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Posted by babydolphin92
See I'm in the beginning stages with a Pisces man who is saying all the right things and doing everything I ever wanted romantically. Puts butterflies in my tummy and stars in my eyes. But it just seems too good to be true. Maybe that's my Gemini tendency to overanalyze but I needed to hear this debate. I didn't know they could be liars and manipulators
don't worry, you wont' get it until about 3-4 years in - they're good at it - but it's all in your best interest !
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Posted by SirB2
this is a bad sign altogether.

And of course, it's never their fault.

People reading this should read every single post and use it wisely because it's pretty accurate. I dont suggest anyone get in any relationship with a Pisces. Unless you have a death wish. Because you want to just kill yourself.



-a Capricorn.


actually I didn't want to kill myself - I just wanted to run away, far far away ...which I did and I'm so glad ...
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Yeah we are manipulative and play dumb most of the time but whatever we do, (or abstain of doing) we do because we think its going to result in something positive. Or better. We are wrong some of the times tho ^^

Would that be the same case for pretending you are not into someone when really you are very into them. ?


Not exclusively. I can be pretending out of shyness for exemple. I do not know your specific case, neither do i know how the person you are talking about thinks, sorry. I would suggest asking him/her instead of trying to rationalize it yourself.
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Hi I am leo falling in love with my pisces man. I think in the very beginning when he was super into me I hurt his feelings/ego as I wasn't sure how I felt now I am sure he has backed off and says he really likes me and he can see us being an item just "not yet" . I Thought maybe if I tell him I love him he might bring his walls down and reciprocate (he has expressed he is scared to be official) would telling him I love him scare him away or do you think he would relish to know this? Is this what most piesces are waiting to hear or not? How long do I have to wait LoL. Xx

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Posted by SomeSortOfMermaid
This thread is too predictable.

OP asks question.

Pisceans give honest answers.

Scorned ex partners that are not pisceans give bitter answers.

Said answers by pisceans get ignored.





In all honesty, beside rotten apples (cheating/leeches etc), the main problem with pisceans and their partners is that the other party assume they can mold the Pisces into whatever they want the Pisces to be. It never works.

This thread proves it too, because all you see from other parties is admissions of how horrible the ex was. No mention of any contributing behaviour on their part whatsoever.

Being with a Pisces requires someone that is considerate and thoughtful, and majority of people simply are too self absorbed to try and understand our ways. Pisceans aren't that hard to get. But it takes truly caring to read between the lines. I doubt Pisceans get many partners that care enough about us, rather than what we can do for them.
lol - some typical Piscean comments here - oh it takes someone really special to be with a Pisces ? someone that is considerate and thoughtful ? nobody understands you? only those who "truly care" ... really ? like you are more special than anyone else ? please! no I do get it - truly - and I'm outta here!

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This thread is too predictable.

OP asks question.

Pisceans give honest answers.

Scorned ex partners that are not pisceans give bitter answers.

Said answers by pisceans get ignored.





In all honesty, beside rotten apples (cheating/leeches etc), the main problem with pisceans and their partners is that the other party assume they can mold the Pisces into whatever they want the Pisces to be. It never works.

This thread proves it too, because all you see from other parties is admissions of how horrible the ex was. No mention of any contributing behaviour on their part whatsoever.

Being with a Pisces requires someone that is considerate and thoughtful, and majority of people simply are too self absorbed to try and understand our ways. Pisceans aren't that hard to get. But it takes truly caring to read between the lines. I doubt Pisceans get many partners that care enough about us, rather than what we can do for them.
lol - some typical Piscean comments here - oh it takes someone really special to be with a Pisces ? someone that is considerate and thoughtful ? nobody understands you? only those who "truly care" ... really ? like you are more special than anyone else ? please! no I do get it - truly - and I'm outta here!


It's not about being special - it's just that pisceans might not always be as obvious or vocal about things as let's say a Taurus would be. We're subtle people.

Also, I said in my original post that we aren't hard to get IF someone bothers paying attention and reading through the lines.

Your reading comprehension is really off. But it seems like I hit a nerve there, it's okay😉

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lol - my reading comprehension is really off - so typical it's uncanny! oh no I read you loud and clear - and yes, the way you come across is like that - and perhaps that is part of the problem - of course it hits a nerve - a nerve I won't pluck again because I've been there and I don't go back to pet a rabid dog that has already bitten me

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Asking him would mean telling him I love him but he might run for the hils if i admit that. So I'd rather a lil advice first lol (above)
Why, yiu can just tell him you are interested and would like to know where he stands. No need to say such things at this stage. Plus, for me hearing these words without having established a real deep connection and withiut having seen it in your actions would be a huge turn off
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Thanks this was a big help ??

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They can be at your feet or leave you begging at their feet. ...*lone tear drop falling from my eye*....
never beg for a Pisces ...
Girl you salty AF get over your Pisces ex and stop having womens scorn and hating on all Pisceans. For a Capricorn moon you aint so composed
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you all up in the koolaid kiddo, maybe you'll be better when you grow up
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They're very sensitive, and so most of them have had to hide themselves to some extent. That makes them tricksy in unpredictable ways. Sometimes they can hide an entirely different opinion of you than the one you know about, moreso than some others. And the addiction thing is true for many. Although many of them believe they are beyond limiting concepts like "addiction."
Hide? Eva looks left, right, up, down, front, then back, uh, we don't HIDE....Cancerians do! All you see is their beady eyes after they crawl back into their shell! 😆

🤗 cyber hugs!

Love,

Eva

What you meant to say is we are MUTABLE!


Hi Eva! You definitely don't hide. Your Pisces nature is bright and obvious! I don't know many Pisces sun women, but I've met a few of the men. The men are the ones I've seen hiding their true natures. I think it's easier to be a Pisces woman than a Pisces man since it's more acceptable for women to be empathetic and mutable.

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Yep! Thanks Doll..! 😄 I LOVE being Piscean! 🤗 cyber hugs!

Love,

Eva

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My Pisces brother talks of his guilty feelings and his lonliness and how he has failed in life.

After several emails (and all the sorrow and desperation I got) it comes out he has a new gf and my uncle organized a birthday celebration for him.

I bet he's still inside keeping the hope that his ex comes back to him. why else does he talk so dark when he has a gf?
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So apparently you guys are a dream come true at first, but soon the other foot drops. This is from what I keep reading. So I'm fascinated to know....what is the darker, more real side of pisces that you experience in relationships? Surely it can't be all candy coated poems and romance.
candy coated poems are for suckers
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love is for suckers .lol

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Posted by Shadowcat
In a nutshell. They're liars, delusional and emotionally manipulative lol.
we are not ALL liars but most of us are

delusional at times and emotionally manipulative ( but in the best possible way imho)

like we will try to emotionally manipulate you to spend time with us and not to try and necessarily get things from you.

I did this with my dad the other day.

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We are real and honest. Wtf else is there to know? We give you a million chances, you blow them all and we finally say no enough is enough. you can fuck with us and we take it for a long time. .we're suckers who fall for liars. We get shit on cuz we're real and sensitive we get taken advantage of very easily. We are scapegoats.
That too. They see the good in even the criminal. They suppress their own needs and mold them to the other. They allow themselves to be bullied.

They are scapegoated. They don't flee when someone says ..you did something wrong. They innocently say ..who i? Oh I am sorry. Even if it was not them. They think because the other person FEELS it was wrong...that it must be on some level.

They don't get just because a person really feels something. It does not mean they are justified in feeling it. They therefore end up being the support system for a lot of unstable people. They give them money time energy shelter.

Then they realize and walk away easily because it wasn't their needs they were fulfilling. It was the other persons.
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So so so so very true.

The piscean manifesto.

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In a nutshell. They're liars, delusional and emotionally manipulative lol.
They can be. I think less so than cancers though. They have a wide eyedness to them. Scorpios are not usually delusional ...but can manipulate better but rarely.

Scorpios are the champions of manipulation.
True. But they don't do it often. And I have seen it bite them back.
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Depends on the scorpio.

A Scorpio with multiple dominant Scorpio placements and or a Gemini moon ......

really anyone with a Gemini moon should not be trusted lol

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He said he loved me after a week. Is that shit normal for you guys—
I get told this by other signs. No one knows you after a week. They're either in love with the idea of you - their imagination filling too much in, or they're trying to get in your pants.
He's probably in love with the idea of me. We are long distance so it's not like he can get in my pants anytime soon lol. It scared me a bit. He's very intense, knows what I'm doing and what colors I'm wearing. It's wild. Never connected with someone on this level before.
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Sounds like a Pisces with a Scorpio moon and or Mars.lol

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Posted by SirB2
this is a bad sign altogether.

And of course, it's never their fault.

People reading this should read every single post and use it wisely because it's pretty accurate. I dont suggest anyone get in any relationship with a Pisces. Unless you have a death wish. Because you want to just kill yourself.



-a Capricorn.


actually I didn't want to kill myself - I just wanted to run away, far far away ...which I did and I'm so glad ...
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Don't lose faith. We are not all bad I promise.lol

which says a lot about me becaue I've been burned really bad from dealing with Pisces...namely my mother!

But I guess it helps that I am myself also a Pisces. My morals is really the only thing I have.Character is rare these days amongst the masses but it does still exist.

Said a Pisces Sun

venus in Taurus

Libra/Scorpio moon cusp

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Posted by SomeSortOfMermaid
This thread is too predictable.

OP asks question.

Pisceans give honest answers.

Scorned ex partners that are not pisceans give bitter answers.

Said answers by pisceans get ignored.





In all honesty, beside rotten apples (cheating/leeches etc), the main problem with pisceans and their partners is that the other party assume they can mold the Pisces into whatever they want the Pisces to be. It never works.

This thread proves it too, because all you see from other parties is admissions of how horrible the ex was. No mention of any contributing behaviour on their part whatsoever.

Being with a Pisces requires someone that is considerate and thoughtful, and majority of people simply are too self absorbed to try and understand our ways. Pisceans aren't that hard to get. But it takes truly caring to read between the lines. I doubt Pisceans get many partners that care enough about us, rather than what we can do for them.
Preach!

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Astrology is funny.

First you have CC on our boards for years with as many if not more of these messages against Virgos.

Now HER opposite sign goes on OUR opposite sign board and does the same.

I think you guys should hook up.
fkc you and CC.

Virgos are awesome a lot better than your stupid selfish, parasite, depending assssssses

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I'm a Virgo...
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this is a bad sign altogether.

And of course, it's never their fault.

People reading this should read every single post and use it wisely because it's pretty accurate. I dont suggest anyone get in any relationship with a Pisces. Unless you have a death wish. Because you want to just kill yourself.



-a Capricorn.


actually I didn't want to kill myself - I just wanted to run away, far far away ...which I did and I'm so glad ...
Don't lose faith. We are not all bad I promise.lol

which says a lot about me becaue I've been burned really bad from dealing with Pisces...namely my mother!

But I guess it helps that I am myself also a Pisces. My morals is really the only thing I have.Character is rare these days amongst the masses but it does still exist.

Said a Pisces Sun

venus in Taurus

Libra/Scorpio moon cusp

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I haven't lost faith. I get along with female Pisces just fine. Love um. It's the males. Prior to meeting my ex I had known several male Pisces platonically that were born between 3/2 and 3/7 - one was my older brother - and I could not stand to be around them - they totally annoyed the F out of me - so I was cautious when I met him but he "seemed" different. He was a bit different. But after a few years things changed. The only time we really and truly got along well was when we travelled together. It was all fun and games then. The intimacy died as well very early and I mean died. When you don't have that it's just like living with a sibling and that doesn't work for me either. Thanks!

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Posted by Gob_Shite
Everyone has a dark side.

However, I have to admit that most Piscean men I've come across tend to be douchebags...


I found it so odd though that I only knew Pisces men born between say like 3/2 and 3/7 ish - a brother, an ex bf, and several co-workers - all across several years - honestly the very same way they annoyed me during interaction was so very similar that I had to look up their sign and I found they were all born 3/2 to 3/7 Pisces Suns. Yes, that was too much of an indicator for me to ignore. Then I married one WTF. But he seeded different in some way at first. I don't know male Pisces other than during those dates. At least not to my knowledge.
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Everyone has a dark side.

However, I have to admit that most Piscean men I've come across tend to be douchebags...


I found it so odd though that I only knew Pisces men born between say like 3/2 and 3/7 ish - a brother, an ex bf, and several co-workers - all across several years - honestly the very same way they annoyed me during interaction was so very similar that I had to look up their sign and I found they were all born 3/2 to 3/7 Pisces Suns. Yes, that was too much of an indicator for me to ignore. Then I married one WTF. But he seeded different in some way at first. I don't know male Pisces other than during those dates. At least not to my knowledge.

I've never gelled with Piscean men, for reasons unknown to me. Their lousy attitude has no rhyme or reason. I can only assume that my Pisces moon affects them in some negative way.

*shrugs*

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well you have ammo with your moon ... with my co-workers in particular I do recall that it was my grounded logic that baffled them - they just seemed to be blowing bubbles - go figure



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I think a lot of these poor poor people who are giving negative comments about us either we were simply incompatible or the Pisces was not really mature enough to give them what they wanted, idk I had issues and hurt guys when I was younger, earth signs do like me I've seen over the years, but the only sign ive ever really felt relaxed and comfortable around is a Scorpio I worked closely with, it was soo easy and comfortable, my husband comes close but not quite the same.

Its better to be with a Pisces when they are more mature, over 30/35 I would say. Just my opinion ?
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And earth signs are cut and dried which I love, we see reality slightly differently to them but its a little ignorant to suggest reality is completely non existent, we just deal with it differently, if someone is so small minded to listen and learn how we 'tick' and deal with things, then the confusion and disrespect begins, then you will see our dark side ?
I really don't care about your dark side

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Im pisces male. Im honest and straight forward. I dont play games. I can see right through you, I know when your lying or telling the truth. I know what your real motivation is and what your true intentions are. Im not a cheat or promiscous. I cant speak for all pisces because we are all so different.

My dark side only shows when it needs to. If you keep hurting me or harrassing me, ill tell you the truth about yourself. Ill shred you to pieces with my tounge and make you feel the size of a grain of sand, no holds barred. If it contunues you will be removed completely from my life, including any benefits that I have been giving you.

Drugs and alchohol are also one of our downfalls. I was a heavy drinker for 20 years and I admit, drinking ruined my life and relationship with my aries wife.

I have removed my head from my butt and dont mess with anything but marijuanna nowdays.

You all need to remember that maybe the darkside of your pisces is actually the effects of whatever drugs they are on. I know that alcohol abuse made me do some wierd stuff, It made me do things I normally wouldnt have.
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Im pisces male. Im honest and straight forward. I dont play games. I can see right through you, I know when your lying or telling the truth. I know what your real motivation is and what your true intentions are. Im not a cheat or promiscous. I cant speak for all pisces because we are all so different.

My dark side only shows when it needs to. If you keep hurting me or harrassing me, ill tell you the truth about yourself. Ill shred you to pieces with my tounge and make you feel the size of a grain of sand, no holds barred. If it contunues you will be removed completely from my life, including any benefits that I have been giving you.

Drugs and alchohol are also one of our downfalls. I was a heavy drinker for 20 years and I admit, drinking ruined my life and relationship with my aries wife.

I have removed my head from my butt and dont mess with anything but marijuanna nowdays.

You all need to remember that maybe the darkside of your pisces is actually the effects of whatever drugs they are on. I know that alcohol abuse made me do some wierd stuff, It made me do things I normally wouldnt have.
10/10 me too. Can confirm can be mean af (even though it hurts each second that i am)
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Posted by Shadowcat
In a nutshell. They're liars, delusional and emotionally manipulative lol.
I have to say, being a Pisces myself, calling me, and all others of my sign, liars really offends me. Pisces I have as friends are some of the most honest and genuine people I know. I myself am notorious for being honest, brutally so, and I am regarded as someone who can be trusted. Delusional? As far as I know, I am not deluded. I am aware of my flaws, my strengths and I know who likes and doesn't like me, etc. Pisces I know are very much the same. Emotionally manipulative? I have to give that a yes in my book, although I have an aptitude for it, I seldom ever use it. In my experience, Cancers are pretty bad for it.

But I have to ask, how did you come to that opinion of us? Was it personal experience? Not all pisces are like you say and not all are like me or my friends, so I ask you how you came to this opinion of us?
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We are real and honest. Wtf else is there to know? We give you a million chances, you blow them all and we finally say no enough is enough. you can fuck with us and we take it for a long time. .we're suckers who fall for liars. We get shit on cuz we're real and sensitive we get taken advantage of very easily. We are scapegoats.

Dam no wonder the Sun Scorpio can't help me when i have the Moon Pisces ;_;

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Ive always thought Scorpios and Pisces were similar anyway...