Shadiest DXPer?

I am sensing some things but will reveal my answer after a couple of posts.

I didn't use another word coz I don't know any other word to use... but among the three you mentioned, the closest would be "fake" and "malicious" - that means the term "shady" in this context is a combination of these two and, probably other words I couldn't think of as of the moment.

Posted by Lioness888

Posted by firebunny

I didn't use another word coz I don't know any other word to use... but among the three you mentioned, the closest would be "fake" and "malicious" - that means the term "shady" in this context is a combination of these two and, probably other words I couldn't think of as of the moment.

Hmmm.... well i don't know everyone on the forum so i don't know who the most shadey would be. I have had shade thrown by various people on a topic i made about a week or so ago. I think there's a number of those types on dxp. There is also some very sweet and positive people too.

Did someone in particular hurt your feelings for you to make this topic?

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Not really. I just find him to be very shady but nevertheless insignificant. I think I am annoyed though, in the process of deliberating with myself whether to block him or not. The thing is, the block function being ridiculously ineffective, I am left with the only alternative that is to post this thread. This thread is not about him though, it's about the shady people on DXP in general. I'm not mentioning names though if he begins to say that he was the inspiration behind this thread.

Posted by Lioness888

Ok... i have no idea who you are talking about. Have you maybe tried to tell the person directly that they're being nasty and to stop it?

I think sometimes people don't realise others are maybe sensitive to certain things.

I don't really know how to talk to him, him being very shady on his last few posts.

Posted by Nevamore

OP itself.

It's not you.

Who are you talking about?

Posted by MyStarsShine

Who are you talking about?

Not you, StarShine.

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Posted by Lioness888

Ok... i have no idea who you are talking about. Have you maybe tried to tell the person directly that they're being nasty and to stop it?

I think sometimes people don't realise others are maybe sensitive to certain things.

I don't really know how to talk to him, him being very shady on his last few posts.

You're being kind of passive aggressive and gossipy by not saying it direct which is kind of shadey too. I really don't like when people have done that to me so maybe best to confront him directly

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Unintentionally. I don't intend to be passive-aggressive. It's just that I don't know how to confront him at all. I'm very very upfront. I'm Virgo and I say things out of my head right in front of you if you're doing me wrong. But this guy's just a different kind of animal.

How do you talk to a shady person, by the way? Maybe this thread could redirect its attention to this matter.

Just talk to him....

Aren't you a lawyer?

Posted by iridium

@Muscle_dreams_manila

It's not him. He's my friend. 🙂

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Ok... i have no idea who you are talking about. Have you maybe tried to tell the person directly that they're being nasty and to stop it?

I think sometimes people don't realise others are maybe sensitive to certain things.

I don't really know how to talk to him, him being very shady on his last few posts.

You're being kind of passive aggressive and gossipy by not saying it direct which is kind of shadey too. I really don't like when people have done that to me so maybe best to confront him directly

Unintentionally. I don't intend to be passive-aggressive. It's just that I don't know how to confront him at all. I'm very very upfront. I'm Virgo and I say things out of my head right in front of you if you're doing me wrong. But this guy's just a different kind of animal.

How do you talk to a shady person, by the way? Maybe this thread could redirect its attention to this matter.

😕 well.... you just tell them, stop being an asshole. And then it will naturally run it's course from there

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What do I say? I really have no idea...

I guess he has stopped, so I'm not confronting him anymore. But if he harasses me, I will confront him.

I guess he has stopped, so I'm not confronting him anymore. But if he harasses me, I will confront him.

Posted by halalbae

Loool why did you make this thread. Negativity doesnt deserve acknowledgement. The people that hate you will continue to hate you and thats just what its going to be 🤷🏽‍♀️

To serve as an outlet, I guess. I figured, people who hate me are generally the ones who envy me. 😉

I figured, he's insignificant to my life so I won't bother mentioning his name or confronting him any longer. I'd just let it be, as is where is, that is.

I don't remember him anymore at this point. He simply doesn't exist.

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Posted by iridium

@Muscle_dreams_manila

It's not him. He's my friend. 🙂

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internet acquaintance

Posted by firebunny

I figured, he's insignificant to my life so I won't bother mentioning his name or confronting him any longer. I'd just let it be, as is where is, that is.

I don't remember him anymore at this point. He simply doesn't exist.

you're talking about HES right?

Ands?

Me. I enjoy the shade from time to time 😛