@SPUNKYTAURUS
9 Years1,000+ Posts
ARE YOU A SUB OR DOM?
Understanding Sub and Dom Dynamics in Relationships
In relationships, a sub is someone who prefers to submit or be guided, while a dom enjoys taking control or leading. These roles are based on mutual consent and communication, often reflecting personal preferences or energetic dynamics rather than BDSM practices. Recognizing your tendencies can enhance relationship harmony and personal fulfillment.
I like a man to take charge....up to a point. When it seems controlling it makes me rebellious.
Posted by CrabbyAJ
I like a man to take charge....up to a point. When it seems controlling it makes me rebellious.
Makes sense and I totally agree with this
i'm a dom.
I'm a dom, but expect my women to take control and suprise me from time to time.
Posted by Soul
I'm a dom, but expect my women to take control and suprise me from time to time.
What's your sign?
Posted by starwars
dynamics are bs.
Please enlighten me MR. VIRGO lol
Posted by earlorg16
i'm a dom.
The Taurus male bull... why of course lol
Posted by lionspark
a wannabe sub
—? same here
1000000% dom nothing else will ever work great, intense, passionate, deep, emotional sex or nothing else.
Posted by Soul
I'm a dom, but expect my women to take control and suprise me from time to time.What's your sign?
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Leo sun, Scorpio moon.
Posted by Soul
I'm a dom, but expect my women to take control and suprise me from time to time.What's your sign?
Leo sun, Scorpio moon.
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What a combination and that Scorpio moon ... same as my mars, love to explore everything with sex.
Posted by Sp17
1000000% dom nothing else will ever work great, intense, passionate, deep, emotional sex or nothing else.
Are you a Scorpio ?
I'm a switch.
Posted by TheSagLady_
In a relationship sense?A demanding sub ??
Like i secretly want and like to be controlled..
Where's my twin on this @saggurl88 ?
—?
Triplets cause I think that's exactly how I feel ?
Posted by Ram416
I'm a switch.
Yep... total Aries right there ?
Posted by TemporaryKodak
I'm patrick
You're frozen Patrick.
Posted by TemporaryKodak
I'm patrick
—?? I'm crying laughing
Posted by ruscovaxx
Hmm. ?Switch, when I'm drinking I'm 100% dom though. I get so aggressive. ?
Like your alter ego jumped out in full force ??
Posted by NappTune
Straight Up DOM
I heard that through this post ??
Posted by SPUNKYTAURUS
Not in the bdsm sense but in relationship sense?
Your boobs.
Posted by SPUNKYTAURUS
Not in the bdsm sense but in relationship sense?Your boobs.
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? Are real
Posted by earlorg16
i'm a dom.Why do people have to lie on here? You're no dom, maybe you dominate when it comes to picking out fabrics and cooking.
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—?? I can't deal with it, I'm cracking up yo
Posted by SPUNKYTAURUS
Not in the bdsm sense but in relationship sense?Your boobs.
? Are real
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😄
Posted by earlorg16
i'm a dom.Why do people have to lie on here? You're no dom, maybe you dominate when it comes to picking out fabrics and cooking.
—?? I can't deal with it, I'm cracking up yo
Live in your truth, lol. And hello new face. ?
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Thank you ?
Posted by earlorg16
i'm a dom.Why do people have to lie on here? You're no dom, maybe you dominate when it comes to picking out fabrics and cooking.
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You wrong.
Posted by Sp17
1000000% dom nothing else will ever work great, intense, passionate, deep, emotional sex or nothing else.Are you a Scorpio ?
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Nope. Virgo. Scorpio Venus and Scorpio Mars 1st house if that makes any difference
Sub typically, in the sense that I'm mutable enough to shrug and go along with it, but I also have very strong opinions and if you try to quiet me w/o even hearing me out I'll go off.
Not a doormat
For me?
Both...a Sub and a Dom....
My Sun Taurus wants to be mahandled.
But my Venus in Aries wants him to bow down bitch!
Both. I would like a guy to be a bit of both as well.
Posted by CrabbyAJ
I like a man to take charge....up to a point. When it seems controlling it makes me rebellious.
This!
Sub. My man is the Dom. I do get rebellious though ??
In case you were wondering.
I'm a Virgo sun, Pisces moon, cancer Mars, scorpio Venus and rising.
He's a scorpio sun, Mars, and rising. Libra moon, Virgo Venus.
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Not in the bdsm sense but in relationship sense?