Truths

This topic was created in the Miscellaneous forum by sweethearts on Wednesday, January 13, 2021 and has 21 replies.

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The truth shall set you free.

So why don’t we adhere to the truth when it’s told to us. Why do we fight it and make up excuses for others behaviour? Deep down I think we all know the truth and sometimes when spoken out loud it hurts and makes us become defensive... but for what reason? Eventually the truth wins.

Accept it, deal with it and be free.

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Posted by WarAngel
Posted by sweethearts

The truth shall set you free.

So why don’t we adhere to the truth when it’s told to us. Why do we fight it and make up excuses for others behaviour? Deep down I think we all know the truth and sometimes when spoken out loud it hurts and makes us become defensive... but for what reason? Eventually the truth wins.

Accept it, deal with it and be free.

You already answered your own question! 🤭

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I’m good at that 😂

I’m pondering and open to others take on it

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Posted by virgoOPPP

you ever played 'among us?'

This was not only my own realisation but playing among this lot here, yes!

The truth is staring them in the face, members here highlight it over and over. It’s ignored only to bite them in the arse again and again.

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Posted by black-coffee
Posted by sweethearts
Posted by virgoOPPP

you ever played 'among us?'

This was not only my own realisation but playing among this lot here, yes!

The truth is staring them in the face, members here highlight it over and over. It’s ignored only to bite them in the arse again and again.

I think they might mean this:

https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Among_Us


😂😂😂 ohhh I know nothing about those sort of games.. I was referring to these relationship games

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Because DXP is all about fostering delusion, that's why it has the highest concentrated amount of like-minded losers out of any site I've ever seen.

Types who would rather convince themselves that they got groomed instead of kicked to the kerb by the guy who had a gutsful of them. And those who'd rather play a game of make-believe harem than really look themselves in the mirror.

And then they take their grievances to the front page or make threads about it, to suck up to their enablers - calling them enablers and not friends, because real friends would buy them the antipsychotics they so desperately need.

Let's not forget the plethora of feminist trash that think they're intelligent enough to be anywhere near the internet.

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Posted by sweethearts

The truth shall set you free.

So why don’t we adhere to the truth when it’s told to us. Why do we fight it and make up excuses for others behaviour? Deep down I think we all know the truth and sometimes when spoken out loud it hurts and makes us become defensive... but for what reason? Eventually the truth wins.

Accept it, deal with it and be free.

I guess this was the one you was talking about.

I didn't see it until last minuet,

Well truth is we hold on in hope that things will change and get better.

Sometimes they do and most of the time they don't I will agree with you there.

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Posted by sweethearts

The truth shall set you free.

So why don’t we adhere to the truth when it’s told to us. Why do we fight it and make up excuses for others behaviour? Deep down I think we all know the truth and sometimes when spoken out loud it hurts and makes us become defensive... but for what reason? Eventually the truth wins.

Accept it, deal with it and be free.

Tell you something I have recently moved into a brand knew apartment.

My partner has her own house with her two children.

She does not like the fact I have bought a new curved tv and just recently bought some new curtain poles for every window I have.

She said to me why are you spending money you do not have right now.

Thing is we are talking about truths right?

Well why am I acting out like this is it because I am a typical Sagittarius and I am just jumping head first?

Or could it be because the truth is staring me in the face and I do not see us living together in the future.

A reason she hasn't been her self with me is because she wants me to get my finances up together so we can live together and have a life together.

She said she's waiting on me and I am putting her dreams on hold a little bit.

But I do not see her making any jumps here?

It would be me who has to give up the property in order for us to live together it seems its all me one sided a little.

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Posted by Centaur12
Posted by sweethearts

The truth shall set you free.

So why don’t we adhere to the truth when it’s told to us. Why do we fight it and make up excuses for others behaviour? Deep down I think we all know the truth and sometimes when spoken out loud it hurts and makes us become defensive... but for what reason? Eventually the truth wins.

Accept it, deal with it and be free.

Tell you something I have recently moved into a brand knew apartment.

My partner has her own house with her two children.

She does not like the fact I have bought a new curved tv and just recently bought some new curtain poles for every window I have.

She said to me why are you spending money you do not have right now.

Thing is we are talking about truths right?

Well why am I acting out like this is it because I am a typical Sagittarius and I am just jumping head first?

Or could it be because the truth is staring me in the face and I do not see us living together in the future.

A reason she hasn't been her self with me is because she wants me to get my finances up together so we can live together and have a life together.

She said she's waiting on me and I am putting her dreams on hold a little bit.

But I do not see her making any jumps here?

It would be me who has to give up the property in order for us to live together it seems its all me one sided a little.

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Have you just answered your own delimma??

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I mean you are jumping through hoops to please her but she’s never satisfied. Is this the life that you want? Seriously? I’m sure there are many women out there that works really appreciate what you’re prepared to sacrifice for them. Respect your own Self first and understand your value And what you offer in relationship.. it should be closer to 50/50 or 60/40

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Posted by sweethearts

I mean you are jumping through hoops to please her but she’s never satisfied. Is this the life that you want? Seriously? I’m sure there are many women out there that works really appreciate what you’re prepared to sacrifice for them. Respect your own Self first and understand your value And what you offer in relationship.. it should be closer to 50/50 or 60/40

I do not doubt that for a second.

Could you point me in the right direction please 🤣😅.

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Posted by Centaur12
Posted by sweethearts

The truth shall set you free.

So why don’t we adhere to the truth when it’s told to us. Why do we fight it and make up excuses for others behaviour? Deep down I think we all know the truth and sometimes when spoken out loud it hurts and makes us become defensive... but for what reason? Eventually the truth wins.

Accept it, deal with it and be free.

Tell you something I have recently moved into a brand knew apartment.

My partner has her own house with her two children.

She does not like the fact I have bought a new curved tv and just recently bought some new curtain poles for every window I have.

She said to me why are you spending money you do not have right now.

Thing is we are talking about truths right?

Well why am I acting out like this is it because I am a typical Sagittarius and I am just jumping head first?

Or could it be because the truth is staring me in the face and I do not see us living together in the future.

A reason she hasn't been her self with me is because she wants me to get my finances up together so we can live together and have a life together.

She said she's waiting on me and I am putting her dreams on hold a little bit.

But I do not see her making any jumps here?

It would be me who has to give up the property in order for us to live together it seems its all me one sided a little.

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It looks like she is worried you are getting into more (?) debt, buying unnecessarily expensive things, like the curved TV.

When she said you were "putting her dreams on hold a little bit", what did she mean? Did you two make concrete plans to live together? If so, why did you just buy an apartment for yourself? Did you see her and her two children moving from the house they own, into your flat?

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Posted by Undine
Posted by Centaur12
Posted by sweethearts

The truth shall set you free.

So why don’t we adhere to the truth when it’s told to us. Why do we fight it and make up excuses for others behaviour? Deep down I think we all know the truth and sometimes when spoken out loud it hurts and makes us become defensive... but for what reason? Eventually the truth wins.

Accept it, deal with it and be free.

Tell you something I have recently moved into a brand knew apartment.

My partner has her own house with her two children.

She does not like the fact I have bought a new curved tv and just recently bought some new curtain poles for every window I have.

She said to me why are you spending money you do not have right now.

Thing is we are talking about truths right?

Well why am I acting out like this is it because I am a typical Sagittarius and I am just jumping head first?

Or could it be because the truth is staring me in the face and I do not see us living together in the future.

A reason she hasn't been her self with me is because she wants me to get my finances up together so we can live together and have a life together.

She said she's waiting on me and I am putting her dreams on hold a little bit.

But I do not see her making any jumps here?

It would be me who has to give up the property in order for us to live together it seems its all me one sided a little.

It looks like she is worried you are getting into more (?) debt, buying unnecessarily expensive things, like the curved TV.

When she said you were "putting her dreams on hold a little bit", what did she mean? Did you two make concrete plans to live together? If so, why did you just buy an apartment for yourself? Did you see her and her two children moving from the house they own, into your flat?

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So I don't own the apartment I just rent it.

My partner told me to get my own place rather than stay at my mums and I agreed that would probably be the best thing for now.

We spoke together and both of us would like to live together however she told me that she feels pressured for us to live together like my mum was expecting me and her to live together and so was I to be honest.

My partner suggested getting my own place so I have done.

No I never seen them moving into the flat with me.

What we are thinking is giving the flat and the house up to get a bigger house for us all to live in.

I am not saying I do not see her point here but it begs the question has she told me to move out of my mums and get my own place just to give her a peace of mind and to give her more time for us not to live together I don't really see her making any jumps.

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must be nice to be known for being a delusional sun

hated by more men than women for being allegedly a 'pedo'

calling out people for being online when you make long, angry rants

must be real nice that blissful, delusional peace

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I don't know if this is the right place for this, but...

I haven't been eating enough over the past few years and as a result, I cry easily now. I'm not even a crier.

What should I do? Taking kratom should help with this recent and unnatural emotional fragility, right?

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I don't know if this is the right place for this, but...

I haven't been eating enough over the past few years and as a result, I cry easily now. I'm not even a crier.

What should I do? Taking kratom should help with this recent and unnatural emotional fragility, right?

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Posted by sweethearts

The truth shall set you free.

So why don’t we adhere to the truth when it’s told to us. Why do we fight it and make up excuses for others behaviour? Deep down I think we all know the truth and sometimes when spoken out loud it hurts and makes us become defensive... but for what reason? Eventually the truth wins.

Accept it, deal with it and be free.

I don't live in denial so I can't speak on behalf of those who do. All I know is that I have very little patience for people who exhibit this coping mechanism.

If I were to make a guess as to why people resort to this BS I would say it is rooted in attachment to ideal outcomes and protection of a rather fragile ego.

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Posted by Centaur12
Posted by sweethearts

The truth shall set you free.

So why don’t we adhere to the truth when it’s told to us. Why do we fight it and make up excuses for others behaviour? Deep down I think we all know the truth and sometimes when spoken out loud it hurts and makes us become defensive... but for what reason? Eventually the truth wins.

Accept it, deal with it and be free.


Or could it be because the truth is staring me in the face and I do not see us living together in the future
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She needs to know the truth so she doesn't waste her time. Talk to her

Also it's new* not "knew". You welcome