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Do I continue to just not answer her.

Yeah. Go about your business and focus on yourself and your kids.

That's what I have been doing the past week I have just dropped my children back after a nice day out with my sisters and their children.

They always come first ❤️

What age are they?

Yeah they do...

3, 7, 11

I haven't replied to her at all she sent them texts last and I have left it.

You started young!

Good...keep your distance
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Okay, I feel terrible I have kept myself busy all week to keep my head off of us and tonight I'm really struggling.
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Do I continue to just not answer her.

Yeah. Go about your business and focus on yourself and your kids.

That's what I have been doing the past week I have just dropped my children back after a nice day out with my sisters and their children.

They always come first ❤️

What age are they?

Yeah they do...

3, 7, 11

I haven't replied to her at all she sent them texts last and I have left it.
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She sent them texts?? The children she can’t stand? That’s manipulative 101!!

I thought you said you blocked her off everything, you really need to for at least 30 days. Off all social media and your mobile and the kids if they have it. Do it, for your own sanity and don’t work about your stuff until after those days. July 4th
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Do I continue to just not answer her.

Yeah. Go about your business and focus on yourself and your kids.

That's what I have been doing the past week I have just dropped my children back after a nice day out with my sisters and their children.

They always come first ❤️

What age are they?

Yeah they do...

3, 7, 11

I haven't replied to her at all she sent them texts last and I have left it.

She sent them texts?? The children she can’t stand? That’s manipulative 101!!

I thought you said you blocked her off everything, you really need to for at least 30 days. Off all social media and your mobile and the kids if they have it. Do it, for your own sanity and don’t work about your stuff until after those days. July 4th
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So leave her for 30days ? I didn't block her I just got rid of everything and she said she was done on the phone so I have put everything as single etc.
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Do I continue to just not answer her.

Yeah. Go about your business and focus on yourself and your kids.

That's what I have been doing the past week I have just dropped my children back after a nice day out with my sisters and their children.

They always come first ❤️

What age are they?

Yeah they do...

3, 7, 11

I haven't replied to her at all she sent them texts last and I have left it.

She sent them texts?? The children she can’t stand? That’s manipulative 101!!

I thought you said you blocked her off everything, you really need to for at least 30 days. Off all social media and your mobile and the kids if they have it. Do it, for your own sanity and don’t work about your stuff until after those days. July 4th

So leave her for 30days ? I didn't block her I just got rid of everything and she said she was done on the phone so I have put everything as single etc.
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If you’re serious about letting go, you are best to block her and move forward, IF however you are still playing the game then you won’t and she’ll find some way to reel you back in as she’s doing now.
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The Hermit = self reflection/alone time

3 swords = separation and heartache (sometimes 3rd person)

Devil = unhealthy attachments/obsessions

Outcome - surrender the situation to the

Universe

The Tower+The Devil: possible violence or abuse

The Moon+The Lovers+The Devil: clandestine relationship



Unless you’re a complete masochist

Back off....







Omg can you do a reading for me
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Do I continue to just not answer her.

Yeah. Go about your business and focus on yourself and your kids.

That's what I have been doing the past week I have just dropped my children back after a nice day out with my sisters and their children.

They always come first ❤️

What age are they?

Yeah they do...

3, 7, 11

I haven't replied to her at all she sent them texts last and I have left it.

She sent them texts?? The children she can’t stand? That’s manipulative 101!!

I thought you said you blocked her off everything, you really need to for at least 30 days. Off all social media and your mobile and the kids if they have it. Do it, for your own sanity and don’t work about your stuff until after those days. July 4th

So leave her for 30days ? I didn't block her I just got rid of everything and she said she was done on the phone so I have put everything as single etc.

If you’re serious about letting go, you are best to block her and move forward, IF however you are still playing the game then you won’t and she’ll find some way to reel you back in as she’s doing now.
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She's trying to reel me back in but I'm not gonna break not after the things she's said to me.

I was warned though if I do this I become a challenge for her and she could possibly fall in love and want me more but it wouldn't be right anyway because of the way she is it wouldn't take long for her to change back to her normal self. @sweethearts what do you think of that could that happen?.
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Do I continue to just not answer her.

Yeah. Go about your business and focus on yourself and your kids.

That's what I have been doing the past week I have just dropped my children back after a nice day out with my sisters and their children.

They always come first ❤️

What age are they?

Yeah they do...

3, 7, 11

I haven't replied to her at all she sent them texts last and I have left it.

She sent them texts?? The children she can’t stand? That’s manipulative 101!!

I thought you said you blocked her off everything, you really need to for at least 30 days. Off all social media and your mobile and the kids if they have it. Do it, for your own sanity and don’t work about your stuff until after those days. July 4th

So leave her for 30days ? I didn't block her I just got rid of everything and she said she was done on the phone so I have put everything as single etc.

If you’re serious about letting go, you are best to block her and move forward, IF however you are still playing the game then you won’t and she’ll find some way to reel you back in as she’s doing now.

She's trying to reel me back in but I'm not gonna break not after the things she's said to me.

I was warned though if I do this I become a challenge for her and she could possibly fall in love and want me more but it wouldn't be right anyway because of the way she is it wouldn't take long for her to change back to her normal self. @sweethearts what do you think of that could that happen?.
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I think you know exactly what will happen. You know her well enough and have been through the same rinse repeat for a few months/years already.

The thing is, people don’t change until they change for themselves, not for someone else. If they try changing for someone else, it won’t last.

Do you honestly think she is going to all of a sudden except your children? They are still going to always remind her of your ex and she doesn’t even except your oldest, the one you have taken on as your own.

Btw, highly commend for that.

You do you boo boo and your kids.
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Do I continue to just not answer her.

Yeah. Go about your business and focus on yourself and your kids.

That's what I have been doing the past week I have just dropped my children back after a nice day out with my sisters and their children.

They always come first ❤️

What age are they?

Yeah they do...

3, 7, 11

I haven't replied to her at all she sent them texts last and I have left it.

She sent them texts?? The children she can’t stand? That’s manipulative 101!!

I thought you said you blocked her off everything, you really need to for at least 30 days. Off all social media and your mobile and the kids if they have it. Do it, for your own sanity and don’t work about your stuff until after those days. July 4th

So leave her for 30days ? I didn't block her I just got rid of everything and she said she was done on the phone so I have put everything as single etc.

If you’re serious about letting go, you are best to block her and move forward, IF however you are still playing the game then you won’t and she’ll find some way to reel you back in as she’s doing now.

She's trying to reel me back in but I'm not gonna break not after the things she's said to me.

I was warned though if I do this I become a challenge for her and she could possibly fall in love and want me more but it wouldn't be right anyway because of the way she is it wouldn't take long for her to change back to her normal self. @sweethearts what do you think of that could that happen?.

I think you know exactly what will happen. You know her well enough and have been through the same rinse repeat for a few months/years already.

The thing is, people don’t change until they change for themselves, not for someone else. If they try changing for someone else, it won’t last.

Do you honestly think she is going to all of a sudden except your children? They are still going to always remind her of your ex and she doesn’t even except your oldest, the one you have taken on as your own.

Btw, highly commend for that.

You do you boo boo and your kids.
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I think she will dissappear is what I am thinking.

I had them texts off of her and I haven't heard anything since that was yesterday morning and Wednesday evening.

Maybe I am wrong and she may surprise me and come back and change for a bit that will be though.
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Ffs 🤦🏼‍♀️ here we go again

She has text me saying -----Hey. Can i take over the booking for lady mile and i will transfer you the deposit you paid so you aint out of pocket? Unless you are using it. Let me know please cos i will need to book elsewhere asap.
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Ignore her. Her "need" to book somewhere is not your concern or business. You're broken up right? Jesus.
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My heart is bleeding 😢

I dropped the air bed off outside her house yesterday and picked up my hoover she did not leave it outside so I had to knock the door and she answered saying I am in a towel at the moment your stuffs behind the door do I grabbed it I didn't want to see her one bit.

I told her to get rid of the rest of the stuff I no longer want it and she said why am I being bitter like she's oblivious of her actions I left.

She said she has done nothing to me at all and text saying (so my hearts broken and your bitter) she does not care for me it's all bullshit.

She's going away today on the holiday we was supposed to go on together im just feeling a little hurt but I need to rise up and get myself motivated again to start the day with my girls I am going to take them to the beach and the fair ground.

She's a Gemini.. you don't know Gems if you're surprised by this. This is normal

That's the point. He never knows and want to fully understand her, hence the multiple threads 🤣

I've barely read them tbh but all I see is she's being a typical Gem and he's wondering why lol

Ikr 🤣 and there has been multiple people coming forward trying to explain..

The sad part is he will react to your previous post asking you to explain what do you mean and then ponder on it.. then use it to do something to her again.. and we will have another thread again lol 🤪🤣

A relationship of 2 mutables... things like these makes me not miss it for one bit 😆

I struggle to understand her actions that's all I do really love this woman and I don't want to loose her out of my life for good when you say she's acting like a typical Gem in what way is she though ? I would appreciate you just saying maybe send me a message and I can stop ranting about it.

See? Exactly what I thought you would do.. word for word 😆

If a stranger on the internet like me could predict your pattern that easy, your gemini could do too.. no wonder she mess with your head a lot lol

Similar to you always going back and forth with being done and not done, she's the same too. She doesnt know what she wants. The words she said about her being done and you meant nothing to her was how she felt in the moment that she clearly regret, seeing she didnt put your stuff outside and was only wearing a towel when you came to her place 😆

Try to read what you wrote here as a 3rd person, you'll see the game right through 🤪🤣

Yeah I know I get her game I knew exactly what she was doing coming down stairs in a towel and then not leaving my stuff outside I am not falling for it.

I have taken everything off social media the lot now.

Finally! Congratulations 👏👏👏

She's still continuing to try emotionally manipulate me this is what's shes text me saying --

Oh wow you've put single on Facebook. - (Yet she told me we was over)

I havent thought about anything but you on this holiday. You're a dick. You dont have my back,you tell me you love me and always will then you put single. Really. (But she went on the holiday alone and hasn't asked how I am so can't be think of me that much)

Its cool some handle it easier than others. I wear my heart on my sleeve so im hurting real bad. Just a shock to see you'd put single so soon.

😭😭😭😭 I aint going to go to your level cos i am broken and i aint ready to tell everyone im single. So im going to keep in a relationship and when i am ready i will put single. Its not got your name so dont worry.

Just didn't think you'd change to being single so soon.

Cos Im lucky to get any signal down here and i aint connected to their wifi.

(Yet she has been on facebook and put photos up of her time away)

You said you needed time to find yourself, you also said what we should've done when trying to rebuild our relationship all those times is to have no contact. 🤷‍♀️ in fact to find you've changed to single. I guess thats you finding yourself.

Look things are going to end sour between us if we carry this on so I've woken up yes still broken but you havent done anything wrong airing that you're single. I need to process it and accept it before i change mine thats all. If you want your bike and rake then please let me know and I'll leave it outside for you.

I will always have a spot in my heart for you cos i generally believed you were the one.

Look after yourself and those girls. 😊

I havent replied at all to her I have been advised not too .

Gosh.. arent u tired dealing with this? This is all in 1 text? 🤣
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Yes I am very tired with it we both set the relationship up to fail from the beginning since I last spoke to you guys on here I picked gem up from town as she was out having drinks with friends and regardless of whats gone on I didn't feel comfortable letting her go home in a taxi alone and she did not either.

I took her to her house and we talked into early morning we both agreed that there had been alot of games and horrible things said and we are both exhausted from it.

We have decied as we are best friends as well as partners that we now tell eachother everything and if it hurts the other then so be it.

We have decided to give eachother our space and have a friendship we did sleep together 4 times the night I picked her up the love is extreme between us and neither of us want to let that go we cannot see ourselves without eachother.

The only way to ever work this mess is to be best friends and be free on talking to eachother thats what we are doing and I need to have other outlets as well so it helps me because I do not love my self right now.