@Wynter
15 Years10,000+ Posts
OMG *drools all over the k/b*
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Helllllss yes 😛
Sometimes I find scorpio friends to be very high maintenance friends, I can't keep it up indefinitely, only short periods. Call me a flake if you must. And I have had the same situation where I was so "close" (in the scorp's eyes) to them, when in actuality I was not thinking it was as "close" as a friendship as they did. Drifting took place.
It gets to the point that I can't handle the constant-ness from the scorpio. Even with some time off.... it always is in the back of my mind not to get too close, because I'm not willing to be that pinned down.
Sometimes friendships run their course. And that to me sounds like what happened with you and the pisces.
That is just me. I'm not saying this is how all pisces feel about scorp friends, but.... take it for how you will.
Question is why are you chasing after someone who is treating you like this? Wtf makes her so desirable when she's basically telling you to fuck off? She's not interested. Go find someone who is.
I would like to thank all of you for your input , I will stick to your advice and stay away from her maybe this way I can keep what is left from our friendship
That's all well and fine WxW - but I think what the fish here are trying to say is.... nothing is fixed and for certain. Even if she did start everything, she appears to feel like moving on for the time being. All you can do at this point is wait to see if she comes back around - and... decide if you want to have someone like this involved in your life. It won't necessarily change, so make sure you have that clear in your head and accept it for what it is. If you're ok with it, continue the friendship. If you need more commitment and constancy probably not the best choice with her.
Best of luck! For what it's worth, I don't think you did anything to necessarily push her away. It just "is what it is at this moment in time" - where you seem to be expecting it to stay the way that it always was and deepen from there. It may, or may not. Right now seems like it isn't going to go that way.
My birthday is February 27th! Woot! So let me tell you, when I walk away from a person it's because they have done something I find completely illogical....in my mind. And I have done this to people I've known for years. So methinks at some point you did something annoying, stupid,or utterly nonsensical. I can tolerate a lot, put up with a lot, and make a concerted effort to understand someone, but when said person does something that makes no fucking sense- I'm out, and I don't care who you are.
Yes , the way she was dealing with me gave me the impression that we are moving in the right track that's why I was faithful with her and so caring
I admit its my fault, I took things quickly, I should have been paatient and keep things moving on its own.
I will update you if anything happens . Thanks again
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Aries, Pisces, whatever. They're all strange.