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Posted by aquapiscescuspsounds like an arranged marriage thing.
Another thing, parents know him... harmless... she works for him --
Posted by lisabethur8Posted by Blackburnif she's not being abused and she's of legal age people should mind their own business.Posted by cvurko
Not my business, i'd keep my nose out of it.
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All that is necessary for the triumph of evil is that good ppl do nothing.
if you see anything suspicious then report it.
plus, what if her parents arranged them together??
I've seen and heard of arranged marraiges where the daughter is really young, younger than 18 and the man is over 30 even 40 years old. the consent is because it benefits the family.click to expand
Ok no. It's not like that...
Posted by lisabethur8No -- but you can keep saying it if you like 🙂Posted by aquapiscescuspsounds like an arranged marriage thing.
Another thing, parents know him... harmless... she works for him --click to expand
Posted by aquapiscescuspLol! Maybe...but what would you write? N how sure are you about this?Posted by TeenaI don't know... send an anonymous letter?Posted by aquapiscescuspPosted by TeenaPosted by aquapiscescuspPosted by TeenaPosted by aquapiscescuspMaybe she's hiding because she's scared of these very judgements ppl are making?? Or maybe they didn't even reach a point where they can actually make it official??Posted by TeenaOk. She is hiding this relationship. If it was a good thing, they would make it official.Posted by cvurko+1Posted by BlackburnI dont see how that's evil. People are too easy to judge and project their own definitions of good, evil, right, wrong and etc. on the others. If i don't know the actual situation and the two parties' sincere mentality and feelings i am not the one to make the call. Having a relationship with a partner who is way younger/older than you is not evil per se.Posted by cvurko
Not my business, i'd keep my nose out of it.
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All that is necessary for the triumph of evil is that good ppl do nothing.
To all of what you said!
She's hiding it because she knows her parents wouldn't approve, I mean which parents would? So yeah.. judgements are sometimes necessary.
Exactly my point!! She most definitely knows she won't get an approval from many people let alone her family. What can be any better reason to hide?
Knowing her she wants the whole world to know, trust me.It's him... he's probably saying shush... ya know.
Or maybe not.
I get what you're saying.Maybe she would want the world to know if this is not the scenario.What do you wanna do anyway?
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Posted by aquapiscescuspwell if it's hiding from the family.....Posted by TeenaOk. She is hiding this relationship. If it was a good thing, they would make it official.Posted by cvurko+1Posted by BlackburnI dont see how that's evil. People are too easy to judge and project their own definitions of good, evil, right, wrong and etc. on the others. If i don't know the actual situation and the two parties' sincere mentality and feelings i am not the one to make the call. Having a relationship with a partner who is way younger/older than you is not evil per se.Posted by cvurko
Not my business, i'd keep my nose out of it.
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All that is necessary for the triumph of evil is that good ppl do nothing.
To all of what you said!
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something is wrong.
lol op is secretly going out with a 16 yr old?
Posted by lisabethur8Posted by Blackburnif she's not being abused and she's of legal age people should mind their own business.Posted by cvurko
Not my business, i'd keep my nose out of it.
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All that is necessary for the triumph of evil is that good ppl do nothing.
if you see anything suspicious then report it.
plus, what if her parents arranged them together??
I've seen and heard of arranged marraiges where the daughter is really young, younger than 18 and the man is over 30 even 40 years old. the consent is because it benefits the family.click to expand
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I posted later that phrase was not serious.
But what I say is, yes, it's her business but there is a fine line between giving sb freedom and ignoring a potential harmful situation.
If they arrenged them together then this is more dangerous and police should know about it.
It's not about legality, but letting a young girl be free from manipulations from older ppl.
If the government made murder legal, would you murder? Legality is not a criteria for me.
Posted by Stinger408scorpOh dear, Columbo here
lol op is secretly going out with a 16 yr old?
Posted by aquapiscescuspLolPosted by Stinger408scorpOh dear, Columbo here
lol op is secretly going out with a 16 yr old?click to expand
Posted by aquapiscescuspshe doesn't sound strong enough to have an older man. lolPosted by Stensco21Oh yes, she is a child... not ready for this big bad wolf
I could see how 16 would be a questionable age,but in America teenagers are so coddled and sheltered they really are to young minddd. The age of adult in America mentally is around 25 to be honest. Our system is designed to treat them as children for to long and hence they stay emotionally and mentally children for a prolonged length of time.click to expand
and face her parents.
Posted by BlackburnGood point, laws should not decide what's morally justPosted by lisabethur8Posted by Blackburnif she's not being abused and she's of legal age people should mind their own business.Posted by cvurko
Not my business, i'd keep my nose out of it.
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All that is necessary for the triumph of evil is that good ppl do nothing.
if you see anything suspicious then report it.
plus, what if her parents arranged them together??
I've seen and heard of arranged marraiges where the daughter is really young, younger than 18 and the man is over 30 even 40 years old. the consent is because it benefits the family.
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I posted later that phrase was not serious.
But what I say is, yes, it's her business but there is a fine line between giving sb freedom and ignoring a potential harmful situation.
If they arrenged them together then this is more dangerous and police should know about it.
It's not about legality, but letting a young girl be free from manipulations from older ppl.
If the government made murder legal, would you murder? Legality is not a criteria for me.
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lol smh why even ask this question? If she was 18 she's free to make that call if she's 16 that 30yo need to go to jail.
seriously. lol she should be straight with her family. "mom dad, I love this man, and i'm of legal age!!! we're gonna ELOPE if I don't have him."
not go around secretly sneaking about and having sexual intercourse.
plus put a RING on it to make it decent and have a marriage.
not go around secretly sneaking about and having sexual intercourse.
plus put a RING on it to make it decent and have a marriage.
Posted by Blackburnthat does not make any sense. Make murder legal??Posted by lisabethur8Posted by Blackburnif she's not being abused and she's of legal age people should mind their own business.Posted by cvurko
Not my business, i'd keep my nose out of it.
----
All that is necessary for the triumph of evil is that good ppl do nothing.
if you see anything suspicious then report it.
plus, what if her parents arranged them together??
I've seen and heard of arranged marraiges where the daughter is really young, younger than 18 and the man is over 30 even 40 years old. the consent is because it benefits the family.
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I posted later that phrase was not serious.
But what I say is, yes, it's her business but there is a fine line between giving sb freedom and ignoring a potential harmful situation.
If they arrenged them together then this is more dangerous and police should know about it.
It's not about legality, but letting a young girl be free from manipulations from older ppl.
If the government made murder legal, would you murder? Legality is not a criteria for me.
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but if it's dangerous, yes report it.
Posted by lisabethur8Posted by Blackburnthat does not make any sense. Make murder legal??Posted by lisabethur8Posted by Blackburnif she's not being abused and she's of legal age people should mind their own business.Posted by cvurko
Not my business, i'd keep my nose out of it.
----
All that is necessary for the triumph of evil is that good ppl do nothing.
if you see anything suspicious then report it.
plus, what if her parents arranged them together??
I've seen and heard of arranged marraiges where the daughter is really young, younger than 18 and the man is over 30 even 40 years old. the consent is because it benefits the family.
----
I posted later that phrase was not serious.
But what I say is, yes, it's her business but there is a fine line between giving sb freedom and ignoring a potential harmful situation.
If they arrenged them together then this is more dangerous and police should know about it.
It's not about legality, but letting a young girl be free from manipulations from older ppl.
If the government made murder legal, would you murder? Legality is not a criteria for me.
but if it's dangerous, yes report it.
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Don't take it literal, it was an example of how legality is not the same as morals.
Yes, I agree
this is a HORROR for all parents when they have daughters who are strong willed and fall in love.
cause she will most definitely have sex if she wants to, and nothing will stop her if she loves the man. she will even doing it sneakily and run off too.
cause she will most definitely have sex if she wants to, and nothing will stop her if she loves the man. she will even doing it sneakily and run off too.
Posted by lisabethur8I don't think he wants to elope. He has her exactly where he wants her.
seriously. lol she should be straight with her family. "mom dad, I love this man, and i'm of legal age!!! we're gonna ELOPE if I don't have him."
not go around secretly sneaking about and having sexual intercourse.
plus put a RING on it to make it decent and have a marriage.
Posted by Stinger408scorpThis ^^
lol smh why even ask this question? If she was 18 she's free to make that call if she's 16 that 30yo need to go to jail.
Posted by aquapiscescuspOf course he does, he is probably manipulating her......weak bastardPosted by lisabethur8I don't think he wants to elope. He has her exactly where he wants her.
seriously. lol she should be straight with her family. "mom dad, I love this man, and i'm of legal age!!! we're gonna ELOPE if I don't have him."
not go around secretly sneaking about and having sexual intercourse.
plus put a RING on it to make it decent and have a marriage.click to expand
Posted by aquapiscescuspgross.Posted by lisabethur8I don't think he wants to elope. He has her exactly where he wants her.
seriously. lol she should be straight with her family. "mom dad, I love this man, and i'm of legal age!!! we're gonna ELOPE if I don't have him."
not go around secretly sneaking about and having sexual intercourse.
plus put a RING on it to make it decent and have a marriage.click to expand
if she has already lost her virginity. omg. and he has bad intentions of not marrying her,
then he has to be reported. He could do it to another girl.
Posted by Seraphlight😕Posted by ScrumptiousThis parents can be stupid.
Forget telling her parents, tell the police.click to expand
Two girls I was in secondary school with got pregnant....both under 16. Both the fathers were a little older and served time at young offenders prisons.
Posted by aquapiscescuspNowhere. I take care of my life.Posted by pisceanloves...
People just love to stick their nose where it doesn't belong. Smh
Where do you stick your nose?click to expand
Posted by aquapiscescuspHonesty don't know, would have to know more. I was the above girl once so I can see the reasoning
If you knew the 16 year old girl was secretly seeing a mid 30s man?
Would you want to know as her parents?
Posted by MyStarsShinesometimes, you can't help who you love.
Two girls I was in secondary school with got pregnant....both under 16. Both the fathers were a little older and served time at young offenders prisons.
if it's indeed love. cause no woman or young girl would fall for a man like that if she had good reasoning skills. love makes you dumb and lose brain cells.
Posted by lisabethur8Posted by MyStarsShinesometimes, you can't help who you love.
Two girls I was in secondary school with got pregnant....both under 16. Both the fathers were a little older and served time at young offenders prisons.
if it's indeed love. cause no woman or young girl would fall for a man like that if she had good reasoning skills. love makes you dumb and lose brain cells.
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I doubt it was love Lisa.....the girls were 13 and 14 ...... Lust and raging hormones maybe or some persuasion from the guys
Posted by MyStarsShinewomen fall for men hard even when they are in their middle age, even seniors. Although for seniors, its to experience love again when you're widowed.Posted by lisabethur8Posted by MyStarsShinesometimes, you can't help who you love.
Two girls I was in secondary school with got pregnant....both under 16. Both the fathers were a little older and served time at young offenders prisons.
if it's indeed love. cause no woman or young girl would fall for a man like that if she had good reasoning skills. love makes you dumb and lose brain cells.
I doubt it was love Lisa.....the girls were 13 and 14 ...... Lust and raging hormones maybe or some persuasion from the guys
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Posted by lisabethur8What has that got to do with children falling in love? Their brains and bodies aren't fully formed or matured...grown women are a different matterPosted by MyStarsShinewomen fall for men hard even when they are in their middle age, even seniors. Although for seniors, its to experience love again when you're widowed.Posted by lisabethur8Posted by MyStarsShinesometimes, you can't help who you love.
Two girls I was in secondary school with got pregnant....both under 16. Both the fathers were a little older and served time at young offenders prisons.
if it's indeed love. cause no woman or young girl would fall for a man like that if she had good reasoning skills. love makes you dumb and lose brain cells.
I doubt it was love Lisa.....the girls were 13 and 14 ...... Lust and raging hormones maybe or some persuasion from the guys
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Posted by MyStarsShinewhen you hit menstruation period/ you experience womanly feelings. you look at the opposite sex, as a force you can't help to be with or desire.Posted by lisabethur8What has that got to do with children falling in love? Their brains and bodies aren't fully formed or matured...grown women are a different matterPosted by MyStarsShinewomen fall for men hard even when they are in their middle age, even seniors. Although for seniors, its to experience love again when you're widowed.Posted by lisabethur8Posted by MyStarsShinesometimes, you can't help who you love.
Two girls I was in secondary school with got pregnant....both under 16. Both the fathers were a little older and served time at young offenders prisons.
if it's indeed love. cause no woman or young girl would fall for a man like that if she had good reasoning skills. love makes you dumb and lose brain cells.
I doubt it was love Lisa.....the girls were 13 and 14 ...... Lust and raging hormones maybe or some persuasion from the guys
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boys have a longer time, I think but once they do, they are on it.
you don't know how many young girls stare at other young men when i'm walking with my young cousins even gay relatives, and these girls are as young as 14, 15 years old!!! they think I don't see, cause they probably think, "oh that cute guy is with his aunty or mother" lol and my male relatives tell me, "Oh my god!!! did you see that girl pass by, she was eyeing me like a piece of delicioius cake"
I was O_O cause honestly I did see it happen. the young girls are horny!! so yes it's the same with middle aged women, and with seniors, they have lost their menstruation time, because they go through menopause around their mid-50s and then by then...it's companionship.
with men the penis has blood rushing through them, the brain goes numb and the blood goes to the penis....it's the same feeling with women....'too!! it's just that it's INSIDE.
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Posted by DivaCanLeoI agree
It's because their fathers didn't friend them.
A good dad becomes his daughter good friend
He teaches her about men
So in the end its the parents fault
All the kids in our son's school who are going off the rails have indifferent parents or they do the same things and don't set a good example..ie, smoking, drinking etc...so the kids grow up thinking that is okay. Some single mothers bring other men into the family and the kids can't hack it. I know one girl whose mother and father have new partners and now the girl is in therapy because she says neither her mum and dad are *there* for her....they are more into their lovers...
Parents have a lot to answer for....if you are going to have children, look after them for God's sake 😐
Posted by lisabethur8Haha Lisa, yes they are...as i said before, it's lust, not lovePosted by MyStarsShinewhen you hit menstruation period/ you experience womanly feelings. you look at the opposite sex, as a force you can't help to be with or desire.Posted by lisabethur8What has that got to do with children falling in love? Their brains and bodies aren't fully formed or matured...grown women are a different matterPosted by MyStarsShinewomen fall for men hard even when they are in their middle age, even seniors. Although for seniors, its to experience love again when you're widowed.Posted by lisabethur8Posted by MyStarsShinesometimes, you can't help who you love.
Two girls I was in secondary school with got pregnant....both under 16. Both the fathers were a little older and served time at young offenders prisons.
if it's indeed love. cause no woman or young girl would fall for a man like that if she had good reasoning skills. love makes you dumb and lose brain cells.
I doubt it was love Lisa.....the girls were 13 and 14 ...... Lust and raging hormones maybe or some persuasion from the guys
boys have a longer time, I think but once they do, they are on it.
you don't know how many young girls stare at other young men when i'm walking with my young cousins even gay relatives, and these girls are as young as 14, 15 years old!!! they think I don't see, cause they probably think, "oh that cute guy is with his aunty or mother" lol and my male relatives tell me, "Oh my god!!! did you see that girl pass by, she was eyeing me like a piece of delicioius cake"
I was O_O cause honestly I did see it happen. the young girls are horny!! so yes it's the same with middle aged women, and with seniors, they have lost their menstruation time, because they go through menopause around their mid-50s and then by then...it's companionship.click to expand
I had to smile at your comment on companionship. A friend of mine knows a woman who after being celibate for a long time is having a very hot affair with a younger guy. They have sex every day, sometimes even twice 😛....he is 32 and she is 55
I think it is a myth about people not having sex when they get over a certain age.....
Posted by aquapiscescuspI've been seeing this shit on reddit omg. I just don't know how I could handle this if my own. Shit my upbringing was who, what, where and what time you are coming home. And I had to be in by sunset on time. I see why they had some boundaries for a teen. Haha.
If you knew the 16 year old girl was secretly seeing a mid 30s man?
Would you want to know as her parents?
I'm probably going to be like this too. No you cant.
Posted by enfant_terribleWhat have I missed?
Lol what's with all the random questions lately?
I got one for you, young lady. Where you been?
I'd be telling the police
Posted by aquapiscescuspThe bizarre ponderings (and thread starts) of UnusualVaginaDischarge. That's about it..Posted by enfant_terribleWhat have I missed?
Lol what's with all the random questions lately?
I got one for you, young lady. Where you been?click to expand
Posted by AliensusedourbogrollI would send him anonymous letters threatening to kill him lol 😱
Ewwwwww. I'd be sending him anonymous letters threatening to tell the parents if he doesn't dump her.
That is a good idea though to write to him
Good to see so many caring responsible people posting here. It is so easy to say *it's not my problem*.... Where children are concerned, it's all our problem...
Posted by SolitudeHopefully he is due to kick the bucket....very very soon....Posted by enfant_terribleThe first sentence is probably true because he's whitePosted by SolitudeLeo sun / Cancer moon ?
@aquapiscescusp give us his personal information lol
I hope my fellow feminists castrated himclick to expand
Creep
no
Posted by ImpulsvPosted by NemiliciousThey are in our country
please stop calling 16 year olds children.
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......and in mine too
Posted by yupvirgooExactlyPosted by Teenabut she's 16Posted by aquapiscescuspMaybe she's hiding because she's scared of these very judgements ppl are making?? Or maybe they didn't even reach a point where they can actually make it official??Posted by TeenaOk. She is hiding this relationship. If it was a good thing, they would make it official.Posted by cvurko+1Posted by BlackburnI dont see how that's evil. People are too easy to judge and project their own definitions of good, evil, right, wrong and etc. on the others. If i don't know the actual situation and the two parties' sincere mentality and feelings i am not the one to make the call. Having a relationship with a partner who is way younger/older than you is not evil per se.Posted by cvurko
Not my business, i'd keep my nose out of it.
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All that is necessary for the triumph of evil is that good ppl do nothing.
To all of what you said!
and he's like twice her age
im not saying it's evil but that's kinda predatory
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I see the 16yr old school kids.....they are all over the place.....emotionally insecure and impressionable
If I had a 16yr old daughter, I would not be happy if she chose to be with a guy double he age.....it doesn't feel healthy at all.
If I had a 16yr old daughter, I would not be happy if she chose to be with a guy double he age.....it doesn't feel healthy at all.
Posted by yupvirgooI don't remember making bad choices at 16. Maybe this whole thing is delusional or maybe they really like eachother. How can it be predatory when maybe the guy has no malice? She's working for him..so it's not like the guy is some wreck(not that it would imply he can't be one) Or maybe this girl has issues with her family to start with n this guy has been there for her in some way. I dunno though. I didn't read the whole thread.Posted by Teenabut she's 16Posted by aquapiscescuspMaybe she's hiding because she's scared of these very judgements ppl are making?? Or maybe they didn't even reach a point where they can actually make it official??Posted by TeenaOk. She is hiding this relationship. If it was a good thing, they would make it official.Posted by cvurko+1Posted by BlackburnI dont see how that's evil. People are too easy to judge and project their own definitions of good, evil, right, wrong and etc. on the others. If i don't know the actual situation and the two parties' sincere mentality and feelings i am not the one to make the call. Having a relationship with a partner who is way younger/older than you is not evil per se.Posted by cvurko
Not my business, i'd keep my nose out of it.
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All that is necessary for the triumph of evil is that good ppl do nothing.
To all of what you said!
and he's like twice her age
im not saying it's evil but that's kinda predatory
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Posted by seraph
If the individual is of the age of consent (i.e., they're "legal") then it's none of my business. I can have my opinion on the matter (along with playing around with whatever "what if" scenarios involving my non-existent children in a non-existent relationship in some future I'm projecting), but that doesn't give me the right to arbitrarily inject myself into the affairs of others, especially in the absence of any physical harm/abuse as far as I could know.
.....and if it was your 16yr old daughter having sex with a man double her age.....is that okay?
Posted by cvurkoWe should be best friends!!!!!
Lol, and when you guys are 35 you are so wise and have perfect love lifes, right? 😄 Don't intrude into the private space of others'. We are all kids, making silly things no matter the age. Seen 16 year olds that are way wiser than ppl above 40.
Posted by LadyNeptuneWhether it's 'evil' or not is irrelevant. It's ILLEGAL.Posted by cvurkoPosted by BlackburnI dont see how that's evil. People are too easy to judge and project their own definitions of good, evil, right, wrong and etc. on the others. If i don't know the actual situation and the two parties' sincere mentality and feelings i am not the one to make the call. Having a relationship with a partner who is way younger/older than you is not evil per se.Posted by cvurko
Not my business, i'd keep my nose out of it.
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All that is necessary for the triumph of evil is that good ppl do nothing.
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The state has determined that children are physically, emotionally, and mentally unable to choose for themselves to engage in sex with an adult.
So to answer the op, not only would I tell the parents I'd also inform law enforcement.
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plus, what if her parents arranged them together??
I've seen and heard of arranged marraiges where the daughter is really young, younger than 18 and the man is over 30 even 40 years old. the consent is because it benefits the family.