cancersaurus
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15 month relationship just came to an end...
How much longer before shes done with school?
Have your breakdown, and continue to keep it moving. That's what I'm doing now. I have breakdowns (mainly when I'm drunk), then I move on with my day lol
How were you different in portraying your feelings for each other so it lead to break up?
This is where you slap the vice on your head that only allows you to see forward. That is the direction you go. As a cancer sun, I know all about dwelling in the past. This gets you nowhere. After a break up such as yours, there is a void there and it will take some time to adjust to being single. This typically takes a few weeks to a few months depending on the strength of the emotional attachment if you inforce no contact. Remaining in contact with an ex, will make that progress stagnant, and possibly even reverse it.
Posted by LadyNeptuneShe has around 9 months left until she is completely finished.
How much longer before shes done with school?
We had a good talk yesterday and provided closure to each other. I asked her if she is open to the thought of us in the future and she said yes. I made mistakes but I know I was a good girlfriend and I hope that in the next few months she misses me and wants me back but I also know that in the next few months a lot can change.
Posted by thecrazyariestaurusIt's odd because I don't feel like I need it. The weeks before were not good and so it felt like I had gone through a lot of emotional distress already and the break up was just inevitable.
Have your breakdown, and continue to keep it moving. That's what I'm doing now. I have breakdowns (mainly when I'm drunk), then I move on with my day lol
She has told me that she likes her space and needs time to think about how she feels and so do I. It's just difficult to accept it at the moment and I unfortunately still have hope for us which does not feel like a good step in moving on.
It's a pretty crap time in my life right now
Posted by GemitatiI was someone that needed to air things in the open straight away and she was the opposite. If I had a problem I wanted her to know as soon as possible so that she can stop hurting me or give me an explanation so we can move past it.
How were you different in portraying your feelings for each other so it lead to break up?
She is very defensive so this led her to think that I was being horrible to her when in reality I just didn't want to be hurt by someone I love.
She never did that obviously and always brought up problems when I did to switch blame to me. Sometimes she would exaggerate things I did to make me seem like a worse person that I am and I think she did that to make it easier for her to hate me at the time or simply excuse her behaviour whenever she was wrong. So instead of acknowledging her actions she was basically saying "well you did X to me which is a lot worse so you're the one in the wrong not me"
We had a few other problems that I was trying hard to fix but aside from that we were solid.
Posted by CrabraI will definitely refrain from contacting or seeing her because I know that's what we both need. Time to figure things out. I know I love her though which is why I really hope we can work things through in the future but I'm also afraid that I will be the only one who feels this way when it comes to that (or even if it comes to that).
This is where you slap the vice on your head that only allows you to see forward. That is the direction you go. As a cancer sun, I know all about dwelling in the past. This gets you nowhere. After a break up such as yours, there is a void there and it will take some time to adjust to being single. This typically takes a few weeks to a few months depending on the strength of the emotional attachment if you inforce no contact. Remaining in contact with an ex, will make that progress stagnant, and possibly even reverse it.
She's the type of person to get stressed easily and has told me many times how she is scared about her final year of studies because she wants to do well. This was obviously a huge motive for why she ended things but she has also mentioned that I have made mistakes that also contributed to the decision.
Posted by GC02Thank you for the kind words, I do feel like I won't find anyone that can fill the void that she has left in my life and I deep down don't want anyone do it either. I want her to remember all the good times we had so she feels like she wants to try again. I don't think the problems we had recently were justifiable for a break up but of course her studies also had a big part in her decision.
You’ll be alright fellow Cancer sun Taurus moon.
I’d say for your mental and emotional health you should just keep moving forward.
We are charming people someone else will come along soon enough. Life is not over, I have a feeling this is only the beginning for you.
Posted by CaramelizedCoffeeWe had great moments and when we were together we were always very loving. Not seeing each other put a strain on us most of the time especially when it was sometimes weeks when I couldn't see her. My insecurities took full control when that happened as it felt like I was losing her - something I need to work on.
Two taurus moons how was that?
Was it comforting?
She said multiple times she she believes she doesn't miss me as much as I miss her. She takes longer to miss me whereas I would like to see each other at least once a week. This also factored into her decision because with demanding studies she was afraid she wouldn't be able to keep me happy which would result in us arguing.
Well the way I see it is if you are ready to move on, do it. If you are not, just take a day at a time. If you don't have major issues maybe this is just something you both have to work through. Give it a bit of time. Soon enough you will know what to do. Sometimes you just need a bit of space to see things clearly.
Posted by cancersaurusIt's seems to me that you have been a bit clingy... Pisces needs space and time alone. Clingy is not good.Posted by CaramelizedCoffeeWe had great moments and when we were together we were always very loving. Not seeing each other put a strain on us most of the time especially when it was sometimes weeks when I couldn't see her. My insecurities took full control when that happened as it felt like I was losing her - something I need to work on.
Two taurus moons how was that?
Was it comforting?
She said multiple times she she believes she doesn't miss me as much as I miss her. She takes longer to miss me whereas I would like to see each other at least once a week. This also factored into her decision because with demanding studies she was afraid she wouldn't be able to keep me happy which would result in us arguing.click to expand
I know is not fun when you feel that you need the other person more than they need you but that is something that you have to control... Just my opinion 😐
Posted by pisceswoman123Yes I agree with everything you said and she also feels the same. I just feel guilty that this has happened even though I know it's not wholly my fault.
Well the way I see it is if you are ready to move on, do it. If you are not, just take a day at a time. If you don't have major issues maybe this is just something you both have to work through. Give it a bit of time. Soon enough you will know what to do. Sometimes you just need a bit of space to see things clearly.
Thank you 🙂
Posted by pisceswoman123As hard as it is for me to admit I definitely have and I hate myself for it. It only occurs when I feel distant to her and feel like I'm losing her, it's something I know I need to work on.Posted by cancersaurusIt's seems to me that you have been a bit clingy... Pisces needs space and time alone. Clingy is not good.Posted by CaramelizedCoffeeWe had great moments and when we were together we were always very loving. Not seeing each other put a strain on us most of the time especially when it was sometimes weeks when I couldn't see her. My insecurities took full control when that happened as it felt like I was losing her - something I need to work on.
Two taurus moons how was that?
Was it comforting?
She said multiple times she she believes she doesn't miss me as much as I miss her. She takes longer to miss me whereas I would like to see each other at least once a week. This also factored into her decision because with demanding studies she was afraid she wouldn't be able to keep me happy which would result in us arguing.
I know is not fun when you feel that you need the other person more than they need you but that is something that you have to control... Just my opinion 😐
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A few months ago during her summer break she was begging me to visit - which I did for about a week. After that I left and a few days later she wanted me to visit again but I didn't want to because I wanted more time to myself before visiting again even though she was requesting a lot.
Knowing this I know I'm not clingy when I am my normal self, in fact I am similar to her but when we went a long time without seeing each other I found it hard to control my actions. I feel very crap about myself for doing this because I know this drove her away from and I don't know if I can salvage that.
Posted by cancersaurusAhhh, I know what you mean. Is hard to not do it and you know you shouldn't and you do it anyway...Posted by pisceswoman123As hard as it is for me to admit I definitely have and I hate myself for it. It only occurs when I feel distant to her and feel like I'm losing her, it's something I know I need to work on.Posted by cancersaurusIt's seems to me that you have been a bit clingy... Pisces needs space and time alone. Clingy is not good.Posted by CaramelizedCoffeeWe had great moments and when we were together we were always very loving. Not seeing each other put a strain on us most of the time especially when it was sometimes weeks when I couldn't see her. My insecurities took full control when that happened as it felt like I was losing her - something I need to work on.
Two taurus moons how was that?
Was it comforting?
She said multiple times she she believes she doesn't miss me as much as I miss her. She takes longer to miss me whereas I would like to see each other at least once a week. This also factored into her decision because with demanding studies she was afraid she wouldn't be able to keep me happy which would result in us arguing.
I know is not fun when you feel that you need the other person more than they need you but that is something that you have to control... Just my opinion 😐
A few months ago during her summer break she was begging me to visit - which I did for about a week. After that I left and a few days later she wanted me to visit again but I didn't want to because I wanted more time to myself before visiting again even though she was requesting a lot.
Knowing this I know I'm not clingy when I am my normal self, in fact I am similar to her but when we went a long time without seeing each other I found it hard to control my actions. I feel very crap about myself for doing this because I know this drove her away from and I don't know if I can salvage that.
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Don't feel bad about it. You just felt like she was going away and you got a bit scared... It's normal and she probably would behave the same way if it was the other way around.
The only thing you can do now is to be friendly, not clingy and give it a bit of time. Right now she needs a bit of distance but keep communication open and maybe not all is lost.
Posted by pisceswoman123Yes we had a good conversation yesterday that cleared up a lot of things and also put us on the same page. I asked her if she would be open to us in the future and she said yes so I know right now all we need is time and space to figure things out.Posted by cancersaurusAhhh, I know what you mean. Is hard to not do it and you know you shouldn't and you do it anyway...Posted by pisceswoman123As hard as it is for me to admit I definitely have and I hate myself for it. It only occurs when I feel distant to her and feel like I'm losing her, it's something I know I need to work on.Posted by cancersaurusIt's seems to me that you have been a bit clingy... Pisces needs space and time alone. Clingy is not good.Posted by CaramelizedCoffeeWe had great moments and when we were together we were always very loving. Not seeing each other put a strain on us most of the time especially when it was sometimes weeks when I couldn't see her. My insecurities took full control when that happened as it felt like I was losing her - something I need to work on.
Two taurus moons how was that?
Was it comforting?
She said multiple times she she believes she doesn't miss me as much as I miss her. She takes longer to miss me whereas I would like to see each other at least once a week. This also factored into her decision because with demanding studies she was afraid she wouldn't be able to keep me happy which would result in us arguing.
I know is not fun when you feel that you need the other person more than they need you but that is something that you have to control... Just my opinion 😐
A few months ago during her summer break she was begging me to visit - which I did for about a week. After that I left and a few days later she wanted me to visit again but I didn't want to because I wanted more time to myself before visiting again even though she was requesting a lot.
Knowing this I know I'm not clingy when I am my normal self, in fact I am similar to her but when we went a long time without seeing each other I found it hard to control my actions. I feel very crap about myself for doing this because I know this drove her away from and I don't know if I can salvage that.
Don't feel bad about it. You just felt like she was going away and you got a bit scared... It's normal and she probably would behave the same way if it was the other way around.
The only thing you can do now is to be friendly, not clingy and give it a bit of time. Right now she needs a bit of distance but keep communication open and maybe not all is lost.
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I know it’s wrong but I treat relationships like a game. You have to be strategic to win.
Posted by pinkbird03What do you mean? What "strategy" would you use?
I know it’s wrong but I treat relationships like a game. You have to be strategic to win.
Update: she's unfollowed me on Twitter and made her account private, unfollowed me on Instagram and has also deleted me off Snapchat and now I feel even worse.
She still has my number though and we still friends on Facebook but neither of us are that active and don't really post a lot so I guess that doesn't count as much (and I assume she probably unfollowed me on fb)
I feel like this her telling me it's the end and there's no hope
She still has my number though and we still friends on Facebook but neither of us are that active and don't really post a lot so I guess that doesn't count as much (and I assume she probably unfollowed me on fb)
I feel like this her telling me it's the end and there's no hope
Posted by cancersaurusWell, I'll just tell you what a woman who overheard my conversation about my ex told me last night, "this too shall pass". Chin up, it'll get better.Posted by thecrazyariestaurusIt's odd because I don't feel like I need it. The weeks before were not good and so it felt like I had gone through a lot of emotional distress already and the break up was just inevitable.
Have your breakdown, and continue to keep it moving. That's what I'm doing now. I have breakdowns (mainly when I'm drunk), then I move on with my day lol
She has told me that she likes her space and needs time to think about how she feels and so do I. It's just difficult to accept it at the moment and I unfortunately still have hope for us which does not feel like a good step in moving on.
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Posted by CaramelizedCoffeeSorry, Piscean women are NOT robots nor do we want to see our mates. When she unfollowed OP that means she has CLOSED the door in their relationship. If you're not Piscean you don't understand our MO (Motive). She won't come back. To the OP, Pisceans are the ones that "Got away". You're the one crying or will soon do this over the one that got away. Let her go. I know it's easier said than done; but she's done this on her end (let you go). Sorry.Posted by cancersaurusSeems like she wasn't that into youPosted by CaramelizedCoffeeWe had great moments and when we were together we were always very loving. Not seeing each other put a strain on us most of the time especially when it was sometimes weeks when I couldn't see her. My insecurities took full control when that happened as it felt like I was losing her - something I need to work on.
Two taurus moons how was that?
Was it comforting?
She said multiple times she she believes she doesn't miss me as much as I miss her. She takes longer to miss me whereas I would like to see each other at least once a week. This also factored into her decision because with demanding studies she was afraid she wouldn't be able to keep me happy which would result in us arguing.
Or one of those robots
Most ppl want to see their mate more oftenclick to expand
🤗 cyber hugs!
Love,
Eva
Posted by cancersaurusPosted by pinkbird03What do you mean? What "strategy" would you use?
I know it’s wrong but I treat relationships like a game. You have to be strategic to win.click to expand
Go silent. Stop talking to her. Don’t show interest anymore even when u want to
Sorry to hear that.
Well, at least this will make it easier for you to move on.
Time to concentrate on your self.
Well, at least this will make it easier for you to move on.
Time to concentrate on your self.
Posted by CaramelizedCoffeeShe was always very eager to see me when she wasn't busy, for times around Christmas break and summer breaks she wanted to spend a lot of time together. It was when she was busy with uni work and maintaining a social life that I ended up seeing her less.Posted by cancersaurusSeems like she wasn't that into youPosted by CaramelizedCoffeeWe had great moments and when we were together we were always very loving. Not seeing each other put a strain on us most of the time especially when it was sometimes weeks when I couldn't see her. My insecurities took full control when that happened as it felt like I was losing her - something I need to work on.
Two taurus moons how was that?
Was it comforting?
She said multiple times she she believes she doesn't miss me as much as I miss her. She takes longer to miss me whereas I would like to see each other at least once a week. This also factored into her decision because with demanding studies she was afraid she wouldn't be able to keep me happy which would result in us arguing.
Or one of those robots
Most ppl want to see their mate more oftenclick to expand
Posted by CaramelizedCoffeeThat's something I have always feared but I do know she loves me to some degree, there are things that she has done that no one else would do for me if they didn't. I do think recent events have left her feeling drained, just like me, which makes her not want to see me or miss me at all at the moment.Posted by cancersaurusGo and fuck another girl
Update: she's unfollowed me on Twitter and made her account private, unfollowed me on Instagram and has also deleted me off Snapchat and now I feel even worse.
She still has my number though and we still friends on Facebook but neither of us are that active and don't really post a lot so I guess that doesn't count as much (and I assume she probably unfollowed me on fb)
I feel like this her telling me it's the end and there's no hope
Then take time out to heal.
Just leave it alone
She's just not that into you
All hEr actions show she's not in love with you like you are with her
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I'm hoping in a few weeks or months she does start to miss me though but I fear that won't happen as recently she's made friends with someone who she calls her best friend now and I don't know why but I feel like she will replace me with her new friend and just forget all about me.
It sucks but there's nothing else I can do but wait and see, I just hope I can make it out the other end as a better person than I am today.
Posted by EvatheDivaShe did tell me before all of this happened that she is open to us in the future, this is why I'm trying to figure out why she may have deleted me off things but not blocked me.Posted by CaramelizedCoffeeSorry, Piscean women are NOT robots nor do we want to see our mates. When she unfollowed OP that means she has CLOSED the door in their relationship. If you're not Piscean you don't understand our MO (Motive). She won't come back. To the OP, Pisceans are the ones that "Got away". You're the one crying or will soon do this over the one that got away. Let her go. I know it's easier said than done; but she's done this on her end (let you go). Sorry.Posted by cancersaurusSeems like she wasn't that into youPosted by CaramelizedCoffeeWe had great moments and when we were together we were always very loving. Not seeing each other put a strain on us most of the time especially when it was sometimes weeks when I couldn't see her. My insecurities took full control when that happened as it felt like I was losing her - something I need to work on.
Two taurus moons how was that?
Was it comforting?
She said multiple times she she believes she doesn't miss me as much as I miss her. She takes longer to miss me whereas I would like to see each other at least once a week. This also factored into her decision because with demanding studies she was afraid she wouldn't be able to keep me happy which would result in us arguing.
Or one of those robots
Most ppl want to see their mate more often
🤗 cyber hugs!
Love,
Evaclick to expand
My snapchat and Instagram are private whereas her's are not. She hasn't blocked me so she still knows that I am able to see her accounts but now that she doesn't follow me she can't see mine.
This is why I am kind of confused. I assumed it was because she doesn't want any chance of contact from me from anything but it is still possible to do that when you don't block someone. So maybe she just simply did not want to see anything I shared? I'm not sure.
Posted by cancersaurusWhat? Do you think she likes this new friend and left you for her?Posted by CaramelizedCoffeeThat's something I have always feared but I do know she loves me to some degree, there are things that she has done that no one else would do for me if they didn't. I do think recent events have left her feeling drained, just like me, which makes her not want to see me or miss me at all at the moment.Posted by cancersaurusGo and fuck another girl
Update: she's unfollowed me on Twitter and made her account private, unfollowed me on Instagram and has also deleted me off Snapchat and now I feel even worse.
She still has my number though and we still friends on Facebook but neither of us are that active and don't really post a lot so I guess that doesn't count as much (and I assume she probably unfollowed me on fb)
I feel like this her telling me it's the end and there's no hope
Then take time out to heal.
Just leave it alone
She's just not that into you
All hEr actions show she's not in love with you like you are with her
I'm hoping in a few weeks or months she does start to miss me though but I fear that won't happen as recently she's made friends with someone who she calls her best friend now and I don't know why but I feel like she will replace me with her new friend and just forget all about me.
It sucks but there's nothing else I can do but wait and see, I just hope I can make it out the other end as a better person than I am today.
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Posted by pinkbird03We broke up yesterday and spoke for a while to give each other closure and ended things on amicable terms. I have made a promise to myself to make sure I have no contact with her (and also make sure I don't bump into her) for as long as possible. I want her to come to terms with her feelings for me because right now I want her back but not right now, in the future when I've dealt with things I need to deal with.Posted by cancersaurusPosted by pinkbird03What do you mean? What "strategy" would you use?
I know it’s wrong but I treat relationships like a game. You have to be strategic to win.
Go silent. Stop talking to her. Don’t show interest anymore even when u want to
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Posted by pinkbird03Noooo nothing like that at all. Her friend is a very religious Christian and she is the complete opposite. If it wasn't clear I am a girl so her new friend is definitely not someone that she is romantically interested in haha.Posted by cancersaurusWhat? Do you think she likes this new friend and left you for her?Posted by CaramelizedCoffeeThat's something I have always feared but I do know she loves me to some degree, there are things that she has done that no one else would do for me if they didn't. I do think recent events have left her feeling drained, just like me, which makes her not want to see me or miss me at all at the moment.Posted by cancersaurusGo and fuck another girl
Update: she's unfollowed me on Twitter and made her account private, unfollowed me on Instagram and has also deleted me off Snapchat and now I feel even worse.
She still has my number though and we still friends on Facebook but neither of us are that active and don't really post a lot so I guess that doesn't count as much (and I assume she probably unfollowed me on fb)
I feel like this her telling me it's the end and there's no hope
Then take time out to heal.
Just leave it alone
She's just not that into you
All hEr actions show she's not in love with you like you are with her
I'm hoping in a few weeks or months she does start to miss me though but I fear that won't happen as recently she's made friends with someone who she calls her best friend now and I don't know why but I feel like she will replace me with her new friend and just forget all about me.
It sucks but there's nothing else I can do but wait and see, I just hope I can make it out the other end as a better person than I am today.
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Posted by cancersaurusThe latter. You will get it. As Piscean we're the "Outta sight outta mind" kind of people. We don't care to know who you are seeing, who you are talking to, etc, that's why we block you on social media (and cell). We don't like drama either. We want peace!Posted by EvatheDivaShe did tell me before all of this happened that she is open to us in the future, this is why I'm trying to figure out why she may have deleted me off things but not blocked me.Posted by CaramelizedCoffeeSorry, Piscean women are NOT robots nor do we want to see our mates. When she unfollowed OP that means she has CLOSED the door in their relationship. If you're not Piscean you don't understand our MO (Motive). She won't come back. To the OP, Pisceans are the ones that "Got away". You're the one crying or will soon do this over the one that got away. Let her go. I know it's easier said than done; but she's done this on her end (let you go). Sorry.Posted by cancersaurusSeems like she wasn't that into youPosted by CaramelizedCoffeeWe had great moments and when we were together we were always very loving. Not seeing each other put a strain on us most of the time especially when it was sometimes weeks when I couldn't see her. My insecurities took full control when that happened as it felt like I was losing her - something I need to work on.
Two taurus moons how was that?
Was it comforting?
She said multiple times she she believes she doesn't miss me as much as I miss her. She takes longer to miss me whereas I would like to see each other at least once a week. This also factored into her decision because with demanding studies she was afraid she wouldn't be able to keep me happy which would result in us arguing.
Or one of those robots
Most ppl want to see their mate more often
🤗 cyber hugs!
Love,
Eva
My snapchat and Instagram are private whereas her's are not. She hasn't blocked me so she still knows that I am able to see her accounts but now that she doesn't follow me she can't see mine.
This is why I am kind of confused. I assumed it was because she doesn't want any chance of contact from me from anything but it is still possible to do that when you don't block someone. So maybe she just simply did not want to see anything I shared? I'm not sure.click to expand
🤗 cyber hugs!
Love,
Eva
PS: she agreed to what you wanted to hear from her. When she had time to think she thought about it and did an X-nay and did what she did to finally close that door.
Posted by EvatheDivaHmm, you may be right but I don't think she is like that. She can be very firm when needed and made it very clear when she ended things that there was no way for me to convince her otherwise.Posted by cancersaurusThe latter. You will get it.Posted by EvatheDivaShe did tell me before all of this happened that she is open to us in the future, this is why I'm trying to figure out why she may have deleted me off things but not blocked me.Posted by CaramelizedCoffeeSorry, Piscean women are NOT robots nor do we want to see our mates. When she unfollowed OP that means she has CLOSED the door in their relationship. If you're not Piscean you don't understand our MO (Motive). She won't come back. To the OP, Pisceans are the ones that "Got away". You're the one crying or will soon do this over the one that got away. Let her go. I know it's easier said than done; but she's done this on her end (let you go). Sorry.Posted by cancersaurusSeems like she wasn't that into youPosted by CaramelizedCoffeeWe had great moments and when we were together we were always very loving. Not seeing each other put a strain on us most of the time especially when it was sometimes weeks when I couldn't see her. My insecurities took full control when that happened as it felt like I was losing her - something I need to work on.
Two taurus moons how was that?
Was it comforting?
She said multiple times she she believes she doesn't miss me as much as I miss her. She takes longer to miss me whereas I would like to see each other at least once a week. This also factored into her decision because with demanding studies she was afraid she wouldn't be able to keep me happy which would result in us arguing.
Or one of those robots
Most ppl want to see their mate more often
🤗 cyber hugs!
Love,
Eva
My snapchat and Instagram are private whereas her's are not. She hasn't blocked me so she still knows that I am able to see her accounts but now that she doesn't follow me she can't see mine.
This is why I am kind of confused. I assumed it was because she doesn't want any chance of contact from me from anything but it is still possible to do that when you don't block someone. So maybe she just simply did not want to see anything I shared? I'm not sure.
🤗 cyber hugs!
Love,
Eva
PS: she agrees to what you wanted to hear from her. With her own time, she thought about it and did an X-nay.click to expand
I think when I asked her if she has closed the chapter on us she would have said yes if she believed it.
But I don't know, my emotions are too all over the place right now.
Posted by cancersaurusThe questions you have in your head you're answering for her. Sorry.Posted by EvatheDivaHmm, you may be right but I don't think she is like that. She can be very firm when needed and made it very clear when she ended things that there was no way for me to convince her otherwise.Posted by cancersaurusThe latter. You will get it.Posted by EvatheDivaShe did tell me before all of this happened that she is open to us in the future, this is why I'm trying to figure out why she may have deleted me off things but not blocked me.Posted by CaramelizedCoffeeSorry, Piscean women are NOT robots nor do we want to see our mates. When she unfollowed OP that means she has CLOSED the door in their relationship. If you're not Piscean you don't understand our MO (Motive). She won't come back. To the OP, Pisceans are the ones that "Got away". You're the one crying or will soon do this over the one that got away. Let her go. I know it's easier said than done; but she's done this on her end (let you go). Sorry.Posted by cancersaurusSeems like she wasn't that into youPosted by CaramelizedCoffeeWe had great moments and when we were together we were always very loving. Not seeing each other put a strain on us most of the time especially when it was sometimes weeks when I couldn't see her. My insecurities took full control when that happened as it felt like I was losing her - something I need to work on.
Two taurus moons how was that?
Was it comforting?
She said multiple times she she believes she doesn't miss me as much as I miss her. She takes longer to miss me whereas I would like to see each other at least once a week. This also factored into her decision because with demanding studies she was afraid she wouldn't be able to keep me happy which would result in us arguing.
Or one of those robots
Most ppl want to see their mate more often
🤗 cyber hugs!
Love,
Eva
My snapchat and Instagram are private whereas her's are not. She hasn't blocked me so she still knows that I am able to see her accounts but now that she doesn't follow me she can't see mine.
This is why I am kind of confused. I assumed it was because she doesn't want any chance of contact from me from anything but it is still possible to do that when you don't block someone. So maybe she just simply did not want to see anything I shared? I'm not sure.
🤗 cyber hugs!
Love,
Eva
PS: she agrees to what you wanted to hear from her. With her own time, she thought about it and did an X-nay.
I think when I asked her if she has closed the chapter on us she would have said yes if she believed it.
But I don't know, my emotions are too all over the place right now.
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🤗 cyber hugs!
Love,
Eva
Posted by cancersaurusOh I know you’re a girl. That’s why I think it’s possible for her to like her “new best friend” also would explain why she didn’t want you hanging out with her friends anymore. Maybe she felt uncomfortable about a new relationship with someone elsePosted by pinkbird03Noooo nothing like that at all. Her friend is a very religious Christian and she is the complete opposite. If it wasn't clear I am a girl so her new friend is definitely not someone that she is romantically interested in haha.Posted by cancersaurusWhat? Do you think she likes this new friend and left you for her?Posted by CaramelizedCoffeeThat's something I have always feared but I do know she loves me to some degree, there are things that she has done that no one else would do for me if they didn't. I do think recent events have left her feeling drained, just like me, which makes her not want to see me or miss me at all at the moment.Posted by cancersaurusGo and fuck another girl
Update: she's unfollowed me on Twitter and made her account private, unfollowed me on Instagram and has also deleted me off Snapchat and now I feel even worse.
She still has my number though and we still friends on Facebook but neither of us are that active and don't really post a lot so I guess that doesn't count as much (and I assume she probably unfollowed me on fb)
I feel like this her telling me it's the end and there's no hope
Then take time out to heal.
Just leave it alone
She's just not that into you
All hEr actions show she's not in love with you like you are with her
I'm hoping in a few weeks or months she does start to miss me though but I fear that won't happen as recently she's made friends with someone who she calls her best friend now and I don't know why but I feel like she will replace me with her new friend and just forget all about me.
It sucks but there's nothing else I can do but wait and see, I just hope I can make it out the other end as a better person than I am today.
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Posted by pinkbird03I say new best friend but they have been friends for about 10 months now, she is still a person who likes space and doesn't hang out with her friends all the time, in fact it was probably the same amount of times we hung out.Posted by cancersaurusOh I know you’re a girl. That’s why I think it’s possible for her to like her “new best friend” also would explain why she didn’t want you hanging out with her friends anymore. Maybe she felt uncomfortable about a new relationship with someone elsePosted by pinkbird03Noooo nothing like that at all. Her friend is a very religious Christian and she is the complete opposite. If it wasn't clear I am a girl so her new friend is definitely not someone that she is romantically interested in haha.Posted by cancersaurusWhat? Do you think she likes this new friend and left you for her?Posted by CaramelizedCoffeeThat's something I have always feared but I do know she loves me to some degree, there are things that she has done that no one else would do for me if they didn't. I do think recent events have left her feeling drained, just like me, which makes her not want to see me or miss me at all at the moment.Posted by cancersaurusGo and fuck another girl
Update: she's unfollowed me on Twitter and made her account private, unfollowed me on Instagram and has also deleted me off Snapchat and now I feel even worse.
She still has my number though and we still friends on Facebook but neither of us are that active and don't really post a lot so I guess that doesn't count as much (and I assume she probably unfollowed me on fb)
I feel like this her telling me it's the end and there's no hope
Then take time out to heal.
Just leave it alone
She's just not that into you
All hEr actions show she's not in love with you like you are with her
I'm hoping in a few weeks or months she does start to miss me though but I fear that won't happen as recently she's made friends with someone who she calls her best friend now and I don't know why but I feel like she will replace me with her new friend and just forget all about me.
It sucks but there's nothing else I can do but wait and see, I just hope I can make it out the other end as a better person than I am today.
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I am 100% sure her new friend is not a romantic interest, she can be very bad at hiding her thoughts and if she were to have feelings for her friend I believe this would have been more apparent with her.
She spent weeks debating with herself and told me she really wanted things to work but unfortunately she couldn't see that happening and with how easily stressed she gets she did not want to go through with this in the future when she will be deep into her studies.
I really wish I knew why she deleted me off social media, I think I would feel better if it was to stop seeing updates from me as it shows she is going through the same sort of emotions I am. But if it was to just get rid of me then obviously I would feel worse but I also don't know why she didn't just block me instead? Or maybe she thought that it would upset me a lot so she didn't? I have no idea right now and I can't think rationally when it comes to this.
Posted by cancersaurusPosted by pinkbird03I say new best friend but they have been friends for about 10 months now, she is still a person who likes space and doesn't hang out with her friends all the time, in fact it was probably the same amount of times we hung out.Posted by cancersaurusOh I know you’re a girl. That’s why I think it’s possible for her to like her “new best friend” also would explain why she didn’t want you hanging out with her friends anymore. Maybe she felt uncomfortable about a new relationship with someone elsePosted by pinkbird03Noooo nothing like that at all. Her friend is a very religious Christian and she is the complete opposite. If it wasn't clear I am a girl so her new friend is definitely not someone that she is romantically interested in haha.Posted by cancersaurusWhat? Do you think she likes this new friend and left you for her?Posted by CaramelizedCoffeeThat's something I have always feared but I do know she loves me to some degree, there are things that she has done that no one else would do for me if they didn't. I do think recent events have left her feeling drained, just like me, which makes her not want to see me or miss me at all at the moment.Posted by cancersaurusGo and fuck another girl
Update: she's unfollowed me on Twitter and made her account private, unfollowed me on Instagram and has also deleted me off Snapchat and now I feel even worse.
She still has my number though and we still friends on Facebook but neither of us are that active and don't really post a lot so I guess that doesn't count as much (and I assume she probably unfollowed me on fb)
I feel like this her telling me it's the end and there's no hope
Then take time out to heal.
Just leave it alone
She's just not that into you
All hEr actions show she's not in love with you like you are with her
I'm hoping in a few weeks or months she does start to miss me though but I fear that won't happen as recently she's made friends with someone who she calls her best friend now and I don't know why but I feel like she will replace me with her new friend and just forget all about me.
It sucks but there's nothing else I can do but wait and see, I just hope I can make it out the other end as a better person than I am today.
I am 100% sure her new friend is not a romantic interest, she can be very bad at hiding her thoughts and if she were to have feelings for her friend I believe this would have been more apparent with her.
She spent weeks debating with herself and told me she really wanted things to work but unfortunately she couldn't see that happening and with how easily stressed she gets she did not want to go through with this in the future when she will be deep into her studies.
I really wish I knew why she deleted me off social media, I think I would feel better if it was to stop seeing updates from me as it shows she is going through the same sort of emotions I am. But if it was to just get rid of me then obviously I would feel worse but I also don't know why she didn't just block me instead? Or maybe she thought that it would upset me a lot so she didn't? I have no idea right now and I can't think rationally when it comes to this.
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Hmm it just sounds like she’s hiding something. Did u ever ask her if there was someone else? I just think her behavior is suspicious. How does one go from hot and cold that fast??
Posted by pinkbird03I believe it was something she was feeling for weeks but wanted to try and see if she could get past it. Once realising she couldn't and knowing her studies were going to become demanding soon she felt like it was now or never and did not want any problems to occur when she was trying to concentrate on her studies.Posted by cancersaurusPosted by pinkbird03I say new best friend but they have been friends for about 10 months now, she is still a person who likes space and doesn't hang out with her friends all the time, in fact it was probably the same amount of times we hung out.Posted by cancersaurusOh I know you’re a girl. That’s why I think it’s possible for her to like her “new best friend” also would explain why she didn’t want you hanging out with her friends anymore. Maybe she felt uncomfortable about a new relationship with someone elsePosted by pinkbird03Noooo nothing like that at all. Her friend is a very religious Christian and she is the complete opposite. If it wasn't clear I am a girl so her new friend is definitely not someone that she is romantically interested in haha.Posted by cancersaurusWhat? Do you think she likes this new friend and left you for her?Posted by CaramelizedCoffeeThat's something I have always feared but I do know she loves me to some degree, there are things that she has done that no one else would do for me if they didn't. I do think recent events have left her feeling drained, just like me, which makes her not want to see me or miss me at all at the moment.Posted by cancersaurusGo and fuck another girl
Update: she's unfollowed me on Twitter and made her account private, unfollowed me on Instagram and has also deleted me off Snapchat and now I feel even worse.
She still has my number though and we still friends on Facebook but neither of us are that active and don't really post a lot so I guess that doesn't count as much (and I assume she probably unfollowed me on fb)
I feel like this her telling me it's the end and there's no hope
Then take time out to heal.
Just leave it alone
She's just not that into you
All hEr actions show she's not in love with you like you are with her
I'm hoping in a few weeks or months she does start to miss me though but I fear that won't happen as recently she's made friends with someone who she calls her best friend now and I don't know why but I feel like she will replace me with her new friend and just forget all about me.
It sucks but there's nothing else I can do but wait and see, I just hope I can make it out the other end as a better person than I am today.
I am 100% sure her new friend is not a romantic interest, she can be very bad at hiding her thoughts and if she were to have feelings for her friend I believe this would have been more apparent with her.
She spent weeks debating with herself and told me she really wanted things to work but unfortunately she couldn't see that happening and with how easily stressed she gets she did not want to go through with this in the future when she will be deep into her studies.
I really wish I knew why she deleted me off social media, I think I would feel better if it was to stop seeing updates from me as it shows she is going through the same sort of emotions I am. But if it was to just get rid of me then obviously I would feel worse but I also don't know why she didn't just block me instead? Or maybe she thought that it would upset me a lot so she didn't? I have no idea right now and I can't think rationally when it comes to this.
Hmm it just sounds like she’s hiding something. Did u ever ask her if there was someone else? I just think her behavior is suspicious. How does one go from hot and cold that fast??
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I really don't think there is a 3rd person but then again, I could be wrong? Just doesn't seem likely and I'm usually very good at picking up weird vibes or when someone isn't being totally upfront.
After all this crap u r feeling & u still want to get back, I don't get it, then again I'm a Taurus u r a Cancer.
If u want a real advice well u r lost in ur own fantasy world get back to reality, meaning what was it like before her, u didn't had a life before that?
Peace.
If u want a real advice well u r lost in ur own fantasy world get back to reality, meaning what was it like before her, u didn't had a life before that?
Peace.
I'm a Cancer too.. I know how we can get. We are very overwhelming sometimes. Either we really really like someone or we really really don't.
When I was young I struggled with clingy and obsessive behaviour. Keep it real with yourself... You were being weak and needy. This is VERY unattractive to women and I'm sure before the break up you could feel that your woman was repulsed by you, and she was. I'ma tell it to you straight, dude. A woman wants a man.. Not a male that talks about his feelings and say things like "what are we??". That is the woman's role, let the woman say these things. Let a woman lead the relationship. All you have to do is date her. Court her. It's just that simple..... Women fall in love a lot slower than men.
You have to keep your emotions in check. Only text or call to schedule a date or sex. Never text or call a woman just to talk. You shouldn't jump through your ass to know how her day went.... If she wants you to know, she'll call you or text you. Your woman should be contacting YOU most of the time. All you simply have to do is schedule dates and hangouts when you are good and ready. Never ask her for a second date or when you gonna see her again while your still with her.. What you wanna do is pursue your goals and focus on yourself 90% of the time. Yes. 90% of the time. It does not hurt to be a man about your business. A woman will truly appreciate that and trust you for not going off your mission for her. She will trust your masculine core, you will seem mysterious and you will give her something to talk about with her girls.."Why hasn't he called? Our date was good.. I think I'm gonna call him tonight." She rings you. You pick up. You ask her how she is, schedule your date and then you gotta go.. Hang it up.
You see, when a woman decides she is attracted to you, it's already in the bag and all you gotta do is date her.. Nothing else.
After awhile she will uncover her emotions and reveal that she wants you to be her boyfriend and that you aren't allowed to see other women. Never pressure or ask a woman to be your girl...
As of now, you have royally fucked up and all you should do is NOTHING. Yes, nothing. Go no contact.. And this doesn't mean delete her from FB, block her number and be a butthurt little bitch.. Nothing simply means nothing. Just don't contact her, don't look back at her. Let her contact you though.. And when she does, set a date. If she is unsure, tell her to contact you when she IS sure and then hang it up.
Right now, date other women.. Stay busy, buy new clothes, get a haircut. Get your ass in the gym, and most importantly.. LEARN GAME.
I think Cancer could be the most amazing lover we already are if we just stopped pushing people to fall for us or go through hoops for mothafuckas.. We would be best if we just followed our own drum more often instead of the neediness of our hearts.
This is reality.
#Redpill.
When I was young I struggled with clingy and obsessive behaviour. Keep it real with yourself... You were being weak and needy. This is VERY unattractive to women and I'm sure before the break up you could feel that your woman was repulsed by you, and she was. I'ma tell it to you straight, dude. A woman wants a man.. Not a male that talks about his feelings and say things like "what are we??". That is the woman's role, let the woman say these things. Let a woman lead the relationship. All you have to do is date her. Court her. It's just that simple..... Women fall in love a lot slower than men.
You have to keep your emotions in check. Only text or call to schedule a date or sex. Never text or call a woman just to talk. You shouldn't jump through your ass to know how her day went.... If she wants you to know, she'll call you or text you. Your woman should be contacting YOU most of the time. All you simply have to do is schedule dates and hangouts when you are good and ready. Never ask her for a second date or when you gonna see her again while your still with her.. What you wanna do is pursue your goals and focus on yourself 90% of the time. Yes. 90% of the time. It does not hurt to be a man about your business. A woman will truly appreciate that and trust you for not going off your mission for her. She will trust your masculine core, you will seem mysterious and you will give her something to talk about with her girls.."Why hasn't he called? Our date was good.. I think I'm gonna call him tonight." She rings you. You pick up. You ask her how she is, schedule your date and then you gotta go.. Hang it up.
You see, when a woman decides she is attracted to you, it's already in the bag and all you gotta do is date her.. Nothing else.
After awhile she will uncover her emotions and reveal that she wants you to be her boyfriend and that you aren't allowed to see other women. Never pressure or ask a woman to be your girl...
As of now, you have royally fucked up and all you should do is NOTHING. Yes, nothing. Go no contact.. And this doesn't mean delete her from FB, block her number and be a butthurt little bitch.. Nothing simply means nothing. Just don't contact her, don't look back at her. Let her contact you though.. And when she does, set a date. If she is unsure, tell her to contact you when she IS sure and then hang it up.
Right now, date other women.. Stay busy, buy new clothes, get a haircut. Get your ass in the gym, and most importantly.. LEARN GAME.
I think Cancer could be the most amazing lover we already are if we just stopped pushing people to fall for us or go through hoops for mothafuckas.. We would be best if we just followed our own drum more often instead of the neediness of our hearts.
This is reality.
#Redpill.
Posted by cancersaurusPosted by CaramelizedCoffeeThat's something I have always feared but I do know she loves me to some degree, there are things that she has done that no one else would do for me if they didn't. I do think recent events have left her feeling drained, just like me, which makes her not want to see me or miss me at all at the moment.Posted by cancersaurusGo and fuck another girl
Update: she's unfollowed me on Twitter and made her account private, unfollowed me on Instagram and has also deleted me off Snapchat and now I feel even worse.
She still has my number though and we still friends on Facebook but neither of us are that active and don't really post a lot so I guess that doesn't count as much (and I assume she probably unfollowed me on fb)
I feel like this her telling me it's the end and there's no hope
Then take time out to heal.
Just leave it alone
She's just not that into you
All hEr actions show she's not in love with you like you are with her
I'm hoping in a few weeks or months she does start to miss me though but I fear that won't happen as recently she's made friends with someone who she calls her best friend now and I don't know why but I feel like she will replace me with her new friend and just forget all about me.
It sucks but there's nothing else I can do but wait and see, I just hope I can make it out the other end as a better person than I am today.
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Don't bullshit yourself, man. You probably made it worse by begging and pleading and that's what made her shut you out completely. She probably offered to be friends and that in itself is a setup, a shit test waiting to be failed. A man should never agree to be friends with a woman when he knows he wants sex and romance.. You are either setting yourself up to be a back up, someone she calls to fix her toilet or when her new man is acting up she calls you.. Or it's a test. She will offer a platonic relationship just to see how weak you are. If you accept and continue to contact her post-breakup, it will confirm that she is right about you. Then you are REALLY out.. When my old girl dumped me one night over the phone, I did nothing. I told her goodnight and I'm sorry she felt that way. I told her to contact me when she changes her mind. Meanwhile, I stopped MINDING her and continued my fucking life. I never texted, I never called.. I even stopped watching her Snapchat stories and surrounded myself with other women which naturally caused me to Snapchat myself with other women, which wasn't to make her jealous.. But I'm sure it caused her to think that I am indeed a magnet and capable of moving on. All in the same week.. The same week she put hearteyes under my picture on Snapchat and I just ignored it because there were no words used. She began to think she was wrong about me, which she was. She never deleted me, she hit me up to congratulate or wish me happy birthday. All while she was back with her ex before we dated.
Now, they are broken up. I fucked her back in August at a hotel.. Haven't seen her since but we will be going to the Haunted House of Torment on the 30th and it will give me an opportunity to create more attraction. Not to prove myself.. You ain't got shit prove to women, it should be the other way around. She should prove why she is the woman for you.. She should earn another chance with you. That's it.
Stay positive.. In yourself.
#Redpill
Women only love in the moment. Never take anything a woman says too hard. You take it with a grain of salt because how she feels change in the next hour..
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I'm a Cancer too.. I know how we can get. We are very overwhelming sometimes. Either we really really like someone or we really really don't.
When I was young I struggled with clingy and obsessive behaviour. Keep it real with yourself... You were being weak and needy. This is VERY unattractive to women and I'm sure before the break up you could feel that your woman was repulsed by you, and she was. I'ma tell it to you straight, dude. A woman wants a man.. Not a male that talks about his feelings and say things like "what are we??". That is the woman's role, let the woman say these things. Let a woman lead the relationship. All you have to do is date her. Court her. It's just that simple..... Women fall in love a lot slower than men.
You have to keep your emotions in check. Only text or call to schedule a date or sex. Never text or call a woman just to talk. You shouldn't jump through your ass to know how her day went.... If she wants you to know, she'll call you or text you. Your woman should be contacting YOU most of the time. All you simply have to do is schedule dates and hangouts when you are good and ready. Never ask her for a second date or when you gonna see her again while your still with her.. What you wanna do is pursue your goals and focus on yourself 90% of the time. Yes. 90% of the time. It does not hurt to be a man about your business. A woman will truly appreciate that and trust you for not going off your mission for her. She will trust your masculine core, you will seem mysterious and you will give her something to talk about with her girls.."Why hasn't he called? Our date was good.. I think I'm gonna call him tonight." She rings you. You pick up. You ask her how she is, schedule your date and then you gotta go.. Hang it up.
You see, when a woman decides she is attracted to you, it's already in the bag and all you gotta do is date her.. Nothing else.
After awhile she will uncover her emotions and reveal that she wants you to be her boyfriend and that you aren't allowed to see other women. Never pressure or ask a woman to be your girl...
As of now, you have royally fucked up and all you should do is NOTHING. Yes, nothing. Go no contact.. And this doesn't mean delete her from FB, block her number and be a butthurt little bitch.. Nothing simply means nothing. Just don't contact her, don't look back at her. Let her contact you though.. And when she does, set a date. If she is unsure, tell her to contact you when she IS sure and then hang it up.
Right now, date other women.. Stay busy, buy new clothes, get a haircut. Get your ass in the gym, and most importantly.. LEARN GAME.
I think Cancer could be the most amazing lover we already are if we just stopped pushing people to fall for us or go through hoops for mothafuckas.. We would be best if we just followed our own drum more often instead of the neediness of our hearts.
This is reality.
#Redpill.
Posted by cancersaurusThen just reverse the gender duh, stop being blind face the facts, you gotta live your life & don't put it on hold for no one.Posted by EmhendoI'm a girl
I'm a Cancer too.. I know how we can get. We are very overwhelming sometimes. Either we really really like someone or we really really don't.
When I was young I struggled with clingy and obsessive behaviour. Keep it real with yourself... You were being weak and needy. This is VERY unattractive to women and I'm sure before the break up you could feel that your woman was repulsed by you, and she was. I'ma tell it to you straight, dude. A woman wants a man.. Not a male that talks about his feelings and say things like "what are we??". That is the woman's role, let the woman say these things. Let a woman lead the relationship. All you have to do is date her. Court her. It's just that simple..... Women fall in love a lot slower than men.
You have to keep your emotions in check. Only text or call to schedule a date or sex. Never text or call a woman just to talk. You shouldn't jump through your ass to know how her day went.... If she wants you to know, she'll call you or text you. Your woman should be contacting YOU most of the time. All you simply have to do is schedule dates and hangouts when you are good and ready. Never ask her for a second date or when you gonna see her again while your still with her.. What you wanna do is pursue your goals and focus on yourself 90% of the time. Yes. 90% of the time. It does not hurt to be a man about your business. A woman will truly appreciate that and trust you for not going off your mission for her. She will trust your masculine core, you will seem mysterious and you will give her something to talk about with her girls.."Why hasn't he called? Our date was good.. I think I'm gonna call him tonight." She rings you. You pick up. You ask her how she is, schedule your date and then you gotta go.. Hang it up.
You see, when a woman decides she is attracted to you, it's already in the bag and all you gotta do is date her.. Nothing else.
After awhile she will uncover her emotions and reveal that she wants you to be her boyfriend and that you aren't allowed to see other women. Never pressure or ask a woman to be your girl...
As of now, you have royally fucked up and all you should do is NOTHING. Yes, nothing. Go no contact.. And this doesn't mean delete her from FB, block her number and be a butthurt little bitch.. Nothing simply means nothing. Just don't contact her, don't look back at her. Let her contact you though.. And when she does, set a date. If she is unsure, tell her to contact you when she IS sure and then hang it up.
Right now, date other women.. Stay busy, buy new clothes, get a haircut. Get your ass in the gym, and most importantly.. LEARN GAME.
I think Cancer could be the most amazing lover we already are if we just stopped pushing people to fall for us or go through hoops for mothafuckas.. We would be best if we just followed our own drum more often instead of the neediness of our hearts.
This is reality.
#Redpill.
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Posted by AntiSocialEven if I reverse the gender it doesn't work. There are two women in this situation, not a man and woman so it doesn't really fit hahaPosted by cancersaurusThen just reverse the gender duh, stop being blind face the facts, you gotta live your life & don't put it on hold for no one.Posted by EmhendoI'm a girl
I'm a Cancer too.. I know how we can get. We are very overwhelming sometimes. Either we really really like someone or we really really don't.
When I was young I struggled with clingy and obsessive behaviour. Keep it real with yourself... You were being weak and needy. This is VERY unattractive to women and I'm sure before the break up you could feel that your woman was repulsed by you, and she was. I'ma tell it to you straight, dude. A woman wants a man.. Not a male that talks about his feelings and say things like "what are we??". That is the woman's role, let the woman say these things. Let a woman lead the relationship. All you have to do is date her. Court her. It's just that simple..... Women fall in love a lot slower than men.
You have to keep your emotions in check. Only text or call to schedule a date or sex. Never text or call a woman just to talk. You shouldn't jump through your ass to know how her day went.... If she wants you to know, she'll call you or text you. Your woman should be contacting YOU most of the time. All you simply have to do is schedule dates and hangouts when you are good and ready. Never ask her for a second date or when you gonna see her again while your still with her.. What you wanna do is pursue your goals and focus on yourself 90% of the time. Yes. 90% of the time. It does not hurt to be a man about your business. A woman will truly appreciate that and trust you for not going off your mission for her. She will trust your masculine core, you will seem mysterious and you will give her something to talk about with her girls.."Why hasn't he called? Our date was good.. I think I'm gonna call him tonight." She rings you. You pick up. You ask her how she is, schedule your date and then you gotta go.. Hang it up.
You see, when a woman decides she is attracted to you, it's already in the bag and all you gotta do is date her.. Nothing else.
After awhile she will uncover her emotions and reveal that she wants you to be her boyfriend and that you aren't allowed to see other women. Never pressure or ask a woman to be your girl...
As of now, you have royally fucked up and all you should do is NOTHING. Yes, nothing. Go no contact.. And this doesn't mean delete her from FB, block her number and be a butthurt little bitch.. Nothing simply means nothing. Just don't contact her, don't look back at her. Let her contact you though.. And when she does, set a date. If she is unsure, tell her to contact you when she IS sure and then hang it up.
Right now, date other women.. Stay busy, buy new clothes, get a haircut. Get your ass in the gym, and most importantly.. LEARN GAME.
I think Cancer could be the most amazing lover we already are if we just stopped pushing people to fall for us or go through hoops for mothafuckas.. We would be best if we just followed our own drum more often instead of the neediness of our hearts.
This is reality.
#Redpill.
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Posted by cancersauruslol..look I know it sucks , but it's moving on is the best solution.Posted by AntiSocialEven if I reverse the gender it doesn't work. There are two women in this situation, not a man and woman so it doesn't really fit hahaPosted by cancersaurusThen just reverse the gender duh, stop being blind face the facts, you gotta live your life & don't put it on hold for no one.Posted by EmhendoI'm a girl
I'm a Cancer too.. I know how we can get. We are very overwhelming sometimes. Either we really really like someone or we really really don't.
When I was young I struggled with clingy and obsessive behaviour. Keep it real with yourself... You were being weak and needy. This is VERY unattractive to women and I'm sure before the break up you could feel that your woman was repulsed by you, and she was. I'ma tell it to you straight, dude. A woman wants a man.. Not a male that talks about his feelings and say things like "what are we??". That is the woman's role, let the woman say these things. Let a woman lead the relationship. All you have to do is date her. Court her. It's just that simple..... Women fall in love a lot slower than men.
You have to keep your emotions in check. Only text or call to schedule a date or sex. Never text or call a woman just to talk. You shouldn't jump through your ass to know how her day went.... If she wants you to know, she'll call you or text you. Your woman should be contacting YOU most of the time. All you simply have to do is schedule dates and hangouts when you are good and ready. Never ask her for a second date or when you gonna see her again while your still with her.. What you wanna do is pursue your goals and focus on yourself 90% of the time. Yes. 90% of the time. It does not hurt to be a man about your business. A woman will truly appreciate that and trust you for not going off your mission for her. She will trust your masculine core, you will seem mysterious and you will give her something to talk about with her girls.."Why hasn't he called? Our date was good.. I think I'm gonna call him tonight." She rings you. You pick up. You ask her how she is, schedule your date and then you gotta go.. Hang it up.
You see, when a woman decides she is attracted to you, it's already in the bag and all you gotta do is date her.. Nothing else.
After awhile she will uncover her emotions and reveal that she wants you to be her boyfriend and that you aren't allowed to see other women. Never pressure or ask a woman to be your girl...
As of now, you have royally fucked up and all you should do is NOTHING. Yes, nothing. Go no contact.. And this doesn't mean delete her from FB, block her number and be a butthurt little bitch.. Nothing simply means nothing. Just don't contact her, don't look back at her. Let her contact you though.. And when she does, set a date. If she is unsure, tell her to contact you when she IS sure and then hang it up.
Right now, date other women.. Stay busy, buy new clothes, get a haircut. Get your ass in the gym, and most importantly.. LEARN GAME.
I think Cancer could be the most amazing lover we already are if we just stopped pushing people to fall for us or go through hoops for mothafuckas.. We would be best if we just followed our own drum more often instead of the neediness of our hearts.
This is reality.
#Redpill.
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I agree... the only thing you can do now is to move on. She is being very clear. She doesn't want you right now. She deleted you because she doesn't want to be reminded of you.
Sorry, but it is nothing you can do.
Take care of your self.
Sorry, but it is nothing you can do.
Take care of your self.
"My snapchat and Instagram are private whereas her's are not. She hasn't blocked me so she still knows that I am able to see her accounts but now that she doesn't follow me she can't see mine.
This is why I am kind of confused."
I did the same for my ex. I unfriended him but kept my account public. He can see what I post, while I can't see his. The reason for that was that his posts made me feel uneasy and edgy. Before unfriending, I oscillated between unfollowing him and seeing him first (on FB). He played mind games, alluding to a new girlfriend that did not exist and a fab holiday with her on Valentine's day. He was often online, but would go offline a few seconds after I logged in, only to come back minutes later..
I simply did not want to :1) Think about him as often as I did when reading his posts. 2) Give in to my compulsion to interact with him. 3) Be exposed to his romantic adventures, imaginary or not.
Posted by cancersaurusSo you not gonna take my advice?? I took my precious time out to freakin help YOU. It does not matter that you are a woman. There is a thing called "sexual polarity". "Feminine and masculine energy".. It is obvious that you were the "Mars" and this relationship and she was the "Venus". You took action, you made your love for her clear, you did the DO. (It is factual that women are more attracted to those who's feelings are unclear, by the way). Don't bullshit yourself and disregard what I am saying.. If you want her back, you can PM me for more advice or questions.. If you want to move on, I can help that too. If you don't want to listen to the information regarding a WOMAN'S (All feminine women) PSYCHOLOGY, then you don't deserve true love. You don't deserve a woman's love if you simply aren't willing to undertsand women... I have learned through numerous heart break, I decided to learn game because I love women. I am not trying to teach you to be a player; because WOMEN are the REAL playas and they WILL play with you.. If you let them. The only way to win (her heart) is to not play, and I'm trynna tell you the game and how NOT to play.Posted by AntiSocialEven if I reverse the gender it doesn't work. There are two women in this situation, not a man and woman so it doesn't really fit hahaPosted by cancersaurusThen just reverse the gender duh, stop being blind face the facts, you gotta live your life & don't put it on hold for no one.Posted by EmhendoI'm a girl
I'm a Cancer too.. I know how we can get. We are very overwhelming sometimes. Either we really really like someone or we really really don't.
When I was young I struggled with clingy and obsessive behaviour. Keep it real with yourself... You were being weak and needy. This is VERY unattractive to women and I'm sure before the break up you could feel that your woman was repulsed by you, and she was. I'ma tell it to you straight, dude. A woman wants a man.. Not a male that talks about his feelings and say things like "what are we??". That is the woman's role, let the woman say these things. Let a woman lead the relationship. All you have to do is date her. Court her. It's just that simple..... Women fall in love a lot slower than men.
You have to keep your emotions in check. Only text or call to schedule a date or sex. Never text or call a woman just to talk. You shouldn't jump through your ass to know how her day went.... If she wants you to know, she'll call you or text you. Your woman should be contacting YOU most of the time. All you simply have to do is schedule dates and hangouts when you are good and ready. Never ask her for a second date or when you gonna see her again while your still with her.. What you wanna do is pursue your goals and focus on yourself 90% of the time. Yes. 90% of the time. It does not hurt to be a man about your business. A woman will truly appreciate that and trust you for not going off your mission for her. She will trust your masculine core, you will seem mysterious and you will give her something to talk about with her girls.."Why hasn't he called? Our date was good.. I think I'm gonna call him tonight." She rings you. You pick up. You ask her how she is, schedule your date and then you gotta go.. Hang it up.
You see, when a woman decides she is attracted to you, it's already in the bag and all you gotta do is date her.. Nothing else.
After awhile she will uncover her emotions and reveal that she wants you to be her boyfriend and that you aren't allowed to see other women. Never pressure or ask a woman to be your girl...
As of now, you have royally fucked up and all you should do is NOTHING. Yes, nothing. Go no contact.. And this doesn't mean delete her from FB, block her number and be a butthurt little bitch.. Nothing simply means nothing. Just don't contact her, don't look back at her. Let her contact you though.. And when she does, set a date. If she is unsure, tell her to contact you when she IS sure and then hang it up.
Right now, date other women.. Stay busy, buy new clothes, get a haircut. Get your ass in the gym, and most importantly.. LEARN GAME.
I think Cancer could be the most amazing lover we already are if we just stopped pushing people to fall for us or go through hoops for mothafuckas.. We would be best if we just followed our own drum more often instead of the neediness of our hearts.
This is reality.
#Redpill.
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These romance movies, novels and shows have completely brainwashed men and lesbians into failing everytime. You talk like you have watched too many movies.. Everything you said and did, doesn't work.. It does NOT. I'm sorry the truth is so harsh, but unplug from the matrix.. PLEASE. And LEARN GAME, LEARN WOMEN.. Or you will hurt every time. Feel free to PM me for my email, I will email you different types of information. Astrology has very little to do with her, and more of the fact that she is woman. Only take a woman's natal chart into consideration when you trynna get to know what interests her and the temperament of the woman.. But in the end, she is just a woman and this is how they are ALL wired.
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