point is there is a game of sexual tension, of kiss, hugs, stare, was is slow ? Fast ?

And there is you. "My dude has a tiny zick, pls send me dxp like it will make it bigger"

It's like during the intercourse you had with your dood you were only thinking about his dick instead of enjoying it. How cringe is that.

The whole dude is born with that and you ask for empathy that's the mainly thing who disgust me, it's him who should ask for it. Not you.

I answered that we had sex.. I also mentioned that I did not have any complaints about oral (Go through the thread)... and the foreplay was good...

It’s just once I asked him to take his boxers off, he did & he didn’t want to have sex with the lights on...

And it was as if he was hiding his package because we didn’t do missionary or any position where I can see his penis. Doggy style was the position we were in majority of the session...

Like others mentioned to talk to him about my concern. Although this is a dealbreaker, I’m willing to talk to him because I do have feelings for him plus look how long I’ve known him‼️🤦🏾‍♀️

Well I don’t know it’s tough. How old is he? Doggy style seems to be position of choice with older guys cuz I think it’s easier when things get touchy.. and well if they are kinda adventurous with sex and can please you in all kinds of ways other than traditional sex maybe it’s alright.... I have been with a couple of little boys and they did make up for it in other ways. I wouldn’t say dealbreaker actually. But more concerning is him hiding it.

He’s young, 30. And I did mention earlier that he is a chunky/chubby guy. This is the first time I’m experiencing this, so it’s a quite difficult.

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Hmm yeah. I’m sorry. 😢

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I'd be disappointed too if a man I'm with had a small d, but this got me thinking actually, why do we focus on the d size when 80% of women don't even orgasm when having penetrative sex, is this how we r supposed to measure manhood?

This girl right here is apart of the 20% .... 🤷🏽‍♀️🤷🏽‍♀️🤷🏽‍♀️ I prefer vaginal or anal penetration than oral and that’s just my preference; but I mean I’m open to talking something out with him

I say yes talk to him, do your best to figure sth out, cause you've been together for 7 years without having sex, that's a " huge " thing to throw away. Pun intended.

Haven’t been with him for 7 years... been friends for more than 7 years, we recently announced our feelings for another..

Literally last week we got intimate for the first time and this happened 😩😩😩

One of my friends was in a similar situation kind of, got married ( arranged marriage) to a guy who had a micro penis, but the prob was not actually that, he was cold and had no interest in sex, and simply was not willing to treat that though my friend really tried her best to be there for him. She divorced him and now married again.

My point is if your guy is in love with you and willing to do whatever it takes to please you in every aspect, and if you really have a connection then why not try.

If you're looking for physical pleasure only then I guess you should find someone else.

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Yea, I’m going to talk with him and try to work something out because....

1) we both expressed our feelings for one another BEFORE we ever got intimate

2) were in the same circle, so if I “stop” talking to him.... I’ll still see him, so something has to work

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Posted by GODZ

I'm always lazy as shit to develop my opinion but I decided to change it in 2020.

Sex is not about dick size idk, there is plenty of questions who Were asked about how was it or how was the oral and shit.

You didn't answers and tbh Idgaf because I don't want others information about it. But the point is there is a game of sexual tension, of kiss, hugs, stare, was is slow ? Fast ?

And there is you. "My dude has a tiny zick, pls send me dxp like it will make it bigger"

It's like during the intercourse you had with your dood you were only thinking about his dick instead of enjoying it. How cringe is that.

The whole dude is born with that and you ask for empathy that's the mainly thing who disgust me, it's him who should ask for it. Not you.

I answered that we had sex.. I also mentioned that I did not have any complaints about oral (Go through the thread)... and the foreplay was good...

It’s just once I asked him to take his boxers off, he did & he didn’t want to have sex with the lights on...

And it was as if he was hiding his package because we didn’t do missionary or any position where I can see his penis. Doggy style was the position we were in majority of the session...

Like others mentioned to talk to him about my concern. Although this is a dealbreaker, I’m willing to talk to him because I do have feelings for him plus look how long I’ve known him‼️🤦🏾‍♀️

Well I don’t know it’s tough. How old is he? Doggy style seems to be position of choice with older guys cuz I think it’s easier when things get touchy.. and well if they are kinda adventurous with sex and can please you in all kinds of ways other than traditional sex maybe it’s alright.... I have been with a couple of little boys and they did make up for it in other ways. I wouldn’t say dealbreaker actually. But more concerning is him hiding it.

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How can you read this thread and not understand how he might want to hide it?

Eh. I’ve been there. There are positions that can make you feel more full or tight or whatever, but it would take you being ok with this to get him to loosen up and feel accepted enough to try new things. It doesn’t sound like you’re interested in that (and that’s okay too!), so the best thing is to have the convo sooner rather than later. Best of luck with that. Truly.

Posted by AbbyNormal

Oooooouch. I can relate.... I reeeeeally wanted it to work with this one guy who had been eyeing me for a couple of years at work. We finally started talking and def about not rushing it but gave in anyways... and yeah, disappointment. Not only were we not comfortable with each other yet, but it wasn’t at all what I expected or was usually attracted to. It didn’t last long. We both felt something was off. Just not the right match. Boooooo bc he had ass for dayyyyysssss.... like I still think about that ass lol.

Did you guys try substitutes? And was he willing to try new things?

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I’ve been taking this guy more serious lately. I’ve known him for more than 7 years, however we’ve recently announced to one another the attraction and feelings we have for eachother.

There’s some serious intense sexual energy between us and yesterday we finally decided to GET INTIMATE. He decided from the beginning to keep the lights off & was hung up on orally pleasing me. However, when I asked him to take his boxers off, I was SUPER DISAPPOINTED‼️‼️‼️‼️

His manly parts was the smallest I’ve ever seen in my life (Not That I’m Particularly A Size Queen).. but it literally resembles a Sharpie Permanent Marker (No girth or length)... Is this because he’s a Chunky/Chubby guy? Now what do I do? Because I have intense feelings for him but I know he’s unable to please me with his “man part”.. 😩😩😭😭😭😭...

First red flag is when he immediately goes to oral for the first time lol.

Did you actually fuck? How do you know he doesn't know how to use it? Looks can be deceiving...maybe? 😬

We did. I've had guys with parts that ppl would consider under average size, but at least they had girth. He doesn't have either or. Literally!!

Poor guy. Well.. I guess it boils down to what you find more important and if you can be satisfied with his short comings.

you meant to say short cummings right?

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Hahaha...yes!

missionary with pillow below the butt and legs over his shoulders should help

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Posted by SassyKiwi

This is why most of the women on here are single or jump from relationship to relationship. There has always got to be one issue or another. Maybe it’s your kitty that’s got a rabbit burrow! Discard this 7 year brewing romance for the next man. You will not always have youth so make sure you drug him to sleep and check his pants early in the friendship/relationship before taking things to the bedroom again.

I kid. Maybe.

But really tho baby sharpie’d penis men deserve love too. What if the next guy’s adequately bigger but a douche. Just remember you can’t have it all.

If you haven’t noticed on this site that a woman will tolerate damn near any red flag for a man with a big dick

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Not this woman... 🙅🏾‍♀️🙅🏾‍♀️

Im an active “walk away-er”....

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Posted by GODZ

I'm always lazy as shit to develop my opinion but I decided to change it in 2020.

Sex is not about dick size idk, there is plenty of questions who Were asked about how was it or how was the oral and shit.

You didn't answers and tbh Idgaf because I don't want others information about it. But the point is there is a game of sexual tension, of kiss, hugs, stare, was is slow ? Fast ?

And there is you. "My dude has a tiny zick, pls send me dxp like it will make it bigger"

It's like during the intercourse you had with your dood you were only thinking about his dick instead of enjoying it. How cringe is that.

The whole dude is born with that and you ask for empathy that's the mainly thing who disgust me, it's him who should ask for it. Not you.

I answered that we had sex.. I also mentioned that I did not have any complaints about oral (Go through the thread)... and the foreplay was good...

It’s just once I asked him to take his boxers off, he did & he didn’t want to have sex with the lights on...

And it was as if he was hiding his package because we didn’t do missionary or any position where I can see his penis. Doggy style was the position we were in majority of the session...

Like others mentioned to talk to him about my concern. Although this is a dealbreaker, I’m willing to talk to him because I do have feelings for him plus look how long I’ve known him‼️🤦🏾‍♀️

Well I don’t know it’s tough. How old is he? Doggy style seems to be position of choice with older guys cuz I think it’s easier when things get touchy.. and well if they are kinda adventurous with sex and can please you in all kinds of ways other than traditional sex maybe it’s alright.... I have been with a couple of little boys and they did make up for it in other ways. I wouldn’t say dealbreaker actually. But more concerning is him hiding it.

How can you read this thread and not understand how he might want to hide it?

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I understand why. It is my concern that he hasn’t adjusted to the fact. Cuz it is part of who he is, and hiding it isn’t going to make it different.

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Posted by GODZ

I'm always lazy as shit to develop my opinion but I decided to change it in 2020.

Sex is not about dick size idk, there is plenty of questions who Were asked about how was it or how was the oral and shit.

You didn't answers and tbh Idgaf because I don't want others information about it. But the point is there is a game of sexual tension, of kiss, hugs, stare, was is slow ? Fast ?

And there is you. "My dude has a tiny zick, pls send me dxp like it will make it bigger"

It's like during the intercourse you had with your dood you were only thinking about his dick instead of enjoying it. How cringe is that.

The whole dude is born with that and you ask for empathy that's the mainly thing who disgust me, it's him who should ask for it. Not you.

I answered that we had sex.. I also mentioned that I did not have any complaints about oral (Go through the thread)... and the foreplay was good...

It’s just once I asked him to take his boxers off, he did & he didn’t want to have sex with the lights on...

And it was as if he was hiding his package because we didn’t do missionary or any position where I can see his penis. Doggy style was the position we were in majority of the session...

Like others mentioned to talk to him about my concern. Although this is a dealbreaker, I’m willing to talk to him because I do have feelings for him plus look how long I’ve known him‼️🤦🏾‍♀️

Doggy style for the first Time? Y'all Americans are weird

I think you took it to personal Lol. And secondly - is there any rules to how to have sex for the first time? 🧐 let me know, maybe I don't know about this " law"

6 years on dxp never seen a thread about a guy complaining about his girlfriend having a vagina too big or tits too tiny. I found this normal

But idk I have probably a small dick because it's seems the main argument against the healthy ppl.

Actually if my gf had a vagina too big I'll negotiate that she do vag exercise and I won't ask dxp likes.

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Op is litteraly fat shaming and tiny d shaming is guys and nobody shocked.

Plus I had there was users who were proud about their dick. Terraminelight and donjohnson, do I want to stand near those by talking about my dick ?

No.

Yes male community of dxp is bored about the dick thread.

Ah I'm way too cringed.

And doggy style ? So you build and emotional connection with someone and at the paroxysm of it you decide to have no stare no kiss during sex, just two raw meat starting wall ? And it's a surprise if sex is bad. Lmao cringed again

There is many things that is wrong in your behavior right now. So don't think others are so bad and you are angel.

You say you are cringed by this tread, yet you are one of people who are commenting here the most. You could say once that you think is wrong, but you did few times to a point where you looked like pissed about something that doesn't have to do with you at all.

Secoundly - okay users who are proud about their dicks and act like horny 15 years old - but what op has to do with their behavior? Does she was the one who made tread about dxp users dicks? There are wores people here but I haven't seen you would lecturing them so passionately.

You don't have to talk about your Dick but let people talk about what they want, how about that? Hm? Dxp it's not your privat playground. This is why this forum is boring and dead mostly - everyone is offending others- newbies or people who have diffrent way of thinking.

And don't think you are so moral since you are having sex in missionary position to show your emotions, because just now you simplified emotional connection to a way how you having sex. This sounds shallow as. Emotional connection is very complex, just because I don't look into my partners eyes during sex doesn't mean I don't love him.

Last thing - this whole situation shows how broken internet connection and communication is because you judged whole person that op is based on her single problem. Don't you think if she would fat shaming people she wouldn't be with a fat or a chubby man? I don't think so.

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I agree with you, but not every comment deserves a reaction. I know the problem that I’m having and if people are giving solutions and relating to my situation, I’ll reply to those individuals.

As far as he saying I’m fat shaming the guy... I mentioned numerous times that I’ve known this man for MORE THAN 7 years and we both confessed our feelings to each other.... he‘s my FRIEND first, and this thread is about my first time getting intimate with him (which btw happened last weekend).... So how can I fat shame him? Neither did we have sex before this time, so how am I shaming his package?

Don’t give your time to the sensitive trolls, there’s isn’t any need. On a better note, I was thinking about talking with my guy in person (rather over the phone)... maybe after dinner and a movie date... I just don’t want to offend him... 😔😩

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Posted by AbbyNormal

Oooooouch. I can relate.... I reeeeeally wanted it to work with this one guy who had been eyeing me for a couple of years at work. We finally started talking and def about not rushing it but gave in anyways... and yeah, disappointment. Not only were we not comfortable with each other yet, but it wasn’t at all what I expected or was usually attracted to. It didn’t last long. We both felt something was off. Just not the right match. Boooooo bc he had ass for dayyyyysssss.... like I still think about that ass lol.

Did you guys try substitutes? And was he willing to try new things?

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He was kinda a wet blanket when it came to it sadly. But I also think we rushed it so much we weren’t able to mesh bc of anxiety. He wasn’t very imaginative about fixing it with like foreplay. I tried but he had some hang ups from his ex. It’s wasn’t the right timing for us clearly. And honestly seeing him completely shaved turned me off completely lulz I couldn’t help it.... it was so unattractive like that..... and that was the only way to go for him. To each his/her own!

Get what you want in life. You don't have to be with a man who can't please you. All feelings aside. I'd rather be honest and live life how I want rather than to take a loss just to spare someone's ego and feelings.

You don't have to be rude but be honest.

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Posted by SassyKiwi

This is why most of the women on here are single or jump from relationship to relationship. There has always got to be one issue or another. Maybe it’s your kitty that’s got a rabbit burrow! Discard this 7 year brewing romance for the next man. You will not always have youth so make sure you drug him to sleep and check his pants early in the friendship/relationship before taking things to the bedroom again.

I kid. Maybe.

But really tho baby sharpie’d penis men deserve love too. What if the next guy’s adequately bigger but a douche. Just remember you can’t have it all.

If you haven’t noticed on this site that a woman will tolerate damn near any red flag for a man with a big dick

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Oh I notice which is why I wrote what I wrote as my first sentence. It’s ok, most women on here enjoy vicariously living through others’ experiences and stories. Why are the sexual threads the most popular here? Cause they ain’t getting laid enough irl cos their big penis Chad is out laying another girl.

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I'm always lazy as shit to develop my opinion but I decided to change it in 2020.

Sex is not about dick size idk, there is plenty of questions who Were asked about how was it or how was the oral and shit.

You didn't answers and tbh Idgaf because I don't want others information about it. But the point is there is a game of sexual tension, of kiss, hugs, stare, was is slow ? Fast ?

And there is you. "My dude has a tiny zick, pls send me dxp like it will make it bigger"

It's like during the intercourse you had with your dood you were only thinking about his dick instead of enjoying it. How cringe is that.

The whole dude is born with that and you ask for empathy that's the mainly thing who disgust me, it's him who should ask for it. Not you.

I answered that we had sex.. I also mentioned that I did not have any complaints about oral (Go through the thread)... and the foreplay was good...

It’s just once I asked him to take his boxers off, he did & he didn’t want to have sex with the lights on...

And it was as if he was hiding his package because we didn’t do missionary or any position where I can see his penis. Doggy style was the position we were in majority of the session...

Like others mentioned to talk to him about my concern. Although this is a dealbreaker, I’m willing to talk to him because I do have feelings for him plus look how long I’ve known him‼️🤦🏾‍♀️

Doggy style for the first Time? Y'all Americans are weird

I think you took it to personal Lol. And secondly - is there any rules to how to have sex for the first time? 🧐 let me know, maybe I don't know about this " law"

6 years on dxp never seen a thread about a guy complaining about his girlfriend having a vagina too big or tits too tiny. I found this normal

But idk I have probably a small dick because it's seems the main argument against the healthy ppl.

Actually if my gf had a vagina too big I'll negotiate that she do vag exercise and I won't ask dxp likes.

.

Op is litteraly fat shaming and tiny d shaming is guys and nobody shocked.

Plus I had there was users who were proud about their dick. Terraminelight and donjohnson, do I want to stand near those by talking about my dick ?

No.

Yes male community of dxp is bored about the dick thread.

Ah I'm way too cringed.

And doggy style ? So you build and emotional connection with someone and at the paroxysm of it you decide to have no stare no kiss during sex, just two raw meat starting wall ? And it's a surprise if sex is bad. Lmao cringed again

And btw - you must be blind or you want to be blind since you never seen this cringy post about if saggy boobs is problem, or boobz or butt, what's better.

She is seriously concern and guys here make treads to entertain their fucked nasty sex drive.

never seen a thread volontary talking bad about his (boob/vag) partner and seeing a whole community throwing empathy on it.

i've seen some thread about Tits versus Ass, and generally the OP take a shut the fuck up by the community, but it's fine here we can shame male dick. *hypocrisy*

I think this tread isn't okay, but your behaviour isn't okay neither. That's all I have to say. Read what you want I don't care. But mark my words - I will be watching you, one fake move and I will remind you of how fussy you were here. Then we going to talk about hipocrisy. Hope you are perfect to call out on other that are hipocrits.

you will get tired

I will most likely to forget about it 😂 I didn't get fixed about it haha

you know i feel bad to say that you were hypocrite, i promised a friend that i'll stop insult people in 2020.

im sorry.

and i still dont like op

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Idc if you like me... 🤣🤣🤣

I don’t get paid for ppl to like me & neither does it make me rest less or more...

To each their own 🤷🏽‍♀️🤷🏽‍♀️🤷🏽‍♀️🤷🏽‍♀️🤪🤪

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Posted by PuzzlePieces

😢 that’s rough. Did you have sex?

Yes, we did.

How was it?

👎🏾👎🏾... literally it’s like a finger

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*👎🏾👎🏾... literally it’s like a finger*

Hey now! A finger could hit your G spot directly, and therefore strongly. Try to see if you can hit it with your own finger, from different positions. He could use his finger and his D at the same time, I suppose.

The silver lining is that both of you know and accept there is a problem, meaning you can work together to find solutions. You could take turns to do whatever makes you cum.

For example: If what you see is his face, what you smell is his sweat, what you taste is his mouth, what you feel is his body....but what he uses is quite a realistic dildo... Do you think your vagina will refuse to react?

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Posted by DeeLovesRed

Posted by GODZ

I'm always lazy as shit to develop my opinion but I decided to change it in 2020.

Sex is not about dick size idk, there is plenty of questions who Were asked about how was it or how was the oral and shit.

You didn't answers and tbh Idgaf because I don't want others information about it. But the point is there is a game of sexual tension, of kiss, hugs, stare, was is slow ? Fast ?

And there is you. "My dude has a tiny zick, pls send me dxp like it will make it bigger"

It's like during the intercourse you had with your dood you were only thinking about his dick instead of enjoying it. How cringe is that.

The whole dude is born with that and you ask for empathy that's the mainly thing who disgust me, it's him who should ask for it. Not you.

I answered that we had sex.. I also mentioned that I did not have any complaints about oral (Go through the thread)... and the foreplay was good...

It’s just once I asked him to take his boxers off, he did & he didn’t want to have sex with the lights on...

And it was as if he was hiding his package because we didn’t do missionary or any position where I can see his penis. Doggy style was the position we were in majority of the session...

Like others mentioned to talk to him about my concern. Although this is a dealbreaker, I’m willing to talk to him because I do have feelings for him plus look how long I’ve known him‼️🤦🏾‍♀️

Well I don’t know it’s tough. How old is he? Doggy style seems to be position of choice with older guys cuz I think it’s easier when things get touchy.. and well if they are kinda adventurous with sex and can please you in all kinds of ways other than traditional sex maybe it’s alright.... I have been with a couple of little boys and they did make up for it in other ways. I wouldn’t say dealbreaker actually. But more concerning is him hiding it.

How can you read this thread and not understand how he might want to hide it?

I understand why. It is my concern that he hasn’t adjusted to the fact. Cuz it is part of who he is, and hiding it isn’t going to make it different.

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That’s valid, but we’re also going off one sexual experience here and there’s too many variables to know that for sure.

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Posted by PuzzlePieces

😢 that’s rough. Did you have sex?

Yes, we did.

How was it?

👎🏾👎🏾... literally it’s like a finger

*👎🏾👎🏾... literally it’s like a finger*

Hey now! A finger could hit your G spot directly, and therefore strongly. Try to see if you can hit it with your own finger, from different positions. He could use his finger and his D at the same time, I suppose.

The silver lining is that both of you know and accept there is a problem, meaning you can work together to find solutions. You could take turns to do whatever makes you cum.

For example: If what you see is his face, what you smell is his sweat, what you taste is his mouth, what you feel is his body....but what he uses is quite a realistic dildo... Do you think your vagina will refuse to react?

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Yea, that’s why I’m going to have a convo with him over dinner.... b/c I really do like him, I haven’t mentioned but he went through a rough time with his family and I was there for him....

And I’ve been in plenty of situations with no way out and he has always been there... so this is deeper than his “small package”.... I’m truly disappointed, I’ve known him for how long and now this... never did I expect him to have such a small package

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I guess publicly outing him for his shortcomings is one way to go about it.

I get the feeling he's the one dodging a bullet here.

Which shortcomings?

& how am I outing him? Seeking advice is outing him!! Last time I check none of you on DXP know me or him physically, none of you hang with our circle & neither is he a member on DXP

🤷🏽‍♀️🤷🏽‍♀️🤷🏽‍♀️

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Posted by GODZ

I'm always lazy as shit to develop my opinion but I decided to change it in 2020.

Sex is not about dick size idk, there is plenty of questions who Were asked about how was it or how was the oral and shit.

You didn't answers and tbh Idgaf because I don't want others information about it. But the point is there is a game of sexual tension, of kiss, hugs, stare, was is slow ? Fast ?

And there is you. "My dude has a tiny zick, pls send me dxp like it will make it bigger"

It's like during the intercourse you had with your dood you were only thinking about his dick instead of enjoying it. How cringe is that.

The whole dude is born with that and you ask for empathy that's the mainly thing who disgust me, it's him who should ask for it. Not you.

I answered that we had sex.. I also mentioned that I did not have any complaints about oral (Go through the thread)... and the foreplay was good...

It’s just once I asked him to take his boxers off, he did & he didn’t want to have sex with the lights on...

And it was as if he was hiding his package because we didn’t do missionary or any position where I can see his penis. Doggy style was the position we were in majority of the session...

Like others mentioned to talk to him about my concern. Although this is a dealbreaker, I’m willing to talk to him because I do have feelings for him plus look how long I’ve known him‼️🤦🏾‍♀️

Well I don’t know it’s tough. How old is he? Doggy style seems to be position of choice with older guys cuz I think it’s easier when things get touchy.. and well if they are kinda adventurous with sex and can please you in all kinds of ways other than traditional sex maybe it’s alright.... I have been with a couple of little boys and they did make up for it in other ways. I wouldn’t say dealbreaker actually. But more concerning is him hiding it.

How can you read this thread and not understand how he might want to hide it?

I understand why. It is my concern that he hasn’t adjusted to the fact. Cuz it is part of who he is, and hiding it isn’t going to make it different.

That’s valid, but we’re also going off one sexual experience here and there’s too many variables to know that for sure.

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Sure that’s why it’s a concern not a fact.

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Posted by PuzzlePieces

😢 that’s rough. Did you have sex?

Yes, we did.

How was it?

👎🏾👎🏾... literally it’s like a finger

*👎🏾👎🏾... literally it’s like a finger*

Hey now! A finger could hit your G spot directly, and therefore strongly. Try to see if you can hit it with your own finger, from different positions. He could use his finger and his D at the same time, I suppose.

The silver lining is that both of you know and accept there is a problem, meaning you can work together to find solutions. You could take turns to do whatever makes you cum.

For example: If what you see is his face, what you smell is his sweat, what you taste is his mouth, what you feel is his body....but what he uses is quite a realistic dildo... Do you think your vagina will refuse to react?

Yea, that’s why I’m going to have a convo with him over dinner.... b/c I really do like him, I haven’t mentioned but he went through a rough time with his family and I was there for him....

And I’ve been in plenty of situations with no way out and he has always been there... so this is deeper than his “small package”.... I’m truly disappointed, I’ve known him for how long and now this... never did I expect him to have such a small package

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Hey! We've got four personal planets in common!

It's normal to be disappointed, but it's also rare to find true love, and reciprocal true love is even rarer. Moreover, there is chemistry, since both of you want sex and intimacy. Don't let mechanics spoil it. Damn...those Aqua Merc and Venus are probably rubbing their hands thinking "hmm...unusual problem which require unusual solutions...let's get creative!".

Of course you need to talk and agree a plan. I hope he is not as selfish and full of himself as some over-the-top endowed guys are 😛!

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@nemdeux What industry are you referring to?

The spam mails ....penis enlargement through pills? I mean real penis growth not viagra. You never received these? Don't be all coy now 🤣

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Oh so you one who has actually read them. 😎

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Posted by DeeLovesRed

Posted by PuzzlePieces

😢 that’s rough. Did you have sex?

Yes, we did.

How was it?

👎🏾👎🏾... literally it’s like a finger

*👎🏾👎🏾... literally it’s like a finger*

Hey now! A finger could hit your G spot directly, and therefore strongly. Try to see if you can hit it with your own finger, from different positions. He could use his finger and his D at the same time, I suppose.

The silver lining is that both of you know and accept there is a problem, meaning you can work together to find solutions. You could take turns to do whatever makes you cum.

For example: If what you see is his face, what you smell is his sweat, what you taste is his mouth, what you feel is his body....but what he uses is quite a realistic dildo... Do you think your vagina will refuse to react?

Yea, that’s why I’m going to have a convo with him over dinner.... b/c I really do like him, I haven’t mentioned but he went through a rough time with his family and I was there for him....

And I’ve been in plenty of situations with no way out and he has always been there... so this is deeper than his “small package”.... I’m truly disappointed, I’ve known him for how long and now this... never did I expect him to have such a small package

Hey! We've got four personal planets in common!

It's normal to be disappointed, but it's also rare to find true love, and reciprocal true love is even rarer. Moreover, there is chemistry, since both of you want sex and intimacy. Don't let mechanics spoil it. Damn...those Aqua Merc and Venus are probably rubbing their hands thinking "hmm...unusual problem which require unusual solutions...let's get creative!".

Of course you need to talk and agree a plan. I hope he is not as selfish and full of himself as some over-the-top endowed guys are 😛!

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Exactly & no he’s a very sweet and gentle guy. I just don’t want to offend him at all. He’s had a cancer moon & Mars as well 😩😩

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Posted by DeeLovesRed

Posted by PuzzlePieces

😢 that’s rough. Did you have sex?

Yes, we did.

How was it?

👎🏾👎🏾... literally it’s like a finger

*👎🏾👎🏾... literally it’s like a finger*

Hey now! A finger could hit your G spot directly, and therefore strongly. Try to see if you can hit it with your own finger, from different positions. He could use his finger and his D at the same time, I suppose.

The silver lining is that both of you know and accept there is a problem, meaning you can work together to find solutions. You could take turns to do whatever makes you cum.

For example: If what you see is his face, what you smell is his sweat, what you taste is his mouth, what you feel is his body....but what he uses is quite a realistic dildo... Do you think your vagina will refuse to react?

Yea, that’s why I’m going to have a convo with him over dinner.... b/c I really do like him, I haven’t mentioned but he went through a rough time with his family and I was there for him....

And I’ve been in plenty of situations with no way out and he has always been there... so this is deeper than his “small package”.... I’m truly disappointed, I’ve known him for how long and now this... never did I expect him to have such a small package

Hey! We've got four personal planets in common!

It's normal to be disappointed, but it's also rare to find true love, and reciprocal true love is even rarer. Moreover, there is chemistry, since both of you want sex and intimacy. Don't let mechanics spoil it. Damn...those Aqua Merc and Venus are probably rubbing their hands thinking "hmm...unusual problem which require unusual solutions...let's get creative!".

Of course you need to talk and agree a plan. I hope he is not as selfish and full of himself as some over-the-top endowed guys are 😛!

Exactly & no he’s a very sweet and gentle guy. I just don’t want to offend him at all. He’s had a cancer moon & Mars as well 😩😩

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He's still a man!

You make me recall a scene from a James Bond movie with Eva Green...I quote from memory, so may not be accurate:

JB and EG were hugging each other after he was rescued from torture. JB mentioned that he may not be the man she knew, since torture included his genitals!



EG: "If the only extremity you were left with were your small finger, you'd still be more of a man than anyone else!"

JB: "That's because you know what I can do with my little finger 😉"

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Just keep putting condoms on him. Like layering coats in the winter. You can get away with just saying you're OCD about STDs.

OCD about STDs would be a great christian rock band name. Btw.

LMAO!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

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Posted by Dreamy88

Time to invest in a strap on

could you take it?

Hell no that would be painful for my little butthole

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