Aries Woman Pisces Woman friendship help

I'm an Aries woman in high-school I knew this Pisces girl she's very pretty and quiet. We became friends in college and I asked her why she never liked me in high school and she thought I was mean how we she found out I'm awesome. She's insecure I'm confident she has issues with men searching for love and wanting to be wanted and they never appreciate her I date I fall for guys that are no good for me but I let them go because I'm a person to not a object but she doesn't see things my way when it comes to women being submissive to men I believe a woman shouldn't lose herself over a man life goes on there's plenty out there. I notice her staring at me whenever I do my make up and dress up she rarely compliments which doesn't bother me I just notice I'm confident in myself but I always compliment her because she's insecure and needs that but we recently haven't been speaking because of an issue with me and a close friend of ours. She dosent text me or speak to me and I don't understand because my problem isn't with her it's with our other friend . I want to approach her but yet I don't care about losing someone who's mad at me when I've done nothing to them . What do you guys think ?

she's probably more loyal to the friend your beefin wit.

The only thing with this post is that i dont understand all the backstory of how you compare yourself to the pisces—?

When I said I compliment her all the time is because we've had the talk that she's insecure and I give her speeches all the time because as a friend I don't want her to look down on herself but now I need some advise and help and she won't even speak to me.

Posted by Underworldaries
When I said I compliment her all the time is because we've had the talk that she's insecure and I give her speeches all the time because as a friend I don't want her to look down on herself but now I need some advise and help and she won't even speak to me.

Probably because you came off as judgmental and critical of her. She's now nursing her bruised ego, far far away from you.

Posted by Underworldaries
I give her speeches all the time.

Stop doing this! Even if she asks you for your opinion, be mindful of her gentle nature and deliver your viewpoint in a soft way.

Right now she's hiding and licking her wounds.

She don't trust you. You act like you trying to compete or act like you are so perfect

You're extremely full of yourself.

I disagree with my fellow Fish, in where I don't think she's licking her wounds ...because I don't see where she is wounded, at all.

It was said that the Fish pretty much had nothing to do with the Aries in HS because the Aries was mean to her. Then the Aries convinces her that she's awesome, not mean ... then proceeds to dictate to her, and preach to her. In the testimony above, I don't see where it was said that the Pisces was asking for advice or help ... rather, the Aries gave it to her unsolicited, as if to impose upon her.


I didn't read above where the Fish is upset in any way with the Aries ... rather, just ignoring her. That doesn't sound to me like the Fish is wounded in any way.


The Aries is the one wounded ..... she is the one in here complaining

I don't think she sees you as awesome as you think OP.
You think she looks at you with admiration and that she's "lacking confidence".
Have you considered that she might find your style ridiculous and is just being polite?

What? Y'all aren't reading and seems to me like your very judgmental but let me put y'all in place . She didn't like me in high school because she thought I was mean idiots and when she got in college she said she was wrong I'm awesome just strong minded something she wish she could be.

Next since I have to explain to y'all like children she asks me is she's pretty she told all of us she's insecure and needs speeches therefore I do it because I am a friend and I feel she should have came by my side during this argument with another friend

Y'all are wrong and should delete y'all accounts because your advise is wrong because me and this fellow friends has made up and now the pieces is looking stupid because she was playing both sides

Now what else do you have to say about Aries again?

Other then were strong minded and people like you can't handle us Œ

SMH, your attitude! I wouldn't want to be your friend with that attitude. Am pretty sure you have called her an idiot before

Posted by Underworldaries

..... I feel she should have came by my side during this argument with another friend

For those just tuning in, there ^^^ lies the real issue.

The Ram simply cannot handle the fact that the Fish remains neutral.

No y'all were just wrong because she was in fact gossiping about me the friend we share together is another Aries and me and her bump heads all the time because we're just alike however the picses was my friend first and I felt she want being a true friend when I'm there for her when she's down

The ones who comment negative your upset and have a huge who yourself who are you to judge ? Obviously you search for advise too because if not you wouldn't have an account... I suggest you respond with an open mind and have some intelligence because I'm far from mean I'm loving I'm also humbled so maybe the names you were calling me are actually what you are so take a look in the mirror

Posted by P-Angel

Posted by Underworldaries

..... I feel she should have came by my side during this argument with another friend

For those just tuning in, there ^^^ lies the real issue.

The Ram simply cannot handle the fact that the Fish remains neutral.

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some never can. Aries do get upset when their friends dont support them, even when theyre wrong, they still want your support

Posted by VanillaExt
Aries, if you're strong, then I don't get why you're wrapped around someone not being part of your drama. Yet, you want to hang with Pisces with the claim you have beef with your other friend and not the Pisces. You need to make the decision to be in this friendship because the ram certainly doesn't like to wait around but the pisces isn't there to always keep tailing you.

Sounds to me like you're using the Pisces to feed your ego. It's one thing to be there to help a friend's insecurity but another to say "she always watches me when Im getting dressed and putting on makeup." That attitude isn't doing either of you positives. What is the other friend's sign?

that makeup statement was so weird. All the backstory was weird. It had nothing to do with the pisces taking a break.

Posted by Underworldaries
No y'all were just wrong because she was in fact gossiping about me the friend we share together is another Aries and me and her bump heads all the time because we're just alike however the picses was my friend first and I felt she want being a true friend when I'm there for her when she's down

The ones who comment negative your upset and have a huge who yourself who are you to judge ? Obviously you search for advise too because if not you wouldn't have an account... I suggest you respond with an open mind and have some intelligence because I'm far from mean I'm loving I'm also humbled so maybe the names you were calling me are actually what you are so take a look in the mirror

lol pisces do like to talk...

but yes Aries are big on loyalty. She chose to be around who she has the best relationship with. The other aries.

Moral of the story people who took the Pisces side have a seat because you were proven wrong by the Aries. The Pisces female you took up for was proven to be talking behind my back to the other Aries friend making everything worse she made negative comments about me and said I was too blunt and stuck up...,

We're adults and we need the truth I'm honest and I always give people my all and I'm not stuck up just confident because I know I'm a person as well and I love myself . The issue between my fellow Aries friend was made worse because the sweet innocent Pisces was talking major bullshit and I have figured out Pisces females and Aries females can have a great friendship if Pisces would not be so jealous and insecure and Aries should consider people feelings and sugarcoat for people who are living a lie

Posted by Underworldaries
Pisces females and Aries females can have a great friendship if Pisces would not be so jealous and insecure and Aries should consider people feelings and sugarcoat for people who are living a lie

Ah, the 'it's their fault and not mine' stance.
If this is what you truly think, then I can understand why your friendships are not working out.

Did you read the last part idiot I clearly stated what it takes to keep the friendship

Posted by Underworldaries
Did you read the last part idiot

Another reason why I can see that your friendships have issues. If you go to name calling when you're upset, that will push away pretty much everyone. I hope you're young since you seem rather immature.

You had no problem expressing your opinion Pisces live in their dream world you think you can say something and not get a reaction well you will with an Aries we're straight foward and we'll prove our point and fight till the end. Aries don't have drama we are just real and we say how we feel and express ourselves and this offends people because they live a lie especially Pisces and when the truth hits it's "oh your rude" no in life your going to be proven wrong with facts whether it's social media or in real life. You say Aries bring drama that's your opinion if you ask me Pisces start it but can't handle an Aries who's fiery and direct.

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Posted by Underworldaries
Did you read the last part idiot

Another reason why I can see that your friendships have issues. If you go to name calling when you're upset, that will push away pretty much everyone. I hope you're young since you seem rather immature.

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No your just sensitive that's because your a feminine sign however I'm a masculine sign and I say how I feel and You are an idiot if you believe your perfect every sign has their pros and cons how about we point out your cons?

Posted by Underworldaries
You had no problem expressing your opinion Pisces live in their dream world you think you can say something and not get a reaction well you will with an Aries we're straight foward and we'll prove our point and fight till the end. Aries don't have drama we are just real and we say how we feel and express ourselves and this offends people because they live a lie especially Pisces and when the truth hits it's "oh your rude" no in life your going to be proven wrong with facts whether it's social media or in real life. You say Aries bring drama that's your opinion if you ask me Pisces start it but can't handle an Aries who's fiery and direct.

I am being direct and straightforward with you right now. There's a difference between being direct and being rude and it seems you haven't learned that, yet.

Based on my Sister's experience and my own with Aries women; at first Pisces will admire and even put you on a very high Goddess like pedestal. Then one day it becomes extremely obvious how overbearing, selfish, dogmatic, insensitive, and manipulative you guys are. If a Pisces is complaining you know you are over the top. My sister has shelved many a Ram friendships.

You just need to cool your jets, give her time and guard your tongue.

Posted by P-Angel

Posted by Underworldaries

..... I feel she should have came by my side during this argument with another friend

For those just tuning in, there ^^^ lies the real issue.

The Ram simply cannot handle the fact that the Fish remains neutral.

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Rams are war creatures. And they expect their friends to stand by thier side in the fight with equalled determination & passion. This is not Fish. The fish my throw a rock or two but they will not fight a battle for you. They may trade sarcastic barbs, manipulate a incident but that's about it.

Posted by Underworldaries
I'm an Aries woman in high-school I knew this Pisces girl she's very pretty and quiet. We became friends in college and I asked her why she never liked me in high school and she thought I was mean how we she found out I'm awesome. She's insecure I'm confident she has issues with men searching for love and wanting to be wanted and they never appreciate her I date I fall for guys that are no good for me but I let them go because I'm a person to not a object but she doesn't see things my way when it comes to women being submissive to men I believe a woman shouldn't lose herself over a man life goes on there's plenty out there. I notice her staring at me whenever I do my make up and dress up she rarely compliments which doesn't bother me I just notice I'm confident in myself but I always compliment her because she's insecure and needs that but we recently haven't been speaking because of an issue with me and a close friend of ours. She dosent text me or speak to me and I don't understand because my problem isn't with her it's with our other friend . I want to approach her but yet I don't care about losing someone who's mad at me when I've done nothing to them . What do you guys think ?

you still going to meet friends in your life, this friend is not that bad, wait until you get to the workplace. you will meet jealous , manipulative and really mean people. Just enjoy yourself right now, vampires (always sucking your goo energy living you with nothing) and ghosts.

Posted by LunarMaiden
Based on my Sister's experience and my own with Aries women; at first Pisces will admire and even put you on a very high Goddess like pedestal. Then one day it becomes extremely obvious how overbearing, selfish, dogmatic, insensitive, and manipulative you guys are. If a Pisces is complaining you know you are over the top. My sister has shelved many a Ram friendships.

You just need to cool your jets, give her time and guard your tongue.

i see fish ladies here with lots of aries energy, and they can take it. and even more so, they are the ones giving a beating metaphorically. aries energies doesn't like stupid.

Posted by Vixen2

..... that turned her off from you..Is she in the right, hey...we don't know.

Of course she's right.

Every person has a "right" to decide who they will befriend and who they won't. Just because another person doesn't like this choice, doesn't mean there wasn't a "right" to make that choice.

If said Pisces decides that she no longer wants to be friends with this Aries for any reason, it is within her right to do so.


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No the Pisces female is fake she was pretending to be my friend. She's sweet and reserved on the outside but inside she's full of hate and jealously. Our fellow Aries friend and or other friends who are Libras and Sagittarius have agreed. She has showed her true colors and she didn't expect me and our friend to make up however we did. Now I'm am defensive I will prove myself right just like those of you who commented

As I said before your close mind's and hatred toward Aries women showed. We're blunt brave courages and we battle and weak people envy us because they wish they could fight for themselves like we do regardless if it's on social media or in actual life. When I confronted the Pisces she didn't know what to do at first she lied then said she didn't mean to its just that I have a strong personality and I have all the guys and money she felt my ego was big... That's plain jealousy

I have a lot of guys around me because their better friends no drama just fun and I have money because I'm ambitious I work hard I don't depend on anyone and well my strong personality I can't help that and I won't change or be little myself to make anyone feel comfortable I have no ego I love myself and if you don't love yourself who will ?

Those who don't like Aries women can't handle the truth because they are the ones living a lie and their perception of reality is wrong . As an Aries woman what you see is what you get i will speak my mind and I will battle a million people by myself because I am my own army.

Posted by Underworldaries

She's sweet and reserved on the outside but inside she's full of hate and jealously. Our fellow Aries friend and or other friends who are Libras and Sagittarius have agreed.

So, you are talking behind her back to other people, about her.

You're so stupid, that you cannot even manage to connect your own dots, and so contradict yourself.


That's not really a Ram thing ... it's a stupid person thing

Posted by Lifepath8Pisces

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No the Pisces female is fake she was pretending to be my friend. She's sweet and reserved on the outside but inside she's full of hate and jealously. Our fellow Aries friend and or other friends who are Libras and Sagittarius have agreed. She has showed her true colors and she didn't expect me and our friend to make up however we did. Now I'm am defensive I will prove myself right just like those of you who commented

You are not a good friend for anyone, and you will pay the price when people stop answering your calls or your messages. Most people ignore Aries calls and messages because they want nothing to do with their drama and annoying attitude such as the one you are displaying on here.

This Pisces you are bad mouthing here and gathering up all your friends to be against her paints a more clear picture about you. When you start to realize that the idiot was you all along, it will be too late and wonder why people just stir away from you, and there will be another thread created by you. "Help, my Pisces friend won't talk to me", "Help my xxxxx friend".

Get off the high horse and put your feet on the ground, you are the one living in a dream, in your own fantasy dream where you are " the baddest Aries woman" . too funny sweetie, and it is making most Pisces having a good laugh here.

Good entertaintment though. lulz

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A fellow Pisces I see it dosent matter she's friendless now

Posted by MagicMona
Perception is subjective, therefore it cannot be deemed as wrong or right. How a person perceives something cannot be boxed into such categories. We all see and feel differently. If a person doesn't like Aries then it is something that they see in Aries that rubs them the wrong way. Sometimes you have to drop the war mentality, lay down your armor, and think logically and honestly. Instead of feeling like people are against you, ask yourself what is it about yourself that turns people off. Face your faults and work on them, starting with ego and rudeness. Then see if you don't get different results in the friendship department.

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Posted by Underworldaries

She's sweet and reserved on the outside but inside she's full of hate and jealously. Our fellow Aries friend and or other friends who are Libras and Sagittarius have agreed.

So, you are talking behind her back to other people, about her.

You're so stupid, that you cannot even manage to connect your own dots, and so contradict yourself.


That's not really a Ram thing ... it's a stupid person thing

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Your unbelievable stupid. How am I wrong for talking behind her back when she did the same to me? I don't even know why your still commenting when I solved the problem and we all found out she was fake? And now she's asking me for forgiveness 🤔

Posted by Vixen2
*reads post, throws hands up the air, smacks head into the wall.. and just leaves*

Why? I had a Pisces friend who sided with a fellow Aries friend. Me and that Aries friend had a chat and she told me everything the Pisces said so I confronted her and and she lied then finally told the truth.... And today she wants to talk and wants me to accept her apology so tell me what's your problem when she admitted she was wrong ? 🤔

Posted by Underworldaries
I'm an Aries woman in high-school I knew this Pisces girl she's very pretty and quiet. We became friends in college and I asked her why she never liked me in high school and she thought I was mean how we she found out I'm awesome. She's insecure I'm confident she has issues with men searching for love and wanting to be wanted and they never appreciate her I date I fall for guys that are no good for me but I let them go because I'm a person to not a object but she doesn't see things my way when it comes to women being submissive to men I believe a woman shouldn't lose herself over a man life goes on there's plenty out there. I notice her staring at me whenever I do my make up and dress up she rarely compliments which doesn't bother me I just notice I'm confident in myself but I always compliment her because she's insecure and needs that but we recently haven't been speaking because of an issue with me and a close friend of ours. She dosent text me or speak to me and I don't understand because my problem isn't with her it's with our other friend . I want to approach her but yet I don't care about losing someone who's mad at me when I've done nothing to them . What do you guys think ?

Ok. It seems as if she may think you're in the wrong. If she were really your friend, shed come to you about it instead of ignoring you as if you did something to her personally. Honestly, she doesn't seem like a friend to me. Maybe she's just an aquaintance of yours (if even that)?


EDIT: She admits she was wrong and it seems she was being fake. I wouldn't continue to be friends with her. Js.

Posted by Lifepath8Pisces

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Posted by Vixen2
*reads post, throws hands up the air, smacks head into the wall.. and just leaves*

Why? I had a Pisces friend who sided with a fellow Aries friend. Me and that Aries friend had a chat and she told me everything the Pisces said so I confronted her and and she lied then finally told the truth.... And today she wants to talk and wants me to accept her apology so tell me what's your problem when she admitted she was wrong ? 🤔

Because some Pisces at times will take the blame to keep the peace, then disconnect. If she thinks she is 1 % responsible for something she said, she will be humble enough to apologize. I sure expect you take responsibility for your actions as well.

Tell her how you are bad mouthing her here, and how you got the other friends talking behind her back.

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They have their own accounts so I'm pretty sure she's been reading. And as for bad mouthing and turning friends against her they are they have their owns minds they choose not to be her friend and they love my honesty the only person who has a problem is you

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Posted by Underworldaries
I'm an Aries woman in high-school I knew this Pisces girl she's very pretty and quiet. We became friends in college and I asked her why she never liked me in high school and she thought I was mean how we she found out I'm awesome. She's insecure I'm confident she has issues with men searching for love and wanting to be wanted and they never appreciate her I date I fall for guys that are no good for me but I let them go because I'm a person to not a object but she doesn't see things my way when it comes to women being submissive to men I believe a woman shouldn't lose herself over a man life goes on there's plenty out there. I notice her staring at me whenever I do my make up and dress up she rarely compliments which doesn't bother me I just notice I'm confident in myself but I always compliment her because she's insecure and needs that but we recently haven't been speaking because of an issue with me and a close friend of ours. She dosent text me or speak to me and I don't understand because my problem isn't with her it's with our other friend . I want to approach her but yet I don't care about losing someone who's mad at me when I've done nothing to them . What do you guys think ?

Ok. It seems as if she may think you're in the wrong. If she were really your friend, shed come to you about it instead of ignoring you as if you did something to her personally. Honestly, she doesn't seem like a friend to me. Maybe she's just an aquaintance of yours (if even that)?


EDIT: She admits she was wrong and it seems she was being fake. I wouldn't continue to be friends with her. Js.

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No worries I'm not she told many lies and gossip about me expecting to turn them against me and they saw through her. As of now she has no friends however she does want to talk to me and did appologize she texted me I haven't texted back

Yes and just like her you don't see your in the wrong judging people thinking your perfect. You have your opinion I have mine I proved myself right your still coming at me about my "rudeness" when she has appologized and wants to talk ,,,,, I'm not a bad friend I'm just real and not many people can handle than including you I'm very repulsive and your very close minded open your mind and think if I was so mean so cruel why would she waste her time trying to make up with me ? 🤔

Wow. She really dodged a bullet. I hope you never speak to her again. She probably doesn't need someone like you in her life, the that's why she's ignoring you.

Shame on you for getting your friends to gang up on her. Now whose insecure? You had to get other people to hate her to make you feel better about being such a fucked up person.

Karma misses no one. Bank on it.

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Posted by Underworldaries
I'm an Aries woman in high-school I knew this Pisces girl she's very pretty and quiet. We became friends in college and I asked her why she never liked me in high school and she thought I was mean how we she found out I'm awesome. She's insecure I'm confident she has issues with men searching for love and wanting to be wanted and they never appreciate her I date I fall for guys that are no good for me but I let them go because I'm a person to not a object but she doesn't see things my way when it comes to women being submissive to men I believe a woman shouldn't lose herself over a man life goes on there's plenty out there. I notice her staring at me whenever I do my make up and dress up she rarely compliments which doesn't bother me I just notice I'm confident in myself but I always compliment her because she's insecure and needs that but we recently haven't been speaking because of an issue with me and a close friend of ours. She dosent text me or speak to me and I don't understand because my problem isn't with her it's with our other friend . I want to approach her but yet I don't care about losing someone who's mad at me when I've done nothing to them . What do you guys think ?

Ok. It seems as if she may think you're in the wrong. If she were really your friend, shed come to you about it instead of ignoring you as if you did something to her personally. Honestly, she doesn't seem like a friend to me. Maybe she's just an aquaintance of yours (if even that)?


EDIT: She admits she was wrong and it seems she was being fake. I wouldn't continue to be friends with her. Js.

No worries I'm not she told many lies and gossip about me expecting to turn them against me and they saw through her. As of now she has no friends however she does want to talk to me and did appologize she texted me I haven't texted back

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She doesn't really like you it seems. I'd also say that she sees through your attempts at trying to build her self esteem. I wouldn't advise you to do that. She probably thinks you pity her and is only telling her she's pretty and what not to make her feel better. I know you mean well but not a good move imo. Overall, I'd say cut her off.

Posted by Magenta_Azure
Wow. She really dodged a bullet. I hope you never speak to her again. She probably doesn't need someone like you in her life, the that's why she's ignoring you.

Shame on you for getting your friends to gang up on her. Now whose insecure? You had to get other people to hate her to make you feel better about being such a fucked up person.

Karma misses no one. Bank on it.

‚‚‚‚ no one Ganged up on her she was stirring up the pot and When we all discussed about it and I asked her she didn't admit at first and now she know she was wrong so what so ever do you mean darling ?

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Wow. She really dodged a bullet.

That can't be emphasized enough ..... sometimes you think you lost something, then you turn around to realize you actually gained something.

Posted by Lifepath8Pisces

Posted by Underworldaries
Yes and just like her you don't see your in the wrong judging people thinking your perfect. You have your opinion I have mine I proved myself right your still coming at me about my "rudeness" when she has appologized and wants to talk ,,,,, I'm not a bad friend I'm just real and not many people can handle than including you I'm very repulsive and your very close minded open your mind and think if I was so mean so cruel why would she waste her time trying to make up with me ? 🤔

Ok sweetie. Just go fix things with her and be good to each other. End this drama once and for all.

Now it is Pisces season, tell her happy birthday for us. .

Thank you and good day.

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We've worked it out and the reason she was mad at me or so to say resentment was over a guy she likes that likes me and she thought I was going to pursue him . However she thanks you for seeing her side but called you hypercritical which I can agree how can you judge an Aries for being rude when you can't even see both sides that's rude aswell. And since y'all are both Pisces I asked why and well in her own words your just upset you don't have enough guts like me which I agree with aswell. You can talk about the Aries all you want but were action and while you were judging instead of getting advise I worked it out on my own and proved that I was right I respect her because she admitted her jealousy against me and I see now everyone can't handle the truth especially Pisces so I told her I'll sugar coat and she was happy with that

Now I suggest you look at yourself focus on yourself and figure which path you'll take is it going to be face reality and understand as adults people are going to be honest even if it's brutal or is it going to be you your dream world where you believe everyone should hold hands and fly in the sky together? Choose wisely

Please and Thankyou ˜

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Posted by Magenta_Azure

Wow. She really dodged a bullet.

That can't be emphasized enough ..... sometimes you think you lost something, then you turn around to realize you actually gained something.

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We're back friends and closer then ever she has accepted my masculine personally where I accept her feminine personality. Unlike you who only say hers it's funny how she wasn't a bit upset with my comments but yours because your attacking me just like I'm attacking you however you don't see your wrong doing

P-Angle I don't even know why you comment because your full of yourself you think your right and you know it all because of your age but I'm here to tell you I may be young but I am wise, wise enough to know you can't handle a strong minded person you like to throw your opinion and want people to agree and can't handle when someone won't see your way. I'm very happy I made up with her because a Pisces sees both sides and she showed me your just like me but a hypercrite atleast I admit to my cons

i wouldnt be friends with you, the fish, the other aries....

too much drama

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Posted by LunarMaiden
Based on my Sister's experience and my own with Aries women; at first Pisces will admire and even put you on a very high Goddess like pedestal. Then one day it becomes extremely obvious how overbearing, selfish, dogmatic, insensitive, and manipulative you guys are. If a Pisces is complaining you know you are over the top. My sister has shelved many a Ram friendships.

You just need to cool your jets, give her time and guard your tongue.

i see fish ladies here with lots of aries energy, and they can take it. and even more so, they are the ones giving a beating metaphorically. aries energies doesn't like stupid.

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One would expect an Aries energy person to give out a few licks regardless of Sun sign.

Posted by Arielle83

Weak af Aries

Maybe this is one of AriesAngel's accounts lmao