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Ive had an abortion in the past. I was always pro life until i got pregnant. Then i became pro choice.

Its true what they say, your life experiences determine your political ideologies.

I can understand if a woman suggested that abortion should be illegal but for a man to do it? Men stay walking out on their kids...so why cant a woman choose to end her pregnancy.

Anyways. I use condoms, the pill, and ol faithful "pull out method" but ffs if all that failed I should have the right to make a decision.
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Posted by LiveAndLove
Those pills are pretty pricey aren't they? I had to get one once last year and was surprised at the cost but more annoyed at myself for having to get it. Pre-pill (daily pill)...that's the way to go 🙂

Or some other alternative like IUD, that ring thing..I forget the name. At least condoms. I know they take away from the enjoyment but pull-out-n-pray isn't exactly effective, lol. At least not for me.
I paid 39.99

Ive used the nuvaring and the depo shot. Depo i gained like a gazillion pounds.

Nuvaring kept coming out.
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Those pills are pretty pricey aren't they? I had to get one once last year and was surprised at the cost but more annoyed at myself for having to get it. Pre-pill (daily pill)...that's the way to go 🙂

Or some other alternative like IUD, that ring thing..I forget the name. At least condoms. I know they take away from the enjoyment but pull-out-n-pray isn't exactly effective, lol. At least not for me.
I paid 39.99

Ive used the nuvaring and the depo shot. Depo i gained like a gazillion pounds.

Nuvaring kept coming out.
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Yes I don't trust Nuva ring I got pregnant because mine kept coming out. So happy I have my booger bear but at the time I was in my junior year of college it wasn't a good time.
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Posted by brianafay
PREACH

My coworkers were just talking politics and I am the only non conservative in the office. They all voted Trump

I just can't

Then they try to involve me in the convo and I just have to say I have a different opinion than the rest of you so I'd rather not talk about it ?
You are working with an office full of Trump supporters?

What is wrong with their brains?
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I had to bite my tongue when one of them brought up abortion and how she didn't think it should be legal anyway

I wanted to be like hmm ok so only what's right for you is right for everyone else

Cool
Its the whole taking ME out of the decisionmaking process.

Arent i over 18? Im legally an adult.

Idk how many executive orders obama did in his 1st 100 days but this seems excessive. Where are the.checks and balances?

I straight up told my ex coworkers to get the fawk outta my life if they vote for trump.
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PREACH

My coworkers were just talking politics and I am the only non conservative in the office. They all voted Trump

I just can't

Then they try to involve me in the convo and I just have to say I have a different opinion than the rest of you so I'd rather not talk about it ?
You are working with an office full of Trump supporters?

What is wrong with their brains?

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It's really hard to say

I try not to judge people on their views because we all come from different backgrounds and everyone has their reasons ...but I lost a lot of respect not gonna lie
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I had to bite my tongue when one of them brought up abortion and how she didn't think it should be legal anyway

I wanted to be like hmm ok so only what's right for you is right for everyone else

Cool
Its the whole taking ME out of the decisionmaking process.

Arent i over 18? Im legally an adult.

Idk how many executive orders obama did in his 1st 100 days but this seems excessive. Where are the.checks and balances?

I straight up told my ex coworkers to get the fawk outta my life if they vote for trump.
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Yeah exactly

I don't think some people should be allowed to breed at all but I can't make that choice for them ...why these same people think they can choose for someone else is just crazy me

But hey what do I know
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Those pills are pretty pricey aren't they? I had to get one once last year and was surprised at the cost but more annoyed at myself for having to get it. Pre-pill (daily pill)...that's the way to go 🙂

Or some other alternative like IUD, that ring thing..I forget the name. At least condoms. I know they take away from the enjoyment but pull-out-n-pray isn't exactly effective, lol. At least not for me.
I paid 39.99

Ive used the nuvaring and the depo shot. Depo i gained like a gazillion pounds.

Nuvaring kept coming out.

Yes I don't trust Nuva ring I got pregnant because mine kept coming out. So happy I have my booger bear but at the time I was in my junior year of college it wasn't a good time.

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My ex was just abusive and i just wanted to have a child under better circumstances.
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PREACH

My coworkers were just talking politics and I am the only non conservative in the office. They all voted Trump

I just can't

Then they try to involve me in the convo and I just have to say I have a different opinion than the rest of you so I'd rather not talk about it ?
You are working with an office full of Trump supporters?

What is wrong with their brains?




It's really hard to say

I try not to judge people on their views because we all come from different backgrounds and everyone has their reasons ...but I lost a lot of respect not gonna lie

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I am sure you did....he is a dangerous man
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Those pills are pretty pricey aren't they? I had to get one once last year and was surprised at the cost but more annoyed at myself for having to get it. Pre-pill (daily pill)...that's the way to go 🙂

Or some other alternative like IUD, that ring thing..I forget the name. At least condoms. I know they take away from the enjoyment but pull-out-n-pray isn't exactly effective, lol. At least not for me.
I paid 39.99

Ive used the nuvaring and the depo shot. Depo i gained like a gazillion pounds.

Nuvaring kept coming out.
That's a little better than what I paid for it, I think it was almost $ 60. And yeah, a lot of birth control pills and that nuvaring have side effects which are not fun to deal with. For me it's easier to just decide to get the surgery done since I know I'm done with having kids. But I feel bad for people who aren't and have to worry about it :/

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The 1st time i took the Morning After, it was 59.99

Many years ago.
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Someone on my fb wrote this and it's a pretty good argument on the pro life side. Which I don't I have a side myself. Anyway here is the post.

Honestly can't hold my tongue anymore. If you feel a certain way about something you are entitled to your opinion and no one should tell you different. That being said, for the love of god if I see one more person bashing another person for being pro life I'm going to have a heart attack. IF YOU WERE MATURE ENOUGH TO BE INTIMATE WITH SOMEONE, be mature enough to realize you created life and that's something darn special. You lost "your choice" when you decided you were old enough to make "the choice"!!! DO NOT BLAME A HELPLESS BABY, for your "wrong choice" you ninnies.
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Whats even more disgusting is that in many states rapist's retain their parental rights.

Imagine it, your raped and unable to get an abortion because its illegal. Then on top of that trauma you have to see your rapist every weekend to hand over the kid in a denny's parking lot.
Really? Which states? I hope that is not true...
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Whats even more disgusting is that in many states rapist's retain their parental rights.

Imagine it, your raped and unable to get an abortion because its illegal. Then on top of that trauma you have to see your rapist every weekend to hand over the kid in a denny's parking lot.
Id be plotting his death
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Death is too quick.
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Whats even more disgusting is that in many states rapist's retain their parental rights.

Imagine it, your raped and unable to get an abortion because its illegal. Then on top of that trauma you have to see your rapist every weekend to hand over the kid in a denny's parking lot.
Or you're 5mths pregnant and have a horrible accident, but the state forces your family to keep you on a vent for 4mths, just to be an incubator.
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Horrific.
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Posted by Soul
Someone on my fb wrote this and it's a pretty good argument on the pro life side. Which I don't I have a side myself. Anyway here is the post.

Honestly can't hold my tongue anymore. If you feel a certain way about something you are entitled to your opinion and no one should tell you different. That being said, for the love of god if I see one more person bashing another person for being pro life I'm going to have a heart attack. IF YOU WERE MATURE ENOUGH TO BE INTIMATE WITH SOMEONE, be mature enough to realize you created life and that's something darn special. You lost "your choice" when you decided you were old enough to make "the choice"!!! DO NOT BLAME A HELPLESS BABY, for your "wrong choice" you ninnies.
Im speaking of when youve taken precautions to not create a life
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I support your right to a creampie! Stiff support ofc!

😄
I actually dont like creampies. Lol.

Too much to clean up. Be drippin for eva.

Just nut on my ass or tits. If its his bday, i may swallow.
U getting old!

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Lol. Creampies can cause all kinds of craziness.

Just nut someplace else.

Unless you wanna make a baby
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There is natural BC out there... just so you know.

I think I brought it up once upon a time and everyone thought I was stupid or something..

But im not pregnant, My friends were skeptical too until they actually tried it..

Beats the hell out of spending 30 bucks on a super estrogen pill that throws the rest of hormones out of wack.

But oh well.

I took it once as a teen and I forever have the result of a side effect permanently to remind me of it..

Seriously anything but that.. plan b is fucking horrible and don't abuse it or rely on it please people.
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Whaaaaat 😐

You bought three?

Wait you don't need an Rx in the USA?
Not anymore. Over the counter
'Kay apparently you don't need Rxs in Canada either lol ( Google ) but hmm. It's still very much controlled, you can only buy it directly from the pharmacists. I'm guessing here "picking up 3" wouldn't be possible.



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Its in the aisle. Next to the condoms now. Lol
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Posted by Soul
Someone on my fb wrote this and it's a pretty good argument on the pro life side. Which I don't I have a side myself. Anyway here is the post.

Honestly can't hold my tongue anymore. If you feel a certain way about something you are entitled to your opinion and no one should tell you different. That being said, for the love of god if I see one more person bashing another person for being pro life I'm going to have a heart attack. IF YOU WERE MATURE ENOUGH TO BE INTIMATE WITH SOMEONE, be mature enough to realize you created life and that's something darn special. You lost "your choice" when you decided you were old enough to make "the choice"!!! DO NOT BLAME A HELPLESS BABY, for your "wrong choice" you ninnies.
Meh I think that's an over emotional and illogical argument. People like that view abortion as irresponsible and as the persons "easy way out" as if they did something wrong and they should endure their punishment/consequence - i.e. the baby.

I have a problem with that thought process...

Which is it?? A blessing or a consequence ??

Also, I just can't wrap my head around how it is considered irresponsible to acknowledge that you are not fit to be a parent at that moment??

I think that's way more responsible than popping out a bunch of kids you can't afford or can't provide a safe, healthy, positive home environment to grow up in and become productive contributing members of society.
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Someone on my fb wrote this and it's a pretty good argument on the pro life side. Which I don't I have a side myself. Anyway here is the post.

Honestly can't hold my tongue anymore. If you feel a certain way about something you are entitled to your opinion and no one should tell you different. That being said, for the love of god if I see one more person bashing another person for being pro life I'm going to have a heart attack. IF YOU WERE MATURE ENOUGH TO BE INTIMATE WITH SOMEONE, be mature enough to realize you created life and that's something darn special. You lost "your choice" when you decided you were old enough to make "the choice"!!! DO NOT BLAME A HELPLESS BABY, for your "wrong choice" you ninnies.
Meh I think that's an over emotional and illogical argument. People like that view abortion as irresponsible and as the persons "easy way out" as if they did something wrong and they should endure their punishment/consequence - i.e. the baby.

I have a problem with that thought process...

Which is it?? A blessing or a consequence ??

Also, I just can't wrap my head around how it is considered irresponsible to acknowledge that you are not fit to be a parent at that moment??

I think that's way more responsible than popping out a bunch of kids you can't afford or can't provide a safe, healthy, positive home environment to grow up in and become productive contributing members of society.

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Someone on my fb wrote this and it's a pretty good argument on the pro life side. Which I don't I have a side myself. Anyway here is the post.

Honestly can't hold my tongue anymore. If you feel a certain way about something you are entitled to your opinion and no one should tell you different. That being said, for the love of god if I see one more person bashing another person for being pro life I'm going to have a heart attack. IF YOU WERE MATURE ENOUGH TO BE INTIMATE WITH SOMEONE, be mature enough to realize you created life and that's something darn special. You lost "your choice" when you decided you were old enough to make "the choice"!!! DO NOT BLAME A HELPLESS BABY, for your "wrong choice" you ninnies.
Meh I think that's an over emotional and illogical argument. People like that view abortion as irresponsible and as the persons "easy way out" as if they did something wrong and they should endure their punishment/consequence - i.e. the baby.

I have a problem with that thought process...

Which is it?? A blessing or a consequence ??

Also, I just can't wrap my head around how it is considered irresponsible to acknowledge that you are not fit to be a parent at that moment??

I think that's way more responsible than popping out a bunch of kids you can't afford or can't provide a safe, healthy, positive home environment to grow up in and become productive contributing members of society.


I agree with this. The people who share this view seem so hateful towards women. They view a baby as punishment for a woman being a "slut" ..."just keep your legs closed". It's so sadistic.

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Woman: "I'm pregnant and can't support a child."

Anti-Choicer: "YOU SINNING HOOKER. DONT EVEN THINK ABOUT ABORTING IT!! DONT YOU RESPECT GOD GIVEN LIFE?"

9 months later. .

Woman: "k so I had the baby like you made me do. I need help to buy food for my baby."

Anti-Choicer: "HOW IRRESPONSIBLE OF YOU TO HAVE A BABY WHEN YOU CANT AFFORD TO TAKE CARE OF IT!! MAYBE IF YOU BOTH DIE, IT'LL TEACH U A LESSON"
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Posted by Areyoumytwinflame
Posted by brianafay
Posted by Soul
Someone on my fb wrote this and it's a pretty good argument on the pro life side. Which I don't I have a side myself. Anyway here is the post.

Honestly can't hold my tongue anymore. If you feel a certain way about something you are entitled to your opinion and no one should tell you different. That being said, for the love of god if I see one more person bashing another person for being pro life I'm going to have a heart attack. IF YOU WERE MATURE ENOUGH TO BE INTIMATE WITH SOMEONE, be mature enough to realize you created life and that's something darn special. You lost "your choice" when you decided you were old enough to make "the choice"!!! DO NOT BLAME A HELPLESS BABY, for your "wrong choice" you ninnies.
Meh I think that's an over emotional and illogical argument. People like that view abortion as irresponsible and as the persons "easy way out" as if they did something wrong and they should endure their punishment/consequence - i.e. the baby.

I have a problem with that thought process...

Which is it?? A blessing or a consequence ??

Also, I just can't wrap my head around how it is considered irresponsible to acknowledge that you are not fit to be a parent at that moment??

I think that's way more responsible than popping out a bunch of kids you can't afford or can't provide a safe, healthy, positive home environment to grow up in and become productive contributing members of society.


I agree with this. The people who share this view seem so hateful towards women. They view a baby as punishment for a woman being a "slut" ..."just keep your legs closed". It's so sadistic.

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Agreed.

It's ridiculous and cruel to see a baby as a punishment.

And I think that person who wrote that FB post is very confused about whether or not a baby is a gift or a curse.
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Someone on my fb wrote this and it's a pretty good argument on the pro life side. Which I don't I have a side myself. Anyway here is the post.

Honestly can't hold my tongue anymore. If you feel a certain way about something you are entitled to your opinion and no one should tell you different. That being said, for the love of god if I see one more person bashing another person for being pro life I'm going to have a heart attack. IF YOU WERE MATURE ENOUGH TO BE INTIMATE WITH SOMEONE, be mature enough to realize you created life and that's something darn special. You lost "your choice" when you decided you were old enough to make "the choice"!!! DO NOT BLAME A HELPLESS BABY, for your "wrong choice" you ninnies.
Meh I think that's an over emotional and illogical argument. People like that view abortion as irresponsible and as the persons "easy way out" as if they did something wrong and they should endure their punishment/consequence - i.e. the baby.

I have a problem with that thought process...

Which is it?? A blessing or a consequence ??

Also, I just can't wrap my head around how it is considered irresponsible to acknowledge that you are not fit to be a parent at that moment??

I think that's way more responsible than popping out a bunch of kids you can't afford or can't provide a safe, healthy, positive home environment to grow up in and become productive contributing members of society.


I agree with this. The people who share this view seem so hateful towards women. They view a baby as punishment for a woman being a "slut" ..."just keep your legs closed". It's so sadistic.


Woman: "I'm pregnant and can't support a child."

Anti-Choicer: "YOU SINNING HOOKER. DONT EVEN THINK ABOUT ABORTING IT!! DONT YOU RESPECT GOD GIVEN LIFE?"

9 months later. .

Woman: "k so I had the baby like you made me do. I need help to buy food for my baby."

Anti-Choicer: "HOW IRRESPONSIBLE OF YOU TO HAVE A BABY WHEN YOU CANT AFFORD TO TAKE CARE OF IT!! MAYBE IF YOU BOTH DIE, IT'LL TEACH U A LESSON"

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Yass
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I am all about pro-choice!

We need to cut down the amount of crazy bitches having babies and ruining lives anyway. Also, if someone doesn't have the money or the resources to bring up a child then why force them to have the baby?! And don't give me the "give it up for adoption" bullshit. No thanks. Can't speak for women but I, as a man, could never live my life peacefully knowing that I have a child out there somewhere in the world who may look like me, talk like me, have my personality and does not know me and is calling someone else "daddy."

CALL ME SELFISH IDC!
just imagine the medical expenses incurred during 9 months of pregnancy and giving birth. Some people in poverty would be in debt for the rest of their lives. Well unless they're on welfare which conservatives want to do away with. So you want a woman to be in debt for the rest of her life just to give birth to a child and give it up?



I know, right? Who are these fucks trying to FORCE MAJOR LIFE CHANGES on other people's lives?! They should be ashamed of themselves. I doubt this "no abortions" thing is going to be the law but if it is, everyone riot!

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They do this because they want to always have someone around to make them feel righteous and indignant. So that they don't have to focus on their own personal issues.
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Seeing how black Americans aren't economically equal and can't actually catch up to White Americans in terms of wealth for next 100 years what both of you are advocating is genocide.

So no thank you on that sheet. Who cares if you can't raise the kids let the system do it. They ain't giving up sheet to minorities anyways so....
No one is ever forced to have an abortion. You're making it seem like people are advocating for it. People are just advocating for the freedom to choose.

Pro choice is not pro abortion
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I think we agree you just don't realize it

My white coworker- from North Dakota, married to her highschool sweetheart, both have well paying stable jobs, were lucky to have been able to plan their family - thinks nobody should be allowed to choose

I don't think she's in the position to choose for anyone else. She has no idea what it's like to make a decision like that
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I think it's time to get my tubes tied :/
Essure, permanent coat hangers. Check it out.
Ah you are so true to your name lol 😉

I have no clue what Essure is but now I feel like I should Google it.


Did you consult the Google? Had the procedure done a few years ago. Even with two kids, they drug their feet to try to put me off the idea. Jumped through all kindsa hoops, but finally got it done. One of the best decisions I ever made.
Yes, I looked it up 🙂 So it's better than an IUD? Like in your opinion I'm asking. I've never heard of it before and read a lot about it earlier (this evening). Do you think it's the safer way to go verses the IUD? Or just tube tying aka tubal litigation?


It's permanent so, if you're positive your baby makin days are done, it's way better than an IUD and less invasive than the tubal ligation. For the sake of argument you don't have a nickel allergy, of course. Then all bets are off.

Edit to say: Feel free to PM me any time. The biggest thing's finding a good doctor. You don't want somebody dicking around under the hood that doesn't know what they're doing.
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I see what you did there.
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