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@Whorpio
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Posted by Antiochus
Sag moon rule #1: NEVER compromise your ethis and principles. For no one and nothing.


Posted by Dianna
You work with backstabbers!
And why was this a fireable offense? Was there something confidential in the meeting? Was the boss being mocked in the group chat?

Posted by Ooops
2nd never think a family member of someone you fight with will have your back, 9/10 times they stay loyal to family.

Posted by nikkistar
I'm an asshole most of the time, so you may or may not find this offensive.
But you really gotta stop being so gullible. And you really need to stop calling anyone a friend. True friends, don't do this kind of shit. But you gotta stop being so gullible to allow yourself to get fucked over.

Posted by WhorpioPosted by Ooops
2nd never think a family member of someone you fight with will have your back, 9/10 times they stay loyal to family.
It’s just crazy because the libra always called her Virgo sis a bitch and difficult to get along with and frustrating to work with. Maybe it was all a ruseclick to expand

Posted by WhorpioPosted by nikkistar
I'm an asshole most of the time, so you may or may not find this offensive.
But you really gotta stop being so gullible. And you really need to stop calling anyone a friend. True friends, don't do this kind of shit. But you gotta stop being so gullible to allow yourself to get fucked over.
I feel like if I go the opposite way, and act super mistrustful of people, they’ll be out to get me still. Like “this girl is a bitch, she needa go”click to expand

Posted by DiannaPosted by WhorpioPosted by Dianna
You work with backstabbers!
And why was this a fireable offense? Was there something confidential in the meeting? Was the boss being mocked in the group chat?
No! He even told me I had every right to record because nothing private was disclosed. He just said the distributing of the recording was “irresponsible employee behavior as per section 3 of the employee handbook”. I was like “I never read anything about audio recordings in the handbook”, and he was like “oh well we’re going by the old handbook”. I was like ooooook well I wasn’t given that book so how am I supposed to know? And then he was basically like “well you’re still in your 90 day probation period so I can fire you for whatever reason I want”.
The boss sounds like an asshole.
Is he short and bald? They usually have complexesclick to expand

Posted by WhorpioPosted by nikkistar
I'm an asshole most of the time, so you may or may not find this offensive.
But you really gotta stop being so gullible. And you really need to stop calling anyone a friend. True friends, don't do this kind of shit. But you gotta stop being so gullible to allow yourself to get fucked over.
I feel like if I go the opposite way, and act super mistrustful of people, they’ll be out to get me still. Like “this girl is a bitch, she needa go”click to expand



Posted by WhorpioPosted by nikkistar
I'm an asshole most of the time, so you may or may not find this offensive.
But you really gotta stop being so gullible. And you really need to stop calling anyone a friend. True friends, don't do this kind of shit. But you gotta stop being so gullible to allow yourself to get fucked over.
I feel like if I go the opposite way, and act super mistrustful of people, they’ll be out to get me still. Like “this girl is a bitch, she needa go”click to expand


Posted by AntiochusPosted by WhorpioPosted by Antiochus
Sag moon rule #1: NEVER compromise your ethis and principles. For no one and nothing.
I feel like my sag moon gets me into these messes because I always trust the wrong ass people. My sag moon just wants to be friends with everyone
That's the lesson to be learned for this moon: You can't be everyones friend. The moment you become someones friend you also become someones enemy. The only way you can dial this effect down a bit is if you stick with your principles even if it means going against your friends as this makes clear to others that you are fair.
Then there is the more simple 2. rule: never trust anyone.click to expand


Posted by Victorious
Also, you shared it to the groupchat.
Very plausible it was someone else who grassed you up within the group.
But girl. You were dumb.
Lesson learnt.
Posted by Victorious
In fact, you should have learnt that lesson ages ago about sharing personal things with acquaintances.
You were stupid, not dumb.click to expand

Posted by WhorpioPosted by Victorious
Also, you shared it to the groupchat.
Very plausible it was someone else who grassed you up within the group.
But girl. You were dumb.
Lesson learnt.
There were only 4 of us in the group chat, and I sorta ruled out one person because I know he wouldn’t be the type to do this. So it was either the libra or female Gemini.Posted by Victorious
In fact, you should have learnt that lesson ages ago about sharing personal things with acquaintances.
You were stupid, not dumb.
I figured that was just with online acquaintances. I’ve never been betrayed like this by people IRL.
On the note of my manager being tool, I think I can still sue for discrimination because it’s literally in the employee handbook that says no one is allowed to have fake nails yet the sisters get away with it.click to expand

Posted by Victorious
Let it go.
You won't win over nails, you were in your probation too. Tbh I think he would have sacked you after Christmas anyway.
People don't stop being people if they're online. You fucked yourself over. No vengeful plotting. Lick your wounds and move on.

Posted by AntiochusPosted by WhorpioPosted by Antiochus
Sag moon rule #1: NEVER compromise your ethis and principles. For no one and nothing.
I feel like my sag moon gets me into these messes because I always trust the wrong ass people. My sag moon just wants to be friends with everyone
That's the lesson to be learned for this moon: You can't be everyones friend. The moment you become someones friend you also become someones enemy. The only way you can dial this effect down a bit is if you stick with your principles even if it means going against your friends as this makes clear to others that you are fair.
Then there is the more simple 2. rule: never trust anyone.click to expand

Posted by AntiochusPosted by saggurl88Posted by AntiochusPosted by WhorpioPosted by Antiochus
Sag moon rule #1: NEVER compromise your ethis and principles. For no one and nothing.
I feel like my sag moon gets me into these messes because I always trust the wrong ass people. My sag moon just wants to be friends with everyone
That's the lesson to be learned for this moon: You can't be everyones friend. The moment you become someones friend you also become someones enemy. The only way you can dial this effect down a bit is if you stick with your principles even if it means going against your friends as this makes clear to others that you are fair.
Then there is the more simple 2. rule: never trust anyone.
I think that last line has to do with your strong Cap stellium. Sag placements are usually pretty trusting until you prove them not to be.
Aaaannnddd this story highlights the problem with this approach.
I also know a lot of Sag who are similar. One of the reason my Sag neighbor started interacting with each other was that she didn't trust other people and felt safer with me around when went partying.click to expand


Posted by AntiochusPosted by saggurl88Posted by AntiochusPosted by saggurl88Posted by AntiochusPosted by WhorpioPosted by Antiochus
Sag moon rule #1: NEVER compromise your ethis and principles. For no one and nothing.
I feel like my sag moon gets me into these messes because I always trust the wrong ass people. My sag moon just wants to be friends with everyone
That's the lesson to be learned for this moon: You can't be everyones friend. The moment you become someones friend you also become someones enemy. The only way you can dial this effect down a bit is if you stick with your principles even if it means going against your friends as this makes clear to others that you are fair.
Then there is the more simple 2. rule: never trust anyone.
I think that last line has to do with your strong Cap stellium. Sag placements are usually pretty trusting until you prove them not to be.
Aaaannnddd this story highlights the problem with this approach.
I also know a lot of Sag who are similar. One of the reason my Sag neighbor started interacting with each other was that she didn't trust other people and felt safer with me around when went partying.
But she knew and trusted you and she liked you, it's not the same 😛
And I'm confused, similar with trusting people or not trusting.
It's different when our optimism gets in the way and we give people benefit of doubt.
I don't count. Even she never understood why she did trust me that fast.
I think the only real positive thing about a Cap Venus is that people naturally trust people with this placement. Even if it makes no sense and it backfires on them.click to expand

Posted by AntiochusPosted by saggurl88Posted by AntiochusPosted by saggurl88Posted by AntiochusPosted by saggurl88Posted by AntiochusPosted by WhorpioPosted by Antiochus
Sag moon rule #1: NEVER compromise your ethis and principles. For no one and nothing.
I feel like my sag moon gets me into these messes because I always trust the wrong ass people. My sag moon just wants to be friends with everyone
That's the lesson to be learned for this moon: You can't be everyones friend. The moment you become someones friend you also become someones enemy. The only way you can dial this effect down a bit is if you stick with your principles even if it means going against your friends as this makes clear to others that you are fair.
Then there is the more simple 2. rule: never trust anyone.
I think that last line has to do with your strong Cap stellium. Sag placements are usually pretty trusting until you prove them not to be.
Aaaannnddd this story highlights the problem with this approach.
I also know a lot of Sag who are similar. One of the reason my Sag neighbor started interacting with each other was that she didn't trust other people and felt safer with me around when went partying.
But she knew and trusted you and she liked you, it's not the same 😛
And I'm confused, similar with trusting people or not trusting.
It's different when our optimism gets in the way and we give people benefit of doubt.
I don't count. Even she never understood why she did trust me that fast.
I think the only real positive thing about a Cap Venus is that people naturally trust people with this placement. Even if it makes no sense and it backfires on them.
So are you saying that you're not to be trusted??
No one is to be trusted.click to expand


Posted by WhorpioPosted by Ooops
2nd never think a family member of someone you fight with will have your back, 9/10 times they stay loyal to family.
It’s just crazy because the libra always called her Virgo sis a bitch and difficult to get along with and frustrating to work with. Maybe it was all a ruseclick to expand

Posted by saggurl88Posted by AntiochusPosted by saggurl88Posted by AntiochusPosted by saggurl88Posted by AntiochusPosted by saggurl88Posted by AntiochusPosted by WhorpioPosted by Antiochus
Sag moon rule #1: NEVER compromise your ethis and principles. For no one and nothing.
I feel like my sag moon gets me into these messes because I always trust the wrong ass people. My sag moon just wants to be friends with everyone
That's the lesson to be learned for this moon: You can't be everyones friend. The moment you become someones friend you also become someones enemy. The only way you can dial this effect down a bit is if you stick with your principles even if it means going against your friends as this makes clear to others that you are fair.
Then there is the more simple 2. rule: never trust anyone.
I think that last line has to do with your strong Cap stellium. Sag placements are usually pretty trusting until you prove them not to be.
Aaaannnddd this story highlights the problem with this approach.
I also know a lot of Sag who are similar. One of the reason my Sag neighbor started interacting with each other was that she didn't trust other people and felt safer with me around when went partying.
But she knew and trusted you and she liked you, it's not the same 😛
And I'm confused, similar with trusting people or not trusting.
It's different when our optimism gets in the way and we give people benefit of doubt.
I don't count. Even she never understood why she did trust me that fast.
I think the only real positive thing about a Cap Venus is that people naturally trust people with this placement. Even if it makes no sense and it backfires on them.
So are you saying that you're not to be trusted??
No one is to be trusted.
I can agree with that but as for you,![]()
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Posted by EvatheDiva52
By the end of the day, after closing down Starbucks my manager came to talk to me a told me he was notified of the whole recording being sent to a group chat. And then he fired me.
Why am I so stupid? Why do I fall for shit like this all the time?
I haven’t felt this helpless in a looooong time. I love people, but now I feel like I can’t trust anyone ever again.
Too late to cry over spilled milk. Maybe this is WHY I always DVR Judge Judy. States have recording laws (third party) and/or one-on-one, you "ask" if it's okay to record, etc.
You're young. You'll learn by your mistakes. I work for the Army. We in Texas are suppose to ask for consent before we record: Texas's wiretapping law is a "one-party consent" law. Texas makes it a crime to intercept or record any "wire, oral, or electronic communication" unless one party to the conversation consents. Texas Penal Code § 16.02. Look for the laws in your state. You've got a case if it isn't one that asks for consent (50/50); you have a case IF, IF you want to report this to the Labor Department. Good luck.
🤗 cyber hugs!
Love,
Eva
PS: Don't keep kicking yourself on the ass. Continue to TRUST people, but step ASIDE and do your homework (laws) before you actually do something that is: Indecent, immoral, or illegal.


Posted by WhorpioPosted by Victorious
Also, you shared it to the groupchat.
Very plausible it was someone else who grassed you up within the group.
But girl. You were dumb.
Lesson learnt.
There were only 4 of us in the group chat, and I sorta ruled out one person because I know he wouldn’t be the type to do this. So it was either the libra or female Gemini.Posted by Victorious
In fact, you should have learnt that lesson ages ago about sharing personal things with acquaintances.
You were stupid, not dumb.
I figured that was just with online acquaintances. I’ve never been betrayed like this by people IRL.
On the note of my manager being tool, I think I can still sue for discrimination because it’s literally in the employee handbook that says no one is allowed to have fake nails yet the sisters get away with it.click to expand

Posted by enfant_terrible
I thought ex escorts had better people-sense.

Posted by Arielle83
How did she bully you?
Exactly?

Posted by LadyNeptunePosted by enfant_terrible
I thought ex escorts had better people-sense.
Know a lot of ex escorts do you.
Pro tip: they aren’t really ex escorts they just don’t want your buisness 😏click to expand

Posted by Arielle83
How did she bully you?
Exactly?

Posted by Ram416
You'd be surprised - sometimes the person you think least likely to do something can be the biggest culprit. Considering that you're a poor judge of character (so am I, extremely so - which is why I steer clear of most people).
Also, WAT?
Online acquaintances are also people IRL. What happens online is only a micro version of what happens IRL.
The last bit, discrimination on what grounds though?

Posted by Arielle83
Chicks backstab in those industries. They have nothing better to do at work.

Posted by WhorpioPosted by Arielle83
How did she bully you?
Exactly?
@Ram416 they were making fun of me for participating in pole fitness which is one of my main passions in life. That’s the thing that made me cry. But then she also made fun of me because I’ve been prescribed Xanax. And she called me a slut in front of a bunch of girls, acting like she ain’t a hoe (which literally a few weeks ago she told me she hoes around herself). Then she called me “adorable” when I was talking about my boyfriend and I. It was an overwhelming 2 hours of work with her and her assistant.click to expand

Posted by Ram416Posted by Whorpio
@Ram416 they were making fun of me for participating in pole fitness which is one of my main passions in life. That’s the thing that made me cry. But then she also made fun of me because I’ve been prescribed Xanax. And she called me a slut in front of a bunch of girls, acting like she ain’t a hoe (which literally a few weeks ago she told me she hoes around herself). Then she called me “adorable” when I was talking about my boyfriend and I. It was an overwhelming 2 hours of work with her and her assistant.
The Virgo? And you became friends with her sister 😑click to expand


Posted by Andalusia
Where the fuck do you work?
Has that already been asked or addressed?

Posted by WhorpioPosted by Andalusia
Where the fuck do you work?
Has that already been asked or addressed?
It was at a Starbucks inside a hospital. So technically I worked for the hospital food department.click to expand

Posted by elllle
How does this have to do with trusting people?
How did you just not know better than to do some stupid high school shit at work?

Posted by AndalusiaPosted by WhorpioPosted by Andalusia
Where the fuck do you work?
Has that already been asked or addressed?
It was at a Starbucks inside a hospital. So technically I worked for the hospital food department.
If it's a corporation like that, I seriously doubt he can fire you just like that. There are usually a shit ton of hoops to jump through first.click to expand

Posted by Arielle83Posted by WhorpioPosted by Ram416Posted by Whorpio
@Ram416 they were making fun of me for participating in pole fitness which is one of my main passions in life. That’s the thing that made me cry. But then she also made fun of me because I’ve been prescribed Xanax. And she called me a slut in front of a bunch of girls, acting like she ain’t a hoe (which literally a few weeks ago she told me she hoes around herself). Then she called me “adorable” when I was talking about my boyfriend and I. It was an overwhelming 2 hours of work with her and her assistant.
The Virgo? And you became friends with her sister 😑
Yeah because the sister was there for most of that and she defended me. She was like “Whorpio says things to test people sometimes” (in regards to the assistant getting super offended about me saying I don’t feel a connection to god). And the sister invited me to do rock climbing instead of pole fit when the Virgo and assistant were shitting on pole fit.
Ummm these ppl sound lame.
Offended because u don’t feel a connection to god?
Offended by pole exercise??
Boooorrrrfiiinnnngggclick to expand

Posted by WhorpioPosted by Ram416Posted by Whorpio
@Ram416 they were making fun of me for participating in pole fitness which is one of my main passions in life. That’s the thing that made me cry. But then she also made fun of me because I’ve been prescribed Xanax. And she called me a slut in front of a bunch of girls, acting like she ain’t a hoe (which literally a few weeks ago she told me she hoes around herself). Then she called me “adorable” when I was talking about my boyfriend and I. It was an overwhelming 2 hours of work with her and her assistant.
The Virgo? And you became friends with her sister 😑
Yeah because the sister was there for most of that and she defended me. She was like “Whorpio says things to test people sometimes” (in regards to the assistant getting super offended about me saying I don’t feel a connection to god). And the sister invited me to do rock climbing instead of pole fit when the Virgo and assistant were shitting on pole fit.click to expand

Posted by WhorpioPosted by AndalusiaPosted by WhorpioPosted by Andalusia
Where the fuck do you work?
Has that already been asked or addressed?
It was at a Starbucks inside a hospital. So technically I worked for the hospital food department.
If it's a corporation like that, I seriously doubt he can fire you just like that. There are usually a shit ton of hoops to jump through first.
I think that’s why he was pulling us for “disciplinary” conversations yesterday. So on the termination request he could write that he already tried “disciplining” me. Because when I asked for more details on one of the reasons i was fired he was like “that’s in regards to what we talked about earlier today”.click to expand

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Y’all remember that Virgo I inquired about a few weeks ago because I wanted to be her friend? Yeah well that friendship didn’t work out. She bullied me to the point of tears and her Libra sister (who also works with me) swooped in to make me feel better so I figured le libra and I were friends.
So yesterday all my coworkers and I were being called in one by one to talk about issues we’re all having with our new supervisor in training.
I was called first and the libra was like “you should secretly record you getting in trouble...for learning purposes...and then send it to me”. To me this was sketch but I figured she was my friend so I was like fuck it, if she thinks it’ll be funny I’ll do it. When I got back to my work post she was talking to our gay Gemini coworker. I went up to them to tell her I got the recording and she was like “I was just kidding, but send it to me” and the Gemini was like “send it to a group chat with *other Gemini coworker*”. So I was like fuck it, I’m fond of this gay Gemini, these are my friends, what could go wrong?
By the end of the day, after closing down Starbucks my manager came to talk to me a told me he was notified of the whole recording being sent to a group chat. And then he fired me.
Why am I so stupid? Why do I fall for shit like this all the time?
I haven’t felt this helpless in a looooong time. I love people, but now I feel like I can’t trust anyone ever again.