Pisces husband (Page 2)

sorry you are having such a terrible time. He's projecting. he won't take responsibility so he's blaming you. he's also being nasty so that you walk away so he can feel better about it. he's probably had this going on for much longer than you think. pisces men tend to fall first and get to know you later and then they realise it's not what they thought. then they run back to you. shut the door firmly and find someone who deserves your love. he will never change and keep doing this first to her when reality hits and then the next one.

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Who knows what horrors he saw being deployed. And yes they all cheat during deployment.

I tried a relationship with a service man and couldn’t hang. Too stressful.

Think about what’s best for you and your kids. Focus on that.

not all servicemen cheat during deployment. i dont think it gives those good men any credit. im sorry you both have gone through this however. it is a difficult situation for sure.

This is true. I know some who don't but many do unfortunately. It all depends on the individual character and morals. He never did before this, he was a die hard family man...but people change and sometimes that's not for the best I guess. I just don't want him coming back being mean like he is being right now to us when we are not the ones who did anything wrong. If he can't accept responsibility or feels guilt, that's his issues not ours!

just keep your side of the street clean and stay strong. you will need it. things can end in a civil manner if thats what you wish. try not to project into the future and take care of immediate needs to the best of your ability. im very sorry your family is going through this...

I hope for it to be civil but at this point I am a bit skeptical and on guard.

.....as difficult as these things can be, you can choose how to react. It may be the case that you will have to be the strong mature one who stands back from all the ego stuff.....not easy I know, but in the long run, it will be worth it

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This is true indeed and going forward I realize this may be more of the case for this situation. I'm gathering my strength and level headedness together to be able to cast aside the emotional pain and turmoil. It's hard but I know myself and what's most important to me and at the end of the day that's what matters.

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Who knows what horrors he saw being deployed. And yes they all cheat during deployment.

I tried a relationship with a service man and couldn’t hang. Too stressful.

Think about what’s best for you and your kids. Focus on that.

not all servicemen cheat during deployment. i dont think it gives those good men any credit. im sorry you both have gone through this however. it is a difficult situation for sure.

This is true. I know some who don't but many do unfortunately. It all depends on the individual character and morals. He never did before this, he was a die hard family man...but people change and sometimes that's not for the best I guess. I just don't want him coming back being mean like he is being right now to us when we are not the ones who did anything wrong. If he can't accept responsibility or feels guilt, that's his issues not ours!

just keep your side of the street clean and stay strong. you will need it. things can end in a civil manner if thats what you wish. try not to project into the future and take care of immediate needs to the best of your ability. im very sorry your family is going through this...

I hope for it to be civil but at this point I am a bit skeptical and on guard.

.....as difficult as these things can be, you can choose how to react. It may be the case that you will have to be the strong mature one who stands back from all the ego stuff.....not easy I know, but in the long run, it will be worth it

This is true indeed and going forward I realize this may be more of the case for this situation. I'm gathering my strength and level headedness together to be able to cast aside the emotional pain and turmoil. It's hard but I know myself and what's most important to me and at the end of the day that's what matters.

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You can do it

You are more then lowering yourself to that base behaviour. You will look back and feel proud of yourself and so will your children

Protect yourself and don't be sucked in

I will protect myself and the children. At this point I just want him to leave me be and not be nasty over anything. There just really is no reason to.

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I do worry about this woman being around my children bc she can't even speak any English. I'm not prepared to deal with this yet at all.

How do you know he's bringing her over?? besides it takes time to apply and do paperwork for the embassy, lot of depends where you coming from as well. Shortest period is 18 months, plus additional delays here and there, 2 years at least in general. If I was you I wouldn't file for divorce, just because he's a coward and wouldn't deal with that. While he's married he can't bring her over and can't do anything legal. Nor he can divorce you without you signing papers. He made everything difficult for you and kids, time to pay back. Let him come back and deal with divorce in person.

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I do worry about this woman being around my children bc she can't even speak any English. I'm not prepared to deal with this yet at all.

How do you know he's bringing her over?? besides it takes time to apply and do paperwork for the embassy, lot of depends where you coming from as well. Shortest period is 18 months, plus additional delays here and there, 2 years at least in general. If I was you I wouldn't file for divorce, just because he's a coward and wouldn't deal with that. While he's married he can't bring her over and can't do anything legal. Nor he can divorce you without you signing papers. He made everything difficult for you and kids, time to pay back. Let him come back and deal with divorce in person.

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I don't know for sure, just speculating at this point. He won't talk so I can only go off the things she has said. One of those was that he told her he wanted to marry her...that's where the her coming here comes from. I don't see him going there. I'm not sure of anything other than he cheated at this point bc I have noticed a few different changing stories from but with him not willing to discuss it and some of the emails she sent me that he sent her, he's def in love with her. He sent her flowers too and that's what got him caught. It's a bizarre situation honestly. As far as the divorce, I am def not going to cower and put myself and the kids at a disadvantage by any means. He has to come back and deal with the mess he created eventually I figure.

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I do worry about this woman being around my children bc she can't even speak any English. I'm not prepared to deal with this yet at all.

How do you know he's bringing her over?? besides it takes time to apply and do paperwork for the embassy, lot of depends where you coming from as well. Shortest period is 18 months, plus additional delays here and there, 2 years at least in general. If I was you I wouldn't file for divorce, just because he's a coward and wouldn't deal with that. While he's married he can't bring her over and can't do anything legal. Nor he can divorce you without you signing papers. He made everything difficult for you and kids, time to pay back. Let him come back and deal with divorce in person.

I don't know for sure, just speculating at this point. He won't talk so I can only go off the things she has said. One of those was that he told her he wanted to marry her...that's where the her coming here comes from. I don't see him going there. I'm not sure of anything other than he cheated at this point bc I have noticed a few different changing stories from but with him not willing to discuss it and some of the emails she sent me that he sent her, he's def in love with her. He sent her flowers too and that's what got him caught. It's a bizarre situation honestly. As far as the divorce, I am def not going to cower and put myself and the kids at a disadvantage by any means. He has to come back and deal with the mess he created eventually I figure.

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What kind of man lets his new lover to contact his wife and try to "convince" signing papers, omg. I know you said she doesn't speak english, where is she coming from? Well I had to deal with embassy in the past so I know what I'm talking about. She's not coming here believe me unless he wants to stay there where he is at the moment. And even that won't be easy cause the military is responsible for him and nobody's gonna let him do whatever he pleases, there's a contract and stuff as you know

Oh no, she didn't contact me. I contacted her first bc I figured he didn't tell her he was married. Just by the way he was interacting toward us I was thinking something along the lines that not only had he cheated but she may have been pregnant bc his behavior has been like his life is spiraling downhill literally. He got in trouble and went in front of the captain which is serious esp considering he only has one year left until retirement. I seriously thought at that point he was having a midlife crisis or mental breakdown or had gotten hooked on some drugs based on things going on in his life and how he was relating to me and the kids...it was not him at all. So I found the flowers thing and contacted her in Japan. Kept asking him what was going on with him and he just avoided and ignored so I found her and it went from there. She is Japanese and in Japan. I don't hate her, she seemed very shocked and very forthcoming and nice. I got the evidence I needed from her. It was a little weird with her but I didn't blame her for any of it. He lied to her too according to her. It's a strange situation as I said. He knows she and I have spoken and knows she has given me what I needed....

Posted by scorp66
sorry you are having such a terrible time. He's projecting. he won't take responsibility so he's blaming you. he's also being nasty so that you walk away so he can feel better about it. he's probably had this going on for much longer than you think. pisces men tend to fall first and get to know you later and then they realise it's not what they thought. then they run back to you. shut the door firmly and find someone who deserves your love. he will never change and keep doing this first to her when reality hits and then the next one.

I figured this was probably what was happening with the blaming and being mean. It's going to be a long road coming for sure. Def closing that door he's done so much nasty and irresponsible things with this situation, it's unbelievable. It really does look to me like what I've read about Pisces living in fantasies or dream world in their head in this case....it just really angers me the most that he puts this neW girl/relationship above the children. That's pathetic and sad no matter what your sign. At the end of the day he will eventually come to regret it though I'm sure.

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I do worry about this woman being around my children bc she can't even speak any English. I'm not prepared to deal with this yet at all.

How do you know he's bringing her over?? besides it takes time to apply and do paperwork for the embassy, lot of depends where you coming from as well. Shortest period is 18 months, plus additional delays here and there, 2 years at least in general. If I was you I wouldn't file for divorce, just because he's a coward and wouldn't deal with that. While he's married he can't bring her over and can't do anything legal. Nor he can divorce you without you signing papers. He made everything difficult for you and kids, time to pay back. Let him come back and deal with divorce in person.

I don't know for sure, just speculating at this point. He won't talk so I can only go off the things she has said. One of those was that he told her he wanted to marry her...that's where the her coming here comes from. I don't see him going there. I'm not sure of anything other than he cheated at this point bc I have noticed a few different changing stories from but with him not willing to discuss it and some of the emails she sent me that he sent her, he's def in love with her. He sent her flowers too and that's what got him caught. It's a bizarre situation honestly. As far as the divorce, I am def not going to cower and put myself and the kids at a disadvantage by any means. He has to come back and deal with the mess he created eventually I figure.

What kind of man lets his new lover to contact his wife and try to "convince" signing papers, omg. I know you said she doesn't speak english, where is she coming from? Well I had to deal with embassy in the past so I know what I'm talking about. She's not coming here believe me unless he wants to stay there where he is at the moment. And even that won't be easy cause the military is responsible for him and nobody's gonna let him do whatever he pleases, there's a contract and stuff as you know

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I'm not sure about her coming here, but I know how he is so just trying to prepare myself that possibility. I know she has a passport but not sure of anything else. She's in Japan. Once he comes back he has a year until he retires so I know he's not going to be moving there for at least a year.

Posted by Cancervirgo15degrees
Pisces is extremely flakey and a flip flopper. They literally go with anything anyone says if they are around that person enough. Basically they dont have minds of their own.

It doesnt surprise me he is acting like this while hes away from you.

Pisces arent loyal to begin with, so im just saying that even if he does come back and things get better, do you want to risk this happening again?

No not always. One of the strongest minded men i knew is a Pisces...dominant, decisive and assertive

Rest of the chart can override the sun sign

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sorry you are having such a terrible time. He's projecting. he won't take responsibility so he's blaming you. he's also being nasty so that you walk away so he can feel better about it. he's probably had this going on for much longer than you think. pisces men tend to fall first and get to know you later and then they realise it's not what they thought. then they run back to you. shut the door firmly and find someone who deserves your love. he will never change and keep doing this first to her when reality hits and then the next one.

I figured this was probably what was happening with the blaming and being mean. It's going to be a long road coming for sure. Def closing that door he's done so much nasty and irresponsible things with this situation, it's unbelievable. It really does look to me like what I've read about Pisces living in fantasies or dream world in their head in this case....it just really angers me the most that he puts this neW girl/relationship above the children. That's pathetic and sad no matter what your sign. At the end of the day he will eventually come to regret it though I'm sure.

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As long as you remain steady and there for your children......he can carry on screwing his life up

Just focus on you and being a great mother



Leave him at it



You will be the one who comes out of this better

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Pisces is extremely flakey and a flip flopper. They literally go with anything anyone says if they are around that person enough. Basically they dont have minds of their own.

It doesnt surprise me he is acting like this while hes away from you.

Pisces arent loyal to begin with, so im just saying that even if he does come back and things get better, do you want to risk this happening again?

No not always. One of the strongest minded men i knew is a Pisces...dominant, decisive and assertive

Rest of the chart can override the sun sign

Yeah all people arent the same. But generally from my experience and what i have witnessed.

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Yes, i understand what you mean but i am trying of late to look at the whole chart, dominants etc.....very interesting 🙂

The guy i mentioned had capricorn and aquarius stuff going on to balance up his Pisces sun

Posted by Cancervirgo15degrees
Pisces is extremely flakey and a flip flopper. They literally go with anything anyone says if they are around that person enough. Basically they dont have minds of their own.

It doesnt surprise me he is acting like this while hes away from you.

Pisces arent loyal to begin with, so im just saying that even if he does come back and things get better, do you want to risk this happening again?

No I do not. But I mean he's always seemed to not easily be influenced even the many times he's been away. I just have a feeling that once he gets back here and away from there then he will begin to be more civil with me. Hoping so at least....

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Posted by scorp66
sorry you are having such a terrible time. He's projecting. he won't take responsibility so he's blaming you. he's also being nasty so that you walk away so he can feel better about it. he's probably had this going on for much longer than you think. pisces men tend to fall first and get to know you later and then they realise it's not what they thought. then they run back to you. shut the door firmly and find someone who deserves your love. he will never change and keep doing this first to her when reality hits and then the next one.

I figured this was probably what was happening with the blaming and being mean. It's going to be a long road coming for sure. Def closing that door he's done so much nasty and irresponsible things with this situation, it's unbelievable. It really does look to me like what I've read about Pisces living in fantasies or dream world in their head in this case....it just really angers me the most that he puts this neW girl/relationship above the children. That's pathetic and sad no matter what your sign. At the end of the day he will eventually come to regret it though I'm sure.

As long as you remain steady and there for your children......he can carry on screwing his life up

Just focus on you and being a great mother



Leave him at it



You will be the one who comes out of this better

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This is a sad truth but being steady and strong are in me so this shouldn't be too hard. I'm only hoping that we do come out of this better and rise above it.

Posted by ariesbee
I thought affairs were a reason for court-martial? Can't he get into serious trouble with the military?

I know a lot of unethical Pisces men. Karma is coming for them, that's for sure. Let them reap what they sow when it is their turn.

Well not for court martial. The military views this as a civil matter however he is being investigated for adultery and he was still on probation from his unrelated incident earlier. We shall see what happens. I was prior military too soooo I do remember a thing or two thankfully😉

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I thought affairs were a reason for court-martial? Can't he get into serious trouble with the military?

I know a lot of unethical Pisces men. Karma is coming for them, that's for sure. Let them reap what they sow when it is their turn.

I fully believe in karma as well and I hope you are correct.

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I've been married to my Pisces husband for almost 15 years, and we have two beautiful kids. Recently while deployed he's been pushing me away because of him having an affair. He's due home in a month and this situation is so crazy and so unbelievable to even deal with. He is like a totally different person now. So cruel and blaming me for everything not being perfect in our marriage. It's like he has rewritten the history of our entire marriage to suit himself. He now wants a divorce and says his feelings for me are long gone. There is a lot more to this story but my question mainly is once he is home away from his fantasy land will he become more civil toward me and understand what all he has done? Everyone is devastated but him and I just can't fathom it.

lady you need to get off your la la land and understand things have changed and no, it's never going to be the same - get a lawyer and file for divorce - he is in the wrong having an affair and it is over between you two but you want to think he's going to come home and be all sweet ? he is setting you up to take as much with him as he can and leave you and the children in the dust - wake up before it's too late - it's over - save yourself and your children - and stop being devastated - you will lose if you are not capable of holding up under this pressure right now but your children need you to be strong - it is what it is and you have work to do here - there will be time for that later on - I know it's hard but it has to be done so get on with it

Your cap moon came thru so clear in this post ... 🙂

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lol - yeah thank god I have some protection from my Venus in Aries and Mars Pisces

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I've been married to my Pisces husband for almost 15 years, and we have two beautiful kids. Recently while deployed he's been pushing me away because of him having an affair. He's due home in a month and this situation is so crazy and so unbelievable to even deal with. He is like a totally different person now. So cruel and blaming me for everything not being perfect in our marriage. It's like he has rewritten the history of our entire marriage to suit himself. He now wants a divorce and says his feelings for me are long gone. There is a lot more to this story but my question mainly is once he is home away from his fantasy land will he become more civil toward me and understand what all he has done? Everyone is devastated but him and I just can't fathom it.

lady you need to get off your la la land and understand things have changed and no, it's never going to be the same - get a lawyer and file for divorce - he is in the wrong having an affair and it is over between you two but you want to think he's going to come home and be all sweet ? he is setting you up to take as much with him as he can and leave you and the children in the dust - wake up before it's too late - it's over - save yourself and your children - and stop being devastated - you will lose if you are not capable of holding up under this pressure right now but your children need you to be strong - it is what it is and you have work to do here - there will be time for that later on - I know it's hard but it has to be done so get on with it

Your cap moon came thru so clear in this post ... 🙂

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according to my son who does know me well from growing up under me - when I get into these type of rants I ask questions, then answer them myself LOL - he used to say "Mom, can I get a word in" LOL ... "Cap Moon on Aries Mercury Steriods"

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Posted by ariesbee
I thought affairs were a reason for court-martial? Can't he get into serious trouble with the military?

I know a lot of unethical Pisces men. Karma is coming for them, that's for sure. Let them reap what they sow when it is their turn.

I fully believe in karma as well and I hope you are correct.

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I have seen difficult repercussions from people having affairs so much so that the unfaithful party never recovers

Posted by Taurion19
I've been married to my Pisces husband for almost 15 years, and we have two beautiful kids. Recently while deployed he's been pushing me away because of him having an affair. He's due home in a month and this situation is so crazy and so unbelievable to even deal with. He is like a totally different person now. So cruel and blaming me for everything not being perfect in our marriage. It's like he has rewritten the history of our entire marriage to suit himself. He now wants a divorce and says his feelings for me are long gone. There is a lot more to this story but my question mainly is once he is home away from his fantasy land will he become more civil toward me and understand what all he has done? Everyone is devastated but him and I just can't fathom it.

Doll, I work for the Army; DoD civilian; Joint Base San Antonio, TX. Uh, WHY, WHY, WHY why haven't you spoken to his CO—————?? Don't you know this is a no, no, in the Army and he is in violation of his duties as a family man, but of course, Soldier, first that he is having a marital affair? His CO can sit down with him, give him advice, and/or recommend him to speak to a Chaplain..........go talk to his CO and come back to me.

🤗 cyber hugs!

Love,

Eva

Posted by Taurion19
Hmmm, that's some thing I did not think about...a protective order. He's not physically mean just verbally right now. I don't think he would be physically. I mean he has no reason to be. I did contact his command about his adultery and non support of the kids and have reason to believe he is being investigated. Not sure sure though but that is a start. His things are already out and in a storage unit.

Just read this post....good for you! Hit him where it hurts!!!! I was an Admin for the Chaplains Office and I can tell you the CONFIDENTIALITY is what I always hold to my heart as a DoD civilian. PM me if you want to talk, I'll give you more advice, etc. Good luck!

🤗 cyber hugs!

Love,

Eva

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Posted by LadyNeptune
Who knows what horrors he saw being deployed. And yes they all cheat during deployment.

I tried a relationship with a service man and couldn’t hang. Too stressful.

Think about what’s best for you and your kids. Focus on that.

not all servicemen cheat during deployment. i dont think it gives those good men any credit. im sorry you both have gone through this however. it is a difficult situation for sure.

This is true. I know some who don't but many do unfortunately. It all depends on the individual character and morals. He never did before this, he was a die hard family man...but people change and sometimes that's not for the best I guess. I just don't want him coming back being mean like he is being right now to us when we are not the ones who did anything wrong. If he can't accept responsibility or feels guilt, that's his issues not ours!

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Thank you! I wanted to hear it from the "horse's mouth!" Many, many, many, Soldiers DO cheat when they are deployed and/or go TDY (Temporary Duty); thus the high majority of them have contracted many "diseases", many families were affected by this infidelity, etc.

This is the FIRST one you "learned" as he now wants a divorce. Don't know if he had an affair(s) in the past when he deployed and/or went TDY. Again, fight, fight! You have MANY benefits coming to you (YOU know what they are); and your children will NOT be left without (financially, I mean).

🤗 cyber hugs!

Love,

Eva

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Posted by Taurion19
Hmmm, that's some thing I did not think about...a protective order. He's not physically mean just verbally right now. I don't think he would be physically. I mean he has no reason to be. I did contact his command about his adultery and non support of the kids and have reason to believe he is being investigated. Not sure sure though but that is a start. His things are already out and in a storage unit.

Just read this post....good for you! Hit him where it hurts!!!! I was an Admin for the Chaplains Office and I can tell you the CONFIDENTIALITY is what I always hold to my heart as a DoD civilian. PM me if you want to talk, I'll give you more advice, etc. Good luck!

🤗 cyber hugs!

Love,

Eva

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I will def be pm ing you in a bit!

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Posted by Taurion19
Hmmm, that's some thing I did not think about...a protective order. He's not physically mean just verbally right now. I don't think he would be physically. I mean he has no reason to be. I did contact his command about his adultery and non support of the kids and have reason to believe he is being investigated. Not sure sure though but that is a start. His things are already out and in a storage unit.

Just read this post....good for you! Hit him where it hurts!!!! I was an Admin for the Chaplains Office and I can tell you the CONFIDENTIALITY is what I always hold to my heart as a DoD civilian. PM me if you want to talk, I'll give you more advice, etc. Good luck!

🤗 cyber hugs!

Love,

Eva

I will def be pm ing you in a bit!

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I'm here Doll.....back from lunch. You've got my utmost attention 😆

🤗 cyber hugs!

Love,

Eva

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Posted by ariesbee
I thought affairs were a reason for court-martial? Can't he get into serious trouble with the military?

I know a lot of unethical Pisces men. Karma is coming for them, that's for sure. Let them reap what they sow when it is their turn.

I fully believe in karma as well and I hope you are correct.

I have seen difficult repercussions from people having affairs so much so that the unfaithful party never recovers

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Well I mean I guess that's the chance people willingly take sometimes. I was taught that everything that glitters is not always gold....

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Posted by Taurion19
Hmmm, that's some thing I did not think about...a protective order. He's not physically mean just verbally right now. I don't think he would be physically. I mean he has no reason to be. I did contact his command about his adultery and non support of the kids and have reason to believe he is being investigated. Not sure sure though but that is a start. His things are already out and in a storage unit.

Just read this post....good for you! Hit him where it hurts!!!! I was an Admin for the Chaplains Office and I can tell you the CONFIDENTIALITY is what I always hold to my heart as a DoD civilian. PM me if you want to talk, I'll give you more advice, etc. Good luck!

🤗 cyber hugs!

Love,

Eva

I will def be pm ing you in a bit!

I'm here Doll.....back from lunch. You've got my utmost attention 😆

🤗 cyber hugs!

Love,

Eva

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I tried to pm but it's not going through

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Posted by Taurion19
Hmmm, that's some thing I did not think about...a protective order. He's not physically mean just verbally right now. I don't think he would be physically. I mean he has no reason to be. I did contact his command about his adultery and non support of the kids and have reason to believe he is being investigated. Not sure sure though but that is a start. His things are already out and in a storage unit.

Just read this post....good for you! Hit him where it hurts!!!! I was an Admin for the Chaplains Office and I can tell you the CONFIDENTIALITY is what I always hold to my heart as a DoD civilian. PM me if you want to talk, I'll give you more advice, etc. Good luck!

🤗 cyber hugs!

Love,

Eva

I will def be pm ing you in a bit!

I'm here Doll.....back from lunch. You've got my utmost attention 😆

🤗 cyber hugs!

Love,

Eva

I tried to pm but it's not going through

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DAMN! 😡 I heard this was a glitch! Let me try PMing you.

🤗 cyber hugs!

Love,

Eva

Just PMed you Doll....mine went thru successfully.

🤗 cyber hugs!

Love,

Eva 1:08 pm/cst

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Just PMed you Doll....mine went thru successfully.

🤗 cyber hugs!

Love,

Eva 1:08 pm/cst

I got it and was able to respond.

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Just PMed you Doll....mine went thru successfully.

🤗 cyber hugs!

Love,

Eva 1:08 pm/cst

I got it and was able to respond.

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Yep! Saw it....on my way!

🤗 cyber hugs!

Love,

Eva

Sometimes I don't understand how some of us Pisces can be like this.

I have been in several relationships and I have never cheated, I was always the one being cheated on.

Always the one who others broke up with. Always the one who was clingy and needy until the very end. Maybe I'm too pure or sensitive, but if I did what your husband did, I don't think I would be able to live with all that guilt. The guilt would drive me crazy. I could never do that to anyone...

Let him have his cake and eat it too, right after you put a bomb in it. Stop hoping he softens up and play tough right back. The time for reckoning has passed. Cut your loss and prepare to move on.