How would you like your partner to be? What is the sign in your 7th house? (Page 2)

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Posted by alexscaries

Pisces in 7th with Lilith. I like quirky, possibly artistically gifted people. I think that's maybe it.




yep, just see the energy of the sign and translate it through the form of relationships 🙂

Pisces..so yes...Artistic...Maybe you could be even open to imaginative ways of bonding...

Being in the same place may not even be an issue if you both apply the 3rd eye or imagination to connect

for example if it was long distance... Empathy may be crucial ... universal love maybe?

Do you care for people who may need help or disabled?
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gemini in 7th. i want a leo partner who is super humble and sweet (cough). someone who's romantic but also an intellectual. ❤️

what about people who are inquisitive?

Do you like people who make you think?

And do you feel like you need to conversate to keep the relationship alive?

I mean, we all do to a certain extent but I mean, with you, does the life of the

relationship depend on conversation and sharing ideas? This is just me trying

to look through your 7th house Gemini Cusp?

yes i like when people converse with me and share their ideas/ experiences/stories that they had in the past. it really intriguing and cute. when i understand their thoughts/feelings, it feels like we have gotten closer and we understand one another more which is important to me in a relationship
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How do you feel when others do not communicate with you in your circle.

Like..if you have a day where no one is calling you or everyone is busy but you?

Would this hurt?

I feel like all of us would be hurt but I feel it hurts way worse if the 7th house is air(?)

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Gemini 8th house. I'm super into intellectual men yeah. Teachers nerdy guys etc.

7th*

Same.

I always used to find it gross because I can't stand Gemini people and could never imagine being in a relationship with one. But it definitely makes sense when you look at the nature of the sign in the 7th house. My partners have to be intellectual and mentally stimulating. They've always been the type to have masters completed at minimum or pursuing some kind of post-grad.
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this is interesting...

It's almost like you don't like the concentration of this energy (gemini) or atleast

too much of it if it's coming through from someone who has this sun sign? But the teachings

and understanding of this energy is accepted through your relationship. very fascinating.

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My 6th and 7th house are in Cancer. Both houses are empty. Leo is eclipsed in the 7th. My chart is almost all air so imagine my initial disdain.

I hate having 7th house Cancer and a double dose no less. Partners have been emotional.

When single, emotional men. My husband is a Cancer Moon and I still cringe at his displays. I've witnessed so many men cry. Why me?

I guess there are some good points. But, I am resentful that in my developmental stages in life, society, culture, etc. painted women this way and men as stoic. And, it may be true. But, it is absolutelt not true for me and I was not prepared.

What gets me is the men I've been involved with put on a good societal face. Next thing you know, I'm naked holding a man twice my size as he cries. Even a fling ends in locked arm cuddling. Or, they throw tantrums...crying on the phone...screaming on the phone...

This is my fate. I couldn't escape it.

One thing good about men with "great emotional depth" is they are often very perceptive of others. I've had men with Moon in all.Water signs.... and they almost always had Moon square Venus.

I think it's my tits.

hahahah!!!!!

not laughing at you but just how you describe it...

I definitely just think you like the positive side to it of course....The understanding of the cancer energy

in your 7th house.

You know, men who enjoy spending time with you...cuddling...being home with you...and maybe most

important men who understand empathy and know how to sense what you are feeling and respect that

I had no choice. This is what I always get. I don't know men any other way. When I dated, I waited for it... There was no shallow end of the pool. Everything's so raw and open... even when they try to control themselves.

But, there is good and I'm afraid that I may be in the way of more good... as they have and he does try to adjust to me.

I have often wondered why a watery, water Moon man would want me (cause I never initiated). Sometimes I think it's because there's plenty of room for their emotions to run wild and free without competition or rare need to accomodate another's emotions... I've had to tell my husband, "hey buddy, you're not the only one who feels around here."

But, they write and say the most deeply loving original heartfelt words and their emotional fortitude fires some true passion and heroics.

They just don't understand the 5 foot 3 view. Cause big passionate guys feeling seems intense to me whether positive or negative.

I might have made a choice somewhere as child... somewhere in my swooning over music and poetry...

... and didn't know what that looks like in real life.
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true but not having to see the other influences in your chart, you have Capricorn ascendant (like me)

and maybe the influence helps to ground them (the guys) and make them feel comfortable around you

to where they can express themselves (: You heal and help them get those emotions out plus....

And don't hate me but maybe you wouldn't be able to live without this to a certain extent because

your 7th house craves this in a way...it craves for you to have emotions go around and for

people to be real with their emotions with you. Have you thought about being a therapist?
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My 6th and 7th house are in Cancer. Both houses are empty. Leo is eclipsed in the 7th. My chart is almost all air so imagine my initial disdain.

I hate having 7th house Cancer and a double dose no less. Partners have been emotional.

When single, emotional men. My husband is a Cancer Moon and I still cringe at his displays. I've witnessed so many men cry. Why me?

I guess there are some good points. But, I am resentful that in my developmental stages in life, society, culture, etc. painted women this way and men as stoic. And, it may be true. But, it is absolutelt not true for me and I was not prepared.

What gets me is the men I've been involved with put on a good societal face. Next thing you know, I'm naked holding a man twice my size as he cries. Even a fling ends in locked arm cuddling. Or, they throw tantrums...crying on the phone...screaming on the phone...

This is my fate. I couldn't escape it.

One thing good about men with "great emotional depth" is they are often very perceptive of others. I've had men with Moon in all.Water signs.... and they almost always had Moon square Venus.

I think it's my tits.

hahahah!!!!!

not laughing at you but just how you describe it...

I definitely just think you like the positive side to it of course....The understanding of the cancer energy

in your 7th house.

You know, men who enjoy spending time with you...cuddling...being home with you...and maybe most

important men who understand empathy and know how to sense what you are feeling and respect that

I had no choice. This is what I always get. I don't know men any other way. When I dated, I waited for it... There was no shallow end of the pool. Everything's so raw and open... even when they try to control themselves.

But, there is good and I'm afraid that I may be in the way of more good... as they have and he does try to adjust to me.

I have often wondered why a watery, water Moon man would want me (cause I never initiated). Sometimes I think it's because there's plenty of room for their emotions to run wild and free without competition or rare need to accomodate another's emotions... I've had to tell my husband, "hey buddy, you're not the only one who feels around here."

But, they write and say the most deeply loving original heartfelt words and their emotional fortitude fires some true passion and heroics.

They just don't understand the 5 foot 3 view. Cause big passionate guys feeling seems intense to me whether positive or negative.

I might have made a choice somewhere as child... somewhere in my swooning over music and poetry...

... and didn't know what that looks like in real life.

true but not having to see the other influences in your chart, you have Capricorn ascendant (like me)

and maybe the influence helps to ground them (the guys) and make them feel comfortable around you

to where they can express themselves (: You heal and help them get those emotions out plus....

And don't hate me but maybe you wouldn't be able to live without this to a certain extent because

your 7th house craves this in a way...it craves for you to have emotions go around and for

people to be real with their emotions with you. Have you thought about being a therapist?
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Ah, so you have Cancer on the 7th house cusp too.

Very perceptive of you. I've contemplated this thing 29 ways from Sunday and you are right. As I have used astrology heavily throughout these relationships.

I feel like a counselor and a friend in my relationships... so different from what men are so popular for wanting in love. I must have friendship in love and friendship has that freedom to be yourself, emotions and all. So, there it goes.

In college, one of my bffs was majored in psychology and thought because of the nature of my art work, we could be sex therapists together, lol.
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gemini in 7th. i want a leo partner who is super humble and sweet (cough). someone who's romantic but also an intellectual. ❤️

what about people who are inquisitive?

Do you like people who make you think?

And do you feel like you need to conversate to keep the relationship alive?

I mean, we all do to a certain extent but I mean, with you, does the life of the

relationship depend on conversation and sharing ideas? This is just me trying

to look through your 7th house Gemini Cusp?

yes i like when people converse with me and share their ideas/ experiences/stories that they had in the past. it really intriguing and cute. when i understand their thoughts/feelings, it feels like we have gotten closer and we understand one another more which is important to me in a relationship

How do you feel when others do not communicate with you in your circle.

Like..if you have a day where no one is calling you or everyone is busy but you?

Would this hurt?

I feel like all of us would be hurt but I feel it hurts way worse if the 7th house is air(?)
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i feel sad and left out, it hurts tbh and communication is important to establish a relationship for 7th house air. but i have sagi rising and get over it quickly, some people leave and some people stay. the ones who stayed are in my close circle of friends
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Taurus 7th house.

Very much so of what the Taurus energy represents minus too much stubbornness and a little more of a fun energy.

so maybe too you like things to go nice and steady maybe? slow at an even pace?

crave doing things that have to do with the senses too/

I do...I don't like to rush anything.

Possibly...I like food so I have that in common with their energy 😂

🙂 yes

I meant to type:



"crave doing things [with them] that have to do with the senses too/"

going out to eat with them...watching something that means something...listening to good music together...

pleasure through the senses with partner *because it creates unforgettable memories too*
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All of what you have said. Taurus 6 and 7. I need stability and groundedness. Hence why I have always loved Virgos and just generally earth energy. I love Taurus moons, venus and mars even when they are stubborn 😂
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Scorpio 7th house cusp.

I'm all in so you gotta be all in.

wow. your moon is there too If I'm correct?

so like a full merge...you in them..them in you in a sense...

nothing that is superficial level. you must connect on a deep deep level.

I would say too that transformation ..your evolution is important through endings too. maybe(?)

I dont do superficial friendships or relationships.

There must be intensity, consistently.

We have to match each others efforts.
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I kind of have an important question to ask too. I hope you can answer.

Have you ever been with someone who gave you that same intensity (in a good way) back?

What did you do when it was too much for you to handle...like you just..was over flowing

with intensity of pleasure and energy..soul to soul merge? The connection was so powerful

that it gave you a power surge in a way and it was hard to handle? What did you do or...

what [would] you do if it never happened or if it was something you could handle?

What if you couldn't handle it but you still loved this person and wanted them to stay in your life?

Any tips?
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My 7th house is in Libra empty

Is peace within your relationship the most important aspect?

how important is communication?

Peace and happiness is very important to me... and when I don’t have it in a relationship it makes me want to leave it
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thank you

libra energy is a very interesting energy. one that I'm still learning and getting a grasp on...

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Posted by greylatern

Scorpio. It fits. Deep connection, perceptive, and intense partners

However south node is in my 7th house almost on the cusp of the 8th. Translation: I have attract and accepted bad traits of the Scorpio archtype. It fits my history. Drama drama drama. F' that noise.

Were is my wise queen?

whoa.. your south node is in your 7th house?



would it teach to avoid bad traits from your 7th house too?

Like maybe now this life is about going more into your 1st house? not sacrificing yourself too much?
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My 7th is in Scorpio.

What does that say about what I’m into?

7th house in Scorpio might be the most I've seen here on the site ~ o_o

(there is plenty of discussion in this thread about this particular placement. it's very interesting)

In general though, I feel those who have this placement, you yearn for relationships to be more authentic

and deep. It's not really about just having a relationship for relationship sake but being with those you truly trust...

Someone who you can merge 100% with and trust on *all* levels:

energetically..

physically...

mentally...

spiritually...

Does this seem right to you?