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Posted by Gemitati
So? Like I am listening to you and taking your ‘advice’ into consideration?Are you stupid or what? Lol
You don't have a right to cheat. It's morally wrong and you're going to hell.
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We ARE IN HELL! here. Now!
With you...don’t you feeling it? Lol
Posted by Gemitati
At your age...I wouldn’t even bother to think! And I had not. And see? I am fine.You can be to. Just relax. And get out...
Nooooo! How can you leave dxp? Right? It’s better than sex with a real person! Moron!
Enjoy ceasing to exist for eternity, while I get to go to heaven and fuck bitches for all eternity because I do things fairly and morally right.
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You need mental help or lay off whatever you smoking.
Posted by Cancervirgo15degrees
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Posted by Gemitati
Just jerk off and nevermind! You have a life ahead of you unless you are drug addict or whatever crap you are doing...Shrug, was just pointing out a fatal flaw in your mentality. It's your life, and honestly your husband is pretty fucking dumb to not know what is going on. What's that saying? Do it once shame on you, do it twice shame on me?
He knows! Since 8 years ago. He choose not to know. It’s his comfort zone.
And he is happy!
Wait what
You said he knows. Then you said he choose NOT to know. Does he know or what?
Of course he knows! Since Day first!
When I had grabbed his arm and said I will follow this man unleashed to wherever he wants me to go...
My impulse was honestly HIGH!
Lol
So then you are in an open relationship.
No! I have to make up some ‘tale’ to get out so I would hurt his feelings...
K.so why doesnt this guy and you just go get married?
Eventually with God’s will...too soon.
Too much $ $ $ issues!
He has money issues or you do?
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It’s complicated baby! He will have to give it all up! Law is not perfect. Man must give it all up.
Posted by Sodapop
It’s only fair to get half though, especially if there are kids involved, otherwise how would they live if the woman had no career? They’d live off of welfare.Why are we just automatically granting that the woman get custody? If she wouldn't have jack shit without mooching off of the husband, then it really makes you rethink the idea that the woman is a better caretaker when the father is the one providing LITERALLY EVERYTHING. If the Husband doesn't want custody. Then he should have to finance the Children. But only them, not the mother too. If the woman can't support herself even then, then she should lose custody and the father should be forced to take custody of them regardless of what he wants.
I agree though, I no longer believe in marriage. It’s one of these things that surprisingly somehow has lasted this long!? It’s only after I got married to my ex that I realized how it’s not for me.
Just to be clear I'm not saying that to say monogamously committed relationships shouldn't exist, just FYI. But obviously Marriage won't do jack dick to "force" a person to be loyal. Either they will or they won't, and that is true even if you just stay committed by pure choice of will, or you cheat in an 8 year long relationship.
Of course it also DOES make things less complicated in general. In a regular girlfriend/boyfriend relationship you can break up as soon as you desire to. In marriage you are forced to be "with" someone even when you don't want to be. Without marriage, whenever someone cheats it's easier to just tell the person to fuck off and walk out the door. It's also easier to orchestrate open relationships and polygamy that way.
Over all it makes things less complicated no matter what kind of relationship you want.
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Our kids are older than you idiot!
Lol!
just passing time at work
Posted by Cancervirgo15degrees
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Posted by Gemitati
Just jerk off and nevermind! You have a life ahead of you unless you are drug addict or whatever crap you are doing...Shrug, was just pointing out a fatal flaw in your mentality. It's your life, and honestly your husband is pretty fucking dumb to not know what is going on. What's that saying? Do it once shame on you, do it twice shame on me?
He knows! Since 8 years ago. He choose not to know. It’s his comfort zone.
And he is happy!
Wait what
You said he knows. Then you said he choose NOT to know. Does he know or what?
Of course he knows! Since Day first!
When I had grabbed his arm and said I will follow this man unleashed to wherever he wants me to go...
My impulse was honestly HIGH!
Lol
So then you are in an open relationship.
No! I have to make up some ‘tale’ to get out so I would hurt his feelings...
K.so why doesnt this guy and you just go get married?
Eventually with God’s will...too soon.
Too much $ $ $ issues!
He has money issues or you do?
It’s complicated baby! He will have to give it all up! Law is not perfect. Man must give it all up.
He could have hidden a lot of assets and money over the years.
And if he leaves and you guys only become public after the divorce is final he wont have to give as much.
Well anyway. Its just money
He can make it all back
Its no big deal.
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I know. Future will tell. I am not in a hurry.
I am waiting. No pressuring Scorpio! Or else...and I don’t need ‘or else’...lol
Posted by hydorah
just passing time at work
You have work? Please marry me and I will cook your turkey! Lol
finding a place to hide.
Posted by hydorah
just passing time at workYou have work? Please marry me and I will cook your turkey! Lol
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my turkey is too big for you, even though you must have a spacious oven
Posted by Gemitati
We ARE IN HELL! here. Now!With you...don’t you feeling it? Lol
Nah, this is Purgatory.
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You are...impossible! And you need to get some...life!
Seriously. Just go get some air! Poor thing...
Posted by hydorah
just passing time at workYou have work? Please marry me and I will cook your turkey! Lol
my turkey is too big for you, even though you must have a spacious oven
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You are up to the point!
Wait...what’s your point...size? Lol
Posted by Gemitati
At your age...I wouldn’t even bother to think! And I had not. And see? I am fine.You can be to. Just relax. And get out...
Nooooo! How can you leave dxp? Right? It’s better than sex with a real person! Moron!
Enjoy ceasing to exist for eternity, while I get to go to heaven and fuck bitches for all eternity because I do things fairly and morally right.
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Gross. If that's heaven please fictional god send me to hell instead so I won't be used as a disposable commodity for toothpaste dick.
Posted by Cancervirgo15degrees
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Posted by Gemitati
Just jerk off and nevermind! You have a life ahead of you unless you are drug addict or whatever crap you are doing...Shrug, was just pointing out a fatal flaw in your mentality. It's your life, and honestly your husband is pretty fucking dumb to not know what is going on. What's that saying? Do it once shame on you, do it twice shame on me?
He knows! Since 8 years ago. He choose not to know. It’s his comfort zone.
And he is happy!
Wait what
You said he knows. Then you said he choose NOT to know. Does he know or what?
Of course he knows! Since Day first!
When I had grabbed his arm and said I will follow this man unleashed to wherever he wants me to go...
My impulse was honestly HIGH!
Lol
So then you are in an open relationship.
No! I have to make up some ‘tale’ to get out so I would hurt his feelings...
K.so why doesnt this guy and you just go get married?
Eventually with God’s will...too soon.
Too much $ $ $ issues!
He has money issues or you do?
It’s complicated baby! He will have to give it all up! Law is not perfect. Man must give it all up.
He could have hidden a lot of assets and money over the years.
And if he leaves and you guys only become public after the divorce is final he wont have to give as much.
Well anyway. Its just money
He can make it all back
Its no big deal.
I know. Future will tell. I am not in a hurry.
I am waiting. No pressuring Scorpio! Or else...and I don’t need ‘or else’...lol
My ex's cousin had an affair with a married man for 17 years and even had his baby. He finally left his wife a couple years ago and now they are married and have another baby.
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Love is unpredictable. Thanks for sharing.
That’s like a breath of a fresh air!
❤️
Posted by Gemitati
You are...impossible! And you need to get some...life!Seriously. Just go get some air! Poor thing...
You need some Jesus.
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Stfu! Will you? I am Jewish...lol
Posted by Gemitati
At your age...I wouldn’t even bother to think! And I had not. And see? I am fine.You can be to. Just relax. And get out...
Nooooo! How can you leave dxp? Right? It’s better than sex with a real person! Moron!
Enjoy ceasing to exist for eternity, while I get to go to heaven and fuck bitches for all eternity because I do things fairly and morally right.
Gross. If that's heaven please send me to hell fictional god so I won't be used as a disposable commodity for toothpaste dick.
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You can be funny sometimes...lol
Posted by HankJWimbleton
Flirting:A form of sexual harassment and horrific animal instinct from the desires of passing down one's DNA. Happens when someone is expecting a never-lasting relationship.
thus .my need to hide
Posted by HankJWimbleton
Flirting:A form of sexual harassment and horrific animal instinct from the desires of passing down one's DNA. Happens when someone is expecting a never-lasting relationship.
thus .my need to hide
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Hide and eat something...
Posted by LadyNeptune
Gross. If that's heaven please send me to hell fictional god so I won't be used as a disposable commodity for toothpaste dick.My conception of heaven is completely unconventional, so whatever you are picturing is a million steps behind where I'm at intellectually speaking. I was a hard-line Atheist for 7 years, and all bout logic and science. I was going through my teen years when the New Atheism Movement was fresh and cool. So that frames what kind of perspective I would have on God, the afterlife, and religion. Even after converting.
To give you a hint, it's a lot more vague and abstract than the Modern Christian ascribes to. My belief is that it's a "place" where only Good things can happen. But that leaves things very... loose. Ultimately, you can have sex there. Or watch football. Or whatever suits your fancy. The especially important part, the part which you don't get, is that what I would have meant when I described "fucking bitches for all eternity". Is that I would have consensual NSA sex with women who desire the same thing.
I figured it would be... somewhat obvious. Considering I said that in response to, and to spite, a woman who is cheating on her husband. Considering that and everything else I said at the time, I thought it was obvious I was trying to strike a contrast between how she doesn't see the necessity to do things consensually and fair. Especially because, you know. I said "because I do things fairly and morally right. which "using people as a disposable commodity" like you are describing. Would be morally wrong? But having consensual NSA sex isn't using people as a disposable commodity, at least not any more than they are doing the same to me? So it's fair?
But, nonono. Let's get something straight. It's women who treat men as a disposable commodity. We are literally the ones who died en masse like Red Shirt star trek characters under the "women and children are sacred" policy for millenia. And when the issue of sex in military and such was confronted by women, it was made out to be a Woman's Rights issue. Rather than the other way around, when women WEREN'T THE ONES BEING TURNED INTO CANON FODDER IN SEXIST FASHION.
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Life is easier if you can learn to laugh at yourself.
Posted by Gemitati
Stfu! Will you? I am Jewish...lolYou need some God then. Either way.
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I have one. And you have the same one. I don’t curse and you do. How do you ‘believe’ and have your mouth running?
Oops? Kiss my ass...
Posted by HankJWimbleton
Flirting:A form of sexual harassment and horrific animal instinct from the desires of passing down one's DNA. Happens when someone is expecting a never-lasting relationship.
thus .my need to hide
Hide and eat something...
Still better than the old medieval days, where people rape and pillage without permission.
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Yeah...they had no idea about taxes!
Lol
What’s rape without permission?
As supposed to what? Rape with permission?
When you wnt sum fuk but it's still too soon to admit it.
Posted by Smidge
It's fun.It’s like jerking the person for own ego boost? Fun indeed...
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maybe flirting is more like trying to give an ego boost to someone else, who needs it 🙂
I only flirt when I think some other person needs to be noticed or is somehow neglected in a party, to make him feel good
my flirting is always a "charity" kind of thing
Posted by HankJWimbleton
Flirting:A form of sexual harassment and horrific animal instinct from the desires of passing down one's DNA. Happens when someone is expecting a never-lasting relationship.
thus .my need to hide
Hide and eat something...
Still better than the old medieval days, where people rape and pillage without permission.
Yeah...they had no idea about taxes!
Lol
What’s rape without permission?
As supposed to what? Rape with permission?
It's where people like the vikings pillage other nations and do horrible things to the local women, back then there is no international laws in some nations regarding to woman's rights. You can sort of guess what it's like if you a woman and the vikings knocked on your door, prepare for abortion.
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It doesn’t explain flirting nor rape with permission.
Posted by Gemitati
I have one. And you have the same one. I don’t curse and you do. How do you ‘believe’ and have your mouth running?Oops? Kiss my ass...
But I mean you need to commune with him more. Cause he doesn't approve of cheating, I'm sure of that much.
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He doesn’t approve cursing as well. Doesn’t stop you hippocrit!!!
Posted by Smidge
It's fun.It’s like jerking the person for own ego boost? Fun indeed...
maybe flirting is more like trying to give an ego boost to someone else, who needs it 🙂
I only flirt when I think some other person needs to be noticed or is somehow neglected in a party, to make him feel good
my flirting is always a "charity" kind of thing
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So plain talking wouldn’t do? Got to make it sexual? Really?
Posted by Smidge
It's fun.It’s like jerking the person for own ego boost? Fun indeed...
maybe flirting is more like trying to give an ego boost to someone else, who needs it 🙂
I only flirt when I think some other person needs to be noticed or is somehow neglected in a party, to make him feel good
my flirting is always a "charity" kind of thing
So plain talking wouldn’t do? Got to make it sexual? Really?
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what is your definition of flirting? what "got to make it sexual" is in your book? 🙂
give an example of flirting
Posted by Smidge
It's fun.It’s like jerking the person for own ego boost? Fun indeed...
maybe flirting is more like trying to give an ego boost to someone else, who needs it 🙂
I only flirt when I think some other person needs to be noticed or is somehow neglected in a party, to make him feel good
my flirting is always a "charity" kind of thing
So plain talking wouldn’t do? Got to make it sexual? Really?
what is your definition of flirting? what "got to make it sexual" is in your book? 🙂
give an example of flirting
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I can’t because I don’t!
Posted by Gemitati
He doesn’t approve cursing as well. Doesn’t stop you hippocrit!!!There is nothing logically morally wrong with having bad manners. Clearly people of the past were just biased. But you can't say the same about cheating because it is objectively wrong. I'm just giving you a heads up, I have no ill will because every human is flawed and has evil in them.
It is righteous that you pursue love. But your intentions are less than honest. If you were truly fighting for the cause of love, you would extend the basic respect and dignity all humans deserve, to your husband. Instead of using him as a doormat.
You have no recognition for Karma or Dharma. You clearly deny the existence of consequences to your actions. That is why you are going to hell. How would you feel if you were in his shoes? If your affair lover guy was cheating on you for years without you knowing?
It doesn't matter what you think of that statement. You can't go on in the universe unpunished. It's going to happen because you do not depart from your sin.
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And now it’s Dharma? Lol
And I don’t believe in hell!
And I don’t give a rats patooty about anyone’s opinion on my love. I can read for laughs but care? Naaah...
Too much credit for you.
Sorry I don’t care. I know you wish we’ve met in hell but...sorry! One can only hope.
Lol
LAnd now it’s Dharma? Lol
And I don’t believe in hell!
And I don’t give a rats patooty about anyone’s opinion on my love. I can read for laughs but care? Naaah...
Too much credit for you.
Sorry I don’t care. I know you wish we’ve met in hell but...sorry! One can only hope.
Lol
Yes you do. Jews just don't believe in a place of eternal suffering. They believe "hell" is ceasing to exist for all eternity. Which is probably more realistic. Because why would God LET you exist, if you are evil? You are erasing your name from the book of life.
Whereas I get to continue existing forever. So you and your retarded actions will cease to matter for all eternity because it won't exist. Your love will never have existed.
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So?
Do you really think I give a damn?
Why do YOU so hyped up on my love life?
Because you don’t have your own?
It drives me insane how people just up my ass without any reason knowing that I will proceed as I am and give no shit about anyone’s opinion. Because my love is the sweet torture and I found beauty in suffering...
You must not know your Hinduism. Dharma is the one that deals with Moral standing. Dharma is the path of moral perfection. Karma is merely the record of one's actions. Dharma is the measure of what defines an action as good or bad.
So yes, it's "Dharma" now. Because you clearly believe you can wrong your husband and get away with it. But no evil shall escape the Light. End of story.
I don’t know MY Hinduism?
How about I don’t give a fk—
And if you believe in God - Hinduism should be least of your concern!
MY Hinduism...😂💦🤣🤣😂
Posted by HankJWimbleton
Not sure if Anti-Nazis fit in that category.An Anti-Nazi Anti-Semitic. That's pretty fucking hilarious to imagine actually.
I guess someone could be a more civil and tame "Anti-Semitic". As in, they don't believe they should be killed. But then again I'm sure not all Nazis had truly believed what Hitler was making them do. Just like I'm sure there are plenty of Neo-Nazis that are all talk and couldn't actually hurt a fly.
But that's not the point. They're still in 1 of the same lines as them. Because they irrationally oppose a particular group of people. Just like any racist, is of a kind with the KKK. Even if they don't burn crosses in people's yards and hang people.
It's strange that I saw a KKK leader in purple clothing shook hand with an African man on TV, does that mean world peace is getting closer?
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Lmao! I think that handshake was like: so we agree...you die next!
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Posted by HankJWimbleton
Flirting:A form of sexual harassment and horrific animal instinct from the desires of passing down one's DNA. Happens when someone is expecting a never-lasting relationship.
thus .my need to hide
Hide and eat something...
Still better than the old medieval days, where people rape and pillage without permission.
Yeah...they had no idea about taxes!
Lol
What’s rape without permission?
As supposed to what? Rape with permission?
It's where people like the vikings pillage other nations and do horrible things to the local women, back then there is no international laws in some nations regarding to woman's rights. You can sort of guess what it's like if you a woman and the vikings knocked on your door, prepare for abortion.
It doesn’t explain flirting nor rape with permission.
If you had the permission of the opposite sex then it's not rape.
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Apparently we don’t know all the technicalities...lol
Posted by Smidge
It's fun.It’s like jerking the person for own ego boost? Fun indeed...
maybe flirting is more like trying to give an ego boost to someone else, who needs it 🙂
I only flirt when I think some other person needs to be noticed or is somehow neglected in a party, to make him feel good
my flirting is always a "charity" kind of thing
So plain talking wouldn’t do? Got to make it sexual? Really?
what is your definition of flirting? what "got to make it sexual" is in your book? 🙂
give an example of flirting
I can’t because I don’t!
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but something made you start this topic, so give an example of the flirting what you witnessed and made you angry 🙂
Posted by Smidge
It's fun.It’s like jerking the person for own ego boost? Fun indeed...
maybe flirting is more like trying to give an ego boost to someone else, who needs it 🙂
I only flirt when I think some other person needs to be noticed or is somehow neglected in a party, to make him feel good
my flirting is always a "charity" kind of thing
So plain talking wouldn’t do? Got to make it sexual? Really?
what is your definition of flirting? what "got to make it sexual" is in your book? 🙂
give an example of flirting
I can’t because I don’t!
but something made you start this topic, so give an example of the flirting what you witnessed and made you angry 🙂
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It was another poster here on a same day I started this thread who was talking about flirting with someone standing beside her bf who was ok with her flirting.
Which I thought was a bullshit! No man would be happily watching his woman flirting with someone unless he is a doormat!
Posted by Aliensusedourbogroll
Hey Gemitati, what would you do if a woman flirted with you?
I would trying to figures out what to do.
Is there protocol?
It's the opposite of creepy and sleazy. It's nice. It's when both peeps enjoy it.
It's when there is mutual respect and understanding as a basis for indicating you REALLY like someone.
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Hey Gemitati, what would you do if a woman flirted with you?I would trying to figures out what to do.
Is there protocol?
Look them in the eye and give them a firm,steady handshake. Whoever lets go first is the submissive.
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How about just ‘let’s get a room’ and see who is sub as it goes? Lol
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Hey Gemitati, what would you do if a woman flirted with you?I would trying to figures out what to do.
Is there protocol?
Look them in the eye and give them a firm,steady handshake. Whoever lets go first is the submissive.
How about just ‘let’s get a room’ and see who is sub as it goes? Lol
That’s advanced flirting. Give it a go if you’re feeling confident.
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When confident - you say ‘wherenis the ring?’...
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Eventually with God’s will...too soon.
Too much $ $ $ issues!