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Hey all,

Most of you know whats happened in my relationship lately.

I have acted stupid and out of order same as my partner.

I am in the wrong no doubt the same as she is.

I need a little advice one last time on what to do.

Last night I had a tarot reading I got the following- Tower card / Hermit card / Moon card I this come up twice. /8 of swords with a girl around them / lovers card / reversed Devil card/ the high priest card/ The magician card/ 3 of swords and the hangman.

If any of you understand this then it would be good to hear you also.

However my big question is with my Gem partner right now she is acting suppsious lately keeping her phone close to her side when she leaves the room yeah she has told me on a few occasions to go and get it for her if it's up stairs and she down etc.

She has this male friend at the gym there's a big group of them anyway.

This male friend has been texting her back and forward all our relationship but not very often.

Lately since Gem hasn't explained all the texts messages that she opened of mine in the middle of the night and didn't reply to me. This friend of hers has been non stop texting her back and forwards as he is going through a bad time with his wife and he has told her that he wants a divorce.

He is 43 and my partner is 29.

I am asking her about this alot lately as it's making me question if they are getting close.

My reading told me that I should be alone and rebuild myself and not all I lost with my gem.

I need to work on myself I know that but how do I tell gem without hurting her.

I have been advised to tell her I have stuff to do and then cut commincation with her as she will notice the shift in energy because right now she isn't listing to me.

Does anyone have advice on what I should do and a good way to do its obviously not all lost between us and I am advised to take a step back because I need to change myself but I was also advice to watch her and her friend.

The problem I have is I am suppose to be going on a camping trip with her and her children the end of the week and she is saying she is excited for it.

She has been online on her phone while speaking to me and then other people and when I asked her she now responds with does it matter I don't ask you etc.

I would not usually care but at this moment I am feeling very insecure about me and her from the time she was blanking me and now keeping her phone close to her and slowing down on commincation with me.

I was told if I do not change myself she could end up in another's arms hence the 3 of swords.

I am also told she has secrets that aren't yet reviled but will be.

Guys I ask you once more to help me I am listing now.
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Posted by MyStarsShine

The Hermit = self reflection/alone time

3 swords = separation and heartache (sometimes 3rd person)

Devil = unhealthy attachments/obsessions

Outcome - surrender the situation to the

Universe

The Tower+The Devil: possible violence or abuse

The Moon+The Lovers+The Devil: clandestine relationship



Unless you’re a complete masochist

Back off....


@MyStarsShin Thank you and What completely back off with no communication and why ?
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Posted by MyStarsShine

The Hermit = self reflection/alone time

3 swords = separation and heartache (sometimes 3rd person)

Devil = unhealthy attachments/obsessions

Outcome - surrender the situation to the

Universe

The Tower+The Devil: possible violence or abuse

The Moon+The Lovers+The Devil: clandestine relationship



Unless you’re a complete masochist

Back off....


@MyStarsShine

What do you mean also by clandestine relationship please ?.
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Posted by Centaur12
Posted by MyStarsShine

The Hermit = self reflection/alone time

3 swords = separation and heartache (sometimes 3rd person)

Devil = unhealthy attachments/obsessions

Outcome - surrender the situation to the

Universe

The Tower+The Devil: possible violence or abuse

The Moon+The Lovers+The Devil: clandestine relationship



Unless you’re a complete masochist

Back off....

@MyStarsShine

What do you mean also by clandestine relationship please ?.
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Secretive, illicit
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Posted by Centaur12
Posted by MyStarsShine

The Hermit = self reflection/alone time

3 swords = separation and heartache (sometimes 3rd person)

Devil = unhealthy attachments/obsessions

Outcome - surrender the situation to the

Universe

The Tower+The Devil: possible violence or abuse

The Moon+The Lovers+The Devil: clandestine relationship



Unless you’re a complete masochist

Back off....

@MyStarsShine

What do you mean also by clandestine relationship please ?.
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Secretive, illicit
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Posted by Centaur12
Posted by MyStarsShine

The Hermit = self reflection/alone time

3 swords = separation and heartache (sometimes 3rd person)

Devil = unhealthy attachments/obsessions

Outcome - surrender the situation to the

Universe

The Tower+The Devil: possible violence or abuse

The Moon+The Lovers+The Devil: clandestine relationship



Unless you’re a complete masochist

Back off....

@MyStarsShin Thank you and What completely back off with no communication and why ?
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Because the cards are strong warnings

You can’t get any worse than

Devil+Tower+Moon+3 swords+8 swords
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Posted by MyStarsShine
Posted by Centaur12
Posted by MyStarsShine

The Hermit = self reflection/alone time

3 swords = separation and heartache (sometimes 3rd person)

Devil = unhealthy attachments/obsessions

Outcome - surrender the situation to the

Universe

The Tower+The Devil: possible violence or abuse

The Moon+The Lovers+The Devil: clandestine relationship



Unless you’re a complete masochist

Back off....

@MyStarsShine

What do you mean also by clandestine relationship please ?.

Secretive, illicit
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So in other words she could be up to no good behind my back and keeping it a secret.
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Posted by Centaur12
Posted by MyStarsShine
Posted by Centaur12
Posted by MyStarsShine

The Hermit = self reflection/alone time

3 swords = separation and heartache (sometimes 3rd person)

Devil = unhealthy attachments/obsessions

Outcome - surrender the situation to the

Universe

The Tower+The Devil: possible violence or abuse

The Moon+The Lovers+The Devil: clandestine relationship



Unless you’re a complete masochist

Back off....

@MyStarsShine

What do you mean also by clandestine relationship please ?.

Secretive, illicit

So in other words she could be up to no good behind my back and keeping it a secret.
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The Devil and the Moon : a strongly antagonistic situation, implying deceit by another.
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Posted by MyStarsShine
Posted by Centaur12
Posted by MyStarsShine
Posted by Centaur12
Posted by MyStarsShine

The Hermit = self reflection/alone time

3 swords = separation and heartache (sometimes 3rd person)

Devil = unhealthy attachments/obsessions

Outcome - surrender the situation to the

Universe

The Tower+The Devil: possible violence or abuse

The Moon+The Lovers+The Devil: clandestine relationship



Unless you’re a complete masochist

Back off....

@MyStarsShine

What do you mean also by clandestine relationship please ?.

Secretive, illicit

So in other words she could be up to no good behind my back and keeping it a secret.

The Devil and the Moon : a strongly antagonistic situation, implying deceit by another.
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Yes does this mean she has cheated though or is going to ?
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Posted by Centaur12
Posted by MyStarsShine
Posted by Centaur12
Posted by MyStarsShine
Posted by Centaur12
Posted by MyStarsShine

The Hermit = self reflection/alone time

3 swords = separation and heartache (sometimes 3rd person)

Devil = unhealthy attachments/obsessions

Outcome - surrender the situation to the

Universe

The Tower+The Devil: possible violence or abuse

The Moon+The Lovers+The Devil: clandestine relationship



Unless you’re a complete masochist

Back off....

@MyStarsShine

What do you mean also by clandestine relationship please ?.

Secretive, illicit

So in other words she could be up to no good behind my back and keeping it a secret.

The Devil and the Moon : a strongly antagonistic situation, implying deceit by another.

Yes does this mean she has cheated though or is going to ?
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If things continue the way they are. Which makes sense even without tarot.

Your relationship is falling apart so someone goes elsewhere or begins to talk to someone else🤷

Stop clinging to her in desperation. You say you value her independent nature yet don't show respect for it by allowing her to choose want she wants freely.

Let go of your troubles within your relationship on the trip. Remember the energy and feeling of being each others company before the bullshit?

Enjoy each other's company without conditions and judgement. What she is actually asking you for.

It's not turning back the clock. It's remembering what is really important.
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Posted by Centaur12
Posted by MyStarsShine
Posted by Centaur12
Posted by MyStarsShine
Posted by Centaur12
Posted by MyStarsShine

The Hermit = self reflection/alone time

3 swords = separation and heartache (sometimes 3rd person)

Devil = unhealthy attachments/obsessions

Outcome - surrender the situation to the

Universe

The Tower+The Devil: possible violence or abuse

The Moon+The Lovers+The Devil: clandestine relationship



Unless you’re a complete masochist

Back off....

@MyStarsShine

What do you mean also by clandestine relationship please ?.

Secretive, illicit

So in other words she could be up to no good behind my back and keeping it a secret.

The Devil and the Moon : a strongly antagonistic situation, implying deceit by another.

Yes does this mean she has cheated though or is going to ?
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Either/or
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I mean tarot cards aside, she's clearly not feeling the relationship nearly as much as before if at all. The fact that she's going back and forth with another dude and not being as responsive to you as she used to be is a big sign she's over the whole thing and wants it to be over. He's telling her he wants to divorce his wife, which to me honestly shouldn't be any of her business but the fact that he's telling her that is a big red flag too. Save yourself the headache and just leave her. The relationship is over.
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To say you're going to change to prevent someone from cheating is ridiculous. You can not control what someone will or will not do. If she cheats it's a reflection of either:

1) her character

2) the fact that you built a relationship on a weak foundation (e.g. began with deception, deceit, insecurities).

Or both.

Quite frankly, the second issue is what began to dismantle your relationship before it even really began and it continues to erode it every day.
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Posted by Centaur12

...help me I am listing now.

Funny, you write this^^^

You received this in response:
Posted by MyStarsShine

The Hermit = self reflection/alone time

3 swords = separation and heartache (sometimes 3rd person)

Devil = unhealthy attachments/obsessions

Outcome - surrender the situation to the

Universe

Unless you’re a complete masochist

Back off....

And not even 24 hours later you already asking this:
Posted by Centaur12

You said there is a way to get her how do I do this and I will do it ?
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Posted by Centaur12

...help me I am listing now.

Funny, you write this^^^

You received this in response:
Posted by MyStarsShine

The Hermit = self reflection/alone time

3 swords = separation and heartache (sometimes 3rd person)

Devil = unhealthy attachments/obsessions

Outcome - surrender the situation to the

Universe

Unless you’re a complete masochist

Back off....

And not even 24 hours later you already asking this:
Posted by Centaur12

You said there is a way to get her how do I do this and I will do it ?

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Seems i wasted my time and energy lol

🥴
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Posted by MyStarsShine
Posted by PhoenixRising
Posted by Centaur12

...help me I am listing now.

Funny, you write this^^^

You received this in response:
Posted by MyStarsShine

The Hermit = self reflection/alone time

3 swords = separation and heartache (sometimes 3rd person)

Devil = unhealthy attachments/obsessions

Outcome - surrender the situation to the

Universe

Unless you’re a complete masochist

Back off....

And not even 24 hours later you already asking this:
Posted by Centaur12

You said there is a way to get her how do I do this and I will do it ?

Seems i wasted my time and energy lol

🥴
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Pretty much.
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You my friend are way too obsessed with this Gemini woman...The cards never lie..This is going to end in heartbreak....Yours.

You said there is a way to get her how do I do this and I will do it ?
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Disappear...Reinvent yourself, and work on your self esteem, and then come back a stronger man...This is the only way.
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He does this all the time.. for 1-2 days...if that, and thinks it’s worked because she welcomes him back. He doesn’t have it in him to do it. He’d addicted To the drama and her and she is addicted to the attention she gets from him.... until she starts getting it from someone else.

This is not the last thread of this addictively frustrating relationship drama.
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He does this all the time.. for 1-2 days...if that, and thinks it’s worked because she welcomes him back. He doesn’t have it in him to do it. He’d addicted To the drama and her and she is addicted to the attention she gets from him.... until she starts getting it from someone else.

This is not the last thread of this addictively frustrating relationship drama.


I have done this for 1-2days you are right.

The thing is I don't want to hurt her at all I don't have that in me however what could I do instead if she offers me back to her do I just completely stop all contact with her and for how long ? I don't think it's fair to dissappear without explanation.
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She's told me we are over because I didn't invite her to my familys day out when my sisters has there partners there but she told me she was doing her garden today and also I didn't invite her because my sister and her don't get along and my sister said don't bring her as she won't be happy and there will be an atmosphere. I was trying to think of her and now she is saying I don't have her back and I am choosing my sister over her its aload of bullshit.

She made a rod for her own back when she was trying to control my family by telling them my ex who I have children with could no longer see any of my family members and that's is what caused my sister and her to fall out I the first place and now she is calling me a piece of shit and that I am nothing to her . I'm done
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She's told me we are over because I didn't invite her to my familys day out when my sisters has there partners there but she told me she was doing her garden today and also I didn't invite her because my sister and her don't get along and my sister said don't bring her as she won't be happy and there will be an atmosphere. I was trying to think of her and now she is saying I don't have her back and I am choosing my sister over her its aload of bullshit.

She made a rod for her own back when she was trying to control my family by telling them my ex who I have children with could no longer see any of my family members and that's is what caused my sister and her to fall out I the first place and now she is calling me a piece of shit and that I am nothing to her . I'm done

For now, you are? This thread or a new thread about her will be bumped up though. Rinse and repeat. Relationships should not be so much work that you have to post and ask for advice about them.
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Yet I also caught her out lying to me about buying this guy friend from gym a birthday present because I asked do they buy eachother birthday presents and she said no to my face so lied. 😐
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Posted by MyStarsShine
Posted by Centaur12
Posted by MyStarsShine

The Hermit = self reflection/alone time

3 swords = separation and heartache (sometimes 3rd person)

Devil = unhealthy attachments/obsessions

Outcome - surrender the situation to the

Universe

The Tower+The Devil: possible violence or abuse

The Moon+The Lovers+The Devil: clandestine relationship



Unless you’re a complete masochist

Back off....

@MyStarsShin Thank you and What completely back off with no communication and why ?

Because the cards are strong warnings

You can’t get any worse than

Devil+Tower+Moon+3 swords+8 swords

👆 this

You basically had all the worst card for a relationship spread lmao 😆

What's making you stay is your emotional addiction to pain. Nothing else.
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I just really love her as a person deep down but it's opened my eyes massively tonight especially her saying I am a piece of shit and I'm nothing to her.
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Posted by Centaur12
Posted by Sagoxa
Posted by MyStarsShine
Posted by Centaur12
Posted by MyStarsShine

The Hermit = self reflection/alone time

3 swords = separation and heartache (sometimes 3rd person)

Devil = unhealthy attachments/obsessions

Outcome - surrender the situation to the

Universe

The Tower+The Devil: possible violence or abuse

The Moon+The Lovers+The Devil: clandestine relationship



Unless you’re a complete masochist

Back off....

@MyStarsShin Thank you and What completely back off with no communication and why ?

Because the cards are strong warnings

You can’t get any worse than

Devil+Tower+Moon+3 swords+8 swords

👆 this

You basically had all the worst card for a relationship spread lmao 😆

What's making you stay is your emotional addiction to pain. Nothing else.

I just really love her as a person deep down but it's opened my eyes massively tonight especially her saying I am a piece of shit and I'm nothing to her.

I wouldnt say love. I'd say it's an addiction. Youre addicted to the roller coaster. You're trauma bonded.

Buddy we just had an eclipse in our sign, it isnt surprising to find the tower there. Be grateful that the Divine had intervened. You dodged a missile here.

You got the devil in reversed right? Whatever happened, it's releasing you from the devil's claw. But you got to feel the pain.

And instead of trying to analyze and over think it like a hermit would, tap into you jupiterian energy that sees lessons in every situation.. you're being led into the right direction here.
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When lead in the right direction do you mean away from her ?

Looks like the cards could be right.
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Posted by Centaur12
Posted by Sagoxa
Posted by Centaur12
Posted by Sagoxa
Posted by MyStarsShine
Posted by Centaur12
Posted by MyStarsShine

The Hermit = self reflection/alone time

3 swords = separation and heartache (sometimes 3rd person)

Devil = unhealthy attachments/obsessions

Outcome - surrender the situation to the

Universe

The Tower+The Devil: possible violence or abuse

The Moon+The Lovers+The Devil: clandestine relationship



Unless you’re a complete masochist

Back off....

@MyStarsShin Thank you and What completely back off with no communication and why ?

Because the cards are strong warnings

You can’t get any worse than

Devil+Tower+Moon+3 swords+8 swords

👆 this

You basically had all the worst card for a relationship spread lmao 😆

What's making you stay is your emotional addiction to pain. Nothing else.

I just really love her as a person deep down but it's opened my eyes massively tonight especially her saying I am a piece of shit and I'm nothing to her.

I wouldnt say love. I'd say it's an addiction. Youre addicted to the roller coaster. You're trauma bonded.

Buddy we just had an eclipse in our sign, it isnt surprising to find the tower there. Be grateful that the Divine had intervened. You dodged a missile here.

You got the devil in reversed right? Whatever happened, it's releasing you from the devil's claw. But you got to feel the pain.

And instead of trying to analyze and over think it like a hermit would, tap into you jupiterian energy that sees lessons in every situation.. you're being led into the right direction here.

When lead in the right direction do you mean away from her ?

Looks like the cards could be right.
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The cards never lie ~

“The Devil reversed can indicate a close call with the type of negative, abusive or dangerous person described in the upright meaning. It can also indicate that previously you may have felt you were stuck with being single or were so desperately seeking someone to love you that you were prepared to put up anything. However, you are starting to become more aware of yourself and how this behaviour has been hindering your search for love. You may need to take a step back from dating for while to just start enjoying the freedom of only having yourself to answer to that being single brings. With this new attitude emerging, the right partner won’t be far behind so relax and enjoy this time“
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Posted by Centaur12
Posted by Sagoxa
Posted by Centaur12
Posted by Sagoxa
Posted by MyStarsShine
Posted by Centaur12
Posted by MyStarsShine

The Hermit = self reflection/alone time

3 swords = separation and heartache (sometimes 3rd person)

Devil = unhealthy attachments/obsessions

Outcome - surrender the situation to the

Universe

The Tower+The Devil: possible violence or abuse

The Moon+The Lovers+The Devil: clandestine relationship



Unless you’re a complete masochist

Back off....

@MyStarsShin Thank you and What completely back off with no communication and why ?

Because the cards are strong warnings

You can’t get any worse than

Devil+Tower+Moon+3 swords+8 swords

👆 this

You basically had all the worst card for a relationship spread lmao 😆

What's making you stay is your emotional addiction to pain. Nothing else.

I just really love her as a person deep down but it's opened my eyes massively tonight especially her saying I am a piece of shit and I'm nothing to her.

I wouldnt say love. I'd say it's an addiction. Youre addicted to the roller coaster. You're trauma bonded.

Buddy we just had an eclipse in our sign, it isnt surprising to find the tower there. Be grateful that the Divine had intervened. You dodged a missile here.

You got the devil in reversed right? Whatever happened, it's releasing you from the devil's claw. But you got to feel the pain.

And instead of trying to analyze and over think it like a hermit would, tap into you jupiterian energy that sees lessons in every situation.. you're being led into the right direction here.

When lead in the right direction do you mean away from her ?

Looks like the cards could be right.

The cards never lie ~

“The Devil reversed can indicate a close call with the type of negative, abusive or dangerous person described in the upright meaning. It can also indicate that previously you may have felt you were stuck with being single or were so desperately seeking someone to love you that you were prepared to put up anything. However, you are starting to become more aware of yourself and how this behaviour has been hindering your search for love. You may need to take a step back from dating for while to just start enjoying the freedom of only having yourself to answer to that being single brings. With this new attitude emerging, the right partner won’t be far behind so relax and enjoy this time“
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Thank you @MyStarsShine 😊

We have broke up, I asked her to leave my stuff outside and she asked for the blow up bed for camping and told me she is going to look for someone else to go with her tomorrow for the week.

Disgusting how you can tell a person they are nothing to you!!! and your a peace of shit supposed to love them at the same time and also, says I am really really heart broken its all bullshit.
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Posted by MyStarsShine
Posted by Centaur12
Posted by Sagoxa
Posted by Centaur12
Posted by Sagoxa
Posted by MyStarsShine
Posted by Centaur12
Posted by MyStarsShine

The Hermit = self reflection/alone time

3 swords = separation and heartache (sometimes 3rd person)

Devil = unhealthy attachments/obsessions

Outcome - surrender the situation to the

Universe

The Tower+The Devil: possible violence or abuse

The Moon+The Lovers+The Devil: clandestine relationship



Unless you’re a complete masochist

Back off....

@MyStarsShin Thank you and What completely back off with no communication and why ?

Because the cards are strong warnings

You can’t get any worse than

Devil+Tower+Moon+3 swords+8 swords

👆 this

You basically had all the worst card for a relationship spread lmao 😆

What's making you stay is your emotional addiction to pain. Nothing else.

I just really love her as a person deep down but it's opened my eyes massively tonight especially her saying I am a piece of shit and I'm nothing to her.

I wouldnt say love. I'd say it's an addiction. Youre addicted to the roller coaster. You're trauma bonded.

Buddy we just had an eclipse in our sign, it isnt surprising to find the tower there. Be grateful that the Divine had intervened. You dodged a missile here.

You got the devil in reversed right? Whatever happened, it's releasing you from the devil's claw. But you got to feel the pain.

And instead of trying to analyze and over think it like a hermit would, tap into you jupiterian energy that sees lessons in every situation.. you're being led into the right direction here.

When lead in the right direction do you mean away from her ?

Looks like the cards could be right.

The cards never lie ~

“The Devil reversed can indicate a close call with the type of negative, abusive or dangerous person described in the upright meaning. It can also indicate that previously you may have felt you were stuck with being single or were so desperately seeking someone to love you that you were prepared to put up anything. However, you are starting to become more aware of yourself and how this behaviour has been hindering your search for love. You may need to take a step back from dating for while to just start enjoying the freedom of only having yourself to answer to that being single brings. With this new attitude emerging, the right partner won’t be far behind so relax and enjoy this time“

Thank you @MyStarsShine 😊

We have broke up, I asked her to leave my stuff outside and she asked for the blow up bed for camping and told me she is going to look for someone else to go with her tomorrow for the week.

Disgusting how you can tell a person they are nothing to you!!! and your a peace of shit supposed to love them at the same time and also, says I am really really heart broken its all bullshit.
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Try not to become embittered by the experience but let go for a better phase of your life

You may wish to keep that devil reversed description to read if ever you feel like going backwards....
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The Hermit = self reflection/alone time

3 swords = separation and heartache (sometimes 3rd person)

Devil = unhealthy attachments/obsessions

Outcome - surrender the situation to the

Universe

The Tower+The Devil: possible violence or abuse

The Moon+The Lovers+The Devil: clandestine relationship



Unless you’re a complete masochist

Back off....

@MyStarsShin Thank you and What completely back off with no communication and why ?

Because the cards are strong warnings

You can’t get any worse than

Devil+Tower+Moon+3 swords+8 swords

👆 this

You basically had all the worst card for a relationship spread lmao 😆

What's making you stay is your emotional addiction to pain. Nothing else.

I just really love her as a person deep down but it's opened my eyes massively tonight especially her saying I am a piece of shit and I'm nothing to her.

I wouldnt say love. I'd say it's an addiction. Youre addicted to the roller coaster. You're trauma bonded.

Buddy we just had an eclipse in our sign, it isnt surprising to find the tower there. Be grateful that the Divine had intervened. You dodged a missile here.

You got the devil in reversed right? Whatever happened, it's releasing you from the devil's claw. But you got to feel the pain.

And instead of trying to analyze and over think it like a hermit would, tap into you jupiterian energy that sees lessons in every situation.. you're being led into the right direction here.

When lead in the right direction do you mean away from her ?

Looks like the cards could be right.

The cards never lie ~

“The Devil reversed can indicate a close call with the type of negative, abusive or dangerous person described in the upright meaning. It can also indicate that previously you may have felt you were stuck with being single or were so desperately seeking someone to love you that you were prepared to put up anything. However, you are starting to become more aware of yourself and how this behaviour has been hindering your search for love. You may need to take a step back from dating for while to just start enjoying the freedom of only having yourself to answer to that being single brings. With this new attitude emerging, the right partner won’t be far behind so relax and enjoy this time“

Thank you @MyStarsShine 😊

We have broke up, I asked her to leave my stuff outside and she asked for the blow up bed for camping and told me she is going to look for someone else to go with her tomorrow for the week.

Disgusting how you can tell a person they are nothing to you!!! and your a peace of shit supposed to love them at the same time and also, says I am really really heart broken its all bullshit.

Try not to become embittered by the experience but let go for a better phase of your life

You may wish to keep that devil reversed description to read if ever you feel like going backwards....
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What going back to her she can jog in the opposite direction she's a terrible person.

Disgusting .

She wouldn't come back anyway too much water under the bridge.

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I went up to hers to get my stuff and she hasn't left it outside.

So I rang her and said wheres my stuff and she said oh you wanted your hoover and that didn't you and I said you you knew I was coming up she said sorry I forgot I can come back I will be 15 - 20 mins and I said no its okay let me know when your back and I will grab it just leave it outside and I will leave yours.
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My heart is bleeding 😢

I dropped the air bed off outside her house yesterday and picked up my hoover she did not leave it outside so I had to knock the door and she answered saying I am in a towel at the moment your stuffs behind the door do I grabbed it I didn't want to see her one bit.

I told her to get rid of the rest of the stuff I no longer want it and she said why am I being bitter like she's oblivious of her actions I left.

She said she has done nothing to me at all and text saying (so my hearts broken and your bitter) she does not care for me it's all bullshit.

She's going away today on the holiday we was supposed to go on together im just feeling a little hurt but I need to rise up and get myself motivated again to start the day with my girls I am going to take them to the beach and the fair ground.
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Posted by Centaur12

My heart is bleeding 😢

I dropped the air bed off outside her house yesterday and picked up my hoover she did not leave it outside so I had to knock the door and she answered saying I am in a towel at the moment your stuffs behind the door do I grabbed it I didn't want to see her one bit.

I told her to get rid of the rest of the stuff I no longer want it and she said why am I being bitter like she's oblivious of her actions I left.

She said she has done nothing to me at all and text saying (so my hearts broken and your bitter) she does not care for me it's all bullshit.

She's going away today on the holiday we was supposed to go on together im just feeling a little hurt but I need to rise up and get myself motivated again to start the day with my girls I am going to take them to the beach and the fair ground.

I'm sorry you're hurting.
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Oh and btw she's interested in someone but things arent moving between them. She did try tho lol..

What you think there is someone else but it just never happened ? What makes you say that ?

The cards

Assuming that the cards are rider waite based and that you're writing it in order.

I didnt say it will never happen. I said, she did try but it didnt work because the other guy was neutral or didnt reciprocate. But she made some sort of gesture..
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Okay what makes you think this?
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My heart is bleeding 😢

I dropped the air bed off outside her house yesterday and picked up my hoover she did not leave it outside so I had to knock the door and she answered saying I am in a towel at the moment your stuffs behind the door do I grabbed it I didn't want to see her one bit.

I told her to get rid of the rest of the stuff I no longer want it and she said why am I being bitter like she's oblivious of her actions I left.

She said she has done nothing to me at all and text saying (so my hearts broken and your bitter) she does not care for me it's all bullshit.

She's going away today on the holiday we was supposed to go on together im just feeling a little hurt but I need to rise up and get myself motivated again to start the day with my girls I am going to take them to the beach and the fair ground.

I'm sorry you're hurting.
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Thank you 😔
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My heart is bleeding 😢

I dropped the air bed off outside her house yesterday and picked up my hoover she did not leave it outside so I had to knock the door and she answered saying I am in a towel at the moment your stuffs behind the door do I grabbed it I didn't want to see her one bit.

I told her to get rid of the rest of the stuff I no longer want it and she said why am I being bitter like she's oblivious of her actions I left.

She said she has done nothing to me at all and text saying (so my hearts broken and your bitter) she does not care for me it's all bullshit.

She's going away today on the holiday we was supposed to go on together im just feeling a little hurt but I need to rise up and get myself motivated again to start the day with my girls I am going to take them to the beach and the fair ground.

I'm sorry you're hurting.
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Thank you 😔 I am gutted because not everything is bad about her and I just can't get the times and the laughs everything out of my head.
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Just concentrate on you, and your kids. Take steps in what’s good for you. Relationships well there are always good things to remember, just consider them memories. There are also reasons it didn’t work, good to remember those too. Sometimes it takes us awhile to really get it. And beating yourself up does no good, but learning from the lessons does.

Hang in there & hugs!
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My heart is bleeding 😢

I dropped the air bed off outside her house yesterday and picked up my hoover she did not leave it outside so I had to knock the door and she answered saying I am in a towel at the moment your stuffs behind the door do I grabbed it I didn't want to see her one bit.

I told her to get rid of the rest of the stuff I no longer want it and she said why am I being bitter like she's oblivious of her actions I left.

She said she has done nothing to me at all and text saying (so my hearts broken and your bitter) she does not care for me it's all bullshit.

She's going away today on the holiday we was supposed to go on together im just feeling a little hurt but I need to rise up and get myself motivated again to start the day with my girls I am going to take them to the beach and the fair ground.

She's a Gemini.. you don't know Gems if you're surprised by this. This is normal

That's the point. He never knows and want to fully understand her, hence the multiple threads 🤣

I've barely read them tbh but all I see is she's being a typical Gem and he's wondering why lol

Ikr 🤣 and there has been multiple people coming forward trying to explain..

The sad part is he will react to your previous post asking you to explain what do you mean and then ponder on it.. then use it to do something to her again.. and we will have another thread again lol 🤪🤣

A relationship of 2 mutables... things like these makes me not miss it for one bit 😆
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I struggle to understand her actions that's all I do really love this woman and I don't want to loose her out of my life for good when you say she's acting like a typical Gem in what way is she though ? I would appreciate you just saying maybe send me a message and I can stop ranting about it.
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