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Posted by TheCanBullN you! Yayy!! 🍹 😄
@cvurko @Teena @YupVirgoo
That is a circle of cool dudes.
High five 😄
Posted by cvurkoPosted by TeenaLol 😄Posted by cvurkoHell yeah!Posted by TeenaWhy aren't we?!Posted by cvurkoWe should be best friends!!!!!
Lol, and when you guys are 35 you are so wise and have perfect love lifes, right? 😄 Don't intrude into the private space of others'. We are all kids, making silly things no matter the age. Seen 16 year olds that are way wiser than ppl above 40.
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I love that gif ?
Posted by cvurkoWhy is the lady wrong? What about a girl that looks 16 but is only 14?Posted by Amethysst😄 Wrong.
If the situation is in "America", it's not legal, there's no debating to this.
Talk to the parents about it if you're really concerned before turning it over to the cops if you have too.
The way I see it, if he's attracted to younger girls who's not to say he won't become a true pedofile and go after some 13-15yr old girl in the future if this isn't stopped now when you have the evidence.
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A 16 year old with a 35 year old man? Fuck that. He's a predator. I def wouldn't be ok with that.
if I had a daughter, I wouldn't even want her dating a man that old even at 18. If she was living under my roof, I would enforce that. Sorry, but no. What could possibly be his motivations for wanting to date a teenager?
if I had a daughter, I wouldn't even want her dating a man that old even at 18. If she was living under my roof, I would enforce that. Sorry, but no. What could possibly be his motivations for wanting to date a teenager?
And that's not even saying what my hub would do. If he found out some grown dude was dating our daughter... good luck to him.
Posted by DonJohn
this thread is funny to me because the women that are most upset seem to be single and middle aged. fascinating.
the problem is the women choosing their prime years to slave away for meaningless papers. education/work when they should be procreating and raising children like all their ancestors did for thousands of years.
if you are not within the chart's range. just know that, you are not the first choice. lol those are the prime years you should be using to lock down a man. but eat pray love. sex and the city. got ran through by 50 dicks that has worn out your deep bonding sensory. now you're 35 with cats, baggage and meds. the tour might be over. so y r u trying to make another live the way you want? you failed.
AYYYYYyyoooooooooooooo
That finishing though ??
Posted by DonJohn
this thread is funny to me because the women that are most upset seem to be single and middle aged. fascinating.
the problem is the women choosing their prime years to slave away for meaningless papers. education/work when they should be procreating and raising children like all their ancestors did for thousands of years.
if you are not within the chart's range. just know that, you are not the first choice. lol those are the prime years you should be using to lock down a man. but eat pray love. sex and the city. got ran through by 50 dicks that has worn out your deep bonding sensory. now you're 35 with cats, baggage and meds. the tour might be over. so y r u trying to make another live the way you want? you failed.
AYYYYYyyoooooooooooooo
@yupvirgoo What do you think about the chart 😛
Posted by yupvirgooPosted by TeenaA 20 year old?! lolPosted by DonJohn
this thread is funny to me because the women that are most upset seem to be single and middle aged. fascinating.
the problem is the women choosing their prime years to slave away for meaningless papers. education/work when they should be procreating and raising children like all their ancestors did for thousands of years.
if you are not within the chart's range. just know that, you are not the first choice. lol those are the prime years you should be using to lock down a man. but eat pray love. sex and the city. got ran through by 50 dicks that has worn out your deep bonding sensory. now you're 35 with cats, baggage and meds. the tour might be over. so y r u trying to make another live the way you want? you failed.
AYYYYYyyoooooooooooooo
@yupvirgoo What do you think about the chart 😛
Ooohhh by the way, you look gorgeous @Teena
🙂
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No ?? You don't wanna agree with DJ?? He will have a dozen more stats to prove that...just be fine with it already 😄 😛
Aww....Thanks @yupvirgoo ?
*Psst psst* Just don't say it out loud.. DJ will diss me till I feel worthless 😛
Posted by aquapiscescusp
If you knew the 16 year old girl was secretly seeing a mid 30s man?
Would you want to know as her parents?
1. there's nothing in here that states they are having sex
2. this is third hand information .. and unless the OP is a fly on the wall, she is responding to speculation.
Summary ... I would have thought that at least half of you people would have figured this out by now. Instead, you're too busy imposing your opinion on a situation in where zero facts are present.
smh
Posted by DonJohnC'mon now!! He's the sweetest!!
do people realize yupvirgo is another catfish?
oh, and btw .. nowhere in the US is it illegal for a 16 year old to befriend a 30something man
smfh
Posted by yupvirgooYasss!!! 😄 ?Posted by Teenalol yes yes 20 year olds are not childrenPosted by yupvirgooPosted by TeenaA 20 year old?! lolPosted by DonJohn
this thread is funny to me because the women that are most upset seem to be single and middle aged. fascinating.
the problem is the women choosing their prime years to slave away for meaningless papers. education/work when they should be procreating and raising children like all their ancestors did for thousands of years.
if you are not within the chart's range. just know that, you are not the first choice. lol those are the prime years you should be using to lock down a man. but eat pray love. sex and the city. got ran through by 50 dicks that has worn out your deep bonding sensory. now you're 35 with cats, baggage and meds. the tour might be over. so y r u trying to make another live the way you want? you failed.
AYYYYYyyoooooooooooooo
@yupvirgoo What do you think about the chart 😛
Ooohhh by the way, you look gorgeous @Teena
🙂
No ?? You don't wanna agree with DJ?? He will have a dozen more stats to prove that...just be fine with it already 😄 😛
Aww....Thanks @yupvirgoo ?
*Psst psst* Just don't say it out loud.. DJ will diss me till I feel worthless 😛
*chuckles
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I wouldn't tell the parents but I would tell the cops lol
Posted by DonJohnDJ!!!!! 😐 😐Posted by TeenaPosted by DonJohnC'mon now!! He's the sweetest!!
do people realize yupvirgo is another catfish?
catfish try to project an image of perfection. it's an issue of deep seeded self hatred.click to expand
Posted by DonJohnis he??
do people realize yupvirgo is another catfish?
how come he is so sweet? lol
and posting lots of Asian couples being lovey dovey? 😛
Posted by DonJohnhmm 😕Posted by TeenaPosted by DonJohnC'mon now!! He's the sweetest!!
do people realize yupvirgo is another catfish?
catfish try to project an image of perfection. it's an issue of deep seeded self hatred.click to expand
he does have a lot of libra placements.
Libra wants to be perfect. so I don't think it's catfish, I think that's just how he is. because he can't help himself.
it doesn't feel like he hates himself. lol
Posted by idgaf2He sure does.
personally, i think the dude needs to stop playing with fire, but that's just my 2¢
Posted by MyStarsShinePosted by lisabethur8Haha Lisa, yes they are...as i said before, it's lust, not lovePosted by MyStarsShinewhen you hit menstruation period/ you experience womanly feelings. you look at the opposite sex, as a force you can't help to be with or desire.Posted by lisabethur8What has that got to do with children falling in love? Their brains and bodies aren't fully formed or matured...grown women are a different matterPosted by MyStarsShinewomen fall for men hard even when they are in their middle age, even seniors. Although for seniors, its to experience love again when you're widowed.Posted by lisabethur8Posted by MyStarsShinesometimes, you can't help who you love.
Two girls I was in secondary school with got pregnant....both under 16. Both the fathers were a little older and served time at young offenders prisons.
if it's indeed love. cause no woman or young girl would fall for a man like that if she had good reasoning skills. love makes you dumb and lose brain cells.
I doubt it was love Lisa.....the girls were 13 and 14 ...... Lust and raging hormones maybe or some persuasion from the guys
boys have a longer time, I think but once they do, they are on it.
you don't know how many young girls stare at other young men when i'm walking with my young cousins even gay relatives, and these girls are as young as 14, 15 years old!!! they think I don't see, cause they probably think, "oh that cute guy is with his aunty or mother" lol and my male relatives tell me, "Oh my god!!! did you see that girl pass by, she was eyeing me like a piece of delicioius cake"
I was O_O cause honestly I did see it happen. the young girls are horny!! so yes it's the same with middle aged women, and with seniors, they have lost their menstruation time, because they go through menopause around their mid-50s and then by then...it's companionship.
I had to smile at your comment on companionship. A friend of mine knows a woman who after being celibate for a long time is having a very hot affair with a younger guy. They have sex every day, sometimes even twice 😛....he is 32 and she is 55
I think it is a myth about people not having sex when they get over a certain age.....
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lol but the woman is also having hormonal attacks.
maybe she is not on menopause yet, there are a rare few who don't get menopause till 60 it's rare, but it happens.
Posted by MyStarsShinePosted by seraph
If the individual is of the age of consent (i.e., they're "legal") then it's none of my business. I can have my opinion on the matter (along with playing around with whatever "what if" scenarios involving my non-existent children in a non-existent relationship in some future I'm projecting), but that doesn't give me the right to arbitrarily inject myself into the affairs of others, especially in the absence of any physical harm/abuse as far as I could know.
.....and if it was your 16yr old daughter having sex with a man double her age.....is that okay?
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Ya?
Posted by AmethysstPosted by cvurkoHe is a "she" and she has every right to take this to the cops but I will say I'm glad you quoted me on my post with your opinion because now I know your mental health capacity and what you think about older men going after younger girls.Posted by AmethysstNeither is he asking for a legal advice 🙂Posted by cvurkoConsent; at the age of 16, if her parents are aware of the relationship and agree to give consent than it's fine because she is still considered a minor and they hold parental/guardian custodial rights. This is considering with the age difference of 3-5yrs no more.Posted by AmethysstDifferent places.Posted by cvurkoWhere do you live?Posted by Amethysst😄 Wrong.
If the situation is in "America", it's not legal, there's no debating to this.
Talk to the parents about it if you're really concerned before turning it over to the cops if you have too.
The way I see it, if he's attracted to younger girls who's not to say he won't become a true pedofile and go after some 13-15yr old girl in the future if this isn't stopped now when you have the evidence.
Age of consent 16 (31): Alabama, Alaska, Arkansas, Connecticut, Georgia, Hawaii, Indiana, Iowa, Kansas, Kentucky, Maine, Maryland, Massachusetts, Michigan, Minnesota, Mississippi, Montana, Nebraska, Nevada, New Hampshire, New Jersey, North Carolina, Ohio, Oklahoma, Pennsylvania,Rhode Island, South Carolina, South Dakota, Vermont, Washington, West Virginia
That's not what OP is talking about.
Please don't talk to me ever again on dxp.
Sincerely,
A mother with a young daughter.
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Of course most men "without kids" would say that it's not our business!
Posted by cvurkoPosted by aquapiscescuspSure, thats the problem. We dont understand... :/ LolPosted by AmethysstPosted by cvurkoHe is a "she" and she has every right to take this to the cops but I will say I'm glad you quoted me on my post with your opinion because now I know your mental health capacity and what you think about older men going after younger girls.Posted by AmethysstNeither is he asking for a legal advice 🙂Posted by cvurkoConsent; at the age of 16, if her parents are aware of the relationship and agree to give consent than it's fine because she is still considered a minor and they hold parental/guardian custodial rights. This is considering with the age difference of 3-5yrs no more.Posted by AmethysstDifferent places.Posted by cvurkoWhere do you live?Posted by Amethysst😄 Wrong.
If the situation is in "America", it's not legal, there's no debating to this.
Talk to the parents about it if you're really concerned before turning it over to the cops if you have too.
The way I see it, if he's attracted to younger girls who's not to say he won't become a true pedofile and go after some 13-15yr old girl in the future if this isn't stopped now when you have the evidence.
Age of consent 16 (31): Alabama, Alaska, Arkansas, Connecticut, Georgia, Hawaii, Indiana, Iowa, Kansas, Kentucky, Maine, Maryland, Massachusetts, Michigan, Minnesota, Mississippi, Montana, Nebraska, Nevada, New Hampshire, New Jersey, North Carolina, Ohio, Oklahoma, Pennsylvania,Rhode Island, South Carolina, South Dakota, Vermont, Washington, West Virginia
That's not what OP is talking about.
Please don't talk to me ever again on dxp.
Sincerely,
A mother with a young daughter.
Of course most men "without kids" would say that it's not our business!
Oh, and sorry for mistaking you for a male :/click to expand
It's ok, it happens... I like your quote, I know that I know nothing-- Socrates?
Posted by seraphPosted by aquapiscescuspIs this a question for me?Posted by MyStarsShinePosted by seraph
If the individual is of the age of consent (i.e., they're "legal") then it's none of my business. I can have my opinion on the matter (along with playing around with whatever "what if" scenarios involving my non-existent children in a non-existent relationship in some future I'm projecting), but that doesn't give me the right to arbitrarily inject myself into the affairs of others, especially in the absence of any physical harm/abuse as far as I could know.
.....and if it was your 16yr old daughter having sex with a man double her age.....is that okay?
Ya?
If you'd like me to clarify any of my two other posts in this thread, I'll be more than happy to.click to expand
Is it morally correct and if it were you daughter, how would you feel
Posted by P-AngelPosted by aquapiscescusp
If you knew the 16 year old girl was secretly seeing a mid 30s man?
Would you want to know as her parents?
1. there's nothing in here that states they are having sex
2. this is third hand information .. and unless the OP is a fly on the wall, she is responding to speculation.
Summary ... I would have thought that at least half of you people would have figured this out by now. Instead, you're too busy imposing your opinion on a situation in where zero facts are present.
smh
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I don't want to post all the details but for me to ask the question means I've considered all the options
And everyone's opinion here matters and so does mine since I was asked to weigh in on it by others who care about the girl. It's really not complicated, most people who answered were able to understand that.
Posted by FatCamillaConsent for what?
my age of consent is 12
Posted by fugu2his motivations to date such a young girl? A perv's dream come true.
A 16 year old with a 35 year old man? Fuck that. He's a predator. I def wouldn't be ok with that.
if I had a daughter, I wouldn't even want her dating a man that old even at 18. If she was living under my roof, I would enforce that. Sorry, but no. What could possibly be his motivations for wanting to date a teenager?
Posted by FatCamillaIn which country?Posted by aquapiscescuspi mean by lawPosted by FatCamillaConsent for what?
my age of consent is 12
that's the age where anything lower is considered rapeclick to expand
Posted by NemiliciousPosted by P-Angelimagine some of them being jurors in a court case. id fucking shoot myself.Posted by aquapiscescusp
If you knew the 16 year old girl was secretly seeing a mid 30s man?
Would you want to know as her parents?
1. there's nothing in here that states they are having sex
2. this is third hand information .. and unless the OP is a fly on the wall, she is responding to speculation.
Summary ... I would have thought that at least half of you people would have figured this out by now. Instead, you're too busy imposing your opinion on a situation in where zero facts are present.
smh
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You would shoot your self? Not too stable huh
I don't care what the age of consent is, no 16 year old CHILD of mine will be hooking up with a pedophile. And if I see someone's CHILD with a pedophile, I'm screaming it from the mountain tops.
What grown ass, 30 year old man is cool with sexing a baby?
What grown ass, 30 year old man is cool with sexing a baby?
Posted by seraphPosted by aquapiscescuspIs it morally correct?Posted by seraphPosted by aquapiscescuspIs this a question for me?Posted by MyStarsShinePosted by seraph
If the individual is of the age of consent (i.e., they're "legal") then it's none of my business. I can have my opinion on the matter (along with playing around with whatever "what if" scenarios involving my non-existent children in a non-existent relationship in some future I'm projecting), but that doesn't give me the right to arbitrarily inject myself into the affairs of others, especially in the absence of any physical harm/abuse as far as I could know.
Thank you
.....and if it was your 16yr old daughter having sex with a man double her age.....is that okay?
Ya?
If you'd like me to clarify any of my two other posts in this thread, I'll be more than happy to.
Is it morally correct and if it were you daughter, how would you feel
I can't answer this without knowing the intentions of the interested party.
If it were your daughter, how would you feel?
I wouldn't allow my daughter to be involved.click to expand
Yea, he's a freaking predator
Posted by aquapiscescuspPosted by FatCamillaIn which country?Posted by aquapiscescuspi mean by lawPosted by FatCamillaConsent for what?
my age of consent is 12
that's the age where anything lower is considered rape
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Country? No!..In *her* parallel universe 😛
@seraph thank you
Posted by aquapiscescuspPosted by P-AngelPosted by aquapiscescusp
If you knew the 16 year old girl was secretly seeing a mid 30s man?
Would you want to know as her parents?
1. there's nothing in here that states they are having sex
2. this is third hand information .. and unless the OP is a fly on the wall, she is responding to speculation.
Summary ... I would have thought that at least half of you people would have figured this out by now. Instead, you're too busy imposing your opinion on a situation in where zero facts are present.
smh
I don't want to post all the details but for me to ask the question means I've considered all the options
And everyone's opinion here matters and so does mine since I was asked to weigh in on it by others who care about the girl. It's really not complicated, most people who answered were able to understand that.
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Weighing in on something as requested by others doesn't describe you being personally involved with the girl. You led the viewing audience to believe that you're close enough to the girl that you were faced with a choice to make about whether YOU (personally) should inform her parents.
when in reality .... it's just gossip (other people) told you about.
again ..... this is third hand information, with no real facts, since you have no real knowledge of the events. You only have what you were told.
I would think that people would have enough common sense to realize this is propaganda, and that there are no real facts ... only your speculation, as it was presented to you in your gossip circle.
Posted by P-AngelPosted by aquapiscescuspPosted by P-AngelPosted by aquapiscescusp
If you knew the 16 year old girl was secretly seeing a mid 30s man?
Would you want to know as her parents?
1. there's nothing in here that states they are having sex
2. this is third hand information .. and unless the OP is a fly on the wall, she is responding to speculation.
Summary ... I would have thought that at least half of you people would have figured this out by now. Instead, you're too busy imposing your opinion on a situation in where zero facts are present.
smh
I don't want to post all the details but for me to ask the question means I've considered all the options
And everyone's opinion here matters and so does mine since I was asked to weigh in on it by others who care about the girl. It's really not complicated, most people who answered were able to understand that.
Weighing in on something as requested by others doesn't describe you being personally involved with the girl. You led the viewing audience to believe that you're close enough to the girl that you were faced with a choice to make about whether YOU (personally) should inform her parents.
when in reality .... it's just gossip (other people) told you about.
again ..... this is third hand information, with no real facts, since you have no real knowledge of the events. You only have what you were told.
I would think that people would have enough common sense to realize this is propaganda, and that there are no real facts ... only your speculation, as it was presented to you in your gossip circle.
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I know you're dead bent on being right but it doesn't matter to me what you think about my involvement is or shouldn't be. I already know where I stand based on the full knowledge I have. You are just pushing your weight around without actually responding the question I posed, if you don't like it, move along, we seem to all understand here... it's you who can't grasp it.
Posted by SsupermanSure he's a predator...
Yea, he's a freaking predator
only idiots can't see that unless they're predators themselves or have been victimized by one and in denial
Posted by TeenaPosted by aquapiscescuspPosted by FatCamillaIn which country?Posted by aquapiscescuspi mean by lawPosted by FatCamillaConsent for what?
my age of consent is 12
that's the age where anything lower is considered rape
Country? No!..In *her* parallel universe 😛
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To each their own?
Posted by aquapiscescuspPosted by TeenaPosted by aquapiscescuspPosted by FatCamillaIn which country?Posted by aquapiscescuspi mean by lawPosted by FatCamillaConsent for what?
my age of consent is 12
that's the age where anything lower is considered rape
Country? No!..In *her* parallel universe 😛
To each their own?
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Haha! Nah...it is actually a guy n he was just trolling ... I was playing along 😄
Posted by aquapiscescuspPosted by P-AngelPosted by aquapiscescuspPosted by P-AngelPosted by aquapiscescusp
If you knew the 16 year old girl was secretly seeing a mid 30s man?
Would you want to know as her parents?
1. there's nothing in here that states they are having sex
2. this is third hand information .. and unless the OP is a fly on the wall, she is responding to speculation.
Summary ... I would have thought that at least half of you people would have figured this out by now. Instead, you're too busy imposing your opinion on a situation in where zero facts are present.
smh
I don't want to post all the details but for me to ask the question means I've considered all the options
And everyone's opinion here matters and so does mine since I was asked to weigh in on it by others who care about the girl. It's really not complicated, most people who answered were able to understand that.
Weighing in on something as requested by others doesn't describe you being personally involved with the girl. You led the viewing audience to believe that you're close enough to the girl that you were faced with a choice to make about whether YOU (personally) should inform her parents.
when in reality .... it's just gossip (other people) told you about.
again ..... this is third hand information, with no real facts, since you have no real knowledge of the events. You only have what you were told.
I would think that people would have enough common sense to realize this is propaganda, and that there are no real facts ... only your speculation, as it was presented to you in your gossip circle.
I know you're dead bent on being right but it doesn't matter to me what you think about my involvement is or shouldn't be. I already know where I stand based on the full knowledge I have. You are just pushing your weight around without actually responding the question I posed, if you don't like it, move along, we seem to all understand here... it's you who can't grasp it.
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This is all gossip. You have no personally involvement with the girl .. you said,
"I was asked to weigh in on it by others who care about the girl"
which is telling us that these other people are the ones who care about the girl. It insinuates that you're an outsider, not being the position to personally care about the girl.
Yet, you deceive your viewing audience by implying that you have a dilemma concerning what is morally right, in whether YOU should inform her parents. Your story was embellished in attempt to make yourself look like you have a real serious issue in which you are trying to figure out what is the right thing to do.
when in reality, you're not even close enough to care about the girl ..... "I was asked to weigh in on it by others who care about the girl"
So, you decided to come here and continue the propaganda.
Posted by P-AngelPosted by aquapiscescuspPosted by P-AngelPosted by aquapiscescuspPosted by P-AngelPosted by aquapiscescusp
If you knew the 16 year old girl was secretly seeing a mid 30s man?
Would you want to know as her parents?
1. there's nothing in here that states they are having sex
2. this is third hand information .. and unless the OP is a fly on the wall, she is responding to speculation.
Summary ... I would have thought that at least half of you people would have figured this out by now. Instead, you're too busy imposing your opinion on a situation in where zero facts are present.
smh
I don't want to post all the details but for me to ask the question means I've considered all the options
And everyone's opinion here matters and so does mine since I was asked to weigh in on it by others who care about the girl. It's really not complicated, most people who answered were able to understand that.
Weighing in on something as requested by others doesn't describe you being personally involved with the girl. You led the viewing audience to believe that you're close enough to the girl that you were faced with a choice to make about whether YOU (personally) should inform her parents.
when in reality .... it's just gossip (other people) told you about.
again ..... this is third hand information, with no real facts, since you have no real knowledge of the events. You only have what you were told.
I would think that people would have enough common sense to realize this is propaganda, and that there are no real facts ... only your speculation, as it was presented to you in your gossip circle.
I know you're dead bent on being right but it doesn't matter to me what you think about my involvement is or shouldn't be. I already know where I stand based on the full knowledge I have. You are just pushing your weight around without actually responding the question I posed, if you don't like it, move along, we seem to all understand here... it's you who can't grasp it.
This is all gossip. You have no personally involvement with the girl .. you said,
"I was asked to weigh in on it by others who care about the girl"
which is telling us that these other people are the ones who care about the girl. It insinuates that you're an outsider, not being the position to personally care about the girl.
Yet, you deceive your viewing audience by implying that you have a dilemma concerning what is morally right, in whether YOU should inform her parents. Your story was embellished in attempt to make yourself look like you have a real serious issue in which you are trying to figure out what is the right thing to do.
when in reality, you're not even close enough to care about the girl ..... "I was asked to weigh in on it by others who care about the girl"
So, you decided to come here and continue the propaganda.
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Sure, i am here to deceit the public. Happy?
Bitter types who have no concerns for others. Smh
P-angel, you should know by now I couldn't care less what an empty unfulfilled person like you says, truth🙂
Posted by AliensusedourbogrollCuz she knows deep down it can't be the girls fault. But is pissed to see people care cuz she's void of this.
I'm surprised @P-Angel hasn't called the 16 year old girl a slut or implied something similar.
Posted by aquapiscescuspStatutory rape; I would. Not afraid to call the cops on him. 😡
If you knew the 16 year old girl was secretly seeing a mid 30s man?
Would you want to know as her parents?
🤗 cyber hugs!
Love,
Eva
I think ppl are not relizing that putting aside legality (too cold and strict) and morals (too subjective) is a potential harmful situation.
I understand ppl who say "give them freedom", because there are cases where this can happen without no abuse or anything.
But I also think this people are missing a point, isn't for them strange the fact of a grown man interested in a teenager ? I'm not saying he's pedobear, but, seriously do ppl think is healthy to be attracted to sb who is just a teenager, when you are in adulthood? Maybe he's attracted to a body, a young one, in that case he's lying to her; or maybe he's attracted to her personality. She can be serious and mature (Idk) and have a great personality, but lacks of basic experiences a grown man is supposed to have. That lack of sync. in a mental level is what seems strange in the couple, (and what makes us think he's taking profit of her naivety).
I was a really mature teenager, but I didn't knew the things I know today (some years later xD), I didn't experienced a lot of things that made me "grow". Back then I didn't know anything about relationships, manipulation, emotional harm etc. because there are things that are acquired just by age or/and some experience. Experiences that if had happened in those years, could have harmed much more that they did.
Maybe that ppl who deffend the relationship are right, and is a "normal" couple, but I agree with the OP in, at least, do smth, talk to her to know whats going on, to prevent emotional harm. Is what almost everybody would do if they care for sb.
I understand ppl who say "give them freedom", because there are cases where this can happen without no abuse or anything.
But I also think this people are missing a point, isn't for them strange the fact of a grown man interested in a teenager ? I'm not saying he's pedobear, but, seriously do ppl think is healthy to be attracted to sb who is just a teenager, when you are in adulthood? Maybe he's attracted to a body, a young one, in that case he's lying to her; or maybe he's attracted to her personality. She can be serious and mature (Idk) and have a great personality, but lacks of basic experiences a grown man is supposed to have. That lack of sync. in a mental level is what seems strange in the couple, (and what makes us think he's taking profit of her naivety).
I was a really mature teenager, but I didn't knew the things I know today (some years later xD), I didn't experienced a lot of things that made me "grow". Back then I didn't know anything about relationships, manipulation, emotional harm etc. because there are things that are acquired just by age or/and some experience. Experiences that if had happened in those years, could have harmed much more that they did.
Maybe that ppl who deffend the relationship are right, and is a "normal" couple, but I agree with the OP in, at least, do smth, talk to her to know whats going on, to prevent emotional harm. Is what almost everybody would do if they care for sb.
Posted by EvatheDivaPosted by aquapiscescuspStatutory rape; I would. Not afraid to call the cops on him. 😡
If you knew the 16 year old girl was secretly seeing a mid 30s man?
Would you want to know as her parents?
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This could be an option...
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Posted by ExplicitYes, different cultures for different folks... but as I've repeated she is quite young in age and mentally, living at home, coming out of a "sheltered" high school... I can't get into the stuff he's got her hooked with but it's not a good story for her in the long run.
Depends. I notice a lot of North Americanized people are a bit less developed then ethnic people. Not physically but mentally. Like in my family people got married super young and lived a very adult life while here in North America 29 year olds are living with their parents and playing video games. So it could be a cultural thing too... I know when I was 16 I was ready for that kind of relationship and was interested in men way older than me so... Depends on the person I guess.
Posted by BlackburnWise words... you obviously understand I have concerns because I know the situation well. It's not a romance story... he's an old man compared to her. Shady background too.
I think ppl are not relizing that putting aside legality (too cold and strict) and morals (too subjective) is a potential harmful situation.
I understand ppl who say "give them freedom", because there are cases where this can happen without no abuse or anything.
But I also think this people are missing a point, isn't for them strange the fact of a grown man interested in a teenager ? I'm not saying he's pedobear, but, seriously do ppl think is healthy to be attracted to sb who is just a teenager, when you are in adulthood? Maybe he's attracted to a body, a young one, in that case he's lying to her; or maybe he's attracted to her personality. She can be serious and mature (Idk) and have a great personality, but lacks of basic experiences a grown man is supposed to have. That lack of sync. in a mental level is what seems strange in the couple, (and what makes us think he's taking profit of her naivety).
I was a really mature teenager, but I didn't knew the things I know today (some years later xD), I didn't experienced a lot of things that made me "grow". Back then I didn't know anything about relationships, manipulation, emotional harm etc. because there are things that are acquired just by age or/and some experience. Experiences that if had happened in those years, could have harmed much more that they did.
Maybe that ppl who deffend the relationship are right, and is a "normal" couple, but I agree with the OP in, at least, do smth, talk to her to know whats going on, to prevent emotional harm. Is what almost everybody would do if they care for sb.
not even from this country... let's leave it at that before the firing squads come in lol
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