HELP - PISCES WOMAN AND LEO MAN

I posted this in the Leo forum waiting for an opinion. Maybe I can get some feedback here from my fellow Piscean.

I met my Leo guy in a forum and became friends on Facebook even though we never communicated. In October 2015 he reached out to me on Facebook messenger and let me know if would like to get to know me. This was after us seeing each other the weekend in Florida at a conference. By the way he lives in Atlanta and I live in Florida. We started chatting and exchange numbers where would text and chatting frequently (even though the chatting was not as frequent as texting). One of the things I pointed out in the beginning is the lack responses when texting. We could be chatting and he disappear. I used to joke with him that I am a magician because I always made him disappear. This continued and I don't hear for day or weeks then he would appear again. He was in Florida again for another conference that I saw him at and we connected again and shared our first kiss at that time and we made a connection but still the texting and disappearance was still happening. I'm a pretty laid back Pisces so I don't say anything but keep letting him know that it is not cool taking to someone and they disappear. He again was back in Florida for another conference and this time we went out to dinner and had a wonderful time. We kissed and made such a wonderful connection. He promised he would keep in touch more often. We both confessed that we are in love with each other and all was well except he still would disappear when we were talking and there are times I would text him and he would take forever to answer the text. I've asked him on several occasion to let me know if he was going to be busy and not available I would not text but that did not happen. I told him if I text and he's busy if he could let me know I'm busy will take to you later but that also did not happen. A week ago I got very frustrated and told him exactly how I felt that I would text him without a response but I could see him online and he cannot respond to my message. He ignored by text that was sent and even though the next several days I've apologize for my actions he ignored me. I've texted him and if he do respond he is very cold but not rude, just not that loving man I knew. I was in a car accident over a month ago and at the beginning he would be concern and asked how I was doing and now he don't even make the effort. I've reach out and provided an update on my recovery but he's been very cold and may only respond with one word answers.

My question is does the no contact work especially for LEO men. Should I just leave him alone, I am a Pisces woman and I feel deeply. I do love this man but I want to do what's best for him and myself.

Strange that a leo man would pull the disappearing act. They are usually full on when interested in someone.

Who admitted to love first?

Forget him, or just ignore, if he contacts you let him chase if not just find someone else, hes probably got other interests x

Just don't worry about it x

We both admit love but I say it first and he said he felt the same way and would say I love you frequently. My he does respond to my text if I send him one but he is very cold no affection whatsoever. It's only been a week ago since I finally stood up and say something about the disappearing act or his texting when he feels like and since them he just ignore. He will text me if I text him but as I said no affection or seem like there is no interest or he will respond hours or days later. My Pisces intuition tells me he got someone else also.

He most likely has someone else 😢

I agree I've now implemented the NC and moving on 😢

I was married to a Leo. He's not interested by the sounds of it sorry. Trust your Pisces intuition, it's a gift.

Move on Hun! Leo's are normally full on and when they are interested they will let you know

Disappearing to be with another girl is my guess

Sounds like you had expectations on him to respond to you way too much at the beginning, which probably left him flabbergasted with you, and wanting to put you on the back burner while he looked elsewhere, yet, still keeping you as an option.

Make sure you check that fault in the future. Nobody wants to be smothered by a needy woman.

Second ... you barely know him. Telling someone you're "in love" with them when you're not is a relationship killer. He only returned the sentiment because he's smart and knew that it would keep you on his string.

To become "in love" with someone, you have to actually develop those feelings over time ...... you don't just happen across is because you said hello to a man and saw him as a conference.



seriously .... I agree with everyone that he's not really into you, but, you did have his attention initially, but, you blew it by being so desperate.

@ P- Angel - Firstly let me correct you on a few of your above statements I am not needy this is someone that I've been acquainted with for over 10 years and we've both see each other over the 10 years at the same conferences and the have acquaintances in the same circle. It was only a year and a half ago when he's approached me for us to get to know each more and develop a relationship. He was the one that had a issue with me not being available to speak once he decided for us to take this to the next step. His complaint was I was constantly busy so I adjusted my schedule to accommodate (my first mistake) my issue is not that he disappear I am very busy with a business also what my concern was every time we initiate a conversation either from him and myself and in the middle of us texting back and forth he would just disappear then it would text 2 or 3 days later that is why I said I use to joke around with him and tell him that I think I am a magician because in the middle of our texting he would just disappear with no words said. I think that is very rude and I've pointed this out to him. Yes he said he love me and so did I not only have he said that on text he's also send me video messages stating the same. I am a Pisces woman, very independent and very confident in what I do and who I am, yes I and very intuitive and knew something was wrong since we decided to really chat and get to know each other. I was married for over 30 year and would still be with my husband if he did not pass away so again I am not desperate. What I did was let someone into my life that share too much of myself too quickly.

One thing I do have to agree with you is he was not interested or honest as he reached out to me yesterday with apology and I've refused to get back in that situation knowing he wasn't honest either. He told me that he is married man but separated from his wife who is with someone else, he wanted to talk but I've already moved on. Thank God this was only a kiss.

@ pinkbird03 - You're spot on he's married.

Posted by Laci1234
@ P- Angel - Firstly let me correct you on a few of your above statements I am not needy this is someone that I've been acquainted with for over 10 years and we've both see each other over the 10 years at the same conferences and the have acquaintances in the same circle. It was only a year and a half ago when he's approached me for us to get to know each more and develop a relationship. He was the one that had a issue with me not being available to speak once he decided for us to take this to the next step. His complaint was I was constantly busy so I adjusted my schedule to accommodate (my first mistake) my issue is not that he disappear I am very busy with a business also what my concern was every time we initiate a conversation either from him and myself and in the middle of us texting back and forth he would just disappear then it would text 2 or 3 days later that is why I said I use to joke around with him and tell him that I think I am a magician because in the middle of our texting he would just disappear with no words said. I think that is very rude and I've pointed this out to him. Yes he said he love me and so did I not only have he said that on text he's also send me video messages stating the same. I am a Pisces woman, very independent and very confident in what I do and who I am, yes I and very intuitive and knew something was wrong since we decided to really chat and get to know each other. I was married for over 30 year and would still be with my husband if he did not pass away so again I am not desperate. What I did was let someone into my life that share too much of myself too quickly.

One thing I do have to agree with you is he was not interested or honest as he reached out to me yesterday with apology and I've refused to get back in that situation knowing he wasn't honest either. He told me that he is married man but separated from his wife who is with someone else, he wanted to talk but I've already moved on. Thank God this was only a kiss.

good for you for moving on after that ... he was not honest even if he did seem interested so you did the right thing in stopping it right there ! ...

so after you backed off he came back in with an apology and you refused to continue - good - you would have thought that after knowing someone all those years that they would be trustworthy but no ~ !

I'm sorry but happy to see your strength in this matter.

Posted by Laci1234
@ pinkbird03 - You're spot on he's married.

You said you've know each other for 10 years. Did you not know he was married?

@ LadyNeptune - We were acquainted with each other for over 10 years. We are both in the same industry and have seen each other several times at the same conference that is held 2x a year in Florida. We never talk about personal issues just meet, great and network when we are at the conferences. We've done this for year and I've never looked at him as anything but just an acquaintance. We been friends on Facebook through our business but never on each other personal Facebook page and we've never communicated there until 2015 when he reached out to me on Facebook messenger after one of the conference. I never had any reason to question him at all and to get personal before. I did asked about family after things get personal he did say he is single but has a son that is 20 and that his sons mother and him get along well. No reason to question that he wasn't been honest. The only time my intuition took over is when in the middle of us chatting he would disappear or he mostly want to text and not talk via phone. Well after he told me he's married but separated I feel now understand why he disappear my guess is she comes into his space and he has to log offline.

As I told him you will do this to your wife and mother of your child you will not hesitate to do it to me one day no matter how hot you look.....No thanks.