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Cancer here and professional cryer. I cry where I want and us ugly as I want and give 0 shits.

My advice is to also give 0 shits lol.

Good for you 👍

Worrying what people think is a life half lived 😬

It’s not about what people think, it’s harassment, insensitive comments, being made fun of for crying, or people insisting on knowing what’s wrong.

Why do you have those people in your life or let them bring you down?

It’s a culture thing mostly so most people are like that where I live, people will do anything but go to therapy. Not gonna be where I am for long though so it’s tolerable for now.

Which moon do you have?

Gemini, could that be a factor? 👀

I wouldnt have thought so

Do you have a water sun

Water dominant or stuff in water houses (4th, 8th, 12th)?

Oh my god! I’m a scorpio dominant. I’ve got sun in scorpio, 4th in pisces, 8th in cancer, 12th in scorpio. What does that mean? 🤯

That you are water dom

Emotional

I’m water dom too

Am moved easily and able to cry

Its healthy

I love it....

I’m honestly working on getting there. I’ve been made fun of and shamed for crying when I was little so I’m trying to get over that. Already making progress I’m guessing bc public breakdowns. 😂

You need to surround yourself with better people .... they sound cold ... ugh

They’re toxic to say the least but I never blame them. I’m getting a whole entirely new circle soon so I’m keeping things civil lol.
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That’s good to hear👍

Are most of your family negative/toxic?
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Cancer here and professional cryer. I cry where I want and us ugly as I want and give 0 shits.

My advice is to also give 0 shits lol.

Good for you 👍

Worrying what people think is a life half lived 😬

It’s not about what people think, it’s harassment, insensitive comments, being made fun of for crying, or people insisting on knowing what’s wrong.

Why do you have those people in your life or let them bring you down?

It’s a culture thing mostly so most people are like that where I live, people will do anything but go to therapy. Not gonna be where I am for long though so it’s tolerable for now.

I wouldn't worry about that. I would let karma handle sitchations like that. They gonna get it trust me. It's nine times out of ten those youngins that just coming into this world that'll try and bring you down. That's why I hang around baby boomers. They make me feel at peace.

Edit: correction. Silent generation. All the folks I hang around with and feel very close to were born before 1946. And I'm not including those Scorpio girls they from my generation and they are only side kicks. So they don't count.

Yeah, those people are close to me and know exactly how to hurt me and cut deep into my emotional wounds, I have a thick skin actually so nothing actually gets to me but when it’s the few people I love it just hurts like crazy. That’s why I will move away and keep my moments with them short and sweet (Vacations and holidays).
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Yeah I think that's the best thing to do. Move away and keep your moments with them short and sweet.

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Why is everyone crying? I mean I cry when someone I like or a pet dies or someone I like moves away. I don't cry over a broken heart it just makes me angry and vengeful. I cry when I'm in physical pain. I'm sorry everyone is in so much pain.

Helplessness usually triggers my sadness and the past and the effect of the insanity I went through had on me till this day and the fact that I almost have little to no memories of my childhood. 🤷🏻‍♀️😪
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I understand. That would make me cry too.
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Cancer here and professional cryer. I cry where I want and us ugly as I want and give 0 shits.

My advice is to also give 0 shits lol.

Good for you 👍

Worrying what people think is a life half lived 😬

It’s not about what people think, it’s harassment, insensitive comments, being made fun of for crying, or people insisting on knowing what’s wrong.

Why do you have those people in your life or let them bring you down?

It’s a culture thing mostly so most people are like that where I live, people will do anything but go to therapy. Not gonna be where I am for long though so it’s tolerable for now.

Which moon do you have?

Gemini, could that be a factor? 👀

I wouldnt have thought so

Do you have a water sun

Water dominant or stuff in water houses (4th, 8th, 12th)?

Oh my god! I’m a scorpio dominant. I’ve got sun in scorpio, 4th in pisces, 8th in cancer, 12th in scorpio. What does that mean? 🤯

That you are water dom

Emotional

I’m water dom too

Am moved easily and able to cry

Its healthy

I love it....

I’m honestly working on getting there. I’ve been made fun of and shamed for crying when I was little so I’m trying to get over that. Already making progress I’m guessing bc public breakdowns. 😂

You need to surround yourself with better people .... they sound cold ... ugh

They’re toxic to say the least but I never blame them. I’m getting a whole entirely new circle soon so I’m keeping things civil lol.

That’s good to hear👍

Are most of your family negative/toxic?
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Unfortunately, yes. It’s all they know so I don’t hold it against any of them. I’m toxic myself and I’m still unlearning all the coping mechanisms I had to learn to survive in that environment. 😓
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Huh are you crying at normal every day things? Cuz I get teary for happy things I watch on tv n I can’t control that very well. I take deep breaths n it helps.

Or r u crying because ur sad about something that happened to you? B/c the only way to fix this one is to look at the cause n see if it can healed

Sometimes happy tears, other times sad ones. Like, I can’t bottle my emotions up or control them anymore, been having a few hard days and can’t help but feel bad for myself. 😞
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You are human. It’s okay to express your feelings with tears. Maybe you need a tight hug from someone you love - family, friend, pets
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Cancer here and professional cryer. I cry where I want and us ugly as I want and give 0 shits.

My advice is to also give 0 shits lol.

Good for you 👍

Worrying what people think is a life half lived 😬

It’s not about what people think, it’s harassment, insensitive comments, being made fun of for crying, or people insisting on knowing what’s wrong.

Why do you have those people in your life or let them bring you down?

It’s a culture thing mostly so most people are like that where I live, people will do anything but go to therapy. Not gonna be where I am for long though so it’s tolerable for now.

I wouldn't worry about that. I would let karma handle sitchations like that. They gonna get it trust me. It's nine times out of ten those youngins that just coming into this world that'll try and bring you down. That's why I hang around baby boomers. They make me feel at peace.

Edit: correction. Silent generation. All the folks I hang around with and feel very close to were born before 1946. And I'm not including those Scorpio girls they from my generation and they are only side kicks. So they don't count.

Yeah, those people are close to me and know exactly how to hurt me and cut deep into my emotional wounds, I have a thick skin actually so nothing actually gets to me but when it’s the few people I love it just hurts like crazy. That’s why I will move away and keep my moments with them short and sweet (Vacations and holidays).

Yeah I think that's the best thing to do. Move away and keep your moments with them short and sweet.

And this part of the comment has nothing to do with this thread but I just want to give a quick shout out to me for dining out alone today. That take some couragement. I think I deserve a pat on the back https://c.tenor.com/9MYFMp6CyTYAAAAC/isnt-it-romantic-thumbs-up.gif<div class="bqfade">click to expand


Aww I’m glad you are! You definitely should enjoy your own company. 💯
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Huh are you crying at normal every day things? Cuz I get teary for happy things I watch on tv n I can’t control that very well. I take deep breaths n it helps.

Or r u crying because ur sad about something that happened to you? B/c the only way to fix this one is to look at the cause n see if it can healed

Sometimes happy tears, other times sad ones. Like, I can’t bottle my emotions up or control them anymore, been having a few hard days and can’t help but feel bad for myself. 😞

You are human. It’s okay to express your feelings with tears. Maybe you need a tight hug from someone you love - family, friend, pets
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I am indeed. Finally starting this journey.
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I have a Pisces moon soooooo once the water works start it's nearly impossible to get it to stop even when I've calmed down. If I'm at work and I get pissed off or upset I try and go to the bathroom and put a wet cold paper towel behind my neck and on my eyes. I also take deep breaths...my mom was a yoga teacher so I learned how to breath properly when I need to relax.

I try not to cry in front of ppl BUT I find when I do it hits ppl in the heart and I get more sympathy then ridicule.