
someone you friend zoned decided to incorporate you in a piece of art they were working on



Posted by LePetitFiskso you're saying i shouldn't do it?lolPosted by AdreamuponwakingPersonally, i might feel like it's an attempt to butter yourself out of the friendzone (which might or might not be effective). But that also depends on the context of the artwork...Posted by LePetitFisklol suspicious
Both. Mostly flattered, but low-key suspicious.
how so?
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Posted by TheRabbitππππ
"incorporate you in a piece of art they were working on"
LOL
Locked in a cage..."performance art".

Posted by RedemptionSongRight. If itβs tasteful and non-invasive then we good.Posted by LadyNeptuneThis. Is it a painting of me being set on fire? Not flattered. But if it's something beautiful then yes, very flattered.
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Posted by TheRabbiti'm not a scorpio
"incorporate you in a piece of art they were working on"
LOL
Locked in a cage..."performance art".

Posted by LePetitFiskthey are definitely notPosted by AdreamuponwakingWell, not necessarily. I mean, I obviously don't know her and I dont want to dissuade you if your feelings for her are platonic and just want to express it. She might just might find it endearing. Perhaps if you don't make the scene too intimatePosted by LePetitFiskso you're saying i shouldn't do it?lolPosted by AdreamuponwakingPersonally, i might feel like it's an attempt to butter yourself out of the friendzone (which might or might not be effective). But that also depends on the context of the artwork...Posted by LePetitFisklol suspicious
Both. Mostly flattered, but low-key suspicious.
how so?
i just get the urge to draw or paint my memories of some of the times we shared together
it's a curious thing
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Posted by yellow01gti know it is
having not read any of the previous posts except the first one...
the first thing that popped in my head is that sounds like something a scorpio would do...
but irregardless, that's creepy asf...
--Jack

Posted by AdreamuponwakingDepends if she is artistic I guess. I am very used to that and it wouldnβt bother me at all but I suppose it is very personal πPosted by yellow01gti know it is
having not read any of the previous posts except the first one...
the first thing that popped in my head is that sounds like something a scorpio would do...
but irregardless, that's creepy asf...
--Jack
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Posted by yellow01gtPosted by pisceswoman123nah, while i'm generally pretty accepting and agreeable by nature...i have go against the flow with this one because it sounds to me like the beginning of one of those "you can never leave!" horror movies...
Depends if she is artistic I guess. I am very used to that and it wouldnβt bother me at all but I suppose it is very personal π
don't matter how artistic this particular person is, i ain't goin' lol...i got enough "artsy-ness" within myself, just like any pisces native would, to do my own funeral painting, or whatever bizarre "creative masterpiece" this nutjob is putting together π
the uncertainty in some of these responses blows my mind, though...it totally shows off how wonderfully willing a pisces is to look past something that could cause major issues to them...it's a great quality we're born with, but sometimes it's not necessary to give someone the benefit of the doubt, and this is one of those times...
seriously, when was the last time anyone following this post so far, felt it necessary and also deemed it as acceptable behaviour upon being friend-zoned (which is just a euphemism for being rejected), to like...use the person who turned you down as the subject for a piece of artwork?
no-f u k k n-body does that because it's just obsessive, creepy and borderline psychotic...what if someone did this very same thing, only like to one of your children or maybe a grandmother or something like that? i wouldn't just be like "oh well, how good of an artist is this person who is probably a sex offender?"...
this situation is so off-the-wall...lol i almost had trouble figuring out how to explain that it IS in fact a messed up situation...
in my opinion, this is no different than someone looking into your bedroom window while you're changing clothes...
not everyone is gonna agree with me but at least this post should fuel the fire a little bit...or maybe that was my intention to begin with...who knows when it comes to f u k k n' fishes sometimes π
--Jack
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Posted by LePetitFiskshe won't talk to me even rn.Posted by AdreamuponwakingDoes she have to see it? Maybe paint it, get it out of your system... then hide it in the closet.Posted by LePetitFiskthey are definitely notPosted by AdreamuponwakingWell, not necessarily. I mean, I obviously don't know her and I dont want to dissuade you if your feelings for her are platonic and just want to express it. She might just might find it endearing. Perhaps if you don't make the scene too intimatePosted by LePetitFiskso you're saying i shouldn't do it?lolPosted by AdreamuponwakingPersonally, i might feel like it's an attempt to butter yourself out of the friendzone (which might or might not be effective). But that also depends on the context of the artwork...Posted by LePetitFisklol suspicious
Both. Mostly flattered, but low-key suspicious.
how so?
i just get the urge to draw or paint my memories of some of the times we shared together
it's a curious thing
i feel like if they were strictly platonic i wouldn't have these urges
i think i'm trying to come up with creative ways to channel that energy until these romantic feelings subside.
it's taking forever though.
it's been over a year.
Then 60 years from now you can show her when she's old, senile and living in a Home. Remind her of the good times. Like The Pisces lesbians version of The Notebook.
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Posted by pisceswoman123@yellow01gtPosted by yellow01gtPosted by pisceswoman123nah, while i'm generally pretty accepting and agreeable by nature...i have go against the flow with this one because it sounds to me like the beginning of one of those "you can never leave!" horror movies...
Depends if she is artistic I guess. I am very used to that and it wouldnβt bother me at all but I suppose it is very personal π
don't matter how artistic this particular person is, i ain't goin' lol...i got enough "artsy-ness" within myself, just like any pisces native would, to do my own funeral painting, or whatever bizarre "creative masterpiece" this nutjob is putting together π
the uncertainty in some of these responses blows my mind, though...it totally shows off how wonderfully willing a pisces is to look past something that could cause major issues to them...it's a great quality we're born with, but sometimes it's not necessary to give someone the benefit of the doubt, and this is one of those times...
seriously, when was the last time anyone following this post so far, felt it necessary and also deemed it as acceptable behaviour upon being friend-zoned (which is just a euphemism for being rejected), to like...use the person who turned you down as the subject for a piece of artwork?
no-f u k k n-body does that because it's just obsessive, creepy and borderline psychotic...what if someone did this very same thing, only like to one of your children or maybe a grandmother or something like that? i wouldn't just be like "oh well, how good of an artist is this person who is probably a sex offender?"...
this situation is so off-the-wall...lol i almost had trouble figuring out how to explain that it IS in fact a messed up situation...
in my opinion, this is no different than someone looking into your bedroom window while you're changing clothes...
not everyone is gonna agree with me but at least this post should fuel the fire a little bit...or maybe that was my intention to begin with...who knows when it comes to f u k k n' fishes sometimes π
--Jack
π I think you are overreacting π I donβt see the problem at all. If it was someone stocking me and then they do this I see your point but if I reject someone I take the responsibility of accepting their way to get over me. Art is a pretty nice way to go about it... I think π
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Posted by AdreamuponwakingPosted by pisceswoman123@yellow01gtPosted by yellow01gtPosted by pisceswoman123nah, while i'm generally pretty accepting and agreeable by nature...i have go against the flow with this one because it sounds to me like the beginning of one of those "you can never leave!" horror movies...
Depends if she is artistic I guess. I am very used to that and it wouldnβt bother me at all but I suppose it is very personal π
don't matter how artistic this particular person is, i ain't goin' lol...i got enough "artsy-ness" within myself, just like any pisces native would, to do my own funeral painting, or whatever bizarre "creative masterpiece" this nutjob is putting together π
the uncertainty in some of these responses blows my mind, though...it totally shows off how wonderfully willing a pisces is to look past something that could cause major issues to them...it's a great quality we're born with, but sometimes it's not necessary to give someone the benefit of the doubt, and this is one of those times...
seriously, when was the last time anyone following this post so far, felt it necessary and also deemed it as acceptable behaviour upon being friend-zoned (which is just a euphemism for being rejected), to like...use the person who turned you down as the subject for a piece of artwork?
no-f u k k n-body does that because it's just obsessive, creepy and borderline psychotic...what if someone did this very same thing, only like to one of your children or maybe a grandmother or something like that? i wouldn't just be like "oh well, how good of an artist is this person who is probably a sex offender?"...
this situation is so off-the-wall...lol i almost had trouble figuring out how to explain that it IS in fact a messed up situation...
in my opinion, this is no different than someone looking into your bedroom window while you're changing clothes...
not everyone is gonna agree with me but at least this post should fuel the fire a little bit...or maybe that was my intention to begin with...who knows when it comes to f u k k n' fishes sometimes π
--Jack
π I think you are overreacting π I donβt see the problem at all. If it was someone stocking me and then they do this I see your point but if I reject someone I take the responsibility of accepting their way to get over me. Art is a pretty nice way to go about it... I think π
i saw that you hid your messages but i still wanted to respond to some of the points you made
i think there is a lot of truth to what you said
EXCEPT
things are little different between two women
especially when you are talking about the friend zone.
friendship does not equal rejection per se
it also does not equate to a non sexual relationship.
also i know that i am crazy but most pisces women find it endearing
my craziness is not scary because it's contained
i'd never actually stalk / harass someone i liked in real life
but i do obsesses when i start to fall for someone and because of my obsessive nature i need some type of outlet
going to the gym helps on some level..at least sexual energy wise
but in terms of expressing all of the intense romantic feelings that come when again i really start to get to know someone and fall for them
.... the only thing i have found to help when i am in some situation where i can't express them ( usually they are dating someone else and i'm too scared to actually tell them how i really feel)
is to find a creative outlet
since meeting this girl I have taken three guitar classes
i have traveled to a different country
i've upped my Mexican cuisine cooking game
and now thinking about taking some painting classes..and I know..that i'll want to use her in a least one piece of work when i'm good enough
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Posted by pisceswoman123a lot of the stuff i did wasn't 100% because of her too btwPosted by AdreamuponwakingPosted by pisceswoman123@yellow01gtPosted by yellow01gtPosted by pisceswoman123nah, while i'm generally pretty accepting and agreeable by nature...i have go against the flow with this one because it sounds to me like the beginning of one of those "you can never leave!" horror movies...
Depends if she is artistic I guess. I am very used to that and it wouldnβt bother me at all but I suppose it is very personal π
don't matter how artistic this particular person is, i ain't goin' lol...i got enough "artsy-ness" within myself, just like any pisces native would, to do my own funeral painting, or whatever bizarre "creative masterpiece" this nutjob is putting together π
the uncertainty in some of these responses blows my mind, though...it totally shows off how wonderfully willing a pisces is to look past something that could cause major issues to them...it's a great quality we're born with, but sometimes it's not necessary to give someone the benefit of the doubt, and this is one of those times...
seriously, when was the last time anyone following this post so far, felt it necessary and also deemed it as acceptable behaviour upon being friend-zoned (which is just a euphemism for being rejected), to like...use the person who turned you down as the subject for a piece of artwork?
no-f u k k n-body does that because it's just obsessive, creepy and borderline psychotic...what if someone did this very same thing, only like to one of your children or maybe a grandmother or something like that? i wouldn't just be like "oh well, how good of an artist is this person who is probably a sex offender?"...
this situation is so off-the-wall...lol i almost had trouble figuring out how to explain that it IS in fact a messed up situation...
in my opinion, this is no different than someone looking into your bedroom window while you're changing clothes...
not everyone is gonna agree with me but at least this post should fuel the fire a little bit...or maybe that was my intention to begin with...who knows when it comes to f u k k n' fishes sometimes π
--Jack
π I think you are overreacting π I donβt see the problem at all. If it was someone stocking me and then they do this I see your point but if I reject someone I take the responsibility of accepting their way to get over me. Art is a pretty nice way to go about it... I think π
i saw that you hid your messages but i still wanted to respond to some of the points you made
i think there is a lot of truth to what you said
EXCEPT
things are little different between two women
especially when you are talking about the friend zone.
friendship does not equal rejection per se
it also does not equate to a non sexual relationship.
also i know that i am crazy but most pisces women find it endearing
my craziness is not scary because it's contained
i'd never actually stalk / harass someone i liked in real life
but i do obsesses when i start to fall for someone and because of my obsessive nature i need some type of outlet
going to the gym helps on some level..at least sexual energy wise
but in terms of expressing all of the intense romantic feelings that come when again i really start to get to know someone and fall for them
.... the only thing i have found to help when i am in some situation where i can't express them ( usually they are dating someone else and i'm too scared to actually tell them how i really feel)
is to find a creative outlet
since meeting this girl I have taken three guitar classes
i have traveled to a different country
i've upped my Mexican cuisine cooking game
and now thinking about taking some painting classes..and I know..that i'll want to use her in a least one piece of work when i'm good enough
I agree with this...
Funny you say that you need a creative outlet π my job is really creative so I get my share out that way... but right now I am going bananas with extra projects I need to do to get some extra energy out... π Learning the guitar, new language, astrology, sport ππ No body will notice... but you know what I mean smh π€¦ββοΈ
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Posted by LePetitFiskexactlyPosted by AdreamuponwakingWhat's a little heartache to remind us that at least the heart is still alive and well...Posted by LePetitFiskshe won't talk to me even rn.Posted by AdreamuponwakingDoes she have to see it? Maybe paint it, get it out of your system... then hide it in the closet.Posted by LePetitFiskthey are definitely notPosted by AdreamuponwakingWell, not necessarily. I mean, I obviously don't know her and I dont want to dissuade you if your feelings for her are platonic and just want to express it. She might just might find it endearing. Perhaps if you don't make the scene too intimatePosted by LePetitFiskso you're saying i shouldn't do it?lolPosted by AdreamuponwakingPersonally, i might feel like it's an attempt to butter yourself out of the friendzone (which might or might not be effective). But that also depends on the context of the artwork...Posted by LePetitFisklol suspicious
Both. Mostly flattered, but low-key suspicious.
how so?
i just get the urge to draw or paint my memories of some of the times we shared together
it's a curious thing
i feel like if they were strictly platonic i wouldn't have these urges
i think i'm trying to come up with creative ways to channel that energy until these romantic feelings subside.
it's taking forever though.
it's been over a year.
Then 60 years from now you can show her when she's old, senile and living in a Home. Remind her of the good times. Like The Pisces lesbians version of The Notebook.
i hope we get to that point even as friends.
i'd love to have her in my future.
i miss her all the time π’
she makes me laugh
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Posted by AdreamuponwakingYes, I love my job... I am super lucky.Posted by pisceswoman123a lot of the stuff i did wasn't 100% because of her too btwPosted by AdreamuponwakingPosted by pisceswoman123@yellow01gtPosted by yellow01gtPosted by pisceswoman123nah, while i'm generally pretty accepting and agreeable by nature...i have go against the flow with this one because it sounds to me like the beginning of one of those "you can never leave!" horror movies...
Depends if she is artistic I guess. I am very used to that and it wouldnβt bother me at all but I suppose it is very personal π
don't matter how artistic this particular person is, i ain't goin' lol...i got enough "artsy-ness" within myself, just like any pisces native would, to do my own funeral painting, or whatever bizarre "creative masterpiece" this nutjob is putting together π
the uncertainty in some of these responses blows my mind, though...it totally shows off how wonderfully willing a pisces is to look past something that could cause major issues to them...it's a great quality we're born with, but sometimes it's not necessary to give someone the benefit of the doubt, and this is one of those times...
seriously, when was the last time anyone following this post so far, felt it necessary and also deemed it as acceptable behaviour upon being friend-zoned (which is just a euphemism for being rejected), to like...use the person who turned you down as the subject for a piece of artwork?
no-f u k k n-body does that because it's just obsessive, creepy and borderline psychotic...what if someone did this very same thing, only like to one of your children or maybe a grandmother or something like that? i wouldn't just be like "oh well, how good of an artist is this person who is probably a sex offender?"...
this situation is so off-the-wall...lol i almost had trouble figuring out how to explain that it IS in fact a messed up situation...
in my opinion, this is no different than someone looking into your bedroom window while you're changing clothes...
not everyone is gonna agree with me but at least this post should fuel the fire a little bit...or maybe that was my intention to begin with...who knows when it comes to f u k k n' fishes sometimes π
--Jack
π I think you are overreacting π I donβt see the problem at all. If it was someone stocking me and then they do this I see your point but if I reject someone I take the responsibility of accepting their way to get over me. Art is a pretty nice way to go about it... I think π
i saw that you hid your messages but i still wanted to respond to some of the points you made
i think there is a lot of truth to what you said
EXCEPT
things are little different between two women
especially when you are talking about the friend zone.
friendship does not equal rejection per se
it also does not equate to a non sexual relationship.
also i know that i am crazy but most pisces women find it endearing
my craziness is not scary because it's contained
i'd never actually stalk / harass someone i liked in real life
but i do obsesses when i start to fall for someone and because of my obsessive nature i need some type of outlet
going to the gym helps on some level..at least sexual energy wise
but in terms of expressing all of the intense romantic feelings that come when again i really start to get to know someone and fall for them
.... the only thing i have found to help when i am in some situation where i can't express them ( usually they are dating someone else and i'm too scared to actually tell them how i really feel)
is to find a creative outlet
since meeting this girl I have taken three guitar classes
i have traveled to a different country
i've upped my Mexican cuisine cooking game
and now thinking about taking some painting classes..and I know..that i'll want to use her in a least one piece of work when i'm good enough
I agree with this...
Funny you say that you need a creative outlet π my job is really creative so I get my share out that way... but right now I am going bananas with extra projects I need to do to get some extra energy out... π Learning the guitar, new language, astrology, sport ππ No body will notice... but you know what I mean smh π€¦ββοΈ
it was more that she inspired me to carry out things i've always wanted to do and thus helping me grow as a person.
i'm glad you have a really creative job π
pisces needs that.click to expand
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