Gemitati
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Hi!!!
I text immediately, sometimes even before they are done writing their message!! It is the ONLY WAY they know I am interested! If not they have free reign to slash my tires.
I text immediately, sometimes even before they are done writing their message!! It is the ONLY WAY they know I am interested! If not they have free reign to slash my tires.
I agree with Nano
Either they do or don't. Thats about interest. Dudes who wanted me never ever left me hanging. And vice versa. I'm sure you have done it too OP.
Either they do or don't. Thats about interest. Dudes who wanted me never ever left me hanging. And vice versa. I'm sure you have done it too OP.
Posted by Neno2My baby! You are special! Scorp right? 😉Posted by GemitatiI reply immediately and girls always know my intentions?no matter if i like the girl or not i always reply immediately and being honest in a not hurtful way
This probably going to die as another one I posted...
So again! Men of all signs - what makes you so cheap on texting back?
Busy? No crap. Sending text takes a few seconds. Why not texting or calling if you care?
Why texting in 3 days if you don't care?
How women supposed to read you?
And no. I don't have this issue. I wouldn't stand it. I am a good communicator and if I don't communicate my 'problem' well - I will repeat but not more than twice!
I am just so shocked about you guys are being so heartless knowing woman waits for the reply! And you just spit on her! But in a few days...hello baby! Are your tits still perky?
Common!
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Posted by EvoxxxscorpioKeep it tight to your nuts with rubber band!
lol I always lose my phone that's why
Posted by nanobyteValid point!
Men aren't bad at texting or calling if they like you enough. I don't give a fuck what their "Mercury is in", that's such a cop out. I've seen women on here excusing men for ghosting on them because their Mercury sign LOL.
A man who NEVER texts normally will text a woman he's into.
It really is that simple, but people don't seem to understand that.
Now let's put your post in bold as a non-removable sticky note like other forums have so every poor soul who don't receive a reply MUST READ IT first! Lol
Posted by NemDeuxI just haven't read a lot of men complaining about it but women do all the time of all ages! So it's 'men' thang! Lol
this cannot be a gender thing.
there are plenty of reasons why people don't want to text back immediately.
isn't it rather mundane BS anyways?
Posted by Fun4LifeFor texting? Wrong thread? Drunk? High?
1/2 your age, plus 7 seems to be the accepted limit.
Posted by AquariusBeautyThis
It's an impersonal way to communicate and some men don't like to communicate via text. Some prefer human interactions.
Or...
He's just not that into you
Posted by AquariusBeautyI get that he is not that into you BUT all of a sudden in a few days your number is up and he ran out of others so he texting back to YOU like he didn't know it was 78 hours after? Lol
It's an impersonal way to communicate and some men don't like to communicate via text. Some prefer human interactions.
Or...
He's just not that into you
Posted by EvoxxxscorpioSend me your address - I'll ship you one!Posted by GemitatiLol I don't have rubber bandsPosted by EvoxxxscorpioKeep it tight to your nuts with rubber band!
lol I always lose my phone that's why
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Posted by starwarsBecause I know you will post! ?
why are you waiting by your phone
Posted by EvoxxxscorpioI am bringing it in person! To make sure it's right size! Lenght and width!Posted by GemitatiPosted by EvoxxxscorpioSend me your address - I'll ship you one!Posted by GemitatiLol I don't have rubber bandsPosted by EvoxxxscorpioKeep it tight to your nuts with rubber band!
lol I always lose my phone that's why
1151 E Willow St, Long Beach, CA 90899click to expand
Will you pay airfare? Bands are expensive when delivered you know! ?
Posted by NemDeuxYou who? M or F? LolPosted by Gemitatilol. okay. ?Posted by NemDeuxI just haven't read a lot of men complaining about it but women do all the time of all ages! So it's 'men' thang! Lol
this cannot be a gender thing.
there are plenty of reasons why people don't want to text back immediately.
isn't it rather mundane BS anyways?
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Posted by starwarsYou can't SEE when you are overdosed!Posted by Gemitatianother victim of overdosing i seePosted by starwarsBecause I know you will post! ?
why are you waiting by your phoneclick to expand
Paramedics can SEE you are overdosed!
And you know it I am sure! ?
Posted by EvoxxxscorpioIs LOL yes or know in Ebonic?Posted by GemitatiPosted by EvoxxxscorpioI am bringing it in person! To make sure it's right size! Lenght and width!Posted by GemitatiPosted by EvoxxxscorpioSend me your address - I'll ship you one!Posted by GemitatiLol I don't have rubber bandsPosted by EvoxxxscorpioKeep it tight to your nuts with rubber band!
lol I always lose my phone that's why
1151 E Willow St, Long Beach, CA 90899
Will you pay airfare? Bands are expensive when delivered you know! ?
Lol
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Posted by AquariusBeautyCorrect. I also genuinely hate texting. Outside of asking a woman out on dates, or sending invites, I only use it to receive quick bursts of information. It's just an inefficient way to communicate otherwise.
It's an impersonal way to communicate and some men don't like to communicate via text. Some prefer human interactions.
Or...
He's just not that into you
I don't mind if a woman likes to text if I'm into her, but she just needs to understand that it's not my preferred method communicating. If the texts become too long, I'm either going to call her or ask her to tell me in person.
Posted by nanobyteFixed.
Men aren't bad at texting or calling if they like you enough. I don't give a fuck what their "Mercury is in", that's such a cop out. I've seen women on here excusing men for ghosting on them because their Mercury sign LOL.
A man who NEVER texts normally will text a woman he's into.
It really is that simple, but people don't seem to understand that.
AND (goes both ways)
Women aren't bad at texting or calling if they like you enough. I don't give a fuck what their "Mercury is in", that's such a cop out. I've seen men on here excusing women for ghosting on them because their Mercury sign LOL.
A women who NEVER texts normally will text a men she's into.
It really is that simple, but people don't seem to understand that.
Posted by NemDeuxBut you will have a minute (while running in a bathroom maybe) and text back? 'Hon, busy now. Ttyl!'Posted by Gemitatii am switzerland on this topic ? neutral. but F otherwise.Posted by NemDeuxYou who? M or F? LolPosted by Gemitatilol. okay. ?Posted by NemDeuxI just haven't read a lot of men complaining about it but women do all the time of all ages! So it's 'men' thang! Lol
this cannot be a gender thing.
there are plenty of reasons why people don't want to text back immediately.
isn't it rather mundane BS anyways?
i get texts from my guy and i think ugggh man not now please!click to expand
3 seconds and he is happy!
Posted by EvilHareI knew he is not gonna make it! ?Posted by EvoxxxscorpioPosted by GemitatiPosted by EvoxxxscorpioSend me your address - I'll ship you one!Posted by GemitatiLol I don't have rubber bandsPosted by EvoxxxscorpioKeep it tight to your nuts with rubber band!
lol I always lose my phone that's why
1151 E Willow St, Long Beach, CA 90899
LOL thats a cemetery.
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Evoooooooooo...
That's because he didn't know how to tell me he is not paying for the flight and I have to walk! At MY age!!! ?
Posted by EvoxxxscorpioOk! I have a boat but I am not spending on fuel! Or sails...Posted by GemitatiLol you can deliver by a boat it's cheaperPosted by EvoxxxscorpioIs LOL yes or know in Ebonic?Posted by GemitatiPosted by EvoxxxscorpioI am bringing it in person! To make sure it's right size! Lenght and width!Posted by GemitatiPosted by EvoxxxscorpioSend me your address - I'll ship you one!Posted by GemitatiLol I don't have rubber bandsPosted by EvoxxxscorpioKeep it tight to your nuts with rubber band!
lol I always lose my phone that's why
1151 E Willow St, Long Beach, CA 90899
Will you pay airfare? Bands are expensive when delivered you know! ?
Lol
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Posted by nevesYou've got V-sectomy?Posted by nanobyteFixed.
Men aren't bad at texting or calling if they like you enough. I don't give a fuck what their "Mercury is in", that's such a cop out. I've seen women on here excusing men for ghosting on them because their Mercury sign LOL.
A man who NEVER texts normally will text a woman he's into.
It really is that simple, but people don't seem to understand that.
AND (goes both ways)
Women aren't bad at texting or calling if they like you enough. I don't give a fuck what their "Mercury is in", that's such a cop out. I've seen men on here excusing women for ghosting on them because their Mercury sign LOL.
A women who NEVER texts normally will text a men she's into.
It really is that simple, but people don't seem to understand that.
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How is it affecting your texting?
Posted by NemDeuxSo...you not into him?Posted by Gemitatii'll admit you are right; i could take a minute to respond - but why jump when someone snips there fingers? i mean "n. i'm so horny right now" etc ...lol. but usually it's quite trivial ....i'm gonna set my phone on flight modus while at work hehe ?Posted by NemDeuxBut you will have a minute (while running in a bathroom maybe) and text back? 'Hon, busy now. Ttyl!'Posted by Gemitatii am switzerland on this topic ? neutral. but F otherwise.Posted by NemDeuxYou who? M or F? LolPosted by Gemitatilol. okay. ?Posted by NemDeuxI just haven't read a lot of men complaining about it but women do all the time of all ages! So it's 'men' thang! Lol
this cannot be a gender thing.
there are plenty of reasons why people don't want to text back immediately.
isn't it rather mundane BS anyways?
i get texts from my guy and i think ugggh man not now please!
3 seconds and he is happy!click to expand
Is he just a time passing dude?
Because my hands are shaking still every time I see the text! And we are old and it's been forever!
Posted by Neno2Posted by GemitatiI reply immediately and girls always know my intentions?no matter if i like the girl or not i always reply immediately and being honest in a not hurtful way
This probably going to die as another one I posted...
So again! Men of all signs - what makes you so cheap on texting back?
Busy? No crap. Sending text takes a few seconds. Why not texting or calling if you care?
Why texting in 3 days if you don't care?
How women supposed to read you?
And no. I don't have this issue. I wouldn't stand it. I am a good communicator and if I don't communicate my 'problem' well - I will repeat but not more than twice!
I am just so shocked about you guys are being so heartless knowing woman waits for the reply! And you just spit on her! But in a few days...hello baby! Are your tits still perky?
Common!
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That's such a rare quality.
Posted by NemDeuxYou mean if they text a lot they can't fingering?
their fingers*
Posted by NemDeuxYou are dating desperado!
LOL i just remembered 6 missed calls and 11 texts ....PICK UP YOUR GODDAMN PHONE was the 11th
so i thought this might be an emergency or something ....so i called back ....deeply regretted that.
Why?
Childhood issues?
Posted by GemitatiI was simply pointing out that: what nanobyte said - goes both ways. Women are the same (it's not a man thing).Posted by nevesYou've got V-sectomy?Posted by nanobyteFixed.
Men aren't bad at texting or calling if they like you enough. I don't give a fuck what their "Mercury is in", that's such a cop out. I've seen women on here excusing men for ghosting on them because their Mercury sign LOL.
A man who NEVER texts normally will text a woman he's into.
It really is that simple, but people don't seem to understand that.
AND (goes both ways)
Women aren't bad at texting or calling if they like you enough. I don't give a fuck what their "Mercury is in", that's such a cop out. I've seen men on here excusing women for ghosting on them because their Mercury sign LOL.
A women who NEVER texts normally will text a men she's into.
It really is that simple, but people don't seem to understand that.
How is it affecting your texting?click to expand
Tho, while being so obnoxious most of the time (insulting and attacking - as if you're asking to be hated) - are you really surprised that someone would rather avoid you? Seriously?!
I am changing my answer to men owe you and if they dont immediately text you back they are equivalently welching on their debt, no offense to the Welsh people.
Posted by NemDeuxNo! You have some issues! ?Posted by Gemitatithis was the guy before lol..Posted by NemDeuxYou are dating desperado!
LOL i just remembered 6 missed calls and 11 texts ....PICK UP YOUR GODDAMN PHONE was the 11th
so i thought this might be an emergency or something ....so i called back ....deeply regretted that.
Why?
Childhood issues?
yeah he had some issues.click to expand
Posted by EvilHareJust remember that pathetic post when you are 50! You going to laugh your ass off!Posted by GemitatiI think him giving a cemetery address to you is a hint about your age.Posted by EvilHareI knew he is not gonna make it! ?Posted by EvoxxxscorpioPosted by GemitatiPosted by EvoxxxscorpioSend me your address - I'll ship you one!Posted by GemitatiLol I don't have rubber bandsPosted by EvoxxxscorpioKeep it tight to your nuts with rubber band!
lol I always lose my phone that's why
1151 E Willow St, Long Beach, CA 90899
LOL thats a cemetery.
Evoooooooooo...
That's because he didn't know how to tell me he is not paying for the flight and I have to walk! At MY age!!! ?click to expand
Posted by nevesYes!? People love me!Posted by GemitatiI was simply pouting out that: what nanobyte said - goes both ways. Women are the same (it's not a man thing).Posted by nevesYou've got V-sectomy?Posted by nanobyteFixed.
Men aren't bad at texting or calling if they like you enough. I don't give a fuck what their "Mercury is in", that's such a cop out. I've seen women on here excusing men for ghosting on them because their Mercury sign LOL.
A man who NEVER texts normally will text a woman he's into.
It really is that simple, but people don't seem to understand that.
AND (goes both ways)
Women aren't bad at texting or calling if they like you enough. I don't give a fuck what their "Mercury is in", that's such a cop out. I've seen men on here excusing women for ghosting on them because their Mercury sign LOL.
A women who NEVER texts normally will text a men she's into.
It really is that simple, but people don't seem to understand that.
How is it affecting your texting?
Tho, while being so obnoxious most of the time (insulting and attacking - as if you're asking to be hated) - are you really surprised that someone would rather avoid you? Seriously?!
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Avoid? Never experienced!
Or if they were - I dontgiveashitter shit!
I choose my own life. People. Actions.
And i have one thing I can't have but he is hopefully will come along...?
Posted by NemDeuxDump his ass!!!Posted by Gemitatiyeahh that too. saviour mentality. —Posted by NemDeuxNo! You have some issues! ?Posted by Gemitatithis was the guy before lol..Posted by NemDeuxYou are dating desperado!
LOL i just remembered 6 missed calls and 11 texts ....PICK UP YOUR GODDAMN PHONE was the 11th
so i thought this might be an emergency or something ....so i called back ....deeply regretted that.
Why?
Childhood issues?
yeah he had some issues.click to expand
Posted by EvilHareBuy the lot right now so you won't burden anyone or write a note ' o dedicate my young corps to the science' - this way someone will benefit from your useless existence!Posted by GemitatiI plan on being dead by then.Posted by EvilHareJust remember that pathetic post when you are 50! You going to laugh your ass off!Posted by GemitatiI think him giving a cemetery address to you is a hint about your age.Posted by EvilHareI knew he is not gonna make it! ?Posted by EvoxxxscorpioPosted by GemitatiPosted by EvoxxxscorpioSend me your address - I'll ship you one!Posted by GemitatiLol I don't have rubber bandsPosted by EvoxxxscorpioKeep it tight to your nuts with rubber band!
lol I always lose my phone that's why
1151 E Willow St, Long Beach, CA 90899
LOL thats a cemetery.
Evoooooooooo...
That's because he didn't know how to tell me he is not paying for the flight and I have to walk! At MY age!!! ?
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Posted by NemDeuxBalm on my heart!Posted by Gemitatinot the current guy!!Posted by NemDeuxDump his ass!!!Posted by Gemitatiyeahh that too. saviour mentality. —Posted by NemDeuxNo! You have some issues! ?Posted by Gemitatithis was the guy before lol..Posted by NemDeuxYou are dating desperado!
LOL i just remembered 6 missed calls and 11 texts ....PICK UP YOUR GODDAMN PHONE was the 11th
so i thought this might be an emergency or something ....so i called back ....deeply regretted that.
Why?
Childhood issues?
yeah he had some issues.
it was my ex who blew up my phone lol.
it's all good!click to expand
Be happy!
Posted by NemDeuxYou want me to say 'onara'!Posted by Gemitatii am, thank you! and you too. ? sayonara!Posted by NemDeuxBalm on my heart!Posted by Gemitatinot the current guy!!Posted by NemDeuxDump his ass!!!Posted by Gemitatiyeahh that too. saviour mentality. —Posted by NemDeuxNo! You have some issues! ?Posted by Gemitatithis was the guy before lol..Posted by NemDeuxYou are dating desperado!
LOL i just remembered 6 missed calls and 11 texts ....PICK UP YOUR GODDAMN PHONE was the 11th
so i thought this might be an emergency or something ....so i called back ....deeply regretted that.
Why?
Childhood issues?
yeah he had some issues.
it was my ex who blew up my phone lol.
it's all good!
Be happy!click to expand
Ok! Onara!
Posted by NemDeuxThat's true too. Also, understandable. We all have our own way of doing things. And i think the other party can understand that - once she/he gets to know you better.
this cannot be a gender thing.
there are plenty of reasons why people don't want to text back immediately.
isn't it rather mundane BS anyways?
And that's just it: ghosting is a thing for some (that's how they try push people away) - while others are simply not that good with texting - so it might take them longer to get back to you. If you treat the ghosting type like the 2nd group of people - might take you a week to realize that it's over. And while treating the 2nd group as the ghosting type - you might end-up loosing someone who could be fond of you (and vice-versa).
This texting shit is confusing at times. 🙂
Posted by nevesThe thing is - if you like/love/respect person and hate texting - why can't you just SAY IT?Posted by NemDeuxThat's true too. Also, understandable. We all have our own way of doing things. And i think the other party can understand that - once she/he gets to know you better.
this cannot be a gender thing.
there are plenty of reasons why people don't want to text back immediately.
isn't it rather mundane BS anyways?
And that's just it: ghosting is a thing for some (that's how they try push people away) - while others are simply not that good with texting - so it might take them longer to get back to you. If you treat the ghosting type like the 2nd group of people - might take you a week to realize that it's over. And while treating the 2nd group as the ghosting type - you might end-up loosing someone who could be fond of you (and vice-versa).
This texting shit is confusing. 🙂click to expand
'Darling, texting is not my thing. Call me.'
OR if you get text from a person you like/love/care about - is it so hard to say ' hi! Busy! Later'?
I get only one text per day ' can I call'?
That's it! Enough!
Or I said if you can't talk - text me 'busy'
This way I KNOW I AM MATTER!
Works as a charm! Never got one 'busy' yet! Lol
So guys! Don't make stupid excuses.
Stringing women along is a human cruelty!
Posted by NemDeuxHaven't I said dump his ass and you said it's all good?Posted by nevesi hardly hear a "how are you" ... it's been replaced by "where are you" ..."are you on your way" i hear it often when people take a call on their mobile phone ..."oh hi i'm here and here" "on the bus, train etc etc etc". it's become a tool of control and regulation. goddamn i'll be there when i get there right?Posted by NemDeuxThat's true too. Also, understandable. We all have our own way of doing things. And i think the other party can understand that - once she/he gets to know you better.
this cannot be a gender thing.
there are plenty of reasons why people don't want to text back immediately.
isn't it rather mundane BS anyways?
And that's just it: ghosting is a thing for some (that's how they try push people away) - while others are simply not that good with texting - so it might take them longer to get back to you. If you treat the ghosting type like the 2nd group of people - might take you a week to realize that it's over. And while treating the 2nd group as the ghosting type - you might end-up loosing someone who could be fond of you (and vice-versa).
This texting shit is confusing. 🙂
i feel that being in touch 24/7 is a source of pressure; which causes stress annnnd has elevated lying and excuses to the next game.
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Posted by AquariusBeautyWhy don't they text after they piss? ?Posted by EvoxxxscorpioYup. Or they lost interested or are pissedPosted by AquariusBeautyLol if they don't text it's common sense that the attraction is slim to non.
It's an impersonal way to communicate and some men don't like to communicate via text. Some prefer human interactions.
Or...
He's just not that into youclick to expand
Posted by AquariusBeautyI am Gemini! He is a Scorpio!Posted by EvoxxxscorpioSmh you damn ScorpioPosted by AquariusBeautyPosted by EvoxxxscorpioYup. Or they lost interested or are pissedPosted by AquariusBeautyLol if they don't text it's common sense that the attraction is slim to non.
It's an impersonal way to communicate and some men don't like to communicate via text. Some prefer human interactions.
Or...
He's just not that into you
lol I will text once a month if my interest is pretty slim
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Posted by UnderFireYes sir! What's your pleasure? How can I help you?Posted by GemitatiHoly shit, woman! You're a real piece of work, aren't you? LolPosted by NemDeuxYou want me to say 'onara'!Posted by Gemitatii am, thank you! and you too. ? sayonara!Posted by NemDeuxBalm on my heart!Posted by Gemitatinot the current guy!!Posted by NemDeuxDump his ass!!!Posted by Gemitatiyeahh that too. saviour mentality. —Posted by NemDeuxNo! You have some issues! ?Posted by Gemitatithis was the guy before lol..Posted by NemDeuxYou are dating desperado!
LOL i just remembered 6 missed calls and 11 texts ....PICK UP YOUR GODDAMN PHONE was the 11th
so i thought this might be an emergency or something ....so i called back ....deeply regretted that.
Why?
Childhood issues?
yeah he had some issues.
it was my ex who blew up my phone lol.
it's all good!
Be happy!
Ok! Onara!
So, you're Gemitati. Gemini?
All your answers to this thread, goodness me! While some of it can be super ridiculous, it's really entertaining.
You do have logic to your words sometimes, but slow down a bit man, dammit. 😆
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Posted by AquariusBeautyTo the rest of your life?Posted by EvoxxxscorpioHmmm assholes lolPosted by AquariusBeautyLol if I'm pissed I'll text in two weeks and if I'm not interested I will text every few months ?Posted by EvoxxxscorpioSmh you damn ScorpioPosted by AquariusBeautyPosted by EvoxxxscorpioYup. Or they lost interested or are pissedPosted by AquariusBeautyLol if they don't text it's common sense that the attraction is slim to non.
It's an impersonal way to communicate and some men don't like to communicate via text. Some prefer human interactions.
Or...
He's just not that into you
lol I will text once a month if my interest is pretty slim
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Been watchin for awhile Made an account to say WTFFFFF to u
Posted by UnderFireI am a superwoman!Posted by GemitatiPosted by UnderFireYes sir! What's your pleasure? How can I help you?Posted by GemitatiHoly shit, woman! You're a real piece of work, aren't you? LolPosted by NemDeuxYou want me to say 'onara'!Posted by Gemitatii am, thank you! and you too. ? sayonara!Posted by NemDeuxBalm on my heart!Posted by Gemitatinot the current guy!!Posted by NemDeuxDump his ass!!!Posted by Gemitatiyeahh that too. saviour mentality. —Posted by NemDeuxNo! You have some issues! ?Posted by Gemitatithis was the guy before lol..Posted by NemDeuxYou are dating desperado!
LOL i just remembered 6 missed calls and 11 texts ....PICK UP YOUR GODDAMN PHONE was the 11th
so i thought this might be an emergency or something ....so i called back ....deeply regretted that.
Why?
Childhood issues?
yeah he had some issues.
it was my ex who blew up my phone lol.
it's all good!
Be happy!
Ok! Onara!
So, you're Gemitati. Gemini?
All your answers to this thread, goodness me! While some of it can be super ridiculous, it's really entertaining.
You do have logic to your words sometimes, but slow down a bit man, dammit. 😆
This^
But, can you? 😆
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I can do anything!
I don't even wear cape...if you know what I mean...
Posted by GemitatiThere's your answer.Posted by AquariusBeautyI am Gemini! He is a Scorpio!Posted by EvoxxxscorpioSmh you damn ScorpioPosted by AquariusBeautyPosted by EvoxxxscorpioYup. Or they lost interested or are pissedPosted by AquariusBeautyLol if they don't text it's common sense that the attraction is slim to non.
It's an impersonal way to communicate and some men don't like to communicate via text. Some prefer human interactions.
Or...
He's just not that into you
lol I will text once a month if my interest is pretty slim
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Posted by NemDeuxThat sounds like people who live together for quite some time. Maybe even married. Thus... "asking how are you" - might be redundant in the situations you described above. I mean, if they live in the same house - they should be able to tell...even talk about it if necessary. Thus, if the other party is out for quite some time - and they didn't get to talk about it (in a relationship where there's communication - it's quite common to brief the other party about your future intents - so he/she wouldn't worry / just as well you could be involved in some accident) - a question like "where are you" can actually imply "how are you (right now)". That and "can you stop by the supermarket (or whatever) - and buy this or that...". (:Posted by nevesi hardly hear a "how are you" ... it's been replaced by "where are you" ..."are you on your way" i hear it often when people take a call on their mobile phone ..."oh hi i'm here and here" "on the bus, train etc etc etc". it's become a tool of control and regulation. goddamn i'll be there when i get there right?Posted by NemDeuxThat's true too. Also, understandable. We all have our own way of doing things. And i think the other party can understand that - once she/he gets to know you better.
this cannot be a gender thing.
there are plenty of reasons why people don't want to text back immediately.
isn't it rather mundane BS anyways?
And that's just it: ghosting is a thing for some (that's how they try push people away) - while others are simply not that good with texting - so it might take them longer to get back to you. If you treat the ghosting type like the 2nd group of people - might take you a week to realize that it's over. And while treating the 2nd group as the ghosting type - you might end-up loosing someone who could be fond of you (and vice-versa).
This texting shit is confusing. 🙂
i feel that being in touch 24/7 is a source of pressure; which causes stress annnnd has elevated lying and excuses to the next game.
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I would be more worried about people who are in relationship - and don't give a fu'k about each-other's whereabouts. Goes to prove how much they care about each-other if they don't even notice each-others absence. Same goes for their level of intimacy and communication. Probably, some fuck buddies that objectify each-other for sexual pleasures. But other than that - they couldn't care less. Kinda like those scenarios - where the police shows up to announce the death of one's loved one (more like "roommate") - tho, while the officer writes down the report he realizes that she/he - didn't even notice her/his partner was missing. 2 or 3 days since its death...?
Personally, i need some space/freedom (i need some time for myself as well), so i can see where you're coming from. And i can agree that "to much - is to much". If there's compatibility (a mutual-understanding from this point of view - where both parties feel the same), trust and communication - i don't see how things could get to that (source of pressure). Tho, in same time - I'm also aware of people who are quite codependent of one another (almost glued to together - if you will) - and since they're both like that... they're quite receptive - to each-other's almost constant need (24/7). I shared a house with 2 couples who were a lot like that - and it seems to work for them.
I will reply within 15 minutes if not busy, whether I like her or not - unless she takes hours to reply then fuck her.
With that being said I hate texting and calling, it gets tiring. But I like witty women who can make me laugh while texting by teasing and insulting me. They are the best.
In the end women don't even like guys who immediately reply at all, so don't be saulty, you like to play the game that way. ^^
With that being said I hate texting and calling, it gets tiring. But I like witty women who can make me laugh while texting by teasing and insulting me. They are the best.
In the end women don't even like guys who immediately reply at all, so don't be saulty, you like to play the game that way. ^^
Posted by TheSagI didn't mean texting 'I got up and brushed my tooth and took a dump...'
I will reply within 15 minutes if not busy, whether I like her or not - unless she takes hours to reply then fuck her.
With that being said I hate texting and calling, it gets tiring. But I like witty women who can make me laugh while texting by teasing and insulting me. They are the best.
In the end women don't even like guys who immediately reply at all, so don't be saulty, you like to play the game that way.
I am talking ONE TEXT like 'busy. Will talk later' kind of text!
Not wall of text!!!
Just a few words says 'I am here. I know you are there. I care about you...'
Too much to ask? 99% of girls here would DIE happy to hear from you morons!!!
Posted by GemitatilolPosted by TheSag
I will reply within 15 minutes if not busy, whether I like her or not - unless she takes hours to reply then fuck her.
With that being said I hate texting and calling, it gets tiring. But I like witty women who can make me laugh while texting by teasing and insulting me. They are the best.
In the end women don't even like guys who immediately reply at all, so don't be saulty, you like to play the game that way.
Too much to ask? 99% of girls here would DIE happy to hear from you morons!!!click to expand
WE HATE TEXTING!!!!!! 😡
Posted by Gemitati—Posted by NemDeuxYou want me to say 'onara'!Posted by Gemitatii am, thank you! and you too. ? sayonara!Posted by NemDeuxBalm on my heart!Posted by Gemitatinot the current guy!!Posted by NemDeuxDump his ass!!!Posted by Gemitatiyeahh that too. saviour mentality. —Posted by NemDeuxNo! You have some issues! ?Posted by Gemitatithis was the guy before lol..Posted by NemDeuxYou are dating desperado!
LOL i just remembered 6 missed calls and 11 texts ....PICK UP YOUR GODDAMN PHONE was the 11th
so i thought this might be an emergency or something ....so i called back ....deeply regretted that.
Why?
Childhood issues?
yeah he had some issues.
it was my ex who blew up my phone lol.
it's all good!
Be happy!
Ok! Onara!
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