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... is that fair to say they all act in this way.
No.
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I'm gutted I go to text her a message and then delete it I duno what to do with myself my heart is broken I don't want a life without her init.
... is that fair to say they all act in this way.
No.
I'm gutted I go to text her a message and then delete it I duno what to do with myself my heart is broken I don't want a life without her init.
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Keep reading the reversed Devil
She would ruin you...
“The Devil reversed can indicate a close call with the type of *negative, abusive or dangerous* person described in the upright meaning. It can also indicate that previously you may have felt you were stuck with being single or were so desperately seeking someone to love you that you were prepared to put up anything. However, you are starting to become more aware of yourself and how this behaviour has been hindering your search for love. You may need to take a step back from dating for while to just start enjoying the freedom of only having yourself to answer to that being single brings. With this new attitude emerging, the right partner won’t be far behind so relax and enjoy this time“.
... is that fair to say they all act in this way.
No.
I'm gutted I go to text her a message and then delete it I duno what to do with myself my heart is broken I don't want a life without her init.
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Here you go again. Suffer now for 3 - 6 months and get over it and her once and for all
OR
drrraaaaaaggggg it out indefinitely until she moves on with someone else.
Your choice!
OP, can you describe what you look like? Curious 🧐
... is that fair to say they all act in this way.
No.
I'm gutted I go to text her a message and then delete it I duno what to do with myself my heart is broken I don't want a life without her init.
Here you go again. Suffer now for 3 - 6 months and get over it and her once and for all
OR
drrraaaaaaggggg it out indefinitely until she moves on with someone else.
Your choice!
OP, can you describe what you look like? Curious 🧐
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I can send you a pic if easier.
How do I upload a photo on here as my pic and then you can see.
... is that fair to say they all act in this way.
No.
I'm gutted I go to text her a message and then delete it I duno what to do with myself my heart is broken I don't want a life without her init.
Here you go again. Suffer now for 3 - 6 months and get over it and her once and for all
OR
drrraaaaaaggggg it out indefinitely until she moves on with someone else.
Your choice!
OP, can you describe what you look like? Curious 🧐
I can send you a pic if easier.
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lol, a description would be fine
... is that fair to say they all act in this way.
No.
I'm gutted I go to text her a message and then delete it I duno what to do with myself my heart is broken I don't want a life without her init.
Here you go again. Suffer now for 3 - 6 months and get over it and her once and for all
OR
drrraaaaaaggggg it out indefinitely until she moves on with someone else.
Your choice!
OP, can you describe what you look like? Curious 🧐
I can send you a pic if easier.
lol, a description would be fine
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Go onto my profile and you will see a pic of me on the front page.
... is that fair to say they all act in this way.
No.
I'm gutted I go to text her a message and then delete it I duno what to do with myself my heart is broken I don't want a life without her init.
Keep reading the reversed Devil
She would ruin you...
“The Devil reversed can indicate a close call with the type of *negative, abusive or dangerous* person described in the upright meaning. It can also indicate that previously you may have felt you were stuck with being single or were so desperately seeking someone to love you that you were prepared to put up anything. However, you are starting to become more aware of yourself and how this behaviour has been hindering your search for love. You may need to take a step back from dating for while to just start enjoying the freedom of only having yourself to answer to that being single brings. With this new attitude emerging, the right partner won’t be far behind so relax and enjoy this time“.
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I know just finding it hard thats all.
... is that fair to say they all act in this way.
No.
I'm gutted I go to text her a message and then delete it I duno what to do with myself my heart is broken I don't want a life without her init.
Keep reading the reversed Devil
She would ruin you...
“The Devil reversed can indicate a close call with the type of *negative, abusive or dangerous* person described in the upright meaning. It can also indicate that previously you may have felt you were stuck with being single or were so desperately seeking someone to love you that you were prepared to put up anything. However, you are starting to become more aware of yourself and how this behaviour has been hindering your search for love. You may need to take a step back from dating for while to just start enjoying the freedom of only having yourself to answer to that being single brings. With this new attitude emerging, the right partner won’t be far behind so relax and enjoy this time“.
I know just finding it hard thats all.
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Of course ... been there, it’s like pulling teeth
Nothing worth having is easy
When you learn to love and respect yourself more, it’ll become easier
... is that fair to say they all act in this way.
No.
I'm gutted I go to text her a message and then delete it I duno what to do with myself my heart is broken I don't want a life without her init.
Keep reading the reversed Devil
She would ruin you...
“The Devil reversed can indicate a close call with the type of *negative, abusive or dangerous* person described in the upright meaning. It can also indicate that previously you may have felt you were stuck with being single or were so desperately seeking someone to love you that you were prepared to put up anything. However, you are starting to become more aware of yourself and how this behaviour has been hindering your search for love. You may need to take a step back from dating for while to just start enjoying the freedom of only having yourself to answer to that being single brings. With this new attitude emerging, the right partner won’t be far behind so relax and enjoy this time“.
I know just finding it hard thats all.
Of course ... been there, it’s like pulling teeth
Nothing worth having is easy
When you learn to love and respect yourself more, it’ll become easier
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( Nothing worth having is easy ) what do you mean by that statement are you meaning for me to go after her ?
... is that fair to say they all act in this way.
No.
I'm gutted I go to text her a message and then delete it I duno what to do with myself my heart is broken I don't want a life without her init.
Here you go again. Suffer now for 3 - 6 months and get over it and her once and for all
OR
drrraaaaaaggggg it out indefinitely until she moves on with someone else.
Your choice!
OP, can you describe what you look like? Curious 🧐
I can send you a pic if easier.
lol, a description would be fine
Go onto my profile and you will see a pic of me on the front page.
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You don’t look anything like I imagined and now I’m even more baffled that you’re so desperate. You’re a good looking guy and apart from your desperation you seem like the type that bends over backwards for the person you love. It’s just really sad that you haven’t learned to love yourself.
I’m sure this saga isn’t over because you won’t let go but one day, you’ll take the time to learn who you really are and love yourself first, then and only then will you be ready for that SO.
... is that fair to say they all act in this way.
No.
I'm gutted I go to text her a message and then delete it I duno what to do with myself my heart is broken I don't want a life without her init.
Here you go again. Suffer now for 3 - 6 months and get over it and her once and for all
OR
drrraaaaaaggggg it out indefinitely until she moves on with someone else.
Your choice!
OP, can you describe what you look like? Curious 🧐
I can send you a pic if easier.
lol, a description would be fine
Go onto my profile and you will see a pic of me on the front page.
You don’t look anything like I imagined and now I’m even more baffled that you’re so desperate. You’re a good looking guy and apart from your desperation you seem like the type that bends over backwards for the person you love. It’s just really sad that you haven’t learned to love yourself.
I’m sure this saga isn’t over because you won’t let go but one day, you’ll take the time to learn who you really are and love yourself first, then and only then will you be ready for that SO.
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It's a lost cause with the Gem she is not the person she painted her self to be very sad because the love I had for her was forever its going to kill me but I have to do it my hasn't taken anything off her social media's like our picture together and our relationship status etc just saying but I'm going to change it all now. Thank you for all your support and kind comments.
You resemble David Beckham...You will have no problem finding another...
Can everyone stop replying?
Seems like all our effort goes nowhere he clearly will do what he wants regardless
Which is unfortunate, cause he is fine...
... is that fair to say they all act in this way.
No.
I'm gutted I go to text her a message and then delete it I duno what to do with myself my heart is broken I don't want a life without her init.
Keep reading the reversed Devil
She would ruin you...
“The Devil reversed can indicate a close call with the type of *negative, abusive or dangerous* person described in the upright meaning. It can also indicate that previously you may have felt you were stuck with being single or were so desperately seeking someone to love you that you were prepared to put up anything. However, you are starting to become more aware of yourself and how this behaviour has been hindering your search for love. You may need to take a step back from dating for while to just start enjoying the freedom of only having yourself to answer to that being single brings. With this new attitude emerging, the right partner won’t be far behind so relax and enjoy this time“.
I know just finding it hard thats all.
Of course ... been there, it’s like pulling teeth
Nothing worth having is easy
When you learn to love and respect yourself more, it’ll become easier
( Nothing worth having is easy ) what do you mean by that statement are you meaning for me to go after her ?
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No I meant gaining peace of mind and feeedom (it can take time).
Why would anyone suggest going after such a woman? 😐
You resemble David Beckham...You will have no problem finding another...
Where?
You resemble David Beckham...You will have no problem finding another...
Where?
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On my profile.
You resemble David Beckham...You will have no problem finding another...
Where?
On my profile.
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You changed from a man into a teenage girl?
You resemble David Beckham...You will have no problem finding another...
Where?
On my profile.
You changed from a man into a teenage girl?
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I was asked to show what gem was like 😅
You resemble David Beckham...You will have no problem finding another...
Where?
On my profile.
You changed from a man into a teenage girl?
I was asked to show what gem was like 😅
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Teenage energy ... all over the place
You resemble David Beckham...You will have no problem finding another...
Where?
On my profile.
You changed from a man into a teenage girl?
I was asked to show what gem was like 😅
Teenage energy ... all over the place
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😅 she does not project herself like that to the world however when you get to know her properly the mask starts to come off pretty gutted because I fell for her.
You resemble David Beckham...You will have no problem finding another...
Where?
On my profile.
You changed from a man into a teenage girl?
I was asked to show what gem was like 😅
Teenage energy ... all over the place
😅 she does not project herself like that to the world however when you get to know her properly the mask starts to come off pretty gutted because I fell for her.
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....and she treated you badly
She lost respect for you
You are acting like a door mat
... is that fair to say they all act in this way.
No.
I'm gutted I go to text her a message and then delete it I duno what to do with myself my heart is broken I don't want a life without her init.
Here you go again. Suffer now for 3 - 6 months and get over it and her once and for all
OR
drrraaaaaaggggg it out indefinitely until she moves on with someone else.
Your choice!
OP, can you describe what you look like? Curious 🧐
I can send you a pic if easier.
lol, a description would be fine
Go onto my profile and you will see a pic of me on the front page.
You don’t look anything like I imagined and now I’m even more baffled that you’re so desperate. You’re a good looking guy and apart from your desperation you seem like the type that bends over backwards for the person you love. It’s just really sad that you haven’t learned to love yourself.
I’m sure this saga isn’t over because you won’t let go but one day, you’ll take the time to learn who you really are and love yourself first, then and only then will you be ready for that SO.
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This above
Heal your abandonment issues or whatever issues you have. You deserve better.
You resemble David Beckham...You will have no problem finding another...
Where?
On my profile.
You changed from a man into a teenage girl?
I was asked to show what gem was like 😅
Teenage energy ... all over the place
😅 she does not project herself like that to the world however when you get to know her properly the mask starts to come off pretty gutted because I fell for her.
....and she treated you badly
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Yep just gutted.
... is that fair to say they all act in this way.
No.
I'm gutted I go to text her a message and then delete it I duno what to do with myself my heart is broken I don't want a life without her init.
Here you go again. Suffer now for 3 - 6 months and get over it and her once and for all
OR
drrraaaaaaggggg it out indefinitely until she moves on with someone else.
Your choice!
OP, can you describe what you look like? Curious 🧐
I can send you a pic if easier.
lol, a description would be fine
Go onto my profile and you will see a pic of me on the front page.
You don’t look anything like I imagined and now I’m even more baffled that you’re so desperate. You’re a good looking guy and apart from your desperation you seem like the type that bends over backwards for the person you love. It’s just really sad that you haven’t learned to love yourself.
I’m sure this saga isn’t over because you won’t let go but one day, you’ll take the time to learn who you really are and love yourself first, then and only then will you be ready for that SO.
This above
Heal your abandonment issues or whatever issues you have. You deserve better.
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I'm working in it right now spoke to my gem mate he's told me to go round his to chill so I am and told me to fuck her off and get rid of her on everything he knows what games she pulling.
You resemble David Beckham...You will have no problem finding another...
Where?
On my profile.
You changed from a man into a teenage girl?
I was asked to show what gem was like 😅
Teenage energy ... all over the place
😅 she does not project herself like that to the world however when you get to know her properly the mask starts to come off pretty gutted because I fell for her.
....and she treated you badly
Yep just gutted.
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It’s a horrible feeling...I know
Just remember you’re worth more
... is that fair to say they all act in this way.
No.
I'm gutted I go to text her a message and then delete it I duno what to do with myself my heart is broken I don't want a life without her init.
Here you go again. Suffer now for 3 - 6 months and get over it and her once and for all
OR
drrraaaaaaggggg it out indefinitely until she moves on with someone else.
Your choice!
OP, can you describe what you look like? Curious 🧐
I can send you a pic if easier.
lol, a description would be fine
Go onto my profile and you will see a pic of me on the front page.
You don’t look anything like I imagined and now I’m even more baffled that you’re so desperate. You’re a good looking guy and apart from your desperation you seem like the type that bends over backwards for the person you love. It’s just really sad that you haven’t learned to love yourself.
I’m sure this saga isn’t over because you won’t let go but one day, you’ll take the time to learn who you really are and love yourself first, then and only then will you be ready for that SO.
This above
Heal your abandonment issues or whatever issues you have. You deserve better.
I'm working in it right now spoke to my gem mate he's told me to go round his to chill so I am and told me to fuck her off and get rid of her on everything he knows what games she pulling.
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Hard lesson
You should have had a serious discussion when she started texting that guy n told her it was disrespectful. Then you observe n if she continues you dump her. It’s just lessons
I happened to learn it in mid 30s
... is that fair to say they all act in this way.
No.
I'm gutted I go to text her a message and then delete it I duno what to do with myself my heart is broken I don't want a life without her init.
Here you go again. Suffer now for 3 - 6 months and get over it and her once and for all
OR
drrraaaaaaggggg it out indefinitely until she moves on with someone else.
Your choice!
OP, can you describe what you look like? Curious 🧐
I can send you a pic if easier.
lol, a description would be fine
Go onto my profile and you will see a pic of me on the front page.
You don’t look anything like I imagined and now I’m even more baffled that you’re so desperate. You’re a good looking guy and apart from your desperation you seem like the type that bends over backwards for the person you love. It’s just really sad that you haven’t learned to love yourself.
I’m sure this saga isn’t over because you won’t let go but one day, you’ll take the time to learn who you really are and love yourself first, then and only then will you be ready for that SO.
This above
Heal your abandonment issues or whatever issues you have. You deserve better.
I'm working in it right now spoke to my gem mate he's told me to go round his to chill so I am and told me to fuck her off and get rid of her on everything he knows what games she pulling.
Hard lesson
You should have had a serious discussion when she started texting that guy n told her it was disrespectful. Then you observe n if she continues you dump her. It’s just lessons
I happened to learn it in mid 30s
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I did tell her and said what if the shoe was on the other foot and she replied I understand and then her phone went off because he liked her gym workout thing on the app it counts how much you lost etc and she said okay I am getting worried my self now.
... is that fair to say they all act in this way.
No.
I'm gutted I go to text her a message and then delete it I duno what to do with myself my heart is broken I don't want a life without her init.
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And yet, you have seen another day without her.... You will be okay with time.
I would suggest changing her name in your contact to "do not text/do not answer" so every time you attempt to message her or she send you something this will appear front and center and make you pause. Some find it helpful when they are trying to break away.
... is that fair to say they all act in this way.
No.
I'm gutted I go to text her a message and then delete it I duno what to do with myself my heart is broken I don't want a life without her init.
And yet, you have seen another day without her.... You will be okay with time.
I would suggest changing her name in your contact to "do not text/do not answer" so every time you attempt to message her or she send you something this will appear front and center and make you pause. Some find it helpful when they are trying to break away.
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Yeah I am starting to realise that my family and all you guys have been right all along just so hard when your in love with someone especially when they promise you the world like moving in together and marriage etc and then you have that connection.
I am taking her off of everything as we speak.
... is that fair to say they all act in this way.
No.
I'm gutted I go to text her a message and then delete it I duno what to do with myself my heart is broken I don't want a life without her init.
And yet, you have seen another day without her.... You will be okay with time.
I would suggest changing her name in your contact to "do not text/do not answer" so every time you attempt to message her or she send you something this will appear front and center and make you pause. Some find it helpful when they are trying to break away.
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LOL! I used to do this with my ex..I put LOSER!
... is that fair to say they all act in this way.
No.
I'm gutted I go to text her a message and then delete it I duno what to do with myself my heart is broken I don't want a life without her init.
And yet, you have seen another day without her.... You will be okay with time.
I would suggest changing her name in your contact to "do not text/do not answer" so every time you attempt to message her or she send you something this will appear front and center and make you pause. Some find it helpful when they are trying to break away.
LOL! I used to do this with my ex..I put LOSER!
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*like*
Lol!
You are young and good looking guy youll meet a genuine person who will treat you right
Let’s hope you know how to handle it.
You are young and good looking guy youll meet a genuine person who will treat you right
Let’s hope you know how to handle it.
Let's hope I do and thank you 😊
My heart is bleeding 😢
I dropped the air bed off outside her house yesterday and picked up my hoover she did not leave it outside so I had to knock the door and she answered saying I am in a towel at the moment your stuffs behind the door do I grabbed it I didn't want to see her one bit.
I told her to get rid of the rest of the stuff I no longer want it and she said why am I being bitter like she's oblivious of her actions I left.
She said she has done nothing to me at all and text saying (so my hearts broken and your bitter) she does not care for me it's all bullshit.
She's going away today on the holiday we was supposed to go on together im just feeling a little hurt but I need to rise up and get myself motivated again to start the day with my girls I am going to take them to the beach and the fair ground.
She's a Gemini.. you don't know Gems if you're surprised by this. This is normal
That's the point. He never knows and want to fully understand her, hence the multiple threads 🤣
I've barely read them tbh but all I see is she's being a typical Gem and he's wondering why lol
Ikr 🤣 and there has been multiple people coming forward trying to explain..
The sad part is he will react to your previous post asking you to explain what do you mean and then ponder on it.. then use it to do something to her again.. and we will have another thread again lol 🤪🤣
A relationship of 2 mutables... things like these makes me not miss it for one bit 😆
I struggle to understand her actions that's all I do really love this woman and I don't want to loose her out of my life for good when you say she's acting like a typical Gem in what way is she though ? I would appreciate you just saying maybe send me a message and I can stop ranting about it.
See? Exactly what I thought you would do.. word for word 😆
If a stranger on the internet like me could predict your pattern that easy, your gemini could do too.. no wonder she mess with your head a lot lol
Similar to you always going back and forth with being done and not done, she's the same too. She doesnt know what she wants. The words she said about her being done and you meant nothing to her was how she felt in the moment that she clearly regret, seeing she didnt put your stuff outside and was only wearing a towel when you came to her place 😆
Try to read what you wrote here as a 3rd person, you'll see the game right through 🤪🤣
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Yeah I know I get her game I knew exactly what she was doing coming down stairs in a towel and then not leaving my stuff outside I am not falling for it.
I have taken everything off social media the lot now.
My heart is bleeding 😢
I dropped the air bed off outside her house yesterday and picked up my hoover she did not leave it outside so I had to knock the door and she answered saying I am in a towel at the moment your stuffs behind the door do I grabbed it I didn't want to see her one bit.
I told her to get rid of the rest of the stuff I no longer want it and she said why am I being bitter like she's oblivious of her actions I left.
She said she has done nothing to me at all and text saying (so my hearts broken and your bitter) she does not care for me it's all bullshit.
She's going away today on the holiday we was supposed to go on together im just feeling a little hurt but I need to rise up and get myself motivated again to start the day with my girls I am going to take them to the beach and the fair ground.
She's a Gemini.. you don't know Gems if you're surprised by this. This is normal
That's the point. He never knows and want to fully understand her, hence the multiple threads 🤣
I've barely read them tbh but all I see is she's being a typical Gem and he's wondering why lol
Ikr 🤣 and there has been multiple people coming forward trying to explain..
The sad part is he will react to your previous post asking you to explain what do you mean and then ponder on it.. then use it to do something to her again.. and we will have another thread again lol 🤪🤣
A relationship of 2 mutables... things like these makes me not miss it for one bit 😆
I struggle to understand her actions that's all I do really love this woman and I don't want to loose her out of my life for good when you say she's acting like a typical Gem in what way is she though ? I would appreciate you just saying maybe send me a message and I can stop ranting about it.
See? Exactly what I thought you would do.. word for word 😆
If a stranger on the internet like me could predict your pattern that easy, your gemini could do too.. no wonder she mess with your head a lot lol
Similar to you always going back and forth with being done and not done, she's the same too. She doesnt know what she wants. The words she said about her being done and you meant nothing to her was how she felt in the moment that she clearly regret, seeing she didnt put your stuff outside and was only wearing a towel when you came to her place 😆
Try to read what you wrote here as a 3rd person, you'll see the game right through 🤪🤣
Yeah I know I get her game I knew exactly what she was doing coming down stairs in a towel and then not leaving my stuff outside I am not falling for it.
I have taken everything off social media the lot now.
Finally! Congratulations 👏👏👏
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She's still continuing to try emotionally manipulate me this is what's shes text me saying --
Oh wow you've put single on Facebook. - (Yet she told me we was over)
I havent thought about anything but you on this holiday. You're a dick. You dont have my back,you tell me you love me and always will then you put single. Really. (But she went on the holiday alone and hasn't asked how I am so can't be think of me that much)
Its cool some handle it easier than others. I wear my heart on my sleeve so im hurting real bad. Just a shock to see you'd put single so soon.
😭😭😭😭 I aint going to go to your level cos i am broken and i aint ready to tell everyone im single. So im going to keep in a relationship and when i am ready i will put single. Its not got your name so dont worry.
Just didn't think you'd change to being single so soon.
Cos Im lucky to get any signal down here and i aint connected to their wifi.
(Yet she has been on facebook and put photos up of her time away)
You said you needed time to find yourself, you also said what we should've done when trying to rebuild our relationship all those times is to have no contact. 🤷♀️ in fact to find you've changed to single. I guess thats you finding yourself.
Look things are going to end sour between us if we carry this on so I've woken up yes still broken but you havent done anything wrong airing that you're single. I need to process it and accept it before i change mine thats all. If you want your bike and rake then please let me know and I'll leave it outside for you.
I will always have a spot in my heart for you cos i generally believed you were the one.
Look after yourself and those girls. 😊
I havent replied at all to her I have been advised not too .
My heart is bleeding 😢
I dropped the air bed off outside her house yesterday and picked up my hoover she did not leave it outside so I had to knock the door and she answered saying I am in a towel at the moment your stuffs behind the door do I grabbed it I didn't want to see her one bit.
I told her to get rid of the rest of the stuff I no longer want it and she said why am I being bitter like she's oblivious of her actions I left.
She said she has done nothing to me at all and text saying (so my hearts broken and your bitter) she does not care for me it's all bullshit.
She's going away today on the holiday we was supposed to go on together im just feeling a little hurt but I need to rise up and get myself motivated again to start the day with my girls I am going to take them to the beach and the fair ground.
She's a Gemini.. you don't know Gems if you're surprised by this. This is normal
That's the point. He never knows and want to fully understand her, hence the multiple threads 🤣
I've barely read them tbh but all I see is she's being a typical Gem and he's wondering why lol
Ikr 🤣 and there has been multiple people coming forward trying to explain..
The sad part is he will react to your previous post asking you to explain what do you mean and then ponder on it.. then use it to do something to her again.. and we will have another thread again lol 🤪🤣
A relationship of 2 mutables... things like these makes me not miss it for one bit 😆
I struggle to understand her actions that's all I do really love this woman and I don't want to loose her out of my life for good when you say she's acting like a typical Gem in what way is she though ? I would appreciate you just saying maybe send me a message and I can stop ranting about it.
See? Exactly what I thought you would do.. word for word 😆
If a stranger on the internet like me could predict your pattern that easy, your gemini could do too.. no wonder she mess with your head a lot lol
Similar to you always going back and forth with being done and not done, she's the same too. She doesnt know what she wants. The words she said about her being done and you meant nothing to her was how she felt in the moment that she clearly regret, seeing she didnt put your stuff outside and was only wearing a towel when you came to her place 😆
Try to read what you wrote here as a 3rd person, you'll see the game right through 🤪🤣
Yeah I know I get her game I knew exactly what she was doing coming down stairs in a towel and then not leaving my stuff outside I am not falling for it.
I have taken everything off social media the lot now.
Finally! Congratulations 👏👏👏
She's still continuing to try emotionally manipulate me this is what's shes text me saying --
Oh wow you've put single on Facebook. - (Yet she told me we was over)
I havent thought about anything but you on this holiday. You're a dick. You dont have my back,you tell me you love me and always will then you put single. Really. (But she went on the holiday alone and hasn't asked how I am so can't be think of me that much)
Its cool some handle it easier than others. I wear my heart on my sleeve so im hurting real bad. Just a shock to see you'd put single so soon.
😭😭😭😭 I aint going to go to your level cos i am broken and i aint ready to tell everyone im single. So im going to keep in a relationship and when i am ready i will put single. Its not got your name so dont worry.
Just didn't think you'd change to being single so soon.
Cos Im lucky to get any signal down here and i aint connected to their wifi.
(Yet she has been on facebook and put photos up of her time away)
You said you needed time to find yourself, you also said what we should've done when trying to rebuild our relationship all those times is to have no contact. 🤷♀️ in fact to find you've changed to single. I guess thats you finding yourself.
Look things are going to end sour between us if we carry this on so I've woken up yes still broken but you havent done anything wrong airing that you're single. I need to process it and accept it before i change mine thats all. If you want your bike and rake then please let me know and I'll leave it outside for you.
I will always have a spot in my heart for you cos i generally believed you were the one.
Look after yourself and those girls. 😊
I havent replied at all to her I have been advised not too .
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She’s just thinking of herself
Crazy all over the place Gemini ....
My heart is bleeding 😢
I dropped the air bed off outside her house yesterday and picked up my hoover she did not leave it outside so I had to knock the door and she answered saying I am in a towel at the moment your stuffs behind the door do I grabbed it I didn't want to see her one bit.
I told her to get rid of the rest of the stuff I no longer want it and she said why am I being bitter like she's oblivious of her actions I left.
She said she has done nothing to me at all and text saying (so my hearts broken and your bitter) she does not care for me it's all bullshit.
She's going away today on the holiday we was supposed to go on together im just feeling a little hurt but I need to rise up and get myself motivated again to start the day with my girls I am going to take them to the beach and the fair ground.
She's a Gemini.. you don't know Gems if you're surprised by this. This is normal
That's the point. He never knows and want to fully understand her, hence the multiple threads 🤣
I've barely read them tbh but all I see is she's being a typical Gem and he's wondering why lol
Ikr 🤣 and there has been multiple people coming forward trying to explain..
The sad part is he will react to your previous post asking you to explain what do you mean and then ponder on it.. then use it to do something to her again.. and we will have another thread again lol 🤪🤣
A relationship of 2 mutables... things like these makes me not miss it for one bit 😆
I struggle to understand her actions that's all I do really love this woman and I don't want to loose her out of my life for good when you say she's acting like a typical Gem in what way is she though ? I would appreciate you just saying maybe send me a message and I can stop ranting about it.
See? Exactly what I thought you would do.. word for word 😆
If a stranger on the internet like me could predict your pattern that easy, your gemini could do too.. no wonder she mess with your head a lot lol
Similar to you always going back and forth with being done and not done, she's the same too. She doesnt know what she wants. The words she said about her being done and you meant nothing to her was how she felt in the moment that she clearly regret, seeing she didnt put your stuff outside and was only wearing a towel when you came to her place 😆
Try to read what you wrote here as a 3rd person, you'll see the game right through 🤪🤣
Yeah I know I get her game I knew exactly what she was doing coming down stairs in a towel and then not leaving my stuff outside I am not falling for it.
I have taken everything off social media the lot now.
Finally! Congratulations 👏👏👏
She's still continuing to try emotionally manipulate me this is what's shes text me saying --
Oh wow you've put single on Facebook. - (Yet she told me we was over)
I havent thought about anything but you on this holiday. You're a dick. You dont have my back,you tell me you love me and always will then you put single. Really. (But she went on the holiday alone and hasn't asked how I am so can't be think of me that much)
Its cool some handle it easier than others. I wear my heart on my sleeve so im hurting real bad. Just a shock to see you'd put single so soon.
😭😭😭😭 I aint going to go to your level cos i am broken and i aint ready to tell everyone im single. So im going to keep in a relationship and when i am ready i will put single. Its not got your name so dont worry.
Just didn't think you'd change to being single so soon.
Cos Im lucky to get any signal down here and i aint connected to their wifi.
(Yet she has been on facebook and put photos up of her time away)
You said you needed time to find yourself, you also said what we should've done when trying to rebuild our relationship all those times is to have no contact. 🤷♀️ in fact to find you've changed to single. I guess thats you finding yourself.
Look things are going to end sour between us if we carry this on so I've woken up yes still broken but you havent done anything wrong airing that you're single. I need to process it and accept it before i change mine thats all. If you want your bike and rake then please let me know and I'll leave it outside for you.
I will always have a spot in my heart for you cos i generally believed you were the one.
Look after yourself and those girls. 😊
I havent replied at all to her I have been advised not too .
She’s just thinking of herself
Crazy all over the place Gemini ....
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Do I continue to just not answer her.
And if I do what will happen.
My heart is bleeding 😢
I dropped the air bed off outside her house yesterday and picked up my hoover she did not leave it outside so I had to knock the door and she answered saying I am in a towel at the moment your stuffs behind the door do I grabbed it I didn't want to see her one bit.
I told her to get rid of the rest of the stuff I no longer want it and she said why am I being bitter like she's oblivious of her actions I left.
She said she has done nothing to me at all and text saying (so my hearts broken and your bitter) she does not care for me it's all bullshit.
She's going away today on the holiday we was supposed to go on together im just feeling a little hurt but I need to rise up and get myself motivated again to start the day with my girls I am going to take them to the beach and the fair ground.
She's a Gemini.. you don't know Gems if you're surprised by this. This is normal
That's the point. He never knows and want to fully understand her, hence the multiple threads 🤣
I've barely read them tbh but all I see is she's being a typical Gem and he's wondering why lol
Ikr 🤣 and there has been multiple people coming forward trying to explain..
The sad part is he will react to your previous post asking you to explain what do you mean and then ponder on it.. then use it to do something to her again.. and we will have another thread again lol 🤪🤣
A relationship of 2 mutables... things like these makes me not miss it for one bit 😆
I struggle to understand her actions that's all I do really love this woman and I don't want to loose her out of my life for good when you say she's acting like a typical Gem in what way is she though ? I would appreciate you just saying maybe send me a message and I can stop ranting about it.
See? Exactly what I thought you would do.. word for word 😆
If a stranger on the internet like me could predict your pattern that easy, your gemini could do too.. no wonder she mess with your head a lot lol
Similar to you always going back and forth with being done and not done, she's the same too. She doesnt know what she wants. The words she said about her being done and you meant nothing to her was how she felt in the moment that she clearly regret, seeing she didnt put your stuff outside and was only wearing a towel when you came to her place 😆
Try to read what you wrote here as a 3rd person, you'll see the game right through 🤪🤣
Yeah I know I get her game I knew exactly what she was doing coming down stairs in a towel and then not leaving my stuff outside I am not falling for it.
I have taken everything off social media the lot now.
Finally! Congratulations 👏👏👏
She's still continuing to try emotionally manipulate me this is what's shes text me saying --
Oh wow you've put single on Facebook. - (Yet she told me we was over)
I havent thought about anything but you on this holiday. You're a dick. You dont have my back,you tell me you love me and always will then you put single. Really. (But she went on the holiday alone and hasn't asked how I am so can't be think of me that much)
Its cool some handle it easier than others. I wear my heart on my sleeve so im hurting real bad. Just a shock to see you'd put single so soon.
😭😭😭😭 I aint going to go to your level cos i am broken and i aint ready to tell everyone im single. So im going to keep in a relationship and when i am ready i will put single. Its not got your name so dont worry.
Just didn't think you'd change to being single so soon.
Cos Im lucky to get any signal down here and i aint connected to their wifi.
(Yet she has been on facebook and put photos up of her time away)
You said you needed time to find yourself, you also said what we should've done when trying to rebuild our relationship all those times is to have no contact. 🤷♀️ in fact to find you've changed to single. I guess thats you finding yourself.
Look things are going to end sour between us if we carry this on so I've woken up yes still broken but you havent done anything wrong airing that you're single. I need to process it and accept it before i change mine thats all. If you want your bike and rake then please let me know and I'll leave it outside for you.
I will always have a spot in my heart for you cos i generally believed you were the one.
Look after yourself and those girls. 😊
I havent replied at all to her I have been advised not too .
She’s just thinking of herself
Crazy all over the place Gemini ....
Do I continue to just not answer her.
And if I do what will happen.
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She doesn’t know what she wants so unless you make the break, you could be going backwards and forwards forever. I can bet you all the tea in China if you went back she’d end up treating you badly again ....
Stay strong.
Hmmm
You don’t look like a father with kids
She's still continuing to try emotionally manipulate me this is what's shes text me saying --
Why are you even reading her text messages? It makes the urge to not reply all that more challenging. Work on you mental block game, it's lacking....
Also, why are you torturing yourself by checking up on her FB and pics she's posting. And they say Scorps stalk/can't let go. Do yourself and your heart a favour and tap into that air moon and detach. Ice cold.
Do I continue to just not answer her.
Yeah. Go about your business and focus on yourself and your kids.
Hmmm
You don’t look like a father with kids
I sure am 😁.
She's still continuing to try emotionally manipulate me this is what's shes text me saying --
Why are you even reading her text messages? It makes the urge to not reply all that more challenging. Work on you mental block game, it's lacking....
Also, why are you torturing yourself by checking up on her FB and pics she's posting. And they say Scorps stalk/can't let go. Do yourself and your heart a favour and tap into that air moon and detach. Ice cold.
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It happened to pop up as a notification on my Facebook.
That was after I put some drinks up with the friends on my story.
And she Posted pics up and a sob story about her going camping all alone with her children and having to down size on the tent and get a new one and put it all up on her own and driving all the way down to the place on her own.
Basically getting everyone to feel sorry for her and pointing the finger at me.
I need to keep it together and I will.
Do I continue to just not answer her.
Yeah. Go about your business and focus on yourself and your kids.
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That's what I have been doing the past week I have just dropped my children back after a nice day out with my sisters and their children.
Do I continue to just not answer her.
Yeah. Go about your business and focus on yourself and your kids.
That's what I have been doing the past week I have just dropped my children back after a nice day out with my sisters and their children.
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They always come first ❤️
What age are they?
Do I continue to just not answer her.
Yeah. Go about your business and focus on yourself and your kids.
That's what I have been doing the past week I have just dropped my children back after a nice day out with my sisters and their children.
They always come first ❤️
What age are they?
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Yeah they do...
3, 7, 11
I haven't replied to her at all she sent them texts last and I have left it.
Do I continue to just not answer her.
Yeah. Go about your business and focus on yourself and your kids.
That's what I have been doing the past week I have just dropped my children back after a nice day out with my sisters and their children.
They always come first ❤️
What age are they?
Yeah they do...
3, 7, 11
I haven't replied to her at all she sent them texts last and I have left it.
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You started young!
Good...keep your distance
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