@KittenLaRouge
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Violent Porn and Sado Masochism Against Women
I've never been a fan of it.. but as long as some women have that secret desire for men to just dominate them like that... then it will exist
I've had a few female friends confess to me that they wanted men to treat them like nasty sluts in the bedroom.
I feel like only those people who are fucked in the head are into this stuff... maybe they had dad/mom issues growing up
because I can assure you... no wife of mine will be treated like that.. she will be treated like the queen she is.
Posted by KittenLaRouge
What would cause a man to be obsessed with porn that features violence against women, fisting, ripping of skin and hardcore torture, choking, pain, BDSM against women? Does this man hate women? discuss.
Sounds like a man who does hate women, or likes to be in control, or doesn't like to lose control.
Maybe a Mars in the 8th house? I hear this can be intense. Mommy/daddy issues like AL said.
There are pornos which involve skin ripping? Ouch!
Posted by KittenLaRouge
What would cause a man to be obsessed with porn that features violence against women, fisting, ripping of skin and hardcore torture, choking, pain, BDSM against women? Does this man hate women? discuss.What would cause a woman to choose to participate in these movies?
Unless of course you're suggesting they are forced against their will?
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Not a movie, he wants to engage in real life on a regular basis
lack of class.
Watch and engage
Posted by scorpiofish2
lack of class.
Skin ripping? Seems deeper than that
Posted by KittenLaRouge
What would cause a man to be obsessed with porn that features violence against women, fisting, ripping of skin and hardcore torture, choking, pain, BDSM against women? Does this man hate women? discuss.What would cause a woman to choose to participate in these movies?
Unless of course you're suggesting they are forced against their will?
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exactly... these women DON'T HAVE to participate in it
Posted by Twodrinkminimum
What would cause a woman to be obsessed with it? You yourself are into BDSM. Just because their kinks are not exactly the same as yours...the same rules still apply.
The lighter side of it not skin ripping ass stretching severe pain and blood
Posted by AL4813
I've never been a fan of it.. but as long as some women have that secret desire for men to just dominate them like that... then it will existI've had a few female friends confess to me that they wanted men to treat them like nasty sluts in the bedroom.
I feel like only those people who are fucked in the head are into this stuff... maybe they had dad/mom issues growing up
because I can assure you... no wife of mine will be treated like that.. she will be treated like the queen she is.
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Posted by AL4813
I've never been a fan of it.. but as long as some women have that secret desire for men to just dominate them like that... then it will existI've had a few female friends confess to me that they wanted men to treat them like nasty sluts in the bedroom.
I feel like only those people who are fucked in the head are into this stuff... maybe they had dad/mom issues growing up
because I can assure you... no wife of mine will be treated like that.. she will be treated like the queen she is.
There is a fine line and a massive difference between role play e.g treating a woman like or playing the nasty slut. And a man being hateful and intentionally ripping/breaking skin making a woman bleed etc.
It's not always about 'parent' issues some ppl just genuinely get off on dominating and or being dominated.
Whatever floats your boat and all that!
For some people it's a way of life, some are dipping their toes in the pond, some exploring and others just following a 'trend' and haven't a clue what the f they are getting in to.
Whatever their reason who are we to judge?
What if a man wanted to hurt u in sex ^^^^ but said he loved u?
Posted by AL4813
I've never been a fan of it.. but as long as some women have that secret desire for men to just dominate them like that... then it will existI've had a few female friends confess to me that they wanted men to treat them like nasty sluts in the bedroom.
I feel like only those people who are fucked in the head are into this stuff... maybe they had dad/mom issues growing up
because I can assure you... no wife of mine will be treated like that.. she will be treated like the queen she is.
There is a fine line and a massive difference between role play e.g treating a woman like or playing the nasty slut. And a man being hateful and intentionally ripping/breaking skin making a woman bleed etc.
It's not always about 'parent' issues some ppl just genuinely get off on dominating and or being dominated.
Whatever floats your boat and all that!For some people it's a way of life, some are dipping their toes in the pond, some exploring and others just following a 'trend' and haven't a clue what the f they are getting in to.
Whatever their reason who are we to judge?
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well she mentioned anal stretching and bleeding... shit don't sound fun at all
Im not reall talking about dominating im talking about the SM in bdsm which is pain and sado masochism
Posted by KittenLaRouge
What if a man wanted to hurt u in sex ^^^^ but said he loved u?
Hmm depends in what he meant by hurt to be honest.
A whip, belt, paddle?? Making me yearn for his touch so badly that it 'hurt' soft (ish) play
^that with a safe word could be dealt with
Anything that was without consent NO!
Posted by AL4813
I've never been a fan of it.. but as long as some women have that secret desire for men to just dominate them like that... then it will existI've had a few female friends confess to me that they wanted men to treat them like nasty sluts in the bedroom.
I feel like only those people who are fucked in the head are into this stuff... maybe they had dad/mom issues growing up
because I can assure you... no wife of mine will be treated like that.. she will be treated like the queen she is.
There is a fine line and a massive difference between role play e.g treating a woman like or playing the nasty slut. And a man being hateful and intentionally ripping/breaking skin making a woman bleed etc.
It's not always about 'parent' issues some ppl just genuinely get off on dominating and or being dominated.
Whatever floats your boat and all that!For some people it's a way of life, some are dipping their toes in the pond, some exploring and others just following a 'trend' and haven't a clue what the f they are getting in to.
Whatever their reason who are we to judge?
well she mentioned anal stretching and bleeding... shit don't sound fun at all
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Stretching can be done without pain and it bleeding. With consent I might add!
Like I said before, it depends what you're into and what your limits are.
Posted by KittenLaRouge
Watch and engagemake up your mind.
Your OP was so loaded, and don't try to turn this into- woman vs man either.You used the terms "against" women and "does this man hate women" and "obsessed with porn" clearly suggesting porn movies, and suggesting these acts were performed against the will of another person, now you've switched it up to "actual participation" in real life, not just fantasy.
What's your agenda here?
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no agenda let me rephrase what causes a man to like to watch and engage in violent porn and want to engage in violent sex almost exclusively. does he hate woman? love woman, is is strictly sexual is he a violent person what is it?
the kind of porn and sex and am talking about are degrading women, choking them, fucking them til they bleed then bandaging them, dragging them by their hair, extreme anal fucking causing pain, bleeding. hurting the woman physically then comforting her
Posted by AL4813
I've never been a fan of it.. but as long as some women have that secret desire for men to just dominate them like that... then it will existI've had a few female friends confess to me that they wanted men to treat them like nasty sluts in the bedroom.
I feel like only those people who are fucked in the head are into this stuff... maybe they had dad/mom issues growing up
because I can assure you... no wife of mine will be treated like that.. she will be treated like the queen she is.
There is a fine line and a massive difference between role play e.g treating a woman like or playing the nasty slut. And a man being hateful and intentionally ripping/breaking skin making a woman bleed etc.
It's not always about 'parent' issues some ppl just genuinely get off on dominating and or being dominated.
Whatever floats your boat and all that!For some people it's a way of life, some are dipping their toes in the pond, some exploring and others just following a 'trend' and haven't a clue what the f they are getting in to.
Whatever their reason who are we to judge?
well she mentioned anal stretching and bleeding... shit don't sound fun at all
Stretching can be done without pain and it bleeding. With consent I might add!
Like I said before, it depends what you're into and what your limits are.
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how do you stretch without pain?
Posted by KittenLaRouge
Watch and engagemake up your mind.
Your OP was so loaded, and don't try to turn this into- woman vs man either.You used the terms "against" women and "does this man hate women" and "obsessed with porn" clearly suggesting porn movies, and suggesting these acts were performed against the will of another person, now you've switched it up to "actual participation" in real life, not just fantasy.
What's your agenda here?
no agenda let me rephrase what causes a man to like to watch and engage in violent porn and want to engage in violent sex almost exclusively. does he hate woman? love woman, is is strictly sexual is he a violent person what is it?
the kind of porn and sex and am talking about are degrading women, choking them, fucking them til they bleed then bandaging them, dragging them by their hair, extreme anal fucking causing pain, bleeding. hurting the woman physically then comforting her
Well maybe you can rephrase this thread by removing it and starting again, because your thread title and OP suggest otherwise.
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Reading comprehension not your strong point? Go back and read verry slowly.
Posted by AL4813
I've never been a fan of it.. but as long as some women have that secret desire for men to just dominate them like that... then it will existI've had a few female friends confess to me that they wanted men to treat them like nasty sluts in the bedroom.
I feel like only those people who are fucked in the head are into this stuff... maybe they had dad/mom issues growing up
because I can assure you... no wife of mine will be treated like that.. she will be treated like the queen she is.
There is a fine line and a massive difference between role play e.g treating a woman like or playing the nasty slut. And a man being hateful and intentionally ripping/breaking skin making a woman bleed etc.
It's not always about 'parent' issues some ppl just genuinely get off on dominating and or being dominated.
Whatever floats your boat and all that!For some people it's a way of life, some are dipping their toes in the pond, some exploring and others just following a 'trend' and haven't a clue what the f they are getting in to.
Whatever their reason who are we to judge?
well she mentioned anal stretching and bleeding... shit don't sound fun at all
Stretching can be done without pain and it bleeding. With consent I might add!
Like I said before, it depends what you're into and what your limits are.
how do you stretch without pain?
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Lol never quite gone there myself, but I'm assuming, with a loving and patient partner, time and lube _?'?
Posted by KittenLaRouge
Watch and engagemake up your mind.
Your OP was so loaded, and don't try to turn this into- woman vs man either.You used the terms "against" women and "does this man hate women" and "obsessed with porn" clearly suggesting porn movies, and suggesting these acts were performed against the will of another person, now you've switched it up to "actual participation" in real life, not just fantasy.
What's your agenda here?
no agenda let me rephrase what causes a man to like to watch and engage in violent porn and want to engage in violent sex almost exclusively. does he hate woman? love woman, is is strictly sexual is he a violent person what is it?
the kind of porn and sex and am talking about are degrading women, choking them, fucking them til they bleed then bandaging them, dragging them by their hair, extreme anal fucking causing pain, bleeding. hurting the woman physically then comforting her
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^ Yer This not on my allowed list!!!
The kinda man that does that sort of thing needs locking up! And or gutting! There is no love or affection in that kind of play!
However, disturbingly enough and beyond our comprehension there are women that like/allow this and actually like it.
It is beyond us 'normal' (myself anyway) folk to try and understand it on any level ?
Reading comprehension not your strong point? Go back and read verry slowly.
LOL
Didn't take you long to start with the passive aggressive attitude.I've already addressed the flaws in your thread title and opening post.
Sounds like you need a good spanking!click to expand
Don't we all?? ?_?_ lol
Yes they are lol *shocked face* :-O and *hand on mouth* (don't know how to do on here) lol
I don't consider BDSM and Fisting to be inherently violent. These are actually quite enjoyable to a small percentage of people.
Reading comprehension not your strong point? Go back and read verry slowly.
LOL
Didn't take you long to start with the passive aggressive attitude.I've already addressed the flaws in your thread title and opening post.
Sounds like you need a good spanking!click to expand
😆
People like it rough.....if its not your cuppa then change the channel
It's a matter of taste.
Fringe and disturbing to quite a few, but so long as all parties consent and are of age, it's legal, thus okay.
Yeah, no. No anal tearing please. Next.
I still got scars on my back from a damn whip. I don't like the BDSM shit. But when you put it into those terms Oh hell no! The scars are permanent and every time I look in a mirror or when my back aches, I only think of a certain Scorp who favored that shit. Hell no! Next person I date that's into that shit, (Picks up person and throws them out of car window) to the curb
Posted by SirHorns
It's a matter of taste.
Fringe and disturbing to quite a few, but so long as all parties consent and are of age, it's legal, thus okay.Yeah, no. No anal tearing please. Next.
What happens when the woman doesn't ?
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That would be sexual violence/rape considering she's being forced to doing a sexual act she doesn't consent to.
Posted by KittenLaRouge
What would cause a man to be obsessed with porn that features violence against women, fisting, ripping of skin and hardcore torture, choking, pain, BDSM against women? Does this man hate women? discuss.
Of course lol
Find love in your life.
Posted by Arielle83
It's because after awhile, you exhaust all the catagories on pornhub and need something more to produce your excitement.
Yep person in question has been fapping for years quite damaging when it comes down to real intimacy with a woman who wants love and not triple anal
Posted by KittenLaRouge
Watch and engagemake up your mind.
Your OP was so loaded, and don't try to turn this into- woman vs man either.You used the terms "against" women and "does this man hate women" and "obsessed with porn" clearly suggesting porn movies, and suggesting these acts were performed against the will of another person, now you've switched it up to "actual participation" in real life, not just fantasy.
What's your agenda here?
no agenda let me rephrase what causes a man to like to watch and engage in violent porn and want to engage in violent sex almost exclusively. does he hate woman? love woman, is is strictly sexual is he a violent person what is it?
the kind of porn and sex and am talking about are degrading women, choking them, fucking them til they bleed then bandaging them, dragging them by their hair, extreme anal fucking causing pain, bleeding. hurting the woman physically then comforting her
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Something only a sociopath would like.
i hate porn, it actually makes me sad to watch it. breaks my heart really. that this is what people think sex is all about and sex has been reduced to this. something so special twisted and warped.
Posted by KittenLaRouge
i hate porn, it actually makes me sad to watch it. breaks my heart really. that this is what people think sex is all about and sex has been reduced to this. something so special twisted and warped.So why watch it?
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i don't someone had some on and i was in the room and could leave. yuck, i feel like scouring my brain with bleach and it was only one video
i couldnt leave*
Lol exo's got it in for KittenLaRogue. I'm scared
LOL! her obsession with me is a compliment.
i must be very exciting lol
*yawn*
Posted by GreyWiz
i never understood BDSM type of stuff or sado porn. It is not a turn on. ego overpowers pleasure and love/lust in those types.
i love bdsm there is a lot of exchange of love emotions and trust... true bdsm
It stems from Madonna whore complex, the inability to maintain arousal in a committed loving relationship. It was identified by sigmundFreud and is said to develop in men who view women as saintly Madonna or a slutty prostitute. Men with this complex desire a woman who has been degraded (whore) while they cannot express their sexuality with their respected wives (Madonna)
It's pretty stupid really, women are categorised into two types of women by men, clean and sluts lol it's very limiting to what they can portray in society.
i hate the fact that you cant get what you see out of your brain. it gets embedded there yuck
Different people get turned on by different things. Sometimes the more forbidden, taboo, and wrong, the more arousing.
I'm into trailer park bisexual swingers arm, it's gross but I can't look away
Posted by The_eleventh_sign_11
It's pretty stupid really, women are categorised into two types of women by men, clean and sluts lol it's very limiting to what they can portray in society.
Isn't that how men are categorized too though? The exciting playboy..., and the nice guy you eventually settle down with, once you're jaded enough and done with "dating"?
Posted by The_eleventh_sign_11
It stems from Madonna whore complex, the inability to maintain arousal in a committed loving relationship. It was identified by sigmundFreud and is said to develop in men who view women as saintly Madonna or a slutty prostitute. Men with this complex desire a woman who has been degraded (whore) while they cannot express their sexuality with their respected wives (Madonna)It's pretty stupid really, women are categorised into two types of women by men, clean and sluts lol it's very limiting to what they can portray in society.
this totally resonates with me. The madonna whore complex I get it
What if a man wanted to hurt u in sex ^^^^ but said he loved u?
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What would cause a man to be obsessed with porn that features violence against women, fisting, ripping of skin and hardcore torture, choking, pain, BDSM against women? Does this man hate women? discuss.