Sickening!!!!

You know what makes me real sad, its the fact that "most" men want sex only. They don't care if it hurts the woman emotionaly. IT it like they are all robots and all they know and want is to get layed. It is soooo sickening. I mean I have had alot of guy friends and me and my girls would just be sitting their chillin and one of the guys would see a girl and this is what they would say "I would love to hit that right there." I mean I asked a guy I sex was all he ever thinks about and he said yes. Do yall see this pattern with guys or is this just me?

You haven't answered my question about why men are that way/

Because they do not offer anything else!!!

Look everywhere! They dress up sexy, they try to act sexy, they do not offer anything else.

That why.

Haffo

I kind of figured that out i just wanted to know if guys think about other things about a woman like if she is intelligent not just her body. But boys will be boys.

If she shows intelligence (which is very very rare trait) then yes. It could happen.

Brahn

You have been avoiding my question too, how come you haven't answered?

DB

What did you expect from this thread. I called this thread "sickening" because i thought it was "sickening" how men see an attractive women and think "I wonder how i can get into her pants." That is why i chose that word for the topic.

DB

I think you take it lightly because you are a man, you probally think that there is nothing wrong with men saying disgusting things about females and the fact that most males want sex. Since I am a female I would take this alot harder than you do. Like i said that is why i chose "sickening" as the topic instead of "shallow" as you suggested, as shallow waters down my views of this way of thinking and viewing women as walking pussy.

Does it get better for you sb as far as personal experiences?

DB

I wasn't trying to generalize. That is why I said "most". It is not a shock i am just expressing how i feel about that. Plus age ain't nothin but a number.

I understand what you are saying but i still want to be heard. Its like when older people are talking to younger people they tend to look down on us as if we are not as important as them.

Sb

🙂

Very interesting .. I've seen a statement saying why man couldn't understand woman and why woman couldn't understand man and yet in this board I've seen a man trying to justify woman's action.

"I've seen tons of men do things for women and the woman would never like them beyond a friendship level. The bottomline, if a woman likes you, you can do no wrong, and if she doesn't like you, then you can do no right."

That's what you called one sided love. If a woman do things for you but you don't find any chemistry with her, do you still want to go out with her in a serious relationship not a casual one? Thus, man will do the same thing with woman in this department.

"Man makes an offensive comment towards women - A woman will yail, scream, hollar, etc. Sometimes this will result in her distancing herself or even ending the relationship"

Because women are built to be more emotional than man. That doesn't justify that women are critical in relationship. However I agreed that women are critical in relationship but is it wrong? Man are just spreading his seed where as women have to take the consequences if something goes wrong. Yes, women can abort but you didn't take into account the emotional effect on her. In a serious relationship, yes women will always be more critical than man because we have to.

"If a woman doesn't do women duties like wash dishes or clean the kitchen, then it is considered sexist, and women get offended. As a matter of fact, many men wouldn't even care if a woman didn't do these things. If a man doesn't do the above, a woman will consider him lazy."

If your house full of dirty pampers scattered around on your bed, on the bathroom, on the sofa. Will you yell at your woman or you wouldn't even care and just sleep on the bed, or sit on the sofa and suddenly your hand touches something wet hhmmm...? 🙂

"Correction

The fact that ALL males want sex..."

DB, can you please englighten me to what happen to those priests and monks who decided to celibate?

Because women are built to be more emotional than man. That doesn't justify that women are critical in relationship. However I agreed that women are critical in relationship but is it wrong? Man are just spreading his seed where as women have to take the consequences if something goes wrong. Yes, women can abort but you didn't take into account the emotional effect on her. In a serious relationship, yes women will always be more critical than man because we have to.

Thank you, at least somebody gets it

DB, can you please englighten me to what happen to those priests and monks who decided to celibate?

Men can control their desires, since men are less emotional than women are. Those monks and priests are always under this exact control. However, there been situations when they finally "explode" and assault women which usually end up with rape. It's been reported that those assaults were also made against children...

Good evening DB.

It's 6:00 PM here. Idiot.

Yeah I like to curse all the day like that too. Especially over very little idiotic things. Makes me feel great.

Go figure..lol..

Hahaha! 🙂

"Not really. Look at this board. Look at your own posts. That's criticism right there of women. When women come here they are trying to understand what's going on, when some men come here they are really just criticising because they aren't taking the time to understand."

Thank you for your observation sb. Finally, someone is paying attention.

"Lets just face it, women can be more critical about what a man does and not do. Men have to hastily accpet a woman's flaws or elese he is screwed in relationship or coined intolerant. A man has to actually make more adjustments than a woman does, because women are very critical of men's mistakes."

You've conveniently left out women who suffer under abusive critical mates and husbands.
There are men who care plenty about the house, the dishes, the dinner, the bed, their children's education, how the money is being spent. Men who never run short of insults to hurl or accusations to make. A woman can work all day in the home, taking care of the chores, children etc., and the husband wants sex and dinner on the table the minute he walks through the door and she's not suppose to protest. Men will complain about what they're eating for dinner, or the way it smells, how it was prepared, the size of their portion.

Men will bitch that their wives/gfs are getting fat and letting themselves go. They will humiliate her in public if they don't like her outfit, make-up etc. Or if she speaks up for herself. Men who buy their wives clothes because they don't/won't trust their judgement.

The news if full of story of men killing their mates in a jealous rage. Women who are stalked by men.

We women put up with a lot of shit from you guys. Sometimes we complain, sometimes we don't. Relationships are about always trying to adjust and find a happy medium which can be achieved through compromise. Compromise is not giving in or weakness; you have to negotiate through mediation.

What is funny about what i said DB?

Hey...who is that new hooker? She looks hot in her pics though..

Shut up haffo

Do you know her Babygurl?

No, i don't does it matter. I mean this board is called "sickening", meaning the views of women by men is "sickening." And your going to bring up some hooker, that is real "sickening" haffo.

You are just as bad as haffo, DB.

Ahhh...drop it babygurl. This topic is really stupid topic. There is nothing better for you to experience it yourself rather than asking it like that. You wont learn anything. Trust me on that.

wtf better not be talking about me

HOOKER!!!!

YEHAAAAAAWWWWWW!!!

Well, men sure aren't making this better are they. They get worse and worse everyday. They always trying to holla at me. I remember this time i was at the mall. This guy was telling me to slow down so, i turned around looked at him and kept moving. And he was all hey i ain't tell you to turn around and keep moving. As is he gonna tell me what to do,ha!

Blah blah blah....

If this topic is so stupid then get of the board haffo, i don't need your two cents anyway.

rockchick10110

Okay, I disengage. You look to be a good person.

Sorry.

Babygurl

I just want people end it and get on something better.

rockchick10110

You can think about what you want.

I don't care wether she's a Scorpio.

I just saw she has a personality, and disengaged. A rare trait to see.

how did u see that

With that:

😢im not

ummm you don't look like a hooker hahaha
your eyes are really intense! in combination with the black hair you're like the "stereotypical" scorpio woman 😛

I don't think she looks like a typical Scorpio woman. Typical Scorpio woman eyes are rather dreamy than vivacus (because they are water sign). Their face expression is rather "I'm high class standart woman" saying, yeah.

I didn't say typical, haffo, I said stereotypical. The kind you'd "expect" to see versus someone's reality.

the black looks great on you.
i tried it once and it was more or less a disaster.
so congrats, haha

Well, for me, she's not even a stereotypical one.

If I didn't know her birthdate, then I would assume her as a Saggitarius.

why do you say that?
I saw her and immediately though "Yeah, scorpio"
But if I were to say another sign I would have said Pisces...not sag

yeah
definitely don't see the sag 😢

I want to know too! Because to me...you look 100% Scorpio hahaha
The Gemini eyes thing— No way...I have never seen a Gem with eyes that were that intense.. I mean sure there's some intensity but it's accompanied by something else..something almost humorous, while rockchick's eyes radiate confidence and intelligence (sorry if I make you uncomfortable hehe...just making a point)

really? which one has the most influence supposedly?

Water sign people eyes are dreamy. Not widely open. They are opposite to that. They are almost closed. That why they seems dreamy. Scorpio or Pisces, does not make much difference in outlook. Scorpio eyes are intense, but intense in negative way. Kinda pissed off outlook. You get the picture. That why they are terrifying. And they always kinda roll everywhere, because they avoid eye contacts. And eyes always secrety.

In her pic, none of this is there. Yeah her eyes are intense, but in "positive" way. So it's definetly not Scorpio eyes. They are most probably Saggitarius eyes.

A Gemini rising people eyes are also kinda pissed off as well. After all, Gemini is a masculine sign, so it wont be very expressive.

hahah DB i have scorp rising and i'm not that intense

"You know what makes me real sad, its the fact that "most" men want sex only. They don't care if it hurts the woman emotionaly."

A man liking sex? Oh, the irony! Their is far worse things that a man liking you just for sex. Like for an example, A man determining that you aren't worthy enough to fuck. As far as it hurting the women emotionally, I guess it depends how the women looks at the situation. If the women can differentiate sex and love, they could get over being used very quickly.

..looking