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Another Virgo man here...

I have been keeping a very loose eye on your threads for the past few months...and I have to say overall you likely need to back off.

I will start by saying, I understand that you're in pain, a bit lost, let down, angry, sad and hurt...with that acknowledgment I know that it is hard to just let it go.

While it may be hard to let go of him...you have to for your own sake.

You're violating boundaries (his, and believe it or not, yours) despite very significant signals that this relationship would not be a healthy one.

When you give no concern for his emotions and make it his responsibility to make sure you're okay you express selfishness, self-absorption, and emotional immaturity (it does not matter what your intent was or is) at the very minimum.

In the long run, you are setting yourself up for constant disappointment, dismissal, and maybe harm (emotionally, legally, god forbid but perhaps even physically given what you said).

The Virgo male archetype is cool-headed, practical, cautious, reserved...not prone to lose sight of himself even if he is very much so in love...you pressing him as you have likely pushed him away as your efforts smack of desperation and obsession and both of those ways of being are massive red flags to anyone who wants a healthy relationship.

When you refuse to accept what another person's wishes are for themselves (provided those wishes have nothing to do with you and does not harm them or others), you express disrespect of the other person's dignity.

As much as you may want to "convince" him all you're doing is embarrassing yourself and losing out on the opportunity to present yourself as mature and self-sufficient and to a certain degree damaging your self-esteem.

Homegirl is nuts, this is too nice. But regardless of the man's sign. If he wanted to he would. A man would move earth and heaven to be with the one he wants, I have seen it happen, and I have had it happen to me. There are some exceptions but this situation isn't. He doesn't want her, not even as a friend.

Desperation is disgusting regardless of gender or sign

Why he don't want me as a friend? What wrong did I do??

We can't read each other's minds, so asking us about what his distinct thoughts, feelings, and beliefs are on you is a waste of effort on your part, you likely will not get a very accurate or useful answer...all we can do is hold up the mirror you provided us with your stories.

But while we can't read his mind, we can ask you a few questions in return. Please consider them and respond if you wish.

Would someone who wants to be your friend, treat you like this?

Would you want someone who treats you like this to treat your child like this?

Would you want your child/lil sister to be treated like this?

Would you want a person who is interested in you to act in the way you have been acting which is volatile and wrathful, harassing, and demanding?

last question answer is i absolutely love that kind of person who is like me, because i see love in myself, i would love a get a despo like me❤️

Even if what you wanted was healthy, the virgo you are interested in is clearly not that person.

Beyond that, what about the other questions? Do you have answers for those?

Even further beyond that, what do you think desperation represents here?

deaperation here is feeling needed

Is that true? People are needed all the time in relationships but in non-desperate ways, desperation never even enters into the conversation I would like to ask you to reflect on that reality because need does not equal desperation...but those who are desperate definitely have unmet needs.

So I ask this instead...what is it that you are needing?

since i built a lot of love on him since an year. he loved me a lot before an year. we got 1 year break of not seeing each other. i broke him 1 year ago. he is breaking me now very brutally

Okay, but honestly what are you needing? Not from the Virgo, but in a relationship? What are the things you are needing?

i am needing his past love, i am needing his past caring nature for me

I will restate, what do you need from a relationship, not from a relationship with the virgo you are focused on but on any romantic relationship...what is it that you need in a relationship to feel safe?

i need this virgo man to still love me and care for me the way he done previously

Do you consider yourself to be a respectful person?

i am, but this virgo man pushed me too far by treating me wrong at every point

Is someone who is not acting respectfully, a respectful person in that moment?
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no, i received threats from him, maybe his brother sent me that. few days ago, when he spoke to me on call he said how angry his brother was on him due to me, and he said he will talk to me later and told me not to call or message him as myself and kept off the call and after that i received a message pleasee don't message or call me again..... idk what happened, i got angry on him and lashed out in anger in chat. don't know who was using that phone, and who saw my messages, i got no response, and after few days i told himm that i hate you a lot, and someone saw my message i didn't get a reply for like 10 hours, and after 10 hours i got a response get life for you, and i started expressing how sad i was and how badly i was feeling about myself due to him and started expressing my innocent feelings of hurt and i got a response that i will block you and respect dangers and i was like shocked! Is it really him? Or his brother?! i wanted to know the truths, since dangers were being mentioned, so i want someone to ask him about this now
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Another Virgo man here...

I have been keeping a very loose eye on your threads for the past few months...and I have to say overall you likely need to back off.

I will start by saying, I understand that you're in pain, a bit lost, let down, angry, sad and hurt...with that acknowledgment I know that it is hard to just let it go.

While it may be hard to let go of him...you have to for your own sake.

You're violating boundaries (his, and believe it or not, yours) despite very significant signals that this relationship would not be a healthy one.

When you give no concern for his emotions and make it his responsibility to make sure you're okay you express selfishness, self-absorption, and emotional immaturity (it does not matter what your intent was or is) at the very minimum.

In the long run, you are setting yourself up for constant disappointment, dismissal, and maybe harm (emotionally, legally, god forbid but perhaps even physically given what you said).

The Virgo male archetype is cool-headed, practical, cautious, reserved...not prone to lose sight of himself even if he is very much so in love...you pressing him as you have likely pushed him away as your efforts smack of desperation and obsession and both of those ways of being are massive red flags to anyone who wants a healthy relationship.

When you refuse to accept what another person's wishes are for themselves (provided those wishes have nothing to do with you and does not harm them or others), you express disrespect of the other person's dignity.

As much as you may want to "convince" him all you're doing is embarrassing yourself and losing out on the opportunity to present yourself as mature and self-sufficient and to a certain degree damaging your self-esteem.

Homegirl is nuts, this is too nice. But regardless of the man's sign. If he wanted to he would. A man would move earth and heaven to be with the one he wants, I have seen it happen, and I have had it happen to me. There are some exceptions but this situation isn't. He doesn't want her, not even as a friend.

Desperation is disgusting regardless of gender or sign

Why he don't want me as a friend? What wrong did I do??

We can't read each other's minds, so asking us about what his distinct thoughts, feelings, and beliefs are on you is a waste of effort on your part, you likely will not get a very accurate or useful answer...all we can do is hold up the mirror you provided us with your stories.

But while we can't read his mind, we can ask you a few questions in return. Please consider them and respond if you wish.

Would someone who wants to be your friend, treat you like this?

Would you want someone who treats you like this to treat your child like this?

Would you want your child/lil sister to be treated like this?

Would you want a person who is interested in you to act in the way you have been acting which is volatile and wrathful, harassing, and demanding?

last question answer is i absolutely love that kind of person who is like me, because i see love in myself, i would love a get a despo like me❤️

Even if what you wanted was healthy, the virgo you are interested in is clearly not that person.

Beyond that, what about the other questions? Do you have answers for those?

Even further beyond that, what do you think desperation represents here?

deaperation here is feeling needed

Is that true? People are needed all the time in relationships but in non-desperate ways, desperation never even enters into the conversation I would like to ask you to reflect on that reality because need does not equal desperation...but those who are desperate definitely have unmet needs.

So I ask this instead...what is it that you are needing?

since i built a lot of love on him since an year. he loved me a lot before an year. we got 1 year break of not seeing each other. i broke him 1 year ago. he is breaking me now very brutally

Okay, but honestly what are you needing? Not from the Virgo, but in a relationship? What are the things you are needing?

i am needing his past love, i am needing his past caring nature for me

I will restate, what do you need from a relationship, not from a relationship with the virgo you are focused on but on any romantic relationship...what is it that you need in a relationship to feel safe?

i need this virgo man to still love me and care for me the way he done previously

Do you consider yourself to be a respectful person?

i am, but this virgo man pushed me too far by treating me wrong at every point

Is someone who is not acting respectfully, a respectful person in that moment?

no, i received threats from him, maybe his brother sent me that. few days ago, when he spoke to me on call he said how angry his brother was on him due to me, and he said he will talk to me later and told me not to call or message him as myself and kept off the call and after that i received a message pleasee don't message or call me again..... idk what happened, i got angry on him and lashed out in anger in chat. don't know who was using that phone, and who saw my messages, i got no response, and after few days i told himm that i hate you a lot, and someone saw my message i didn't get a reply for like 10 hours, and after 10 hours i got a response get life for you, and i started expressing how sad i was and how badly i was feeling about myself due to him and started expressing my innocent feelings of hurt and i got a response that i will block you and respect dangers and i was like shocked! Is it really him? Or his brother?! i wanted to know the truths, since dangers were being mentioned, so i want someone to ask him about this now

Okay.

Do you have to like the truth for it to be the truth?
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i want it to be the truth, that's it, i need him to tell me reasons for every action of his, i want to know things from him in a clear way, even if it means a heartbreaking rejection, i don't care, at somewhere my heart is telling that he might be in a helpless position where he can't reach me out because he don't remember my number since it is a new one which i gave him recently. he only have that number of mine and his phone was taken away, don't you think things are fishy here? maybe someone restricted him completely not to use his phone? who knows? so for me to move on completely, if he doesn't really care, i need to believe the truths which i can be 100percent sure rather than in text form or non verbal form which can have things hidden going on, my heart just asks for the truth, even if it means a big no from him, he need to tell it in words, not actions
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Another Virgo man here...

I have been keeping a very loose eye on your threads for the past few months...and I have to say overall you likely need to back off.

I will start by saying, I understand that you're in pain, a bit lost, let down, angry, sad and hurt...with that acknowledgment I know that it is hard to just let it go.

While it may be hard to let go of him...you have to for your own sake.

You're violating boundaries (his, and believe it or not, yours) despite very significant signals that this relationship would not be a healthy one.

When you give no concern for his emotions and make it his responsibility to make sure you're okay you express selfishness, self-absorption, and emotional immaturity (it does not matter what your intent was or is) at the very minimum.

In the long run, you are setting yourself up for constant disappointment, dismissal, and maybe harm (emotionally, legally, god forbid but perhaps even physically given what you said).

The Virgo male archetype is cool-headed, practical, cautious, reserved...not prone to lose sight of himself even if he is very much so in love...you pressing him as you have likely pushed him away as your efforts smack of desperation and obsession and both of those ways of being are massive red flags to anyone who wants a healthy relationship.

When you refuse to accept what another person's wishes are for themselves (provided those wishes have nothing to do with you and does not harm them or others), you express disrespect of the other person's dignity.

As much as you may want to "convince" him all you're doing is embarrassing yourself and losing out on the opportunity to present yourself as mature and self-sufficient and to a certain degree damaging your self-esteem.

Homegirl is nuts, this is too nice. But regardless of the man's sign. If he wanted to he would. A man would move earth and heaven to be with the one he wants, I have seen it happen, and I have had it happen to me. There are some exceptions but this situation isn't. He doesn't want her, not even as a friend.

Desperation is disgusting regardless of gender or sign

Why he don't want me as a friend? What wrong did I do??

We can't read each other's minds, so asking us about what his distinct thoughts, feelings, and beliefs are on you is a waste of effort on your part, you likely will not get a very accurate or useful answer...all we can do is hold up the mirror you provided us with your stories.

But while we can't read his mind, we can ask you a few questions in return. Please consider them and respond if you wish.

Would someone who wants to be your friend, treat you like this?

Would you want someone who treats you like this to treat your child like this?

Would you want your child/lil sister to be treated like this?

Would you want a person who is interested in you to act in the way you have been acting which is volatile and wrathful, harassing, and demanding?

last question answer is i absolutely love that kind of person who is like me, because i see love in myself, i would love a get a despo like me❤️

Even if what you wanted was healthy, the virgo you are interested in is clearly not that person.

Beyond that, what about the other questions? Do you have answers for those?

Even further beyond that, what do you think desperation represents here?

deaperation here is feeling needed

Is that true? People are needed all the time in relationships but in non-desperate ways, desperation never even enters into the conversation I would like to ask you to reflect on that reality because need does not equal desperation...but those who are desperate definitely have unmet needs.

So I ask this instead...what is it that you are needing?

since i built a lot of love on him since an year. he loved me a lot before an year. we got 1 year break of not seeing each other. i broke him 1 year ago. he is breaking me now very brutally

Okay, but honestly what are you needing? Not from the Virgo, but in a relationship? What are the things you are needing?

i am needing his past love, i am needing his past caring nature for me

I will restate, what do you need from a relationship, not from a relationship with the virgo you are focused on but on any romantic relationship...what is it that you need in a relationship to feel safe?

i need this virgo man to still love me and care for me the way he done previously

Do you consider yourself to be a respectful person?

i am, but this virgo man pushed me too far by treating me wrong at every point

Is someone who is not acting respectfully, a respectful person in that moment?

no, i received threats from him, maybe his brother sent me that. few days ago, when he spoke to me on call he said how angry his brother was on him due to me, and he said he will talk to me later and told me not to call or message him as myself and kept off the call and after that i received a message pleasee don't message or call me again..... idk what happened, i got angry on him and lashed out in anger in chat. don't know who was using that phone, and who saw my messages, i got no response, and after few days i told himm that i hate you a lot, and someone saw my message i didn't get a reply for like 10 hours, and after 10 hours i got a response get life for you, and i started expressing how sad i was and how badly i was feeling about myself due to him and started expressing my innocent feelings of hurt and i got a response that i will block you and respect dangers and i was like shocked! Is it really him? Or his brother?! i wanted to know the truths, since dangers were being mentioned, so i want someone to ask him about this now

Okay.

Do you have to like the truth for it to be the truth?

i want it to be the truth, that's it, i need him to tell me reasons for every action of his, i want to know things from him in a clear way, even if it means a heartbreaking rejection, i don't care, at somewhere my heart is telling that he might be in a helpless position where he can't reach me out because he don't remember my number since it is a new one which i gave him recently. he only have that number of mine and his phone was taken away, don't you think things are fishy here? maybe someone restricted him completely not to use his phone? who knows?

Who does know? Do you at least know that?
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yes, I don't know, that's why i want someone to talk to him
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Another Virgo man here...

I have been keeping a very loose eye on your threads for the past few months...and I have to say overall you likely need to back off.

I will start by saying, I understand that you're in pain, a bit lost, let down, angry, sad and hurt...with that acknowledgment I know that it is hard to just let it go.

While it may be hard to let go of him...you have to for your own sake.

You're violating boundaries (his, and believe it or not, yours) despite very significant signals that this relationship would not be a healthy one.

When you give no concern for his emotions and make it his responsibility to make sure you're okay you express selfishness, self-absorption, and emotional immaturity (it does not matter what your intent was or is) at the very minimum.

In the long run, you are setting yourself up for constant disappointment, dismissal, and maybe harm (emotionally, legally, god forbid but perhaps even physically given what you said).

The Virgo male archetype is cool-headed, practical, cautious, reserved...not prone to lose sight of himself even if he is very much so in love...you pressing him as you have likely pushed him away as your efforts smack of desperation and obsession and both of those ways of being are massive red flags to anyone who wants a healthy relationship.

When you refuse to accept what another person's wishes are for themselves (provided those wishes have nothing to do with you and does not harm them or others), you express disrespect of the other person's dignity.

As much as you may want to "convince" him all you're doing is embarrassing yourself and losing out on the opportunity to present yourself as mature and self-sufficient and to a certain degree damaging your self-esteem.

Homegirl is nuts, this is too nice. But regardless of the man's sign. If he wanted to he would. A man would move earth and heaven to be with the one he wants, I have seen it happen, and I have had it happen to me. There are some exceptions but this situation isn't. He doesn't want her, not even as a friend.

Desperation is disgusting regardless of gender or sign

Why he don't want me as a friend? What wrong did I do??

We can't read each other's minds, so asking us about what his distinct thoughts, feelings, and beliefs are on you is a waste of effort on your part, you likely will not get a very accurate or useful answer...all we can do is hold up the mirror you provided us with your stories.

But while we can't read his mind, we can ask you a few questions in return. Please consider them and respond if you wish.

Would someone who wants to be your friend, treat you like this?

Would you want someone who treats you like this to treat your child like this?

Would you want your child/lil sister to be treated like this?

Would you want a person who is interested in you to act in the way you have been acting which is volatile and wrathful, harassing, and demanding?

last question answer is i absolutely love that kind of person who is like me, because i see love in myself, i would love a get a despo like me❤️

Even if what you wanted was healthy, the virgo you are interested in is clearly not that person.

Beyond that, what about the other questions? Do you have answers for those?

Even further beyond that, what do you think desperation represents here?

deaperation here is feeling needed

Is that true? People are needed all the time in relationships but in non-desperate ways, desperation never even enters into the conversation I would like to ask you to reflect on that reality because need does not equal desperation...but those who are desperate definitely have unmet needs.

So I ask this instead...what is it that you are needing?

since i built a lot of love on him since an year. he loved me a lot before an year. we got 1 year break of not seeing each other. i broke him 1 year ago. he is breaking me now very brutally

Okay, but honestly what are you needing? Not from the Virgo, but in a relationship? What are the things you are needing?

i am needing his past love, i am needing his past caring nature for me

I will restate, what do you need from a relationship, not from a relationship with the virgo you are focused on but on any romantic relationship...what is it that you need in a relationship to feel safe?

i need this virgo man to still love me and care for me the way he done previously

Do you consider yourself to be a respectful person?

i am, but this virgo man pushed me too far by treating me wrong at every point

Is someone who is not acting respectfully, a respectful person in that moment?

no, i received threats from him, maybe his brother sent me that. few days ago, when he spoke to me on call he said how angry his brother was on him due to me, and he said he will talk to me later and told me not to call or message him as myself and kept off the call and after that i received a message pleasee don't message or call me again..... idk what happened, i got angry on him and lashed out in anger in chat. don't know who was using that phone, and who saw my messages, i got no response, and after few days i told himm that i hate you a lot, and someone saw my message i didn't get a reply for like 10 hours, and after 10 hours i got a response get life for you, and i started expressing how sad i was and how badly i was feeling about myself due to him and started expressing my innocent feelings of hurt and i got a response that i will block you and respect dangers and i was like shocked! Is it really him? Or his brother?! i wanted to know the truths, since dangers were being mentioned, so i want someone to ask him about this now

Okay.

Do you have to like the truth for it to be the truth?

i want it to be the truth, that's it, i need him to tell me reasons for every action of his, i want to know things from him in a clear way, even if it means a heartbreaking rejection, i don't care, at somewhere my heart is telling that he might be in a helpless position where he can't reach me out because he don't remember my number since it is a new one which i gave him recently. he only have that number of mine and his phone was taken away, don't you think things are fishy here? maybe someone restricted him completely not to use his phone? who knows?

Who does know? Do you at least know that?

yes, I don't know, that's why i want someone to talk to him

Talk to him to say what?
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like i did the first time through his bestie and he expressed him what happened and that he never meant to hurt me
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Another Virgo man here...

I have been keeping a very loose eye on your threads for the past few months...and I have to say overall you likely need to back off.

I will start by saying, I understand that you're in pain, a bit lost, let down, angry, sad and hurt...with that acknowledgment I know that it is hard to just let it go.

While it may be hard to let go of him...you have to for your own sake.

You're violating boundaries (his, and believe it or not, yours) despite very significant signals that this relationship would not be a healthy one.

When you give no concern for his emotions and make it his responsibility to make sure you're okay you express selfishness, self-absorption, and emotional immaturity (it does not matter what your intent was or is) at the very minimum.

In the long run, you are setting yourself up for constant disappointment, dismissal, and maybe harm (emotionally, legally, god forbid but perhaps even physically given what you said).

The Virgo male archetype is cool-headed, practical, cautious, reserved...not prone to lose sight of himself even if he is very much so in love...you pressing him as you have likely pushed him away as your efforts smack of desperation and obsession and both of those ways of being are massive red flags to anyone who wants a healthy relationship.

When you refuse to accept what another person's wishes are for themselves (provided those wishes have nothing to do with you and does not harm them or others), you express disrespect of the other person's dignity.

As much as you may want to "convince" him all you're doing is embarrassing yourself and losing out on the opportunity to present yourself as mature and self-sufficient and to a certain degree damaging your self-esteem.

Homegirl is nuts, this is too nice. But regardless of the man's sign. If he wanted to he would. A man would move earth and heaven to be with the one he wants, I have seen it happen, and I have had it happen to me. There are some exceptions but this situation isn't. He doesn't want her, not even as a friend.

Desperation is disgusting regardless of gender or sign

Why he don't want me as a friend? What wrong did I do??

We can't read each other's minds, so asking us about what his distinct thoughts, feelings, and beliefs are on you is a waste of effort on your part, you likely will not get a very accurate or useful answer...all we can do is hold up the mirror you provided us with your stories.

But while we can't read his mind, we can ask you a few questions in return. Please consider them and respond if you wish.

Would someone who wants to be your friend, treat you like this?

Would you want someone who treats you like this to treat your child like this?

Would you want your child/lil sister to be treated like this?

Would you want a person who is interested in you to act in the way you have been acting which is volatile and wrathful, harassing, and demanding?

last question answer is i absolutely love that kind of person who is like me, because i see love in myself, i would love a get a despo like me❤️

Even if what you wanted was healthy, the virgo you are interested in is clearly not that person.

Beyond that, what about the other questions? Do you have answers for those?

Even further beyond that, what do you think desperation represents here?

deaperation here is feeling needed

Is that true? People are needed all the time in relationships but in non-desperate ways, desperation never even enters into the conversation I would like to ask you to reflect on that reality because need does not equal desperation...but those who are desperate definitely have unmet needs.

So I ask this instead...what is it that you are needing?

since i built a lot of love on him since an year. he loved me a lot before an year. we got 1 year break of not seeing each other. i broke him 1 year ago. he is breaking me now very brutally

Okay, but honestly what are you needing? Not from the Virgo, but in a relationship? What are the things you are needing?

i am needing his past love, i am needing his past caring nature for me

I will restate, what do you need from a relationship, not from a relationship with the virgo you are focused on but on any romantic relationship...what is it that you need in a relationship to feel safe?

i need this virgo man to still love me and care for me the way he done previously

Do you consider yourself to be a respectful person?

i am, but this virgo man pushed me too far by treating me wrong at every point

Is someone who is not acting respectfully, a respectful person in that moment?

no, i received threats from him, maybe his brother sent me that. few days ago, when he spoke to me on call he said how angry his brother was on him due to me, and he said he will talk to me later and told me not to call or message him as myself and kept off the call and after that i received a message pleasee don't message or call me again..... idk what happened, i got angry on him and lashed out in anger in chat. don't know who was using that phone, and who saw my messages, i got no response, and after few days i told himm that i hate you a lot, and someone saw my message i didn't get a reply for like 10 hours, and after 10 hours i got a response get life for you, and i started expressing how sad i was and how badly i was feeling about myself due to him and started expressing my innocent feelings of hurt and i got a response that i will block you and respect dangers and i was like shocked! Is it really him? Or his brother?! i wanted to know the truths, since dangers were being mentioned, so i want someone to ask him about this now

Okay.

Do you have to like the truth for it to be the truth?

i want it to be the truth, that's it, i need him to tell me reasons for every action of his, i want to know things from him in a clear way, even if it means a heartbreaking rejection, i don't care, at somewhere my heart is telling that he might be in a helpless position where he can't reach me out because he don't remember my number since it is a new one which i gave him recently. he only have that number of mine and his phone was taken away, don't you think things are fishy here? maybe someone restricted him completely not to use his phone? who knows?

Who does know? Do you at least know that?

yes, I don't know, that's why i want someone to talk to him

Talk to him to say what?
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Another Virgo man here...

I have been keeping a very loose eye on your threads for the past few months...and I have to say overall you likely need to back off.

I will start by saying, I understand that you're in pain, a bit lost, let down, angry, sad and hurt...with that acknowledgment I know that it is hard to just let it go.

While it may be hard to let go of him...you have to for your own sake.

You're violating boundaries (his, and believe it or not, yours) despite very significant signals that this relationship would not be a healthy one.

When you give no concern for his emotions and make it his responsibility to make sure you're okay you express selfishness, self-absorption, and emotional immaturity (it does not matter what your intent was or is) at the very minimum.

In the long run, you are setting yourself up for constant disappointment, dismissal, and maybe harm (emotionally, legally, god forbid but perhaps even physically given what you said).

The Virgo male archetype is cool-headed, practical, cautious, reserved...not prone to lose sight of himself even if he is very much so in love...you pressing him as you have likely pushed him away as your efforts smack of desperation and obsession and both of those ways of being are massive red flags to anyone who wants a healthy relationship.

When you refuse to accept what another person's wishes are for themselves (provided those wishes have nothing to do with you and does not harm them or others), you express disrespect of the other person's dignity.

As much as you may want to "convince" him all you're doing is embarrassing yourself and losing out on the opportunity to present yourself as mature and self-sufficient and to a certain degree damaging your self-esteem.

Homegirl is nuts, this is too nice. But regardless of the man's sign. If he wanted to he would. A man would move earth and heaven to be with the one he wants, I have seen it happen, and I have had it happen to me. There are some exceptions but this situation isn't. He doesn't want her, not even as a friend.

Desperation is disgusting regardless of gender or sign

Why he don't want me as a friend? What wrong did I do??

We can't read each other's minds, so asking us about what his distinct thoughts, feelings, and beliefs are on you is a waste of effort on your part, you likely will not get a very accurate or useful answer...all we can do is hold up the mirror you provided us with your stories.

But while we can't read his mind, we can ask you a few questions in return. Please consider them and respond if you wish.

Would someone who wants to be your friend, treat you like this?

Would you want someone who treats you like this to treat your child like this?

Would you want your child/lil sister to be treated like this?

Would you want a person who is interested in you to act in the way you have been acting which is volatile and wrathful, harassing, and demanding?

last question answer is i absolutely love that kind of person who is like me, because i see love in myself, i would love a get a despo like me❤️

Even if what you wanted was healthy, the virgo you are interested in is clearly not that person.

Beyond that, what about the other questions? Do you have answers for those?

Even further beyond that, what do you think desperation represents here?

deaperation here is feeling needed

Is that true? People are needed all the time in relationships but in non-desperate ways, desperation never even enters into the conversation I would like to ask you to reflect on that reality because need does not equal desperation...but those who are desperate definitely have unmet needs.

So I ask this instead...what is it that you are needing?

since i built a lot of love on him since an year. he loved me a lot before an year. we got 1 year break of not seeing each other. i broke him 1 year ago. he is breaking me now very brutally

Okay, but honestly what are you needing? Not from the Virgo, but in a relationship? What are the things you are needing?

i am needing his past love, i am needing his past caring nature for me

I will restate, what do you need from a relationship, not from a relationship with the virgo you are focused on but on any romantic relationship...what is it that you need in a relationship to feel safe?

i need this virgo man to still love me and care for me the way he done previously

Do you consider yourself to be a respectful person?

i am, but this virgo man pushed me too far by treating me wrong at every point

Is someone who is not acting respectfully, a respectful person in that moment?

no, i received threats from him, maybe his brother sent me that. few days ago, when he spoke to me on call he said how angry his brother was on him due to me, and he said he will talk to me later and told me not to call or message him as myself and kept off the call and after that i received a message pleasee don't message or call me again..... idk what happened, i got angry on him and lashed out in anger in chat. don't know who was using that phone, and who saw my messages, i got no response, and after few days i told himm that i hate you a lot, and someone saw my message i didn't get a reply for like 10 hours, and after 10 hours i got a response get life for you, and i started expressing how sad i was and how badly i was feeling about myself due to him and started expressing my innocent feelings of hurt and i got a response that i will block you and respect dangers and i was like shocked! Is it really him? Or his brother?! i wanted to know the truths, since dangers were being mentioned, so i want someone to ask him about this now

Okay.

Do you have to like the truth for it to be the truth?

i want it to be the truth, that's it, i need him to tell me reasons for every action of his, i want to know things from him in a clear way, even if it means a heartbreaking rejection, i don't care, at somewhere my heart is telling that he might be in a helpless position where he can't reach me out because he don't remember my number since it is a new one which i gave him recently. he only have that number of mine and his phone was taken away, don't you think things are fishy here? maybe someone restricted him completely not to use his phone? who knows?

Who does know? Do you at least know that?

yes, I don't know, that's why i want someone to talk to him

Talk to him to say what?

I know no one is believing in his love for me except me, i will come back with truth that my belief is true💛

Alright, good luck, wish you the best in your endeavors.
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Is asking him for answers a wrong thing?

It's more like you're demanding it...

yes, I will demand for the truth about why am I psychologically getting abused by his family or through his messages

I get it. You love him. It's difficult to let go.

But at this point, in trying to get this truth, you may end up in jail. Is that really worth it to you?

If he really loves me, he will stand up for me and get on my side and not let me get into jail and he will save me

No he won't, or else he would have done more than what he has done already.

but he secretly is caring for me.

Are you reading his mind?

Once the same way, I got blocked from pisces man's phone. So, I called him right away and asked him for the truths and asked if he intentionally did it. But he said he never intentionally meant it and told me i love u and told me that someone else did it from his phone and secured his phone immediately and used to clear our convo as soon as possible after completing them and he protected me. Actually pisces man family did it, and he told it and he told me that we should be careful otherwise they won't let us speak, and he further fixed the things very strongly. Maybe this might happen with this virgo man too, and my gut feeling says that this virgo man may still love me and stand up for me if we get privacy

Pretty sure I'd win the lottery before you get that privacy.

Why don't you think that it works out with this virgo man the same way it had been with the pisces man?

He will never pick you over his family.

But pisces man did, but he said that i am equal with his family and even if they restrict this pisces man he said that he will come eloping with me if needed but he said he never wants to leave me, maybe same happens with the virgo man too

Virgo man =/= Pisces man

Maybe the things are happening for me to make us take our relationship to next level? As everything happens for a reason

That's just what you want to believe.

I believe it with my hear because there's always a blessing in disguise

The blessing here may just be for you to move on.

Why not try one more time with the help of someone else to talk with him, first time when i gave him a chance to open up, he opened up to his bestie about his family's behaviour

His family will see it as harassment.

who are his family in between to break his heart? Who gave them that right? I don't want them to break his heart

You don't really have a choice about what his family does.

as a girl who loved him by her heart, i have the responsibility to save his heart

No, it's not your responsibility. He's responsible for his own heart.

maybe he's failing to protect his heart, so he maybe hopeless, why shouldn't I make him win by doing it from my side?

It's still up to him to protect his own heart.

maybe he needs someone's help to protect it.... since i already love him, and willing to do anything for him, i will take the chance of protecting his heart

If he can't protect his own heart, how does he protect you?

I will try to protect mine. If we unite, maybe he can even protect mine❤️

Protect yourself from him and his family.

Why not be with him if he feels the same?

Not realistic.

He loved me a lot previously and told me that I got you so I trust him with all my heart

Keyword "previously", not now.

okay, i know that he gives up so easily. So, maybe due to tight situations he maybe losing up the hope. I will fight for him. I will fight for the truth. I will fight to know what's in his heart. I will fight to give him the privacy convo he needs.. i will win him finally

Are you sure you aren’t an Aries? 😂

Fighting can’t be your only answer to everything, especially when there’s only so much you can do.
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Is asking him for answers a wrong thing?

It's more like you're demanding it...

yes, I will demand for the truth about why am I psychologically getting abused by his family or through his messages

I get it. You love him. It's difficult to let go.

But at this point, in trying to get this truth, you may end up in jail. Is that really worth it to you?

If he really loves me, he will stand up for me and get on my side and not let me get into jail and he will save me

No he won't, or else he would have done more than what he has done already.

but he secretly is caring for me.

Are you reading his mind?

Once the same way, I got blocked from pisces man's phone. So, I called him right away and asked him for the truths and asked if he intentionally did it. But he said he never intentionally meant it and told me i love u and told me that someone else did it from his phone and secured his phone immediately and used to clear our convo as soon as possible after completing them and he protected me. Actually pisces man family did it, and he told it and he told me that we should be careful otherwise they won't let us speak, and he further fixed the things very strongly. Maybe this might happen with this virgo man too, and my gut feeling says that this virgo man may still love me and stand up for me if we get privacy

Pretty sure I'd win the lottery before you get that privacy.

Why don't you think that it works out with this virgo man the same way it had been with the pisces man?

He will never pick you over his family.

But pisces man did, but he said that i am equal with his family and even if they restrict this pisces man he said that he will come eloping with me if needed but he said he never wants to leave me, maybe same happens with the virgo man too

Virgo man =/= Pisces man

Maybe the things are happening for me to make us take our relationship to next level? As everything happens for a reason

That's just what you want to believe.

I believe it with my hear because there's always a blessing in disguise

The blessing here may just be for you to move on.

Why not try one more time with the help of someone else to talk with him, first time when i gave him a chance to open up, he opened up to his bestie about his family's behaviour

His family will see it as harassment.

who are his family in between to break his heart? Who gave them that right? I don't want them to break his heart

You don't really have a choice about what his family does.

as a girl who loved him by her heart, i have the responsibility to save his heart

No, it's not your responsibility. He's responsible for his own heart.

maybe he's failing to protect his heart, so he maybe hopeless, why shouldn't I make him win by doing it from my side?

It's still up to him to protect his own heart.

maybe he needs someone's help to protect it.... since i already love him, and willing to do anything for him, i will take the chance of protecting his heart

If he can't protect his own heart, how does he protect you?

I will try to protect mine. If we unite, maybe he can even protect mine❤️

Protect yourself from him and his family.

Why not be with him if he feels the same?

Not realistic.

He loved me a lot previously and told me that I got you so I trust him with all my heart

Keyword "previously", not now.

okay, i know that he gives up so easily. So, maybe due to tight situations he maybe losing up the hope. I will fight for him. I will fight for the truth. I will fight to know what's in his heart. I will fight to give him the privacy convo he needs.. i will win him finally

Are you sure you aren’t an Aries? 😂

Fighting can’t be your only answer to everything, especially when there’s only so much you can do.

No, I'm not an Aries, I'm a cancer girl

My second part still stand
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Is asking him for answers a wrong thing?

It's more like you're demanding it...

yes, I will demand for the truth about why am I psychologically getting abused by his family or through his messages

I get it. You love him. It's difficult to let go.

But at this point, in trying to get this truth, you may end up in jail. Is that really worth it to you?

If he really loves me, he will stand up for me and get on my side and not let me get into jail and he will save me

No he won't, or else he would have done more than what he has done already.

but he secretly is caring for me.

Are you reading his mind?

Once the same way, I got blocked from pisces man's phone. So, I called him right away and asked him for the truths and asked if he intentionally did it. But he said he never intentionally meant it and told me i love u and told me that someone else did it from his phone and secured his phone immediately and used to clear our convo as soon as possible after completing them and he protected me. Actually pisces man family did it, and he told it and he told me that we should be careful otherwise they won't let us speak, and he further fixed the things very strongly. Maybe this might happen with this virgo man too, and my gut feeling says that this virgo man may still love me and stand up for me if we get privacy

Pretty sure I'd win the lottery before you get that privacy.

Why don't you think that it works out with this virgo man the same way it had been with the pisces man?

He will never pick you over his family.

But pisces man did, but he said that i am equal with his family and even if they restrict this pisces man he said that he will come eloping with me if needed but he said he never wants to leave me, maybe same happens with the virgo man too

Virgo man =/= Pisces man

Maybe the things are happening for me to make us take our relationship to next level? As everything happens for a reason

That's just what you want to believe.

I believe it with my hear because there's always a blessing in disguise

The blessing here may just be for you to move on.

Why not try one more time with the help of someone else to talk with him, first time when i gave him a chance to open up, he opened up to his bestie about his family's behaviour

His family will see it as harassment.

who are his family in between to break his heart? Who gave them that right? I don't want them to break his heart

You don't really have a choice about what his family does.

as a girl who loved him by her heart, i have the responsibility to save his heart

No, it's not your responsibility. He's responsible for his own heart.

maybe he's failing to protect his heart, so he maybe hopeless, why shouldn't I make him win by doing it from my side?

It's still up to him to protect his own heart.

maybe he needs someone's help to protect it.... since i already love him, and willing to do anything for him, i will take the chance of protecting his heart

If he can't protect his own heart, how does he protect you?

I will try to protect mine. If we unite, maybe he can even protect mine❤️

Protect yourself from him and his family.

Why not be with him if he feels the same?

Not realistic.

He loved me a lot previously and told me that I got you so I trust him with all my heart

Keyword "previously", not now.

okay, i know that he gives up so easily. So, maybe due to tight situations he maybe losing up the hope. I will fight for him. I will fight for the truth. I will fight to know what's in his heart. I will fight to give him the privacy convo he needs.. i will win him finally

Are you sure you aren’t an Aries? 😂

Fighting can’t be your only answer to everything, especially when there’s only so much you can do.

No, I'm not an Aries, I'm a cancer girl

My second part still stand

I will fight for the truth. I will fight to know what's in his heart now

Wanna know how you can win? Give up and let go.
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Is asking him for answers a wrong thing?

It's more like you're demanding it...

yes, I will demand for the truth about why am I psychologically getting abused by his family or through his messages

I get it. You love him. It's difficult to let go.

But at this point, in trying to get this truth, you may end up in jail. Is that really worth it to you?

If he really loves me, he will stand up for me and get on my side and not let me get into jail and he will save me

No he won't, or else he would have done more than what he has done already.

but he secretly is caring for me.

Are you reading his mind?

Once the same way, I got blocked from pisces man's phone. So, I called him right away and asked him for the truths and asked if he intentionally did it. But he said he never intentionally meant it and told me i love u and told me that someone else did it from his phone and secured his phone immediately and used to clear our convo as soon as possible after completing them and he protected me. Actually pisces man family did it, and he told it and he told me that we should be careful otherwise they won't let us speak, and he further fixed the things very strongly. Maybe this might happen with this virgo man too, and my gut feeling says that this virgo man may still love me and stand up for me if we get privacy

Pretty sure I'd win the lottery before you get that privacy.

Why don't you think that it works out with this virgo man the same way it had been with the pisces man?

He will never pick you over his family.

But pisces man did, but he said that i am equal with his family and even if they restrict this pisces man he said that he will come eloping with me if needed but he said he never wants to leave me, maybe same happens with the virgo man too

Virgo man =/= Pisces man

Maybe the things are happening for me to make us take our relationship to next level? As everything happens for a reason

That's just what you want to believe.

I believe it with my hear because there's always a blessing in disguise

The blessing here may just be for you to move on.

Why not try one more time with the help of someone else to talk with him, first time when i gave him a chance to open up, he opened up to his bestie about his family's behaviour

His family will see it as harassment.

who are his family in between to break his heart? Who gave them that right? I don't want them to break his heart

You don't really have a choice about what his family does.

as a girl who loved him by her heart, i have the responsibility to save his heart

No, it's not your responsibility. He's responsible for his own heart.

maybe he's failing to protect his heart, so he maybe hopeless, why shouldn't I make him win by doing it from my side?

It's still up to him to protect his own heart.

maybe he needs someone's help to protect it.... since i already love him, and willing to do anything for him, i will take the chance of protecting his heart

If he can't protect his own heart, how does he protect you?

I will try to protect mine. If we unite, maybe he can even protect mine❤️

Protect yourself from him and his family.

Why not be with him if he feels the same?

Not realistic.

He loved me a lot previously and told me that I got you so I trust him with all my heart

Keyword "previously", not now.

okay, i know that he gives up so easily. So, maybe due to tight situations he maybe losing up the hope. I will fight for him. I will fight for the truth. I will fight to know what's in his heart. I will fight to give him the privacy convo he needs.. i will win him finally

Are you sure you aren’t an Aries? 😂

Fighting can’t be your only answer to everything, especially when there’s only so much you can do.

No, I'm not an Aries, I'm a cancer girl

My second part still stand

I will fight for the truth. I will fight to know what's in his heart now

Wanna know how you can win? Give up and let go.

So will he come back to me??

Move on from him and find out
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aww thank u sis💛 but one final try i wanna give him and move on because that is the exact way i can get to know things in a clear way from him so that if needed i will never ever go back to him or remove him out of my heart completely.
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Another Virgo man here...

I have been keeping a very loose eye on your threads for the past few months...and I have to say overall you likely need to back off.

I will start by saying, I understand that you're in pain, a bit lost, let down, angry, sad and hurt...with that acknowledgment I know that it is hard to just let it go.

While it may be hard to let go of him...you have to for your own sake.

You're violating boundaries (his, and believe it or not, yours) despite very significant signals that this relationship would not be a healthy one.

When you give no concern for his emotions and make it his responsibility to make sure you're okay you express selfishness, self-absorption, and emotional immaturity (it does not matter what your intent was or is) at the very minimum.

In the long run, you are setting yourself up for constant disappointment, dismissal, and maybe harm (emotionally, legally, god forbid but perhaps even physically given what you said).

The Virgo male archetype is cool-headed, practical, cautious, reserved...not prone to lose sight of himself even if he is very much so in love...you pressing him as you have likely pushed him away as your efforts smack of desperation and obsession and both of those ways of being are massive red flags to anyone who wants a healthy relationship.

When you refuse to accept what another person's wishes are for themselves (provided those wishes have nothing to do with you and does not harm them or others), you express disrespect of the other person's dignity.

As much as you may want to "convince" him all you're doing is embarrassing yourself and losing out on the opportunity to present yourself as mature and self-sufficient and to a certain degree damaging your self-esteem.

I got it, but he needs to let me know the reasons, or what happened, and give me a proper closure instead of doing these shitty things to me

The thing is, he actually doesn't owe you closure.

He doesn't owe you an explanation, he doesn't need to catch you up on what happened, he has no responsibility to give you closure, he doesn't need to make sure you are okay, he doesn't have to make sure you don't hurt.He owes you none of that. You very much so owe that to yourself, however.

You may want him to come to account in order to make yourself feel better, but he is not responsible for you choosing to stay in discomfort. You are not his wife, he has no responsibility for you or how you feel... the closure you need is actually going to come from you. You will likely need to learn how to: affirm yourself, value yourself, soothe your hurts yourself and with those who want to be in connection with you.

Especially if he is not interested in maintaining a connection to you, which very much so seems to be the case.

You have to be responsible for your own closure when someone is unwilling or unable to give it.

If you persist it will be frustrating...like trying to draw water from a stone. The stone has none to give and you will be left feeling parched.

but the pisces man whom i had in my past is so heartwarming person. he never made me feel like shit. he always made me feel like a queen and he never insulted me not even as a joke and loved my desperation a lot..

So what happened to him then?

things went wrong at one point, and we mutually left each other

But you just said to Ixi "because once there is love, there should always be"

So why does that apply to the Virgo but not the Pisces?

yes, pisces man still loves me and cares for me, i love him and care for him too, but we are not in a relationship that's it. It's a pure kind of care

Sounds like this Pisces is the guy you need to be with - his feelings match yours.

he moved on and is in relationship with some other girl. I don't want to break them

But if he's still in love with you he hasn't moved on. Get him back.

that isn't fair for another girl
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It's also not fair to the Virgo that you keep bothering him when he's no longer interested. He can't even scrape you off the bottom of his shoe at this point. I know Virgo men are great kissers and terribly sensual but Girl, find another one cause this one doesn't want you.
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Is asking him for answers a wrong thing?

It's more like you're demanding it...

yes, I will demand for the truth about why am I psychologically getting abused by his family or through his messages

I get it. You love him. It's difficult to let go.

But at this point, in trying to get this truth, you may end up in jail. Is that really worth it to you?

If he really loves me, he will stand up for me and get on my side and not let me get into jail and he will save me

No he won't, or else he would have done more than what he has done already.

but he secretly is caring for me.

Are you reading his mind?

Once the same way, I got blocked from pisces man's phone. So, I called him right away and asked him for the truths and asked if he intentionally did it. But he said he never intentionally meant it and told me i love u and told me that someone else did it from his phone and secured his phone immediately and used to clear our convo as soon as possible after completing them and he protected me. Actually pisces man family did it, and he told it and he told me that we should be careful otherwise they won't let us speak, and he further fixed the things very strongly. Maybe this might happen with this virgo man too, and my gut feeling says that this virgo man may still love me and stand up for me if we get privacy

Pretty sure I'd win the lottery before you get that privacy.

Why don't you think that it works out with this virgo man the same way it had been with the pisces man?

He will never pick you over his family.

But pisces man did, but he said that i am equal with his family and even if they restrict this pisces man he said that he will come eloping with me if needed but he said he never wants to leave me, maybe same happens with the virgo man too

Virgo man =/= Pisces man

Maybe the things are happening for me to make us take our relationship to next level? As everything happens for a reason

That's just what you want to believe.

I believe it with my hear because there's always a blessing in disguise

The blessing here may just be for you to move on.

Why not try one more time with the help of someone else to talk with him, first time when i gave him a chance to open up, he opened up to his bestie about his family's behaviour

His family will see it as harassment.

who are his family in between to break his heart? Who gave them that right? I don't want them to break his heart

You don't really have a choice about what his family does.

as a girl who loved him by her heart, i have the responsibility to save his heart

No, it's not your responsibility. He's responsible for his own heart.

maybe he's failing to protect his heart, so he maybe hopeless, why shouldn't I make him win by doing it from my side?

It's still up to him to protect his own heart.

maybe he needs someone's help to protect it.... since i already love him, and willing to do anything for him, i will take the chance of protecting his heart

If he can't protect his own heart, how does he protect you?

I will try to protect mine. If we unite, maybe he can even protect mine❤️

Protect yourself from him and his family.

Why not be with him if he feels the same?

Not realistic.

He loved me a lot previously and told me that I got you so I trust him with all my heart

Keyword "previously", not now.

okay, i know that he gives up so easily. So, maybe due to tight situations he maybe losing up the hope. I will fight for him. I will fight for the truth. I will fight to know what's in his heart. I will fight to give him the privacy convo he needs.. i will win him finally

Are you sure you aren’t an Aries? 😂

Fighting can’t be your only answer to everything, especially when there’s only so much you can do.

No, I'm not an Aries, I'm a cancer girl

My second part still stand

I will fight for the truth. I will fight to know what's in his heart now

Wanna know how you can win? Give up and let go.

So will he come back to me??

No..
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Is asking him for answers a wrong thing?

It's more like you're demanding it...

yes, I will demand for the truth about why am I psychologically getting abused by his family or through his messages

I get it. You love him. It's difficult to let go.

But at this point, in trying to get this truth, you may end up in jail. Is that really worth it to you?

If he really loves me, he will stand up for me and get on my side and not let me get into jail and he will save me

No he won't, or else he would have done more than what he has done already.

but he secretly is caring for me.

Are you reading his mind?

Once the same way, I got blocked from pisces man's phone. So, I called him right away and asked him for the truths and asked if he intentionally did it. But he said he never intentionally meant it and told me i love u and told me that someone else did it from his phone and secured his phone immediately and used to clear our convo as soon as possible after completing them and he protected me. Actually pisces man family did it, and he told it and he told me that we should be careful otherwise they won't let us speak, and he further fixed the things very strongly. Maybe this might happen with this virgo man too, and my gut feeling says that this virgo man may still love me and stand up for me if we get privacy

Pretty sure I'd win the lottery before you get that privacy.

Why don't you think that it works out with this virgo man the same way it had been with the pisces man?

He will never pick you over his family.

But pisces man did, but he said that i am equal with his family and even if they restrict this pisces man he said that he will come eloping with me if needed but he said he never wants to leave me, maybe same happens with the virgo man too

Virgo man =/= Pisces man

Maybe the things are happening for me to make us take our relationship to next level? As everything happens for a reason

That's just what you want to believe.

I believe it with my hear because there's always a blessing in disguise

The blessing here may just be for you to move on.

Why not try one more time with the help of someone else to talk with him, first time when i gave him a chance to open up, he opened up to his bestie about his family's behaviour

His family will see it as harassment.

who are his family in between to break his heart? Who gave them that right? I don't want them to break his heart

You don't really have a choice about what his family does.

as a girl who loved him by her heart, i have the responsibility to save his heart

No, it's not your responsibility. He's responsible for his own heart.

maybe he's failing to protect his heart, so he maybe hopeless, why shouldn't I make him win by doing it from my side?

It's still up to him to protect his own heart.

maybe he needs someone's help to protect it.... since i already love him, and willing to do anything for him, i will take the chance of protecting his heart

If he can't protect his own heart, how does he protect you?

I will try to protect mine. If we unite, maybe he can even protect mine❤️

Protect yourself from him and his family.

Why not be with him if he feels the same?

Not realistic.

He loved me a lot previously and told me that I got you so I trust him with all my heart

Keyword "previously", not now.

okay, i know that he gives up so easily. So, maybe due to tight situations he maybe losing up the hope. I will fight for him. I will fight for the truth. I will fight to know what's in his heart. I will fight to give him the privacy convo he needs.. i will win him finally

Are you sure you aren’t an Aries? 😂

Fighting can’t be your only answer to everything, especially when there’s only so much you can do.

No, I'm not an Aries, I'm a cancer girl

My second part still stand

I will fight for the truth. I will fight to know what's in his heart now

Wanna know how you can win? Give up and let go.

So will he come back to me??

Move on from him and find out

aww thank u sis💛 but one final try i wanna give him and move on because that is the exact way i can get to know things in a clear way from him so that if needed i will never ever go back to him or remove him out of my heart completely.

One more try isn’t going to change a thing at this point
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okay, it's just a try right? So i will try my last chance and if it doesn't work out, i will never ever look back at him
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Cancer.

Lol 😆

On the previous thread she didnt want to admit she's a cancer. But we all know she is 😅

I'm done talking sense to this girl. She doesnt have any 😆

I remember that she is an only child and that is quite apparent in her threads.

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Don't support that shitty virgo man! He is absolutely making me hate the whole zodiac, he's a loser, he have negativity attached with him, and it harms me if i will be with him and positivity will get vanished. Now already he ate my morals and making me look like a creepy girl just for believing his love innocently at the first sight. And just for loving him truly since he loved me once. I will move the hell out of him and find a person like my previous pisces man who is a despo like me and who loves my despo nature to the core❤️ and willing to cross any miles with me and who can't stay without talking me and being with me always being independent + despo just for me + love just on me + never wanting to leave my hand, ever
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Is asking him for answers a wrong thing?

It's more like you're demanding it...

yes, I will demand for the truth about why am I psychologically getting abused by his family or through his messages

I get it. You love him. It's difficult to let go.

But at this point, in trying to get this truth, you may end up in jail. Is that really worth it to you?

If he really loves me, he will stand up for me and get on my side and not let me get into jail and he will save me

No he won't, or else he would have done more than what he has done already.

but he secretly is caring for me.

Are you reading his mind?

Once the same way, I got blocked from pisces man's phone. So, I called him right away and asked him for the truths and asked if he intentionally did it. But he said he never intentionally meant it and told me i love u and told me that someone else did it from his phone and secured his phone immediately and used to clear our convo as soon as possible after completing them and he protected me. Actually pisces man family did it, and he told it and he told me that we should be careful otherwise they won't let us speak, and he further fixed the things very strongly. Maybe this might happen with this virgo man too, and my gut feeling says that this virgo man may still love me and stand up for me if we get privacy

Pretty sure I'd win the lottery before you get that privacy.

Why don't you think that it works out with this virgo man the same way it had been with the pisces man?

He will never pick you over his family.

But pisces man did, but he said that i am equal with his family and even if they restrict this pisces man he said that he will come eloping with me if needed but he said he never wants to leave me, maybe same happens with the virgo man too

Virgo man =/= Pisces man

Maybe the things are happening for me to make us take our relationship to next level? As everything happens for a reason

That's just what you want to believe.

I believe it with my hear because there's always a blessing in disguise

The blessing here may just be for you to move on.

Why not try one more time with the help of someone else to talk with him, first time when i gave him a chance to open up, he opened up to his bestie about his family's behaviour

His family will see it as harassment.

who are his family in between to break his heart? Who gave them that right? I don't want them to break his heart

You don't really have a choice about what his family does.

as a girl who loved him by her heart, i have the responsibility to save his heart

No, it's not your responsibility. He's responsible for his own heart.

maybe he's failing to protect his heart, so he maybe hopeless, why shouldn't I make him win by doing it from my side?

It's still up to him to protect his own heart.

maybe he needs someone's help to protect it.... since i already love him, and willing to do anything for him, i will take the chance of protecting his heart

If he can't protect his own heart, how does he protect you?

I will try to protect mine. If we unite, maybe he can even protect mine❤️

Protect yourself from him and his family.

Why not be with him if he feels the same?

Not realistic.

He loved me a lot previously and told me that I got you so I trust him with all my heart

Keyword "previously", not now.

okay, i know that he gives up so easily. So, maybe due to tight situations he maybe losing up the hope. I will fight for him. I will fight for the truth. I will fight to know what's in his heart. I will fight to give him the privacy convo he needs.. i will win him finally

Are you sure you aren’t an Aries? 😂

Fighting can’t be your only answer to everything, especially when there’s only so much you can do.

No, I'm not an Aries, I'm a cancer girl

My second part still stand

I will fight for the truth. I will fight to know what's in his heart now

Wanna know how you can win? Give up and let go.

So will he come back to me??

No..

so i wil go back to him☺️

HE doesn't want you

HE liked you at first but then he found out how needy and emotionally unstable you are and now he doesn't want you anymore

Sorry for harsh truth but stop wasting your time and energy on bs
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I acted the same way with pisces and he loved it even more and demanded even more and more from me and was very connected with me after knowing my despo nature, and he was an ideal mate for me, but i lost him with some misunderstanding
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Is asking him for answers a wrong thing?

It's more like you're demanding it...

yes, I will demand for the truth about why am I psychologically getting abused by his family or through his messages

I get it. You love him. It's difficult to let go.

But at this point, in trying to get this truth, you may end up in jail. Is that really worth it to you?

If he really loves me, he will stand up for me and get on my side and not let me get into jail and he will save me

No he won't, or else he would have done more than what he has done already.

but he secretly is caring for me.

Are you reading his mind?

Once the same way, I got blocked from pisces man's phone. So, I called him right away and asked him for the truths and asked if he intentionally did it. But he said he never intentionally meant it and told me i love u and told me that someone else did it from his phone and secured his phone immediately and used to clear our convo as soon as possible after completing them and he protected me. Actually pisces man family did it, and he told it and he told me that we should be careful otherwise they won't let us speak, and he further fixed the things very strongly. Maybe this might happen with this virgo man too, and my gut feeling says that this virgo man may still love me and stand up for me if we get privacy

Pretty sure I'd win the lottery before you get that privacy.

Why don't you think that it works out with this virgo man the same way it had been with the pisces man?

He will never pick you over his family.

But pisces man did, but he said that i am equal with his family and even if they restrict this pisces man he said that he will come eloping with me if needed but he said he never wants to leave me, maybe same happens with the virgo man too

Virgo man =/= Pisces man

Maybe the things are happening for me to make us take our relationship to next level? As everything happens for a reason

That's just what you want to believe.

I believe it with my hear because there's always a blessing in disguise

The blessing here may just be for you to move on.

Why not try one more time with the help of someone else to talk with him, first time when i gave him a chance to open up, he opened up to his bestie about his family's behaviour

His family will see it as harassment.

who are his family in between to break his heart? Who gave them that right? I don't want them to break his heart

You don't really have a choice about what his family does.

as a girl who loved him by her heart, i have the responsibility to save his heart

No, it's not your responsibility. He's responsible for his own heart.

maybe he's failing to protect his heart, so he maybe hopeless, why shouldn't I make him win by doing it from my side?

It's still up to him to protect his own heart.

maybe he needs someone's help to protect it.... since i already love him, and willing to do anything for him, i will take the chance of protecting his heart

If he can't protect his own heart, how does he protect you?

I will try to protect mine. If we unite, maybe he can even protect mine❤️

Protect yourself from him and his family.

Why not be with him if he feels the same?

Not realistic.

He loved me a lot previously and told me that I got you so I trust him with all my heart

Keyword "previously", not now.

okay, i know that he gives up so easily. So, maybe due to tight situations he maybe losing up the hope. I will fight for him. I will fight for the truth. I will fight to know what's in his heart. I will fight to give him the privacy convo he needs.. i will win him finally

Are you sure you aren’t an Aries? 😂

Fighting can’t be your only answer to everything, especially when there’s only so much you can do.

No, I'm not an Aries, I'm a cancer girl

My second part still stand

I will fight for the truth. I will fight to know what's in his heart now

Wanna know how you can win? Give up and let go.

So will he come back to me??

No..

so i wil go back to him☺️

HE doesn't want you

HE liked you at first but then he found out how needy and emotionally unstable you are and now he doesn't want you anymore

Sorry for harsh truth but stop wasting your time and energy on bs

I acted the same way with pisces and he loved it even more and demanded even more and more from me and was very connected with me after knowing my despo nature, and he was an ideal mate for me, but i lost him with some misunderstanding

Was the misunderstanding you messing it up?
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yes, i misunderstood him and i lost him, so i thought not to lose the virgo man too with a misunderstanding. But you ppl are telling me to leave this virgo man, so without even trying, i'm leaving him, you already said me what happens to me next, and i don't want to ruin my beautiful life for a shitty person who doesn't even deserve to be a part of my life
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Let me take a wild guess on your sign.........



Cancer.

Lol 😆

On the previous thread she didnt want to admit she's a cancer. But we all know she is 😅

I'm done talking sense to this girl. She doesnt have any 😆

I remember that she is an only child and that is quite apparent in her threads.

Virgo will have to get restraining order.

Even if he does, she probably think it's his family who is doing it and not him. And will fight the restraining order. In her mind the virgo is in love with her 🤪🤣
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nah, getting into terms with it, i'm not in love with this heartless person at all. I will be in love with a heartful person only, but not a heartless person
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Is asking him for answers a wrong thing?

It's more like you're demanding it...

yes, I will demand for the truth about why am I psychologically getting abused by his family or through his messages

I get it. You love him. It's difficult to let go.

But at this point, in trying to get this truth, you may end up in jail. Is that really worth it to you?

If he really loves me, he will stand up for me and get on my side and not let me get into jail and he will save me

No he won't, or else he would have done more than what he has done already.

but he secretly is caring for me.

Are you reading his mind?

Once the same way, I got blocked from pisces man's phone. So, I called him right away and asked him for the truths and asked if he intentionally did it. But he said he never intentionally meant it and told me i love u and told me that someone else did it from his phone and secured his phone immediately and used to clear our convo as soon as possible after completing them and he protected me. Actually pisces man family did it, and he told it and he told me that we should be careful otherwise they won't let us speak, and he further fixed the things very strongly. Maybe this might happen with this virgo man too, and my gut feeling says that this virgo man may still love me and stand up for me if we get privacy

Pretty sure I'd win the lottery before you get that privacy.

Why don't you think that it works out with this virgo man the same way it had been with the pisces man?

He will never pick you over his family.

But pisces man did, but he said that i am equal with his family and even if they restrict this pisces man he said that he will come eloping with me if needed but he said he never wants to leave me, maybe same happens with the virgo man too

Virgo man =/= Pisces man

Maybe the things are happening for me to make us take our relationship to next level? As everything happens for a reason

That's just what you want to believe.

I believe it with my hear because there's always a blessing in disguise

The blessing here may just be for you to move on.

Why not try one more time with the help of someone else to talk with him, first time when i gave him a chance to open up, he opened up to his bestie about his family's behaviour

His family will see it as harassment.

who are his family in between to break his heart? Who gave them that right? I don't want them to break his heart

You don't really have a choice about what his family does.

as a girl who loved him by her heart, i have the responsibility to save his heart

No, it's not your responsibility. He's responsible for his own heart.

maybe he's failing to protect his heart, so he maybe hopeless, why shouldn't I make him win by doing it from my side?

It's still up to him to protect his own heart.

maybe he needs someone's help to protect it.... since i already love him, and willing to do anything for him, i will take the chance of protecting his heart

If he can't protect his own heart, how does he protect you?

I will try to protect mine. If we unite, maybe he can even protect mine❤️

Protect yourself from him and his family.

Why not be with him if he feels the same?

Not realistic.

He loved me a lot previously and told me that I got you so I trust him with all my heart

Keyword "previously", not now.

okay, i know that he gives up so easily. So, maybe due to tight situations he maybe losing up the hope. I will fight for him. I will fight for the truth. I will fight to know what's in his heart. I will fight to give him the privacy convo he needs.. i will win him finally

Are you sure you aren’t an Aries? 😂

Fighting can’t be your only answer to everything, especially when there’s only so much you can do.

No, I'm not an Aries, I'm a cancer girl

My second part still stand

I will fight for the truth. I will fight to know what's in his heart now

Wanna know how you can win? Give up and let go.

So will he come back to me??

No..

so i wil go back to him☺️

HE doesn't want you

HE liked you at first but then he found out how needy and emotionally unstable you are and now he doesn't want you anymore

Sorry for harsh truth but stop wasting your time and energy on bs

I acted the same way with pisces and he loved it even more and demanded even more and more from me and was very connected with me after knowing my despo nature, and he was an ideal mate for me, but i lost him with some misunderstanding

Cool.

Be with the pisces man. Leave the virgo in peace 😆
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Is asking him for answers a wrong thing?

It's more like you're demanding it...

yes, I will demand for the truth about why am I psychologically getting abused by his family or through his messages

I get it. You love him. It's difficult to let go.

But at this point, in trying to get this truth, you may end up in jail. Is that really worth it to you?

If he really loves me, he will stand up for me and get on my side and not let me get into jail and he will save me

No he won't, or else he would have done more than what he has done already.

but he secretly is caring for me.

Are you reading his mind?

Once the same way, I got blocked from pisces man's phone. So, I called him right away and asked him for the truths and asked if he intentionally did it. But he said he never intentionally meant it and told me i love u and told me that someone else did it from his phone and secured his phone immediately and used to clear our convo as soon as possible after completing them and he protected me. Actually pisces man family did it, and he told it and he told me that we should be careful otherwise they won't let us speak, and he further fixed the things very strongly. Maybe this might happen with this virgo man too, and my gut feeling says that this virgo man may still love me and stand up for me if we get privacy

Pretty sure I'd win the lottery before you get that privacy.

Why don't you think that it works out with this virgo man the same way it had been with the pisces man?

He will never pick you over his family.

But pisces man did, but he said that i am equal with his family and even if they restrict this pisces man he said that he will come eloping with me if needed but he said he never wants to leave me, maybe same happens with the virgo man too

Virgo man =/= Pisces man

Maybe the things are happening for me to make us take our relationship to next level? As everything happens for a reason

That's just what you want to believe.

I believe it with my hear because there's always a blessing in disguise

The blessing here may just be for you to move on.

Why not try one more time with the help of someone else to talk with him, first time when i gave him a chance to open up, he opened up to his bestie about his family's behaviour

His family will see it as harassment.

who are his family in between to break his heart? Who gave them that right? I don't want them to break his heart

You don't really have a choice about what his family does.

as a girl who loved him by her heart, i have the responsibility to save his heart

No, it's not your responsibility. He's responsible for his own heart.

maybe he's failing to protect his heart, so he maybe hopeless, why shouldn't I make him win by doing it from my side?

It's still up to him to protect his own heart.

maybe he needs someone's help to protect it.... since i already love him, and willing to do anything for him, i will take the chance of protecting his heart

If he can't protect his own heart, how does he protect you?

I will try to protect mine. If we unite, maybe he can even protect mine❤️

Protect yourself from him and his family.

Why not be with him if he feels the same?

Not realistic.

He loved me a lot previously and told me that I got you so I trust him with all my heart

Keyword "previously", not now.

okay, i know that he gives up so easily. So, maybe due to tight situations he maybe losing up the hope. I will fight for him. I will fight for the truth. I will fight to know what's in his heart. I will fight to give him the privacy convo he needs.. i will win him finally

Are you sure you aren’t an Aries? 😂

Fighting can’t be your only answer to everything, especially when there’s only so much you can do.

No, I'm not an Aries, I'm a cancer girl

My second part still stand

I will fight for the truth. I will fight to know what's in his heart now

Wanna know how you can win? Give up and let go.

So will he come back to me??

Move on from him and find out

aww thank u sis💛 but one final try i wanna give him and move on because that is the exact way i can get to know things in a clear way from him so that if needed i will never ever go back to him or remove him out of my heart completely.

One more try isn’t going to change a thing at this point

okay, it's just a try right? So i will try my last chance and if it doesn't work out, i will never ever look back at him

Could also land you in jail
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if you're always telling that i will land in jail, then i will definitely ask someone to talk with him and tell him to protect me from any dangers, if any going on. It's my responsibility to know about saving my life, so at least for this i will make someone to talk to him and to tell him not to let him play with my life
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Cancer.

Lol 😆

On the previous thread she didnt want to admit she's a cancer. But we all know she is 😅

I'm done talking sense to this girl. She doesnt have any 😆

I remember that she is an only child and that is quite apparent in her threads.

Virgo will have to get restraining order.

Even if he does, she probably think it's his family who is doing it and not him. And will fight the restraining order. In her mind the virgo is in love with her 🤪🤣

nah, getting into terms with it, i'm not in love with this heartless person at all. I will be in love with a heartful person only, but not a heartless person

Then why are you still talking about him and terrorizing him?
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because already some things were happened on his side. And I'm afraid they might already have said to police. I just need to ask him about this
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Cancer.

Lol 😆

On the previous thread she didnt want to admit she's a cancer. But we all know she is 😅

I'm done talking sense to this girl. She doesnt have any 😆

I remember that she is an only child and that is quite apparent in her threads.

Virgo will have to get restraining order.

Even if he does, she probably think it's his family who is doing it and not him. And will fight the restraining order. In her mind the virgo is in love with her 🤪🤣

nah, getting into terms with it, i'm not in love with this heartless person at all. I will be in love with a heartful person only, but not a heartless person

Then why are you still talking about him and terrorizing him?

because already some things were happened on his side. And I'm afraid they might already have said to police. I just need to ask him about this

Yes, keep on terrorizing him. Looking forward to your dxpnet post sent from jail 🥳
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i don't know why you are supporting a shitty virgo guy, if u are doing this, u are also a shitty individual just as him, pisces man is into my category, he made me feel like queen before everyone, and i didn't realize it until i lost him, now this virgo man doesn't even do a 1% of my pisces man did
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Cancer.

Lol 😆

On the previous thread she didnt want to admit she's a cancer. But we all know she is 😅

I'm done talking sense to this girl. She doesnt have any 😆

I remember that she is an only child and that is quite apparent in her threads.

Virgo will have to get restraining order.

Even if he does, she probably think it's his family who is doing it and not him. And will fight the restraining order. In her mind the virgo is in love with her 🤪🤣

nah, getting into terms with it, i'm not in love with this heartless person at all. I will be in love with a heartful person only, but not a heartless person

Then why are you still talking about him and terrorizing him?

because already some things were happened on his side. And I'm afraid they might already have said to police. I just need to ask him about this

Yes, keep on terrorizing him. Looking forward to your dxpnet post sent from jail 🥳

i don't know why you are supporting a shitty virgo guy, if u are doing this, u are also a shitty individual just as him, pisces man is into my category, he made me feel like queen before everyone, and i didn't realize it until i lost him, now this virgo man doesn't even do a 1% of my pisces man did

Hahahah 😆

So anyone who doesnt buy your victim story is the bad guy? 😆 what you gonna do? Terrorize me? Smear campaigns? 🤣 oooh im so scared.

Youre the shitty person hun. You make people's life miserable because only YOUR feeling that matters 🤪🤣

Let me put it this way, you have a pisces who adores you yet your throwing every piece of your energy towards a guy who doesnt give you even 1% of the other guy? What does that make you?

I have the answer... desperate..

Deep down your ego is hurt because you have 1 smart virgo man who unlike the other men, sees the toxicity from you and decided to run.

Why dont you want me when other men want me, Virgo—!!!!!

Your ego is too fragile to handle the rejection. So you dont accept that he doesnt want you and put the blame to everything else not wanting to accept this dude doesnt want you 🤣

When can you finally see that this dude clearly doesnt want you? And no he wont regret when you move on. He'll think it is a good riddance...
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" Why dont you want me when other men want me, Virgo—!!!!! "

Yes, This is what I wanna ask him! But tell me one thing, why did he showered me with care and affection when I called him when he blocked me? My gut is saying he may not sent me those messages because he loved me even when I hurted this virgo man in the past, he loved me despite of my mistakes, when he spoke to me on call before his brother, he was sweetly speaking to me, but his brother was harsh. when i messages him two days ago, i got response harshly in a way that i never listened him in that way earlier, he even said me on call that please don't think bad about me that i have negative attitude just because i am saying u that don't call or message, understand my situation, don't call or message me, did u get it? So i asked him so i should stop talking to you right? He said noooo u can talk with me but plz don't call as yourself i will only call u and talk to u later but his brother was scolding from beside. Yesterday I was mentioning about his brother and told that i didn't like his brother's behaviour and i got a message i will block you respect dangers, WTF? What dangers? Maybe it was his brother's reply. My message was seen for about 6 mins and then i got a reply. It means that someone saw that message and their family may have replied me
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Is asking him for answers a wrong thing?

It's more like you're demanding it...

yes, I will demand for the truth about why am I psychologically getting abused by his family or through his messages

I get it. You love him. It's difficult to let go.

But at this point, in trying to get this truth, you may end up in jail. Is that really worth it to you?

If he really loves me, he will stand up for me and get on my side and not let me get into jail and he will save me

No he won't, or else he would have done more than what he has done already.

but he secretly is caring for me.

Are you reading his mind?

Once the same way, I got blocked from pisces man's phone. So, I called him right away and asked him for the truths and asked if he intentionally did it. But he said he never intentionally meant it and told me i love u and told me that someone else did it from his phone and secured his phone immediately and used to clear our convo as soon as possible after completing them and he protected me. Actually pisces man family did it, and he told it and he told me that we should be careful otherwise they won't let us speak, and he further fixed the things very strongly. Maybe this might happen with this virgo man too, and my gut feeling says that this virgo man may still love me and stand up for me if we get privacy

Pretty sure I'd win the lottery before you get that privacy.

Why don't you think that it works out with this virgo man the same way it had been with the pisces man?

He will never pick you over his family.

But pisces man did, but he said that i am equal with his family and even if they restrict this pisces man he said that he will come eloping with me if needed but he said he never wants to leave me, maybe same happens with the virgo man too

Virgo man =/= Pisces man

Maybe the things are happening for me to make us take our relationship to next level? As everything happens for a reason

That's just what you want to believe.

I believe it with my hear because there's always a blessing in disguise

The blessing here may just be for you to move on.

Why not try one more time with the help of someone else to talk with him, first time when i gave him a chance to open up, he opened up to his bestie about his family's behaviour

His family will see it as harassment.

who are his family in between to break his heart? Who gave them that right? I don't want them to break his heart

You don't really have a choice about what his family does.

as a girl who loved him by her heart, i have the responsibility to save his heart

No, it's not your responsibility. He's responsible for his own heart.

maybe he's failing to protect his heart, so he maybe hopeless, why shouldn't I make him win by doing it from my side?

It's still up to him to protect his own heart.

maybe he needs someone's help to protect it.... since i already love him, and willing to do anything for him, i will take the chance of protecting his heart

If he can't protect his own heart, how does he protect you?

I will try to protect mine. If we unite, maybe he can even protect mine❤️

Protect yourself from him and his family.

Why not be with him if he feels the same?

Not realistic.

He loved me a lot previously and told me that I got you so I trust him with all my heart

Keyword "previously", not now.

okay, i know that he gives up so easily. So, maybe due to tight situations he maybe losing up the hope. I will fight for him. I will fight for the truth. I will fight to know what's in his heart. I will fight to give him the privacy convo he needs.. i will win him finally

Are you sure you aren’t an Aries? 😂

Fighting can’t be your only answer to everything, especially when there’s only so much you can do.

No, I'm not an Aries, I'm a cancer girl

My second part still stand

I will fight for the truth. I will fight to know what's in his heart now

Wanna know how you can win? Give up and let go.

So will he come back to me??

Move on from him and find out
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okay, as per my guess, if this virgo man saw my messages, he would have sympathized me instead of hurting me more when i was already expressing my hurt. I wantedly sent him messages about him wrongly just to check him whether he will right them, but he didn't right any of my wrong sayings, and when i started messaging him about his brother, i got a message that i will block you, respect dangers. Even when i sent him messages the last time, his brother told that he only read those messages and told that he will not give the phone to him, and he told that he will not let me speak with him and asked me what was going on between us and i said nothing, i'm just his friend, and he told me that why am i distracting his studies, after talking to this virgo man, he gave me all indirect clues and told me that his brother is scolding him a lot and maybe even beating him, so he cutted the call immediately with a tensed hurry, after that what happened idk, maybe his brother took away his phone because while i was speaking only call was cutted! So maybe his brother messaged me that time. Maybe he is completely not given his phone now! I wil try getting to know things from him in some way! I know he won't hurt others unnecessarily because he always makes sure everyone around him is okay, and he even treats his enemy with kindness, so I fell f
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Cancer.

Lol 😆

On the previous thread she didnt want to admit she's a cancer. But we all know she is 😅

I'm done talking sense to this girl. She doesnt have any 😆

I remember that she is an only child and that is quite apparent in her threads.

Virgo will have to get restraining order.

Even if he does, she probably think it's his family who is doing it and not him. And will fight the restraining order. In her mind the virgo is in love with her 🤪🤣

nah, getting into terms with it, i'm not in love with this heartless person at all. I will be in love with a heartful person only, but not a heartless person

Then why are you still talking about him and terrorizing him?

because already some things were happened on his side. And I'm afraid they might already have said to police. I just need to ask him about this

Yes, keep on terrorizing him. Looking forward to your dxpnet post sent from jail 🥳

i don't know why you are supporting a shitty virgo guy, if u are doing this, u are also a shitty individual just as him, pisces man is into my category, he made me feel like queen before everyone, and i didn't realize it until i lost him, now this virgo man doesn't even do a 1% of my pisces man did

Hahahah 😆

So anyone who doesnt buy your victim story is the bad guy? 😆 what you gonna do? Terrorize me? Smear campaigns? 🤣 oooh im so scared.

Youre the shitty person hun. You make people's life miserable because only YOUR feeling that matters 🤪🤣

Let me put it this way, you have a pisces who adores you yet your throwing every piece of your energy towards a guy who doesnt give you even 1% of the other guy? What does that make you?

I have the answer... desperate..

Deep down your ego is hurt because you have 1 smart virgo man who unlike the other men, sees the toxicity from you and decided to run.

Why dont you want me when other men want me, Virgo—!!!!!

Your ego is too fragile to handle the rejection. So you dont accept that he doesnt want you and put the blame to everything else not wanting to accept this dude doesnt want you 🤣

When can you finally see that this dude clearly doesnt want you? And no he wont regret when you move on. He'll think it is a good riddance...

" Why dont you want me when other men want me, Virgo—!!!!! "

Yes, This is what I wanna ask him! But tell me one thing, why did he showered me with care and affection when I called him when he blocked me? My gut is saying he may not sent me those messages because he loved me even when I hurted this virgo man in the past, he loved me despite of my mistakes, when he spoke to me on call before his brother, he was sweetly speaking to me, but his brother was harsh. when i messages him two days ago, i got response harshly in a way that i never listened him in that way earlier, he even said me on call that please don't think bad about me that i have negative attitude just because i am saying u that don't call or message, understand my situation, don't call or message me, did u get it? So i asked him so i should stop talking to you right? He said noooo u can talk with me but plz don't call as yourself i will only call u and talk to u later but his brother was scolding from beside. Yesterday I was mentioning about his brother and told that i didn't like his brother's behaviour and i got a message i will block you respect dangers, WTF? What dangers? Maybe it was his brother's reply. My message was seen for about 6 mins and then i got a reply. It means that someone saw that message and their family may have replied me

Bahahahah so I was right 🤣🤣 your ego needs some stroking 😅🤣

About your long reply. This is what I have to say.

Welcome to a mutable's double life 🥂

He wanted you to be his secret lover but you're too intrusive and obsessive to become one. So he decided to cut you off instead. Those 6 mins was him thinking whether to keep you as his double life or not..

I mean it when i said you should find another cancer.

Mutables (virgo,pisces,sagittarius,gemini) will only drive you nuts.. you have to love our 2 personalities to keep us as a whole, otherwise you will only have 1 side like you did few days ago until he sees that youre not fit for any of them..
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"He wanted you to be his secret lover but you're too intrusive and obsessive to become one"

But god didn't wanted me to be his secret lover, so opened me before his brother and family to check whether he publicly loves me as a forever or not, and i think so he is failing at it, who's loss? His loss! " If someone does like this for me, then I would stand by them at any cost
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Cancer.

Lol 😆

On the previous thread she didnt want to admit she's a cancer. But we all know she is 😅

I'm done talking sense to this girl. She doesnt have any 😆

I remember that she is an only child and that is quite apparent in her threads.

Virgo will have to get restraining order.

Even if he does, she probably think it's his family who is doing it and not him. And will fight the restraining order. In her mind the virgo is in love with her 🤪🤣

nah, getting into terms with it, i'm not in love with this heartless person at all. I will be in love with a heartful person only, but not a heartless person

Then why are you still talking about him and terrorizing him?

because already some things were happened on his side. And I'm afraid they might already have said to police. I just need to ask him about this

Yes, keep on terrorizing him. Looking forward to your dxpnet post sent from jail 🥳

i don't know why you are supporting a shitty virgo guy, if u are doing this, u are also a shitty individual just as him, pisces man is into my category, he made me feel like queen before everyone, and i didn't realize it until i lost him, now this virgo man doesn't even do a 1% of my pisces man did

Hahahah 😆

So anyone who doesnt buy your victim story is the bad guy? 😆 what you gonna do? Terrorize me? Smear campaigns? 🤣 oooh im so scared.

Youre the shitty person hun. You make people's life miserable because only YOUR feeling that matters 🤪🤣

Let me put it this way, you have a pisces who adores you yet your throwing every piece of your energy towards a guy who doesnt give you even 1% of the other guy? What does that make you?

I have the answer... desperate..

Deep down your ego is hurt because you have 1 smart virgo man who unlike the other men, sees the toxicity from you and decided to run.

Why dont you want me when other men want me, Virgo—!!!!!

Your ego is too fragile to handle the rejection. So you dont accept that he doesnt want you and put the blame to everything else not wanting to accept this dude doesnt want you 🤣

When can you finally see that this dude clearly doesnt want you? And no he wont regret when you move on. He'll think it is a good riddance...

" Why dont you want me when other men want me, Virgo—!!!!! "

Yes, This is what I wanna ask him! But tell me one thing, why did he showered me with care and affection when I called him when he blocked me? My gut is saying he may not sent me those messages because he loved me even when I hurted this virgo man in the past, he loved me despite of my mistakes, when he spoke to me on call before his brother, he was sweetly speaking to me, but his brother was harsh. when i messages him two days ago, i got response harshly in a way that i never listened him in that way earlier, he even said me on call that please don't think bad about me that i have negative attitude just because i am saying u that don't call or message, understand my situation, don't call or message me, did u get it? So i asked him so i should stop talking to you right? He said noooo u can talk with me but plz don't call as yourself i will only call u and talk to u later but his brother was scolding from beside. Yesterday I was mentioning about his brother and told that i didn't like his brother's behaviour and i got a message i will block you respect dangers, WTF? What dangers? Maybe it was his brother's reply. My message was seen for about 6 mins and then i got a reply. It means that someone saw that message and their family may have replied me

Bahahahah so I was right 🤣🤣 your ego needs some stroking 😅🤣

About your long reply. This is what I have to say.

Welcome to a mutable's double life 🥂

He wanted you to be his secret lover but you're too intrusive and obsessive to become one. So he decided to cut you off instead. Those 6 mins was him thinking whether to keep you as his double life or not..

I mean it when i said you should find another cancer.

Mutables (virgo,pisces,sagittarius,gemini) will only drive you nuts.. you have to love our 2 personalities to keep us as a whole, otherwise you will only have 1 side like you did few days ago until he sees that youre not fit for any of them..

"He wanted you to be his secret lover but you're too intrusive and obsessive to become one"

But god didn't wanted me to be his secret lover, so opened me before his brother and family to check whether he publicly loves me as a forever or not, and i think so he is failing at it, who's loss? His loss! " If someone does like this for me, then I would stand by them at any cost

Omg.. not the brightest one huh, no wonder youre easily played.

I meant, his secret lover from his family.

Thats why he said he is the one who calls you and not the other way around. Get it?

He wanted you to be his secret lover from his family. But now he doesnt want to because you'll only end up being a trouble for him.
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noo, i won't want to be a trouble for him, i want to be his lover then if he loves to be with me still❤️
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Let me take a wild guess on your sign.........



Cancer.

Lol 😆

On the previous thread she didnt want to admit she's a cancer. But we all know she is 😅

I'm done talking sense to this girl. She doesnt have any 😆

I remember that she is an only child and that is quite apparent in her threads.

Virgo will have to get restraining order.

Even if he does, she probably think it's his family who is doing it and not him. And will fight the restraining order. In her mind the virgo is in love with her 🤪🤣

nah, getting into terms with it, i'm not in love with this heartless person at all. I will be in love with a heartful person only, but not a heartless person

Then why are you still talking about him and terrorizing him?

because already some things were happened on his side. And I'm afraid they might already have said to police. I just need to ask him about this

Yes, keep on terrorizing him. Looking forward to your dxpnet post sent from jail 🥳

i don't know why you are supporting a shitty virgo guy, if u are doing this, u are also a shitty individual just as him, pisces man is into my category, he made me feel like queen before everyone, and i didn't realize it until i lost him, now this virgo man doesn't even do a 1% of my pisces man did

Hahahah 😆

So anyone who doesnt buy your victim story is the bad guy? 😆 what you gonna do? Terrorize me? Smear campaigns? 🤣 oooh im so scared.

Youre the shitty person hun. You make people's life miserable because only YOUR feeling that matters 🤪🤣

Let me put it this way, you have a pisces who adores you yet your throwing every piece of your energy towards a guy who doesnt give you even 1% of the other guy? What does that make you?

I have the answer... desperate..

Deep down your ego is hurt because you have 1 smart virgo man who unlike the other men, sees the toxicity from you and decided to run.

Why dont you want me when other men want me, Virgo—!!!!!

Your ego is too fragile to handle the rejection. So you dont accept that he doesnt want you and put the blame to everything else not wanting to accept this dude doesnt want you 🤣

When can you finally see that this dude clearly doesnt want you? And no he wont regret when you move on. He'll think it is a good riddance...

" Why dont you want me when other men want me, Virgo—!!!!! "

Yes, This is what I wanna ask him! But tell me one thing, why did he showered me with care and affection when I called him when he blocked me? My gut is saying he may not sent me those messages because he loved me even when I hurted this virgo man in the past, he loved me despite of my mistakes, when he spoke to me on call before his brother, he was sweetly speaking to me, but his brother was harsh. when i messages him two days ago, i got response harshly in a way that i never listened him in that way earlier, he even said me on call that please don't think bad about me that i have negative attitude just because i am saying u that don't call or message, understand my situation, don't call or message me, did u get it? So i asked him so i should stop talking to you right? He said noooo u can talk with me but plz don't call as yourself i will only call u and talk to u later but his brother was scolding from beside. Yesterday I was mentioning about his brother and told that i didn't like his brother's behaviour and i got a message i will block you respect dangers, WTF? What dangers? Maybe it was his brother's reply. My message was seen for about 6 mins and then i got a reply. It means that someone saw that message and their family may have replied me

Bahahahah so I was right 🤣🤣 your ego needs some stroking 😅🤣

About your long reply. This is what I have to say.

Welcome to a mutable's double life 🥂

He wanted you to be his secret lover but you're too intrusive and obsessive to become one. So he decided to cut you off instead. Those 6 mins was him thinking whether to keep you as his double life or not..

I mean it when i said you should find another cancer.

Mutables (virgo,pisces,sagittarius,gemini) will only drive you nuts.. you have to love our 2 personalities to keep us as a whole, otherwise you will only have 1 side like you did few days ago until he sees that youre not fit for any of them..

"He wanted you to be his secret lover but you're too intrusive and obsessive to become one"

But god didn't wanted me to be his secret lover, so opened me before his brother and family to check whether he publicly loves me as a forever or not, and i think so he is failing at it, who's loss? His loss! " If someone does like this for me, then I would stand by them at any cost

Omg.. not the brightest one huh, no wonder youre easily played.

I meant, his secret lover from his family.

Thats why he said he is the one who calls you and not the other way around. Get it?

He wanted you to be his secret lover from his family. But now he doesnt want to because you'll only end up being a trouble for him.

noo, i won't want to be a trouble for him, i want to be his lover then if he loves to be with me still❤️

Then stop terrorizing him!! Stop calling and stop messaging him. Stop getting him in troubles. Let him come to you in his own terms...

Just send him 1 more message "i miss you.. i'm here whenever you need me to"

And leave it at that. Enjoy your life. He'll come in his own terms.

But just so you know, double life means youre going to be a secret for a while, months maybe years. Would you be cool with that? And it's going to be a secret.. get it? So you have to be secretive and not attract a lot of attention.
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"i miss you.. i'm here whenever you need me to"

I messaged him the same last time and scolded by his brother for that very harshly. His brother said that he will not be shown my messages too, and was not even allowed to speak with me, but after requesting him a lot, he gave him just to get to know what is happening between us, and after he trying to tell me about his secret talk with me, his brother scolded and beat him a lot and he immediately cutted the call telling that he will talk to me later
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Let me take a wild guess on your sign.........



Cancer.

Lol 😆

On the previous thread she didnt want to admit she's a cancer. But we all know she is 😅

I'm done talking sense to this girl. She doesnt have any 😆

I remember that she is an only child and that is quite apparent in her threads.

Virgo will have to get restraining order.

Even if he does, she probably think it's his family who is doing it and not him. And will fight the restraining order. In her mind the virgo is in love with her 🤪🤣

nah, getting into terms with it, i'm not in love with this heartless person at all. I will be in love with a heartful person only, but not a heartless person

Then why are you still talking about him and terrorizing him?

because already some things were happened on his side. And I'm afraid they might already have said to police. I just need to ask him about this

Yes, keep on terrorizing him. Looking forward to your dxpnet post sent from jail 🥳

i don't know why you are supporting a shitty virgo guy, if u are doing this, u are also a shitty individual just as him, pisces man is into my category, he made me feel like queen before everyone, and i didn't realize it until i lost him, now this virgo man doesn't even do a 1% of my pisces man did

Hahahah 😆

So anyone who doesnt buy your victim story is the bad guy? 😆 what you gonna do? Terrorize me? Smear campaigns? 🤣 oooh im so scared.

Youre the shitty person hun. You make people's life miserable because only YOUR feeling that matters 🤪🤣

Let me put it this way, you have a pisces who adores you yet your throwing every piece of your energy towards a guy who doesnt give you even 1% of the other guy? What does that make you?

I have the answer... desperate..

Deep down your ego is hurt because you have 1 smart virgo man who unlike the other men, sees the toxicity from you and decided to run.

Why dont you want me when other men want me, Virgo—!!!!!

Your ego is too fragile to handle the rejection. So you dont accept that he doesnt want you and put the blame to everything else not wanting to accept this dude doesnt want you 🤣

When can you finally see that this dude clearly doesnt want you? And no he wont regret when you move on. He'll think it is a good riddance...

" Why dont you want me when other men want me, Virgo—!!!!! "

Yes, This is what I wanna ask him! But tell me one thing, why did he showered me with care and affection when I called him when he blocked me? My gut is saying he may not sent me those messages because he loved me even when I hurted this virgo man in the past, he loved me despite of my mistakes, when he spoke to me on call before his brother, he was sweetly speaking to me, but his brother was harsh. when i messages him two days ago, i got response harshly in a way that i never listened him in that way earlier, he even said me on call that please don't think bad about me that i have negative attitude just because i am saying u that don't call or message, understand my situation, don't call or message me, did u get it? So i asked him so i should stop talking to you right? He said noooo u can talk with me but plz don't call as yourself i will only call u and talk to u later but his brother was scolding from beside. Yesterday I was mentioning about his brother and told that i didn't like his brother's behaviour and i got a message i will block you respect dangers, WTF? What dangers? Maybe it was his brother's reply. My message was seen for about 6 mins and then i got a reply. It means that someone saw that message and their family may have replied me

Bahahahah so I was right 🤣🤣 your ego needs some stroking 😅🤣

About your long reply. This is what I have to say.

Welcome to a mutable's double life 🥂

He wanted you to be his secret lover but you're too intrusive and obsessive to become one. So he decided to cut you off instead. Those 6 mins was him thinking whether to keep you as his double life or not..

I mean it when i said you should find another cancer.

Mutables (virgo,pisces,sagittarius,gemini) will only drive you nuts.. you have to love our 2 personalities to keep us as a whole, otherwise you will only have 1 side like you did few days ago until he sees that youre not fit for any of them..

"He wanted you to be his secret lover but you're too intrusive and obsessive to become one"

But god didn't wanted me to be his secret lover, so opened me before his brother and family to check whether he publicly loves me as a forever or not, and i think so he is failing at it, who's loss? His loss! " If someone does like this for me, then I would stand by them at any cost

Omg.. not the brightest one huh, no wonder youre easily played.

I meant, his secret lover from his family.

Thats why he said he is the one who calls you and not the other way around. Get it?

He wanted you to be his secret lover from his family. But now he doesnt want to because you'll only end up being a trouble for him.

noo, i won't want to be a trouble for him, i want to be his lover then if he loves to be with me still❤️

Then stop terrorizing him!! Stop calling and stop messaging him. Stop getting him in troubles. Let him come to you in his own terms...

Just send him 1 more message "i miss you.. i'm here whenever you need me to"

And leave it at that. Enjoy your life. He'll come in his own terms.

But just so you know, double life means youre going to be a secret for a while, months maybe years. Would you be cool with that? And it's going to be a secret.. get it? So you have to be secretive and not attract a lot of attention.

"i miss you.. i'm here whenever you need me to"

I messaged him the same last time and scolded by his brother for that very harshly. His brother said that he will not be shown my messages too, and was not even allowed to speak with me, but after requesting him a lot, he gave him just to get to know what is happening between us, and after he trying to tell me about his secret talk with me, his brother scolded ans beat him a lot and he immediately cutted the call telling that he will talk to me later

Cool.. then all you have to do right now is just wait. Just wait
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i actually lashed out in chat on that day in anger, and i don't know whether he took those words to his heart or seen or not also i don't know, i messaged him brother that i will not talk to him ever if that's what all his brother needs, and i messed things up there, and waited for a week, no call from him, i messaged him yesterday saying i hate you, i got responses as i said in my question, i said sorry i never meant to hurt you and started expressing my grief over his brother's behaviour and i got a message i will block you respect dangers! I was like WTF! Is his bro who replied me?
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Let me take a wild guess on your sign.........



Cancer.

Lol 😆

On the previous thread she didnt want to admit she's a cancer. But we all know she is 😅

I'm done talking sense to this girl. She doesnt have any 😆

I remember that she is an only child and that is quite apparent in her threads.

Virgo will have to get restraining order.

Even if he does, she probably think it's his family who is doing it and not him. And will fight the restraining order. In her mind the virgo is in love with her 🤪🤣

nah, getting into terms with it, i'm not in love with this heartless person at all. I will be in love with a heartful person only, but not a heartless person

Then why are you still talking about him and terrorizing him?

because already some things were happened on his side. And I'm afraid they might already have said to police. I just need to ask him about this

Yes, keep on terrorizing him. Looking forward to your dxpnet post sent from jail 🥳

i don't know why you are supporting a shitty virgo guy, if u are doing this, u are also a shitty individual just as him, pisces man is into my category, he made me feel like queen before everyone, and i didn't realize it until i lost him, now this virgo man doesn't even do a 1% of my pisces man did

Hahahah 😆

So anyone who doesnt buy your victim story is the bad guy? 😆 what you gonna do? Terrorize me? Smear campaigns? 🤣 oooh im so scared.

Youre the shitty person hun. You make people's life miserable because only YOUR feeling that matters 🤪🤣

Let me put it this way, you have a pisces who adores you yet your throwing every piece of your energy towards a guy who doesnt give you even 1% of the other guy? What does that make you?

I have the answer... desperate..

Deep down your ego is hurt because you have 1 smart virgo man who unlike the other men, sees the toxicity from you and decided to run.

Why dont you want me when other men want me, Virgo—!!!!!

Your ego is too fragile to handle the rejection. So you dont accept that he doesnt want you and put the blame to everything else not wanting to accept this dude doesnt want you 🤣

When can you finally see that this dude clearly doesnt want you? And no he wont regret when you move on. He'll think it is a good riddance...

" Why dont you want me when other men want me, Virgo—!!!!! "

Yes, This is what I wanna ask him! But tell me one thing, why did he showered me with care and affection when I called him when he blocked me? My gut is saying he may not sent me those messages because he loved me even when I hurted this virgo man in the past, he loved me despite of my mistakes, when he spoke to me on call before his brother, he was sweetly speaking to me, but his brother was harsh. when i messages him two days ago, i got response harshly in a way that i never listened him in that way earlier, he even said me on call that please don't think bad about me that i have negative attitude just because i am saying u that don't call or message, understand my situation, don't call or message me, did u get it? So i asked him so i should stop talking to you right? He said noooo u can talk with me but plz don't call as yourself i will only call u and talk to u later but his brother was scolding from beside. Yesterday I was mentioning about his brother and told that i didn't like his brother's behaviour and i got a message i will block you respect dangers, WTF? What dangers? Maybe it was his brother's reply. My message was seen for about 6 mins and then i got a reply. It means that someone saw that message and their family may have replied me

Bahahahah so I was right 🤣🤣 your ego needs some stroking 😅🤣

About your long reply. This is what I have to say.

Welcome to a mutable's double life 🥂

He wanted you to be his secret lover but you're too intrusive and obsessive to become one. So he decided to cut you off instead. Those 6 mins was him thinking whether to keep you as his double life or not..

I mean it when i said you should find another cancer.

Mutables (virgo,pisces,sagittarius,gemini) will only drive you nuts.. you have to love our 2 personalities to keep us as a whole, otherwise you will only have 1 side like you did few days ago until he sees that youre not fit for any of them..

"He wanted you to be his secret lover but you're too intrusive and obsessive to become one"

But god didn't wanted me to be his secret lover, so opened me before his brother and family to check whether he publicly loves me as a forever or not, and i think so he is failing at it, who's loss? His loss! " If someone does like this for me, then I would stand by them at any cost

Omg.. not the brightest one huh, no wonder youre easily played.

I meant, his secret lover from his family.

Thats why he said he is the one who calls you and not the other way around. Get it?

He wanted you to be his secret lover from his family. But now he doesnt want to because you'll only end up being a trouble for him.

noo, i won't want to be a trouble for him, i want to be his lover then if he loves to be with me still❤️

I don’t think he wants to be your lover back and we all have free will. It’s his choice if he wants to be with you or not. So far... he doesn’t want to be with you, yet you come back here trying to force this relationship.
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he wanted me to be his lover at some point, but i messed things up🥺
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Let me take a wild guess on your sign.........



Cancer.

Lol 😆

On the previous thread she didnt want to admit she's a cancer. But we all know she is 😅

I'm done talking sense to this girl. She doesnt have any 😆

I remember that she is an only child and that is quite apparent in her threads.

Virgo will have to get restraining order.

Even if he does, she probably think it's his family who is doing it and not him. And will fight the restraining order. In her mind the virgo is in love with her 🤪🤣

nah, getting into terms with it, i'm not in love with this heartless person at all. I will be in love with a heartful person only, but not a heartless person

Then why are you still talking about him and terrorizing him?

because already some things were happened on his side. And I'm afraid they might already have said to police. I just need to ask him about this

Yes, keep on terrorizing him. Looking forward to your dxpnet post sent from jail 🥳

i don't know why you are supporting a shitty virgo guy, if u are doing this, u are also a shitty individual just as him, pisces man is into my category, he made me feel like queen before everyone, and i didn't realize it until i lost him, now this virgo man doesn't even do a 1% of my pisces man did

Hahahah 😆

So anyone who doesnt buy your victim story is the bad guy? 😆 what you gonna do? Terrorize me? Smear campaigns? 🤣 oooh im so scared.

Youre the shitty person hun. You make people's life miserable because only YOUR feeling that matters 🤪🤣

Let me put it this way, you have a pisces who adores you yet your throwing every piece of your energy towards a guy who doesnt give you even 1% of the other guy? What does that make you?

I have the answer... desperate..

Deep down your ego is hurt because you have 1 smart virgo man who unlike the other men, sees the toxicity from you and decided to run.

Why dont you want me when other men want me, Virgo—!!!!!

Your ego is too fragile to handle the rejection. So you dont accept that he doesnt want you and put the blame to everything else not wanting to accept this dude doesnt want you 🤣

When can you finally see that this dude clearly doesnt want you? And no he wont regret when you move on. He'll think it is a good riddance...

" Why dont you want me when other men want me, Virgo—!!!!! "

Yes, This is what I wanna ask him! But tell me one thing, why did he showered me with care and affection when I called him when he blocked me? My gut is saying he may not sent me those messages because he loved me even when I hurted this virgo man in the past, he loved me despite of my mistakes, when he spoke to me on call before his brother, he was sweetly speaking to me, but his brother was harsh. when i messages him two days ago, i got response harshly in a way that i never listened him in that way earlier, he even said me on call that please don't think bad about me that i have negative attitude just because i am saying u that don't call or message, understand my situation, don't call or message me, did u get it? So i asked him so i should stop talking to you right? He said noooo u can talk with me but plz don't call as yourself i will only call u and talk to u later but his brother was scolding from beside. Yesterday I was mentioning about his brother and told that i didn't like his brother's behaviour and i got a message i will block you respect dangers, WTF? What dangers? Maybe it was his brother's reply. My message was seen for about 6 mins and then i got a reply. It means that someone saw that message and their family may have replied me

Bahahahah so I was right 🤣🤣 your ego needs some stroking 😅🤣

About your long reply. This is what I have to say.

Welcome to a mutable's double life 🥂

He wanted you to be his secret lover but you're too intrusive and obsessive to become one. So he decided to cut you off instead. Those 6 mins was him thinking whether to keep you as his double life or not..

I mean it when i said you should find another cancer.

Mutables (virgo,pisces,sagittarius,gemini) will only drive you nuts.. you have to love our 2 personalities to keep us as a whole, otherwise you will only have 1 side like you did few days ago until he sees that youre not fit for any of them..

"He wanted you to be his secret lover but you're too intrusive and obsessive to become one"

But god didn't wanted me to be his secret lover, so opened me before his brother and family to check whether he publicly loves me as a forever or not, and i think so he is failing at it, who's loss? His loss! " If someone does like this for me, then I would stand by them at any cost

Omg.. not the brightest one huh, no wonder youre easily played.

I meant, his secret lover from his family.

Thats why he said he is the one who calls you and not the other way around. Get it?

He wanted you to be his secret lover from his family. But now he doesnt want to because you'll only end up being a trouble for him.

noo, i won't want to be a trouble for him, i want to be his lover then if he loves to be with me still❤️

Then stop terrorizing him!! Stop calling and stop messaging him. Stop getting him in troubles. Let him come to you in his own terms...

Just send him 1 more message "i miss you.. i'm here whenever you need me to"

And leave it at that. Enjoy your life. He'll come in his own terms.

But just so you know, double life means youre going to be a secret for a while, months maybe years. Would you be cool with that? And it's going to be a secret.. get it? So you have to be secretive and not attract a lot of attention.

"i miss you.. i'm here whenever you need me to"

I messaged him the same last time and scolded by his brother for that very harshly. His brother said that he will not be shown my messages too, and was not even allowed to speak with me, but after requesting him a lot, he gave him just to get to know what is happening between us, and after he trying to tell me about his secret talk with me, his brother scolded ans beat him a lot and he immediately cutted the call telling that he will talk to me later

Cool.. then all you have to do right now is just wait. Just wait

i actually lashed out in chat on that day in anger, and i don't know whether he took those words to his heart or seen or not also i don't know, i messaged him brother that i will not talk to him ever if that's what all his brother needs, and i messed things up there, and waited for a week, no call from him, i messaged him yesterday saying i hate you, i got responses as i said in my question, i said sorry i never meant to hurt you and started expressing my grief over his brother's behaviour and i got a message i will block you respect dangers! I was like WTF! Is his bro who replied me?

Lol 😆

Yeah you ruined it. I thought the "i miss you, i am here whenever you want me to" was the last message you sent. But nope, you just ruined it. Congratulations 🥂
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now what should I do?🥺
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Let me take a wild guess on your sign.........



Cancer.

Lol 😆

On the previous thread she didnt want to admit she's a cancer. But we all know she is 😅

I'm done talking sense to this girl. She doesnt have any 😆

I remember that she is an only child and that is quite apparent in her threads.

Virgo will have to get restraining order.

Even if he does, she probably think it's his family who is doing it and not him. And will fight the restraining order. In her mind the virgo is in love with her 🤪🤣

nah, getting into terms with it, i'm not in love with this heartless person at all. I will be in love with a heartful person only, but not a heartless person

Then why are you still talking about him and terrorizing him?

because already some things were happened on his side. And I'm afraid they might already have said to police. I just need to ask him about this

Yes, keep on terrorizing him. Looking forward to your dxpnet post sent from jail 🥳

i don't know why you are supporting a shitty virgo guy, if u are doing this, u are also a shitty individual just as him, pisces man is into my category, he made me feel like queen before everyone, and i didn't realize it until i lost him, now this virgo man doesn't even do a 1% of my pisces man did

Hahahah 😆

So anyone who doesnt buy your victim story is the bad guy? 😆 what you gonna do? Terrorize me? Smear campaigns? 🤣 oooh im so scared.

Youre the shitty person hun. You make people's life miserable because only YOUR feeling that matters 🤪🤣

Let me put it this way, you have a pisces who adores you yet your throwing every piece of your energy towards a guy who doesnt give you even 1% of the other guy? What does that make you?

I have the answer... desperate..

Deep down your ego is hurt because you have 1 smart virgo man who unlike the other men, sees the toxicity from you and decided to run.

Why dont you want me when other men want me, Virgo—!!!!!

Your ego is too fragile to handle the rejection. So you dont accept that he doesnt want you and put the blame to everything else not wanting to accept this dude doesnt want you 🤣

When can you finally see that this dude clearly doesnt want you? And no he wont regret when you move on. He'll think it is a good riddance...

" Why dont you want me when other men want me, Virgo—!!!!! "

Yes, This is what I wanna ask him! But tell me one thing, why did he showered me with care and affection when I called him when he blocked me? My gut is saying he may not sent me those messages because he loved me even when I hurted this virgo man in the past, he loved me despite of my mistakes, when he spoke to me on call before his brother, he was sweetly speaking to me, but his brother was harsh. when i messages him two days ago, i got response harshly in a way that i never listened him in that way earlier, he even said me on call that please don't think bad about me that i have negative attitude just because i am saying u that don't call or message, understand my situation, don't call or message me, did u get it? So i asked him so i should stop talking to you right? He said noooo u can talk with me but plz don't call as yourself i will only call u and talk to u later but his brother was scolding from beside. Yesterday I was mentioning about his brother and told that i didn't like his brother's behaviour and i got a message i will block you respect dangers, WTF? What dangers? Maybe it was his brother's reply. My message was seen for about 6 mins and then i got a reply. It means that someone saw that message and their family may have replied me

Bahahahah so I was right 🤣🤣 your ego needs some stroking 😅🤣

About your long reply. This is what I have to say.

Welcome to a mutable's double life 🥂

He wanted you to be his secret lover but you're too intrusive and obsessive to become one. So he decided to cut you off instead. Those 6 mins was him thinking whether to keep you as his double life or not..

I mean it when i said you should find another cancer.

Mutables (virgo,pisces,sagittarius,gemini) will only drive you nuts.. you have to love our 2 personalities to keep us as a whole, otherwise you will only have 1 side like you did few days ago until he sees that youre not fit for any of them..

"He wanted you to be his secret lover but you're too intrusive and obsessive to become one"

But god didn't wanted me to be his secret lover, so opened me before his brother and family to check whether he publicly loves me as a forever or not, and i think so he is failing at it, who's loss? His loss! " If someone does like this for me, then I would stand by them at any cost

Omg.. not the brightest one huh, no wonder youre easily played.

I meant, his secret lover from his family.

Thats why he said he is the one who calls you and not the other way around. Get it?

He wanted you to be his secret lover from his family. But now he doesnt want to because you'll only end up being a trouble for him.

noo, i won't want to be a trouble for him, i want to be his lover then if he loves to be with me still❤️

Then stop terrorizing him!! Stop calling and stop messaging him. Stop getting him in troubles. Let him come to you in his own terms...

Just send him 1 more message "i miss you.. i'm here whenever you need me to"

And leave it at that. Enjoy your life. He'll come in his own terms.

But just so you know, double life means youre going to be a secret for a while, months maybe years. Would you be cool with that? And it's going to be a secret.. get it? So you have to be secretive and not attract a lot of attention.

"i miss you.. i'm here whenever you need me to"

I messaged him the same last time and scolded by his brother for that very harshly. His brother said that he will not be shown my messages too, and was not even allowed to speak with me, but after requesting him a lot, he gave him just to get to know what is happening between us, and after he trying to tell me about his secret talk with me, his brother scolded ans beat him a lot and he immediately cutted the call telling that he will talk to me later

Cool.. then all you have to do right now is just wait. Just wait

i actually lashed out in chat on that day in anger, and i don't know whether he took those words to his heart or seen or not also i don't know, i messaged him brother that i will not talk to him ever if that's what all his brother needs, and i messed things up there, and waited for a week, no call from him, i messaged him yesterday saying i hate you, i got responses as i said in my question, i said sorry i never meant to hurt you and started expressing my grief over his brother's behaviour and i got a message i will block you respect dangers! I was like WTF! Is his bro who replied me?

Lol 😆

Yeah you ruined it. I thought the "i miss you, i am here whenever you want me to" was the last message you sent. But nope, you just ruined it. Congratulations 🥂

now what should I do?🥺

Wait it out for few days, then send him the apology, missing you and will always be there for you again. Dont overdo it. And then wait again..

Hopefully the door is still open.
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i did that apology message only yesterday, and was explaining my grief over his brother's behaviour. And i got these harsh responses. After that i splitted him all the secrets and story of why i messaged his brother like that just to save him from getting scolded, i told everything very clearly. My messages were seen, and no reply. Don't know who saw it! Maybe his brother only or him idk, if his brother will see, his brother will even make situations tight
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okay, as per my guess, if this virgo man saw my messages, he would have sympathized me instead of hurting me more when i was already expressing my hurt. I wantedly sent him messages about him wrongly just to check him whether he will right them, but he didn't right any of my wrong sayings, and when i started messaging him about his brother, i got a message that i will block you, respect dangers. Even when i sent him messages the last time, his brother told that he only read those messages and told that he will not give the phone to him, and he told that he will not let me speak with him and asked me what was going on between us and i said nothing, i'm just his friend, and he told me that why am i distracting his studies, after talking to this virgo man, he gave me all indirect clues and told me that his brother is scolding him a lot and maybe even beating him, so he cutted the call immediately with a tensed hurry, after that what happened idk, maybe his brother took away his phone because while i was speaking only call was cutted! So maybe his brother messaged me that time. Maybe he is completely not given his phone now! I wil try getting to know things from him in some way! I know he won't hurt others unnecessarily because he always makes sure everyone around him is okay, and he even treats his enemy with kindness, so I fell f

So what? How does anything you wrote change the outcome?
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yes, it won't change, but I need to know things from him
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I think the last thread hit the maximum word count. I cant reply it.

So let me break this down to you, one last time

Since you cant comprehend a mutable's double life.

He wants to keep you a secret from his family, get it? He wants you to be his double life.

1 life where he's the good family boy and the other life where it's the total opposite.

That's why he wanted everything in his own terms. The calls and messages etc.

If you agree to this, it means you will need to know how to position yourself to be a secret. By not making a scene, by not announcing your relationship. You have to NOT BE SEEN and detected, understood? So, for fuck's sake, stop getting him in trouble with his family. You're ruining everything.

Since you blow the whole shit up by giving him problems AGAIN. Wait it out for few days. He probably hates you now. So wait.. for a few days or a week. And try again like how I said you should. And then wait maybe few more days. Dont expect immediate answer. He will need to make sure the coast is clear if he wants to interact with you.

If you cant do this.. i suggest you stay out and move on. There's no way you can ever force a mutable. We will rebel and run.

This double life thing can be for few months or years until things get better, so think carefully before you want to step into this..

i am a girl who's like that too. but now things are opened up, that i'm unable to escape it. maybe as they say, everything happens for a reason, this also maybe happened for a reason to show him my undying efforts and love through my side since in past he told everyone that he loved me except me, but i broken him in a way that 1 year i didn't see him again, after that i went searching and running for him, where i found him and he received me very affectionately, after 8 days of our chat, shit started happening when his parents saw his messages with me they blocked me and took his phone and told him to study without mentioning about me but stalking about me, after 3 months when he got his phone back i called him and he spoke with me very affectionately as we were never ever cutted off and said me thank you so much for calling me, and he told that he was very busy but he will call next day, but next day when i called him, his brother received the call, and all shit started happening to this extent
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I think the last thread hit the maximum word count. I cant reply it.

So let me break this down to you, one last time

Since you cant comprehend a mutable's double life.

He wants to keep you a secret from his family, get it? He wants you to be his double life.

1 life where he's the good family boy and the other life where it's the total opposite.

That's why he wanted everything in his own terms. The calls and messages etc.

If you agree to this, it means you will need to know how to position yourself to be a secret. By not making a scene, by not announcing your relationship. You have to NOT BE SEEN and detected, understood? So, for fuck's sake, stop getting him in trouble with his family. You're ruining everything.

Since you blow the whole shit up by giving him problems AGAIN. Wait it out for few days. He probably hates you now. So wait.. for a few days or a week. And try again like how I said you should. And then wait maybe few more days. Dont expect immediate answer. He will need to make sure the coast is clear if he wants to interact with you.

If you cant do this.. i suggest you stay out and move on. There's no way you can ever force a mutable. We will rebel and run.

This double life thing can be for few months or years until things get better, so think carefully before you want to step into this..

that's why i am asking that i will make someone talk to him so that i will get to know the truths from his secretly, but ppl are telling me not to, and that i'll end up in jail if i try to do secret conversations with him
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@smiley_smiles

I think the last thread hit the maximum word count. I cant reply it.

So let me break this down to you, one last time

Since you cant comprehend a mutable's double life.

He wants to keep you a secret from his family, get it? He wants you to be his double life.

1 life where he's the good family boy and the other life where it's the total opposite.

That's why he wanted everything in his own terms. The calls and messages etc.

If you agree to this, it means you will need to know how to position yourself to be a secret. By not making a scene, by not announcing your relationship. You have to NOT BE SEEN and detected, understood? So, for fuck's sake, stop getting him in trouble with his family. You're ruining everything.

Since you blow the whole shit up by giving him problems AGAIN. Wait it out for few days. He probably hates you now. So wait.. for a few days or a week. And try again like how I said you should. And then wait maybe few more days. Dont expect immediate answer. He will need to make sure the coast is clear if he wants to interact with you.

If you cant do this.. i suggest you stay out and move on. There's no way you can ever force a mutable. We will rebel and run.

This double life thing can be for few months or years until things get better, so think carefully before you want to step into this..

that's why i am asking that i will make someone talk to him so that i will get to know the truths from his secretly, but ppl are telling me not to, and that i'll end up in jail if i try to do secret conversations with him

I just wrote a fucking long paragraph for you and you still dont understand anything??!!

STOP REACHING OUT, CALLING AND MAKING SOMEONE TALK TO HIM.

In which part of the idea of SECRET can you not understand?

If you make someone talk to him THEN IT'S NO LONGER A SECRET!

If he said he will call, DON'T CALL BEFORE HE CALLS. Get it?

WAIT FOR HIS CALL AND DONT CALL BEFORE HE CALLS

WAIT FOR HIS MESSAGE AND DONT MESSAGE BEFORE HE MESSAGES

He is the only one who knows when it's safe to call or message..

Send him in a few days what I said. AND DONT DO ANYTHING MORE. Just wait. It will take a few days.
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What about yesterday's threats then? I poured my heart out about how much i was crying due to him and started pointing out his brother behaviour and i got a reply that i will block you, respect dangers, idk who sent that
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Let me take a wild guess on your sign.........



Cancer.

Lol 😆

On the previous thread she didnt want to admit she's a cancer. But we all know she is 😅

I'm done talking sense to this girl. She doesnt have any 😆

I remember that she is an only child and that is quite apparent in her threads.

Virgo will have to get restraining order.

Don't support that shitty virgo man! He is absolutely making me hate the whole zodiac, he's a loser, he have negativity attached with him, and it harms me if i will be with him and positivity will get vanished. Now already he ate my morals and making me look like a creepy girl just for believing his love innocently at the first sight. And just for loving him truly since he loved me once. I will move the hell out of him and find a person like my previous pisces man who is a despo like me and who loves my despo nature to the core❤️ and willing to cross any miles with me and who can't stay without talking me and being with me always being independent + despo just for me + love just on me + never wanting to leave my hand, ever

*supporting the Virgo all the way*

You see this Virgo as an extension to yourself. 🥴

He is his own separate being/person with his own needs and feelings.
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after understanding his feelings last year only i fell for him and grown an unbelievable affection on him and it's literally breaking now due to his changed behaviour
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I think the last thread hit the maximum word count. I cant reply it.

So let me break this down to you, one last time

Since you cant comprehend a mutable's double life.

He wants to keep you a secret from his family, get it? He wants you to be his double life.

1 life where he's the good family boy and the other life where it's the total opposite.

That's why he wanted everything in his own terms. The calls and messages etc.

If you agree to this, it means you will need to know how to position yourself to be a secret. By not making a scene, by not announcing your relationship. You have to NOT BE SEEN and detected, understood? So, for fuck's sake, stop getting him in trouble with his family. You're ruining everything.

Since you blow the whole shit up by giving him problems AGAIN. Wait it out for few days. He probably hates you now. So wait.. for a few days or a week. And try again like how I said you should. And then wait maybe few more days. Dont expect immediate answer. He will need to make sure the coast is clear if he wants to interact with you.

If you cant do this.. i suggest you stay out and move on. There's no way you can ever force a mutable. We will rebel and run.

This double life thing can be for few months or years until things get better, so think carefully before you want to step into this..

that's why i am asking that i will make someone talk to him so that i will get to know the truths from his secretly, but ppl are telling me not to, and that i'll end up in jail if i try to do secret conversations with him

I just wrote a fucking long paragraph for you and you still dont understand anything??!!

STOP REACHING OUT, CALLING AND MAKING SOMEONE TALK TO HIM.

In which part of the idea of SECRET can you not understand?

If you make someone talk to him THEN IT'S NO LONGER A SECRET!

If he said he will call, DON'T CALL BEFORE HE CALLS. Get it?

WAIT FOR HIS CALL AND DONT CALL BEFORE HE CALLS

WAIT FOR HIS MESSAGE AND DONT MESSAGE BEFORE HE MESSAGES

He is the only one who knows when it's safe to call or message..

Send him in a few days what I said. AND DONT DO ANYTHING MORE. Just wait. It will take a few days.
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LMAO

SHE CAN'T- He secretly loves her, Ya know? If only she could talk to him.

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@smiley_smiles

I think the last thread hit the maximum word count. I cant reply it.

So let me break this down to you, one last time

Since you cant comprehend a mutable's double life.

He wants to keep you a secret from his family, get it? He wants you to be his double life.

1 life where he's the good family boy and the other life where it's the total opposite.

That's why he wanted everything in his own terms. The calls and messages etc.

If you agree to this, it means you will need to know how to position yourself to be a secret. By not making a scene, by not announcing your relationship. You have to NOT BE SEEN and detected, understood? So, for fuck's sake, stop getting him in trouble with his family. You're ruining everything.

Since you blow the whole shit up by giving him problems AGAIN. Wait it out for few days. He probably hates you now. So wait.. for a few days or a week. And try again like how I said you should. And then wait maybe few more days. Dont expect immediate answer. He will need to make sure the coast is clear if he wants to interact with you.

If you cant do this.. i suggest you stay out and move on. There's no way you can ever force a mutable. We will rebel and run.

This double life thing can be for few months or years until things get better, so think carefully before you want to step into this..

that's why i am asking that i will make someone talk to him so that i will get to know the truths from his secretly, but ppl are telling me not to, and that i'll end up in jail if i try to do secret conversations with him

I just wrote a fucking long paragraph for you and you still dont understand anything??!!

STOP REACHING OUT, CALLING AND MAKING SOMEONE TALK TO HIM.

In which part of the idea of SECRET can you not understand?

If you make someone talk to him THEN IT'S NO LONGER A SECRET!

If he said he will call, DON'T CALL BEFORE HE CALLS. Get it?

WAIT FOR HIS CALL AND DONT CALL BEFORE HE CALLS

WAIT FOR HIS MESSAGE AND DONT MESSAGE BEFORE HE MESSAGES

He is the only one who knows when it's safe to call or message..

Send him in a few days what I said. AND DONT DO ANYTHING MORE. Just wait. It will take a few days.

LMAO

SHE CAN'T- He secretly loves her, Ya know? If only she could talk to him.

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🤣🤣🤣 you're right.

Idk why did I even bother trying to teach her the "how to.."

I give up

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It's funny how we all think it's a troll but we still can't help ourselves. lol Myself included!

The one liners was the way to go with xiongmao though.

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Let me take a wild guess on your sign.........



Cancer.

Lol 😆

On the previous thread she didnt want to admit she's a cancer. But we all know she is 😅

I'm done talking sense to this girl. She doesnt have any 😆

I remember that she is an only child and that is quite apparent in her threads.

Virgo will have to get restraining order.

Don't support that shitty virgo man! He is absolutely making me hate the whole zodiac, he's a loser, he have negativity attached with him, and it harms me if i will be with him and positivity will get vanished. Now already he ate my morals and making me look like a creepy girl just for believing his love innocently at the first sight. And just for loving him truly since he loved me once. I will move the hell out of him and find a person like my previous pisces man who is a despo like me and who loves my despo nature to the core❤️ and willing to cross any miles with me and who can't stay without talking me and being with me always being independent + despo just for me + love just on me + never wanting to leave my hand, ever

*supporting the Virgo all the way*

You see this Virgo as an extension to yourself. 🥴

He is his own separate being/person with his own needs and feelings.

after understanding his feelings last year only i fell for him and grown an unbelievable affection on him and it's literally breaking now due to his changed behaviour

People change, feelings change. He may have liked you a year ago, but probably not so now since you are here talking about him, and trying to force a relationship.
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but i am not like that, once i believe in someone's love and if i can love them, it will be a forever one where my feelings can't be shaken by anyone else. He is losing that kind of best love
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@smiley_smiles

I think the last thread hit the maximum word count. I cant reply it.

So let me break this down to you, one last time

Since you cant comprehend a mutable's double life.

He wants to keep you a secret from his family, get it? He wants you to be his double life.

1 life where he's the good family boy and the other life where it's the total opposite.

That's why he wanted everything in his own terms. The calls and messages etc.

If you agree to this, it means you will need to know how to position yourself to be a secret. By not making a scene, by not announcing your relationship. You have to NOT BE SEEN and detected, understood? So, for fuck's sake, stop getting him in trouble with his family. You're ruining everything.

Since you blow the whole shit up by giving him problems AGAIN. Wait it out for few days. He probably hates you now. So wait.. for a few days or a week. And try again like how I said you should. And then wait maybe few more days. Dont expect immediate answer. He will need to make sure the coast is clear if he wants to interact with you.

If you cant do this.. i suggest you stay out and move on. There's no way you can ever force a mutable. We will rebel and run.

This double life thing can be for few months or years until things get better, so think carefully before you want to step into this..

that's why i am asking that i will make someone talk to him so that i will get to know the truths from his secretly, but ppl are telling me not to, and that i'll end up in jail if i try to do secret conversations with him

I just wrote a fucking long paragraph for you and you still dont understand anything??!!

STOP REACHING OUT, CALLING AND MAKING SOMEONE TALK TO HIM.

In which part of the idea of SECRET can you not understand?

If you make someone talk to him THEN IT'S NO LONGER A SECRET!

If he said he will call, DON'T CALL BEFORE HE CALLS. Get it?

WAIT FOR HIS CALL AND DONT CALL BEFORE HE CALLS

WAIT FOR HIS MESSAGE AND DONT MESSAGE BEFORE HE MESSAGES

He is the only one who knows when it's safe to call or message..

Send him in a few days what I said. AND DONT DO ANYTHING MORE. Just wait. It will take a few days.

What about yesterday's threats then? I poured my heart out about how much i was crying due to him and started pointing out his brother behaviour and i got a reply that i will block you, respect dangers, idk who sent that

Who the fuck told you to pour your heart? He doesnt care.. you really think he will fight for you in front of his family, now? 😆 you really think he will choose you?

Honey, hes not a cancer 😆 He's always in and out until he decides what he wants.

Whatever he has done or said to you are just lip service. To keep you there while hes making his mind up.



The idea of this double life is that youre also allowed to have him as your double life. It's an arrangement for convenience. And to test if this relationship is worth to fight for or not. He hasnt make a decision yet about anything. He wants to test the water.

If you dont want it, then leave. Dont do anything more. You wont get anything from him now. Not even a closure. Not even a sympathy. Nothing..
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" The idea of this double life is that youre also allowed to have him as your double life. It's an arrangement for convenience. And to test if this relationship is worth to fight for or not. He hasnt make a decision yet about anything. He wants to test the water. "

I love to have a double life too. I am the same. But now things already got exposed, we can't have a double life and even if we want to be together, we should be only open because double life stage already crossed, he may choose me if communication happens between us, who knows? I believe in him. Once he said that he got me, it means he got me whenever i need him, i need him now and i need to let him know this, what should i do?
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I think the last thread hit the maximum word count. I cant reply it.

So let me break this down to you, one last time

Since you cant comprehend a mutable's double life.

He wants to keep you a secret from his family, get it? He wants you to be his double life.

1 life where he's the good family boy and the other life where it's the total opposite.

That's why he wanted everything in his own terms. The calls and messages etc.

If you agree to this, it means you will need to know how to position yourself to be a secret. By not making a scene, by not announcing your relationship. You have to NOT BE SEEN and detected, understood? So, for fuck's sake, stop getting him in trouble with his family. You're ruining everything.

Since you blow the whole shit up by giving him problems AGAIN. Wait it out for few days. He probably hates you now. So wait.. for a few days or a week. And try again like how I said you should. And then wait maybe few more days. Dont expect immediate answer. He will need to make sure the coast is clear if he wants to interact with you.

If you cant do this.. i suggest you stay out and move on. There's no way you can ever force a mutable. We will rebel and run.

This double life thing can be for few months or years until things get better, so think carefully before you want to step into this..

that's why i am asking that i will make someone talk to him so that i will get to know the truths from his secretly, but ppl are telling me not to, and that i'll end up in jail if i try to do secret conversations with him

I just wrote a fucking long paragraph for you and you still dont understand anything??!!

STOP REACHING OUT, CALLING AND MAKING SOMEONE TALK TO HIM.

In which part of the idea of SECRET can you not understand?

If you make someone talk to him THEN IT'S NO LONGER A SECRET!

If he said he will call, DON'T CALL BEFORE HE CALLS. Get it?

WAIT FOR HIS CALL AND DONT CALL BEFORE HE CALLS

WAIT FOR HIS MESSAGE AND DONT MESSAGE BEFORE HE MESSAGES

He is the only one who knows when it's safe to call or message..

Send him in a few days what I said. AND DONT DO ANYTHING MORE. Just wait. It will take a few days.

What about yesterday's threats then? I poured my heart out about how much i was crying due to him and started pointing out his brother behaviour and i got a reply that i will block you, respect dangers, idk who sent that

Who the fuck told you to pour your heart? He doesnt care.. you really think he will fight for you in front of his family, now? 😆 you really think he will choose you?

Honey, hes not a cancer 😆 He's always in and out until he decides what he wants.

Whatever he has done or said to you are just lip service. To keep you there while hes making his mind up.



The idea of this double life is that youre also allowed to have him as your double life. It's an arrangement for convenience. And to test if this relationship is worth to fight for or not. He hasnt make a decision yet about anything. He wants to test the water.

If you dont want it, then leave. Dont do anything more. You wont get anything from him now. Not even a closure. Not even a sympathy. Nothing..

" The idea of this double life is that youre also allowed to have him as your double life. It's an arrangement for convenience. And to test if this relationship is worth to fight for or not. He hasnt make a decision yet about anything. He wants to test the water. "

I love to have a double life too. I am the same. But now things already got exposed, we can't have a double life and even if we want to be together, we should be only open because double life stage already crossed, he may choose me if communication happens between us, who knows? I believe in him. Once he said that he got me, it means he got me whenever i need him, i need him now and i need to let him know this, what should i do?

Yeah, i give up trying to make you understand.

Keep doing anything you want. Looking forward to more post about this guy being indirectly repulsed by you 🥂
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Here, now for me, is necessary to know things from him because his family already started searching for me and is ready to give police complaint on me. I should definitely talk to him, even if it's not about love, at least about a solution for this situation, or else really i will end up in jail or have a restraining order got to me soon
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@smiley_smiles

I think the last thread hit the maximum word count. I cant reply it.

So let me break this down to you, one last time

Since you cant comprehend a mutable's double life.

He wants to keep you a secret from his family, get it? He wants you to be his double life.

1 life where he's the good family boy and the other life where it's the total opposite.

That's why he wanted everything in his own terms. The calls and messages etc.

If you agree to this, it means you will need to know how to position yourself to be a secret. By not making a scene, by not announcing your relationship. You have to NOT BE SEEN and detected, understood? So, for fuck's sake, stop getting him in trouble with his family. You're ruining everything.

Since you blow the whole shit up by giving him problems AGAIN. Wait it out for few days. He probably hates you now. So wait.. for a few days or a week. And try again like how I said you should. And then wait maybe few more days. Dont expect immediate answer. He will need to make sure the coast is clear if he wants to interact with you.

If you cant do this.. i suggest you stay out and move on. There's no way you can ever force a mutable. We will rebel and run.

This double life thing can be for few months or years until things get better, so think carefully before you want to step into this..

that's why i am asking that i will make someone talk to him so that i will get to know the truths from his secretly, but ppl are telling me not to, and that i'll end up in jail if i try to do secret conversations with him

I just wrote a fucking long paragraph for you and you still dont understand anything??!!

STOP REACHING OUT, CALLING AND MAKING SOMEONE TALK TO HIM.

In which part of the idea of SECRET can you not understand?

If you make someone talk to him THEN IT'S NO LONGER A SECRET!

If he said he will call, DON'T CALL BEFORE HE CALLS. Get it?

WAIT FOR HIS CALL AND DONT CALL BEFORE HE CALLS

WAIT FOR HIS MESSAGE AND DONT MESSAGE BEFORE HE MESSAGES

He is the only one who knows when it's safe to call or message..

Send him in a few days what I said. AND DONT DO ANYTHING MORE. Just wait. It will take a few days.

What about yesterday's threats then? I poured my heart out about how much i was crying due to him and started pointing out his brother behaviour and i got a reply that i will block you, respect dangers, idk who sent that

Who the fuck told you to pour your heart? He doesnt care.. you really think he will fight for you in front of his family, now? 😆 you really think he will choose you?

Honey, hes not a cancer 😆 He's always in and out until he decides what he wants.

Whatever he has done or said to you are just lip service. To keep you there while hes making his mind up.



The idea of this double life is that youre also allowed to have him as your double life. It's an arrangement for convenience. And to test if this relationship is worth to fight for or not. He hasnt make a decision yet about anything. He wants to test the water.

If you dont want it, then leave. Dont do anything more. You wont get anything from him now. Not even a closure. Not even a sympathy. Nothing..

" The idea of this double life is that youre also allowed to have him as your double life. It's an arrangement for convenience. And to test if this relationship is worth to fight for or not. He hasnt make a decision yet about anything. He wants to test the water. "

I love to have a double life too. I am the same. But now things already got exposed, we can't have a double life and even if we want to be together, we should be only open because double life stage already crossed, he may choose me if communication happens between us, who knows? I believe in him. Once he said that he got me, it means he got me whenever i need him, i need him now and i need to let him know this, what should i do?

Yeah, i give up trying to make you understand.

Keep doing anything you want. Looking forward to more post about this guy being indirectly repulsed by you 🥂
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To be honest, I am wanting to talk to him just for asking him the safety and telling him to stand on my side, what is wrong it that? It will make my life. If I leave this situation like this, tomorrow suddenly police may come to my home and arrest me! Then who saves me? None of you right? So I need to talk with him and ask him what to do next
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@smiley_smiles

I think the last thread hit the maximum word count. I cant reply it.

So let me break this down to you, one last time

Since you cant comprehend a mutable's double life.

He wants to keep you a secret from his family, get it? He wants you to be his double life.

1 life where he's the good family boy and the other life where it's the total opposite.

That's why he wanted everything in his own terms. The calls and messages etc.

If you agree to this, it means you will need to know how to position yourself to be a secret. By not making a scene, by not announcing your relationship. You have to NOT BE SEEN and detected, understood? So, for fuck's sake, stop getting him in trouble with his family. You're ruining everything.

Since you blow the whole shit up by giving him problems AGAIN. Wait it out for few days. He probably hates you now. So wait.. for a few days or a week. And try again like how I said you should. And then wait maybe few more days. Dont expect immediate answer. He will need to make sure the coast is clear if he wants to interact with you.

If you cant do this.. i suggest you stay out and move on. There's no way you can ever force a mutable. We will rebel and run.

This double life thing can be for few months or years until things get better, so think carefully before you want to step into this..

that's why i am asking that i will make someone talk to him so that i will get to know the truths from his secretly, but ppl are telling me not to, and that i'll end up in jail if i try to do secret conversations with him

I just wrote a fucking long paragraph for you and you still dont understand anything??!!

STOP REACHING OUT, CALLING AND MAKING SOMEONE TALK TO HIM.

In which part of the idea of SECRET can you not understand?

If you make someone talk to him THEN IT'S NO LONGER A SECRET!

If he said he will call, DON'T CALL BEFORE HE CALLS. Get it?

WAIT FOR HIS CALL AND DONT CALL BEFORE HE CALLS

WAIT FOR HIS MESSAGE AND DONT MESSAGE BEFORE HE MESSAGES

He is the only one who knows when it's safe to call or message..

Send him in a few days what I said. AND DONT DO ANYTHING MORE. Just wait. It will take a few days.

What about yesterday's threats then? I poured my heart out about how much i was crying due to him and started pointing out his brother behaviour and i got a reply that i will block you, respect dangers, idk who sent that

Who the fuck told you to pour your heart? He doesnt care.. you really think he will fight for you in front of his family, now? 😆 you really think he will choose you?

Honey, hes not a cancer 😆 He's always in and out until he decides what he wants.

Whatever he has done or said to you are just lip service. To keep you there while hes making his mind up.



The idea of this double life is that youre also allowed to have him as your double life. It's an arrangement for convenience. And to test if this relationship is worth to fight for or not. He hasnt make a decision yet about anything. He wants to test the water.

If you dont want it, then leave. Dont do anything more. You wont get anything from him now. Not even a closure. Not even a sympathy. Nothing..

" The idea of this double life is that youre also allowed to have him as your double life. It's an arrangement for convenience. And to test if this relationship is worth to fight for or not. He hasnt make a decision yet about anything. He wants to test the water. "

I love to have a double life too. I am the same. But now things already got exposed, we can't have a double life and even if we want to be together, we should be only open because double life stage already crossed, he may choose me if communication happens between us, who knows? I believe in him. Once he said that he got me, it means he got me whenever i need him, i need him now and i need to let him know this, what should i do?

Yeah, i give up trying to make you understand.

Keep doing anything you want. Looking forward to more post about this guy being indirectly repulsed by you 🥂
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This is an issue where I am forewarned about upcoming dangers
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@smiley_smiles

I think the last thread hit the maximum word count. I cant reply it.

So let me break this down to you, one last time

Since you cant comprehend a mutable's double life.

He wants to keep you a secret from his family, get it? He wants you to be his double life.

1 life where he's the good family boy and the other life where it's the total opposite.

That's why he wanted everything in his own terms. The calls and messages etc.

If you agree to this, it means you will need to know how to position yourself to be a secret. By not making a scene, by not announcing your relationship. You have to NOT BE SEEN and detected, understood? So, for fuck's sake, stop getting him in trouble with his family. You're ruining everything.

Since you blow the whole shit up by giving him problems AGAIN. Wait it out for few days. He probably hates you now. So wait.. for a few days or a week. And try again like how I said you should. And then wait maybe few more days. Dont expect immediate answer. He will need to make sure the coast is clear if he wants to interact with you.

If you cant do this.. i suggest you stay out and move on. There's no way you can ever force a mutable. We will rebel and run.

This double life thing can be for few months or years until things get better, so think carefully before you want to step into this..

that's why i am asking that i will make someone talk to him so that i will get to know the truths from his secretly, but ppl are telling me not to, and that i'll end up in jail if i try to do secret conversations with him

I just wrote a fucking long paragraph for you and you still dont understand anything??!!

STOP REACHING OUT, CALLING AND MAKING SOMEONE TALK TO HIM.

In which part of the idea of SECRET can you not understand?

If you make someone talk to him THEN IT'S NO LONGER A SECRET!

If he said he will call, DON'T CALL BEFORE HE CALLS. Get it?

WAIT FOR HIS CALL AND DONT CALL BEFORE HE CALLS

WAIT FOR HIS MESSAGE AND DONT MESSAGE BEFORE HE MESSAGES

He is the only one who knows when it's safe to call or message..

Send him in a few days what I said. AND DONT DO ANYTHING MORE. Just wait. It will take a few days.

What about yesterday's threats then? I poured my heart out about how much i was crying due to him and started pointing out his brother behaviour and i got a reply that i will block you, respect dangers, idk who sent that

Who the fuck told you to pour your heart? He doesnt care.. you really think he will fight for you in front of his family, now? 😆 you really think he will choose you?

Honey, hes not a cancer 😆 He's always in and out until he decides what he wants.

Whatever he has done or said to you are just lip service. To keep you there while hes making his mind up.



The idea of this double life is that youre also allowed to have him as your double life. It's an arrangement for convenience. And to test if this relationship is worth to fight for or not. He hasnt make a decision yet about anything. He wants to test the water.

If you dont want it, then leave. Dont do anything more. You wont get anything from him now. Not even a closure. Not even a sympathy. Nothing..

" The idea of this double life is that youre also allowed to have him as your double life. It's an arrangement for convenience. And to test if this relationship is worth to fight for or not. He hasnt make a decision yet about anything. He wants to test the water. "

I love to have a double life too. I am the same. But now things already got exposed, we can't have a double life and even if we want to be together, we should be only open because double life stage already crossed, he may choose me if communication happens between us, who knows? I believe in him. Once he said that he got me, it means he got me whenever i need him, i need him now and i need to let him know this, what should i do?

Yeah, i give up trying to make you understand.

Keep doing anything you want. Looking forward to more post about this guy being indirectly repulsed by you 🥂

Here, now for me, is necessary to know things from him because his family already started searching for me and is ready to give police complaint on me. I should definitely talk to him, even if it's not about love, at least about a solution for this situation, or else really i will end up in jail or have a restraining order got to me soon

I gave you the solution. Stay low for a while. Dont reach out. You will only have police coming to you IF you keep on trying to reach out to him.

And btw why does he need to provide you with solution?

You're the one terrorizing him with your calls and messages.

You are the one disturbing his family.

You are the one who keep disturbing him eventhough the family has warned you about restraining order.



You are the one digging your own grave.



And all of the sudden, he needs to save you from the consequences of your own doing?

You really like playing and being seen as a victim dont you? 😆

It's all YOU honey.. you got a lot of growing up to do.
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I talk with many boys. I didn't face a situation like this from anyone
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If going to jail is really what youre afraid of, the solution is pretty simple isnt it?

Apologize to the family and promise you wont disturb again.

I did it to his brother the next day when he spoke to me on call, maybe he got angry on me due to that and he didn't call me afterwards even though he said me that he will talk with me, so I didn't wanted to lose him, and kept a msg two days ago, and got threats while I was expressing my regret over apologizing to his brother
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I think the last thread hit the maximum word count. I cant reply it.

So let me break this down to you, one last time

Since you cant comprehend a mutable's double life.

He wants to keep you a secret from his family, get it? He wants you to be his double life.

1 life where he's the good family boy and the other life where it's the total opposite.

That's why he wanted everything in his own terms. The calls and messages etc.

If you agree to this, it means you will need to know how to position yourself to be a secret. By not making a scene, by not announcing your relationship. You have to NOT BE SEEN and detected, understood? So, for fuck's sake, stop getting him in trouble with his family. You're ruining everything.

Since you blow the whole shit up by giving him problems AGAIN. Wait it out for few days. He probably hates you now. So wait.. for a few days or a week. And try again like how I said you should. And then wait maybe few more days. Dont expect immediate answer. He will need to make sure the coast is clear if he wants to interact with you.

If you cant do this.. i suggest you stay out and move on. There's no way you can ever force a mutable. We will rebel and run.

This double life thing can be for few months or years until things get better, so think carefully before you want to step into this..

that's why i am asking that i will make someone talk to him so that i will get to know the truths from his secretly, but ppl are telling me not to, and that i'll end up in jail if i try to do secret conversations with him

I just wrote a fucking long paragraph for you and you still dont understand anything??!!

STOP REACHING OUT, CALLING AND MAKING SOMEONE TALK TO HIM.

In which part of the idea of SECRET can you not understand?

If you make someone talk to him THEN IT'S NO LONGER A SECRET!

If he said he will call, DON'T CALL BEFORE HE CALLS. Get it?

WAIT FOR HIS CALL AND DONT CALL BEFORE HE CALLS

WAIT FOR HIS MESSAGE AND DONT MESSAGE BEFORE HE MESSAGES

He is the only one who knows when it's safe to call or message..

Send him in a few days what I said. AND DONT DO ANYTHING MORE. Just wait. It will take a few days.

What about yesterday's threats then? I poured my heart out about how much i was crying due to him and started pointing out his brother behaviour and i got a reply that i will block you, respect dangers, idk who sent that

Who the fuck told you to pour your heart? He doesnt care.. you really think he will fight for you in front of his family, now? 😆 you really think he will choose you?

Honey, hes not a cancer 😆 He's always in and out until he decides what he wants.

Whatever he has done or said to you are just lip service. To keep you there while hes making his mind up.



The idea of this double life is that youre also allowed to have him as your double life. It's an arrangement for convenience. And to test if this relationship is worth to fight for or not. He hasnt make a decision yet about anything. He wants to test the water.

If you dont want it, then leave. Dont do anything more. You wont get anything from him now. Not even a closure. Not even a sympathy. Nothing..

" The idea of this double life is that youre also allowed to have him as your double life. It's an arrangement for convenience. And to test if this relationship is worth to fight for or not. He hasnt make a decision yet about anything. He wants to test the water. "

I love to have a double life too. I am the same. But now things already got exposed, we can't have a double life and even if we want to be together, we should be only open because double life stage already crossed, he may choose me if communication happens between us, who knows? I believe in him. Once he said that he got me, it means he got me whenever i need him, i need him now and i need to let him know this, what should i do?

Yeah, i give up trying to make you understand.

Keep doing anything you want. Looking forward to more post about this guy being indirectly repulsed by you 🥂

Here, now for me, is necessary to know things from him because his family already started searching for me and is ready to give police complaint on me. I should definitely talk to him, even if it's not about love, at least about a solution for this situation, or else really i will end up in jail or have a restraining order got to me soon

I gave you the solution. Stay low for a while. Dont reach out. You will only have police coming to you IF you keep on trying to reach out to him.

And btw why does he need to provide you with solution?

You're the one terrorizing him with your calls and messages.

You are the one disturbing his family.

You are the one who keep disturbing him eventhough the family has warned you about restraining order.



You are the one digging your own grave.



And all of the sudden, he needs to save you from the consequences of your own doing?

You really like playing and being seen as a victim dont you? 😆

It's all YOU honey.. you got a lot of growing up to do.
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problem is on his side, so the solution also will be on his side only