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Posted by mzmee
Paranoid fuckers. LmaoSo I'm drunk, right. Don't judge because it's 5o clock some where. We just got thru having a light celebration with my friend. Cheering and crying. The sweetest thing in the world.
I'm so happy for her, for them. And yes, she's gonna throw dat ass in a circle in Paris and make babies.
Now stop all this bickering bullshit, hug and be friends again. Capeesh—
it's past 5am there?
jeeesshhh!!
at least you can sleep in all Saturday. lol
drink up.
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3:55 pm here.
We're about to take her to the store right now. She has to knock his socks off this evening. And yes, I will slumber well.
Definitely choose Truth-
but I couldn't assume it would be a bad thing,
that's deduced from the phrasing on the first letter - remain happy (implication or else)
BUT the Truth might be :we won the Lotto prepare for Cloud9
Iol!
I didn't want to offend the OP's love story with her couple.
but it sounded unrealistic and a movie, disneylike.
I wouldn't want a man like that to be honest. No man I know is like that. if he is, he is hiding something.
edit even after years of marriage— *smh*
I had almost forgotten that my man has written me ORIGINAL poetry and writing. lol
he is very talented. but that's not where he wants to put his talents.
he just shows his love in different ways, more materialistic and more action.
but he definitely would NEVER use someone's words, or movie, ect.
using songs in weddings are different though. it's not like he's gonna form a band and start singing. lol
Posted by aquasnoz
I'd choose to be happy.Certainly I'd know the truth already.
same
no way on earth i'd be happy for even a few hours when there is something damaging that i do not detect. i feel / see the smallest changes
Posted by mzmee
Say you've been married for 10 years and everything about your marriage was your definition of perfection.You walk in one day and there are two envelopes on the table with your spouses handwriting. One envelope says "Remain happy" and the other says "Know the truth" which would you choose and why?
Edit: You can only read one. So don't think of looking at both. After reading one of the envelopes, you vow to stay married.
Remain happy if you know deep inside that you can't handle truth.
The movie reference is something they share. An insider for them.
Y'all too much. Lmao.
*Sips mojito*
Posted by lisabethur8
I had almost forgotten that my man has written me ORIGINAL poetry and writing. lolhe is very talented. but that's not where he wants to put his talents.
he just shows his love in different ways, more materialistic and more action.
but he definitely would NEVER use someone's words, or movie, ect.
using songs in weddings are different though. it's not like he's gonna form a band and start singing. lol
I doubt dude was trying to write a movie. I'm sure it was part of the act.
Y'all are way to deep. Stop reaching lol.
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I would be SOOO offended if I was re-watching harry met sally and then .....go....HUH??
wait....*runs to the piece of love note*
what... the .....fuck??
dude.
not cool.
Posted by mzmee
The movie reference is something they share. An insider for them.Y'all too much. Lmao.
*Sips mojito*
soooooo corny. lol
but what I don't get...is that he asks for a fragrance she likes.
what? she doesn't know after all those years?
Posted by mzmee
The movie reference is something they share. An insider for them.Y'all too much. Lmao.
*Sips mojito*
soooooo corny. lol
but what I don't get...is that he asks for a fragrance she likes.
what? she doesn't know after all those years?
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The answer she gave let's him know what envelope she picked.
Posted by mzmee
The movie reference is something they share. An insider for them.Y'all too much. Lmao.
*Sips mojito*
soooooo corny. lol
but what I don't get...is that he asks for a fragrance she likes.
what? she doesn't know after all those years?
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Corny but so damn cute!!!
Gotta admit it.
I don't really like the scenario though. lol it's not our kind of love style though.
but good for her and him.
My kind of love style is Archie Bunker and Edith. lol
its not for everyone.
Posted by lisabethur8
I don't really like the scenario though. lol it's not our kind of love style though.but good for her and him.
My kind of love style is Archie Bunker and Edith. lol
its not for everyone.
Hahahahaaaa
So you've got the hots for Mr. Defense.
I'm into Rocky and Adrian
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lol
he's cancer venus. Water venus love....
Posted by lisabethur8
I had almost forgotten that my man has written me ORIGINAL poetry and writing. lolhe is very talented. but that's not where he wants to put his talents.
he just shows his love in different ways, more materialistic and more action.
but he definitely would NEVER use someone's words, or movie, ect.
using songs in weddings are different though. it's not like he's gonna form a band and start singing. lol
I doubt dude was trying to write a movie. I'm sure it was part of the act.
Y'all are way to deep. Stop reaching lol.
I would be SOOO offended if I was re-watching harry met sally and then .....go....HUH??
wait....*runs to the piece of love note*
what... the .....fuck??
dude.
not cool.
So I guess you get offended when he buys you a dozen red roses.
I guess you got offended when he got on one knee
I guess you get offended with back rubs and foot rubs
I guess you get offended when he says "I love you"
I guess you get offended when he calls you "baby"
I guess you get offended when he takes you out on V-day.
None of this is original. It's been said and done before.
Sorry to bust your bubble he's not an innovator. There are some things he's duplicated.
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if he didn't tell me he got it from some movie, then it's just weird.
if he told me then fine. or like what the OP said, an inside joke. lol
Obviously know the truth one. If I chose the other one, the "truth" in that other envelope would come back later to bite me in the butt anyway.
Besides, even if I chose the "remain 'happy'" envelope, a question of treason would be in the back of my mind for the rest of that 'marriage'. And I presume it'd be in the back of yours too.
Posted by Nemilicious
i was a bit intrigued by this topic/scenario at first; but upon knowing myself pretty darn well, realized this would not fly too well with my personality.yes; i recognize the romantic gesture; i understand the "good" intent but after all the exitement and cuddles and tears of relief settled down; i'd say wait a minute ....did you really try to test me?
nothing good would come of this. it would ignite a whole new debatte.
yeah know thyself. very good point.
Idk... maybe find out the truth. And depending on how big the infidelity was.. i wouldn't be able to vow forever marriage if he had an affair. Maybe if it was a one night stand type of thing with a random I could get over it. But even then probably not bcz at first I'd be like.. oh okay.. we can work through this. Then eventually the seed would be planted in my head and I'd obsess over it constantly and it would destroy me and I would destroy him. ?
I realise I haven't answered your question.
Posted by lisabethur8
I had almost forgotten that my man has written me ORIGINAL poetry and writing. lolhe is very talented. but that's not where he wants to put his talents.
he just shows his love in different ways, more materialistic and more action.
but he definitely would NEVER use someone's words, or movie, ect.
using songs in weddings are different though. it's not like he's gonna form a band and start singing. lol
I doubt dude was trying to write a movie. I'm sure it was part of the act.
Y'all are way to deep. Stop reaching lol.
I would be SOOO offended if I was re-watching harry met sally and then .....go....HUH??
wait....*runs to the piece of love note*
what... the .....fuck??
dude.
not cool.
So I guess you get offended when he buys you a dozen red roses.
I guess you got offended when he got on one knee
I guess you get offended with back rubs and foot rubs
I guess you get offended when he says "I love you"
I guess you get offended when he calls you "baby"
I guess you get offended when he takes you out on V-day.
None of this is original. It's been said and done before.
Sorry to bust your bubble he's not an innovator. There are some things he's duplicated.
if he didn't tell me he got it from some movie, then it's just weird.
if he told me then fine. or like what the OP said, an inside joke. lol
Yeah yeah. Laugh it off move on. Don't kill the dude for a sense of humor.
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this is also an astrology forum, everyone has different love style s/quirks
what's good for you isn't good for some of us. I accept that a long time ago. so cool for them.
Posted by mzmee
Quiet now huh? Smdh...so; the beans are spilled. cool story.
what are their signs?
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Two Scorpios
I'd read both. I'm a pisces, I can do that
but I'd probably already know all there is to know anyway
Who's to say the truth is unhappy?
Or has somebody said that already?
I think the fact there is a "truth" envelope and if I passed it up it would eat me alive and ultimately effect my happiness, so definately the truth!
I rather to be hurt than fooled!
However who said you must stay if you don't want to? That part wasn't smart nor realistic!
If it happened to me, I may.. I MAY JUST... write a letter and hand it to my SO and go somewhere for a week.
The letter will read...
"GTFO... 10 years and you're still playing mind games fk off see you in a week"
but talk about an anticlimax
I was hoping for something a bit more fun than a blatant movie rip off.
Posted by aquasnoz
If it happened to me, I may.. I MAY JUST... write a letter and hand it to my SO and go somewhere for a week.The letter will read...
"GTFO... 10 years and you're still playing mind games fk off see you in a week"
but talk about an anticlimax
I was hoping for something a bit more fun than a blatant movie rip off.
lol "fk off" always seems more harsh than "fuck off" when I read it
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Truth is I said it out loud when I wrote it out with my best glaswegian accent.
it's kind of the same concept when a man proposes and gives you a zirconia, and tells you it's so real. diamond!! and it's fake. Zirconias are still expensive though, so maybe a fake fake ring.
Posted by lisabethur8
it's kind of the same concept when a man proposes and gives you a zirconia, and tells you it's so real. diamond!! and it's fake. Zirconias are still expensive though, so maybe a fake fake ring.No I think it fits more in line with this story. How a man hides a marriage proposal in a children's story book. "Creativity" not scamming. But if you are a person who feels easily manipulated AND that everyone is out to get you. Don't try this at home. Lol
http://www.today.com/news/man-hides-marriage-proposal-custom-made-childrens-book-1C9222722
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that is just soooo sweet!!!
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it's past 5am there?
jeeesshhh!!
at least you can sleep in all Saturday. lol
drink up.